Soulja Boy, in all his tacky glory, is kind of a cutie patootie. Sure, he looks like he’s 4. Sure, he wears entirely too many different colors at one time. Sure, his “bling” is absolutely out of control. But you know what? I kind of love him. I wouldn’t date him, but maybe you would. So WOULD YOU HOLLER?

The Craziest On-Stage Performances EVER!

No matter what he wears, no matter what he does, I loveeee Lenny Kravitz, and the fact that you know that he bathes, but looks like he doesn’t. Gross, I know, but that’s really part of his appeal.

Anyway, I saw this candid shot of him attending some event in Madrid, and not giving two shits about dressing up for it, and I had to take a moment to swoon.  And that, friends, is how WOULD YOU HOLLER? came to be.

So, for our first candid pic, I ask you:

WOULD YOU HOLLER?

Hotness runs in the family! See how Zoe Kravitz fares in this Celeb Style gallery.

Have a crush on a guy, but haven’t found the right opportunity to tell him? Well, The Frisky has 8 ways to tell if you should keep it to yourself, or let him know your true feelings!

[From TheFrisky]

So, you’re sweating a dude like he’s a spin class. Girl, you know you got it baaaaaaaad! It’s exciting to crush on a dude, but it’s also potentially ego crushing and stupid. When you can’t stop thinking about a man, you have to add some reason to those dirty thoughts or you could get hurt. Love might be blind, however, there are some eye opening clues that can help you decide whether he’s feeling you too! You should tell your crush you like him if (and that’s a big IF)…

1.You’re Willing To Tell Him Face-To-Face: If you don’t feel like you need to hide behind IM, Facebook, email, or text, that you can tell him in person, then it’ll show your love can also for real.

2. You Pair Off: If you’re out with friends, the two of you have a private, flirtatious convo going on, even if it’s just with your eyes.

3.You Can Imagine Having Sex With Him: Do you have an idea of what it would be like? Would he clash with your style? If you can dream it, you can do it!

4. You Communicate Before You’re Drunk: Do you talk? And I don’t mean just by text. If he only tries to find you late night, he’s not crushing on you, he’s circling you like a buzzard with a boner. So either do him or don’t, just keep your feelings out of it.

For 4 more signs, click here.

What if the person you used to hook up with is your long-lost love?

What if your crush is just someone you saw on the train?

[From The Frisky]

If you’re one of those girls who has a host of men in her life, but no one to bring to a wedding, you can’t remember the last time you had sex and it didn’t qualify as a “friends with benefits” situation, and you always end up being some sort of dating coach to the guys you’re really into, it’s time to get yourself out of the Friend Zone and into more datable territory.

1. Quit dating guys who are on the rebound
Guys on the rebound aren’t looking for relationships, they’re looking for flings and fast hook-ups. And you know what happens to flings once the chemistry fizzles? They get the ol’ “I think we should just be friends” talk. So save yourself the time and trauma and skip the rebound guy, no matter how hot he is.

2. Don’t be too available
Guys like challenges and they’re most intrigued by women who have active lives, so keep things interesting by only accepting half his invites to hang out. Tell him you have other plans, but be vague about what they are. At this point, vague is sexy, vague is challenging, vague is something he wants to figure out.

3. If he seems out of your league, don’t waste your time
Not necessarily because he IS out of your league, but because if you think he is, you’ll treat him like someone you don’t deserve, and that’s so not sexy.

What are four more steps to staying out of the dreaded Friend Zone with a guy you like? Click here to find out.

Not sure if you’re “Just a Friend”? Take the Friend Test.

But before you love him, learn to love yourself!

[From The Frisky]

The biggest, baddest, most terrifying part of falling in love is opening up and letting yourself be vulnerable. When it works, love can seem like the stuff of fairytales: you meet someone, you get to know and like each other, you enter into a mutually trusting and respectful relationship, you fall deeply, madly, hopelessly in love, and you live happily ever after.

At least, for a while.

But all too often it works out less well. Trust is shattered. Hearts get broken. Tears are shed. Once a lady’s been put through the emotional wringer a few (dozen) times, she gets a little wary. A little closed off. She can start to mistrust her judgment. Second-guess her gut. Worry she’s going to die alone, leaving behind a feline-gnawed corpse and a stack of tear-stained Netflix romantic comedies.

So, it’s not always easy to know whether to let someone in or if you should just flip the “ditch switch,” instead. On the one hand, you want to be open to the possibilities, but, on the other hand, nobody wants to be a sucker. Once you finally decide to hoist yourself back up and onto that dating pony, here are a couple types to watch out for:

To read about which four guys to you’re better off without, click here!

I don’t know about you, but I’ve always wondered whatever happened to Antonio Sabato, Jr., because he is damn fine.

Well, according to recent photos, he’s still fine. The actor was spotted at a couple nightclubs with Fergie and a few other celebs to ring in the new year, and we’ve missed his absence.

Amen.

If you LOVED these pics, also check out:

• the SEXIEST pics of President-elect BARACK OBAMA here
• the MEN in our Father’s Knows Best gallery here
• the best WILL & JADA pics ever here
• more EYE CANDY pics here