Relationships need maintenance to keep them in perfect condition. However, there are some things which are irreparable. From a guy's POV, here are the top 5.

Dear Gay Best Friend, My situation is this. I’m in love with my co-worker and have been for the past year. I am a very jealous person and don’t know how to control it. When he and I first met, it was at our job. It was an immediate attraction from day one, and everyday […]

I am 20 years old. My husband is 29 years old. I want to start by saying I love him very much. My question to you is: He has this friend, LOL, I sound horrible already! I am very, very attracted to this friend. This friend is very attracted to me as well. He comes […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, I have been dating my boyfriend for two years now. When we first met he was dressed really nice and looked really good, almost pretty. As we talked more and got to know each other he told me that he had a lot of friends that were girls. I told him […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, Help! I’ve been with my husband for 6 years, and we’ve been married for 2 years. We have 2 beautiful boys, but lately all I’ve been wanting to do is leave him. He wants to go out 6 to 7 days a week and come in at 5 in the morning. […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, My man and I have a wonderful relationship. We both have fantastic jobs. He is great with my and his own children (from previous marriages), and he takes good care of me and our household with no problem. We attend church, many social functions, go out on date nights, travel, and get along great. A woman could not […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, In August of 2011, I went to a club with my girlfriends and as the night progressed my eyes locked eyes with this guy across the dance floor. We spoke and exchanged numbers and I also noticed he had a thick accent. So, I asked how long he was in Jamaica […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, I’ve read one of your comments on, “My Husband Baby Mother Is Getting On My Nerves.” Loved, loved, loved your insight and honesty, therefore I have a question. My husband’s family, particularly a female cousin, is bothering me. It seems like she wants her cousin in some kind of incest, or something. […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, I am writing you this letter because I respect your honesty. I got involved with a guy in November of last year, seven months after leaving my physically abusive ex of twelve years. He invited me over, and we spent time together several times without having any sexual contact. Two months […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, I read your responses to the various letters weekly and love the advice you give, but now I have a question for you. I am in a situation where the love of my life is not of my religious faith but has no problems with my choice in religion. However, my […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, I am a 26-year old female who is about to give birth to my very first child. Although my child is a blessing the circumstances in which she will be born are a nightmare for me. I planned a child with a man who is now nowhere to be found after […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, Please help!  I’ve been going with my “fiancé” for nearly four years.  His ex divorced him five years ago (we met a year after his divorce), after they were married for 15 years. He has a now-17-year-old son with her. There were a lot of issues in his marriage and admits he was […]