Comments on: Don’t Marry For Love, Marry For Money http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/ Black Celebrity Gossip | Relationship Advice | Beauty Tips for Black Women Fri, 10 Feb 2012 20:58:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.6 By: __ash___ http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-1502672 __ash___ Thu, 25 Mar 2010 05:26:15 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-1502672 haha, funny. makes a good point though. Most ambitous men have no problem being defined by their accomplishments. haha, funny. makes a good point though. Most ambitous men have no problem being defined by their accomplishments.

]]> By: shindogg http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-684147 shindogg Sat, 29 Aug 2009 06:44:51 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-684147 yeah well fucck shallow bichez! simple az dat. damn em all ta hell yeah well fucck shallow bichez! simple az dat. damn em all ta hell

]]> By: Mr_Patches http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-604797 Mr_Patches Tue, 04 Aug 2009 04:15:56 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-604797 Don't feel bad, I dated a girl because she was rich too lol!! Don’t feel bad, I dated a girl because she was rich too lol!!

]]> By: doinmeallday http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-590327 doinmeallday Fri, 31 Jul 2009 01:10:27 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-590327 Every woman wants to be taken care of but not always by money.. sure it helps but if you dont have the love there why stay?? Money isn't always going to be there if you don't have a love foundation what else is there?? Not much in my book!! Every woman wants to be taken care of but not always by money.. sure it helps but if you dont have the love there why stay?? Money isn’t always going to be there if you don’t have a love foundation what else is there?? Not much in my book!!

]]> By: Zarza3223 http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-587397 Zarza3223 Wed, 29 Jul 2009 21:46:03 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-587397 smh! smh!

]]> By: Bemealways1 http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-587267 Bemealways1 Wed, 29 Jul 2009 21:15:02 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-587267 lmao im nt sure bout marrying just for money but me personally i do feel like the way i was brought up and my career path...these two things are going to help me eliminate some good men and bad men out here i mean its not right but at the same time my father when I was growing up was always there and ALWAYS supported me. That man loves his kids and his wife and he took care and protected us. I'd say 80% of money coming in and spent on us was my daddy's and since I'm about to become a neurosurgeon....I feel like it's going to b hard to find a man with all the "credentials". I mean if I fall in love with a man with less money I feel like thats not going to work because money is a part of a relationship whether major or minor and if I'm making the most (900,000) or the least (400,000) a year for that matter i just dont see how its going to work wit a man who makes 50,000 or 100,000 lmao im nt sure bout marrying just for money but me personally i do feel like the way i was brought up and my career path…these two things are going to help me eliminate some good men and bad men out here i mean its not right but at the same time my father when I was growing up was always there and ALWAYS supported me. That man loves his kids and his wife and he took care and protected us. I’d say 80% of money coming in and spent on us was my daddy’s and since I’m about to become a neurosurgeon….I feel like it’s going to b hard to find a man with all the “credentials”. I mean if I fall in love with a man with less money I feel like thats not going to work because money is a part of a relationship whether major or minor and if I’m making the most (900,000) or the least (400,000) a year for that matter i just dont see how its going to work wit a man who makes 50,000 or 100,000

]]> By: A_Lost_Man http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-587057 A_Lost_Man Wed, 29 Jul 2009 20:28:38 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-587057 Actually, there is a way women can have their cake and eat it too...my grandmother used to say, "Never look for someone you love...find someone who loves YOU." In simple terms, stop looking for what YOU want and think about accpeting something thats good FOR you (and if it helps, think about the hundreds of others things you do that you don't like). ;) http://beyond-the-political-spectrum.blogspot.com/ Actually, there is a way women can have their cake and eat it too…my grandmother used to say, “Never look for someone you love…find someone who loves YOU.” In simple terms, stop looking for what YOU want and think about accpeting something thats good FOR you (and if it helps, think about the hundreds of others things you do that you don’t like). ;)

http://beyond-the-political-spectrum.blogspot.com/

]]> By: chill19 http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-587007 chill19 Wed, 29 Jul 2009 20:16:22 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-587007 lol@ females marrying for money and eat out alot...and get fat and he leave your fat ass for the next bad bytch because there was never love involved just pleasure. at a time she was what he wanted and he had what she needed..and she change ..just like if he was to go broke...i think black people just need to stop reading and writing bullshyt .....stop getting caught in the media hype...and just live life how you want to ..fuck the world's view lol@ females marrying for money and eat out alot…and get fat and he leave your fat ass for the next bad bytch because there was never love involved just pleasure. at a time she was what he wanted and he had what she needed..and she change ..just like if he was to go broke…i think black people just need to stop reading and writing bullshyt …..stop getting caught in the media hype…and just live life how you want to ..f**k the world’s view

]]> By: LiquidSluggz http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-586657 LiquidSluggz Wed, 29 Jul 2009 18:53:19 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-586657 THIS is EXACTLY why BLACK PEOPLE NEVER GET ANYWHERE!!! no morals or anything! FIRST of all, marriage is something sanctified by GOD..its about LOVE, COMMITMENT, and FAITH. SO if ur about money, then get a boyfriend and screw his dumb ass over. No wonder other races have a lower divorce rate than us black people. ALSO, whats gonna happen if homeboy lose his big paying job? - both of yall stressed screwed after that! AND the biggest thing women dont think about is this...YES we men know its money cars clothes etc, that attracts women, but most of these same men use that to get MULTIPLE women, so in turn, women are treated badly, disrespected, BEATEN and the rate of STD and AIDS are greatly increased. BLACK PEOPLE PLEASE STOP LOOKING FOR THE EASY WAY OUT!!! THIS is EXACTLY why BLACK PEOPLE NEVER GET ANYWHERE!!! no morals or anything! FIRST of all, marriage is something sanctified by GOD..its about LOVE, COMMITMENT, and FAITH. SO if ur about money, then get a boyfriend and screw his dumb ass over. No wonder other races have a lower divorce rate than us black people. ALSO, whats gonna happen if homeboy lose his big paying job? – both of yall stressed screwed after that! AND the biggest thing women dont think about is this…YES we men know its money cars clothes etc, that attracts women, but most of these same men use that to get MULTIPLE women, so in turn, women are treated badly, disrespected, BEATEN and the rate of STD and AIDS are greatly increased. BLACK PEOPLE PLEASE STOP LOOKING FOR THE EASY WAY OUT!!!

]]> By: TerriFoxx http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-586597 TerriFoxx Wed, 29 Jul 2009 18:31:53 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-586597 I Agree, I've been married for 12 and 1/2 years and money plays a big role in our relationship. I married for love and when your spouse or man do not have the money needed to Help pay bills, it becomes very STRESSFUL. A Woman Likes To Feel Comfortable...with her surroundings. Men tend to get Golddigging and Stability Mixed Up. We Want a man thats Financially Stable, so we dont have to worry about if we can pay a bill, BE HOMELESS or help me look nice for You. Men Like the Physical Aspect of a woman, he's attracted to her beauty and body. In the end we will be happy, because both of us Are Getting What We Are Attracted To. I Agree, I’ve been married for 12 and 1/2 years and money plays a big role in our relationship. I married for love and when your spouse or man do not have the money needed to Help pay bills, it becomes very STRESSFUL.
A Woman Likes To Feel Comfortable…with her surroundings. Men tend to get Golddigging and Stability Mixed Up. We Want a man thats Financially Stable, so we dont have to worry about if we can pay a bill, BE HOMELESS or help me look nice for You.
Men Like the Physical Aspect of a woman, he’s attracted to her beauty and body. In the end we will be happy, because both of us Are Getting What We Are Attracted To.

]]> By: bigbrowneyes1234 http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-586267 bigbrowneyes1234 Wed, 29 Jul 2009 17:31:15 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-586267 i have a cousin who did that she borrow some money from her boyfriend yrs ago had the surgery and broke up with the guy coz he did not have no money to be with this doctor/ lawyer and got preggers on purpose and lie to him about her past so he will feel sorry talked the man into marry her and every thing i lost all respect for her god dont like ugly every thing we do on earth we have to answer to god for it no matter what she even lied about her oldest son father just so old boy can take care of him she made it seem like she had it all 2 gether and she didnt people like that i just pray and ask god to bring the dark to the light, and he is doing it through the holy spirit coz to me its wrong and she has no remorse and she lies to make people feel sorry for her i have a cousin who did that she borrow some money from her boyfriend yrs ago had the surgery and broke up with the guy coz he did not have no money to be with this doctor/ lawyer and got preggers on purpose and lie to him about her past so he will feel sorry talked the man into marry her and every thing i lost all respect for her god dont like ugly every thing we do on earth we have to answer to god for it no matter what she even lied about her oldest son father just so old boy can take care of him she made it seem like she had it all 2 gether and she didnt people like that i just pray and ask god to bring the dark to the light, and he is doing it through the holy spirit coz to me its wrong and she has no remorse and she lies to make people feel sorry for her

]]> By: dontbefakeplz http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-586257 dontbefakeplz Wed, 29 Jul 2009 17:29:55 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-586257 obviously u didnt feel the need to put your pic up with this title so u really dont believe that with conviction single gurl, anybody can say crazy stuff with no identity looking for people to blog their ass off. obviously u didnt feel the need to put your pic up with this title so u really dont believe that with conviction single gurl, anybody can say crazy stuff with no identity looking for people to blog their ass off.

]]> By: DA_GEORGETOWN_MAYOR http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-586167 DA_GEORGETOWN_MAYOR Wed, 29 Jul 2009 17:15:33 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-586167 LOL, WHAT ALL YALL HOES GONNA DO WHEN THE DOLLAR COLLAPSE, AND ALL THAT MONEY IS WORTHLESS?....GOLDDIGGERS GET @ ME ON THIS ONE! LOVE LAST WAAAAAAAY LONGER THAN MONEY! LOL, WHAT ALL YALL HOES GONNA DO WHEN THE DOLLAR COLLAPSE, AND ALL THAT MONEY IS WORTHLESS?….GOLDDIGGERS GET @ ME ON THIS ONE! LOVE LAST WAAAAAAAY LONGER THAN MONEY!

]]> By: ASEMONEY1 http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-585977 ASEMONEY1 Wed, 29 Jul 2009 16:34:32 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-585977 see, dats dat bullshit right there! whoeva actually wrote this needs a serious reality check. this is dat form of male bashing shit i dont like, and dat got our black women, if from a young age, thinking that the word "man" means money. when in fact we need to be teaching our women, really all women to be independent and take care of their own. but yall wonder y we go to whit women..... see, dats dat bulls**t right there! whoeva actually wrote this needs a serious reality check. this is dat form of male bashing s**t i dont like, and dat got our black women, if from a young age, thinking that the word “man” means money. when in fact we need to be teaching our women, really all women to be independent and take care of their own. but yall wonder y we go to whit women…..

]]> By: seldomseen176 http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-585877 seldomseen176 Wed, 29 Jul 2009 16:19:48 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-585877 Well that is pretty dumb considering most people who marry for money marriages do not last any longer then those who married for love. For the comment about women not looking to take care of a man. Most of black women these days are full of themselves,and most of us real men are not looking for a woman to "take care of them." I believe in working hard to together to establish something,I'm currently a full time student and lord bless I can pursue a career in law,music being my first love lord bless I can tie them both together and make my mark in this world. Now with that being said if a woman is not interested in me for me as a person then she can't be interested in me for my money. The way I see it I will have to work my ass off to obtain my goals in life,and I'll be damned if I give away half of what I have worked so hard for to my ex-wife if things don't work out. That is crazy,if I want to give money away like that I can just donate to charity,at least I can write that off on my taxes. I'm not looking for a extra dependent,unless you allowing me to claim you on my taxes. Trust if that becomes the situation you will be signing a prenuptial,and I will also require her to sign a legally binding contract stating you will leave out of this marriage with what you came in with. Money can't buy you love,it can only rent you some pu$$y. Well that is pretty dumb considering most people who marry for money marriages do not last any longer then those who married for love. For the comment about women not looking to take care of a man. Most of black women these days are full of themselves,and most of us real men are not looking for a woman to “take care of them.” I believe in working hard to together to establish something,I’m currently a full time student and lord bless I can pursue a career in law,music being my first love lord bless I can tie them both together and make my mark in this world. Now with that being said if a woman is not interested in me for me as a person then she can’t be interested in me for my money. The way I see it I will have to work my ass off to obtain my goals in life,and I’ll be damned if I give away half of what I have worked so hard for to my ex-wife if things don’t work out. That is crazy,if I want to give money away like that I can just donate to charity,at least I can write that off on my taxes. I’m not looking for a extra dependent,unless you allowing me to claim you on my taxes. Trust if that becomes the situation you will be signing a prenuptial,and I will also require her to sign a legally binding contract stating you will leave out of this marriage with what you came in with. Money can’t buy you love,it can only rent you some pu$$y.

]]> By: shoot4damoon http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-585837 shoot4damoon Wed, 29 Jul 2009 16:15:53 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-585837 I get it...he gets the trophy servant and she gets security....you just need to know where you at. If he go broke she gone...and if he willing to live with that then it's all good. I get it…he gets the trophy servant and she gets security….you just need to know where you at. If he go broke she gone…and if he willing to live with that then it’s all good.

]]> By: DMY19151 http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-585737 DMY19151 Wed, 29 Jul 2009 16:00:31 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-585737 LOL...THAT'S SOME NOODLE ASS SHIT TO SAY...THAT'S WHY THE YOUTH IS FUCKED UP NOW....STUPID....LOVE IS THE HIGHEST FORM OF UNDERSTANDING FOR A MAN AND WOMAN TO REACH....TRY USING YOUR BRAIN-DUMBASS ! LOL…THAT’S SOME NOODLE ASS S**T TO SAY…THAT’S WHY THE YOUTH IS F**KED UP NOW….STUPID….LOVE IS THE HIGHEST FORM OF UNDERSTANDING FOR A MAN AND WOMAN TO REACH….TRY USING YOUR BRAIN-DUMBASS !

]]> By: Nunya327 http://hellobeautiful.com/style-beauty/single-girl/don%e2%80%99t-marry-for-love-marry-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-585647 Nunya327 Wed, 29 Jul 2009 15:40:35 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=393487#comment-585647 Well, I can kinda see where this fits. Majority of men feel the need to pamper women anyway. The wanting to be needed for something. Not saying that's right to just go after someone because of what they have. To perfectly honest No Woman in her right mind wants a broke man; some one she has to take care of. I definitely don't need a another child!!! BEING THE PERSON THAT I AM, I DEPEND ON NOBODY BUT ME.........REAL TALK!!! Well, I can kinda see where this fits. Majority of men feel the need to pamper women anyway. The wanting to be needed for something. Not saying that’s right to just go after someone because of what they have. To perfectly honest No Woman in her right mind wants a broke man; some one she has to take care of. I definitely don’t need a another child!!! BEING THE PERSON THAT I AM, I DEPEND ON NOBODY BUT ME………REAL TALK!!!

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