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		<title>Tila Tequila Claims The Game Is Her &#8220;Baby Daddy&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 16:45:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, Tila Tequila has spent the last 6 hours blowing up The Game&#8217;s Twitter page and informing the world that he may (or may not)&#8230;<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hellobeautiful.com&#038;blog=32316310&#038;post=775372&#038;subd=ionehellobeautiful&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>So, Tila Tequila has spent the last 6 hours blowing up The Game&#8217;s Twitter page and informing the world that he may (or may not) be her baby&#8217;s daddy &#8211; she hasn&#8217;t decided yet. Because she&#8217;s crazy.</p>
<p><strong>READ FROM THE BOTTOM UP.</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align: left"><a href="http://hellobeautiful.com/your-world/hello-beautiful-staff/wtf-now-tila-tequilas-pregnant/" target="_self"><em><strong>WTF? Now, Tila Tequila&#8217;s Pregnant?</strong></em></a></p>
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		<title>UPDATE: Pregnant Nivea To Marry Lil Wayne!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 17:03:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Not only is Nivea pregnant by Lil Wayne (who also has Lauren London preggers at the moment) but they plan to get married as well!&#8230;<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hellobeautiful.com&#038;blog=32316310&#038;post=284321&#038;subd=ionehellobeautiful&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Not only is Nivea pregnant by Lil Wayne (who also has Lauren London preggers at the moment) but they plan to get married as well! Check out the video for the confession:</p>
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<p><strong>RUMOR: Nivea Pregnant By Lil Wayne</strong></p>
<p>Word has it that Nivea&#8217;s got a bun in the oven and guess who is rumored to be the baby daddy? None other than Lil&#8217; Wayne himself. Remember now, Weezy&#8217;s got another child on the way with Lauren London. I think the Cash Money Millionaire has out done himself this time. Thanks <a href="http://www.freddyo.com/" target="_blank">FreddyO</a> for the info!</p>
<p><em><strong>Check out famous rappers with famous baby mamas:</strong></em><br />
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<p><a href="http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/dear-kareem-should-i-marry-my-baby-daddy/" target="_self"><em><strong>Should you marry your baby daddy? Get an opinion here!</strong></em></a></p>
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		<title>DEAR KAREEM: I&#039;m In Love With My Best Friend!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 20:12:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Kareem, I have really fallen in love with my best friend. We have been friends for almost six years now, and I really don&#8217;t&#8230;<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hellobeautiful.com&#038;blog=32316310&#038;post=273171&#038;subd=ionehellobeautiful&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><em>I have really fallen in love with my best friend. We have been friends for almost six years now, and I really don&#8217;t know how to let him know how I feel about him. We do everything together, and I want to see where we can go. We have been sexually active for the last three years and had a baby together, but never really committed to each other. He tells me that he loves me and doesn&#8217;t want to lose me, but there are times when I feel that he is just lying to me. We have had our share of fights because I&#8217;m younger than him, and other females tell him that he doesn&#8217;t need me and that he needs to get someone his own age. He is very jealous, and at the same time he tells me that I need to find someone that will satisfy my sexual needs.  I really don&#8217;t know how to tell him that I want him and not everybody else that tries to talk to me. What should i do? I really need some advice.</em></p>
<p>Kareem says:</p>
<p>Sweetie,  I am confused. Let me see if I can break this down. You two have been best friends for six years, been screwing for three, and have a kid together?  That does not sound like a friendship.  That sounds like your sugardaddy/steady booty call knocked you up unexpectedly.  He clearly does not want to be with you outside of a recreational Friday night &#8220;squeeze off.&#8221;  As a grown man, he knows what he wants &#8211; and it doesn&#8217;t seem to be a significant relationship with you.  If he is encouraging you to find someone your own age that  satisfies your &#8220;needs&#8221;, you need to.  Learn to love yourself.</p>
<p><strong>Got a question for Kareem? Hit him up at Kareem.JenkinsNYC@gmail.com</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/ask-kareem-do-i-tell-my-friend-her-boyfriends-gay/" target="_blank"><strong><em>DEAR KAREEM: How Do I Tell My Friend Her Boyfriend&#8217;s Gay?</em></strong></a></p>
<p><a href="http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/dear-kareem-my-man-is-boring-help/" target="_blank"><strong><em>DEAR KAREEM: My Man is Boring! Help!</em></strong></a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Before I became a husband and a father of two, I was the boyfriend of a mother of one. Within five minutes of first meeting&#8230;<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hellobeautiful.com&#038;blog=32316310&#038;post=175731&#038;subd=ionehellobeautiful&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-175741" title="mother and daughter" src="http://ionehellobeautiful.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/mother-and-daughter1.jpg?w=300&amp;h=199&h=199" alt="" width="300" height="199" /><span id="more-175731"></span>Before I became a husband and a father of two, I was the boyfriend of a mother of one.</p>
<p>Within five minutes of first meeting my wife she told me she dropped out of college five years earlier at nineteen to have her child. In that same five minutes she went on to tell me she was on the Dean&#8217;s List at Fordham University where she was finishing her degree at night. After a few dates, I learned she made a solid seventeen thousand dollars more per year than I did. And although her parents were divorced, she spent her formative years growing up under the same roof with both her parents. Nothing was wrong with her. I didn&#8217;t get it. Why did she have a kid?</p>
<p>Back then I made it a policy to steer clear of women with children who weren&#8217;t divorcees. I was filled with prejudices and judgments I made based on the horror stories I heard up until that point. Women with children got drama. What are they smoking that would make them go through with having a child without a man? Why would they put themselves through that? Or even better, why would they put a child through that?</p>
<p>Clearly, I didn&#8217;t have a clue.</p>
<p>Even though I&#8217;ve always had my mother&#8217;s love, back then I had no idea what it meant for a mother to love her child, or to create and carry a life inside her. I still don&#8217;t, but now as a witness who has a front-row seat, I can say I&#8217;m awed by it.</p>
<p>As my relationship grew from casual to serious, I had a decision to make: either stick to my misguided guns or take a chance and go down a path where I&#8217;d never been before.</p>
<p>For superficial reasons, I opted for the latter. My wife was too fine for me to let her simply walk away on a &#8220;technicality.&#8221; But with my decision came a mountain of challenges and tasks to overcome&#8230;</p>
<p><strong><em>So what were Eric&#8217;s obstacles? Go to <a href="http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/03/04/dating-loving-a-baby-mama/" target="_blank">BlackAndMarriedWithKids.com</a> to find out. </em></strong></p>
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		<title>DEAR KAREEM: Should I Marry My Baby Daddy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 22:07:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Kareem, I&#8217;ve been dating my baby daddy for 5 years on and off. We are talking about getting married soon, but I keep finding&#8230;<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hellobeautiful.com&#038;blog=32316310&#038;post=163201&#038;subd=ionehellobeautiful&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><em>Dear Kareem,</em></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been dating my baby daddy for 5 years on and off. We are talking about getting married soon, but I keep finding and hearing things about him cheating on me. He says I&#8217;m the only one, but there&#8217;s something deep down in my heart telling me there&#8217;s someone else. I love him to death but I don&#8217;t know what to do CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME!!</p>
<p>Kareem Says:</p>
<p>I have always felt like you should follow your gut instinct. When you feel that something is not right about a situation, it usually is the case. I have gone against my better judgment several times in my life and regretted it each time.</p>
<p>You have been with him for 5 years and have a child together. You need to ask yourself: do the pros outweigh the cons? Is having him in your life really worth it? Take &#8220;love&#8221; out the equation and really make out a list of how this man benefits you, your child, and your future. Since you have no proof that he is cheating on you, all you can do is speculate and worry. If you really want to find out, hire a private eye to follow him for a month. Then make your decision.</p>
<p><strong><em>Got a question for Kareem? Email him at Kareem.JenkinsNYC@gmail.com</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Should you forgive a cheater? <a href="http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/dear-kareem-should-i-forgive-my-cheating-bf/" target="_blank">Kareem answers</a>!</em></strong></p>
<p><a href="http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/dear-kareem-do-i-live-with-my-ex-for-the-sake-of-our-child/" target="_blank"><strong><em>Should you live with your ex for the sake of your child?</em></strong></a></p>
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		<title>DEAR KAREEM: I Can&#8217;t Stop Sleeping With My Now-Married Ex!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 22:41:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey Kareem, My babydaddy is married, but me and him still mess around. He thinks I don&#8217;t know that he is married. He never wears&#8230;<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hellobeautiful.com&#038;blog=32316310&#038;post=129311&#038;subd=ionehellobeautiful&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><em>Hey Kareem,</em></p>
<p><em>My babydaddy is married, but me and him still mess around. He thinks I don&#8217;t know that he is married. He never wears his ring around me, and one day he slipped up and had it on when I came to his job. I looked at his hand a second time, and it was off. He always tells me he still has feelings for me, and even though I try to shake him, I can&#8217;t. What should I do?</em><br />
Kareem Says,</p>
<p>Sweetie, I think you need to stop sleeping with a married man.  He clearly chose to be with someone else besides you.  He may still have feelings for you, or feelings for your vagina, but eventually this is going to blow up and end badly &#8211; with either you, his wife, or your child being hurt by his infidelity.  I think you need to call him out on his marriage.  You are playing the dummy role by not acknowledging what is clearly in your face.  Which is:  HE IS MARRIED AND STILL LIKES TO KEEP YOU AS THE SIDE PIECE. YOU ARE EASY AND CONVENIENT.</p>
<p><strong><em>Got a question for Kareem? Email him at Kareem.JenkinsNYC@gmail.com</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Being the other woman sucks. See how Kareem solves another mistress&#8217; problem <a href="http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/ask-kareem-am-i-the-other-woman/" target="_blank">here</a>. </em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Should you live with your ex if he&#8217;s the father of your child? Get Kareem&#8217;s opinion <a href="http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/dear-kareem-do-i-live-with-my-ex-for-the-sake-of-our-child/" target="_blank">here</a>. </em></strong></p>
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