And if he’s not willing to try new things(like pleasing u) leave.

Okay I have heard what you said but……….this is the thing every now and then he puts the smack down………….or I am drunk as h*ll and missed the party …. but over all he is a 2…… that’s all folks….

OK, WHEN SHE SAYS HOW TO ATTRACT A YOUNGER MAN…SHE FORGETS TO SAY “DONT ACT SO DAMN STUCK UP AND SADITY!” I SEE OLDER ATTRACTIVE WOMEN ON THE DAILY BASES AND 9 OUT OF 10 OF THEM WALK WITH THEIR NOSES UP AND A STICK IN THEIR ASS. IF YOU WANT A YOUNGER MAN GIVE THE IDEA THAT YOUR AVAILABLE, OR THAT YOUR NOT GONNA MAKE HIM FEEL LIKE A PIECE OF NOTHIN WHEN HE APPORACHES YOU. NEXT IS IF THE SEX IS BAD AND HE YOUR PERFECT GUY, JUST WORK WITH HIM. TELL HIM EXACTLY HOW YOU LIKE IT, IM SICK OF WOMEN JUST EXPECTIN NIGGAS TO JUST KNOW WHAT YOUR THINKIN. TELL HIM WHAT THE PROBLEM IS. BELIEVE ME IF YOU TELL HIM ITS A PROBLEM WIT THE SEX HE’LL JUST TRY HARDER. AND BY THE WAY LADIES HAS THE MAN DOIN ALL THE WORK SOO GIVE US A BREAK, 9 TIMES OUTA 10 ITS JUST YALL LAYIN THERE. TWO WHEN YALL LEAVE A RELATIONSHIP CUZ OF SEX, IT SOUNDS LIKE A “TRIFLIN NIGGA” MOVE. THATS WHAT YALL CALL TRIFLIN NIGGAS DO, SO YOUR GONNA CONTRADICT YOURSELVES?

OOOOHHH YESSSS!!! When I am in a relationship, I do not pursue sex right away. I want to get to know the person a little better and feel comfortable enough with him to become intimate. I havea decent body, but i do have a couple war wounds and surgical scars (but the assets are there). I have bonded well mentally with the man, but whewn it came down to the sex…completely ovverrated. I thought that a stronger mental connection would increase the passion in the sex. I was so wrong. I anticipated this man to be great, explorative, and a little less than an energizer bunny. But it was over no sooner than it started and he went to sleep. Once, amaybe twice..okay. But wheres the redemption? Then to make matters worse, he would brag to me as if he was that deal in bed and sometimes would talk big in front of his peers. IF THEY ONLY KNEW.LOL. I couldnt continue pursuing a relationship where the sex was just NOTHING. Needless to say, we talked about the issue and eventually split because I “damaged his male ego”.

I have ended relationships because of this. Its sad to say, but I still care deeply for a man that I ended it with 6mths ago. We weren’t sexually compatible and he wasnt willing to do “extra”. I do believe that is very important in a relationship. Some may say the whole “mental connection” crap has to be there, but that doesn’t help either. Bad sex is bad sex and there is nothing you can do about it unless the “slacker” is willing to compromise.

There are Black women that need to get pass the taboo of not going down. Even some Black female hoes do not like to do it neither.

Just because you are giving up the p***y or just because you are giving him p***y doesnt entitle you to the status of a queen. The man needs to be saved from himself (or from getting with other women) and the same applies for women too.

A relationship is about give and take and playing the roles that have worked before Feminism came in about 40 some old years ago.

I had a male friend, that every now n then we’d talk or hang out until one night dude became mad touchy feely. I didn’t mind we knew each otha enuff to take it there…Long story short we became exercise partnas but within 2 months I became bored wit his constant n ONLY position. So, I asked him what he liked or turned him on, he told me and I tried to NO avial. So, once again we had a talk. I let him kno I was open to being freaky and that his 1 NUT MAX wasn’t enough for me!! Dude completely flipped da script, sayin I was “tryin to make something work (between us) dat didn’t.” I was flustered, how could he mix up havin a decent f*ck session wit tryin to b-together? I knew where we stood outside the bed…And now I have another male friend thats expressed interest n I can’t do it…Curiousity seriously kills da cat and respect sometimes!!

WOOOOWWW!!! FROM A GUYS POINT OF VIEW WE WILL NOT MESS WITH A FEMALE FOR TOO LONG IF THE BEDROOM IS NOT ROCKING LIKE IT IS SUPPOSED TO. SO I DONT DOWN FEMALES FOR TAKING THE SAME STAND. WHAT PEOPLE HAVE TO REALIZE THAT THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT MAN OR WOMAN. HOWEVER, THERE IS A PERFECT PERSON FOR YOU. IF THERE IS SOMETHING SMALL THATS BOTHERING TO YOU IN THE BEGINNING THEN IT WILL BECOME A HUGE PROBLEM LATER. ALOT OF US WANT TO CONSIDER OURSELVES AS MATURE ADULTS AND OVER LOOK SEXUAL HUNGER, BUT IF YOU ARE A SEXUAL BEAST THEN YOU NEED TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO IS A BEAST LIKE YOURSELF. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HAVING SEX ALOT OR JUST A LITTLE WITH YOUR LOVED ONE. YOU JUST HAVE TO PLAY THE OLD MATCH GAME AND FIND YOUR PERFECT FIT!!

NOPE, CANT SAY IT HAS! DONT KNOW WHAT BAD SEX IS.

sex plays a very important part in a relationship. some men are just selfish when it comes to sex. it all about them getting a thrill. if i sleep with a man and he doesnt satify me. I through with him unless he is willing to try some different things to spice it up!

Straight up bad sex no matter if you are just the average chick or celebrity chick. If you cant hold it down in the bedroom look at the results. Bill Clinton, Johnathan Edwards, Spitzer, Ensign, Mccain, and the list keeps going on and on and on and more recently Sanford. I wish people would stop apologizing and just be more upfront about their wants and needs and if that person doesnt live up to expectation than move on. Dont apologize and make me sick of hearing it especially when you know with the other person it was good as hell.

If the relationship is good the sex is good. Period.

Of course. A lot of women assume all they need is a slit to please a man. It ain’t that easy ladies. I cant stand a woman who tells you how much she needs you to do for her then when the lights go out she’s talking about all the s**t she DOESN’T do. WTF? Women can be just as selfish as they think men are in the bedroom.

OK, NOW THIS ARTICLE IS ABOUT SKOOBI SNAX RIGHT, WELL IF A WOMAN WANTS HER SCOOBI SNAX ATE UP THE RIGHT KINDA WAY DEN SHE GON HAVE TO DRINK FROM THE BOA..UNTIL DAT SUM’ BICH CURL UP AND TAKE HIS BLK AXX TO SLEEP,HAHA!! YOU BETTA HEAR ME NOW, I DON’T KNOW WHY ALL DESE SO CALL WOMEN WINING AND WINING FA’ DA DIK, YOU KEEP WINING YOU BOUND TO GIT’ WHAT YO MONKEY DEEP PUSSI AXX LOOKIN FO…STOP WINING AND WIND UP IN THE RIGHT POSITION, DEN MAYBE MO STUFF CAN OCCAH…AND YES, YOU CAN TEACH A NEW P***Y, OR DIK FA’ DAT MATTER NEW TRIX, YOU JST GOTTA TURN DEY ASSS OUT, AND OLDER WOMEN DOES HAVE A SEDUCTIVE WAY ABOUT THEM (AND A WETTER PUSSIHOLE) THAT YET MAY PULL IN A YOUNGER MAN OF DEY CHAUCE!! THERE IS ONLY ONE RULE: IF ITS GOOD AND WET—COME ON YAL SAY IT WITH ME—DEN ITS A BET!!! YALL HAVE A GOOD DAY, AND STOP ASKING US STUPID QUESTION, WE WANNA HEAR BOUGHT SOME OTHER STUFF, MO IMPORTANT DAN DIS, WE BLKS DON’T SIT AROUND AND TALK ABOUT THIS STUFF ALL DAY, WE ARE NOW DOCTORS, LAWYERS, SCIENTIST, AND PRESIDENTS AND OUR BODIES, DIKS AND LOOKS AND S**T IS NOW BEING APPRECIATED THROUGHT THE MOFUKIN WOOOURLD!!! GIMME A BREAK, DEN IMA BREAK YO SKOOBI SNAXXX….BLK PPL STAY BEAUTIFUL AND ENPOWER YOU MINDS, GET EDUCATED, STOP WIPING YA ASS WITH CHEAP TISSUE PAPER FROM DOLLAR STO…DAT SHT MADE IN PAKISTAN, IF THEY CAN’T BLEACH THE CLOTHES HOW THEY GON PROPERLY TREAT THAT WOOD AND TAKE BACTERIA OUT, YOU GON WAKE UP WITH A POPPYBUSH GROWING OUT YA SHT…MAN A THUUUU…I CAN’T BELIEVE DIS HOT SHT RIGHT HERRRRRRRRRRRRRRR LAWWWWD!!!

u are so right brownsugar

Yes it has. I had a dude that bragged and bragged about how he puts it down in the bedroom….he was such a liar, and that was such a damn shame. Because I liked him, I tried to make it work, but it just wasn’t happening. And fyi, it takes two to tango, so you will only get out of the relationship what you put in it. If you not putting in that extra work, why should I?

“Of course. A lot of women assume all they need is a slit to please a man. It ain’t that easy ladies. I cant stand a woman who tells you how much she needs you to do for her then when the lights go out she’s talking about all the s**t she DOESN’T do. WTF? Women can be just as selfish as they think men are in the bedroom.”

To put it simply women dont know what they want period