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UPDATE: According to the reports, Usher told the Johns Creek Police Department that on Sept. 10, he had a “verbal argument” with Tameka over the phone regarding weekend custody of their children.

Usher told cops that after the argument, he dropped his kids off at his mother’s house – but when he drove back to his home, Tameka showed up “demanding to take the kids.” Usher claims Tameka eventually left and he drove back to his mother’s house – but when Usher got there, Tameka showed up and began “knocking on the door” and making several phone calls to the residence.

Usher claims he and his mom ignored Tameka – and eventually called police. When cops arrived, Tameka was nowhere to be found.

The next day, Usher called police again after he noticed several scratches on his truck – Usher told cops he believed Tameka vandalized the car in retaliation for their fight just hours before.

In the police report, the responding officers who checked out the scratched car claim they found no evidence to support Usher’s accusation. The cops even reviewed the entrance log to Usher’s private neighborhood … but there was no record of Tameka ever getting into the area where the alleged crime would have taken place.

UPDATE: C’mon Tameka can’t you think of something more grown up to do to get Usher to sign those divorce papers??? According to tmz.com,Usher recently called the cops on his soon-to-be ex-wife, Tameka — accusing her of sneaking onto his property and scratching up one of his cars.

Law enforcement sources tell us when officers arrived at the scene, Tameka Raymond was nowhere to be found.

Police later interviewed both Tameka and Usher — but determined there was no evidence or witnesses to substantiate Usher’s claim.

But the drama didn’t end there — law enforcement sources tell us Usher called the cops on Tameka a second time several days later, complaining that Tameka again got onto his property and wouldn’t leave. By the time cops arrived, Tameka had already split.

I’m also hearing that Usher asked his new lady Grace Miguel to quit her job at Def Jam so she can move into his mansion in Atlanta.

According to sources, Usher and Grace have been spotted out & about in the ATL for the past two weeks. Most recently they were seen at Magic City strip club. Sources say Grace may be the reason why Tameka has flipped her wig. “That’s HIS house!,” said my source. “It’s not like he’s staying with [Grace] in his house with her kids. The kids are with her in her house.”

Can we say DRAMA!!!!!

Take a look at Usher below:

According to Radaronline.com, soon-to-be divorced Tameka Foster is telling friends that Usher refuses to sign the divorce papers:

A source close to the couple claims the singer has delayed inking the final signatures on papers that he filed at Atlanta’s Superior Court. “Tameka thinks that it’s ironic that Papers is his comeback single when she just wants him to sign the paperwork and finalize the divorce,” the source told RadarOnline.com. “The terms and conditions have been agreed on for around a month but he keeps stalling on them and she’s the one that wants to move on with her life.

Usher recently released a new track titled “Papers” that centers on his split from Tameka.  Usher talks about giving his all and receiving nothing in return, although he separated himself from the world, especially his mother.

Could this be a publicity stunt?? When will Usher finally sign the divorce papers? I will keep you updated on this story as it develops.

Take a look at the couple in happier times:

Listen to Usher’s “Papers”

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MissBBL2Sexy/ MissBBL2Sexy

    Lol all about the “paper”!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Shamel_/ Shamel_

    Contrary to what people think, often times men have a DIFFICULT time (and become distraught, depressed & withdrawn) coping with divorce. In my heart of hearts I TRULY believe that he loved this woman. After all he was extremely close to his mother (she was his manager) and if he married this woman who had 3 children, an ex-husband, baggage, and not to mention “less than favorable” appearance (measured up to HOLLYWOOD standards of beauty) he HAD to love her. He was the one who had nothing to gain by being with her. I will always respect him for that. People dogged this woman out in the media and he stuck by her side. Maybe, just maybe he is not ready to call it quits. Who knows. Whatever the case I wish em well with his career and future relationships!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/pflower/ pflower

    Quite frankly, I think it’s supremely tacky to disrespect your child’s parent for whatever reason. Usher should be better than that because after all he is forever linked to this woman with their children. Think about that fact before you run off writing songs that publicly dis her. His behavior shows how immature he is, both before and after. You don’t disrespect your mother for a woman, change your personality for a woman unless you’re immature. Manhood is about maturity, respectability and behaving responsibly. Whatever transpired between them he has no one but himself to blame for acting immaturely.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/RedBone241/ RedBone241

    I think that when a man TRULY loves a woman, he has to love her deeply from within. If it is lust,
    then it’s not love. It is what it is. Tameka is older than he is, he should’ve realized that it would
    be “unacceptable” for him to be with an older woman. In showbiz, it’s who and what you are, regardless of the fact that is also includes who you love. Usher is a young man, and Tameka is his
    “older” woman. WHO CARES? If a “mature” woman is attractive to be with a younger man, than it
    should be. If she doesn’t want o be with him and vice versa, then that’s a whole new ballgame.
    I have a man who is nine years younger, and it was HIS choice to be with me. But the feelings
    were mutual. I get play from younger men all the time. Not saying that I’m “all that”, but it’s how
    you treat people! All in a nutshell. And your mentality is what attracts people to me. It’s definitely
    not the bod! Needs an overhaul! lol But sex is not all there is! Until men AND women realize this,
    then it’s all good. It takes more than sex to sustain a healthy, trustworthy, and compassionate
    relationship. Men need to stop cheating and women need to start treating their “better” half right.
    Stop the materialisticness and that’ll happen. Ladies, if ya want it, go and get it yourself! If your
    man feels that he should contribute, then by all means, let him be a man. I strongly believe in
    INDEPENDENCE! Don’t depend on anyone but yourself. If all fails, you have noone to blame but
    YOU! I try to instill that in my two daughters, even though now they are 24 and 20. But at least
    they know what it is, by watching me. What they do now is not in my control. They have to make
    mistakes, and hopefully gain by them and try not to keep making them over and over. Hopefully,
    it will make them wiser! Peace!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TAVELYN/ TAVELYN

    USHER HAS HAD BAD CHOICE OF WOMEN SINCE HE LEFT CHILLI OF THE GROUP TLC…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/autumnspyc43/ autumnspyc43

    okay and i have waited a while on this. did usher really expect anyhting to become of this marraige ? I felt for the knucklehead when i heard he wanted to marry this old azz woman. she is clearly about the do re mi. couldn’t happen to a nicer cheating azz man. I am sure he love his child and did right by the child. I am sure he was pressured into this marraige and what do you want . peeps take marraige too casually. he wont sign because heabout to see his finances dented a bit . howvwer not a total scrub this woman was self supporting had to be lusting . i mean really Usher?? Talented hell yes . we all knows he cheated the girl(tlc) gorgeous this bimbo not so much.
    Karma is a b***h folks why the hold up personally and quite a while ago he moved on. usher do not want to let the dollars go i am telling ya . hell if i were tamika i’d want him to hurry up and sign too peace out
    ps based on speculation of course

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/NYCsmoove/ NYCsmoove

    Why are the females always hatin on Tameka? Why is her age an issue?” Both are adults who fell in love with each other. To each his own…ugly or not, that was his choice. It’s time for yall black women to be supportive instead of being negative all the time…enough said!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jones257/ Jones257

    what he did with the other hot chick. as much as girl sweat usher he wants to go with that.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Duvlek_Ahlleek/ Duvlek_Ahlleek

    hope da best for both involved parties wuteva da end’n da case ilz. .. imma jus wait til da cd ilz finish’d cuz all diz otha ish aint really my bidness as well as alot of otha people.. .more ppl should sweep up der own shyt instead of focus’n on otherz.. .

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/hipswang/ hipswang

    OMG – I ain’t know Usher dated Drag Queens! LOL! He prolly just embarrassed that everything went as it did – I think he’s hurt a little bit 2 – he should have enjoyed his youth, been like 2 hell w/marriage until later, played the field and enjoyed his career while he was close 2 the top. Now he has 2 be accused of publicity stunts if he does anything public and being a hermit if he keeps anything 2 himself. I hope he’ll just do him, that he’s still good enuff 2 b there and he’ll be wiser in his choice of women, the “new chic” ain’t her either….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/truthserumX/ truthserumX

    Their cute together. I hope they do stay together if that’s God’s plan. Its nice to see him with a real Black woman. Its good to have traditional families (child having biological prents) together. This a marriage we should be praying stays together. He’s becoming a little Denzel!! ;-)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ladyiska/ ladyiska

    THERES LOTS THAT GOES ON WHILE GETTIN A DIVORCE N ITS NOT EASY SO WISH HIM THE BEST REALLY I DO CUZ HE DONT LOOK HAPPY WIT NEW CHIK EITHER HAHAHAHA

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SUMMER_SO_FINE/ SUMMER_SO_FINE

    Seems like he is holding on for a reason and I doubt it is love. I really don’t understand why cheat on a beautiful, woman that was sincere and dedicated according to sources for a married woman with kids. What was the sense? Sometimes as human beings, God will bless us with the best things and we mess it up with our own selfishness. And he married this woman, but didn’t marrie Chilly. Umh Umh Umh. Now look at what he is facing. She is actually barking that the man refuses to sign. Sounds like to me she is eager for him to do so. I don’t know how he figured she would be so loving of him, if she could diss her former husband and sacrifice her family with him for Usher. It clearly states, “Through thick and thin, till death do you part.” Marriages are worthless these days. Better off single and less frustrated. Why get married with the chances of becoming divorce? Tameka had her cookies, then cake now she is ready to eat.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DEEDEE1231/ DEEDEE1231

    LOOK IF THE MARRIAGE IS OVER SIGN THE DAMN PAPERS

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ShyGyrl702/ ShyGyrl702

    I seen the pics. Was up with the new chick? And anyway, he might not want to sign because he know he gotta pay. It’s cheaper to keep her! But then why go through all the trouble of trying to put her on front street with that new song just to hold on to the “papers”. There is more to the story that’s being told.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LusciousLipsOMG/ LusciousLipsOMG

    Judging by the ex wife *soon to be ex* or whatever she is, and the “New Chic”… Lawd, Usher has no taste in women. Does he wanna be the “pretty one” in his relationships???
    laffin.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SUMMER_SO_FINE/ SUMMER_SO_FINE

    LOL, I didn’t look at the pictures before when I submitted my last comment. He really should make a song Confessions part II about his women and WHY!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/edward55/ edward55

    Whatesle is new in his life? Is that how he gets a hit record by putting his personal business out there to dance too. I don’t know who worst, him or R. Kelly. Their best music comes from bad relationships. I can’t wait for the next woman.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Da_J_Rok/ Da_J_Rok

    Well if the album dont sale, he could always reconcile… lol @ Johnny… if only people knew why I called you that

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blaque_ivory/ blaque_ivory

    These bishes calling Usher’s ex out need to shutdafucup. I can’t believe how they’re calling a real looking black woman ugly. How often do you see a black male celebrity with a black woman that looks like a black woman, not mixd with anything? You ugly b***hes must really be internalizing how you’ve been treated for being a black woman and puttin down another sista, no wonder black men go and get them a white woman once they get some money. I’m starting to understand what they talking about when they say how f**ked up black women are, well ones like the one that posted on here.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/toodelicious4u/ toodelicious4u

    I sware people will take any information and run with it…..! I bet half of this s**t that they be talkn bout on the news and magazines aint even true!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/GAPEACH135/ GAPEACH135

    clapping my hands to blaque…i totally agree it’s about time somebody spoke up. im tired of people saying that this women is ugly, wtf is so ugly about her… oh i guess because she’s not one of these lightskin or exotic looking model chicks she’s not pretty or good enough for usher smh

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Always_Blessed25/ Always_Blessed25

    I so agree wit blaque. Step yo game up ladies and have some PRIDE about yourselves…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/courtneyR/ courtneyR

    Wishing them the best with whatever happens.I never thought Tameka wasn’t pretty.I love her skin tone and I think she has a nice smile..And OBVIOUSLY USHER thought she was pretty as well…No one in this world can tell someone else whos pretty and who isnt.WHY? because everyones EYE for what is beautiful is different. @ blaque_ivory,what you just said has some validity to it.All women are beautiful.Whats crazy is,when I was growing up,Phylicia Rashad (I think I spelled her name wrong)was an excellent example of beautiful,strong,black woman and I could identify with because of her skin color.The media outlets should definitely show more browner,and darker skin women of color.We are some bad women.We all all beautiful no matter how light or dark we are.Women who happen to be browner and darker,hold your head up past high.Others will always try to attack you by speaking ill of your darker complexion.
    The complex has nothing to do with anything but their own self hate issues.You are envied and that is why people TRY to make women of darker complexion’s feel as if their is something wrong with your color when in fact,they wish they had something about you that they dont have.
    What’s so tragic is that women,especially BLACK women are way to quick to tear down another woman to try to make themselves feel good about themselves.
    It is all to easy for us to say something negative about another woman first instead of finding something nice to say.For women who are always talking about another woman and measuring themselves up against another woman superficially,need to grow up.You will not look like you do now forever.More BLACK women need to start supporting each other instead of hurting each other.If your guilty of acting like that,well I suggest you look in the mirror.Because no matter how beautiful you may think you are acting like that,your not,it makes you UGLY and that us the REAL,TRUE definition of AN UGLY WOMAN..No matter if she’s LIGHT SKINNED OR DARKSKINNED.Get over yourselves and show the world how beautiful you really are so REAL men can be PROUD of what they have..

    My new favorite sister is TENEDRA HOWARD.Shes the girl that went on SCREAM QUEENS with not one inch of ACTING CLASS nothing.The only sister on the show and best believe she was catching hell from the rest of the cast.But if any of yall watched that show,She was taking every task learning from them,and making her presence known.Well,she won a part in SAW 6.Tenedra’s strength as a woman,as a black woman was very inspiring.Hello Beautiful should do a story on her.BUILD sisters up and stop tearing each other down.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SweetAngel8098/ SweetAngel8098

    I read on another article that Usher wants to wait until he album comes out then sign them, it’s not about him wanting her back.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kennyd4/ kennyd4

    if there was no prenup then i can see why,but im glad hes got looks and talent and thats about all hes got cause hes has no bus.sense.if he gets burned in the divorce he desrves it,this is one time a black man should’ve listened to his momma.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/misslyricist/ misslyricist

    He probably will sign the papers. I’m sure the delay has something to do with certain conditions that haven’t been met or somebody won’t agree too. Legally they probably have gag orders and can’t speak on it anyway. As far as Tameka being unattractive, i think she’s very attractive. I think some people are used to seeing darker skinned celeb males with the light-brights then it’s an issue when they stray from the society norm.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AnsonSenior/ AnsonSenior

    She’s not attractive not because of her complexion but because she simply has an unattractive facial structure. No one is saying that she isn’t attractive because she is dark. Heck, Tweet is dark and is downright sexy. Kelli Rowland is dark and sexy. However, Tameka is far from sexy. Don’t try to play the “complexion card.”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/pinkyO9491/ pinkyO9491

    I don’t know what all of this is about. But I heard on another gossip site that he doesn’t want to sign the papers until his album release date. I don’t see what his objective is….but whatever. I am just glad that he is divorcing this ole raggedy cougar. He should have listened to his mother and never married her in the first place.

    LOL @ “Tameka wants to move on w/ her life”. Of course you do b***h, you aint got no choice. HE FILED for the divorce so obviously he doesn’t want YOU anymore. It aint that other way around sweetheart.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ttyson32/ ttyson32

    Skin color has nothing to do with her looks. She just isn’t a pretty woman. She is attractive which can make up a lot of things. But his new chick isn’t cute either to say the least. There is an old saying…”Beauty is in the EYE of the BEholder!” He saw something in her and that’s all that matters. SO all the drama about skin tone sounds like a personal problem to some!!

    OH and there still is no justification for a BLACK man and WHITE women other than love!!! Cause if he can’t deal with our strength, skin tone, and who we are as an individual person then his lose !!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/NYCsmoove/ NYCsmoove

    Thank you Blaque_Ivory and CourtneyR…We need more positive and strong black women like you two to speak up against this nonsense that only divides our people. Blaque_Ivory hit it on the nose. How often do we see black celebrities with dark-skinned sisters?…not a whole lot.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bettaholla/ bettaholla

    some of these ppl on here sound worst then a redneck.why u in these ppl business bad mouthing this woman another woman jealous of what she has (usher) same ones talkin big same ones usher would not have..haaaa! so what she is dark so what she older..the beauty is in his eye and he got 2 children with her.she will always be a force in his life to be reckon with..plus she will always be the wife in some form…lmbo..bet the same ppl always he/she hating on me..when u should be the damn sponsor!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2gravy4ya/ 2gravy4ya

    Thats crazy why do a song about it in……It makes u look like a ass..Get it right..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/YOURNAWTEEGIRL/ YOURNAWTEEGIRL

    USHER IS GAY GAY GAY
    WHEN IS THE WORLD GOING TO RECOGNIZE THAT?
    HE LOVES MAN ASS

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Stacy718/ Stacy718

    Life is life and most of us make of it what we can. Many of us w/o the advantages (not saying it’s great, but for many money is an advantage) as they do tend to hold on more…but then again sometimes not. Marriage is a sacred thing and I’m tired of people abusing it. It’s not a relationship when you screw, get tired, then part. It is before a higher being, and for his sake get a grip and respect yourself. Money and fame isn’t the higher being!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/somajor87/ somajor87

    @ blaque_ivory I so agree…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/igotsomebomb420/ igotsomebomb420

    sorry usher but your ex-wife is ugly as f**k she look like a tranny 4real

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TMAC_35000/ TMAC_35000

    There has to be a reasonable explanation behind this. The terms must not be to his liking or something because the man just screamed to the world he was ready to sign them damn papers.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/xXHunny-BunnyXx/ xXHunny-BunnyXx

    She’s a beautiful black woman… Im sure she looks better MOST of y’all’s momma who hate on her.

    Leave her alone…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/german_cutie_13/ german_cutie_13

    Usher is the one who filed for this divorce so I doubt he does not want to sign them. Another waste of time but hey yall who write bout this kinda ish i feel sorry for u cuz yall dont have a life of your own.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/vonnipoo71/ vonnipoo71

    Uhsers ass need to GROW UP and stop playing these childish games! It dont work that way when your married. When you dont get your way you seek help, not stomp your feet and file for divorce! SIGN THE DAMN PAPERS! SMDH

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SUMMER_SO_FINE/ SUMMER_SO_FINE

    Can somebody please validate, what is a pretty woman or handsome man? What exactly validates if you are beautiful or not? What needs to take place on a woman’s or a man’s face for them to be considered significantly ‘good looking’ ? Why is it sooooooo important to black women that black men are dating or marrying women with lighter skin or mixed? If a man doesn’t want to date a woman of a darker complexion SO WHAT! Most of them are not getting married because they love these women, it is a business, a business that if she is mixed, fair skinned/light skinned whatever, have some type of long, flowing hair, has a back ground of money or success, then she is the wife to wed. They then turn around and not only cheat on these women, but put them on display in front of the media and public eyes. Let’s keep it real, who knowsss what goes on in the homes of these celebrity marriages. Not everything that glitters is gold and the dam grass isn’t always green. I would never consider or big up a sister because she is of a darker complexion and is with a celebrity because they are always going for the lighter one’s. LOL! . As if that gives her brownie points or something. Black women deserve recognition no matter. Let God be the judge of how you look because he did it!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Shakka/ Shakka

    how do people occupy their time with this foolishness…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/najaca/ najaca

    I actually believe Tameka. He probably doesn’t like the settlement, because he has to do something he’s reluctant to do. Usher is crazy. He has mother issues that he should deal with first before getting involved with yet another older women. He has an…Oedipus complex, if you ask me.

    He is distancing himself from the own mess he created, but doesn’t like how it’s going down. Just pay-up, crazy dude and get out. Tameka may not be completely innocent, but he was the driver in this fiasco.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/najaca/ najaca

    By the way, people are so into saying that shes ugly. But am I the only one that finds Usher ugly??? He has a tiny head and weird looking nose. Thats all I see when I look at him. Tameka is just a regular black woman, not ugly, not drop dead gorgeous. If Usher was a blue collar guy, he’d be thankful to get her. Its the money that blind women. That dude is ugly.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sagitt_nate/ Sagitt_nate

    Now I aint saying she is a goldigger……Excuse be but Beyonce had the greatest video of all time…lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sagitt_nate/ Sagitt_nate

    Now I aint saying she’s a goldigger……Excuse me but Beyonce had the greatest video of all time…lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blkpuddn/ blkpuddn

    IT’S ALWAYS SAD TO SEE PPL GETTING DIVORCED WHO ONCE REALLY LOVED EACH OTHER. EVEN THO USHER MAY BE DATING SOMEONE OR SEEMS AS IF HE’S MOVED ON WITH HIS LIFE…I DON’T THINK HE REALLY HAS. ALOT OF THE TIMES WHEN PPL BREAK UP & MEET SOMEONE NEW THAT NEW PERSON IS USUALLY THE JUST THE TEMPORARY THING TO GET THEM THRU THEIR LONELY NIGHTS, NOT THE FUTURE. USHER & TAMEKA SHARE CHILDREN & THEIR ALWAYS GONNA BE CONNECTED BECAUSE OF THAT.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/littlebabymia/ littlebabymia

    Awh boo hoo hoo! Sign them damn papers, SDF!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BLACKWALT55/ BLACKWALT55

    WOOOOOOOOW!!! NEW USHER & PARIS HILTON SEXTAPE!!! YES PARIS HILTON PEOPLE!!!!
    http://WWW.BLACKWALT55.COM

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MePhee/ MePhee

    But how did this old lady with baggage shag Usher and get knocked up by him. Dang! You’d think he was to cool to let that happen. Ah well! I guess she’s a P-R-O-F-S-S-I-O-N-A-L! lol!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MUSUIQ/ MUSUIQ

    FROM THE START OF THIS ENTIRE THING I THOUGH IT WAS PHONY AND I STILL DO. I THINK USHER WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING CLAY AIKEN DID. I FEEL TAMEKA WAS THE ONLY WOMAN IN HIS CIRCLE THAT HE COULD TRUST TO HAVR THIS BABY FOR HIM AND COULD MAKE THIS LOOK AS REAL AS PSSOIBLE TO THE PUBLIC. USHER CARRER WAS ALSO NO THERE ANYMORE. SO THEY HAD TO CREATE A STORY AND FROM THE STORY CAME A ALBUM. WHAT A GREAT PLOY. DUH…. CANT YOU GUYS SEE…. IT AINT REAL….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Where_is_my_queen/ Where_is_my_queen

    this fool got me in here soundin like dj kay slay on some “goootdaam!!!” that is one ugly ass woman. i understand you wanna stay away from gold diggers, but how you gon marry a grave digger? and apparently this cat has awful taste in females because the new one look raggedy too! usher need to stop playin and go to the hood, find a bad ass chick who aint a gold digger who will be happy just to be around his ass and he won’t have to worry bout nothin LOL just don’t get her pregnant this time!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chasity_/ chasity_

    get rid of her dont trip

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nanapeppa/ nanapeppa

    first of all, a marriage should be private. secondly, it has to be nurtured. when there are kids and celebrity careers involved it MUST be a TOP priority for a length of time. there are always mistakes to be made and the one made here was the allowing of public media into what should have been an exclusively private affair. from the looks of those photos, usher was happily “in love.” then, along comes “joe public” (no pun intended, but yes, “you’ve got to live and learn”) judging and criticizing his choice in a mate. it’s apparent that usher holds an affinity for the more mature and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. someday he’ll grow into himself and come to realize that his choices are HIS choices, not the public’s nor his fans and that he owes no explanation for them.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ney_ney004/ ney_ney004

    Big ups to him for not Chris Browning her…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sylkiifeather/ sylkiifeather

    wow….you see how black men are so quick to talk down about a black woman (tameka), yet so quick to jump up and defend a white woman (kardashians). i commend usher for even being with her in the first place. because not only is she dark skinned, but she is not the hollywood type of beautiful. and i dont even think she is all that bad looking. she is average…like MOST women out here.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Shamel_/ Shamel_

    I co-sign with sylkiifeather…and this SAGA continues (SMH)!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TMAC_35000/ TMAC_35000

    Even if she did it and she probably did, women are notorious for that type shyt…this still isn’t news worthy.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kellie_18/ kellie_18

    MAN SHE DOWN BAD FOR DAT REAL TALK …SHE NEED TO STOP FIGHTIN FIRE WITH FIRE SHE STILL WANT USHER DAT MEAT WAS GOOD TO HER LOL SHE NEED TO LEAVE DAT MAN ALONE REAL TALK FOR SHE PUSH HIS BUTTONS AND HE BE ANTHOR CHRIS BROWN

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TJ-O-Yea/ TJ-O-Yea

    she ugly

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/misschocolatepeach/ misschocolatepeach

    well some may find this shocking & some may pity either side… but since im a black gal i say it is what it is—his mom told him hell 2 the no & he pissed in this woman anyway (2x’s may i add)—just call this sleeping with the enemy in black folk version or fatal attraction due to a diary of a mad black woman or when a woman fed up it aint nothing u can do about it or damn…let it burn! usher its cheaper 2 keep her but i 4got you dont listen to your own mom so why in the hell would you listen to me!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MEMYSELFANDI97/ MEMYSELFANDI97

    Damn…I will sign the papers for them then…and save them from their own misery. Move on both of you. You never should have married in the first place. Usher — your mama warned you. And besides — you could have done better…because Tameka in my opinion is toe up from the toes up. You put out a song called “Papers” so sign them and move on.

    Let it be about love the next time and not about business or an arrangement..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/momono3/ momono3

    i’d key his car up too for marrying and reproducing with me in order to squash his gay rumors.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LastManStandingTall/ LastManStandingTall

    This is great drama. I love it because it makes me GLAD I’m single (LOL)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sylkiifeather/ sylkiifeather

    yes Shamel…i see bashing this BLACK WOMAN is still continuing…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/24OhSoButtaBaby2009/ 24OhSoButtaBaby2009

    You fools stick stuck in slaverly days or somethin.This shyt ain’t got shyt to do wit race,both of them black.Thats pathetic folks still racist this day and age and actually braggin about it.Cut it out hoes!Lol,i don’t understand,if they been broke up which they have,why decide to f**k up shyt now.Smh,thats not jus a black mofo,thats a dumb,childish mofo,not matter what race you stupid.It ain’t gonna change their situation.Hopefully they learn from this shyt.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsMissyK/ MsMissyK

    I’m glad Usher likes his women with a little color (Chilly & Tameka). That being said, I don’t like how he puts his business in his songs. Only one side will ever be heard and that’s Ushers. Tameka might be psycho and she just might not be, but peeps only wanna hear his side, which he will tell in the studio, on tv and radio interviews. I think he should man up and keep his mouth shut.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Wut_a_Girl_Need/ Wut_a_Girl_Need

    i think drama sell more than sex now days……….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Toni_Anthony/ Toni_Anthony

    Life is WAY to short for the drama, etc. MOVE ON FOLKS! p.s. Please don’t mess those kids up with you guy’s ADULT BS!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SoSoSweet24003/ SoSoSweet24003

    Yanno sum folx just aren’t fully on their grown man or grown woman enuff 2 have kids…n these are 2 of em, ESPECIALLY USHER! These 2 had no business even EFF’n around w/each other. Oh well, keep it F**k’N movin! m~u~@h!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MensaOne/ MensaOne

    There is nothing wrong with the way that Tameka Foster looks. She’s not average, she is very attractive. Something is wrong with Black people who hate/despise their own kind just because they are dark-skinned. What kills me is that apparently, at one time, Usher cared something about this woman and who has something to say about that? Furthermore, shouldn’t there be a male equivalent of a “cougar” since men have been dating women young enough to be their daughters for ages? Why is Tameka a cougar for being 5-8 years older? So, what that she had three kids from a previous marriage? Many unattractive men who date younger women don’t get half this kind of flack. Mary J. Blige’s current husband had three kids from a previous marriage and no one even mentions anything about that. So, I’m sorry ladies, Usher is not that fine of a man for you to be dogging Tameka for her looks. Anyway, what does looks have to do with it when it comes to love? What looks good to one person may not look good to another, but guess what, you don’t have to sleep with them. So, why do you even care?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/momono3/ momono3

    Anyone who thinks Usher is funny looking is not alone. I think he looks like the African Bushmen tribe from that movie “The Gods Must Be Crazy” That nose on Usher is not cute. And his wife is very attractive. I don’t know why she is catching so much heat. Why is it that people can think a woman is attractive, until they find out her age. Then all the sudden she is uggli. Vivica Fox, Janet Jackson, Tweet, Khia,. There ladies are still very attractive. Amd Frankie might be crazy, but come on, she does not look all that bad for her age either. Does any other race tear each other down like we do?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ETHELEAN/ ETHELEAN

    HES A OK GUY BUT HE SHOULD OF GOT WITH TAMEKA ANYWAYS CUZ HE WASNT READY TO BE WITH ONE WOMEN I FEEL BAD FOR U TAMEKA I BET U WISH HE CAME WITH A SIGN THAT SAYS HES NOT THE ONE LOVE UR GIRL NIKKI FROM MILWAUKEE WI

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tay-tay63/ tay-tay63

    That was some little girl mess, Usher would have been better off if he would have talk to a young girl.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Ladyd121/ Ladyd121

    Usher did her wrong so he gets what he deserves.I am on your side Tameka!And yes Tameka is a very pretty woman I read all the time people calling her ugly but why? If Usher married a mixed girl he would have been talked about for that too!Whatever.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsKarmel614/ MsKarmel614

    Tameka complimented Usher! Maybe he is realizing, that you don’t miss what you’ve got, until its gone! So, sad for him!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ladyiska/ ladyiska

    here comes the drama fa sho…wen someone is keyin ur car too many feelings are involved the best thing to do iz do wats right. if ur married then get a divorce and move on or make it work dont stay stuck on stupid thinkin things will fix themselves. if he goin out wit gurls already its a big risk on his end its so disrespectfulll of him and it just meens his all disoriented since he cant wait to leave one to get wit another…get it together usher really aint lookin gud.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LaDawnThEGreaT1/ LaDawnThEGreaT1

    o so let me get this straight.. usher divorced her cause she dark skinned? lmao?!!!!! ok why is that every time they say something in reference to usher and this woman… 90% of the comments posted in regards to the article by all you blk fools is about color? it said…” Tameka keyed-up Usher’s car” not let’s talk about light vs dark skinned.. smh.. damn if u like white meat, be happy enjoy your white meat. if u like dark meat, be happy and enjoy your dark meat.. who gives a fucc.. people stay on topic.. i sat here and read all these comments. and some where for no fuccin related reason, the skin tone card came up. she blk, she ugly, he ugly, blah blah blah.. stfu and comment on the topic and keep your damn insecurities to yourself..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/masculine31/ masculine31

    Homeboy wont sign da divorce papers…WTF! If I was her I would have blown his crib up hahahaha! I doubt very seriously, if she did! Why just scratch it? When u could have done more damage! Usher man up bro…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Vertigo2001/ Vertigo2001

    Damn Usher sign the damn papers!! LOL!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/liteimy03-06-79/ liteimy03-06-79

    IM HAPPY USHER LEFT THAT UGLY ASS CHICK…..I DONT KNOW WHAT HE WAS THINKING WHEN HE SAID”" I DO”" HE SHOULDVE KNOWN SHE WASNT ABOUT S**T WITH ALL THEM DAMMMMMMM KIDS

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Juslysin/ Juslysin

    lady121 how the hell does tameka compliment usher she is like 10yrs older than him, not that pretty and apperantly a drama queen an family wreker. He can do so much better.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Nasty_Tee68/ Nasty_Tee68

    Why do everbody keep sayin Tameka is ugly. She’s not ugly just a older then him, and it shows. But I bet if she was light skinned with hair weave down to her ass and her body all revealing she will b cute right?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2daTopnonStop/ 2daTopnonStop

    Naw nasty_Tee68~ Tameka has hair weave down her back and still is a drag queen runner up~

    She has a big manly jaw bone, big man hands, and looks like a lunberjack in high fashion~ lightskin would make her look like a highyellow dragqueen runner up~

    What he needs to do is set up video camera of her manly ass hopping those fences like a Jamacian tracstar and send it in to TMZ!!! That’ll show her~

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/momono3/ momono3

    T.I can do better: Usher can do better: Better according to whom? T.I is fine, but maybe he got the eenie weinie chili beanie that won’t fit up in nothing less than a little 4’11 woman. Or maybe he got what he want, regardless of who thinks what. And Usher, with his squinty eyes, baseball sized head and flat nose, looks just like somebody newborn baby picture. Every picture he takes look like he should be wearing that little powder blue flannel suit with his wrinkled wrists balled up to his chest.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Khadyah/ Khadyah

    Tameika is Beautiful and Usher is fine as hell. Stop the Hate!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sylkiifeather/ sylkiifeather

    again….you people on here who keep bashing this BLACK woman need to really stop that dumb a$$ sh*t. calling her ugly when that woman is NOT ugly. she might not look like some model that usher could bag, but she looks like the average woman. if you were to see tameka in your own neighborhood…you might not want to sleep with her, but you wouldnt necessarily think she was such an ugly woman. but because she is with usher, she automatically is labeled as ugly just because she doesnt have hollywood beauty. smh @ black people who are quick to bash a black woman, yet so quick to support white women (kardashians).

    ps…..usher is not that good looking…….and if he were not famous and you saw him in your neighborhood, you wouldnt necessarily think he deserves better than tameka.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mixedcutechique/ mixedcutechique

    The old bat needs to grow up, move on and get a life, SMH poor excuse for a woman in every aspect.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Gods_chosenman/ Gods_chosenman

    What did Big Momma say on “A Thin Line Between Love And Hate” …A night of passion can bring you a lifetime full of pain. Usher should have watched that movie.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/momono3/ momono3

    So when you cross age 40 you are an uggli old bat? Good Lord, your mother’s must be hideous. And what are you going to do when you reach that age, do our eyes a favor and crawl in a hole? Some of the most beautiful women in the world are over age 40, and looking better than some of you. Get a grip! If you think that is too old to live, do us all a favor and blow your own head off on your 40th birthday.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Hellokitty111/ Hellokitty111

    They BOTH need to grow up and act like adults for the sake of the kids, they both are too worried about their own feelings that they are probably screwing up their own kids. It happens alot with parents who aren’t together, they get upset about so and so dating so and so or they don’t want em anymore, GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON! No wonder why we have so many problems in this world people don’t know how to stop worrying about their feelings and start worrying about the welfare of their kids.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2gravy4ya/ 2gravy4ya

    It’s all about the kids not them they both need help if u ask me…..She need to go her way he need to go his but they have to have a positive relationship because of the kids…nothing other…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    ummm, who cares???

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/trytruluv/ trytruluv

    20 looks like Joe Tory

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BrownBomber247/ BrownBomber247

    It appears that sthis chick was too much for him, possibly the maturity levels differed and she was “boss”. I don’t perceive accepting anyone running his life except Usher. She also looked alot older and he is still in his prime and the pickings are great. Move on, pay the alimony for a year or two and child support until adulthood, it’s worth the peace of mind.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bettaholla/ bettaholla

    WHATEVER!!!!USHER CALING THE POPO TO GAS YA’LL UP! NOT I,HE TRYING TO MAKE THEM NEXT ALBUM SALES TOP OF THE LINE AND FROM THE LOOKS OF IT HE SHALL..NOT BUYING!!NOPE NADA!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bettaholla/ bettaholla

    SEEMS TO ME USHER THE IMMATURE ONE..THAT’S WHY HE ALWAYS MAKING SONGS ABOUT HOW MUCH OF A SCREW UP HE IS, BUT MAKE IT SEEMS LIKE HE THE INNOCENT ONE..MEN DON’T GOSSIP WOMAN DO! STILL LOVE HIS MUSIC BUT I KNOW THE DEFINITION OF A FAN..SOME GET SO TIGHT OVER A STARS LIFE THEM SEEM TO FORGET THEY ARE JUST A FAN NOT FAM!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/momono3/ momono3

    Usher is playing games. Tameka needs to just sit back and wait. Don’t fall into Usher and his momma’s games. The truth will come out!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Ms_LadyLuv30/ Ms_LadyLuv30

    It’s obvious, Usher has found a new play thing. Now the question I would like answered is..when will he get rid of it? And looking at the photo of the new chick…she looks just as old as Tameka. She’s lighter and has a bigger nose (so what). He apparently thought Tameka was pretty enough to bear his children. Did he treat Tameka with respect throughout their marriage??? Bottom line is Usher should’ve waited for the divorce to be final before galavanting out in public with his newby.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ALANIA4/ ALANIA4

    You know what. Usher made a mistake marrying an old bitty that think she is in her twenties. Usher should have listened to his mom about her and he would not be in this predictament. Usher is a fine young man and can get any woman he wants bottom line is though that he should stick with women his on age and he won’t have no problems

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Azrael3/ Azrael3

    Alania4,

    Are you fuc king kidding me? Tameka is not even that old….Bytch, try looking as good as she when you get that age. You young bytches kill me; if anyone is more than five years older than you, that person is old. Get a f**king clue.

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