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“I Call Her My Fianceé Because She’s More Than My Girlfriend”

Written by Single Girl on July 13, 2009 11:30 am

Last night I had dinner with 11 men. I was one of three women and we all peed our pants from the stuff that was coming out of their mouths.

The conversation really picked up when we started talking about how to end a relationship .

“Send a text,” said one 29 year old guy, who claimed to have 12 lady “associates”. I didn’t know people still used that word.

“Question is, how long they been together. If it’s a couple months you go over to their house, have a cab waiting out front. Knock on the door but don’t cross the threshold and say ‘This isn’t working’ and leave. Whatever you do, don’t let them start with, ‘Let’s talk about it.’ If they do, you’re done for.” The gentleman who said this was in his early 40’s and has been in a relationship for four years.

So I inquired about his relationship and where he saw it going.

“Oh, we’re very strong. She is a good woman. I love her and haven’t cheated once.”

“Are you going to get married?” I asked.

“Yes.”

“So you’re engaged?”

“No but I call her my fiancée because she’s more than my girlfriend.”…READ THE REST  HERE!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/la79/ la79

    Single girl – never listen to shyt a man has to say who is sexually attracted to u….

    ladies just listen to what ur man is saying – stop taking advice from other women about men…

    simple

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Ms_TrustNoOne2/ Ms_TrustNoOne2

    And it’s ok for men to write all these books on how to be a “woman”, and give advice about love and relationships. I say take advice from the “experienced” and those that are and have been married for ever. Experience is the best teacher.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/only1meSD/ only1meSD

    We wouldnt have to take advice from other women if men werent so full of bulls**t.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mj1869/ mj1869

    NOT ALL MEN ARE FULL OF BS. I DO BELIEVE THAT PEOPLE ATTRACT A CERTAIN TYPE OR ONLY WILLING TO DATE A CERTAIN “TYPE”. IF THAT TYPE IS THE TYPE OF MAN THATS ALWAYS FULL OF BS THEN MAYBE PEOPLE NEED TO GO OUTSIDE OF THEIR NORMS. WHEN I SAY TYPE I DONT MEAN THE PHYSICAL ASPECTS NEITHER. YOU CAN HAVE TEN DIFFERENT MEN AND WOMEN WITH DIFFERENT PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES AND THEY ALL FULL OF BS BECAUSE THATS THE TYPE OF PERSONALITY THEY HAVE.

    AS FAR AS WHERE TO GET ADVICE FROM.. ALL I CAN SAY IS BECAREFUL. LIKE TRUSTNOONE SAID GET ADVICE FROM EXPERIENCED ADULTS. HOWEVER DONT ASSUME U SHOULD GET IT FROM JUST WOMEN OR JUST GUYS. A DUDE MAY BS U BUT A WOMAN MAY ALSO BE JADED. SO NEITHER ONE OF THEIR ADVICE IS BETTER THAN THE OTHER. MEN LIKE THAT ACT THE WAY THEY ACTED BECAUSE OF WOMEN THEY DEALT WITH IN THE PAST AND WOMEN ACT THE WAY THEY ACT BECAUSE OF MEN THEY DEALT WITH IN THE PAST.

    JUST TRY TO BE A BETTER JUDGE OF CHARACTER. NO ONE PERFECT AND WE ALL GET HURT BUT DONT JUST BLAME IT ON MEN OR WOMEN. WE ALL F**K UP BECAUSE WE ALL HUMAN. ITS JUST SOME DO IT ON PURPOSE AND OTHERS ITS JUST AN HONEST MISTAKE. IF U TIRED OF HOW WOMEN/MEN DO YOU THEN TRY BEING NICE OR GIVING A CHANCE TO THAT FEMALE/MALE THAT YOU WOULDNT NORMALLY PICK FIRST TO HOLLA AT. YOU CANT DO THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER IN YOUR LIFE AND EXPECT TO GET DIFFERENT RESULTS!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/scaredoflove2/ scaredoflove2

    Once again i will state this who falls for this s**t. who the sad part about it is there are women who are in their 30′s and 40′s who fall for this s**t, Who in there right minds messes with somebody for like 3 -4 years and there is no commitment. Who, i just want to know who. and when it comes to sex a man can talk about tearing your back out or you coochie up but he can’t commit. Why because most men know women don’t listen nor believe the behavior they see or are told about in their face . it’s always something different. this is why i say what i say about men . They know who and who not to f**k with for real. they know.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/lindahi50/ lindahi50

    Experience is the best teacher. We really know from the start what type of person we are dealing with. We just let it slide, thinking they will change. But no it is up to that person if they want to change. We cannot change anyone, we can only change ourselves. It is one thing for sure to thy ownself be true. For the most part we know when we are not being honest.

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