Kareem,

Is it okay to make unannounced visits to my boyfriend’s house after not seeing or hearing from him for a certain period of time?

Kareem says,

I wonder how long you have not seen or heard from him? He’s not answering phone calls or emails? Have you heard from his friends or family? If not, I suggest going to his house. Maybe something is awry. But be mentally prepared to deal with whatever you may find. Good, Bad, or Ugly.

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