Are all the sucess ni**as dippin and dodging child support, it comes to show you that, even if you got it all, you really don’t. But, I hope that he takes care of his blessing and I hope you didn’t find out that he’s BM turned out to be a gold-digger but y’alll know the rest…think about it brothers and sisters…make better choices

“Owning” up to responsibility does not necessarily mean “paying up” being there for your child, mentally, emotionally, is priceless than just paying up.

I’m always skeptical of these “Child-Support” claims by women. So my only advice here is to not judge without knowing the full story, or at least from both parties involved. All we have is a TMZ reporter talking to her lawyer, which means nothing to me. God Bless

I think there’s something shady going on because Akon doesn’t strike me as the kind of dude to not take care of his responsibilities. I’m pretty sure that there’s more to the story, but we’re only getting half of it.

Hmm, we’re only getting ONE side to the story… So, until further factual and legitimate info arises (not just words from her lawyer) then i have no comment… :)

The best way to not get into this kind of stuff is to watch where you stick your stuff, many females just out there to trick a dude with a baby, sad to say it But it’s true, they be chasing that money, or that keep a Niii baby shyt. Use your brain not ur d…..tricking has been going on for years.
can’t trust it!!!!

All I can say is that SOME females are scandalous..lets here the whole story and both sides before judging.

MAN F**K THAT B***H AND HER BABY!

Just pay up akon.The proof is in the pudding and you’ve eaten pie. i have to pay for mine.What makes you different?

Baby mama drama. She just hit the lotto and she wants to be paid 20,000 a month. Baby needs a new pair of shoes and a Mercedes Benz. He laid down with her and he new the rules. I do think the laws should change to stop these trifling women but I’m sure these types of guys are no angels so it goes both ways. I think if a woman can choose to have a child or not a man should be able to choose if he will be in it’s life or support it. If she chooses to have the child without his consent she shouldn’ t be able to go after him for support or get welfare.

i dont really think the child is akon’s tmz be full of s!@# sometimes

it takes two to get it on…so both of them need to take care of the baby…period!!

In my opinion both sides are truly to blame if you dont want babies you have options BEFORE you have sex and if “accidents” happen a man really has no choice in the matter so whether or not he wants the child it’s up to her dont like it too bad learn how condoms work. He is an idiot for knowing the world we live in and knowing that “a big butt and a smile” cant be trusted

Can’t trust It !!!!!!

This is the reason that more black fathers need to raise their children, so that they can educate them about sex and other important issues. But then again there gets to be a certain age where theres no excuse for not protecting yourself and preventing stupid stuff life this from happenning.

I AGREE WITH JJ

That’s why i don’t support his azz now. she must be underage and/or black. If she was white the lwa would make him take care of the baby. A black man can make a black within his race and noone is an advocate but, if his do outside of his race the nation is on that woman’s side DAMN
DONT SUPPORT AKON

There should be a cap on child support. Too much incentive for trifling women to unilaterally decide to have a child with an unwilling father. While the men should know better, neither society nor the child benefit from these arrangements whether the man pays or not.

Whits folks always look out for eachother even though they even cut eachothers throat within there race. And with Blacks it’s the same. but were more selective cause it’s so much hate between us, ” who got this who got that type of s**t”

A woman in Labor is screaming profanity at her boyfriend. He says ‘Hey,dont blame me. I wanted to put it in your ass. But nooooo, u thought THAT would hurt !!!!

I don’t feel sorry for either of them thats what happens when you have unprotected sex or not watching who you have sex with. As far as him supporting that child, uh yeah of course. As far as her cashing in, who knows, we dont know her. Some will just assume because he has money. The only person i feel sorry for is this baby that is going to be caught in the middle and maybe see their father or maybe not. just because a celebrity has a baby with a woman unmarried doesnt mean he isn’t going to be right there.

she didnt do it her self just take care of your child

I can’t understand why women continue to play themselves, especially in the case of Akon. Earlier this year he did a radio interview at which time he admitted that he has three wives, where he’s from. I know that golddiggers seek out the men they think are paid, but that doesn’t mean they won’t drag you to hell for you to get some obviously. The line around his pockets seem to be never ending with three wives. Don’t be an idiot!

Pay up Akon!!!

you couldnt pay me enough to fluck him. not for all the diamonds in africa!

how about akon just take care of his child or she gives custody to akon. Im sure this *****went into knowing it was akon and believed she hit a lotto ticket.

Laws should be in place that make guys take care of the child and only the child.

This is reprehensible! The honorable thing for him to have done is keep it in his pants! Nobody can compel a man to lie with a woman; HE has to respect himself and his seed enough to not just go spreading it without being conscious of what the ramifications. It’s obvious this guy has no sense of self-respect, since he is acting like a b!otch, by dodging his responsibility. What was the point in burdening the court to prove paternity if he wasn’t going to do his due diligence and SUPPORT his child!?!? Too late to call the character of the child’s mother into question; should’ve done that BEFORE unzipping his pants! Stupid! Beyond me why the mother is always taken to task for being foolish, while the father isn’t called to account for his philandering ways. The Bible says that you are WORSE than an infidel if you don’t provide for your family, which makes Akon a LOSER! The fact that she may be a “gold-digger” (READ Steve Harvey’s book to get the facts on gold-digging)does in no way justify him being a deadbeat! SMH! Where he’s from (I think he pretends to be from Africa), it is just SHAMEFUL to not take care of your children! Glad I’ve NEVER purchased anything with his name on the credits.

Sara Coleman, should pack up her baby and drop the child off to Akon’s ass and see how he likes it that she goes missing in action! More women should become dead beat momma’s and the dudes will stop the Momma baby’s Daddy’s maybe crap.

Women need to stop using their kids as pay checks!!! she not asking him to be a father to his child…she’s asking for money, trying to serve someone at a funeral, thats just greed.

Wow at a damn funeral…persistent aren’t they…Akon need to wisen up…he obviously has a better financial grounding then this random chick and if I was him I would seek custody…at least that way it won’t look as bad as you dodging your responsibilities… but from a woman’s perspective I agree with littlebabymia..i guess this would be hilarious to me considering i dont have any children…nonetheless these niggas and these women got to do better!

He should pay because Im sure he is to busy or not want to find that fulltime father time. Plus its not about money if she has it,but you still have to think about who pays the rent and all the other bills and put food on the table and cloths on the childs back I mean give me a break and its sad he has the funds to do it and running now thats F@#$%D up!!

When is folks gonna start caring for themselves…WEAR A FU&*ING CONDOM!!!! Then you won’t have to worry about catching an STD or K-I-D!!!

The media has probably blown this up to be more than what it is and the truth is we all know that. If Akon is the father, he has the money to provide for his seed; he has attorney’s to handle this for him and I’m sure the attorney for mom is aware. Follow the protocol and serve his attorneys and stop trying to put him on blast and maybe, just maybe she will see him as a great father. All things have order even chaos… Stop the madness…. No sense in preaching the wear the condom crap because if it were that my son wouldn’t be here and a handful of other’s. We find blame in everything yet leave out so many important variables, usually when it is conducive to our own agenda’s… Akon now has to do some serious PR work to fix what is probably nothing more than an orchestrated smear campaign anyway. My real question is why is this considered news? It was even on one of the more credible news sites. I’ve got to find something else to do when I’m bored.

SMH another damn Weezy it takes more than money to be a father to your child as soon as he found out the baby was his he should have taken care of that sh*t now hes just another Eddie Murphy who has yet to take care of baby he fathered with Mel B sad ass excuses for men but then on the other hand safe sex wtf??? and the baby shouldn’t be her meal ticket although Im sure it will be and in that case poor baby.

maybe he’ll write about bein’ a DEADBEAT i his next song inSTEAD of bashin women.HOLLA”.CRIM-I-NAL….

how these nigraz got all this money and cant go buy a box of magnums

HE NEEDS TO PAY UP RIGHT NOW NOW NOW. HE SHOULD HAV NEVER #$#%% Up RIGHT NAH NAH NAH_U FEEL ME??

I too need to find something more productive to do when I am bored. I know using a condom sounds simple and easy but sometimes you just get caught slipping. I for 1 slipped and I thank God for my son who is 1 week old yesterday. As for him being served I do believe subpoenas must be served directly to the party being sued. Akon really should be on his b.i. As soon as he took the paternity test he should have had his lawyers on old girl’s ass so that he could establish visitation and support. I hope this all get resolved soon, and that he will do the right thing. Please don’t compare him to Weezy at least he take care of his. Money is not everything but it does take money to raise a child.

I honestly feel now-a-days both parents should pay child support 4 being so fukkin stupid n lazy. Just hand da money over to court system, so da kids can at least go 2 school wit it.

Nobody wants to see us together but it don’t matter no.Did he really mean that in the verses he was singing? LOL LOL Now he’ll be singing nobody wants to pay child support & it matters no,cause I hate you!!! LOL LOL

COME ON MY BROTHA STRAP IT UP AND GIVE HER SOME MONEY TO TAKE CARE OF THAT LIL NIGGA AFTER ALL SHE AINT ASKIN YOU TO BE A FATHER SHE LOOKIN FOR THE MONEY LOL CHILD SUPPORT = F**K THE RELATIONSHIP LOL BUT I BET YOU IF THIS NIGGA WENT BACK TO AFRICA OR IF HE WASNT RICH SHE WOULDNT BE TRYIN TO GET THIS NIGGA TO COUGH UP NO MONEY AND JUST BECAUSE HE RICH THEY GONE MAKE HIM PAY TRIPPLE LIKE 20,000 A MONTH

He don’t look the same now to me you have a child you pay for your kids nigga that is sad what a waste I bet there are other stars doing this samething this Ugly nigga is doing sad case

U GET WAT U DO WHEN U DONT PROTECT YOURSELF WHETHER U A MALE R A FEMALE..MONEY R NOT A CHILD IS INNOCENT @ SHOULDNT B USED AS A PURSE & SOME WOMEN DO,DO THAT 2 MEN WHEN ITS ONLY GOING 2 HURT THE CHILD..DONT MAKE THIS ABOUT PERSONAL VENDICTION OR ABOUT HIS FAME MAKE SURE THIS IS 4 YOUR CHILD HE R SHE DESERVES A GOOD LIFE THE BEST U CAN MAKE POSSIBLE 4 HIM R HER..THATS A MOTHER 2 ANOTHER MOTHER.

I agree @ Wut_a_Girl_Need and ceedre…ur lazy @zz cant go get a box of condoms before you lay up…but always singing bout smashin somebody….and dont wanna pay child support…..brilliant..

Funny how the majority of u women get on here talkin s**t about child support when ya own baby daddys aint even payin s**t, givin ya asses $101.34 a month..lol.. and yea, dont let me 4 get that old classic answer everytime u ask a chic where her baby daddy at..lol..8 times outta 10, the answer issssss……….in jailllll…”with that sad tone and stupid ass look on their face”..lolololol

YALL KNOW AKON IS STRAIGHT FROM AFRICA AND THEY DONT BELIEVE IN STRAPPING UP!! MESSAGE

The most important thing shouldn’t be money but Akon having a relationship with his child! I’m praying on this situation for them.

Damn Akon, it was too hard for you to go to the store and get a box of condom? I feel no respect for Akon or any other man that does not spend time with their children. I mean half the men that don’t see their children did not even have their fathers growing up. Stop the cycle men, raise your children NOW!!!!

Oh Well…!

@can3009:what u whrote here is a bulls**t.let me tell u some,if u do not know about africa ,do not run yo damn mouth about us.we black and african and god damn proud of it.Next time u wanna talk about africa,take the time to look at yoself in a miror,u might not see black.Zeen

Well im the mother of 4 children and all i ask their father to do is come get them and spend time with them. Every now and then when there’s something they need and I cant get it by myself. I will ask him to help me out. I feel a real man would take care of his seed. He would want the best for his child or children and if forcing hime to take care of them is the only way. Then its not worth it because in the long run hes only hurting hisself. So, in the end he will have to answer to god and God only. To all the baby mommasthat are making a way out of no way, stay strong. The Lorf will continue to provide as long as u pray and keep the faith. REMEMBER: In every difficult there lies an opportunity.
PEACE

@can3009:take look:
Obama Says “I Have the Blood of Africa Within Me” In Ghana Speech

I bet u were jumping around when Obama became president…hun Bomba klatt

I agree with Roe0703. You couldn’t have said it any clearer than that. You are right!!!

TO RASTAFARI I CAN SAY WHAT EVER I WANT AND IM BLACK AND PROUD SO F**KIN WHAT IT IS WHAT IS BULLS**T THAT

RASTAFARI JUMPING AROUND FOR WHAT IM WATIN TO SEE WHAT OBAMA HAVE IN STORE FOR US UNTIL THEN YELL ILL JUMP!

his new single is gonna be called I F**KED UP (SHOULD’VE PULLED OUT )

@can3009:u can say what da f**k u wanna say,but do not talk bulls**t about us ,if u do not know us.Bottom line

I do have kids and i take care of them,so what the f**k it has to do with africans

Look the apternity test just came out that akon is the father of this child. now give him a damn cahnce to prove himself, im sure that he will be a responsible father to his child. And at the moment he is on tour so i will assume that he will handle the matter when he gets off the tour. peole always want to be in all up in the business. I just hope that you guys and gals are taking care of your responsibility while your worried about somebody else. And a tip for all you men stop thinking with the heads of your p***ses and start thinking with the head on your shoulders and you wouldt get caught ou there like that.Okay!!!!!!!!

Seriosuly? Nah really?

WHY DO WE CARE? It’s that’s man business. We really need to find other things to talk about….

i really hope that akon steps up to the plate and own up to his responsiblity….now that is out the way, really everyone in that/this situation has to take ownership when a child is born. almost everyone know who akon is and the majority of the time the females try/conquer in getting pregnant for the money or whatever. damn near everybody on here talking about akon shoulda got some condoms, what he shoulda had was a damn brain. for one if this chic wasnt his main girl or wifey, why the hell would she be letting you ‘raw dog’ her. thats the main reason there are so many children out here with no daddies. but the children struggle, have a hard time coping with somethings. phuck the men, they gone do them. its the women that need to realize that phucking a ‘celebrity’ or a man that got a lil change because guess what 5/10 will only take care of the kids not YOU! I really feel sorry for this baby here but it is what it is, men arent the only person to blame, blame the damn female too. it just goes to show that she’d phuck anyone bare with a lil change. its a doggie dog world, but she did it to herself. this is my beliefs on any woman who phucks any man with no condom, for money, popularity, for looks or cuz he got a fire mouth piece, all that s**t wears out eventually. wake the PHUCK up women. cuz you aint hurting nobody but the child/ren.

WOW! This is baby number 7 or 8! Keep it in your pants or buy a pack of condoms! WOW!

@rastafarai DON’T waste your time. Most likely she is a member of the “I talk S*** about everyone but my self” crew.

Get it together people!

2CAN3009

I DONT KNOW ABOUT YOU BEING BLACK AND PROUD BUT I DO KNO ABOUT U BEING GROSS LOOKIGN AND A BIG FAT TUB A LARD FORM UR NASTY PICTURE SHOWING OFF ALL THAT FAT

YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF URSELF

AFRAKANS WORLD WIDE DEAL WITH THESE SAME ISSUES FROM THE INNER CITYS OF COMPTON TO THE SLUMS OF NIGERIA

MUTHA F**KAS BORN IN THE ISLANDS AND AFRAKA AND THE UNTIED STATES AND EUROPE ARE
DEAD BEAT DADS AND DONT TAKE RESPONSIBILTY FOR OUR LITTLE AFRAKAN BROTHERES AND SISTER THEY CREATE

THIS IS NOT JUST A DISAPORIK AFRAKAN THANG NOR A CONTINETNAL AFRAKAN THANG

LOL

AKON NEEDS TO SHELL OUT NOT ONLY THE MONEY BUT THE TIME AS SHE GETS OLDER HIS NOSE SHOULD BE ON HER NOSE SMILING AND LAUGHING AND BEING SPOTTED WITH EHR IN PUBLIC PUSHING HER ON THE SWINGS

AFRAKAN MEN WE ARE NOT ONLY GOOD FATHERS BUT GREAT FATHERS

AKON NOT SO MUCH

HE IS A EMBARRASMENT TO AFRAKAN MEN WORLD WIDE FOR NOT TAKIGN CARE OF HIS CHILD

MATTER A FACT ITS DISGUSTING

can3009

AS AN AFRAKAN AMERIKAN THIS IS WHY I SAY HALF BREEDS LIKE U NOR OBAMA REPERSENT US TRUE AFRAKNS WORLD WIDE

FUNNY HOW U SAY CONTINENTAL AFRAKANS DONT BELEIVE IN STRAPPING UP

WHEN INF ACT AFRAKAN WOMEN AND MULATTO AMERICAN WOMEN IN THE UNITED STATES HAVE THE HIGHEST CASES OF HIV

SO UR STAMENT IS LAUGHABLE

Dam their is invention called the CONDOM if i remembered clearly.

Paternity was confirmed just 30 days ago. I hope the reason he has not been served is because he is out of the country making the money to pay the child support. I wonder though how many ppl truly paid attention to the whole article and how many just focus on the negative headline. As far as this African, non-African, half-breed, pure breed, white/black thing PLZ both MEN & WOMEN run from responsibilities. intercourse/intimacy is a two person game. Granted he has a lager interest to protect (Financially/Publicly) but in the end just plain disregarding using protection on both ends is risking sumthing much bigger; their health and the exposure to to others whom come in contact with them and make then same mistake. Procreation of a child which could possibly come to this world infected or with problems is another very important variable lets not for get a child can be infected if either parent is a carrier. We are all guilty of the same crime, we have all made that mistake at least once while knowing better. Condom yes but think about to we all practice what we preach 100% of the time?

WHETHER AKON IS AFRIKAN OR NOT IS NO EXCUSE FOR HIS IRRESPONSIBILITY AS A GROWN AZZ MAN!! IT’S JUST SAD WHETHER BLK OR WHITE WHEN A MAN MAKES ALL THESE BABIES & IS A DEAD BEAT DAD…THERE’S NO EXCUSE WITH ALL THESE FORMS OF CONTRACEPTION!! STRAP IT UP OR NEUTER YOUR SELF!!

I wouldn’t pay up either until I found out the baby was mines. So why is he wrong for that?

what does him being african have to do with it. i know plenty of men in general that dont take care of there kids. he found out 30 days ago that it was his kid give the man a break s**t how long has it been since some of the woman yall know got a child support check or not. its a big deal to everyone because he has the money.give him some time to get s**t together.

According to the story, paternity test was confirmed 30 days ago….Is the mother so desperate for cash that she can’t wait longer than 30 days? The headline of the story is misleading as always. When are low-life journalists going to start reporting the news and start forcing your opinion on people? If Blackplanet has any integrity they would cut ties with irresponsible journalists.

some of yall dont get ur wasting ur time with the condom phrase like i said those people over in the other country where akon is from dont belive in comdoms do yall see all them kids over there that we tax payers have to feed because of these problems thats s**t im talkin about take how u want take it but i dont mind helpin the children

Another woman setting another trap. Get a damn job. Stop trying to sleep with guys who have earned money so you wont have to do anything with your meaningless life. No wonder they call it a snatch.

stop talkin about ur mommy shago 24 the hoe in ur country ur face like a big tube of lard ya grease monkey

got caught in da venus(p***s) fly trap huh…..

More bum b***hes looking for a way to get some guap for opening thier legs lolol, My brothers RUUUUUUNNNNNN and my decent women its the millions like her and others and u kno many of them if its not u yourself these r the reasons our people r where we are a generation of women raised with no males around so they cant deal with any of them as adults “WELFARE”

i read all of the comments …. i mean people dont seem to understand it takes two to tangle … yeah we pay tax to feed people food and whatever is it they take out our tax’s but come one we all wake up and have to feed are kids and our self’s to and if u lay down u have to paid the price …. and i cant stand females who feel like there pu–y is gold .. now these b***h’s get a pay check every month and there kid’s still lok like crap .. i hate the fact that those dont want to take responsibily have to work harder cuz there other party dont have to work .. KARMA

why do all these men feel that women just do it to get money… he knew he had sex with that woman and then he wanna deny it… come Akon you should be accepting that baby. If she wasn’t mother material, you should’ve wore a condom. Let be real about this, if it was any of u guys mothers u wouldn’t think that about her. Why do it now? Grow Up Pay ya bills…. S**t happens for a reason!

I FIND IT FUGGIN HILARIOUS THAT ALL THE COMMENTS ARE BORDERED AROUND THE WOMAN BEING A HOE. FUNNY HOW AKON HAS A HISTORY OF BEING A MAN W***E BUT DUE TO HIM HAVING MONEY YOU ALL SEEM TO OVERLOOK THAT SMART FACT. IF HE DIDN’T WANT ANY KIDS WITH HER HE SHOULD HAVE NOT HAVE BANGED HER SIMPLE AS THAT. HE’S TOO DAMN OLD TO ACT LIKE HE’S SURPRISED ABOUT WHERE BABIES COMES FROM. DUMB ASSES!!!

Have any of yall ever thought that maybe she feels like he needs to own up to his responsiblities instead of being a typical black male who thinks that its not their problem…and if she has a job what makes you think that,thats enough the world is getting harder and harder everyday….im a single mother and my daughters father isnt helping me at all and its hard as hell when you doing it by yourself…their are alot of f’ed up females but then you got the ones like me who just want you to take care of your responsibilities.

wow thats a shocking 2 me b/c i didnt think singers would do anything like that but akon isnted the only one, well i hope he be a man and step up and take care of his child!

Well…let the truth be told – I know him personally – my heart goes out to his WIFE of UPTEEN CENTURIES – MEKA – love ya girl!!!

It is said that he hasn’t got gingivitis from all this sugar – eventually all the candy becomes a sour taste!With a bunch of babies made and a great wife to care for them – yes I said a great wife – cause his wife will be there for his kids as ALWAYS -not negating the many outside her and him…

Ali what happened????

Still love you and your crazy style – BUT I am sure not feeling your walk!!!

Ladies realize: you may get a little cash for a minute – quickly cometh – quickly leaveth – Michael Jackson was one of the wealthiest paid NUBUNS and he went to his death according to the media a broke man – so when you look at it – whose pennies are you playn’ with – your babies UNBORN!!!

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Despite Ali/Akon being the seed man to many – he is one who takes care of his children – ALL of them!!!

SKHM ~ Kim

Wow..So many bitter men, attempting to villify the victim. Either’s Akon’s a total IDIOT, or this woman’s game is super tight. If you don’t want to support a kid, ZIP up your pants, dude. BTW, has anyone noticed that it’s typically BLACK guys that COMPLAIN about handling their responsibility? They have no sense of accountability, choosing instead to point fingers, and lay blame at the feet of the woman. Dude, all you had to do was protect YOURSELF. YOUR SELF!!! What about that is so hard for a man to understand? Any excuse offered for not having taken the few necessary seconds to do so, is just that: an EXCUSE. We all know that excuses are the tools of INCOMPETENCE. If you gave a damm about yourself, your reputation, your kid(s), your money, your status, etc, you would DO what a MAN ought to. WRAP IT UP!!! Don’t rely on her; the fact that she’s making the horrible mistake of li
lying down with a BUM who doesn’t have a simple thing called HONOR (meaning, he wouldn’t take from a woman her most precious offering, or deride/degrade her after enjoying himself at her expense), speaks to her lack of judgement, maturity, self-esteem, or all of the above. Where’s the MAN’S sense of self-obligation? What is it men feel they have a right to expect from a woman, and what do they feel the woman has a RIGHT to EXPECT??? For the female that stated she HATES women who treat their “pu$$y” like gold; you should know that while it isn’t GOLD, it is(or at least should be) considered a woman’s most precious offering, as it is the gateway to procreation. A woman ought to be treated as though she is special, simply because our Creator ordained it to be so. What oyu are seeing here, in this article, is woman who did not know her worth, as many of us (sounds as though you may be in this number)often do. She is now attempting to at least provide for the life that she brought forth, and no matter WHAT she earns, or how, it is STILL the responsibility of BOTH parents to provide for their child, REGARDLESS of circ**stance or their personal feelings (or lack thereof) toward one another. The fact that attorneys and the government of TWO states had to step in and ensure that this child’s rights were protected, is shameful. The father is the one who is to protect the kid. Massive FAIL on Akon’s part, here. No excuses acceptable..SMH

QueenofDrama79, VERY WELL SAID!!!

The update to this story proves my original post thoughts of a SMEAR CAMPAIGN… Paternity established 30 days ago in a state where he DOES NOT reside… This kind of paperwork shuffling takes about 30 to 45 days in states where the residency is the same so stop the bull this man has at least 6 other children that he cares for and I’m sure he isn’t going to just kick this one to the curb….

This was an opportunity for the attorney to get his/her name out there and a 15 minutes of fame moment for the mother…

And it blows me to no end at the thoughts many have regarding child support/responsibility/child rearing/etc… Every child deserves to have a relationship with both parents but we as people need to get it straight and know that we can’t force it to be done the way we may want in our situations… FACT: The court system fails MOST men who try to be responsible legally and all you attorneys on BP know this…. Vindictive relationships are hurting our children, not irresponsible fathers…. People, ladies especially research this stuff so you are aware at what really is going on among the majority of so called “Dead Beat Dad’s”… I haven’t met a women yet who has said she would be happy or willing to pay any amount of money that was dictated by a court in these cases when decision is reversed… Most of the time they stop working altogether and we never hear a word more about it….

When the ship has sank, there is no raising it back up and smooth sailing… You do what you can to get back to shore, often without the crew… Then sometimes you just get lucky

The bottom line is….WRAP IT UP!!! Stop leaving ALL on the women to take all the responsibility! Ok, babies are not the only thing you can get!!!!!!

Another Gold Digger strikes again.

Yup she slept with him for the money! Yup he should not have to pay for the child they made. We all know what happened! We are as powerful as God. GTFOH no one knows what happened behind closed door. All the we know is what the media tells us. I do hope he takes care of the child AND I do hope the mother of the child thinks before she jumps in the sack, Akon needs to think about his actions also.

Paternity was confirmed just 30 days ago. I hope the reason he has not been served is because he is out of the country making the money to pay the child support. I wonder though how many ppl truly paid attention to the whole article and how many just focus on the negative headline. As far as this African, non-African, half-breed, pure breed, white/black thing PLZ both MEN & WOMEN run from responsibilities.

Intercourse/intimacy is a two person game. Granted he has a larger interest to protect (Financially/Publicly) but in the end just plain disregarding using protection on both ends is risking sumthing much bigger; their health and the exposure to to others whom come in contact with them and make the same mistake. Procreation of a child which could possibly come to this world infected or with problems is another very important variable lets not forget a child can be infected if either parent is a carrier.

We are all guilty of the same crime, we have all made that mistake at least once while knowing better. Condom yes but think about to we all practice what we preach 100% of the time?

u see this is why our men are eating alot of white meat and leaving dark meat alone. now if this was a know good nigga that didnt have s**t she would have gotten an abortion. but beings that he has money shes gonna have his baby. she is only thinking about herself and not the kid. start making kids out of love and not lust ladies and gentlemen. or shall i say hoes and nasty niggas.

POINT-BLANK AKON KNEW WHEN HE WAS F**KING AND WHO HE WAS F**KING, SO BEFORE WE START CALLING FEMALE OUT WE NEED TO FIRST CHECK THESE ARTIST CUZ THEY KNOW WHAT THEIR’RE AROUND AND WHAT IT GONNA COST THEM… AND NIGGA IS NOT A F**KING CHILD NOT TO KNOW WHO OR HOW HE’S F**KING OUT THERE…. SO HE NEED TO TAKE OF HIS RESPONSIBILIY INSTEAD WAITING TIL IT HIT THE WORLD

these days……the father is just a sperm donor and the mother is just an incubator, but the “STATE”(Inc.) is the parent (wardship)

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“If she wasn’t mother material, you should’ve wore a condom.”
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HELL YEAH !!! or hold ya seed (dont bust), ORRRRR upgrade the QUALITY of womben you deal with……and womben upgrade the QUALITY of men yall deal with.

Well akon, step up to the plate, time is tickin fast………….

WEAR a CONDOM~ K.I.D ain’t the only thing you can get and have for life…damn! Black Americans are STILL the fastest growing cases in the U.S (Latinos right behind) for HIV/AIDS. Get Smart up people…an hour to hour an half of pleasure is not worth a lifetime of pain…STRAP UP!!!!

Now she salty bc she isnt getting broken off after all that hard work on her back lol he has got to be the bluest singer out there and he isnt even cute in the dark, she had to be on that money mission

He should have known better than to mess with a groupie. They are the main ones that’s looking for someone famous that they can get pregnant for so they can have money and the money that she is getting from him I hope she is using it for the baby and not for herself because most women want child support so they can spent it on themselves.

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Everytime I hear about someone getting pregnant the first thing I think is, THIS WAS UNPROCTED SEX. Akon you are a fine piece of chocolate, but I guess even the threat of AIDS won’t make men slap on a raincoat before they stick their tornado into the storm.

It doesn’t matter what the intentions were before the child was conceived. What matters now is that the baby is here and BOTH parents need to step up to the plate handle their responsibility towards this child.

Hey?akon looks like my uncle.

he’s a deadbeat

Its a shame that alot of women abuse the court system to take every last penny a dude has just to spend that money on themselves. I really do hope that the government really starts paying attention to stuff like this.

I think that the court should start monitoring how the mothers who file for child support are spending this money, so they can find out the truth, whether or not they spending it on thereselves.

why do people automatically think that when a female get’s pregnant that the man didn’t have a condom on? CONDOMS ARE NOT MADE OF STEEL IT’S A THIN PIECE OF LUBRICATED PLASTICS!!!

only winner is da groupie turned baby mama. akon looks like dont share nothin, bu spearm clearly.

Akon get your child and raise he/she, himself because now she will roll in the big bucks. she is looking at his wallet and not what the child really needs. do whats right Akon

Since the baby is Akons’ he hit it, the bulls eye, dead on the money, 18 yrs, 18 yrs of support for tagging the female, guess it was worth it. Next time try using two rubber and some spermicide. Wheather the women is sincere or just a luckly, she now his baby mama and she get what the courts say she is do to her, cash moves everything around, dollar, dollar bills ya’ll. Thank for the insite, Jamie Foxx, Method Man, lol

Yeah, a majority of females abuse the CS system in order to get government assistance at a fast pace. Housing (paying out 90%), 300$ worth of food stamps per child, the gov’t will even give out a large lump sum loan that the said father has to pay. lol it’s ridiculous, bet ya’ll didn’t know that… But, it’s a hustle for those females that just want to sit on their asses and settle for gov’t asstnce. I just say ladies don’t abuse the system, it’s for the kids man. THE KIDS… and men, pay your child support(it’s on ya credit!!! forever!!!) and also spend time w/ your children…

yes, ownin up IS hard 2 do. u try it & u’ll c y ppl dont do it. akon ya gotta stop tryna ‘smack dat ass’ all dirty dancin witcha clothes off. dintcha say ya already got kids? so y ya go an hav anotha? iz ya dat stupid or wut? luv ya songs but dis makes ya look like a airhead n real life.

Hey give him a break, it is not a jump right on in because someone says you are the daddy. Just like the man recently did just over a year for not paying for a child that turn out thru DNA not to be his child after all. Who to say it was not planned to get the money.

CHILD SUPPORT? I DO NOT BELIEVE IN CHILD SUPPORT. TOO MUCH FOR ME TO DO THIS. I WILL DO IT FOR MY KIDS MYSELF IF HE WON’T BE THERE FOR MY KIDS. I WILL LET MY KIDS HURT OUR KIDS’ FATHER INSTEAD CHILD SUPPORT. MONEY? SO WHAT! MONEY IS NOT ABOUT LOVE. IF I GET A LIL MONEY, MY LIL MONEY WILL BE GOING FOR MY KIDS. IF I GET NOTHING MONEY OR POOR, MY FAMILY WILL SUPPORT. FAMILY WILL BE ENOUGH FOR ME INSTEAD STUPID CHILD SUPPORT. ACTUALLY, I DON’T HAVE ANY KIDS RIGHT NOW BUT “IF”. THE REASON WHY I DO NOT BELIEVE IN CHILD SUPPORT, BECAUSE I’M NOT THINKIN OF MONEY THAT MUCH. I WILL GET THE MONEY FROM ME AND GIVE WHAT THE KIDS NEEDED. IF IF IF DADDY WANTS CHILD SUPPORT, THAT IS FINE. IT’S HIS DECISION. MY DECISION WON’T GET CHILD SUPPORT FOR MY KIDS. TOO MUCH FOR ME. GO TO THE COURT OR FUSS OR MAY DADDY WILL KILL MY KIDS. I DO NOT LET THIS HAPPENED. I DON’T CARE IF ANY OF YOU DISAGREE WITH ME. IT’S MY OPINION. IT’S YOUR OPINION, THANK YOU.

DNA first AKON. Then if its yours? Do what you must/should do!.

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u are the father lol, i hope akon will take care of his seed,as far as ol gurl n her lawyer they want that guap oh well he shouldnt never made it rain

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