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I never gave dating a woman much thought. I have imagined what sex with a woman would be like as opposed to my pounding, sweat drops hitting me in my eye, grunting, bed breaking sexcapades with men. For some reason I assume sex with a woman would be softer, longer, more intense cause unlike men, we’d be using our brains during intercourse. But would it really be INTER-course. Maybe it should be called BUMPER-course.

What do I know? I’m not a lesbian, but judging by the weakened state of affairs in the dating game more and more women are considering taking a lesbian lover.

As of now, I do not have any outright lesbian friends. I do have girlfriends who have had girl-on-girl jump offs. What I noticed the most about my girlfriends who lust for women is that they don’t consider themselves to be bi-sexual or gay. They blurt it out in conversation like I knew all along then brush it off when they notice my eyebrow raised. The best excuse they give is “I was in college.” Not all of these relationships are in the past. From time to time, my girls will take a strap on to a chick Pinky style but swear they aren’t gay.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/loreanashli/ loreanashli

    What the hell is really going on here? If you want a man to make love to you and not pound you until you cant take it tell him. Men can’t read minds, it’s not a good excuse to venture off and try a woman. o_O
    When did women think it’s okay to think with their vayjayjay? Women get gripe about men for thinking about “just sex” but here it is a article of women doing the same thing? Why are we lowering our standards and taking away the sacredness of sex? If we want men to respect relationships with us we have start with respecting ourselves. Men wouldn’t be promiscuous if they didn’t have women who would open their legs willingly to be promiscuous with.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DMY19151/ DMY19151

    YO…THAT IS A WACK ARTICLE…WOMEN DON’T HAVE TO EAT P***Y OR WEAR STRAP ONS, UNLESS THAT IS ALREADY IN YOUR HEART…I AGREE WITH THE LADY SAID IN THE FIRST COMMENT…DAMN…AMERICA IS F**KED UP….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/eks_07/ eks_07

    OK I COMPLETLY AGREE WITH THE FIRST COMMENT AND WANT TO ADD MORE FROM A MALE PERSPECTIVE. OK WOMEN, MEN DONT LOOK AT SEX AS A TIME THAT 2 MINDS CONNECT BECAUSE ONE A MAN WOULD HAVE TO LOWER THAT ONE WALL THAT DAMN NEAR NO MAN EVER DOES, TWO IM CONFUSED. DO WOMEN NOT WANT THEIR BACK BROKEN DURING SEX? WHEN I TAKE IT SLOW AND LOOK IN HER EYES I FIND IT BORING, BECAUSE ITS NOTHING GOING ON. I THINK THATS BS. BUT THAT DOESNT GIVE A WOMAN THE RIGHT AWAY TO GO LESBIAN. AND I DONT GIVE A F**K IF IT WAS COLLEGE OR PRESCHOOL IF YOU F**KED ANOTHER GIRL YOUR A LESBIAN. JUST AS IF 99.8% WOMEN WOULD DUB A MAN WHO DONE ANYTHING SEXUAL TO ANOTHER MAN TO BE GAY. IVE HEARD FROM WOMEN AT THE BEGGINING OF ME BEING ACTIVE THAT “I LIKE IT ROUGH” “TOO GENTLE” OR EVEN RELATIONSHIP WISE, YOUR TOO NICE I.E. SOFT. WTF MAKE UP YALL MINDS!!!! NOW WHEN SHE SAYS THE LESBIAN SEX WOULD BE LONGER AND SHE WOULD USE HER BRAIN WTF DOES THAT MEAN? IF SHE WANNA IMAGINE F**KIN A DIFFERENT WAY THEN SHE MAY AS WELL MASTERBATE, AND LONGER?!! I CAN GO LONG SOO THAT PROBLEM DOESNT FACE ME. BUT ISNT THE GOAL OF SEX TO SATISFY THE WOMAN? IF SHE C**MS REGARDLESS OF HOW THE LENGHT IS HE DID HIS DAMN JOB

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Hopecatcher/ Hopecatcher

    Praying for your situations. One must be complete within themselves before they will be satisfied with anything or anyone in life. I got myself together first and now I am working on 23 years with the same wonderful mate. He is devoted to me and I him. Seek out yourself within, decide who you really are first and then your relation ship will work. I got mad when someone told me this but here I am 23 years later. It will work. Start with self first. Fall in love with who God created YOU to be first and then you will be deemed irresistable to that next mate. Mark my words. Sex starts from within. You must love everything about yourself first even your faults and then when you present yourself to him, with now secrets just give him every thing you are and even everything you are not, it will work.

    Blessing and Prayers

    Mae

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CeJai1970/ CeJai1970

    All I have to say to this is ADAM and EVE! Need I say More? Okay! It is about time that we stop tricking ourselves into believing that men and woman do not need each other. God saw how lonely Adam was and plucked a rib from his chest; the bone closest to his heart, to create woman. Since creation, Adam has been trying to get his rib back. The commercial world attempts to convince us that we can be happy without the companionship of the opposite sex. Men and woman, by design, were created to be soul mates to one another. Our bodies were created to be anatomically fit for one another. Our spirit, mind, and heart are complimentary for each other. In a healthy relationship, we each have a role to perform.

    As a “politically correct” society, we have been brainwashed into believing that a strong relationship is either: A. Unrealistic; B. Un-necessary; or C. Optional. So much time is wasted trying to convince ourselves that we can do it all by ourselves. The reality is that we need each other now, more than ever. It takes two strong incomes to purchase a dream home. Two strong parents to raise a child. More importantly, two strong people to commit to an exclusive relationship that is built on respect, honesty and trust. The qualities aforementioned contribute to the ultimate….LOVE! That is something that we all want and desire.

    We cheat ourselves by saying that we do not deserve to be loved or that we are not worthy. Wrong answer! God, the father, the creator of all life, loved us so much that he sent his only son to redeem our souls. Our very existence was created out of the love that God has for us. Our bodies were formed and created out of the love, once expressed by most of our parents for one another. It is out of that same love that we need to value ourselves enough to be able to allow our heart the life fulfilling happiness that it deserves. It is true what they say, “It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all!”

    You can hate on my for feeling that Men and Women should love each other all you want and I am okay with that. What I am NOT okay with is to NOT TAKE A STANCE for what I believe. If you can do you, lete me do me! I LOVE MEN AND ALL THAT COMES WITH THE PACKAGE!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1Divine_soul/ 1Divine_soul

    IFA WOMAN WANNA EAT SOME P***Y LET HA’ GO HEAD ON AND EAT SOME P***Y, DAMN…STOP WHINING ABOUT IT….EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW WHAT IT TASTES LIKE, THERE ARE VARIOUS VARIETIES AND FLAVOURS!! AND CUTS OF MEAT!! TO BE HONEST I HAVE NOTICED EVERYONE ONE OF MY FEMALE FRIENDS, CHECKING OUT OTHER GIRLS, AND IT WASNT TO LOOK AT HER OUTFIT, YOU DON’T LOOK AT ASS THAT LONG, THAT AT NO OUTFIT…HAHAA, BUT THEY ARE STILL STR8…IDK WHAT TO SAY…PPL ARE TOO HUNG UP ON SEXUALITY, PPL LIKE PPL, I DON’T KNOW, BUT WHAT I DO KNOW, IS EVERY SHOULD TASTE SOME KINDA PUSSI IN DEY LIFE AND AT SOME POINT UP IN DEY LIFE!! BARACK…WOOOOOOO 2009…EAT THE P***Y…DON’T TWEET THE PUSSIIIIIII

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DAREALRECKLESS/ DAREALRECKLESS

    if you ‘THINK’ about having ‘SEX’ with the ‘SAME’ sex, you’re ‘ALREADY’ gay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AmerGrlWitIslTws/ AmerGrlWitIslTws

    I PERSONALLY SEE WHAT THE BIG DEAL IS…I MYSELF AM BI-SEXUAL…I LOVE WOMEN AND MEN..BUT I WOULD NEVER BE WITH BOTH AT THE SAME TIME…WOMEN MY THING IS IF U LIKE P***Y…LIKE IT…F**K WHAT PEOPLE MAY THINK…THEY AINT FEEDIN U WHEN U HUNGRY…PLAYING UR BILLS, AND MOST OF ALL…THEY AINT THE ONE F**KING U…PEOPLE STOP HAVING CLOSED MINDS…BY THE WAY MY BOO HAS NO PROBLEM WIT ME LIKING WOMEN….HE IS A SECURE MAN….AND HE LOVES ME BI-SEXUAL AND ALL…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AmerGrlWitIslTws/ AmerGrlWitIslTws

    I PERSONALLY DONT SEE WHAT THE BIG DEAL IS…I MYSELF AM BI-SEXUAL…I LOVE WOMEN AND MEN..BUT I WOULD NEVER BE WITH BOTH AT THE SAME TIME…WOMEN MY THING IS IF U LIKE P***Y…LIKE IT…F**K WHAT PEOPLE MAY THINK…THEY AINT FEEDIN U WHEN U HUNGRY…PLAYING UR BILLS, AND MOST OF ALL…THEY AINT THE ONE F**KING U…PEOPLE STOP HAVING CLOSED MINDS…BY THE WAY MY BOO HAS NO PROBLEM WIT ME LIKING WOMEN….HE IS A SECURE MAN….AND HE LOVES ME BI-SEXUAL AND ALL…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexxywhenwet/ sexxywhenwet

    THIS IF FOR CeJai1970 GIRL GET OVER IF YOU DNT LIKE IT THEN SO BE IT!!!!! BUT DNT GO ON TALKING ABOUT THAT ADAM AND EVE CRAP GOD ALSO DNT JUDGE OTHER’S AND WHAT THE HELL YOU DOING YOUR NT IN THEIR BEDROOM SO WHY ARE YOU WORRIED I WAS MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS UNHAPPY AND KNOW ME AND MY LIFE PARTNER ARE VERY HAPPY IF YOU DNT LIKE IT OH F**K WELL GET OVER IT IT IS WHAT IT IS

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/feebee16/ feebee16

    omg shut up! if you have never had sex with a female… dont talk about it…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DAREALRECKLESS/ DAREALRECKLESS

    lol @ all these extremely unattractive dykes getting mad at the heterosexual women

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DAREALRECKLESS/ DAREALRECKLESS

    one is fat, one looks like a transexual, and the other is 22 but she looks 44. you can’t be fu(king serious!? i see why you all are bisexual. y’all need all the lovin you can get! ROFLMFAO

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/can_i_massage_u_love/ can_i_massage_u_love

    What is with all these people doing Gay stuff but trying to claim they are not Gay?? Ummmm if you shoplift sometimes that makes you a thief not a by-thief or a part time thief! It makes you a thief.

    Just because some men dream of two sexy woman getting it on in front of them makes it no less gay then two men doing whatever. I mean with the Down Low Brothers book came out EVERYONE was like “Yo that nigga Gay!” But when Woman do it then it’s not Gay?

    And what happened to all these religious woman? Woman who are all Godly one minute and then bumpin it with a woman the next. People just pick and choose how religious they want to be these days??

    For real I don’t care what people do to be honest. Just wish people would keep it to themselves. I don’t care how Gay or not Gay someone claims to be! Do your thing and stop kissing and telling.

    Oh and: AmerGrlWitIslTws I hate to tell you this but your man has no problem with your girl situation because while you out with one of your girls he is prob some place else fuc_in someone else. Such is life.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/samsthewon/ samsthewon

    I say just do what makes you happy.Stop tryin to please everyone.Who gives a”F**k”what everyone else think’s…lifes to damn short.Live your life,cause the hater’s and doubter’s are livin’ their’s!!!I agree ugly ass Dykes,shouldn’t put men down…just because a man never wanted/or never will want them!Just be happy somebody want’s you.Get your tongue groove on!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/5PercentBlack/ 5PercentBlack

    I have had sex with a female

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CeJai1970/ CeJai1970

    This is for DAREALRECKLESS. Thanks for the recognition. It looks like I did make them mad. The way I see it, if it is okay for “them to do them,” then it should be okay for “me to do me!” Perhaps I struck a cord of truth and they were not ready to hear it.

    I did not pass judgment. I stated facts! If the truth hurts then put a band-aid on it and keep it pushing. If this is all about preferences and doing what makes you happy, then WHY HATE on me because I prefere MEN? You can have all the girl on girl love that you want but don’t make it a crime for those of us that prefer to be with men.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/YounginMali/ YounginMali

    My friend and I was jus talking about this. Females who had a sexual experience some time in their life but dont consider themselves gay is no different from down low brothers. The same way a woman who a few times had sex with another woman does not consider herself gay is in the same denial just just like a dude who got head from another dude but does not consider himself gay. You are gay if you are comfortable with homosexual activities, whether you tell your friends about it or not.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/_Shelby_/ _Shelby_

    Hot Mess….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Mzunderstood_75/ Mzunderstood_75

    YES THIS IS A HOT MESS…
    BUT GAY IS GAY!!! HOMO, BI, DOWN LOW=GAY!!!
    BUT TO EACH ITS OWN… Y’ALL CAN HAVE IT!!! I’M GOING TO STICK TO WHO CAN STICK IT TO ME LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CCashRowland/ CCashRowland

    Sex with women is great, but only if u got da spoon to stir the honey jar otherwise yall just doin foreplay and are gonna have to end up callin me!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Atl_Gurl-4-Life/ Atl_Gurl-4-Life

    The whole thing on having sex wit a female is different then with a guy. I’ve done the guy thing a few times and each time didn’t like it but wit a female i get turned on by her touch, lips, ass, and just the way she carry her self. i’m a femme that loves femmes and have done the relationship wit studs but i really like the femmz. I love the faces guys make when they find out that the female they tryin to talk to is my girl. I just think that anyone can pass judgement on the fact many females want another female or at least think bout it is just some one that don’t know anything bout how a woman feels or thinks. TO DAREALREACKLESS ANYONE CAN THINK ABOUT SEX WITH THE SAME SEX BUT NEVER DO IT DOESN’T MAKE THEM GAY CAUSE IF THAT WAS THE CASE THERE WOULD BE A HELL OF A LOT OF GAY PEOPLE IN THE WORLD!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/saswatc7/ saswatc7

    I’ve had sex with a female many yrs ago. I was high out of my mind but damn…this chick rocked my world!!!!!! Everything about her was fly looks, body, and the way she grinded me and tasted me was awsome!!!!! Although it was a onetime thing and I am married I still reminesce about her and that one night. Does that make me gay?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chivalrousejj/ chivalrousejj

    Gay is GAy….no matter how you doctor up the facts…my question is….where’s the give and take in the relationship? Whether you have a female/female male/male or female/male relationship, you will still have issues to contend with..so what is driving the desire to want to have the same sex in the biblical sens? I DON’T GET IT and I can’t wait till someone explains it to me logically….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/FyreSkye/ FyreSkye

    Do whatever feels good to you…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/momono3/ momono3

    CCashRowland, U R funny as hell! But anyway, I seriously think there is something in the food now-a-days. I think all the hormones they put in our beef and chicken is causing some sort of undiagnosed ‘gay backlash’ because I have never in my life seen so much outright lesbianism. Ladies, MEN ARE NOT GETTING THAT SCARCE that I want to lay up in bed with the same thing I have. I don’t care how mean and repulsive men can get, we can always outsmart them. Go get you a booty-call if you have to, you know how to give a cell number and a fake address so you don’t have to deal with his no-good @zz (if he turns out to be that way) we know how to ditch him. Yes, do whatever feels good, as long as it is not with the same sex (unless you are gay-then that’s your bizz) But don’t claim to be straight, only disgusted and FED UP with men.

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