Comments on: I’m Not Here to Save You

By: bobbiperk

bobbiperk — Sun, 24 May 2009 15:37:34 +0000

MochaSoul09_ Honey that is just hitting your 40′s. It’s aboutknowing who you are , what you want and need in order to be happy in life. Some folks aren’t cut out for marriage. Some live with the same person for years w/out marriage; while others just date. Stop hanging with so many couples (or women on the hunt), and lose the “i don’t need a man to do ….”speech. You’re defending something you don’t need to do.

Just be you!

By: drinkinpartnazcru581

drinkinpartnazcru581 — Tue, 19 May 2009 13:21:53 +0000

If you are a full fledged member of the Man’s Mind Club then by your own addmission I must be let into the Women World Wide Network club (I am only a club member in the Rochester, NY)I look forward to battle with you mainly because I wanna see what you are working with mentally. Let the games begin!!!!

By: TiredMan

TiredMan — Tue, 19 May 2009 11:52:36 +0000

Ever listen to a group of women b*tch & moan about their past dates? It’s always, “He was too ‘this,’ or not enough of ‘that,’ or I didn’t like his…..” It’s MY observation that any woman who says she wants “honesty” is the biggest liar of all…especially to herself. Women don’t want “honesty;” they want what THEY want. Honesty includes accepting someone for who he/she is, that includes any perceived faults (or don’t women have any themselves?).

By: MochaSoul09

MochaSoul09 — Tue, 19 May 2009 11:47:06 +0000

I myself could not agree more with…Says The Single Girl. I use to honestly think there was something wrong with me because a few of my associates were married or getting married or just getting REAL serious in their relationships while I was enjoying dating different men. Why? Because I, too like variety and I am in a stage in my life where there’s nothing a man can do for me that I can’t do for myself. Hell, these days, a sista can’t even count on a man for good sex!! I’m not ready to compromise who I am for a man and a lot of whom Ive met are always trying to challenge my independence. I am who I am and loving it. I don’t try to change them, so why try to do the same with me? Meeting different men is very intriguing to me and the several times I have been almost engaged to get married, I feel myself literally getting medically sick and longing for companionship from another brotha. Someone comment and let me know what you think..am I in need of a psychological evaluation or is this the norm for women in my age category these days? Im 42 and where I live in the South, women are looking to be paired up with their significnat others like Noah’s animals on the Ark!!

By: IamDyeverse

IamDyeverse — Tue, 19 May 2009 10:45:06 +0000

DAYUM SINGLE GIRL……..where you been all my life..

I need a chick like you on my team…we think alike…

I can be BRUTALLY HONEST with you bout s**t and not have to worry bout EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTERS and judgemental remarks about my personal life, simply because you are probably doing the SAME THING…if not BETTER THAN ME…

and that s**t turns me the f**k on….get at me on my BP PAGE…IamDyeverse….and we’ll resume this convo later…be sure to read my ENTIRE BP PAGE to give yourself a lil insight on me…
GOOD POST!! MAD LOVE and RESPECT!

By: nothinsbetter

nothinsbetter — Tue, 19 May 2009 04:11:38 +0000

Hell i say “life is too short for bullst,and games” be for real about who you are and what you want..no one can make you or break you… Ya feel me?

By: DarkSkinnedGoddess

DarkSkinnedGoddess — Mon, 18 May 2009 23:41:40 +0000

Well Welcome, I was just about tired of the” kumbaya how to keep your man” bull-s–t,and i am a raw speaker,truth teller myself so i’m sure we’ll be fine

Welcome again.

By: MagicallyTasty

MagicallyTasty — Mon, 18 May 2009 16:27:27 +0000

I am single because i like 2 date and have fun imnot ready to give 1 man all my attention.. Im too young for that ..but i even think when im older i’ll still feel the same way .. I dont care to much about marriage.. If i end up a baby momma thats just fine by me i dont need the title of wife 2 be a good mother .

By: Kountry_Mayne

Kountry_Mayne — Mon, 18 May 2009 16:04:33 +0000

“I know why I‘m single. I‘m single because I‘m not ready to do the things that make it easy for a man to be in my life. I‘m a little dramatic, not quite ready to play house, and like variety. It took me a long time to discover that answer. I implore you to do that same.” ………… At least one woman has the balls and the smarts to admit to that and figure that out.