Despite breaking up with him months ago, it sounds like Brandy is a little bitter that Flo Rida has moved on. Or maybe who he’s moved on with. Sources are reporting it’s birthday boy Lance Gross’ ex Eva Marcille.

In Touch Weekly reports:

She’s telling people that she split up with Flo Rida to focus on her own busy life, but Brandy, 31, is actually heartbroken after her man left her for model Eva Marcille. “Brandy just cried,” a friend tells In Touch. Though her rep says, “They were only good friends and not dating,” the friend adds, “She really liked him. She had no idea he would just move on.” Flo Rida has been publicly stepping out with America’s Next Top Model star Eva, 25. The pair dined at Brandy’s favorite Beverly Hills spot, Crustacean, a few days after cuddling backstage at the BET Awards on June 27.

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People.com is clearing the air. Halle Berry didn’t get dumped by Gabriel Aubry, as has been speculated since they announced their split. After all, the actress has always seemed unlucky in love. But, according to a source, their split happened several months ago – and it was the actress who initiated it.

“She kicked him out months ago because he wasn’t able to pull his weight in the relationship and she wanted to move on,” a source close to Berry and Aubry tells PEOPLE.

Aubry released this statement through his agency, Wilhelmina Models:

“While I will not comment on all of the wild inaccuracies being speculated about in the media, I am sad to say that Halle and I have decided together to separate at this time. She is, and will forever be one of the most special and beautiful people that I have ever known, and I am certain that we will continue to have only love and respect for one another. We have been blessed with the most amazing daughter in the world, and her happiness and well-being are the most important thing for both of us. Please respect our privacy during this very difficult time.”

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“RUMOR: Halle Berry Dumped…AGAIN!”

FROM RADAR ONLINE: With two failed marriages behind her, it seemed Halle Berry had finally found her soul mate in Canadian model Gabriel Aubry. The couple even had a child together, adorable daughter Nahla Ariela Aubry, who was born March 16th 2008.

But  it is being reported that Halle and Gabriel have called it quits and worked out a financial and custody deal. They spent months hammering out a deal with a lawyer.

It is being said that Gabriel was the one who pulled the plug on their five year relationship and that the age difference – he’s 34, she’s 43 – played a role.

“Gabriel just felt it wasn’t working anymore,” the source says. “When they were first together the 9-year age difference between them didn’t phase him, she was the most beautiful woman he had ever dated and he was totally in love. But as time went on he started feeling it more and more. Also, Gabriel started noticing other women, and being attracted to other, and he felt it just wasn’t right to stay with Halle in those circumstances.

“Gabriel is a really nice, decent guy and he would never cheat on her, but I suspect that he had become attracted to someone and that he felt he needed to break it off with Halle before anything developed any further.”

Halle’s first marriage to David Justice, a former baseball player, ended acrimoniously after 5 years amid accusations from Berry of domestic abuse.

Halle’s second marriage to Eric Benet ended after four years when Halle discovered Eric had cheated on her. Benet went into treatment for sex addiction but Halle filed for divorce.

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Breakups are rough. No matter how much your friends talk, your mother comforts, or co-workers attempt to distract you, getting over him is always far easier said than done. For women especially, the daily, sometimes hourly, change of emotions can be an overwhelming burden to deal with. Missing him, but not missing the bull that led to the relationship’s demise, can put you in a state of confusion for far too long.

Stop stressing and obsessing, here are eight things you can do so your breakup won’t lead to a breakdown. In this order:

1. Stop telling the story

You’ve told all your girlfriends, your mom and your hairstylist what happened with the two of you. Is there really a need to tell your mailman, manicurist, and all of Facebook? The more you have to go through the sad or shocking details of the breakup, the longer it takes to begin the healing process. Tell those that you trust will give sound advice and stop it there.

2. Turn off the radio

Ne-Yo said it best: “Said I’m so sick of love songs so sad and slow/So why can’t I turn off the radio?” Music is powerful; when going through hardships it can be used to heal or prolong the hurt. Rest assured, there will be way to many songs that remind you of him. Don’t torture yourself with Usher’s, ‘Daddy Home,’ knowing your man hasn’t been home for a while and isn’t coming back.

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3. Start on a project

This can be as simple as rearranging your closet or a more involved task such as renovating your home. The ending of relationship frees up time, time that if you’re smart you will invest in yourself. So take that French class, build your stock portfolio or buy that dog you wanted. Yes, these are all fabricated distractions, but distractions that don’t involve a rebound are always more beneficial than detrimental. Projects are better than sulking on your couch… which leads to the next point.

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FROM TMZ: Supermodel Beverly Johnson brought a gunman to force a boyfriend to breakup with her, according to a lawsuit filed by the ex.

In documents filed in Riverside County, CA — Mark Anthony Burk claims Beverly showed up at his home with an armed Chuck Zito, and a separation agreement.

Burk alleges Zito was flashing a gun during the January, 2008 incident — while Beverly yelled at Burk to sign an agreement that would have paid him $2,000 to get out of her house, according to the papers.

Legendary “Godfather” producer Robert Evans is also being sued. As for why, Burk’s lawyer tells TMZ he’s alleging Evans — who was once romantically involved with Johnson — was involved in the scheme.

In the docs, Burk claims he escaped and hid at a neighbor’s home until Beverly & co. left.

Burk also claims in the papers that Walter Morgan took personal belongings from Burk’s home — including his mother’s ashes.

Burk is suing for emotional distress and unspecified damages.

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Yesterday, Monica was the in-studio guest on V-103’s Ryan Cameron Show. She spoke about her relationship status with her children’s father and ex-fiance, Rocko, whether or not there’s a chance for their reconciliation, and what it’s like being on the dating scene.

Her response begins at the 1:00 mark.

Who does that? I’ve never been in Hollywood and I’ve given you 15 years of realness so why would you ask me a silly question like that. [sarcasm] yea i found the chick that called Media Take Out or something? It sounds like silliness  to me but I will say this; I am definitely not the type to play with my kids. My family comes first. I will leave music before I allow them to be effected by something so stuff like that is kinda irritating. So I will answer your question “Absolutely Not”.

The great part is that I found ways to find positive in all of the negative. And with the situation that just took place, Rocko and I will are gonna be best of friends forever. I respect people that acknowledge that their kids come first.  Whatever takes place between us is secondary in my opinion. Our kids didn’t ask for this so I’m not allowing them to suffer in any form or fashion. I don’t even allow my own emotions to make me do silly things as far as retailiating or responding. iIt’s not in my nature anymore. 10 years ago it maybe would have been different.

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UPDATE: Monica Confirms Separation From Fiance

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Word on the street is that Reggie Bush and Kim K are DUNZO!!! Kim’s love of media attention may have been the cause of this latest breakup.

Sources tell BOSSIP exclusively that the two have split up.

Here’s what they found out:

Last week Reggie confirmed the breakup with friends, saying that while he really cares about Kim, all the negative media attention he got following the Super Bowl thanks to her pushiness sent him over the edge. His Super Bowl win was such an important time in his life, but Kim made it all about her. Our source says they’re not sure if Reggie will try to work it out but they are definitely not together right now.

Meanwhile, another source close to both the NFL player and Attention Whoring Kardashians wouldn’t confirm whether the breakup was a result of a Superbowl fallout, but tells BOSSIP that this time the breakup is permanent.

Just when we were rooting for these two make it work!!!

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Kim Sets The Record Straight: “I’m Not Engaged”

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Though her sister Keyshia Cole is now happily engaged and a brand new mother, Neffe is not experiencing the same good fortune. Just six months after the birth of she and Soullow’s daughter, the two have split – according to her Twitter post.

Maybe it’s time she change her background?

Do you think it’s best Neffe and Soullow work it out or that she move on?

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It has officially been reported that Que has been kicked out of Day26 (of MTV’s “Making The Band” fame). We’ve seen the show before and know that as a group member, Que can be quite dramatic and a bit of a troublemaker. He constantly butted heads with the rest of men, and we guess they’ve reached their breaking point. Here’s what he recently posted on his Twitter:

One of the remaining members, Willie, held an interview with radio station 107.5 WGCI and explained the situation, likening Que’s presence in the band to a spreading cancer and claiming that the group almost lost deals over Que’s lack of commitment to scheduling and communicating with the rest of him. Willie says he didn’t even have Que’s phone number!

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Hear Que react to the Day26 rumors, and point the blame at the groups manager, Screwface”

However, when we interviewed them back in August, they swore the on-air drama was because of camera tricks, saying “They chop and paste things up to make it seem a certain way where stories seem to change and once they find a storyline, they stick to it and they never went back from it. READ IT here!

So, who do YOU believe? Que or Willie?

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One brave male blogger discloses the secret message behind that dreaded phrase, “I want a break.” (From Shine)

If you love someone, you enjoy being around them and you would never think of being apart. If you need a “break” to “figure out” your feelings, chances are your feelings are not that strong. There’s a difference between “breaking up,” and “a break.” “A break” indicates the relationship is off temporarily with the possibility of getting back together. “Breaking up” is a definite ending with no indication that you will ever get back together again. Therefore, a “break” is more unfair than “breaking up” because it’s less clear.

Here are a few possibilities of what it really means:

INCREMENTAL BREAK-UP
Some guys are too chicken to break up in one shot. So, they do it in pieces. He might want you to take the hint when he doesn’t call and disappears during a break. Even if you get through it and date again, he may have attained his goal by planting a seed – hinting at a real breakup down the line.

THERE’S SOMEONE ELSE
The easiest way for a guy to keep his girlfriend, while giving in to that meaningless temptation of being with another, is to get it out of his system while on a break. And if he doesn’t have someone else specific in mind, he may just want the freedom to hook up with other people, in general.

READ 2 MORE POSSIBLE REASONS HERE.

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If you’re living life to the fullest, you’re going to experience heartbreak. Sometimes you’re leaving, sometimes you’re left, and no matter how it happened, the loss of your relationship can bring on intense heartache. But no matter who did the leaving, if you’re looking for some help getting through it and want some suggestions about how to make it a little easier, read on…

1)  The first thing you should know is that it’s okay to cry.

2) When you’re feeling constructive, examine what had happened, and ask yourself why. Consider that this situation is probably not entirely your fault – or maybe it’s not your fault at all. Thinking about the reasons why it ended can make it much clearer to you that it takes two people to start a relationship, but just one discordant person is enough to end it. It may also help you avoid many missteps in the future if you can identify areas where you contributed to the demise of the relationship.

3) Don’t rethink your decision. If the breakup was your decision, keep in mind that only thinking about all the good times you had with your partner may cause you to forget the reasons why you broke it off. By the same token, try not to second-guess the situation if the decision to end things was not yours. It’s very common to romanticize the good parts of the relationship, convincing yourself that maybe the bad parts weren’t so bad after all, that maybe you could just live with them. Or that maybe if your ex would know just how you feel, he/she wouldn’t want to break up after all. Don’t play this game with yourself. Accept the situation and work on moving forward.

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4) Keep your space. Even if you and your ex have decided to stay friends, break away completely from each other right after the breakup. This seriously means not seeing each other, not being around his/her family members, no phone calls, no e-mails, no text messages and no IMs – not necessarily as a permanent measure, but until you feel that you can converse with him/her on a purely platonic level, without an ulterior motive (and yes, wanting to get back together counts as an ulterior motive). If he/she tries to convince you to see him/her, ask yourself honestly what the point would be. If you’re reliving the past by seeing him/her, it’s not hard to get caught up in the moment and it will be harder to let go again. The longer you put off the end, the harder it is to stick to it and maintain your resolve, and the longer it will take to really get over it. Your pain will hold on as long as you do. Practice letting go. Let go. Let go. And now… let go. You may have to have some contact in order to deal with the practical aspects of things like moving out, signing papers, etc., but try to limit this to what’s absolutely necessary, and then keep such calls/meetings short and civil.

5) Accept your pain. Have good long cries. It’s okay to be hurt and sad, and it’s okay to be alone. It’s okay to feel like you have messed up – accepting responsibility for your mistakes or shortcomings is healthy. On the other hand, you must also accept that you are a good person, and that you did your best and you’re not the only one who made mistakes. Of course, a stage of denial is completely natural, but acceptance is the key to being able to start moving on.

6) Deal with the ‘hate phase’. This is when you want to just scream because your rage feels boundless. The amount of anger you feel depends on how antagonistic the split was, the circumstances (was there infidelity? That makes it worse), and how long it took to make the final break. You may resent your ex for wasting your time. You may realize that the breakup was inevitable (hindsight will reveal clues you failed to notice at the time). You may even feel a lot of anger towards yourself, but let go of that feeling fast! It’s a waste of time and energy to rip yourself apart over something you no longer have the power to change. There are so many positive things you can do with your emotions and energy.

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7) Talk to your friends. You want people around you who love you and who will help you feel good about yourself. Surrounding yourself with compassionate, supportive friends and family will help you see yourself as a worthwhile person, and you’ll find it easier to get steady on your feet again with your loved ones around you in a comforting net. But be wary of friends trying to connect you with another person right now, this is not what you need.

8) Think positively. Now that you are single, you have another opportunity to find someone else to be with, someone new and different. You won’t feel bad forever. Change your thinking; that will help change your behavior. Soon enough you’ll be feeling released and free, and ready to take on new challenges. Make sure that in every endeavor you remember to be true to yourself.

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Word on the street is that Kanye West and girlfriend Amber Rose are on the outs AGAIN!!

mediatakeout.com is reporting that one of Kanye’s buddies spilled the beans.  Here’s what they’re saying:

What happened, you ask?? Well according to one of Kanye’s buddies, Ye is “focusing 100% of his time towards music . . . and he doesn’t need any distractions.”

Didn’t Amber just come to Kanye’s defense when she announced that Kanye was alive and well?

Take a look at the couple below:

Kanye And Amber

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Wasn’t it just yesterday that we saw the pics of Toya and her man James celebrating her birthday??? Well I’m hearing that the two are no longer an item. And the break up may be over this little pink plastic gun that Toya recently posted on her Twitter page.

According to sandrarose.com, word out of Toya’s camp today is that James is no longer “Toya’s man” — although the two remain good friends. This info comes from a very credible source.

Not to be left out, James chimed in on his Twitter page yesterday after apparently receiving flack from the NBA’s front office about the gun. I think a clause against purchasing or dealing in firearms is written into his contract:

Here’s what James tweeted:

Take a look at the pics from Toya’s birthday party:

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Weezy’s baby mama’s celebrate birthdays together

After telling his fans the reason he broke down on stage crying was because he lost his voice, we’re hearing that the real reason was his long-time girl broke up with him.

Ne-Yo was seen partying the night away at a midtown nightclub. Sources say Ne-Yo drowned his sorrows in the arms of a variety of women. But at the end of the night, he left the club alone.

Ne-Yo has a meltdown on stage

Check out the singer partying the night away:

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UPDATE: Kim Kardashian says told bossip.com, the breakup had nothing to do with Reggie cheating on her:

“Not being able to be together caused the breakup, not cheating. He has his football and I have more seasons of my show to develop. He wasn’t cheating with Vanessa Manillo.”

Kim Kardashian and her boyfriend of two years, Reggie Bush, are officially over according to PEOPLE.

The couple recently returned from a charity trip to Africa with Kim’s sister Khloe, and were talking marriage, but the relationship suffered from the time they spent apart.

“They never get to see each other, ever,” the source says. “It’s been a long time coming. They still love each other and are part of their lives, but Reggie spends six months out of the year in New Orleans, so it’s tough.”

“They were the cutest couple,” another source tells PEOPLE. “They loved each other so much but they hardly saw each other. He starts his football training camp this week and she starts filming Keeping up with the Kardashians this week. They just need a break right now.”

There are rumors flying around on the gossip sites that Reggie may have been cheating on Kim.

Ladies, Reggie is back on the market!!!!

Check out the couple in Las Vegas gettin’ their swirl on…

So it looks like everyone was right about this rumor! People.com reports that Brad and Angie’s people are saying that the couple has not split up. Remember, they have been allegedly “fighting” a lot recently so maybe there might be more turmoil to come…

Click here to read the full story!

RUMOR: Angelina Jolie & Brad Pitt Offically Split!

I thought this was highly unlikely when I found this story on the net but it looks like the couple actually may be headed for a permanent break up says showbizspy.com:

Brad has told pals that he “can’t take Angie’s volatile temper anymore” and recently met up with ex-wife Jennifer Aniston to seek advice.

Then get this, Angelina wants sole custody of the six (yes, six) kids and wants to pay Brad off with $90 million. If this is true then it looks like things are going to get really ugly…

Angelina thinks Brad is a brilliant father. But I think he is insulted and above all hurt that despite all he and Angelina have shared together and the children they’ve had, it’s coming down to money.

Read the rest of the article here.

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The very pregnant Kimora Lee Simmons has dropped a bomb on Djimon Hounsou. “You are not the father,” Kimora has revealed to her man. Djimon has not made a statement about Kimora’s secret but we’re sure he’s devestated after the couple’s commitment ceremony in Benin, Africa.

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A little too Maury Povich anyone? Will the couple make it? Tell us what you think!

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[From NY Post]

NO one – not Oprah, not anyone – can figure out why Rihanna decided to get back together with an allegedly abusive Chris Brown, and last week viewers of “The Bachelor” were puzzled when heartbroken Molly Malaney, who was dumped in the finale by wishy-washy Jason Mesnick, said she’d give the relationship another shot.

While not every do-over seems as bleak – Jennifer Aniston shined at the Oscars with her back-on boyfriend John Mayer, and former exes Kate Hudson and Owen Wilson looked oh-so-happy bicycling in France – the rash of Hollywood reconciliations has left fans wondering why in the name of love anyone (much less a star) would take back an unworthy ex.

They do it for the same reasons the rest of us do, experts say: They just want everything to work out.

“Rare is the ending when both people want out with the same feeling of finality and clarity that it’s over,” says marriage and family therapist Jane Greer, Redbook’s relationship columnist. “One person wants to end it, while the other person wants to keep trying.”

Often that other person will beg forgiveness, promise to change, or swear he or she can’t survive alone.

“By the time that person is finished with the court of appeals, the other feels like they are the bad one if they don’t give her or him a chance,” says Greer.

Sometimes people stay together just because being a couple is what’s familiar – even if it’s detrimental.

“It’s like putting on old shoes,” says psychotherapist Debra Burrell. “You know you’re comfortable with them, but do you want them?”

There are times, however, when getting back together works out…

Click here to read the rest of the article. Do YOU think that the Chris/Rihanna reunion will be one of those “times…when getting back together works out”???

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There’s tons of rumors spreading around the net trying to figure out why Chris and Rihanna had so many problems. Could all the talk of Chris cheating on her have fueled their fights? Check out all the media coverage pointing to their relationship getting a little rocky…

Chris Brown was spotted at his official afterparty at Club VIP in Paris on January 30, 2009 with a bootleg Rihanna cocktail waitress. See the pics below…

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See pics of Rihanna just DAYS BEFORE she was hospitalized. She doesn’t look too happy in some of the shos…

Read the story on Rihanna told groupies to “stay away from Chris.”

Find out about the rumors that the couple split up before their violent fight.

Looks like one of our favorite couples may have gone their separate ways. Mediatakeout.com is reporting that Chris Brown and Rihanna may have split up.

The word on the street is that Rihanna and Chris have decided to take a break, and there’s evidence that this may be true. Over the weekend, Chris partied it up in Europe (even though his last concert was Thursday night). Where was Rihanna, you ask?  In Orlando enjoying the Superbowl festivities.

And here’s another reason why they may have actually split. According to one of MediaTakeOut.com’s insiders, things have been testy for the couple for a few months. The insider explains, “Chris accompanied Rihanna on her tour for months and Rihanna did the same for Chris. And while Rihanna was very well compensated for her performing, Chris [wasn't].”

Let’s hope this is just a rumor, we kinda like these two together.  Here’s some pics of the couple in happier times.

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Another one bites the dust: It looks like Janet Jackson and Jermaine Dupri have finally decided to call it quits.

According to Starpulse,

The National Enquirer claims Jackson and Dupri began battling over the failure of her recent tour, which he managed, and which ended with a string of canceled concerts because of illness and reports of poor ticket sales.

And sources tell the tabloid the 36-year-old has moved out of the superstar’s Los Angeles home, and they have agreed to spend time apart. The insider says, “Janet and Jermaine finally hit a wall. They were fighting over his management of her career. In the end, she decided to make a break.”

Representatives for the two have yet to comment on the reports.

Do you believe these rumors? They were just talking recently about getting married and starting a family! Perhaps Jermaine, who was her manager before her boyfriend, decided to put business before pleasure…

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