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Charles Phillips "billboard."

The president of one of the world’s largest tech firms made his debut this week on a huge Times Square billboard – but it’s not for some new product.

YaVaughnie Wilkins who had an eight-and-a-half year affair with the married President of Oracle software purchased at least three Manhattan billboards in an attempt to shame the man. She put up the ads after he stopped seeing her and reconciled with his wife.

Ads showing Charles Phillips posing with his mistress, with the quote “‘You are my soulmate forever!’ – cep” have been posted at the corners of 45th Street and Third Avenue, 49th Street and 7th Avenue, 52nd Street and Broadway – as well as locations in Atlanta and San Francisco.

The billboards include the web domain charlesphillipsandyavaughniewilkins.com, which is now down, but was a photo site comprised of “snaps of the duo vacationing, dancing, drinking and singing karaoke” as well as scans of “dozens of florists cards signed ‘Charles’ bearing messages like ‘I’m sorry, please forgive me’ and ‘We’re going to have a great life, stick with me.” See the photos below!

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Yesterday, Phillips’ publicist issued this statement on behalf of the 50-year-old software executive: “I had an 8½-year serious relationship with YaVaughnie Wilkins. My divorce proceedings began in 2008. The relationship with Ms. Wilkins has since ended and we both wish each other well.”

ClearChannel has refused to say who purchased the ads, but the tabloid estimates that the “very public humiliation campaign may have cost Wilkins upwards of $250,000.” The web designer who created the photo site claims Wilkins paid him “about $1,400″ in August, and he thought the site was supposed to be a gift for Phillips.

Read more at NY Daily News & Gothamist

You know the saying: Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

Did he get what he deserved? Or did she overreact?

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Holyghostgirl24/ Holyghostgirl24

    WOW I bet a few other women would love to do that! Babygirl put it out there! lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Toni_Anthony/ Toni_Anthony

    My Goodness? He’s been milking that cow for 8 years? Why is she upset? She allowed herself to be used & taken advantage of! Girl’s when a married/attached man comes at me, I laugh in his face BUT IF he’s cute? At best I’ll play a COW at least once & send his A** moving! It’s one sad person who believes he/she need’s to cheat BUT I’m happy single. Some People like being able to have their Cake, Jello, Cookies all while playing a role of being committed? PLEASE!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Splash_Waters253/ Splash_Waters253

    Lmaooooooooooo! Damn now that is what you call ‘sweet revenge’!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/broke_as_ajoke/ broke_as_ajoke

    he sure didn’t feed her much.. poken bean slim

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CeJai1970/ CeJai1970

    She was dead wrong! She knew the RULES OF ENGAGEMENT when she decided to battle for the affections of a married man! Eight year? Married man? Come on now! Nobody can force an adult woman to be in a relationshp of that nature, for eight years WITHOUT her receiving extra benefits.

    Over the years I can assume that he said somethings to her to encourage her to stay and she tossed out a few ultimatiums here and there. Putting her lover on blast like that is not only in bad taste, it makes her look bitter, down right evil, and inmature!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexynickey/ sexynickey

    Wow, I’m speechless.. Like I told my husband’s mistress, make him get that divorce first before you mess with him. 8 1/2 years and no divorce? She did it to herself. Oh well, on to the next.. She wasted $250,000 for some posters?? Uh if you wanna give your money away honey, I’m taking donations.

    Thank you.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    broke_as_ajoke, LMAO@ ‘poken bean slim

    250 big ones and we are in a recession? She made herself look stupid…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Mimiboo_15/ Mimiboo_15

    SHE WASTED ALL THAT MONEY…COULDA BOUGHT HER A CONDO OR SOMETHING PUT A DOWN PAYMENT ON A CAR…HER LOSE..IM JUST GLAD HE DIDNT CHEAT ON HIS WIFE WITH A MAN…BUT TO EACH ITS OWN….NOW MOVE ON YO YO LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/UnderStandinMan/ UnderStandinMan

    See he could have gotten out of that. That could been a picture that he took at a party.

    But now she will never have anyone. That was immature of her. See she dont know how to play the game. Now to hurt him she hurt herself just to get revenge.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Inquisitve89/ Inquisitve89

    very immature right but she is hurt…everyone has played the fool before. Easier to judge when you are the one looking in. SMH! Hey thats what happens when you mess with a married man.

    Ladies you are not the exception…you are the rule!

    Watch the movie he is just not that into you…!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/UnderStandinMan/ UnderStandinMan

    Well It is like this Why would she want something that is not hers. See she want to get upset because she is not getting what the main is getting. That what trip me out. Why u trying to replace someone that is already have roots. She just wanted it easy. She saw that he is marriage material, house, family, good job, and can hold his own.

    She let all that go to her head and dont want to go to the good and bad with him. She was seeing the sweet life and dont know what is behind it

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dutchesof3/ dutchesof3

    THATS WHAT SHE GET FOR WASTING 8 1/2 YEARS WITH ANOTHER WOMANS HUSBAND. SHE DUMB. DONT HATE THE PLAYER HATE THE GAME BYTCH.

  • http://www.ubervu.com/conversations/hellobeautiful.com/your-world/danielle-cheesman/mistress-puts-married-man-on-blast-via-billboards/ uberVU – social comments

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Ladyd121/ Ladyd121

    She is the stupid one so she had an affair so she vacationed spent some of his cash up and then hung up some posters but in the end did she get the man? NO LOL! You stupid b***h go find your own man if I was his wife I’d have given you an ass whoopin to remember now put that on a billboard you lonely s**t!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsLady2208/ MsLady2208

    ROTF!!!!! DAM!!!!!…..WELL HE GOT WHAT HE DESERVE(FOR PLAYIN WITH HER EMOTIONS) N SO DID SHE(FOR FALLIN IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED OR SOMEONE ELSE MAN).SO NOBODY GAINED ANYTHING.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1GrayGal/ 1GrayGal

    While it may be somewhat embarrassing for him, it makes her look completely pathetic. Didn’t her mama teach her the facts of life….1. Married men never leave their wives for their mistress. 2. Why buy the cow when you get the milk free. 3.A man never respects a woman who doesn’t respect herself. And to top it all off, after eight years of unethical behavior, his job and his wife seem to still have open arms for him. His wife is either really stupid…or really smart (cashing them checks and getting her some on the side.) LOL!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/affropuffs/ affropuffs

    That’s really low… she’s only making herself look so terribly sad! She can have fun trying to get a date now in her town! Men aren’t gonna touch her with a 20 foot pole! A waste of money and a major mistake that she’s gonna regret for years to come… sad… sad…sad….

  • http://www.axipe.com/2010/01/what-she-knew/ What She Knew | AXI

    [...] Mistress Puts Married Man On Blast Via Billboards | Hello BeautifulShe was dead wrong! She knew the RULES OF ENGAGEMENT when she decided to battle for the a… [...]

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/enu919/ enu919

    well she might not have depending on what she believed was going on. I’m writing a book about this topic, this stuff is searious business. People fail to realize while they situation may be able to be controlled human emotions can’t be! check me out at theconservativew***e.com

  • http://www.nardu.com/what-she-knew/ What She Knew – Nardu

    [...] Mistress Puts Married Man On Blast Via Billboards | Hello BeautifulShe was dead wrong! She knew the RULES OF ENGAGEMENT when she decided to battle for the affections of a married man! Eight year? Married man? Come on now! Nobody can force an adul… [...]

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsSqueezem/ MsSqueezem

    OH MY…………..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dottie_03/ dottie_03

    I AGREE WITH AFFROPUFFS..BUT HEY WHATEVER

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Deletha_J/ Deletha_J

    lmao… was it really worth it and they not even together. dumb b*tch. what a waste of time and money.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tian10/ tian10

    My girlfriend is having an affair with a married man. She is being used and he is not going to leave his wife & kids. What really is stupid, all of these women/mistresses think that they are getting money, Jewelry, bills paid etc out of these men but, their wives & children come first in most cases. You see my friend is getting her bills paid but yet this man brought his wife a brand new 2010 Phantom car worth a half of million. So who’s losing out? I know this man wife who is not a friend to me but an associate. We only say hi and bye in passing. I feel really bad that my friend is doing this but what comes around go around and you reap what you sow. Nothing good will come out of this!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1FlyyEffortlessly/ 1FlyyEffortlessly

    well d d d d dammmmm lol they both sorry he wrong n she simple

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Imtheman26/ Imtheman26

    I THOUGHT THAT WAS BARRACK OBAMA IN SOME THOSE PICS!! LOL

    BUT U KNOW THAT WOMEN LOVE CHASING MARRIED MEN BECAUSE THEY FEEL THE WOMAN GOT SOMETHING THAT THEY DONT HAVE.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SEXYassNEO/ SEXYassNEO

    UM DON’T YOU KNOW NOT MATTER WHAT HE SAY OR DO, IT WILL ALWAYS BE CHEAPER TO KEEP HER? AND YOU JUST THE SIDE WOMAN AND HOW DID YOU LAST THAT LONG WOW YOU WERE A LONELY WOMAN. YOU WAS TO PLAY HIM GET WHAT YOU WANTED AND LEAVE HIM, NOT LET HIM PLAY YOU AND THEN LEAVE YOU. BUT THE WAS COOL WHAT YOU DID PROPS TO YOU, DID YOU MAKE SURE IT CAME OUT HIS POCKET OR DID YOU PAY FOR IT, THAT WOULD BE THE BIGGEST PAYBACK.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DaintyJen/ DaintyJen

    yea that was smart–show the world that you are a proud sideline-ho!…LMAO there you go…putting so much trust in these “tricks” and then get surprised when they play games. Mess with a trick–expect nothing but tricks&games.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Bornn2winn/ Bornn2winn

    Eight and a half years is a long time! This guy was a millionaire and he was telling her he loved her and couldnt live without her and everything else. From the pictures that were released, they traveled, he probably bought her gifts and he did the flowers. He begged her to come back, so obviously she had left him. He told her he was getting a divorce. Women are on here are attacking this lady. The majority of you know good and damn well even if you didnt wait 8 1/2 years on this guy, you would have seriously thought about the s**t. I see this everyday in life women dating married men who claim they are getting divorced and these men are not even millionaires. Men are doing it too with married women. So please stop the fronting.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LaRe82/ LaRe82

    Lol. I love it. This is so passive aggressive it’s hilarious. I’m not judging her. He played his part just like she did. I doubt that her dating life is over like some of you say, the only people who would know the situation are thier friends, colleagues, and family, and the rest of us who are bored at home and just came across the story. To anyone else it just appears to be a romantic gesture. And trust me, none of us will remember her 6 months from now. And if she spent 250,000 she probably has a few mil stashed and that’s just spending money to her. So, do what you do girl. lol. And let us not be so judgemental because we all make eff’d up decisions at one point or another.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LastMoor/ LastMoor

    Wow!
    It is unfortunate that everyone has to suffer however we reap what we sow. Who knows how much the crop will yeild when we sow? Neither of them seemed to care about the wife or children if there are any; this is very sad ;-(
    He is the most guilty but God is not finished, she is next.

    My advice : fellas we should spend our spare time and money on healing and enhancing our marriages instead of cheating on our wives.
    LastMoor

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/damassager/ damassager

    This was totally dumb on her part, really immature and vindictive…serves no gain, she looks like a very spiteful person that entered into a relationship with a MARRIED man and expected to take him away, that is very moralistic on her part! LOL In addition, she is ruining her dating opportunities in the future, who wants to date someone who is capable of putting you on blast in front of the world, thats a big negative.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BlkSuperHero928/ BlkSuperHero928

    250k could buy her a young single man to rent since she’s so crazy and fu-ugly to have to settle for a married man. What a stupid b***h, and a stupid guy for cheating on his wife with the lost cast member of the muppets.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Babsfash/ Babsfash

    WOW!! thas a lot of money spending on rubish…….Please Repent… the Kingdom of God is at hand…u foks that are still out there indulging on such unholl alliance Repent!! whatever a man soeth he shall reap….Galatian 6:7……..REPENT, REPENT, REPENT!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Miles_Alexander/ Miles_Alexander

    It’s really incredible how STUPID WOMEN CAN BE.

    THE RULES OF THE GAME IS:

    IF YOU GOING TO CHEAT DON’T LIE TO THE CHICKENHEAD.

    Rich/Middle Class/ Poor Men can cheat everyday of the week.
    If she thought this would mess him up business wise, she really is brainless.

    Now what “white man”, cause you know she’s going there, is going to want to deal with a woman like this.

    Alot of folks react without thinking things through, and a mad black woman ain’t thinking.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BabiSista12/ BabiSista12

    So not only is she stupid for messing with a married man for 8 1/2, she decided to actually show the world she was stupid. Wow…. She could have at least kept the stupidity behind closed doors.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mrfun1958/ mrfun1958

    She is just another stupid _ _ _ female.They allow their emotions to dictate to them which causes them to do stupid things. If a person messes with a married person you are asking for trouble. I hope his marriage works out to really humiliate her, I have absolutely no sympathy for her. Now her second biggest challenge is trying to find another mate. She didn’t put him on blast but only herself.S T U P I D.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/divagiva43/ divagiva43

    Ladies when u choose 2 f**k a man thatz married or in a relationship,your telling him your accepted the situation.
    F**kin wit married men is a gamble with your heart.
    She wasted her money!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Angilix/ Angilix

    How many times have women heard this cliche. “There’s no future with a married man.”
    Oddly enough you could often pull a married woman out of her marriage. Not saying you should.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/pinkie75/ pinkie75

    How childish to try and humiliate that man like that. She only made herself look bad. The man went back to his wife and she needs to get over it. If she was smart she should have told him to get a divorce instead of staying with him three years knowing damn well he was married. What a dumbass.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/pinkie75/ pinkie75

    My bad, eight 1/2 years, she’s still stupid as hell.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/greywolf5/ greywolf5

    Well, I’m glad to see that most of the women on this thread are able to admit that Ms. Wilkins is a quart low. I get so tired of women getting involved with a married man and somehow she becomes a victim when he doesnt leave his wife for her and to make matters worse other women offer her support. The only victims here are this man’s wife ( provided she wasn’t chetaing too) and their children…If I were a single man and still prone to prowling the clubs, I’d stake out a good hunting ground, buy myself a wedding band, take a picture with an attractive woman and 2 kids, get clean as a Safeway chitlin and sit at the bar by myself. I’d do this at the same club for about 3 weeknds and I’ll bet you that before the month was over I’d be offered more azz than a public toilet. To all of you out there sleepin/slippin around with marrried men, NOW HEAR THIS!!! You are a diversion! You are a disposable source of excitement that can be replaced as soon as you wake up to the truth. You can’t allow yourself to fall in love with someone who belongs to someone else! You cant’ allow yourself to get pregnant by a married man! And if you do sleep with a married man YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM!!!!! And no one with any sense cares about your POV!

    Sistahs ya’ll need to have a meetin! Ya’ll need to make a promise to and among yourselves that no matter how much $$$ he has, no matter how fine he is, no matter how lonely you are, THAT ADULTERY (especially against another black woman) IS NOT ACCEPTABLE! I’ve seen single sistahs disrespect married sistahs in dozens of ways.

    For some reason as soon as you get married, women start comin at you like you’re Baskin & Robbins latest flavor. Its crazy and it creates tiny little tears in the fabric of that relationship, especially if the guy is: a)young; b) got married out of guilt, shame, too proud/afraid to change his mind; c) has a zipper problem; and d) is trying real hard to make the best of a bad situation.

    I know that some of you say “Well men come at us too” I won’t argue with that…But it SEEMS that men have the most problem with straying. Just like ya’ll SEEM to have the most problem of falling in love with someone who doesn’t belong to you…SISTAHS,this is an epidemic which ya’ll can wipe out in 1 generation. TEACH YOURSELVES AND YOUR DAUGHTERS THAT A MARRIED MAN IS SOMEONE ELSE’S MAN!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Inspired2/ Inspired2

    alot of you are calling her stupid. why? he said what she wanted to hear and she believed it. men know if they say the right thing (for that women) that they can get what they want. women can say and do the right thing and they can get what they want. 8 years really isnt that long when you both have very busy careers. they are not working 20hours a week for the big bucks, so meet here and there, vacations here and there, 8years later you get dumped. she should have got him before he got her. we believe what Bush said for 8 years!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/doing_me74/ doing_me74

    That dude was stupid because if I got that kind of power in society I’m not trusting no women its all thinking Im doing on my part for feminism its so easy for a women to destroy a mans life.Now the fool got to pay like a trick to the pimp government an the ho(the women who cheated with him)go free while the wife gets payed like a ho breaking a trick an the pimp still wins at the end witch is the government.That dude a fool for cheating with all that power.How you going to be a making money like that an slip in the game

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/aprilnette28/ aprilnette28

    This chick waited around 8 a half years for this man to leave his wife and when he didn’t she wasted a quater of a million dollars trying to embarass him?!? She is stupid! She should’ve used that money to educate herself and move as fair away from the situation as she could. I’m pretty sure the wife already knew he was having an affair and chose to look the other way smdh

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mesearching4ago2girl/ mesearching4ago2girl

    WOW she is hurt

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MzJamaica83/ MzJamaica83

    Miss Wilkins, please ask yourself did I really embarrass him or did I just prove to the world that I am a dumb ass? Not only did you spend 8 and a half years with this man, you spent 250k on garbage. Wipe your tears, pull your skirt back down, and keep it moving. Now spend 500k throwing yourself a pity party. In Attendence: 1

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Audrey304/ Audrey304

    WOW!!! She got caught up in the money and or the thought of having the money. Listen in reality she wasn’t thinking because if she were she would know “it is cheaper to keep her”. This man is a millionaire and to divorce his wife who would get half of his worth for someone who has what? Think women, think.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MzJamaica83/ MzJamaica83

    Mr. Phillips, this is what happens when you play with someone’s emotions. Did you really think she wouldn’t be angry after you told her for years to ‘hang in there and stick with me’? Men: mean what you say, and say what you mean, and Ladies: please allow your heart to hear what your brain is saying. We are all victims of our bad choices.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/alwaysadiva3/ alwaysadiva3

    She could have taken that money and put it towards a really nice house (maybe got onto House Hunters on HGTV) and then found HER OWN MAN……..THAT WASN’T MARRIED!!!!!!

    8 1/2 years and he never left his wife? HHHHHEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOO!!!! WOW, do we still have our heads in the sand like that? Men will only do what we ALLOW them to do. We allow and accept this type of behavior, this is what happens….

    Let’s keep it moving YaVaughnie

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/miche_miche/ miche_miche

    I really don’t see the point of renting 3 large billboards to defame or embarrass a married man that she willing entered into a relationship with. And from some of the cards it sounds as if she left and went back a few times. I watched good friends go through this. I don’t know how this woman’s story began, but both of friends we led to believe their guy was single.

    When friend A found out he was married she told him to get gone, after she tried to collect $5 grand. Friend B was not so lucky. She dated this guy for years. He met his wife AFTER her and kept his condo and continued to live as a single man. His friend’s girlfriend finally told her the truth just before Christmas a few years back. It was horrible. She was expecting a ring and everything. Obviously she was devastated when she found out.

    After months of his begging and pleading, she took him back! Well you can only guess what happened! Flash forward two years and he was still married & engaged to her. A hot mess! She finally woke up and left him. But not after seeking revenge. She sent a box of cards & photos to his “other” house & demanded money from him. We told her that she was wrong to send the box to his home. His wife did not deserve that. And to remember that she went back voluntarily knowing he was married. Not a good look!

    Once you decide to willingly enter into an affair, not a relationship, with a married man you are just as copable as he is. If he is telling you he’s getting a divorce then tell him to call you when his divorce is final! But women don’t do this, why? Because deep in the dark recesses of the mind that woman knows he will move on & find a woman that will accept his cheating ways. So why should she let the next woman have what he is willing to offer her? Selfish, greedy and no self respect, that why. Humans are selfish by nature. That’s the way God designed us.

    It’s only when we truly come to recognize the gift of sacrifice that Jesus paid for our sins that we begin to move away from our selfish & wicked ways. Not to get on a Christian soapbox, but we don’t have it in ourselves to do the right thing. Our moral compass is led by our flesh. And our flesh is selfish & weak. Just look at this situation, he did want he wanted for his own selfish reasons and so did she. Once he decided to go back to his wife, again selfish, she decided to expose him, selfish.

    As long as humans continue live by the desires of our flesh selfish wicked deeds will abound. Prostituion & mistresses will continue to exist. Rapist & pedophiles will continue to pray on others. Robbings & killings will never cease. That is just to name a few selfish calamaties that are ongoing in this world. All of these things are fueled by each persons selfish desires to do what they want, even if it harms another human being.

    God is love. When you love others the way God loves us there’s no way you give in to your own selfish desires to hurt another person. You put the needs of your loved ones before own.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/miche_miche/ miche_miche

    Not to mention what amount of good she could have done with that money! Oh wait, that would have been a selfless deed! Never mind, where was my head?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BreBuffalo/ BreBuffalo

    This YaYaunie is a real dumb bunny every way you look at it.
    If that was her money that she used, dumb. Why use your money for that and lose?

    If a company paid for this to have her advertise their services, fine in the sense she did not have to pay for it.

    NEXT, for her to put herself out there is really bad. Yeah, it was payback to him for not divorcing his wife while he was having a years long affair with her.
    Yeah, it is a little embarrassing for him and for his wife. They will recover from it. I think the wife is silly for staying with him. Find someone to give you what you need and want as a person and be respected as a person.NOW, some marriages are opne, If theirs is an open marriage, fine. Whatever rocks your world.

    This is really bad for Yayainue. This is worst for her. She looks worst. You had an affair with a married guy for a few years and now you are angry because he did not marry you.
    He was an honest liar. He told you he was married. He told you ya’ll were having an affair.
    He is a lair and cheater and no prize.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/FirstDowns/ FirstDowns

    miche_miche is correct. It is in our nature to sin or to put it more bluntly in our DNA. We who are on the outside looking in says how stupid people are for allowing themselves to be put in stupid situations or why people cause harm to one another. But the majority of these same people who wonder why, does the same thing at some point of time in their lifetime without even consciously realizing it until after the fact. Including myself. We must constantly fight to stay on the straight and narrow. This is why we must constantly strive to be in God’s light to reverse this DNA affect. Something like preventive maintenance.

    Another quick example. Have you wondered why it’s so easy to gain weight and get out of shape? It’s because we don’t eat correctly and mainly a lack of exercise. When you take preventive meaures like exercise 5 to 6 days a week you get back in shape. It’s just hard to get on that path. So when you try to live your life after Christ on a daily basis it’s easier to stay away from sin.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ohsofabma19/ ohsofabma19

    Hahahaha…. that is too funny.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/goofy_85/ goofy_85

    I don’t feel sorry for neither one of them. They knew EXACTLY! what game they were playing, and they both got burned at the end. She knew he was married, he knew the consequences down the line; and KARMA is a BIG B***H! lmao! ok!?! Because two wrongs damn sure don’t make it right. And if she think pulling this s**t is a way of getting sympathy or pity!?! Then she definitely got life messed up! For real! Breaking your neck and going out of your way just to humiliate another person!? Dumbass is an understatement for her. She not just salty cause’ he went back to his wife, but the fact she can’t have that money now…just another silly, delusional, dysfunctional hoe that TRIED to have something she couldn’t have in the first damn place. Tricks are definitely for kids! lol! cause this is a wake up call for her ass to grow the hell up.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/3SOP/ 3SOP

    Wake, coffee, smell! I’m sure that if she spent that kinda money, she got it from him. The man is the President of Oracle Software, can you say billionaire? That’s with a “B”. Either way, she knew he was married when she hooked up with him, and she got played. No sugar coating it, she was the a place holder ala the chick on the side. Nothing more, nothing less.

    Don’t care if he lied to her, I’m sure he wasn’t the first man to do it. After 8.5 years and he didn’t marry her, as they say on ESPN, “C’mon man!”

    She thought she was hittin’ lotto, when she was only gettin’ hit. Maybe she should’ve been asking him for a refferal instead of putting up a billboard. Guess what, HE STILL DON’T CARE! Peace and hair grease, get sum!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Butterfly9481/ Butterfly9481

    I’m with 3SOP! She knew he was married and should know that very few men are going to leave their wives and IF they do, why would she want him? If he left his wife for her, he will leave her for someone else. He was just getting some extra curricular activities until he reconciled with his wife. He should sue her! She is just a stupid “Disgrunted Booty Call” that has been dropped! I’m quite sure she could of used that money more wisely.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/4merHorse06/ 4merHorse06

    Saying this woman is dumber than a box of rocks is Understatment of the Century. She hooks up with a married man & after a year he doesn’t make any moves to divorce? And then she STAYS with him for EIGHT YEARS? And now she’s renting billboards ’cause he went back to his wife (the one who LEGALLY has everything & if she’s like some sisters will run him through He11 before he ever gets busy with her)? What, the billboards are gonna shame him into leaving his wife? Naw, they say “Look at me, world. See what a low-esteem…make that NO-esteem easy spare pu22y DUMB trick b!tch I am”.

    Girlie shouldn’t be mad, she should face facts: SHE GOT PLAYED LIKE SOMETHING NEEDING NO TRAINING, SKILL OR INSTRUCTIONS!!! And spending $250K on billboards… sh!t, she could have took that 250 & bought her some d!ck instead of playing Spare Tire.

    Also, she’s posted herself with the billboards to every thinking brother in the U.S; She ain’t the one you want to get with, no way, no how. If there’s all-out nuclear war she ain’t the one. If you see her headed your way, run away…with a urgent, extreme quickness.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/UnrestricKtedDreamz/ UnrestricKtedDreamz

    LMAO @ the whole thing!!! That’s why you DONT get involved with married men…there’s a reason he married HER! Even if things get rocky, a man will always go back to his heart…clearly if he intended on it really being over with is wife he’d have done so well before 8.5 yrs! When will these people learn…stop fooling with married men…no “I’m seperated” or “I’m going thru a divorce” …if he can’t show you the final divorce papers…keep it moving!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/KayPB_04/ KayPB_04

    He was married she knew that!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Hellokitty111/ Hellokitty111

    And i don’t want to hear anything NOW about white women and black men or a black man cheating with a white woman blah blah blah…….cause SEE it goes both ways (even though alot of folks already know it do)…..so this woman isn’t any smarter than the white women who had affairs with Tiger…..this woman is just as dumb as the others because who stays in a relationship for 8 years, come on 8 years….divorces don’t take THAT long. So what she expect? I don’t feel sorry for her nor do i feel sorry for him! They both are dumb! Thats why you don’t mess with a married man cause your feelings are gonna get hurt and who knows if he is truley telling you the truth, and man should know better because a scorned woman will do anything……

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Thick_CaliSuga/ Thick_CaliSuga

    As far as I’m concerned she has no right to be upset because he decided to return to his wife. No self-respecting woman would knowingly date a married man, especially for over 8 years. If anything, the wife should have been the one posting billboards of her in SF, NY & ATL with the words “HOME WRECKER” splattered across it.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ebonyjo39/ ebonyjo39

    Geeez! Its funny and continuously crazy how people post before reading the whole story. Everyone bashing at her when the article stated at the end clearly! ClearChannel refuse to say who actually paid for that billboard ad. It could have been the man’s wife, another advertising company or clearly ClearChannel trying to make a buck or two, for Christ Sake! It’s clearly odd, how people post before analyzing the whole picture, before thinking and judging maybe the wrong person in spending $250K. She may have been stupid to play herself with this man, but spending $250K of her money, I don’t think women are that stupid to do such a thing to literately spend $250 on paper please, think people. and If it is true what a shame, at least it’s not our money. ;o)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bubbles_kiwi/ bubbles_kiwi

    ALL I READ ON HERE IS EVERY1 TALKING ABOUT HOW DUMB SHE WAS AFTER TWO OR MORE YEARS SHE WAS NO LONGER HIS MISTRESS SHE WAS HIS GIRL AND HOW DO WE KNOW WHAT HE WAS TELLING HER DONT NONE OF US KNOW WHAT WENT ON I BELIEVE THAT HE WAS GOING TO BE WITH HER HE REALIZED DURING HIS DIVORCE PROCEEDINGS THAT ITS CHEAPER TO KEEP HIS WIFE BECAUSE HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH YA’VAUGHNIE WAS SO OUT THERE NO1 IS GOING TO TELL ME THAT HIS WIFE DIDNT KNOW ABOUT THEM AND SOME1 WITH THE SUCCESS THAT HE HAS AND COMMITTING ADULTRY HIS WIFE WILL GET HALF OF EVERYTHING PLUS ALIMONY SO LIKE I SAID ITS CHEAPER TO KEEP HER AS JOHNNY TAYLOR SAYS IF SHES DUMB THAN SO IS HIS WIFE FOR TAKING HIM BACK BECAUSE I KNOW I WOULDNT AFTA HE HAS BEEN WITH ANOTHA FEMALE THAT LONG AND HAVING SEX AND ALL THAT COMES WITH THAT NO SIR

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/breidelmarcia/ breidelmarcia

    When you play with fire. You get burnt. This goes for both of them!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MrFocus/ MrFocus

    @bubbles_kiwi, ever heard of punctuation and caps lock?

    Anyway, who else thinks Phillips looks like Prince Paul?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BabyPhat236/ BabyPhat236

    I’m going have to agree with greywolf5 and me myself? I never dated a married man believe or not but I know Yavaughnie was hurt but still that was between her and Charles not the rest of the USA. I’m not going to excuse Charles for his behavior either, none of this wouldn’t have happened if he would’ve left Yavaughnie alone and stayed with his wife and now she’s put him on blast by that billboard but anyway like I said that Yavaughnie shouldn’t have done that. She’s just going to have to accept that he’s going to work things out with his wife and should’ve known he wasn’t going to leave her and he better be lucky his wife forgave him or else she wouldn’t taken HALF of what he got in divorce court

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bigdogjerry/ bigdogjerry

    If gold diggers was a group she be the face of it. Plus she have great marketing talent

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/marc6272/ marc6272

    Okay speaking from RECENT experience, this woman is CRAZY!

    8 plus years is a long time to be with someone without knowing something about him and you did. HE WAS MARRIED! Know your role and stay in your lane.

    He was probably feeling her for some years just as she he. But, things happen. People break up all the time. At some point he told her he was married or she found out, don’t matter. What does matter is what you do with the information. YOU made the decision to stay in the relationship. Again I say, know your role and stay in your lane.

    Why do women what to claim they are so hurt and scorned when a guy decides to choose someone else? For 8 years things were good or somewhat. You reaped some benefits and so did he (I looked at the pics). So she broke up at least once and went back to him. So what’s her beef?

    What, he lied to you? Ok a few lies would have to be told in order to spend all that time with you. I don’t condone any of this, but people do what they do for many reasons. Did he hit you? Did he steal from you? Did he rape you? Did he have a drug habit? I know I hear this one alot. “He wasted 8 years of my life.” Looking at the pictures and the letters, I don’t think so. You enjoyed the time together, mostly good some bad. So you put him on blast to make him look bad not thinking what it will do to you.

    Your co-workers and family will see this and think you’re crazy for spending the 250k and for putting your business out there. Your future relationship with a man is downhill. No man wants to knowingly date a crazy woman. Your job could be jeopardized. His will affect his kid (I know you don’t care). This man is a BILLIONAIRE with clout. Yo azz is lucky you are still sucking air after sucking him. And did you get any loot? Oh yeah you spent it on the billboards. Dumb.

    I know men whom went through the same sh!t and 1 left their wife for the other woman. He was in a bad marriage and the other woman KNEW her ROLE and it worked for them. And yes it does take some time to get out of situations/marriage but 8.5 years. Now who was playing who? True most men do not leave for the other woman. But women that want to play the victim send emails, buy billboards, send text messages, and harass a guy when he leaves is just someone with low self esteem and a potential stalker. You need to stop your crying and grow up!

    This is not the 1st time you were lied to, got played or got your feelings hurt. And unless you wise up it won’t be the last. I kind of agree with Butterfly9481-”Disgruntled Booty Call.” I did say kind of.

    Married or not all men/women are not keepers! You choose to stay and you know you enjoyed his money. And PLEASE don’t say you did not care about the bucks. People go through this every day with broke azzes. You hit the jackpot! You just did not know how bend down a pick up the dough.

    Both of you walked away hurt I am sure of it. He just did not do stupid sh*t afterwards, so far. And he still has is money, wife, job, home and kid. So what did you accomplish? Like everybody has stated, made yourself look stupid. She not scorned, she burnt herself.

    As for the guy. Stop doing stupid stuff youself. Get the divorce now. You will feel better, save money in the long run cause your current wife is gonna bleed yo azz. Then you can get all the booty you want if thats your thing.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jimaction1/ jimaction1

    HERES PROOF: Some women are crazy!

    This story is pathetic. Bad enough to have an affair but for the sinner to get even through public humiliation can only be classified as ‘The devil’s work’. Unfortunately, there are many women who will empathize or even justify Miss Wilkins and her twisted view point. Black america is truly suffering from great ‘moral’ decay and for smut to be blatantly published put another blemish on us as a collective people. Not only did she publish this trash in one cesspool city but three of the TOP 10 cities in America and on the internet!

    My personal view: SHE IS CRAZY.
    You may not agree with me or my views but since their business is in the streets I may as well make em famous for it. He’s no better off, but at least he reconciled matters with his wife. She should at least be woman enough to move on. I understand heartache but, its no excuse to go through such vehement measures. YaVaughnie, needs to move on rather than focus on revenge.

    As for him, well, he’s not a bachelor so who cares!

    Black Bachelors of America.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/felicebois/ felicebois

    Will that sell a book of what? Modern Day Black Momma, Who Is She? http://www.moderndayblackmomma.com.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/skillz_1/ skillz_1

    Get yourself together brothas,build up your portfolio.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-DaWMRFbLc

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/vz4sheZ/ vz4sheZ

    What is this about she don’t know how to play the game. It takes two to play the game they were playing. So, the mistress got hurt…..Too Bad!!! Albeit, if she had her own, this may not have happened to her. But on the man’s tip (since I do see bashing here on her), he should respect the vows he took with his wife. His vows did not say to go and find the nearest w***e he could when the going got rough; he should have stuck it out with his wife, even though they were apart for 8 1/2 years. If the marriage wasn’t going well, he should talk to his wife and the both of them pray together for the solution. The problem with marriages today is that GOD IS NOT FIRST in the decision making process. When God is first, anything and everything works for the best. Stop bashing the mistress because while all is being said, she can still have another man waiting in the background for this stuff to hit the fan so he can come out and be the knight in shining armour. You never know.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ashantimr/ ashantimr

    Hey lady get ur own husband. And when u do u will c how it feels to have someone sleep with him behind ur back

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ashantimr/ ashantimr

    Oh I forgot to say if he didn’t leave his wife after almost 9 years of sleeping with u news flash he never planned on leaving her

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kuchicruckngdnglng/ kuchicruckngdnglng

    The billboards are like a big ass scarlett letter…. But he being shamed might loose his job but kept his wife.. For her she is admitting to being number two for 8 years which is dumb and is not letting potiential dates feel to comfortable for the fact she might do some craxy ish.. She loses no doubt all the way around. bad bizness

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BlackSouljahGFX/ BlackSouljahGFX

    Eh, don’t feel sorry for either one of them. Brothers should know if you deal with a woman for that long, she isn’t going to just fall back when you decide to cut her loose. Sounds like she’s just bitter though, that all the trips, gifts, etc. are cut short since she had no problem being the chick on the side for all those years.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/aledra14/ aledra14

    Even though she loses, she show did show that nigga for who he is and I don’t think, he’ll ever have an affair again and he does the women or woman who participates with him this time will just be stupid. Its easy to get caught up with a man you really love even though they were having an affair but see he was wrong because I believed she tried to leave several times and as you can see he pursued her relentlessly. I just hope she heals a from this and learns her lesson.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SexyMoneyMaker/ SexyMoneyMaker

    now thats what I call put on blast….literally….for the entire world to see

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/_A_/ _A_

    should have sent that money to Haiti to help some people out. She is out 1/4 mil, and this dude will probably never deal with her ever again…so what was the damn point?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/can_i_massage_u_love/ can_i_massage_u_love

    Man this is one of the dumbest things I seen a chick do in a while!

    1. He already going back to his wife so he ok there.

    2. She made her self look like a fool because she was seeing a married man!

    3. Now people know she sleeps and tells. She a snitch.

    4. Who knows if this dude left her for another mistress. Hummmmm.

    5. Why the heck do woman still fall for the line that a dude is gonna leave his wife for you??? That is older then fire. Come on now! You know its cheeper to keep her. You gonna leave your wife and kids and pay them so you can get your freak on with this snitch? Please.

    She needs to move on, lick her wounds and find a man of her own!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bilrod50/ bilrod50

    preach brother marc6272! you are so on point! one of the first things i said to myself was, now what man is going to want to be with yavaughnie?? they both are wrong in the first place and she feels that because he went BACK to the wife was the kicker. if he had another woman, would she have went to the extreme? women leave the married men alone, there are single men somewhere, a sock for every shoe!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DAREALSHIANNSHADY/ DAREALSHIANNSHADY

    I’ve Been Through wat she went through last year, but I didn’t do wat she did by Blasting Him Out “He Did That Himself LMAO”, & He was Legally Seperated; but all in all We Couldn’t Keep Goin Even Though We’re Very Much InLuv w Eachother But I jus Couldn’t Take Him Away From His Kids & The Promise He Made 2 God……. But Where Ever He Is I Hope He’s Happy & I Can’t Wait 2 Be Happy w InLuv Again w A New Special Man w Blessings Frm Up Above(;

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msveevee1/ msveevee1

    1.) She was very foolish for falling and even giving the time a day to a man that was married. NOTHING good ever comes out of those type of arrangements. I don’t care how hard or how much he persued her.

    2.) What happens in the dark will ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS come out in the light. Plus, they both broke God’s marital covenent and will have to pay for it later.

    3.) A foolish man is always going to find a foolish woman to be a fool with him. Point is…be smart and wise, think smart and wise.

    4.)Ppl need to get over this “being a snitch” mess bcuz if you wrong you wrong. And if you so worried about somebody telling what you did, then chances are…you shouldn’t have been doing it in the first place.

    Can you say CONVICTED! Dummies!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Mz-Poetic/ Mz-Poetic

    LMAO! Payback is a b***h!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/too_much7467/ too_much7467

    can we say bitter…she’s mad at him, when really she should be mad at herself for making the decision to mess with his azz and then for 8 1/2 years at that.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/aloevera31/ aloevera31

    Don’t know all the true details but ladies unless you see the legal doc**ent of the divorce papers don’t ever get involved. 8 yrs is a long time to be caught up with someone who is married or even separated. Separated is Not divorced. Believe me YaVaughnie, I know your very hurt (hurt may not even be the word for it) but putting him on blast is just giving him the publicity he wants.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/havinfunlmao/ havinfunlmao

    Women today have gone totally f..king crazy. (Two thousand years of pent up misery being chattel and slaves of men I guess). But Jesus.

    This is pretty funny though. I just feel bad for his wife. Hope she has a HUGE HUGE sense of humor and can think of this as some out there comic movie.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DRK_CHOCOLATE09/ DRK_CHOCOLATE09

    GIVE A HI 5 ((^5^)) TO THAT GAL PLAYA(YaVaughnie Wilkins)
    SHE NOT ONLY BLAST HIS BUSINESS ACROSS SOME STREETS OF NYC AND ATL AND CALI
    SHE ALSO PLAYED THAT GUY(WEB DESIGNER) THINKING HE’S GOING TO GET 250 GRAND
    SHE TURNS AROUND GIVE HIM ONLY 1400 WOW ((THAT’S NO WHERE NEAR 250 GRAND))

    THAT GAL GET THREE 10′S FROM ME((NOT TALKING BOUT CASH EITHER A SCORE OF 30))

    PLAYA PLAYA (TO YaVaughnie )

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DRK_CHOCOLATE09/ DRK_CHOCOLATE09

    NOW THATS A WAY TO EXPOSE THOSE CHEATER( NIGGS,NIGGETS,REDNECK WHO CHEAT ON THEIR SPOUSES)
    PUT THEM ON BLAST PUBLICILY((IN THE MEDIA,TV,WEBSITE AND OF COURSE BILLBOARDS)) LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/havinfunlmao/ havinfunlmao

    On second thought, this is the funniest damn thing I’ve ever seen a woman do in my life.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DR_RS/ DR_RS

    The fact that he was constantly apologizing shld have been her first clue. Her second clue was that it took year after year after year for him to allegedly try and leave his wife. Like Maya Angelou said, “When people show you their character, believe them the first time.” She is a grown woman who knew what she was getting herself into. I empathize with her because I’m sure she is hurting, but she got what she deserved in my opinion.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/HipHopMan35/ HipHopMan35

    INTERESTING THAT SO MANY BYTCHES FIND YAVAUGHIE’S METHODS FUNNY. IF A MAN WAS STALKING OR VIOLENT AFTER YOU QUIT HIM, YOU WOULD BE THE 1ST TO CALL THE POLICE.
    ANY SMART WOMAN KNOWS IT IS A LONG SHOT TO GET A MAN TO LEAVE HIS WIFE. ESPECIALLY WHEN KIDS, LOTS OF ASSETS, AND MIXED EMOTIONS ARE INVOVLED. BUT YOU FOOLISH WOMEN GET INVOVLED WITH MARRIED MEN, SCREW HIM SILLY, HAVE GREAT TIMES, AND EXPECT HIM TO LEAVE HIS FOUNDATION, JUST BECAUSE ITS A GOOD IDEA “FOR YOU”. iT ISN’T HARD TO LEARN IF A MAN IS MARRIED, IF YOU TAKE YOUR TIME, KEEP YOUR PANTIES ON UNTIL YOU LEARN HIS PATTERNS, LIVING ARRANGEMENTS, BACKGROUND CHECK EM, AND SEE IF HE IS TRULY INTERESTED IN BEING WITH YOU.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/moniqs/ moniqs

    there is no proof the she is the one who put up the billboard – could be his Wife looking for a way out and looking to embarrass the both of them. Come on “intelligent” people- think, why would “the other woman” embarrass herself in that way, after she has obviously been humiliated by him going back to his wife after all these years of empty promises and him begging her to stick with him – we are to quick to “judge and blame the other woman” – the wife could be just as bad, after all they were separated for 8 1/2 years. All Women are vindictive when pushed to a point and they both were by this guy – IJS.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chictatious1/ chictatious1

    both of them are obsessed with each other, but just on different extremes.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/masculine31/ masculine31

    lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CrEaMeH/ CrEaMeH

    Forgive me but she looks like GONZO from sesame street lol….ROFLMAO

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/PHATBLKAZZ02/ PHATBLKAZZ02

    Marriage is a sacred vow taken in the eyes of GOD. Those who play the game of infidelity get what they deserve in the end. Who cares who paid for or posted the billboards. The whole situation was not worthy of making the 6 o’clock news.

    Take notes find out from the beginning if he has a wife at home before you invest anything. Done that been there. I like unmarried men because I have no time for bulls**t and I will cut a biotch for lying bout that s**t ya heard. Keep it 100 at all times it could very well save your life….LMAO REAL TALK!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/gin21/ gin21

    To all of the women who think this woman was stupid, or a fool, your WRONG! She got over like a fat rat, I know of plenty women who talk alot of smack, and would do the very same thing but with a sorry ass man who ain’t gonna give them crap not even a picture post card of anything in Australia, or any other place on this planet. (but his sorry ass will give them lots of greif LOL)This woman has been to Australia, and who knows where else? She did what most women don’t do in a situation like that, she got paid very well. LOL! PEACE

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mrbaldheadC/ mrbaldheadC

    Ok Ladies just know this when your the OTHER woman you will NEVER BEcome the main Woman! Was he wrong for cheating on his wife? YES he was, was she just as wrong knowing he was married but kept seeing him for 8 yrs? YEs she was. She only did this thinking that for 8 years she was going to become the wife. And when he went back to the wife she got heated. Men have a mistress for one thing and that is For the FREAKY sex that his Wife won’t do. So she got the outcome she should have known was coming after the 1st yr of the affair!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1BillionaireMnd/ 1BillionaireMnd

    As a pastor, I speak often about adultery. it is a tool that the devil uses to destroy lives. If he can get the husband, he affects the wife then the children and it becomes a cycle that eventually destroys communities and adversely affects nations. it is born out of the lust of the eye, lust of the flesh and the pride of life. It is the same trick the devil used to deceive Adam and Eve. Husbands stay with your wives. try to find ways to work it out. Wives stay with your husbands. Try to find away to work it out.Lastly single men and women stay away from married couples. The bible has a lot to say about the foolish man or woman who entangles himself or herself within an adulterous situation. Each of us will stand before God and give an account of our lives. Ask God to prepare you for the right person and send that person to you at the right time.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kbneville/ kbneville

    Dang, she’s mad because he came to his senses and left her alone?! That’s so sad…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cubsfan1973/ cubsfan1973

    Another stupid woman!!! She is a fool to say the least!!! He was married (seperated at the time) and thought she was going to be part of the starting lineup but really she was the six man off the bench.
    Women who screw around with married men should know the fact that they are the jump off!!! History repeats itself over and over again. You always see it in those bad Lifetime movies, the mistress never becomes the number 1!!!
    Plus he is paid, I thought if you are going to go outside your marriage, make sure the woman looks good — she looks like total hot garbage!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mizzmoe215/ mizzmoe215

    so0o0…u mad? and thats EXACTLY what u get 4 messin around with a married man…PLAYED lol..i dont feel sorry for her, but it is messed up what she did…she took that s**t TOOOOOO far

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/illpoetic/ illpoetic

    shameless hoe! She knew dude was married, and she can’t go get her own man? Then wants to exact revenge this way? Silly.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DarkandHottt/ DarkandHottt

    She overreacted. She knew this man was married. She played her dam self. She should feel real stupid. He’s getting a divorce but he don’t want her. All she has done is put herself on front street as a w***e, someone who can’t be trusted.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/neva1betta/ neva1betta

    HOW AND THE HELL CAN U GO 8 YRS and not be married already?? WTF!!! going off of some weak ass “promises” @ that..lol SHE WAS A DAMN FOOL. HE WAS MARRIED AT THAT SMH. ppl teach me to well haha…PPL ONLY STAY IN RELATIONSHIPS THIS DAMN LONG with NO COMMITMENT..BECAUSE THEY THINK SOMETHING BETTER WILL COME ALONG..I JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND “PPL WHO WANT TO LIVE LIKE THEY’RE MARRIED, BUT WON’T GET MARRIED” SMH O WELL SUX FOR HER

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/neva1betta/ neva1betta

    HOW *IN THE HELL….FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO LIKE TO BE ENGLISH/GRAMMAR TEACHERS HAHA

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/That_sexy_white_girl/ That_sexy_white_girl

    hahahahaha this is funny

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sharisma_6Wed/ Sharisma_6Wed

    I have to agree with my best friend Gin21 Women and Men need to rethink about what and who they are horring in the relationships and for you Married people you made a vow to your mate you choses for life and before GOD and all his Angles in Heaven. The Both of them will have to go before GOD … and answer before HIM…. SATAN is all over this Affair, FOR THESE WHO ARE HAPPILY MARRIED AND HONOR THIER WEDDING VOWS FOR LIFE AND THIS INCLUDES MYSELF KEEP GOD FIRST IN YOUR MARRIAGE:):)!!!!!! AND TO YOU SINGLE MEN AND WOMEN BE CAREFUL WHO YOU CHOSE FOR A MATE ……. LOOK AT ALL THE SIGNS WHILE YOU ARE DATING ASK QUESTION AND IF YOU SENSE THAT THE PERSON IS NOT BEING TRUTHFUL, HEAD FOR THE HILLS. GOD IS WATCHING AND HE GIVE US CHOOSES …….THINK ABOUT IT;)!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/omarjazz19/ omarjazz19

    Hell Hath No Fury like a woman scorned, even though SHE was the trifeling b***h. Stop it!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/lavenderga/ lavenderga

    I really wish folks would stop throwing stones. Why is it that the woman is always called the w***e. She is not the one who stood before God and his woman or man to proclaim anything. He did. Married men, Man up. If you don’t want to be married, have the balls and the guts to go home and tell your wife. Married women are having affairs.too. I never heard men involved with married women called w***es. They are given fist pumps.Women involved with married men, know the rules of the game. Have fun,stop acting like victims.Stop the Drama. You know what you were getting into.Stop the name calling men and women. No mother or father names their child b***hes or w***es. Stop it Black folks.Stop using the white man’s trash to slam those who look like you.Or act in ways you don’t approve. Glass houses, Folks

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DA_GEORGETOWN_MAYOR/ DA_GEORGETOWN_MAYOR

    SERVES HIM RIGHT!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/babski/ babski

    It is a crying shame that it came to this – they are both stupid. She should have never been with him for eight years – not a married man. If he wanted her he would have divorced his wife. She should have known that he had no intention of leaving his wife. His wife is stupid if she takes him back – once a cheater always a cheater. He and his ex-mistress deserve each other.
    He obviously cannot be trusted and neither can she – in my opinion they are both equally responsible for this situation. Very sad….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JAMAICANMAMI/ JAMAICANMAMI

    This is just an excuse, now she’s mad because he longer is interested. This is yet another example of two immature people. Neither one of them considered the consequences, it was all about being selfish. The wife may have her reason’s for staying, would i hell no. But the pump and dump chick wants to be mad. 8 years, no divorce, no commitment, no respect, no nothing. She should be mad at herself for allowing herself to be lead astray but the hopes of something that was never going to come.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sunflower2678/ sunflower2678

    That is wow…but looks to me like most of those flower cards are photo shopped… Well they say there ain’t nothing like a woman scorned..but I think maybe she went too far..But that’s what ol boy gets for spoiling her. His bad.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/njamlovell/ njamlovell

    he got what he deserved and so did she they are both are shamed she should have know better she has two eyes im sure she knew he was married she should have know her place in that relationship and now no man will want a grimy woman like that and he got his cake a nd everything else he led her on for all that time but thats common law right there isnt it he was with her over 7 years she might be getting a little something from him

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cherrydipper/ cherrydipper

    WOW..I should do that too..Waiting on a married man is some funny s**t…believe in me i”m still waity on the BIG promise thta its FINAL..Still waiting now for 9 years maybe I’ll post something like that around my town…HOLLA

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MarkAntney/ MarkAntney

    I was a LOT Younger and never Married,… but when I was a “Playa” in the “Game” and knowingly-unknowingly led a Lady on, though I knew (deep down) it wasn’t cool, it just didn’t bother me that much and I have to admit it HARD to listen to one’s Conscience in the Brain when the BLOODSupply is rushing downward, so often. When you’re young you’re expected to be selfish, self-centered, arrogant… but this is a well edumacated, paid, mature,… Grown AZZ Man!!!

    Running around like he can’t choose a Date for the Prom.

    And lady, though you have my sincere Sympathy, you’re actually Worse than he is. Of the two (sexes) I expect US (menses:):)) to be the idiots.

    That said, He musta Tore THEM-There Drawls to Pieces, for her to willingly put all this out there, at that expense.

    He obviously found some of my OLD Movies:):):):):)

    You don’t make a Person feel like that and get to walk away UnScathed.

    Seriously, though I bet he’s hurting a bit for her too, he’s got a wife.

    Lastly for everyone (but mostly for the ladies), DON’T invest your hardearned ______ in a Business that belongs to someone else:):):)

    You’d have better odds of winning buying Expired Lottery Tickets.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/KimaraM/ KimaraM

    $250,000? This money could’ve been spent on: 1/A house, condo, or loft 2/ Education 3/ International trips 4/ Charity causes (Haiti, perhaps?)

    Revenge was not only sweet, but expensive!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/missstrings43/ missstrings43

    W…O…W…! Tiger Woods got lucky didn’t he? (after seeing this)…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/felicebois/ felicebois

    Life is tuff sometimes. Gen Eyes Wide…http://www.facebook.com/pages/Felice-Bois/73991403354?v=app_2405167945&ref=ts

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DameDivalicious/ DameDivalicious

    I have no sympathy for women who waited on a man for years knowing there is a big chance he could go back to his wife. She took the risk getting involved with a married man and did not like the outcome when their relationship end. All she did was hurt not just her married lover but his family as well emotionally and mentally in an insensitive way. Did she even think what it would do to the kids? Did she even think that any man who date her would trust her 100% again because of what she done? This woman was nothing but a mistress for him to relieved himself of stress or just having his cakes to eat. And how many times does a person believed that there is only one soulmate for them on this planet? Both of them were immature and I am sure Charles will stay away from his ex lover even if he change his mind again and divorce his wife.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/diva61811/ diva61811

    Now all I want to know is what was the billboards suppose to accomplish? What was the real intentions behind the billboards the only thing I can say is that it only made the woman look like a woman scorned and foolish. She not only put her business out there but she put herself out there. She spent money on something that could have been spent on something much more important. She knew what she was getting herself into when she decided to become the mistress of this married man. I do not know many married men who will leave the comfort of their homes for a mistress or any woman that they decided to sleep with on occasion. Not only that she wasted eight valuable years of her life that she could have been sharing with a man who loved her and wanted to make her his wife. Eight long years she can not get back and money spent on some billboards what a pathetic waste. I do not condone what this man has done because he has been playing with two women’s hearts and that is disgusting but what do you expect when your dealing with a man who not only is married but is pretty powerful and wealthy he thinks he can do what he wants. I know it will take her a while to heal and to move on because eight years is a long time but she needs to get herself togther he did her a favor by going back to his wife. I hope she leaves him alone because this is not the end of this story because he will either call, write her letter apologizing, or show up to her home and then their relationship will begin all over again another eight years will be wasted. Please I hope every woman sees this woman as an example of what not to be and never get involved with a married man you will always end up with a broken heart and alone.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kaikai7/ kaikai7

    This woman allowed this man to string her along for almost a decade.I’m sorry but I can’t feel badly for a woman that plays the role of mistress to a married man for that length of time. As a matter of fact she should have left him alone when she realized that he was married. Separated is not divorced which means that his wife, estranged or not was still very much his legal wife, and he was married! When will woman learn? Married men telling their mistresses to be patient the divorce is coming is the oldest trick in the book. Before you know it , you will look around and it will be 5 yrs later and he will still be telling you that same shyt! He’s a billionaire and if he really wanted to divorce his wife and marry her ,he would could have done so a long time ago? He never planned to leave his wife. Nothing good can come from being involved with a married man and if he divorces the wife for you, he will eventually do to you what he did to her! It’s a vicious cycle. If I were his wife I would not have taken him back. I would have gotten my divorce, whatever settlement the court awarded me(which I imagine would have been nice) and moved on with my life! Funny how some men want to pretend that marriage is a game to be played at their own convenience and when they grow tired they can put it up on a shelf, until they are ready to dust it off and play the role of family man/husband again.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sassycassy24/ sassycassy24

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sassycassy24/ sassycassy24

    I feel bad for the mistress … This is wh=at happens when there is a man who has alot of money and power… we get caught in the wining and dining we have to be stronger … we do slip so next time there should be a caution sign to look out for slippery water you might just fall.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DR_J21/ DR_J21

    LOL that is the funniest thing I ever seen….8 and a half years though geez she wasted almost a decade to have him figure out it is cheaper to keep her lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/foxgirl100/ foxgirl100

    she made herself look silly. she is the big loser in this

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Lovevon/ Lovevon

    She is dumb for waiting 9 years. 9 years?? How about she should have never started something with a married man. Worthless skank. All she accomplish was making his wife want to hold on to him more. It will be a cold day in hell before his wife leave him. He’s rich, he never left her to begin with and ultimately they still love each other. She will hold on to him just so he doesn’t go to his mistress.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Ramses_NY/ Ramses_NY

    She knew he had a wife, and should have played her position. If your going to be a low life skank, jump off, or mistress. Dont be acting broken hearted, when he eventually dumps you. Alot of people lie to themselves. All these chicks from tiger wood’s hoes, to this broad, need not wonder why they arent the wives, its because there the s**ts on the side.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/everymansdream9/ everymansdream9

    She knowingly had an affair that lasted eight years and she’s shaming him. Irony!!!!
    He couldn’t have cheated by himself. Where is the accountability?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sugarfoot1967/ sugarfoot1967

    Only 1 or 2 of these pics show the man’s face, that could have been anybody. If she was dumb enough to keep seeing this man knowing he was married the she really is a loser and got her just dessert!!! Don’t cry now.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sadclown80/ sadclown80

    This is really funny.. Okay I’m gonna play devil’s advocate here, although I agree that something is wrong with this women for wasting eight years of her life with a man that wasn’t rightfully her’s from the start, unless your a single women over a certain age and you know what she’s going throught don’t judge. Sometimes when your out there is the dating world and you meet someone and the chemsity is crazy, your heart takes preseidence over you head. I’m not saying it’s right, but you heart wants what it wants and sometimes you need to go throught things like this in order to appreicate something better in the future.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/EbonyInspired/ EbonyInspired

    I wrote about this, too.

    Thank you for not passing judgment and labeling her a psycho, home-wrecker, or worse. Sure, having an affair with a married man is so notcool; however, according to the ‘morsels’ that are out there — they lived together, she spent time with the guy’s son; and, he posted online that he was going to marry her.

    Uh?

    I have better things to do with my money — but, you have to give it to the girl for her creativity.

    Perhaps this guy will end up being Tiger Woods’ roommate to ‘save’ his marriage. http://www.ebonyinspired.com/?p=15364

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ann37/ ann37

    I love this why in the hell you wasted your time and your wife’s by getting married if your erge in your pants was stronger than the love for your wife then you should be careful cause carma is a you know what. For the women that get involve with a married man he will never leave his wife i dont care how much butter he put on your toast. The only way he will leave is he never loved his wife in the first place. To all women dont you want better than someone elses left overs. God Bless Peace

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MarkAntney/ MarkAntney

    1. Of course NONE of us know the details but honestly for me it’s not that important, just true.
    2. One really can’t help how they feel about something or someone (ups to my mom for teaching me that).

    That said, Everyone has the ability to make assessments and choices,… and any dude or woman choosing the paths chosen by these two would have a lot to explain to me on when, where, why, and HOW they thought the end result(s) of their choices were going to work out?

    I hate to be chauvinistic but I’ve known a Lady or two that pursued a Man in a relationship way more than a Single Man. I’ve personally lived through it, seen it, felt it and dealt it:):):) Seems most I’ve known willing to roll like that had other issues (dependancy, abuse, financial…)

    And don’t get me wrong, I’ve known too many brothas that front like they’re single or LOOKING to hook a fine sista but then again it seems THEY (sista) JUST WANTs to believe what they know is not true, coming out of his mouth:):):)

    Oh and for those of us that say the “Man” NEVER leaves his wife for the other AX:

    Angelina Joilee, Elizabeth Taylor, Donald Trump (a couple of times), Newt Gingrich, Rudy Guilianni (a couple of times)

    but as Con Funk Shun sang so Righteously,

    “Warm night, can’t sleep, too hurt, too weak
    Gotta call her up. Dial that number no one answers ’till 2 ‘o clock

    And if by chance you’ll let me come over
    Out on the street, I wanna see you baby
    If by chance you’ll let me just hold you
    Down on my knees I wanna please you baby
    (I’ll be you righteous lover),…
    That’s the way it goes on love’s train”

    That’s Way it Goes on “LOVEs TRAIN”!!!!!

    Add also, “Love Don’t Love Nobody” by the Spinners

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MS_A_08/ MS_A_08

    those card greetings are fake. when he was supposedly running back to her. this is too funny but the billboards are not putting anyone on blast. If she had a pic with them f**king on the counter that would be diff. lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/upnorthdude09/ upnorthdude09

    Wow! He is an idiot…i mean i don’t condone cheating but dude why the hell are you taking pics with the chic..knowing you are married and they can be used against you! Some of us men are so dam dumb!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SterlingSilverDon/ SterlingSilverDon

    “I’m roleing right now, that’s funny as hell (ha ha)!”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/lonnyj/ lonnyj

    thats all he got, he could’ve had him a cold white girl!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Thed_msp/ Thed_msp

    I agree with Ann37. But I am glad she blew up his spot. That’s the price you pay for infidelity. He was spending the money that was meant for him, his wife and family on a mistress. You say she was foolish for spending that money on that billboard….more than likely with him being in the position he is in…it was his money. So we all can say what we would like about this, but it happens everyday. It has been happening since the beginning. And unfortunately, there will be more situations such as. But those ballers and shot callers have that cheese and they can do what they want to do…until they get caught. Tiger Woods, needs his behind whooped. As a matter of fact they should flog him or cane him….he was the biggest idiot! Those white girls got paid and told on him just like this one did. So fellas, if you are not going to be faithful to your wives should you chose to marry….don’t get married period! Go green and save us all some billboards!

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