Well, I guess this chic is lazy.. it’s not like she got stuff to do.. she prolly already has a nanny looking after her kids while she run around spending homeboy money. So Like dude said, “why don’t she work out?” That alone is a question to all women. Us men know it’s hard to work out if u are running behind ya kids, but u have to make it a part of your day. Oh and don’t say you don’t have the money too (u spending money on shoes). You can do other stuff to work out that doesn’t involve going to a gym.

I guess if you got the money, then you are free and able to do whatever you want to do but at what expense???? But at the same time, people need to be careful. it seems as though more and more people lack appreciation of their bodies because they want to resemble the “HOLLYWOOD IMAGE”. Wouldn’t it be easier, safe and healthier to lose the weight the right way by exercise. It might take a while for results to show but at the end of the day you worked hard for it. Many times these specialists who do operate on patients are even licenses let alone board certified.

This is a not a flattering picture of her and maybe she is just too lazy to work out.

Working out doesn’t necessarily get rid of the loose skin from having children. If skin snapped back after loosing weight, people who lose excessive amounts of it wouldn’t need to get surgery to remove the excess skin. It’s not always about trying to lose weight.

I think the reason why she went out of the country is because plastic surgery is cheaper there. The risk is that you can possibly lose your life, as the case with Tameka. Now, by me saying this does not mean that i don’t believe that surgeries can go well in other countries, it’s just depends on the doctor. Everyone is so quick to say that she’s lazy for doing the surgery, but maybe she has tried diets and worked out but it didn’t work. I mean, she’s married to usher and she feels the need to have to keep up with the younger or women period who want him. I don’t agree with surgery as a shortcut, but if other methods have been tried to no success and a person wants it for their own reasons (while researching doctors) then that’s their choice.

i agree with ms_real2008…i understand where tameka is coming from….its not being lazy peoples body react to pregnancies differently…i kno mines did! i thought i was goin to go back to old me but it didnt happen tht way… i have twins and for 5 months straight i exercised….i ran 2 miles mon weds and fri…tues and weds i did push ups sits ups flutter kicks jumpin jacks etc… i lost weight but i didnt lose my stomach like i wanted to…its hard goin from a size 5 to a size 13…im down to a size 9 but i still have my stomache…and i didnt go to the gym…

This picture is terrible…should’ve been for USHER’S EYES ONLY (smh)!!! What many don’t realize is not only is cosmetic surgery more affordable in Brazil but they have some of the most QUALIFIED and REPUTABLE surgeons. However, it is not worth risking your life. All Tameka needs is to be placed on a disciplined eating and fitness regimen. She should take the first incident as a fair warning and hire a nutritionist, cook and personal trainer and WORK IT OUT (literally)!!

and why is usher with her again? it must be love.

OMG! Girl you have absolutely nothing to prove, so why make matters worse?

Well if she decides to do try it again thats on her, i mean obviously no one or any incident can tell her otherwise. Yeah she has some flab who doesn’t after having children. Find another route to lose it. But after a having a heart attack, whose to say what doctor would perform a surgery on her knowing she is a risk. If she is choosing to put a flat stomach before her children thats on her, its dumb and selfish1 Usher married you for a reason so be happy with that or find other ways to please your hubby and keep him around, certainly children won’t make a man stay.

The reason why she wanted to have her surgery done in Brazil is because that country has some of the best plastic surgery doctors. I use to work with a young lady who was going to get a tummy tuck in Brazil.

I doubt it will help.

She is a Gold Digger

Despite the fact that i have often wondered why Black Planet thinks that every member of this site is interested in the lives of Celebrities, i would like to comment on this article. First of all, I have read all the comments and would like to say that i am appalled at the negative and sometimes nasty comments made by my black sisters towards our black sister. Come on, even though we know that the decision she has made could be detrimental, we have no need to be so sarcastic. Beauty comes from within, lots of us are not aware of this including Tameka. Oh yes, your stomach might be what is was not before you have given birth. Our bodies do change after child bearing. I say our, because the fact includes me and many other women out there who is tongue lashing this woman. Sometimes we do so much exercise, but get frustrated when we do not see a quick result. My dear Tamika, if the fat does not go all away, my advice to you is, wear the clothing that enhance your physical image. wear appropiate clothes that would not publicse your body flaws. keep eating right and exercise, it is good for your health. As her husband, Usher should be less selfish and be there for her. He should remember that he too came from a mother whose body image had changed somewhat after giving birth to him. We do not know what goes on in the marital home that causes her to take this decision, Please, do not be nasty in your comments my black sistas. Lets show the brothers that we support each other with love and good advice.
Black Planet, please can we have some articles that are edifying? Thank you.

God be with her .

Why did Usher Fk her/wife her again? Maybe bcuz hes on the DL & she accepted it…..

Shes not the worst thing ive seen but i just wouldnt wanna wake up to a man or woman with her genetics-to put it nicely.

Sometimes working out isnt enough. She’s obviously fit and healthy but that extra stretched out skin isnt going anywhere unless she gets it removed.

I WOULD LIKE TO SAY TO TAMEKA. KEEP YOUR HEAD THERE ARE THINGS YOU CAN DO. LIKE EXERCISE AND EAT RIGHT. MY SISTA IF YOU HUSBAND LOVE IT THEN DAMN THE REST OF THE PEOPLE. STOP HATIN ON HER HATERS. BE THERE FOR OUR BLACK SISTA’S.

I WOULD LIKE TO SAY TO TAMEKA. KEEP YOUR HEAD ,THERE ARE THINGS YOU CAN DO. LIKE EXERCISE AND EAT RIGHT. MY SISTA IF YOUR HUSBAND LOVE IT THEN DAMN THE REST OF THE PEOPLE. STOP HATIN ON HER HATERS. BE THERE FOR OUR BLACK SISTA’S.

it’s hard to let go of the baby phat.. the rest of her body is in good shape.. i know im not the smallest cause i miscarried 2 yrs ago and it’s was hard to get my body to what it use to be..it aint easy.and if usher is stressin her to be in shape..s**t tell him to get some lipo too cause he gained some weight his self. do you tameka whatever makes you happy and it’s safe!

IT’S VERY DANGEROUS GOING OUT OF THIS COUNTRY TO HAVE LIPO PERFORMED ON YOUR BODY. WE HAVE ALREADY WHEN THROUGH WITH THIS BEFORE WITH THE PASSING OF OTHER BLACK WOMEN WHO LEFT THE COUNTRY FOR LIPO. BLACK WOMEN IN HOLLYWOOD, WAKE UP. WAKE UP.

I know chilli is somewhere shaking her head. he could have kept this confession. now hes with this “whatever” that “needs” weave,liposuction and someone to tell her that her panties and bra should match. damn usher did she use her finger on you or what? would’nt it have been easier to just come out to chilli and tell her that you will pay her to have your children? now look at this mess. this broad is going to take you for all she can, when this could have all been avoided. COME OUT,COME OUT,WHERE EVER YOU ARE BEFORE THIS HAPPENS TO YOU!!!!!

I can totally relate. It has nothing to do with exercise and eating right and everything to do with the loss of elasticity in her skin during pregnancy. I have it too and had only 2 big ass kids. You can do all the exercise you want – that deals with the MUCLES (ABS) not the SKIN. Once its stretched and your not blessed with the genetics of snapping back, then its just there. Trust me, I know…I plan on getting it done also in the near future. Its one thing to know you have a hot body, but when you have to see the stretch marks and loose skin, its tough.

Go on ‘Meka do your thing, I would.

I can say that exercise aint always the answer especially if you have had 5 kids and you need to get a tummy tuck. That is totally understandable. What was totally innapropriate was going to Brazil to have plastic surgery done when you got a month old baby at home. That is out an out reckless. She should have waited to do the surgery instead of takin her silly ass out the country to get sewn up. Thas prolly why Usher is tryna leave her now. She was supposed to be watching his kids and instead she trying to “walk around lookin like Michael w his money”. Thats why I SMH!