WHAT? SEX IS A GOOD THING! SPECIALLY IF YOU AINT ASHAMED TO GET FREAKY! THATS A REASON LOTS OF DUDES HAVE S**TS FOR SIDELINES, BUT ITS NOT “THAT” IMPORTANT! SEX IS ERRWHARE NOWADAYS! HOW BOUT A CHICK GET RID OF THAT EVIL CELL PHONE!? THE #2 REASON RELATIONSHIPS DONT WORK! ITS EVIL, IM TELLIN YA!

I totally feel this article. When you trying to Pin a good man down, NOTICE: I SAID A GOOD MAN DOWN, you’ll have to throw all that women lib s**t to the birds! real talk. It plain as day the inital reason a man gets with a woman he’s attracted to IS to get sex! but in order to keep a man in your corner, a woman has to be more cunning than what’s between her thighs- that’s when you gotta get your brain workin’. And yes, EVEN that in it’s gutta form is an incentive for keepin dude involved. LOL! awesome play on words. Great article. I wouldn’t do the video thing though(Hell Naw!). Us women gotta go back to the basics to KEEP a man once we get ‘em. It’s the Circle of life and s**t. LOL!

What DA_GEORGETOWN_MAYOR saying is true.

If a women dosent care to please her man.Its like looking in his eyes saying she dont give damn about needs.

If a women stays on the phone.Its like looking in a mans eyes saying you dont give a damn if hes there or not.

If a women has a female friend who gives bad relationship advice dosent have a man and empathizes on how bad men are.The women is an in the closet lesbian trying to convert her.

If a women has a male friend who gives bad advice.99 out of 100 times hes trying to hit that.

Not cooking for a man.Its like looking in a mans eyes saying I dont care if you starve and die .And if they have kids they will be treated the same.(I believe both partners should be able cook)

Not cleaning is like looking in a mans eyes saying you dont care if he gets sick and die.And if yall have kids they will be treated the same.(I believe both partners should be able clean,to make things easy have 1 fork 1 spoon etc for each member,the more stuff you own the more is work is needed).

I want to make it clear.I dont think everything is womens fault.I just gave yall my point of view.I know the true problem is the majority of people dont know anything or cant figure anything out or and dont care to.This topic needs to be discussed more often,it should be focused on both partners.

First of all, women need to stop listening to other women tell them how to get or keep a man. Most who are giving advice don’t have a man themselves and if they do they are experiencing trouble in their own relationships, why else would they want to give you advice in the first place. If you have a brother, father, uncle, whom you can talk openly to about this subject, please ask them for advice and not your girlfriends. Let’s face it who knows best about men but other men.

Im curious of what women consider a good man?

If youre not good a woman maybe you shouldnt seek out good man(vice versa).

They on point on this 1 yes this is Offical! Ladies take notes although some ladies and you know who u are can get away with thing the other girls can’t

what a unbecoming way to behave :( How to be a wife/girlfriend or how to be a porn star? This list is AWFUL…

I’ma just say this your nickname “says the single girl” is my answer to that bogus ass so called guide to win/keep a man,i swear the god some chicks need to fix themselves before dishing out advices,i thought you weren’t there so save nobody?! You done got on my nerves too, do you know how many sex goddesses are single? You’re looking at one right now,Sex is not a way to win or keep a man, you might entertain him for a minute but as soon as someone with much more to offers comes along your ass will be a JUMP OFF,Bring deborah’s stupid asses because you ain’t doing a good job at “not helping us” ,Talking about All of this “I don’t do that…” will be your demise.” You’re HO! and THAT is rawness

SMFH. This is crappy advice and she isn’t a man. It takes more than sex to win a man over.

NO DISRESPECT TO ANYONE…MY VIEW ON THE SUBJECT, WOULD BE IS TO ASK A MAN ( OR YOUR MAN, BROTHER, COUSIN, UNCLE, DAD, SON ) as long as it’s a man. I BELIEVE A MAN WILL KNOW WHAT HE LIKES OR LOVE FROM A FEMALE. NOW, KNOWING WHAT EXACTLY MAY TURN YOU ON OR OFF, IS TO EACH OWN. IN SOME CASES, YOU MAY NOT WANT TO OVER DO IT. TOO MUCH OF ANY THING(S) MAY NOT ALWAYS BE A GOOD THING. “SOMETIMES, THE MORE U GIVE…THE MORE ONE WANTS…..YOU MAY GET LESS! ALWAYS TRY TO DO BETTER, BECOME THE BEST AT WHAT YOU DO…SO, DO YOU! Ms. Lady J.

yeah it does take more then sex 2 keep a man, loveing a man and tryna keep the relationship alive isnted easy, u gotta work on one another figure out what one another about

Why is it always the women that has to work so hard to “Win and Keep” a men?

I agree with Princess, why is it a woman’s thing all the time to ‘win & keep a man?’ that’s the problem right now- men prey on this and so the reality is you can do all of these things and for some men, most men- it still won’t be enough.

So is she implying that all men want is someone to their personal hooker or personal porn star? I dont get it…..I’d feel like s**t if sex was the only thing that was keeping my man around.

its not the sex i was talking about it was just being there for him in whatever time of need and he surfing the net chatting it up with females talking about meeting a man is gonna be just what he is a man i dont care who he chat with just dont get to personal online its just cyber space thats all.

Hope that works for you “SINGLE GIRL”,you do sound like a girl with that little list,Us women have our own non w**rish or dumbish ways :) Beside you should know by now that a man cannot be kept if he doesn’t want to

ugh…i’m not even gonna comment on the actual list. my main issue is that we are still perpetuating the idea that the black woman needs to “win” a man or work hella hard to keep hers. if she’s truly a good woman then all she needs to do is be herself and be comfortable with that, and a good man would be more than happy to get/keep her. btw: where are all the lists for men on how to win/keep a woman??? these african american dating issues irk the hell out of me…get this degrading ass article outta here, man.

Thats so not true..If u tryin to “win” a man, sex is not going to win him…if a man can come thru and get it whenever he aint gonna wife u up AND “winning” a man is pathetic, since when do black women need to compete for a mans love?? This is why men do and act how they want because there are foolish women that let them get away with it. WOMEN IT’S 2009, STAND ON YA OWN!!!

munkeee can only go so far… but cooking and cleaning is one thing that can keep a man around… i personally can cook, clean, and etc .. but sometimes u want ur woman to do those certains things for u to make us feel special

….WTF??? lol okkkkk

A little archaic isn’t it. In addition to be a bit boring… but the trench thing is a nice touch and i have been there. But sex, cleaning and cooking are not the only things in our arsenal. The exchange of ideas, going differnet places to expand the mind, finding out what we really have in common… those are a few of the real and right things to explore to enhance therealtionship.

Let’s really think on a positive note to be creative and explore all that is availble to us e to accentuate our realtionships. It is

3 WAYS A WOMAN CAN KEEP HER MAN:

1.) scrub his draws by hand with bleach or soap powder

2.) hover over a hot ass stove everday to prepare a meal

3.) give head and take it up da butt

I’M SUPRISED A MALE DIDN’T WRITE THIS BS
HOW SEXIST IS THIS LIST????? SHE’S IMPLYING IT’S A WOMANS JOB TO COOK FOR HER MAN AND TO KEEP THE HOUSE CLEAN
LIKE A MANS GOING TO LEAVE YOU IF YOU DON’T CLEAN HIS NASTY S**T
WHAT DAY IS THIS CHICK LIVING IN???
I ACTUALLY SORT OF AGREE WITH NUMBER ONE THOUGH…IF YOU SAY NO TO YOUR MAN’S SEXUAL DESIRES HE WILL GET IT FROM SOMEONE WHO IS WILLING

Women are more prideful then men these days. Y’all sorry asses can’t keep a “good man” to save y’all lives. Instead y’all cop out by complaining “oh there ain’t no good brothas left, ain’t no good men out there” when if a good man hit you upside the head with a baseball bat ya’ll wouldn’t know what hit y’all. Women say this cheap hair salon gossip “ain’t no good men” banter AFTER THE FACT when before hand y’all done lowered your standards with some thug and nappy headed gold tooth rapper wanna be with a rap sheet who inpregnated your sorry asses. Of course he skips town and doesn’t partake in the child rearing. The only thing’s left is a bitter b***h who sits around and complain about men because of what her “baby’s daddy” did or didn’t do.

pretty boy jarome,”1.) scrub his draws by hand with bleach or soap powder
2.) hover over a hot ass stove everday to prepare a meal
3.) give head and take it up da butt” are you serious?

Sex is good but it doesnt last 24 hours,how about learning conversational skills,be interested in what hes interested in,a god meal goes a long way too.More importantly truly love yourself and it will be easy to love him

I actually agree with this. I do think that the man can share in the cooking and cleaning. I also think that both people in the relationship should take part in switching up on the sex. Just as woman should try new things…I think men should too. It takes two people to have a relationship, so they should cater to each others needs/wants/fantasies!!!

I just read number 1. And I am surprised to see it. Ladies, don’t pay any attention to that garbage. It’s the reason we have video “vixens”. It’s the reason so many women don’t have much confidence today. If all you have to offer is sex to get a man to marry you, what else do you have to offer that he can’t get from anywhere else!? Think about this… a man’s hand costs less, and doesn’t nag but can still produce the same nut. You’d better come with some goals, discipline, respect, intelligence, and ambition and FRIENDSHIP, real Godly friendship if you want a REAL MAN to marry you.

Oh yeah… and who in the world takes advice on how to get married from a SINGLE WOMAN?! IT’S A REASON SHE’S SINGLE! And I’m telling you it’s definitely because of number 1. Her list is actually backward. The thing she has as least important is the most, and then 3 and then 2. Yeah, you should cook and be clean, what’s wrong with the women today? Really? What do you want the man to work, cook, clean, and you do nothing?

Wow and this is made by a female. How can a female tell u what a man wants.

Hmmmmm, so basically, this SINGLE woman is telling us in order to keep a man, we should be a sex slave and maid?? LOL! Oooooooooooooooooooookkkkkkkkkk…………

the single girl need to sit her single ass down, cause obviously you done w**ring and maiding and u still single

how tha f**k can a single woman tell you how to keep a damn man when she dont have one?think people

1 word-HILARIOUS!LOL

For all you sist’as that’s posted and still in denial and think you need a man to tell a woman how to keep a man especially if the woman that’s giving you the advice is “On Point”.The original concept/definition of marriage is: “The legal joining of a man and woman who have sexual rights to each other”
If you got all dressed up,put on sweet perfume,had your hair and nails done and made sure you were sexy and flirtatious and gave your man hot sex when you were trying to hook your man into marrying him, I have a news flash for you: YOU HAVE TO KEEP DOING THAT IN ORDER TO KEEP HIM!!! If you feel you no longer need to keep him interested in you..then you need to be cheated on because you just as bad as a used car salesman who lie and deceive to make the sale, only for the buyer to find out it was all a sham.Thousands of sista’s every year loose their man in divorce because of the “I don’t need to please him”,”I’m too tired”.”I got kids now and things have changed” attitude. men are simple: we just need a little sex at consistent times,a good meal, and hell, nowaday’s most of us are even willing to help you keep the house clean and wash clothes. Sista’s,don’t let the feminist movement brainwash you…marriage is a tradition that dates back thousands of years and no matter what; it will alway’s be based on the solid idea that a man decides to join in a legal agreement to have sex for life exclusively with the woman whose name is listed on the marriage license..nothing more. With the exception of those brotha’s that will cheat no matter what, most brothers are satisfied with that arrangement..problem is..sista’s are known to mess that agreement up by withholding sex as punishment or failing to learn how to openly enjoy sex and bond with their man in that manner..it is indeed a skill that has many avenues of approach. One thing for sure: if sista’s aint putting out the right way, it’s alway’s another woman willing and able. And ohh by the way, this advice may be “hard to swallow”, but its “c**ming” from a man.