Nothing compares to a massage when it’s done properly, so learning a few tricks is a sure-fire way to get you in your boyfriend’s good graces.

As for what to do in order to give an effective (and sensual) massage, sheknows.com shows you how: 

SET THE MOOD
Setting the mood helps you get intimate and the same can be said of massages. “The basics for a good professional massage include dimming the lights, relaxing music, essential oils for aromatherapy, a heated table and a soothing vocal tone (from who’s doing the massage),” says Aubrey Rogers, owner of the City Magnolia Day Spa in Frederick, MD.

USE RELAXING STROKES
When you’re giving someone a therapeutic massage, be sure to use slow, relaxing strokes. “It’s important to maintain contact when giving a massage. A break in contact equals a break in relaxation,” explains Rogers. “All massage movements should move in the direction of the heart, increasing the circulation of the blood.”

How to get that spa glow at home.

DON’T FORGET THE OIL
For a good basic massage oil is a must! Vance suggests to use massage oil — not body lotion when giving a massage to your partner. Massage oil is designed to stay on the skin longer and provide a better glide along the body, says Robert Vance, spa director at the Sanctuary On Camelback Mountain Resort & Spa in Paradise Valley, AZ.. Consider grape seed or jojoba oil. You’ll find these at Whole Foods or any organic market.

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4 easy ways to appreciate your man.

We all have those days when we just want to get away from it all. The job is going nowhere, your love life is non-existent and you just missed out on that sample sale you waited for all season. With the economy spiraling out of control, a quick weekend jaunt is definitely not happening.

Great Moods has come out with an aromatherapy line for the bath, body and home that can take you away without you ever leaving home. With fragrances like Escape, Stimulate, Calm, and Energy, there’s something for every mood. Yours truly “escaped” last night with their liquid loofah scrub (walking around the city in this ridiculous summer heat calls for it). The smell is amazing (a combination of violet and cedarwood) and the texture was not rough on the skin — some scrubs can be a little harsh. After my brief getaway in the shower, I opened the votive candle box set (the packaging is gorgeous ladies), which consists of six frosted glass votives. You can light them all at once or place in separate rooms. Personally, I like to place my candles in separate rooms, this way the aroma follows me throughout my apartment.

I was so impressed with this product, I decide to share it with my co-worker. I gave her the “Stimulate” bath soak to try out and she has not stopped talking about how fabulous it is.

I highly recommend getting this product. From their hand lotion and loofah soaps to their room sprays and hand soaps, there is something for everyone. So ladies the next time you need a quick getaway or an attitude adjustment, grab yourself some Great Moods and put yourself in a better one.