I didn’t know he was married… lol!

All rich men should make these women sign pre-nups, its all about the money wit most women now days anyway!…yea I said it!…lol

Unfortunately, alot of women these days are looking for a payout. I, myself almost got caught up but luckily I have alot of great friends that kicked me in my butt and made me realize what the young lady was out for. I understand there are women out there that is not like that but once again, in these times, many are.

if you came in broke, why shouldn’t you leave broke? is it the other person’s fault you didn’t have the sense to make your own money? she should have used her resources and got her foot in someone’s door. and over 6,000 in child support?? for what? is that baby dripped in darn gold? a mess! these women got the game twisted! be a woman and make your own money! don’t think because you gave him the goods or popped out a kid that you are entitled to anything! he earned that money not you!

I had no idea he was married either……i guess that’s the best way to handle your scandle

I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE HIM FOR NOTHING…..SMILE

WELL IF SHE WAS A GOLDDIGGER WHEN HE MARRIED HER SHE STILL A GOLDDIGGER I DONT HINK SHE SHOULD GET A DAMN THANG. DID SHE EVER HAVE A JOB WHEN THEY WERE MARRIED.I DONT FEEL SORRY FOR HER. BUT TYRESE IS STILL SEXY & CHOCOLATE.

I HAVE HIM FOR FREE..GOOD LOOKING OUT FOR YOURSELF

Be glad Tyrese doesn’t live in the state of PA, where child support is up to 50% of your total income, BEFORE take home, so he could be paying out up to 39,000 a month… while I don’t make THAT much, it’s still irritating to say the LEAST.

Prenuptial agreements should be mandatory. Its the only logical & organized way. Money should be considered being set aside for CHILDREN. Not adults who can take care of themselves. You get what you earn in life, & marriage shouldnt be a lottery, atleast in the sense of material gain.

We want prenup!!!!

Wow…didn’t even know he was married…10 months??

What is that kid eating for 6,000 a month? It shouldn’t be based on the income, it should be based on where the woman came from and where she lived. If you live in the projects, you don’t NEED 6,000 a month, REGARDLESS of what I’M making… because I make that because I EARNED it, you did nothing. You pushed out a baby, so now you believe you’re entitled to a percentage? I believe in caring for my child, but caring for my child exclusively, it’s not my job to supply money to my ex, to make her life easier. It seems like the government has always gone out of their way to make it easier for men to have to take care of “equal” women. Alimoney payments, spousal support, heck, child support might as well be ex support, they make you pay as much as possible and you have no way of knowing or proving whether or not the money is going towards the child. If I have to pay, I should have say, I should be able to say I don’t want my money going to get her nails done, her hair did, and her cell phone bill paid… or whatever she does with it.

i totally agree with Coolerthanbeingcool. i dont see why women who are married to wealthy men feel their entitled to their money after their divorce especially if they didnt bring anything to the table. they usually complain about the couple thousand dollars of child support they’re getting compared to the couple hundred regular women receive. he’s supposed to take care of the child NOT you. most of that money doesnt even go to the child anyways they spend it on themselves and then holler to a judge for more money.

That’s what she gets all this women from all over the dam globe wants something and,everything for free just because you got a p***y don’t mean s**t i can jack my dick and get a better thrill lease i an’t got to put up with a women nagging about every f**king little thing she can b***h about. That why i got everything i got is on my own my house,car,cloths, and the money so a b***h can get s**t but some dick!

i agree wit coolerthanbeingcool also..but den i say u come outta da marriage wit wat u came in wit…das jus how it should b

wow i was thinking he made more money then that

gotta love how people treat marriage like a joke.

Get a job Norma!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well i belive if she sign it then it sould be just that nothing else no one put a gun to her head and say sign this LOL that what peoples are lreaning from the pass if you see some one get broke from being with a woman then you better be careful cause it no joke.

Tyrese should have to pay up for child support and bear the cost of bringing someone from a different country over here, getting her accustomed to a particular lifestyle- yep, he should have to pay something to level the situation for her. However, it shouldn’t make him broke yet something quite fair is in order.

she got what she deserved…..nothing..she did not work for it..she did not deserve it..

um…judging by your name Trick_Daddy2000 you will give a woman more than just dikk. You say you hate woman, but your title says you will PAY a woman to be with you. Dont be so contradictory: )

You done did urself good black ty!! Let her walk empty handed. You are one smart man!! Sexy too….couldnt leave that out. Love u TY!!

Well if they were smart on those rich dudes the first thing would be is to get pregnant no pre-nup on that. Look at Kobe’s wife had he not had couple kids by her he would have been like see ya azz but those kids changed the game can you say 100 g’s plus a month in child support and collectible for 18 years by the time he would have been done she would have been a millionaire anyway fug a nup have a baby ladies a pre nup the pre nup anti virus lmao

SO SHE SIGHN IT , SHE REALLY WAS FEELING HIM TO MARRY HIM ON THOSE TERMS, WELL EVEN IF SHE AND TY DIDN’T WORK OUT. AND THEY HAD KIDS TOGEATHER , I’D MAKE SURE SHE AND MY CHILD OR CHILDREN HAVE THE BEST, GIVE HER SOMETHING “TY” GOD GAVE U YOUR BLESSINGS, “MAN UP”

A Prenuptial agree is mandatory. Especially, if you are marrying someone “below” your socioeconomic class. However, studies show that most people do may within their class, so the need for prenuptial agreements is overrated. in the end, don’t marry someone, because of their perceived attractiveness, sexual prowess or the warm fuzzy feeling you get when they ask for help paying their rent. Throughout History marriage has been about money, power, and property, in regards to obtaining, transferring and maintaining the aforementioned. Little has changed…. You shouldn’t have to support a potential mate. Especially, if there aren’t children involved. In theory your combined income should be double of both people. You damn shouldn’t marry someone who doesn’t have any income.

I didn’t know he was married, what a waste of time.

He shouldnt have to pay her s*hit. She dint have s*hit when they got together… Golddiggahs make me sick. Get a job B*itch. Pre-nup, Pre-nup, Pre-nup. Unless there are children in the picture. Other than that KICK ROCK..

Truloe shorty is his babymammy thats why she get the 6230 a month.so just by having a baby by a certain person doesnt not mean anything, like TI babymama only get like 2000 a month, it depends on the networth of the father that depends on how much support he has to pay.Also laws are getting more stricky for people who think like you…if you come inthe game with nothing then leave with nothing as long as one take care of their child then thats good,but one should not have to take care of the whole damn family

I’m nominating Tyrese for the “smartest man of the year” award….

Anybody second that?

myspace.com/bigbendalibra

PRENUP!

10 months, she shouldn’t get s**t!

He shouldn’t even have to pay the 6 g’s in child support, she can pay rent, pay bills and a car note etc, etc, etc, in a decent city 2 bedroom apartment, buy food… and whatever else without working for about 4 g’s… and it’s not Tyrese’s job to make it so that she can live for free without having to work. It’s his job to make sure his KID got what he needs plus some extras… THAT’S IT! That’s why I say the child support shouldn’t be based on the father’s income, because realistically, she doesn’t spend 6 g’s a month just on that kid, and that’s ALL that money is supposed to be for is that kid. It’s legal thievery and that’s ALL it is.

And while no, they weren’t living in a 2 bedroom apartment with Tyrese, the conditions of living in Tyrese’s mansion was that she was WITH the guy who OWNED the mansion… she has no business living in a big house or mansion if her OWN sweat can’t make it happen. Chris Rock said it best, that’s like going to a restaurant to eat, when you leave you ain’t eatin’ no more, it ain’t like they OWE YOU A STEAK!

LOL at you hypocritcal people especially women. If you were married to him you would want a payday. I’m also tired of broke guys saying they hate gold diggers. Although I agree 10 months is not long enough for her to walk away with millions she should get something.

She should get a job

That is one of the very reasons that I have custody of my son. Anything he needs, he get it directly from me. 6,000 a month??? Hell, I oughta seek child support (lol)..

She should get something for what? Just like some women are tired of broke men calling women golddiggers, I’m not a broke man, but what I have I worked hard for, and I don’t believe ANY woman has a right to it just because she shared her PRESENCE with me, I don’t care if it’s for 10 months, or 10 years. What exactly did that woman do that was so hard? I doubt someone with Tyrese’s financial background made her work too hard on the house! She clearly is trying to bank on his income just because she’s leaving and feels like she deserves the lifestyle his work afforded her…

HOW DARE you! What exactly ENTITLES you to that money, OTHER than a judge giving you access to it? What did you DO to earn it? Sex don’t count, because women always try to use that card, like they get nothing out of sex… if it were that bad, don’t do it. If you do it and it’s no good, simply because you expect financial stability, and lavish living as a reward, that makes you little more than a prostitute. If it IS good, then you’re getting what you’re giving, so shut up!

You know what music video I loved? That video for Ghostface Killah’s “Never Be The Same” At the end, that judge, he said “You get the house” to Ghost, looked at the girl and said “You get to move out”! And that’s ALL she and any woman in that position should get!

Say I marry Mary J. Blige, or Lil Kim, or some female with money, Serena Williams, something… Jill Scott, whoever… things don’t work out… should I get half? How do you feel now? Is it different because I’m a man?

Sometimes men(women do this also) want “high maintenance” women. “OOO I wanna get with her! She’s a model, or a video-ho”. But they don’t stop to think about what’s involved in all of that. You pay for what you sought. As far as the child-support argument the brother had previously, if your child is used to living lavishly then yes you do need to pay to upkeep that lifestyle. I do however, think that the judge should itemize and get proof of needs such as private schooling, rent( yes you do need to pay some for your child!) utilities and everyday upkeep. Actually men get the advantage because you fail to remember that a woman has to do more then her half of paying, she has to love, nurture, cleanup after, teach, be a nurse, worry etc. daily 24-7. There’s no walking away from that job. If the mom’s a gold-digger and doesn’t use the money accordingly, then yes, she’s bogish!

she doesn’t deserve anything even if she was making money, she should only get what she brought into the relationship pre-nup or not.

DarkrThnMost, kudos to you brother! You stepped up and I love to see men do that. Yes you should get paid child-support. Just because its a woman in this case doesn’t mean she shouldn’t do her part!

black men stay calling black women gold diggers. but i’d be damned if yall say that when a white women take all yall crap. basicallty alot of yall men is gold diggers too. so he paying child support, whats the problem? a man should be proud to support his children. thats part of being an adult never mind a man. she may be getting alot considering she had nothing to begin with, but that happens in marraiges everyday, if u dont like it don’t put a ring on it.

I DIDNT KNOW HE WAS MARRIED BUT YEAH ANY CAT WITH DOUGH SHOUDL GET A PRENUP BUT MAN CATS NEED TO STOP TURNING THESE HOES INTO HOUSE WIVES FOR REAL. THAT WAS ALL A HUSTLE SHE WAS PULLING MAN. WHILE SHE WAS MARRIED TO HIM SHE SHOULD HAVE BEEN ON HER GRIND GETTING HER DOUGH RIGHT AND STASHING SOME DOUGH TO SIDE LIKE A REAL HUSTLER DOES. HER ASS SHOULD HAVE BEEN PLAYING CHESS NOT CHECKERS. LIKE DEVIN THE DUDE SAYS “I CAN’T STAND STUPID B@#TCHS!!!!!!!”

ALSO AS FAR AS THE CHILD SUPPORT GO IF A MAN OR WOMAN IS PAYING THAT MUCH THEY NEED TO TAKE ABOUT 70% OF THAT MONEY AND PUT IT AWAY FOR THE CHILD TILL THEY REACH 17 YEARS OLD REAL TALK BECAUSE I BET THAT BROAD SPENDING ALOT OF THAT MONEY ON HER SELF AND THE NEXT NIGGA.100

Ha! So it’s part of being a man to be raked across the coals? Really? That’s hard to believe. We as a culture are taught that if you’re a “Real” man you’re supposed to do things you really don’t 100% agree with or think are right… just because society thinks it’s right… I do agree that a man should pay for his child’s needs, but ONLY his child’s needs… he should not be paying THE RENT for his EX to have a place to live, I’m sorry, that’s too much like saying “I have your child now you have to take care of BOTH of us for the rest of his childhood!!!” I DON’T agree with that, and I dare ANYONE to convince people who know me that I’m NOT a real man!!

I do anything for my children, but it comes from me, not from my cash, that way I know it’s going where it needs to go! NOT towards somebody’s gas money, or light bill cause they blew money on stupidness, or on getting their nails, hair, and feet did, or new outfits, or purses, or shoes, or better yet, on the NEW GUY! You do that with money YOU earn. Not this!

Dude you are a little too upset over this, I’m thinking someone f**ked you over! Yes, just like the woman has to pay for a child to stay somewhere child support is paying for that, as well as lights, food etc! What exactly do you think it’s for? I’m not sure how you could argue that point. Wow!

Every marriage is an arrangement. He married a beautiful woman as he wanted a show piece. She wanted the security of a wealthy man. It took time and energy to maintain that figure after that baby and to look scrumptous for her man. It tickles me that men have sounded off so strongly about this arrangement when they make it all the time then later call the women gold diggers as they brought nothing to the table while solid wholesome going to help you become wealthy women are passed by because we can not afford to look like these women. Men sit down and examine your priorities before you select a mate. Perhaps you may decide that wholesome women is a much better choice.

i said thats part of being an adult!!! if the children where in his custody it would be another story, but since he wanna go back to being a bachelor and leave a baby in someone elses lap he gonna have to take responsibilities for his actions. prenup or no prenup child support is based on income, because if you making alot of money why wouldn’t you want ur child to afford that same life style?

It’s just funny to me, because women are half new age, half old-school… only the parts of each that SUITS them…lol… you gotta be old-school under the belief that “Once a man marries a woman he’s responsible for her for life…” but it’s all new age in the sense that “I’m an independant woman and I do what I wanna do…” it doesn’t work both ways, you’re either gonna be “Miss Independant” or you’re gonna be that old fashioned girl… with old fashioned sensibilities…

By the way $82,000 is no money if you child was exposed to a $900000 a year lifestyle. He pays child support to maintain his child at the lifestyle the child is accustomed to. Or if he does not want to pay he can raise his child himself. The nanny would cost $80,000 a year.

it takes a man to be a father, but maybe obama has to teach yall that. by the way he said on fathers day last year he gonna make the penalties for not paying child support more strict. be prepared. And this is the way the world works when your the non custodial parent.

I pay child support and I don’t know what the mother does with the money. As long as I’m supporting my child I feel good about it. I agree there should be some itemized way of how the money is spent but who will take care of it. Child Support agencies are so stressed looking for deadbeats they don’t have the time. I also don’t get why she is a golddiger. Apparently she wasn’t a golddiger when he married her if it was for love.

Tyrese wasn’t that smart. If you are getting a divorce after 10 months you married the wrong woman. The honeymoon euphoria doesn’t wear off until the 6th month.

I’d rather pay the nanny, my problem is not the paying, it’s the knowing that the money is going where it needs to go, towards the child, and as much as you RESPONSIBLE women argue that there are things the support needs to cover like rent, and food, unfortunately the reality is that TOO many women instead use that money for nails, toes, coach bags, weaves, etc, etc, etc, it’s not my job to fix you up so the next man will want you! If we could trust all women to do what they are supposed to do with the money, it wouldn’t be an issue! I have every right to want to have assurances that my child is the ONLY one to benefit from money that is supposed to be for MY CHILD!

Pre-nups have been mandatory since they were invented. And that goes for BOTH sides of the spectrum. But I have something to get off my chest about this topic….well, the PEOPLE in this topic rather….

#1. Are we as black DUDES really that scared of being honest with OURSELVES these days when chicks are in our faces? Come on now…i notice how a bunch of you dudes on here are basically saying “Broke dudes always do this and that…..i’m not broke though…oh noooo…not me…uh uh…I’m not broke….we’re on the same page right? We both agree that I’m not broke? And that I was talking about broke GUYS?…but not me, right?…okay…just making sure you got that part”. Dudes….shut the hell up already. You clowns make it sound sooooooooo bad to admit that you’re broke, or that you’re going through some hard times for the time being. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. It shows how much of a man you are to either NOT talk about your income, or to be honest when chicks are in your face. It shows how much of a man you’re NOT when pretend to be something you’re not just because you’re trying to gather attention saying BULLS**T just to try and get some butt. Personally, MY broke ass doesn’t give a s**t who knows or how they feel about it, NO BROAD is worth a DIME of mine. no matter how much money I have or the lack thereof it stays in Mme and my babies’ pockets.

#3. I find it funny how you broads are becoming more and more gold diggerish lately…either you’re stupid enough to listen to the bulls**t you see and hear on videos, or you’re doing your usual…playing follow the leader and trying to do what the PREVIOUS chick did thinking it’s how YOU should live YOUR lives…and you wonder why more and more dudes have NO respect for your sorry asses. You don’t know HOW fast conversations end when someone asks me what type of job i have…even if I’m making $4500 a month like I use to. My job, income, and check info has NOTHING to do with you nor will it EVER…but hey, that’s just me…

My thing about pre-nups…i don’t see what the problem is. It shows how pathetic the chicks who are trying to take money or belongings they NEVER had a hand in gaining really are. Just because you are married to someone does NOT mean you’re entitled to ANY of their money or anything else under the sun. And the same goes for the dudes (whether you’re broke or not) who try to get with chicks who have money and try to get THEM for stuff they never did anything to earn.

I suggest BOTH male and female to get a pre-nup. It’s not disrespectful to either gender, nor is it controversial in any way….it’s simple…you don’t earn it, you don’t get it…

His money is his money point blank period. You women that sit back and figure to cash in on your looks need to get a ‘B’ Plan. Pretty is a dime a dozen, just check out the strip clubs. Make your own money and you don’t have to try to mke yourself seen for a payday or security, don’t you all think we men know the game, heck half the time fellas with loot play a game called “Something Strange For Some Change”, so know when you are being played and know when he really cares and remember what you won’t do there are a million others that will and most of the time they are even prettier than you.

For those men who pay child support, the little money you pay does not meet the needs of your child. Children need exposure to summer camps, performing arts lessons, clothes, food and shelter. The little money most of you pay is spending change compared to want is spent to groom a child in today’s society. I feel men get off easy paying the little child support they pay as it too two people to make a baby and two people should support that baby. If Tyrese makes $900,0000 a year and he is paying $80,000 which is less than 10% of his income. He should have to pay 25%. As usual another Black man has just skirted his fatherly responsibility.

My biggest problem with domestic relations is this… I love my son, dearly, and if I were rich, I would want him to live like he is as well. However, once financially things happen in your life where you are no longer able to provide that same level of financial assistance that you were once able to, they are slow to give you some kind of relief, and if they DO, all the sudden you’re lowdown, or possibly a deadbeat… it’s insane.

I went through a period where I was struggling to make child support payments, I’m open enough to admit that to all of you. While that was going on, PA Domestic Relations granted my son’s mother an increase in child support that I clearly could not afford. Then I get phone calls that same week saying my son needs pull ups, I ask what happened to the child support, she responds that she needed to pay the rent with it. I ask what happened to her job, she says she just came back from a family reunion in ATL which she had to pay money to get to and participate in, which has little to nothing to do with caring for my son. Frustrated, I took my bill money, to buy diapers for my son. I arrive at her house with diapers in hand, she looks disappointed, and admits that she thought I’d bring cash! I look in his bedroom where he’s sleeping, to find he has pull ups stockpiled in his room… hmm… then her cell phone goes off, and she’s fumbling in her pocket pulling out 3 different cell phones till she grabs the right one, and answers it… it’s her stylist, who lets her know she’s free the next day to braid her hair, which prompts a question as to whether or not I can take my son while she goes to get her hair done… WITH WHAT MONEY??? This was not an isolated incident… this was repeatedly happening…

outspokenflower it depends on why they got divorced. I’m quite sure he married her for the looks and she married for the money. Hollywood marriages don’t count because the average man does not make what Tyrese makes. I pay 400 a month in child support and the mother does not work. We broke up because she cheated but I still do my part for my child. If this woman were smart she would have been trying to open a business or two or squirrel away some money. If she was a fool she laid on her back and thought Tyrese would not get tired of seeing the same thing every night.

ain’t no going down the isle without a prenup, screw that! too many lazy, greedy brawds out there collecting a niggas sweat equity!

it’s women like the one at the top of the page that make me so happy to see a man finally get a fair shake when it comes to getting rid of his dead weight. Not all women are like her thank God, but for the most part in the African American community, we have sistas that think just like that idiot instead of going to get her own. I’m sure you like and listen to NEYO lady take a hint.

Okay…I don’t know why I bother to respond or even read this crappy site. When it was first introduced I thought it was going to be something positive and inspiring for BlackPlanet females. My problem with this is story is…what is the proof that Tyrese’s ex is a golddigger and if so why didn’t she play her cards right and stay in the marriage at least 2 years if she is a “golddigger”.

Why is everyone stating this is for child support? This was in regard to ALIMONY. Reading is fundamental people.

I was raised by a Mama who taught me to get an education so that I would be able to “take care of mine”.

There are just as many men sitting up waiting for a woman to take care of them as women these days-just look at the talk and court shows on television. So the gold-digger term is just that, a term.

A couple who cannot maintain a marriage for less than a year had no business getting married in the first place.

Cooler let me step up and say that unfortunately there are a few of that are stupid and trifling as hell. I knew there was something to your words, I just waited for them to come. I get child support and what I get I MAKE happen for the child. I can’t go and ask him for more because he’s trying to make it just like the rest of us. I don’t try to take him to court for more neither do I use that money un-responsibly. I have come across women that do this and they always end up asking me why I’m looking at the side of their heads like that LOL! I don’t look at situations in the woman-vs-man aspect I look at things in a whole. I also figured into this equation of making that child and I do my part without arguments as long as he does his part; what I REALLY want him to do is to be there for the child mentally, spiritually etc. I know that a Queen cannot raise a King with her instructions only. A man can only give a man what he really needs. Said all that to say keep your head up, and as long as you and your child knows that your doing your part your straight my King! As for the broad, chuck her ass the dirty deuces and do you Papi!

outspokenflower–Tyrese had no obligation, legally or paternally, to pay that woman anymore than what she was already getting. He was already paying her rent, car note, plus an additional 5g’s a month. are you serious? what 3yr old can you not care for off a 100g’s a year?

LOL at broke guys saying they hate golddiggers, you know who you are. She would be a fool to not try and get something.

CHILD SUPPORT IS TO SUPPORT A CHILD AND THE RAISING AND NURTURING OF THAT CHILD. HOWEVER SOME SENSE NEED TO BE MADE IN THESE SITUATION.

BEING A RESPONSIBLE ADULT AND ABLE TO STAND ON UR OWN TWO FEET IS NOT ANOTHER GROWN PERSON RESPONSIBILITY. WHETHER MALE OR FEMALE. NOW WHAT NEED TO BE DONE EACH SITUATION NEED TO BE MORE CLOSELY SCRUTINIZE. WHICH PART OF THE EXPENSES IS DIRECTLY RELATED TO THE CHILD OR CHILDREN AND WHICH IS NOT.

JUDGES NEED TO 1ST POSE THE QUESTION. IF THIS COUPLE NEVER HAD A CHILD. WHICH ONE OF THESE BILLS WOULD STILL EXIST IF THE LADY OR THE DUDE HAD TO LIVE ON THEIR OWN AND WAS TAKING CARE OF THEMSELVES.

ANYTHING ELSE THAT IS ESSENTIAL FOR RAISING A WELL ROUNDED CHILD IS WHAT THE CHILD SUPPORT SHOULD COVER. FOOD, CLOTHES, MEDICAL EXPENSES, SUMMER CAMPS, AND WHATEVER ELSE.

ALSO WHAT A PERSON IS ACCUSTOM TO CAN CHANGE AS WELL. WHAT IF A HOUSEHOLD HAD 2 INCOMES COMBINED FOR 100K A YEAR AND ONE LOOSE THEIR JOBS. THE HOUSEHOLD WOULD HAVE TO BECOME ACCUSTOMED TO 50K A YEAR IF THEY BOTH MADE EQUAL. NO JUDGE WOULD HEAR THAT CASE AND MAKE THE PARENTS KEEP THEIR STANDARDSS OF LIVING FOR THE KIDS SAKE. THEY WILL HAVE TO ADJUST. FAIR IS FAIR. WHETHER RICH, POOR, OR MIDDLE INCOME.

LOL!!! Thats funny!!!

LMAO, thats what that H** gets, he didnt need someone like that. Tyrese you need me, LOL. dumb GOLDDIGGER might want to fix yo face. HEHE

key word… “his” money….

@outspokenflower….

PLEASE tell me what you’re smoking so i can get me some of that…

First of all, the child support system needs to be TOTALLY re-worked to make sure that the money go towards the CHILDREN and not you broads’ party habits. Because contrary to what you heard on the View that gave you that c**k-a-maymee idea that you chicks are WORTH that kind of money when you never put a dime into, there would be no problem paying child. I’ll even go so far as to say EVERY GUY who has a child would not have a single problem paying child support IF WE KNOW FOR A FACT THAT OUR MONEY IS GOING TO THE CHILD AND NOT THE SORRY ASS BROAD!!! You chicks prove time and time again that you’re not worth a dime of a guy’s money from the RAPAGE that you do to the court system when it comes to keeping guys away from their kids. And this country doesn’t give two s**ts about fathers….THAT’S another reason why most guys have automatic anomosity towards you all. If you think I’m lying, ask around..

DATS WTF IM TALKIN BOUT M.O.B!!!!!!! I AINT SAYI SHE A GOLDDIGGER!!!! BUT SHE AINT MESSIN WIT NO BROKE NIGGAZ!!!! IF U AINT NO PUNK HOLLA WE WANT PRENUP WE WANT PRENUP YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!

Scroll down to WalkAlones comment my thoughts to the T!!!!! i dont need to make no comment , he made it for me, IM GHOST

I have a solution to totally fix the child support…they should make a CARD that’s almost exactly like a WIC card. Program in a list of things that are meant for babies, toddlers, etc, that can ONLY be used for those items. The card rejects any and everything the mother or father tries to buy that are for them and their party habits. The card is not only for child support, but the card also works as a savings account and/or college account for the child as they grow up (you can setup how much of each check goes towards both accounts upon deposit)….

This way we KNOW where our children get our money, because, lets be serious, NO GUY wants their money to go towards some sorry ass chick trying to buy the next prada set, Gucci whatever, and then OH YEAH!! “I have a child who needs some mnoey….come on now…once we KNOW our money is going towars our children and their futures, the problem with child support would really cease to exist by AT LEAST 85%….

Besides, I don’t care what ANY of you say, NO BABY needs $80,000 a month…or even $750 a month. You don’t really have to spend any real heavy money on kids until they turn maybe 8 or 9 or something. Babies are VERY cheap to provide for unless you do some dumb s**t like ME and buy them every pair of jordans ever made for kids, 1 sherlin (or however the hell you spell it), two leather jackets, and enough clothes to ast them 9 months….try to lie about THAT ONE and you don’t deserve ANY respect. Male OR female. NOBODY wants to support anybody’s club habits…

So, this sorry ass president we have needs to look into my little system if he wants to see a change in fathers providing for their kids.

If these men and some women would truely think about why the person is with them and what the other person is bringing to the relationship other then an arm piece then a lot of this BS wouldn’t be happening. Marry of LOVE AND NOT LUST

iwalkalone is so correct..it works both ways,but from the male prospective,,hes right..u have to make sure the money goes to the children.period..this is one of the very reasons why i choose to be a mother later on in life..dont have to deal with the nonsense..

Why comment at all? No one knows either of them personally and therefore no one can judge. Being human makes you fallable. Period. The only thing that matters now is that they maintain a healthy relationship for the sake of their child.

i agree with Texas “marry for love” and even if that doesnt work out if you’re being asked for “money to support your child” go and buy what your child needs and give it to the mother or better yet YOU keep the child and let HER pay YOU child support. I dont have any kids but if / when i do i hope that i am fortunate enough not to have to suffer through these issues.

I wish that you still had faith

i think prenups are col these days women are the main bread winners there are more employed black women then black men ..these days females are the ones with the bread.. i dont htink people realize prenups are to protect the womans money as well .most dudes i meet or date work but 9 times out of 10 i make more then him so if we were to get married he could walk away with have of my earrnings prenups are not just about men ..but forreal alot of black men kill me when they hollering about prenups when they dont have a pot to piss in a a couple of hundred dollars in the bank ..hate to break the news to you fellas but a closet full of jordans and some nice jeans and a killer swag are not ASSETS .lol…unless u have some stocks and bonds and many stack in the bank and a house worht more then market value..shut the hell up about a prenup

I dont know where this woman got her info, all the brothas i see in the NFL and the NBA alone have million dollar contracts, they are clearly the the bread winners, and i hope they are smart enough to make their partners to be sign a prenup. Lets think about it, if you rich, you have a maid and a nanny around the house what should she really get half for, oh the sex, nah no sex is worth half my millions, but it goes the same for rich females too, use those prenups, dont make someone a millionaire over night.

I’m just happy he was with a blk girl!

tough call. i pray that they continue to stay healthy for the child. i do not believe she deserves a lump sum outside of the prenup, however if she did not have anything…she will have nothing to start with. maybe he could help her get a simple condo and car for their child. then her lump sum will tide her over until she works. the child support is illrelevant, that is a given [rich or poor], so men – understand that not every woman is a gold digger bc she met a man that has his stuff together. i know, i am there myself.

now hopfully thistime he will have learnd to leave those tragik mlatto mutss aka half breeds alone and he will go and get him a real afrakan woman like serena willams so they can have fine little hansome afrakan children.

i hate to see afrakan men like this brother sellout and get half breeds instead of india aries ,it is getting rather pathetic a sign of infeiority!!!!!!

Yes prenups should be mandatory. If they were, watch the marriage rate go down. Hogan’s exwife got zillions. The Hulkster is the one with irreparable damage to his body from decades of wrestlin. The Hulkster packed the crowds in the stadiums for 30 years, not his wife. He spent hours in the gym getting big, not her. The Hulkster brings a hell of a work ethic and sacrificed his body, his ex brings a v****a. There are billions of those on the planet. Why should she get paid millions for Hulks sacrifice? Tyrese’s wife brings the same thing, and she leaves with what she brought to the relationship. Happy trails.

I agree with Shango24 period! Its also true that alot of theses women (gold diggers) didn’t go out there to make the money, so why should they have everything, or damn near close to it? Its not like she has any children from him, then i can understand some support (child support). Next time maybe she’ll learn to have some money for herself that she can put into an account for a rainy day, cuz she’s currently experiencing one! LMAO!!!

Don’t believe in a pre-nup? Just ask Hulk Hogan how he feels!

CL

SHANGO COULD YOU SERIOUSLY GET ANYMORE IGNORANT??
AND MS_REAL THEY DO HAVE A BABY TOGETHER
I BELIEVE SHE DESERVES CHILD SUPPORT NUMBER ONE….AND AT LEAST SOME MONEY…TO GET A HOUSE AND A CAR AT LEAST UNTILL SHE FIGURES OUT WHAT TO DO…I DEFINATELY DON’T THINK SHE DESERVES HALF OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT ECSPECIALLY SINCE THEY WERE BARELY MARRIED

50,000 4 a year b***h cuddnt hold out a year wooow maybe she should get reasonable child supprt but she should at least try and work but dats it only if she gets custody or has it or whatever

I applaud Ty for havin that pre-nup. She dosent deserve anything more than what she had BEFORE they were married. As for child support…..$6000 a month is bulls**t. I dont remember enfamil of similac costing that much. I am a father that pays child support and in the great commonwealth state I live in you as a father are required to provide health care as well as child support, and their is no itemizing to make sure your child get what they need… $700 a month plus the other $300 a month for healthcare adds up if you dont have a high paying job like myself,(yea i’m broke sooo!!! but I love my son more that anything so I do what I have to) and it makes matters worst when the mother dosent use that money for the child. If you cant pay what the courts say you should pay you go to jail…tru story….yea my child will really be taken care of then. Salary Caps need to be placed on child support payments because there is no child that needs $6000 a month; and any custodial parent should have to provide a detailed itemized list to the courts each month to show what the money was used for. If something like that took effect alot of people wouldn’t even try to get child support, or pop out a baby thinking they gonna have a come up. Oh yea hair, nails, jewlery, club admission fees, purses, clutches, gouchos, stilettos, cell phone bills, shots of nuvo/patron, IHOP @ 4am after the club(I know my son aint out with you that late b***h) anything that pertains to that s**tbucket is not a viable reason to use your CHILD’S money. If it’s not for food clothing, shelter, and enhancement for your CHILD it’s not needed….get a job. No disrespect to the females that hold their own forreal, and that are doing the best they can. Alot of females might disagree…..I could care less….they will never understand a males perspective on the subject anyway cause they spending the Child’s money on whatever……. Triflin ass brawds….Get a trade or something u dirty muthaF@$&#…..I’m out…..100

It’s about damn time that men quit getting run over in divorce settlements. Tyrese made the money so why in the hell should she get broke off?? Cause she looked good while on his arm??…I truly think not. The justice system actually work this time but believe me this is a rare occasion..anyway you put it though…WE FINALLY WON ONE..YEAH BABY…prenupts all around

This is my second posting on the subject and I want yall to check out the comments by memeber Little_Dread757…damn he hit it right on the head. Some true sh__t for yall women to get up on. He coming for real with that and the words are true. Thanks my man for putting it down like that…BIG UPS

umm how can she not live off like 7 g a month s**t id be more than good with that and u know what gold diggers get what they deserve when karma comes around real women support themselves

If I was the judge she wouldn’t even of got that.

well yall niggas need to no that u have to pay to play aint nothin in this dame world free. if u make it be dame sure that u can take care of it . we dont set the price the judge determines who gets what and who dont .yall cheap ass mens that dont like to pay for nothing after the damage have been done need to stay zipped up at all times that way u dont have to spend no money.yall dont wanna spend no money on the kids then take it and put it toward some condomes.and every body will be stress free

See….don’t you think you should spend your money on a decent education that supports correct grammar?

A WOMAN SHOULD ONLY GET MONEY BUT NEVER POSSESIONS OR HALF OF NO OWNER SHIPS UNLESS SHE’S PART OWNER,,,IT AINT RIGHT FOR A WIFE TO OWN HALF OF A COMPANY SHE HAD NO STAKE IN OR KNOWS ANYTHING ABOUT AS FAR AS RUNNING HIS COMPANY,,,BUT IF A MAN GET CHEATERS OR SOME PRIVATE INVESTIGATORS TO CATCH A WIFE CHEATING AND THAT BECOMES THE CAUSE OF THE DIVORCE THAT WIFE SHOULD NOT I MEAN SHOULD NOT RECIEVE ANY MONEY OR COMPENSATION!!! AND VICE VERSA FOR THE MAN TOO!!!

TYRESE MADE A SMART CHOICE ABOUT THE PRENUMP CONTRACT THAT WAS A WISE MOVE!!! ON HIS PART,,,

AND TOO I’M ALL FOR MEN PAYING CHILD SUPPORT AND ALL IF IT’S INDEED THAT MAN’S CHILD OR KIDS,,,

WOMEN ARE NOT INNOCENT BY A LONG SHOT WHEN THEY WANNA COMPLAIN BOUT MEN OUT HERE,,,THESE WOMEN SLEEP WITH THEM TYPE OF DUDES,,,

I NEVER HAD SEX WITHOUT PROTECTION I EVEN HAD TO REMIND WOMEN THAT I WAS PUTTING ON A CONDOM “THEY BE LIKE OH OK” WHEN I’M BOUT TO STICK IT IN!!! EITHER WOMEN DON’T HAVE THE OVARIES TO MAKE A MAN USE A CONDOM OR THE WOMEN OUT HERE JUST DON’T CARE,,, MEN DON’T WEAR RUBBAS CONSISTANTLY BECAUSE WOMEN DONT ENFORCE THE ISSUE,,, AND IF THESE WOMEN WANT TO USE THAT THEY ARE ALLERGIC TO LATEX OR CONDOMS? WELL THERE YOU HAVE IT!!! BABY ON THE WAY

WOMEN NEED TO LIVE UP TO THEIR END OF THE RESPONSIBLE BARGAIN,,,

MMMmmmm!I personally like Rihanna because she is iconic/in many ways talented/attractive among other things. On the other hand although I dont think Rihanna is a str8 lesbian-Gay. I do beleive the girl is either bi-sexual or bi-curious. Come to think of it, if she loves it both ways? That makes her even more intresting. Rihanna girl you are WANTEDDDD! The Bsharpp2 “Rihanna Shakee” video on myspace/youtube about Rihanna/Chris Brown/Janet Jackson/Etc (even Oprah is in it) brakak it down perfectly that Rihanna could very well be bi-sexual or bi-curious. Check it out!

http://www.myspace.com/bsharpp2musically

(youtube: Bsharpp2 music videos)

To be honest with you! I do beleive a woman should get some respect/compensation for being with a man while is building his empire. After all, she is her greatest asset. She is as important as the man after-all they both r investing themselves in each other. Mark you, only being married a few months only deserve a mini compensation. On the other men like to take advantage of women and if they were in that same posetion! We would expect compensation. Its not a one way street. A good woman who is sincere does contribute to a man success. TLC is a deep concept! So the man is not the only one contributing to make it happen.

FOR ALL THESE LADIES THAT LOVE TO SAY A MAN NEED TO PUT ON A CONDOM!!! I MEET WOMEN WHO SAY HE GOTTA STRAP IT UP BUT I AINT NEVER MET A WOMEN THAT WILL BE CONSISTANT ABOUT IT,,,THE FIRST TWO OR THREE TIMES THEN SHE FORGETS TO SAY IT,,, OR SO IT SEEMS EVEN THOUGH MY DICK IS IN HER FACE SHE READY TO JUST LET ME STICK IT IN RAW BY THAT POINT,,,

WOMEN GIVE MEN ALL THE POWER WHEN IT COMES TO HAVING BABIES WHEN IT’S IN FACT THE WOMEN THAT HAS MOST OF THE POWER IN THE BEDROOM!!! A MAN WILL USE THAT RUBBA IF YOU ENFORCE IT,,,IF NOT! JUST DON’T GIVE HIM NONE!!!

BUT THE ONLY WAY A WOMAN CAN GET PREGNANT REALISTICALLY SPEAKING IS IF A MAN SHOOTS HIS SPERM IN THAT PUCCI KAT!!!

MEN DON’T USUALLY TAKE ADVANTAGE OF WOMEN IN THE BEDROOM!!! MEN ARE VULNERABLE WHEN WE WANT SOME,,, AND WOMEN USUALLY HOLD ALL THE KEYS,,,

IF IT’S NOT RAPE THEN IT’S A WOMAN’S OWN RESPONSIBILITY THATS SHE HAS AN UNPLAINED PREGNANCY,,,EVEN IF THE GUY POKED HOLES IN THE RUBBA YOU SHOULD’VE USED YOUR OWN!!! WHY TAKE A CHANCE IF YOU SINCERE ABOUT NOT CATCHING A DISEASE OR GETTING PREGNANT?

I believe if a woman invested so many years with a man and helped him build his empire, then I truely believe she should get something. I don’t believe she should get half if she hasn’t been bringing her half in the marriage. I personally don’t think a woman should get half of anything espcially if they didn’t make the marriage work for atleast a couple years. If you know as a woman that you spent long hard years with a man and tried to make a marriage work, then you are a good damn woman. A man knows when a woman had put so much energy in their marriage, but they both know its time to seperate.

good job… can u say pre-nup

Wow cream on balls it sounds like to me that you go all the answers dont you?Us women should think for both parties and enforce the use of condoms at all times, and if not we are stuck with what ever we are left with.I mean God forbid that a man will want to protect himself at all times just so he wont be taking those expensive c**ktails for the rest of his life, or paying for child support or even being a father to a child that he did not plan on having.Thank you for putting everything on us all the choices all the responsibilities because it will be just to much work for a man to sit here and do those things.LMAO Im so glad that i am the type that uses protection on top of birth control and am also picky on the lovers that come in and out of my door. If not i might end up with some backwards thinking male chavuanist who thinks that only one person should consistently be responsible.And as far as Tyrese situation go ahead man do what you have to do!!She came in to the relationship with nothing but her looks and thought that would keep things popping than she had there child and thought she had a gold mine!Women need to know that when they make that choice in becoming the trophy wife and choose not to develop skills or contribute to their lively hoods then they set themselves up for a great fall.She was not there from the begining she did not help him with his career,she can not say all her time was spent building him up and so she did not get to do her own thing they were only together for 10 months!!!!Women step your game up if you expect to be a kept woman think about what u want to be kept on you

on the woman guy cant get any sex if you ladies dont GIVE it up, so yes it’s on you ladies.the double standard that exists for a reason. men cant come home pregnant women are quick to say its THEIR body well if a guy doesnt want you to keep it but YOU want it why should a man have to pay anything? he didnt want the baby the woman did so why, again should a man pay anything other than the cost of an abortion?

why are some women so golddigin?

tyrese you deserve better my brotha.

there are more women out there.

although im afraid when you make money like him its hard to find a women who wants you for who you are.

daaaaaaamn american women

Cool.

Big Dummy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How dare you ASSume she was a gold digger? That’s like ASSuming you’re a dead beat, 3-baby mommy having, on probation, low-iq black man. You see my point A-hole?

acemillz you wild I hope you never get pregnant and have a dude skip out on you.Crazy example to use, lol. Double standards exist in more than unwanted or unplanned pregnancies what about the women that have abortions and the man wanted the kid. Anyway the topic is about Tyrese and yes I agree that she should leave with what she came with unless they went into business togther or something of that nature after they were married. He worked for his money he should be able to keep it.

Ok I am reading some of the comments on here and I just have to comment again,lol. Iwalkalone I agree with alot you said but as a single mom who gets no child support (I haven’t filed. I don’t feel a judge needs to tell my ex that taking care of a baby costs money).However you said that a person doesnt even need to spend 750 a month on childsupport? Do you know how much daycare is?, lol. I make too much money to get any type of financial assistance wic or otherwise so trust me I spend more than 750 a month on my daughter. Children are costly my daughters formulas is 15.99 a can and she goes through a can every 3-4 days. That’s not including her clothes, baby food, pampers, wipes.. etc. Just wanted to put that out there however I do agree with you because I overheard a woman in my class saying that she was getting a new car and that the carnote was going to be 500 dollars but she would pay it with the childsupport she get. I just shook my head. I understand her having a car helps to get her and the children around but I would rather spend the money directly on the kids than spend it on a car note. I mean why do u have to get a car with a car note that you can’t afford because if you need to use your childsupport to pay your carnote that means you wouldnt be able to afford that particular car if you were getting none.

Pre-Nup!!! That’s what I’M Talkin bout!!

For all those Dependent Gold-diggers–MALE & FEMALE:
If you weren’t there when the person was on the rock bottom, then Why do think you are Obligated to their business profits? What did YOU do to contribute to their success? And don’t mention the marriage sex. ANYbody can have sex, but Not EVERYbody would stick around for a broke person trying to become an Actor/Actress, Lawyer, Doctor, Nurse, Writer, so on and so forth. Usually, before these people become successful, they need others’ help, financial support, cheerleaders, etc.
SO, Miss Ex-Tyrese, and ALL GOLD-DIGGERS, if you weren’t there for him/her when he/she was nothing, then Don’t Complain about a Pre-Nup!!

Lets see they are married for 10 months – and they have no children, so here getting a total of $50k seem like a good deal considering how shot the marriage is and since she had no income I think it’s nice of him to help her out. Look at it this way – even you marry someone for 10 months and then divorce – do you really think you deserve to be set for the rest ofyour life – if you work a job for 10 months are you even entitled to a pension? the answer is no. Marriage should be like work – if it ends before say 7 years – you get a little bit a money and f you letter – on your way . If it last longer you a pension – not enough to be set but just enough to get by. LOL

i dont see why women who are married to wealthy men feel they’re entitled to their money after their divorce especially if they didnt bring anything to the table. they usually complain about the couple thousand dollars of child support they’re getting compared to the couple hundred regular women receive. he’s supposed to take care of the child NOT you. most of that money doesnt even go to the child anyways they spend it on themselves and then holler to a judge for more money.

Tyrese did the right thing. I have a pre-nup as well. Having a v****a doesn’t entitle a woman to a mans money! I have two sons and have schooled them on how not to get taken.

Ladies, get your education, get a career so you don’t feel the need to take someone elses money.

excerpts from the pre-nup:
TYRESE is 28 years of age. TYRESE is in good health. TYRESE is a successful entertainer/celebrity, songwriter, music publisher, and recording artist. TYRESE is also a model, actor, singer, producer and sole shareholder of his corporations, Headquarter Entertainment, Inc; HQ Pictures; Frontline Touring Inc.; HQ Grafix & Design, Inc.; and the Glam Squad Inc., corporations through which he provides acting, modeling, managing, producing, singing and personal appearance services. TYRESE has not been previously married.

NORMA is 26 years of age. NORMA is in good health. NORMA is
currently unemployed. NORMA has previously been gainfully employed as an
assistant at a modeling agency. NORMA possesses sufficient skills and experience to obtain remunerative employment. NORMA has been previously married, which marriage has been terminated by a dissolution proceeding in California.

She should not even be entitle to the 50,000 since the marriage did’nt even last a year you bring nothing to the table you getting nothing when it over! I don’t under stand how actors and actress just disrespect the hold embodiement of a marriage it’s just a joke too them

I AM SO PROUD OF SOME OF YOU WOMENS COMMENTS. THESE GOLDDIGGERS NEED TO KNOW THE REAL. YOU LEAVE WITH WAT U CAME IN WITH. YOU DIDNT DO ANYTHING TO DESERVE HIS MONEY. GET A JOB.

i dont think she should get nothin if she signed then it is what it is. its good his not being a dogg and take all of he offered to give her something but it shouldnt be that much. did she work did she cook etc. should come to how much he should give her.

Well it’s about time a Man wins a battle with a woman. I don’t even care for Tyrese, but he gets much respect after this

well he wasnt married to her for a year so she shouldt get s**t at all.See the thing is all that LOVE s**t is over once you stand in front of a judge thats why i say no to marriage unless a dude is dumb enough to let love be his reason.Forget marraige Im glad for Tyrse becuase dudes aint go the ball to make these women sign prenups they scared of their women like cowards.

whats up b***hes

Say “we want pre-nup/ “we want pre-nup……./18 yrs, got em for 18 yrs/ and on the 18th birthday, found out it wasn’t his…..Now, I aint saying she a gold digger (2x)/ But she aint messing with no broke nigga/—-You see Kanye said it best…lol

I didn’t even know he was married…probably because it lasted a “New York minute”. Maybe if these celebrities stop dating/marrying for SHALLOW purposes (based upon looks, body, age, image, etc. etc) they can actually find true love. I have no sympathy for either…they both got what they asked for if you ask me.

oh well…tough break….guess they better hang in there…what can i say s**t happens

i think it should be mandatory that any muthafuka that marries a wealthy person should sign a muthafukin pre-nup!! why should this b***h recieve anything if she had nothing to begin with??? i think that celebrities are the dumbest ppl alive at times..they have absolutely no standards…if you are a person thats ambitious and wants everything that life has to offer,why the hell would you go and marry a woman with nothing?!?! thats alamony waiting to happen..they go after a certain person for their looks and who would look good enough to be seen with them and they barely know the person..wtf?!?! but aye.. next time get you a female thats already bossin, that way yall can both boss together!! dont get a broke hoe cuz they all have a plan.

Thanks a lot Faithful_and_Favored but, I’ve had him since he was 2mos old and, he didn’t need anything then from her and, he doesn’t need anything now. Besides, why should some judge have to make a parent support their child??? I find that crazy as hell. But for 6 G’s a month, that kid oughta be able to retire by age 30 (lol)….

he shouldve told the b***h to go take a jump in the lake,hell they were together for 10months at 6grand a month,nigga plz.she should thank her lucky stars shes getting that(GREEDY F**KING B***H)an what happens if he falls on hard times,he aint no denzel an when the last time he had a hit at the box office.he couldve done better than her skanky lookin ass anyway.PRE-NUP ALL THE WAY BRO.F**K THESE B***HES.

i think if u have nothin 2 hide an really luv the person 4 the person u should have no problem signin 1. cuz u should never hafta use it. but if u only in it 4 the money u’ll have a problem with it. not jus extremely rich people should get them either. u marry a nigga wit a baby’s mom, she can try 2 go after ur money too 4 child support. women be smart. kno the law. or u may be gettin got 2….

I don’t believe she should get half of everything he has. But I do believe she should get something. She was the one holding down the fort while he was on the road and she was home by herself. So you can’t really dog her out cause how would feel if someone left you all the time not knowing what they are doing while they are on the road with WOMEN coming up to the every second.

I see a reality show with Norma coming LOL.

I really don’t think she is entitled to anyting. What is the support for? For her to keep up the life style she has grown accustomed to?! If you had a dime, some jewlery and some painting when you married “Jody”, then that is what you need to leave with.
If you marry a nigga with money, you should know how to keep a nigga with money.
Better yet, you should have your own little money and be able to live on your own without help from him….duh.

Ordinarily I just read these and giggle, but, like most of you, this one is kinda personal. Unlike Norma, I fell in love with a man with nothing and have received a whopping $135 in child support in my son’s seven and a half years of life. To say that a woman shouldn’t get a certain amount of money from the child’s biological co-contributor is ridiculous. Obviously we’re not all considering the child. How does the baby feel when coming home from a mansion and kajillion dollar lifestyle to the hood because mommy just doesn’t have it? How do you rationalize to the baby that his half-siblings who live with Daddy and the new “Mommy” that you can’t afford to do what they do? What do you say to your kid when they see their paternal figure on the 13″ television that you could barely afford because he shouldn’t have to maintain your lifestyle. I will totally grant that some chicks are trife. Know though that when some of us go out, it’s because we need a break after finals and waking up for nightmares you know nothing about. Some of us are actually about business and resent you men generalizing about baby mommas. You know what you’re dealing with when you get in it so if you see she’s not quite right with hers, go home alone and get some lotion. All that said, whew, she gets money based on her ex- husband’s income to support her child in a manner comparable to that of the father. It only makes sense.

tell that child to work hard and his dreams will come thru…..we all here to work for our goals and dreams….not leach off another mans dreams and goals…..by the sweat of your brow you shall eat bread….yes you were in a relationship and put up with some bull….doesnt entitle you to everything he has….if the tables were turned women would be sayin the same shyt….why brothers cant have thier own?….why brothers gotta be gold diggers?…..lol….am just sayin

DID THEY HAVE A CHILD TOGETHER??? IF SO, THEN SHE SHOULD GET SOMETHING, CERTAINLY NOT HALF. SHE WOULD NEED TO DO WHAT EVERYONE ELSE DOES….. GET A JOB, OR A CAREER OTHER THAN BEING A GOLDDIGGER.

ON THE OTHER HAND, IF THEY DO NOT HAVE ANY KIDS TOGETHER, THEN SHE SHOULDN’T GET DIDDLY!! TREAT HER JUST LIKE MONTGOMERY BREWSTER “AFTER 30 DAYS YOU ARE TO REPORT BACK HERE TOTALLY PENNILESS WITH NOTHING BUT THE CLOTHES ON YOUR BACK” EXCEPT IN HER CASE SHE WON’T BE GETTING 300 MILLION. MOVIE QUOTE FROM “BREWSTERS MILLIONS” WITH RICHARD PRYOR, JOHN CANDY, AND LONETTE MCKEE

I have to agree she shouldn’t get any of his moeny. I also don’t buy that sob stories of “when he is living with his father, he is in a mansion, but when he comes home he is in the poor house.” Women need to stop using their kids as a scapegoat to get a better life. There are couples doing it everyday where one parent has more money than the other. You all act as if kids would die if they are living in two different situations. If a women is not happy about her current situation, then she needs to better herself as much as she can IF its really for the sake of the child.

lol @ ole girl who said “kijillion”. Look using a child to justify a lifestyle upgrade is ridiculous. If you are so concerned with the wellfare and lifestyle of the child, give custody to the wealthy father. Better yet, stay in your lane…if you are broke, then date broke. Then you wont have any problems “adjusting” once the relationship fails. Thats like working a job, getting fired, and still getting paid after you been fired….oh, wait…that’s unemployment. Nevermind.

Should pre-nups be mandatory in 2009? In this case..HELL NO! I’m sorry in this case if it’s ruling in her favor, no. He was making that money alone and if they had started up together and built all that income TOGETHER, than maybe she does deserve half. If not…nope. Sell her paintings and her jewelry if that’s tha problem.

Damn I didn’t even know dude was married, talk about short term 10 months, she just missed the 50,000 dollars by two months, lol wow, sucks to be her. She;s not all that looks wise, he could do alot better.

First of all the article did not mention anything about kids. Even if they did have a child this broad deserves nothing. The only person who would is the kid. If they had a child Tyrese would need to pay for his child to have a decent lifestyle. So to anyone who says a woman should get something as a mother you are wrong. Secondly I have to agree with everyone who said that she is only entitled to some loot if she had been with him from the beginning. He made his money alone for the most part. All she has invested is 10 months and I am sure that was 10 months of him supporting her. So Norma hope you enjoyed the vacation, time to dust off that resume.

It’s sad that we even have to go through such measures now-a-days. Back when a family(man, woman, children) stayed that way you didn’t hear of all of this. To ask your man/woman to get a pre-nup was practically unheard of because you just knew that those vows were to be taken seriously. It was almost an insult. Sometimes I mourn the way we’ve become. Before you marry someone now you need to look at their track record before taking that leap.

Last one…
JohnBrock- Kajillion is my word and I’m sticking to it. LOL For the rest, I am by no means insinuating that a woman should get rich after ten months of marriage to a man who had already attained success long before she stepped into his line of sight. What I’m saying is that a child should not have to experience a gross disparity between homes if at all possible. I know they won’t ‘die’ but why cause your child to be uncomfortable because you two didn’t work out. Since none of us was in the courtroom we’ll never know- unless we’re nosy enough to request transcripts- if he said a word about getting physical custody as he’s obviously in a better position to financially provide. The last on my situation is this- I am a college graduate married to a man about to graduate who loves all of me – my son before his time included- while I pursue my doctorate. I will ultimately make more money than him when it’s all over and I’d think him silly to not ask for anything if we ever called it done. The difference is that he’s been here through all of it so paying him for putting up with my mood swings and craziness at test times is par for the course. P.S. Anybody who calls a child a meal ticket or come up obviously has none or doesn’t live with the ones they do have. Kids cost. And no I’m not the name brand all the time buy new hair every week at the bar every other day chick. Just saying….

haha dumb golddigger

Wonda y she wants 2 reap 4rm were she did no sow. Na wa 4 some guls oooo

Any and all females that think that just because you bore a wealthy man’s child that you should be living la vida loca have taken complete leave of your mind. Don’t get it twisted I understand the whole disparity between living in the mansion and living in the hood. I would personally would not want my child living in the “hood” BUT doesn’t mean that I’m going to give up half my things that I earned BEFORE I met you in the name of my child. I currently have a child with my ex-wife and I pay her nothing as I have shared custody of my daughter. And I’ve often times thought about what if I became seriously wealthy how would I approach the situation. It goes like this…I’d buy her a nice, not fabulous, house, a new car and put up a trust for my daughter. Pretty simple. If my ex-wife wanted my daughter to live in a mansion then fine give up custody and she would stay with me full time and she have visitation. Nothing on the planet that says that a man can’t be the one with custody of the child. I’m as capable of raising my child as she. But here is food for thought…the problem STARTS with these wealthy guys going out and getting involved with hood rats in the first place. If I have all this cake, I’m only dating a woman that at least is some sort of career woman anyway. For example…doctor, lawyer, accountant, or some high ranking officer in a fortune 500 company. You feel me? These are probably the type of women that in my circle of aquaintances anyway. I’m not going to be “slumming” in the first place. These brothers go out after the show chasing down gutter tail and then get caught up wondering what happened. You better believe that she knew exactly who he was on approach and the plan was born right then and there. Good for you though Tyrese for the win. Ladies ask yourself this…would you be so quick to fork over the dough if YOU were the wealthy one? Would you want to make sure when your child visits daddy that she goes from mansion to mansion??? Probably not.

I didn’t know he was married when I read the story. But you know how your mother can look at someone and tell that person ain’t right? That was my first reaction. She want to live like Kim Porter and Kimora Lee. You can’t live like that boo-boo because they established themselves before they met their star/mates. What had she established and who was she? Where did you find this cute hood-rat? You may call me crazy but when I left my ex-husband, I left everything and took my clothes and my daughters. We weren’t well off but what was there, I left. Out of the coldness of his heart, he never paid child support, so her ass better be happy she’ll be getting what she’ll receive. True Gold-digger for real.

I hate greed, only married 10 months and she has her hand out, this was not about love, but money. She is already getting over $6, 000 a month that should be enought to live off, if not get a job. People know who you are marrying before you say “I do”. Tyrese did the right thing protect what is yours and what you worked hard for. Hell I didn’t know he was married. Next time have your lawyer look over legal duc**ents before signing, that way you know what you are getting into. Golddigging Tramp find another man to latch onto plenty of them out.

Isn’t that his baby momma that he married? I believe it is and if so he also went upside her head. So you should have know that it wouldn’t lasted for very long anyway.

Wait…Tyrese was MARRIED???

didn’t know he was married let alone getting d I V O R C E. to funny.

The writer of this article is very petty and hateful towards other women. Please stop calling that woman a “golddigger” and a “tramp”. Those words are inappropriate. Oooh! A marriage is a promise to take care of another person for the rest of your lives. If she did not work and he did then he is obligated to take care of her, and I am sure if he loved her Tyrese would have no problem paying the alimony. It’s shouldn’t be about money. Some men can be petty and immature. Once upon a time they were married, now they are not, but that doesn’t mean her standards of living has to be diminished because they fell out of love. They are grown people. I am quite sure that Tyrese does not mind paying that young lady alimony. He is a grown ass man and it is not like the amount will set him back.

Contrary to popular belief, woman are not the only ones that expect a payout in the case of a divorce. a few examples of worthless men that were looking for a handout: Kevin Federline (Britney Spears ex.) Rene whatever his name is Janet Jacksons ex, Ryan whatever his name is Reese Witherspoons ex and Nick Lache Jessica Simpsons ex. Just to name a few, they all recieved a generous settlement whether there were children involved or not. Everyone is aware of the fact that whoever is the breadwinner in the relationship or whoever has the most money is legally entilted to hand over a sum of money in the event of a divorce. Even Jennifer Lopez had to payoff two of the three men that she married in the past, so everyone needs to stop acting as if they weren’t aware of this before saying I do and people need to stop acting as if women or the only ones that excercise their right to recieve a divorce settlement. And also stop acting as if you wouldn’t take advantage of the opportunity if you married someone that had millions of dollars you would walk away empty handed by choice.

if the shoe fits, wear it. she knew exactly what she was doing, what a joke, if im tyrese im not even paying her $6.000.00 per month, everyone with keen sense can see this was a “us what you got to get what you want case” kudos to tyrese for discovering it before it got too bad, my advise to tyrese is to find you a woman on another planet, and make sure she knows nothing about money, let alone golddigging

In response to Monte Brown, I don’t fully agree with your comment. They were married for 10 months not 10 years his alimony should be for 10 months maybe 2 years maybe. Why should someone feel entitled to what someone else earned just for being with them. As long as they are together they share in his wealth yeah of course, but how does that garauntee money? He went out & became a success without her if she was there when he was nutn yeah split it, wasn’t the case with these two. If what your saying is true marring wealthy men is like winning the lottery. U come in broke leave rich & are setup for the rest of your life. You go Tyrese protect your money from these Golddiggers!!! A prenupt takes money out of the eqausion now it’s all about love…..

I got ya back brotha!!! Why do these gold digg’n b***hes think that if they link up with a man who has money then his money becomes her money.I say get on before you get s**t on!!! And you take only what you came with.(NOTHING!!!)

i don’t know why everybody is complaining. she is leaving with $100,000 more than what she had when she married him. not counting the clothes and jewelry she brought with his money while she was his wife. i’m broke but, if i ever get married i want a pre-nup just in case. i might get lucky and hit the lotto. unless there are kids involved, i don’t think the “poor” spouse male or female, should get half of everything, especially for marriages that last less than 1 year. now if she helped him make that money by writing his songs or managing his career, then naturally she should get more. shoot if she had played her cards right, she’d still be married and enjoying the good life. a true golddigger would of had a baby right away, just to ensure a paycheck.

To all the ladies out there:

So many guys in here (not all of them, of course) complaining about us WOMEN digging for gold and all. Well, I can’t even tell you how many of our brothers come to Japan ragging on us just to end up swinging off the arms of rich Japanese woman who pay their bills, buy them designer suits, put them up in condos, buy them sports cars AND pay them flat out in an attempt to keep them on call or as I like to say: ‘on leash.’ That’s right ladies…can YOU say “who let the dogs out!!???!!” (Naw, not all of our military brothers here fall into that hole but MANY do!!). No disrespect meant to you guys at all….just my attempt at humor over a post that has more to do with greed than gender. Guys are GREAT at holding shovels when it suits them, too.

As for this case, it’s hard to say based on a lack of information. Why the divorce? What exactly did she come into the marriage with…and did his earnings increase substantially during their union? Did she work before they were together? Did she stop working to keep home for them? Do they have children? How many? Who will they live with? Etc…etc…

And ‘NOooooooo’ for those who must know. I am not into digging for anyone else’s gold. I’ve been blessed with enough of my own…and I gladly share that with a man who holds his own, as well. Stay blessed everybody. Try to avoid the flu…

SORRY BUT BLACK WOMEN SUCK………

Americans can be sooo materialistic and superficial. A dignified man, who divorces, would see that his exwife walks away with dignity if she did not work during their marriage. I don’t care how long Tyrese and his wife has been together 10 years or 10 months. When he looked into her eyes and told her that he loved her and would take care of her he made a promise and he should see her through with the utmost dignity. “Love alters where it’s alteration finds.” “Love is an ever fixed mark that moves on tempests and is never shaken. It is a star to every wandering bark whose worth unknown although its height be taken.” -Shakespeares, Sonnet 1:16 Who cares whether she deserves the money or not? I am sure Tyrese understands that any woman he told that he loved he would see them through, even if they fell out of love. That is a real man to me. He is not in dire straights and he is not a weak ass brother. A man would make his woman whole and make sure that even if the two fell out of love she would maintain her dignity. To leave a woman assed out is just plain tacky in my opinion. Money is not everything. Love is. Calling a woman a “golddigger” is just plain immature to me.

Monte_brown please tell me u are a women. Why should give money to someone who didn’t earn it? And when is 6,000+ needed to support a child? As much as black women think they are so strong in the face of adversity you quickly a female that did nothing but spend a mans money. And alimony? That just goes to show u that u don’t think u can do it without him. And if u can support the child or children u shouldn’t have them. Isn’t that what the state does take them? Let tyrese have them. She can’t find a job if she’s watching the kid all day right? Alimony ? Y’all so funny. If y’all strong women start from scratch and prove it…. That’s what I thought. Goddammit Eve!!!

Monte_Brown u r Gay, Gay,Gay. The trick 9/10 times is only with him due 2 who he is and now is getting $5,000 a month 4 the next 18yrs. $60,000 a yr with a hlf ass job of let’s say $40,000= $100,000 a yr more than what a lot of hard wrking people make. A good policeman, nurse, school teacher so shut your gay azz up she didn’t sing any songs do any movies she had a child by sm1 famous in most cases we no that’s most wm thinking that they have hit the Lotto!!!!!!!!!!!

Why do you think black women suck? White women have been golddiggers for years. Black women marry for love. And if you have a problem with this why, marry us and pursue us, then? I know why ’cause you’ll never find any other kind of woman that can love men the way we do. You’ll never find any other race of woman that is sweeter, more natural, more intelligent, lovely with a personality to match. You know why, we are the women that all the others immulate and wish they could be. Other women’s envy of black and mixed race women is very apparent. No black and mixed race women are not airheads, dopes, nor are we confused sexually. No, we will never be trash. We will continue to be well known as the race with a hell of a lot of class. As far as having money is concerned, some have it some don’t, but we all know why that is. Many fear us.

fu ck blk women

10 REASONS
1. THEY DON’T BELIEVE IN MARRIAGE.
2. THEY ARE ONLY OUT FOR THEMSELVES
3. ALWAYS BLAMING MEN FOR THERE MISTAKES
4.HAVE NO SPIRITUALITY.
5. BELIEVE IN HAVING BABIES OUT OF WEDLOCK
6. LOVE WATCHING WHITE WOMEN/SOAPS ,ETC,HAIR
7.ALWAYS ANGER
8.NEVER HAPPY
9.DON’T LISTEN TO THEIR ME
10.CAN’T BE TRUSTED
SORRY THIS IS THE TRUST…

I don’t understand why you men are bashing black women so badly, when we are the same ones that you come to when you need that support. And furthermore, you will find ALL KIDS OF WOMEN fall into the catagory of that stupid and ignorant ( oh and misspelled) list that demarcol posted.. but if we had that same so called list about black men, you would say again, that we are bitter, mad at the world,and wrong in listing all the things that we find wrong with black men in this community.. Give me a break, stop judging people mainly by what your stupid and bias opinion and judge by what and who we are, women that deserve more than the credit that you are giving us.. And as far as us always wanting money, a real woman wont be after your money, not black, white, hispanic, or asian. If you treat a woman right, she will treat you right, and if you beg to differ, maybe you need to start looking for a higher class of women, no matter their skin color.

Wassup my man Black Ty, u’re the man, a tru Cali boy, man. u neva allowed ur brain to be wiped out in the name of love, in fact this story made my day, i’m so glad to hear my nigga Tyrese neva allowed love to blind his eyes. If Tyson had this kinda sense some years ago, he woudn’t be a broke ass nigga by now. Maybe black men have finally learnt from that story of women who use divorce to punish their men and use the same money made to nurse their own pet and social climbers too. Y’all black men hear this, only few of us will be as lucky as Ray Charles, not even my man Jamie Foxx who’s the 2nd Ray known to the world. So, open your y’all eyes, brain and senses so that you will not “Blame it” on alcohol or anything when the time comes, not even the stuppid word called LOVE.

Way to go Tyrese! Finally a smart brotha! Married for 10 months! She doesn’t even deserve what she’s getting! She needs to take her 50 grand and go find her another golden goose….hahaha thats what she gets. phukin golddigger!

To all of the men on here that is speaking so negative about black women have some serious issues. Black women were the first Queens and still are. If you are an African American male, that mean that you are talking about your mother, grandmother, sister, nieces, aunt and cousins. What you have failed to realize is that all women no matter what color when confronted with relationship issue will defend themselves not just the African American women. I have seen it in every color. All nationality of women will throw you out of the house, bust your windows out your car, curse you out, take you court for what they feel is rightfully theirs, stalk you and so on. You need to do your research and watch some show like Snapped, Forensic File or other Detective shows that portray the crimes and the violence that women have committed over the year and then you will have the fact that you need to clear up the ignorance that you have stuck in you minds. Black women are not the only women who wants to get paid when they get a divorce all women do. I didn’t see anything on here about the men who wants to get paid when their wives divorce them. Yes there are alot of them too. So before you show your ignorance, do some research on the topic so that you can give a comment without sounding so stupid. Oh yeah, call up some of your female family member and ask them to read what you have posted. I am sure they will be very please with what you have to say.

Hello Everyone! I am proud of what Tye did concernning his early departure from his wife. 10 months is not very long. Was it really love, or was it just lust? Which is a difference. I am a married black woman, and it has been 15-years to my black male, and it takes patience, time, give, and take, and alot of forgiving, along with alot of hugs, and love. Unconditional love. I say this because my black male is a strong, caring, and sensitive man. He respects all women but he hate to see brothers that down grade black sisters. He will tell you about yourself, too. In our marriage neither one of us has been perfect but our love is that toward eachother. Thats what makes it better. Plus understanding eachother through the bad times, and the hard times but not ever forsaking one another for a role in the sack for an answer to our problems. I am a beautiful black woman, and all of my black sisters are as well. All black men are beautiful even the ignorant ones. Even the ones that turn their backs on their black sisters for pleasures with the more, yes, I will on everything kinda girl. It shows weakness on the blackman’s part. When you degrade a sister, your are also degrading the darkness that caused you to be here, and the darkness that caused our white counter parts= sisters also to still exist through our black ancestors blood. It was the blood that kepted our opposite race alive. You better check yourself before one day, you wreck yourself.I got much love for you but keep it real. United766

im glad tyrese did a prenup. thats how it should be. mel gibson didnt do a prenup n his wife got $1 billion from him! can u say damn?

If she was truley interested in his $ etc, don’t you think she would of found a way to not do the prenup or something. I mean she obviously knew what she was getting into from the jump start so i am sure she knew what was happening and isn’t surprised. So a woman marries a celebrity they allready declared a gold digger……hmmmmm and men there is gold diggers in all race of women. Someone has to marry the celebrity lol

Why does the the broke one always get the kid, and need support….. silly huh. Thats why there are hitmen out there to erase golddiggers off the map…… Male and Female….. protect your wealth yo..

I believe that a man should always take care of his kids. This is the 21st century women need to have more respect for themselves and act like an adult. A Real woman should want to make her own money and not be dependent on a man. Also I’m sure that Tyrese soon to be ex did not have to do a large amount of hard work like cleaning, cooking, taking care of her kid 24/7.
She like so many women need to grow up and start acting like adults and become more responsible for their actions. Tyrese only responsibility is to his child. This is one of the reasons why I think so many Caucasian and especially African American men decide not to marry or marry outside their race. Marriage is not a tool to be used as a way of becoming rich. This is one reason why this country is going to hell.

It’s a sad story! God can restore and heal if you allow him too. Keep it at peace and private. No one need to know but yah 2. Tyrese is steal a sexy man.

hi,i will like to meet the honest one whom are relliable to be hosue wife

Statistics show that men are the ones who don’t take care of their children, if they did there wouldn’t be a need for welfare; so why is it that the women always have to grow up?

Real men take care of their children without having to be told, or ordered to do so by some court; what a crock.

Also, what about the sorry guys whom look for women to lay up on for free; what are they? Seems to me the pot can’t call the kettle black.

aha thats what she gets! ITS CHILD support not “maintain the lifestyle that I’ve been living even though I haven’t contributed a dime to have the life of the fabulous in the first place” support. TRICK! lol

Why didn’t she in the 10 months she was married to him start a biz? or build an investment portfolio?

Keeping real don’t think that your hole is gonna get u over forever…go and get some skills for yourself…she is old enough to know better…kids or not!!!!

sexxy ass Tyrese i dont want his money i want his sexxy ass.

tyrese made 77 grand a month doing what? music? movies? shows? interviews? ads? i havent seen his face since the movie babyboy.

*claps* ….

smart man… i take my hat off to him.. muck these crazy ass women

what is this world coming to? all i can do is applaud people who have the sense to make their love interests sign pre-nups before letting them into their world. these courts are outrageous for awarding these gold diggers money for being with someone and laying on their backs. I know that some people abuse their power because they have money but honestly even Juanita ain’t deserve all that dam money. she ain’t hit one buzzer beater or sold one dam pair of air Jordan’s. I think for the time she put in she should get something but come on now be serious about it though. How things are set up it makes more sense for a female to leave a person than to stay with them.

Damn…

OVancouverHurts;
Where have you been?? Baby-boy,what> he was just in the Transformer movie,and is in the sequel.get up on your current events.

that’s that bs. if he’s paying child support and taking care of his child i feel he shouldn’t have to give her $hit. he was rich b4 her and she probably had maids doing the house work and probably watching the child. ladies step yo game up and get yo own. that’s bossy

Can someone please explain why everyone always condemns the woman as being a gold digger but no one ever condemns the man for HIS CHOICE of picking nothing but a TROPHY piece??? Maybe if guys would stop choosing women based on for arm candy, they could find someone that is sincere.

I agree with Blackmajik_woman

It is what it is . I didn’t know he was married either, but it takes 2 to sign a prenup. It’s all fair to me, goodluck to both .

hello how are u doing alll

When she signed that prenup she shoulda read that prenup.. It ain’t like they spent years together and she is leaving empty handed, she wasn’t even there a whole year so I don’t know what the big fuss is. She agreed to get nothing YOUR BAD.. That is why folks should read, it’s a fundamental for that purpose then you can’t say you didn’t know. I’m not feeling an overwhelming sense of pity from her because she signed it which meant she agreed.. damn gots to be more careful

First of all, nobody expects to get a divorce when they get married. I work in a law office where we deal with premarital agreements all the time. Of course she read it. To suggest that she hadn’t, is one of the dumbest things Ive ever heard. Maybe she married him for him. Maybe she isn’t a golddigger like everyone likes to suggest. As a matter of fact, that word gets thrown around so much and it rarely applies. She is not trying to get some man’s money..he was her husband and I don’t feel there is anything wrong with wanting to maintain a little of the lifestyle she had as his wife. And for those who called her a trophy wife/arm candy, I never knew he was married so I don’t think that applies either.

Thank you Miss Texas… That was probably the most suitable post yet…

I heard about his marriage but she wasn’t all up in it like that (meaning photos and events). She problemly didn’t read the agreement but her lawyer should have explained it to her and then asked her if she agreed therefore she knew what she was signing. As for her being a golddigger why is it that that only applies to African American women. I mean really how many white, asians, spanish women walk away with the same lifestyles they had when the was married to an actor, sportsman or whoever make 6 figures and better and you never hear the media or us call them GOLDDIGGERS. They go out hire the best attorneys their husband’s money can buy and still we say ooooo she deserves to live good. So why in the HELL can’t we African America women live good too. Think about it then let know.

PS she didn’t cheat on him so she loved him just stop judging giving sisters bad reps cuz most of us upgrade our man (starting businesses to make our incomes bigger)
peace and love my BP family

I think at the time Ty found himelf a sweet gal that was untouched by the “crowd” and she found her self a good looking brotha with a great body. To say she is a gold digger is so stupid, I can’t find anyway to elevate the stupid meter any higher. Ty does not have a tenth of the money a Will Smith or Denzel have, he made less than a mil last year (citing the article) that’s nothing to go gold digging for. I think he has a baby in wedlock and he wants to play now…dang!! look at all the beautifull women out there in videos and movies that are “giving it up” to anyone they deem to have some kind of status…there is just too much “trim” out there to pass up. Just be carefull brother and take good care of your lil girl.

she should really consider herself lucky 2 recieve that much anyways…sum women don’t even get anything for child support so we grin it and bear it! what she need 2 go 2 skool and find a skill instead of looking at it as a payday in a way! so sad men can find a pretty face anywhere(LIP GLOSS AND TIGHT JEANS AND AIRBUSH DOES WONDERS!) but when it comes to the real deal they run to the false advertisement like this young lady and so many others….

This article is conflicting with the other one with him being ordered to Pay her

I can’t say that she doesn’t deserve nothing but not 6,000 maybe a one time lump sum and it is crazy how it has really come down to money and no one trust anyone hardly anymore. So where is all this headed to look at all the hate and anger here and its just a post we got to get us a really strong leader or else we are in for some very serious issues this won’t last black men and black women we are becoming so divided and its not good respect each other lets not try and destroy each other. We need serious help PRAY.

its about damn time @ least 1 black man didnt get raped in f**king court by sum gold digging c**t! i’m glad to hear this s**t and hell keep making your money dude.. and for the girl that wanted to know about why it only applies to african american women well i’m here to tell you it doesnt if the scallywag is a gold digger her race doesnt matter… and it amazes me that women want to maintain the same lifestyle they had when they were married.. hell you aint married no more the lifestyle and husband was a package deal!! i cant still get no p***y when you leave so why do you get to spend my money!! f**king clowns… lmao

I am tired of brothas labeling every black woman a “Gold Digger” becasue she wants nice things. Yes there are oppotunists who see a man with money and want to latch on to him, but they only seem to give sistahs this title of disgrace and women of ALL RACES do it !!!!!but the brothas seem all too happy to reserve their hostility regarding this only to sistahs and that is foul!!!. I find it AMAZING the number of brothas that will label sistahs “gold diggers” but I NEVER hear them say that about white women or women of other races they tout around like arm candy. I bet most of you brotha’s would be quicker to call Kim Porter a gold digger regarding Diddy than you would Jennifer Lopez and he dated both women.

That’s crazy as hell!!!!!!!!!!! Golddigger HUH! A sister is a golddigger but you never see a white women marry or better yet, date a BROKE black man. Image that.

any woman black or white is labled a golddigger…come on people…stop playing the black or white game…

Now thats just sad

Well yuh fi know when yuh have a mate wit money tings like dis will happen! DUH! Stop singing ” I aint sayin she a gold digger, but I aint lookin for no broke ni$$a!” Well, Tyrese yuh found a broke woman n yes she’s a gold digger! But hey, yuh still got yuh money move on yuh sexy thang!

Oh ya…if yuh tink seh yuh cyan pick up a white gyal n she nah go do di same ting, game recognize game! White women n Black women only have one difference….colour! Find yuh self a women that would do it all for you n got her own! Find a gurl wit status n stop labelling by colour….we’ve been ova dat fuh yrs!

$6,230 a month times 12 a year. Hell thats still to much. I fault these wealthy brothas for stuff like this because if you making millions of dollars then you need to find somebody that is financially on your level or higher. If I became a millionaire then I’m not going back to the hood to get a chick or a broke chick. If I can get mine’s then she can get her’s. Wealthy men want to feel powerful and needed so they go get a broke chick which is stupid.

The reason why black women are referred to as gold diggers is because, well, its true to a certain point. Look at the numbers, whites that are married, tend to stay together, “yangs(no disrespect intended) of course stay married, indian, arabic, the list goes on. Blacks on the other hand, thats usually what the woman’s intentions are. In this case, they were married for 10 MONTHS, why should she receive ANYTHING? It’s not that we prefer another color, but when looking at other races, this doesn’t happen as often as it does with blacks. That’s the fact. It is unimaginable what our people do for money!!! It is rumored,(in my city) the f.b.i. has offered the females here money( numbers like $1500) to find out about suspected “dope boys.” And of course, how do you think they find out about them??? Now what do you call her??? Oh and damn Ms. Bennett; why do you feel she leaves “empty handed”????

Since I don’t know the two of them I’m not going to speculate on their marriage, HOWEVER, I do wanna throw some numbers out there since most of the comments are about money and what she should or shouldn’t get, what she deserves and yadda yadda.
Ty WAS paying here 5 g’s a month, PLUS $2700 a month for rent and $800 a month for HER range rover. However Norma claimed HER expenses exceeded the 5 g’s and that’s why she now gets the above amount.
Your telling me it takes MORE than 5 g’s a month to raise a child? Your rent is paid as well as your car note, SEPARATELY, and you are telling me you need MORE for the CHILD? THAT is what makes her a gold digger. Not her race or any of that other crap. I don’t think ANY child is going to want for anything with 5g’s a month but noooooooooo, she wants to squeeze out just a little bit more.
There is nothing wrong with wanting nice things, just how about getting off YOUR ass and working for it, instead of breaking out the shovel…

I may not know either party involved, but if pre-nup says $50k for each year and they was only married 10months, hell the $ 6200 a month should be good! I mean it i regular folks in this world working with a spouse and dont bring in that much!!!!! An if she brought nothing to table she should be very happy with that an get a freakin Job!!!!! Tyrese holla at a real southern girl back in Texas where some of your kinfolks is and see how much a Cougar could make you Happy.

SHE JUST SHOULD HAVE KEEP HER MOUTH SHUT..

I hate to see people split but as you can see,these women only see dollar signs and the men see beauty azz and …….. the reason our marriages are not lasting is because we have a miscommunication with one another and there’s no substance. She reeled his ass in and once she got him oh well its off to the next.F**k marriage.

It’s funny how i see every comment from every black about a black or white women being gold diggers but yall black men are gold diggers just as bad as women being gold diggers… Bobby Brown is a perfect example.. Bobby aint really had shyt but married Whitney Houston then tore her up… SO FELLAZ!!! STOP ACCUSING BLACK AND WHITE WOMEN AS GOLD DIGGERS AND EXAMINE YOUR SELVES, CAUSE YALL BE LOOKIN’ FOR WOMEN OR ANY WOMEN WITH MONEY AND U BROKE AS HELL YA DAM SELVES!!!! Much Luv to Tyrese I hope he find him some one who is actually the one…..

It’s funny how i see every comment from every black man about a black or white women being gold diggers but yall black men are gold diggers just as bad as women being gold diggers… Bobby Brown is a perfect example.. Bobby aint really had shyt but married Whitney Houston then tore her up… SO FELLAZ!!! STOP ACCUSING BLACK AND WHITE WOMEN AS GOLD DIGGERS AND EXAMINE YOUR SELVES, CAUSE YALL BE LOOKIN’ FOR WOMEN OR ANY WOMEN WITH MONEY AND U BROKE AS HELL YA DAM SELVES!!!! Much Luv to Tyrese I hope he find him some one who is actually the one…..

lol sorry for the double comment

why when they have it all wife they want half at the end if u play your card right you would have it before you would decided to walk out the door.always put some on the side not on ur feet or body or a new cars get out of the high life and start saveing for a rainy day.

NOW TO ME THIS IS FUNNY SHE MAD CAUSE SHE CAN’T GET THAT MONEY BUT THE prenuptial agreement SAYS FOR EVERY YEAR SHE GET 50,000 THEY DIDNT EVEN MAKE IT A WHOLE YEAR SHE DUMB ASS HELL… MY OWN DADDY ALWAYS TOLD ME TO PLAY MY CARDS RIGHT IN THAT NIGGA WILL FOREVER TAKE CARE OF U…

all i’ma say is GAME RECOGNIZE GAME!!! and i’m pretty sure that’s why her gullable , gold digging ass didn’t get a damn dime of that man’s money! LOL! she is the definition of a silly h*e! tyrese i ain’t even mad at cha’ for this one playa! she’s the reason why some of these guys out here don’t respect females already as it is!! the b***h need to get her game up tough and quick, stack her OWN cheddar and get her mind right cause’ it’s obvious this h*e has no morals and values in her life.

TO Blake 27 I don’t know where you are at but White women marry more for money then any other race sweet heart. Now as far as Tyrese is concerned I’m like Eddie Murphy if the man had 10 mil when you met him you didn’t do anything to deserve any of it and should not get none. she should be glade she got what she got.And as far as white women marrying for money look at all the NBA ,NFL and singers that once they made it,white women on them like white on rice and want gets me is that NONE of them ever even looked at a black man until they met the rich one

i blame tyrese for not making a better choice of woman, he didn’t know she was broke when he chose her to be with him? but hell no, she shouldn’t get anything extra if she didn’t put in anything…if he had all that $ that he clearly earned over the years, she doesn’t deserve s**t of it… but again, why do so many affluent, successful men choose broke, no money havin already women as their girlfriends r wives? i don’t get it… there are many successful women in the industry that have their own paper he could have chosen? can somebody help me?

i blame tyrese for not making a better choice of woman, he didn’t know she was broke when he chose her to be with him? but hell no, she shouldn’t get anything extra if she didn’t put in anything…if he had all that $ that he clearly earned over the years, she doesn’t deserve s**t of it… but again, why do so many affluent, successful men choose broke, no money havin already women as their girlfriends or wives? i don’t get it… there are many successful women in the industry that have their own paper he could have chosen? can somebody help me?

my bad, didn’t mean to hit enter twice…

BOP…BOP THE B**** GOT CHOPPED!!!!

THIS is why folks don’t get married nowdays; people be lookin’ at marriage like it’s the lottery…PEACE.

@ italian

Jus cuz a girl got paper doesnt mean you compatible or cerc**stances gone bring you together. Bein a celeb makes you more desirable but you cant jus get at chicks like ‘you, yea you youre sexy and successful, we gettin married bebe’ you marry who you feel close enuff to marry that chance and circ**stance brings your way, an if she happen to be broke so be it, a guy wit money doesnt necessarily need a woman with paper anyways, jus a girl who loyal, have the looks you wan can do her part in the marraige an keep you happy

I don’t know when this became a race issue, but I love the comment about white women not looking at black men until they are rich. There are plenty of white women, myself included, who date black men, rich or not. I have dated my share of men, and I can tell you, none of them were rich, by any means. Now, after 19 years of dating black men, if I meet, date, fall in love with, and marry a black man who happens to be rich or famous, does that make me a gold digger? No, so please, before you go stereotyping ANYONE, do your homework, and get your facts straight. I can say this because I was not interviewed by any of these women who came to this conclusion, and in order for white women (as a whole, collectively)to fall into this category, all white women must be contacted. End of story.

RE: And as far as white women marrying for money look at all the NBA ,NFL and singers that once they made it,white women on them like white on rice and want (<—– I think she means “what”) gets me is that NONE of them ever even looked at a black man until they met the rich one

I want to know where she is getting her information from, realistically, I doubt she knows these women personally and has the authority to comment on whether or not they ever looked at a black man before.

And regarding the story itself, Tyrese doesn’t owe her jack crap! That girl (I use the term girl because no self respecting woman would expect this from a man, let alone a 10 month marriage!) deserves to leave with the clothes on her back, and nothing else, since she checked her dignity at the door by requesting the support. If she didn’t help him earn it, it’s not hers. End of story.

THATS HIS MONEY THATS WAT A JOB WILL GET U …………GO GET A JOB…..

As it should be, if you come with nothing you should leave with nothing!

she is a ugly golddigger

duh 10 months is not a year and if you gonna be a gold digger be smart first off dont sign a prenup n if you do make sure it has an infidelity cluase and make sure u catch his ass cheating be it set up or not. But thats what she get for not having a damn job idc if my man do have money up da ass im still gonna work and do me cuz doin nthn and sittin on yo ass will get u nthn on yo ass ya dig?

She should get nothing.

Damn, Tyrese is priceless….10 months of dat well, I’m juz say n how du U not make that marriage work. I’m a fello Capricorn, and we ain’t no dummiez!!! Much like the little red hen… U don’t get when U don’t pitch in!!! Sorry bout dat!!

Then she wasnt even with him a full year and for California 6gs is plenty of support since the child isn’t even 5yrs old she will get over it.

I wonder how many of you hypocrites would actually feel that way saying she shouldn’t get anything if you were in her situation.

First off I am in ALWAYS will be in love with TYRESE GIBSON don’t even get me started on his VOICE and HIS BODY DAMN he’s FINE as WINE. That b***h ain’t even up on his level to even grace his presence and represent him like a REAL WOMAN why would he even marry THAT. I laughed at the pic first cause I thougth is way a joke like you read in THE ENQUIRER LOL. She’s DUMB as HELL how could you f**k up a life with that hunk of Chocolate with a side of Tall drink of water? TYRESE if u out there holla at your girl this FREAKY Saggitarius has some much in store for YOU won’t be no DIVORCES over here JUST A LOT F***KING AND S**KING Satisfaction WILL BE Guranteed DADDY……

I think both of them lame… 10 months are u serious??? I can nap that long, he really aint got it like that and she skanky and wanna take him down thru there I hope they both sucessful at failure

6gs a month? really??? people say what you want, but i could live off 6gs for 3 months! that girl won’t making that on her own….come on now

Sure sounds like it was a lot cheaper for her to keep him.

6g’s a month and she only been with him for 10 months in the marriage, and she wanted more when she did not help to provide any income. Hell, I would have been creating my own thing that would have produced some cash flow. However, 6g’s is a drop in the bucket when she didn’t have it to begin with, I would be happy with that and still work and try to be creative to make that cash work. Next she will write a book to capitalize on Tyrese’s name, well she does have a child by him right? She better get to thinking more now, because she dam sure as hell didn’t while she was married to him… She thought he was going to take care of her regardless, looks only get you so far sweetie, you have to be smart and try to have something in that head of yours if you really want to make it.

so what she gets nothing it aint like they been together 15 years or nothing i think she got exactly what was coming to her nothing.Would u expect him to get her cash if it was the other way around .If u marry for love then it shouldnt matter what u get if u split.thats how u know she wasnt bout that,it would have made a bigger staement if she was to walk away and ask for nothing.

WHO EVER THIS GURL IS, I KNO SHE CRAZY CUZ HE IS DIPPED IN BUTTA HAHAHAH

I’m never in favor of women depending on a man solely. Whether he’s filthy rich or just middle class cause this is what happens…you end up flat broke with nothing to fall back on. I guess she better hit Sotheby’s and start auctioning off those paintings cause this is also what greed gets you–not a damn thing. Should’ve just been happy with the $7k.

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He married her …POINT BLANK….those vows should be taken serioulsy……when a man marries a woman those vows are saying he wants to spend the rest of his life with her , he loves her enough to make her his lifetime mate so when they break up then of course she deserves something…..especially since she has given birth to his seed…….he thought enough of her to marry her then enough said…..

why is it when a rich man by his OWN CHOICE picks a woman falls in love with her and then marries her she automatically becomes a gold digger….???????????

The majority of woman who post on BP have much much less than the people they post about …so are we to assume that if they fall in love with a man who has money then all of a sudden they have been converted to a gold digger ………

Woman who submitt to this nonsense are just expressing thier bitterness for either not having a man or having one who is broke

YES YES YES YES YES YES YES…way to go Tyrese…finally a nigga who aint lettin no b!tch take his money. I’m sooo happy when I see Sh!t like this. send that gold digger walkin. get ta stapin. THE ONLY REASON WOMEN GET MARRIED THESE DAYS IS FOR THE MONEY, point blank. if a brotha dont got them dollars he dont get the time of day. EVERY man needs a prenup. u dont need to be rich to get one. if u earn 60k a year and ya wife gets half that ur left with nothing while she gets that 30k on top of what she makes. how fair is that. u b***hes need to pull ya own weight. we tired of payin yall way

SEE ESOTERIC THATS WHERE U WRONG JUST BECAUSE HE MARRIED HER THAT DONT MEAN SHE DESERVE A DAMN THANG HELL SHE MARRIED HIM AS WELL HE DIDNT MARRY HIS DAMN SELF WHAT DO HE DESERVE WHAT TO HAVE HIS MONEY TAKEN AWAY TO GIVE TO HER WHY BECAUSE HE TYRESE? S**T U GOTTA THINK ABOUT THIS WHY IS HE LEAVING HER ASS IN THE FIRST PLACE AND IT AINT ALWAYS BECAUSE THE MAN F**KED UP WOMEN F**K UP TOO PROBABLY MORE THAN MEN FOR ALL I KNOW BECAUSE B***HES NEVER TELL THE WHOLE TRUTH AND YALL ALL FULL OF DOUBLE STANDARDS. NOW THIS BROAD SIGNED A RE-NUMP SO IT AINT NO SINCE IN BEING MAD AND HELL HE GOT TO GIVE U 6 GEES FOR CHILD SUPPORT COME ON ARE U SERIOUS NO CHILD NEEDS 6 GEES A MONTH TO BE TAKEN CARE OF NOW IM ALL IN FOR SUPPORTING YO KID AND ALL BUT THESE COURTS MAKE IT SEEM LIKE THE MEN ARE THE ONES AT FAULT OR SOMETHING FOR MAKING THESE KIDS BUT THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THAT IT TAKES 2 TO MAKE A CHILD SO 2 SHOULD SUPPORT THE CHILD NOT JUST THE FATHER THE COURTS SHOULD MAKE THESE BROADS GET OFF THEY ASS AND WORK TOO AND GARNISH THEM HOES CHECKS EVERY PAY DAY AND I BET THEY ASS WOULD STOP RUNNING TO THE COURT AND PUTTING THESE DAMN WHITE PEOPLE IN YALL DAMN BIZZ NESS BECAUSE YALL THINK THAT S**T IS GOING TO BRING US AS MEN DOWN OR MAKING U FEEL LIKE YALL GOT US BY THE BALLS OR THAT U GOT SOME KIND OF POWER. NOW WITH THAT BEING SAID IM GLAD THAT B***H AINT GETTIN S**T GET NOW MAYBE SHE WILL GET OFF HER ASS AND DO SOMETHING HELL MAYBE THATS WHY HE LEFT BECAUSE SHE WOULDNT GET OFF HER ASS SHE WANTED TO SIT ON IT AND LOOK CUTE WHILE HE BRINGIN IN THE DOE AND TRYIN TO LOOK LIKE A BOSS B***H AND TYRESE U GET EXTRA SUPPORT FROM ME BECAUSE U A WATTS NIGGA LIKE ME SO I KNOW HOW U FEEL SO SPIT ON THAT B***H AND KEEP IT PUSHIN MY NIGG.

Good. I personally think alimony should be outlawed too. Once you’re no longer my wife, financing your lifestyle shouldn’t be my responsibility. I don’t care if you got used to living a certain way while you were married to me. The marriage is over, and you should be on your own. I’m all for child support if we had kids, but if no kids came out of the marriage, then f**k you, you should be on your own.

She isn’t entitled to s**t.

Norma gets $50,000 for every year she was married to Tyrese, but she has no rights to his possession.

HA HA HA

FINALLY A MAN WITH SOME SMARTS….WAY TO GO AND PROTECT YOURSELF TYRESE

AND SHE AINT GETTING S.H.I.T. CUZ THEY WERENT MARRIED FOR AT LEAST 1 YEAR FOR HER TO GET 50 GRAND

I’m happy for him, she had no right to half of anything. 10 months is hardly a lifestyle change. She should be happy that he’s a good father.

ha…i bet she thought she was gon be sittin on top of the world

well, rich man equals rich children and ain’t nothing wrong w/ that. bump a prenuptial agreement. she’ll get a good chunk of child support

That’s it. He will never marry again…lol.

I didn’t even know the nigga was married!!!!!!

Well, I don’t even think he has a child by her anyway but if he does he should definitely pay child support, that’s his obligation. They were only married for 10 months, so, she really don’t deserve s**t because the prenup says for every year, it hasn’t been a year yet. He was smart to get out before a year. I am sick and tired of these gold-digging b***hes trying to take a man for his money that he worked hard for, like in Baby Boy and Transformers. That’s his money and I am glad he made the b***h sign a prenup because if I was married to him, I’d have no problem with signing a prenup and I’d gladly leave with what I came with. I wouldn’t be out for his money, only his love. That should be what it’s all about anyway. I think she’s just mad that she’s not getting s**t for f**king him. Hell, he can pay a w***e less than anyway.

I don’t think she has a child with him, so she gets NADA! I’m glad that at least 1 other black guy wears rubbers regularly! lol

god only knows why these stars jump up and get married knowing damn well it’s all about the money all it takes is a pregnancy and she got his azz.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA AHHHHHHHHHH THAT’S WHAT U GET CUT IT OFF B4 THE 1ST YR I WOULDN’T BE PAYING HER THAT A MONTH AHHHH UR FAIR SKINNED GO HIT UP ONE OF DIDDY’S PARTIES MAYBE U CAN WORK FOR HIM!!!

Like some other peeps said here,financing your lifestyle if im not with you should not happen,especially if its just 10 months and no kids.Props to Tyrese !!!!!!!!!!

People,whether you make a dime or a million a year,you should sign your prenup,because you have your right to protect whats yours.

GOOD TIGER NEED TO HOOK UP WITH HIS LAWYER !

ITS ABOUT TIME THAT SOMEBODY WAS SMART ENOUGH TO HAVE A PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT!!! IT SEEMS LIKE EVERYBODY IS GETTING MARRIED AND THEN THEY TURN AROUND AND GET DIVORED AND LOOSE ALOT OF THEIR STUFF…. THEY THINK THEY ARE IN LOVE AND THEY BELIEVE THEY WILL BE TOGETHER FOREVER SO THEY DONT THINK TO GET A PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT..PPL DONT THINK “WHAT IF” THEY ARE ONLY LIVING IN THEE MOMENT AND IN THEE END THEY GET F**KED!!!! HOPEFULLY MORE PPL WILL GET SMART AND LEARN FROM ALL THIS B.S. AND GET A PRENUP!!!!

Yes, gold digger. http://www.moderndayblackmomma.com
Gen Eyes Wide.

Keep the money Tyrese.

PRE NUP, I’m all for them broke or rich u aint getting S**T!!!!!!!

LOL THAS WAT SHE GET LOL….

my man should have divorced her gold diggin ass b***h tryin to come in wit somthin an you empty handed b***h you gets nothin get of my man millions step trick go suck a dick

you dumm ass b***hes in here posting s**t an not reading tha man was married for 10 months he had a prenup an THEY DONT HAVE KIDS, how you dumm asses read the story an come up with your comments i dont understand i guess you just read what the next dum ass post an go off that thats how the gossip an storys get so messed up DAMN PEOPLE READING IS FUNDAMENTAL an stop using the IGNORANT WORD NIGGA damn an we want to say if a non black person uses that word there racist i could have swore that we as a people along with the NAACP agreed to bury the N word when or we going to imbrace AFRICAN AMERICAN AS THE NEW BLACK NIGGA WORD you can leave your comment but can we just BE MORE EDUCATED in the way we Comment MY PEOPLE.

Please! She’s doing good to even get $6,000 a month! They weren’t married but a hot minute, no kids, and apparently she didn’t have an income while they were married! She better take her $6,000 and run with it! Futhermore, if she can’t live on that, something is wrong.

Um well that’s what her dumb ass gets for tryin to be greedy…and $6,000 a month! Good lord! I live off $600 a month and she’s complaining? S**t I’ll switch anyday!

What was that song about only needing one of everything that Tyress sung?… Well that’s ONE greedy b***h that he didn’t need. You know it’s a rareity for a man that’s in “the industry” to find a women that is pretty and acutally has more beyond that. Don’t these men every check there background to see if they every held a position, beside that one behind them? (sigh)

this chick is ugly. i guess all that matter she light. next time us some of that babyboy money a do a backdround check. like u was the f.b.I…all that bright don’t make em right.

WHO EVER CREATED THE LAW WHERE IF YA DIVORCE YOU HAVE TO FINANCE SOMEONES LIFESTYLE ANYWAYZ..???? IT MAKES NO SENCE IF YOUR NO LONER TOGETHER YOU SHOULD LEAVE WITH WHAT YOU WALKED IN WITH MALE OR FEMALE. THE GOVERNMENT HAS MADE A PLOT 2 KEEP TO AMERICAN ESPECIALLY THE BLACK AMERICAN FAMILY APRT. THEY PUT SO MUCH INCENTIVE IN DIVORCE THAT THERE IS NO REASON TO STAY MARRIED.. BUT THERES A WHOLE LOTTA REASON 2 GET MARRIED. MARRIAGE & DIVORCE HAS PUT MORE BLACK MEN IN JAILS & PRISONS THAN DRUG DEALING…. THINK ABOUT IT MARRIAGE IS A GOVERNMENT TRAP!! THERE IS NO INCENTIVE FOR ANY MAN IN AMERICA WHETHER RICH OR POOR TO BE MARRIED IN TODAYS SOCIETY… ITS THE MOST DANGEROUS THING U CAN DO OTHER THAN F%CKIN A HOOKER U JUST FOUND ON THE STREET RAW!! TYRESE SHOULD HAVE NEVER HAVE MARRIED THE BROAD 2 BEGIN WIT!! BY THE WAY TYRESE GOT NUTHIN ON TOM CRUISES PRE-NUMPS… HE HAS HIS LAWERS PREPARE AN AIR-TIGHT BULLET-PROOF PRE-NUP WHERE A B!TCH DONT GET NADA FROM HIM FOR OVER 10 YEARS & THEY HAVE TO SIGN A DISCLOSURE WHERE THEY CAN SAY OR WTITE ANYTHING NEGATIVE ABOUT HIM AFTER DIVORCE… THATS WHY HE DIVORCES EVERY BROAD B4 THEY GET TO THE 10 YEAR MARK & IF U NOTICE THEY HARDLEY HAVE ANYTHING BAD TO SAY… BE SMART ALWAYZ GET A PRE-NUPS OR BETTER YET JUST SAY NO TO MARRIAGE ALTOGETHER…

No pain, no gain.
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wow…i am really considering leaving BP…everyone is entitled to their opinion…but there is so much degradation towards women…it’s really sad…half of america is divorced… that doesn’t make the woman a b***h, gold-digger or a hoe? if you don’t have respect for yourself i sure as hell don’t see how you can have respect for anyone else…how do you know what went on in their relationship? if some of you have daughters, god bless them… :o

a man should never call a woman what he would NEVER call his mother, grandmother or aunties!!! what the hell is wrong with you guys? this is the age of OBAMA!!! Rise above the B.S.!!!

He woke up and ditched her butt. Why don’t these other Black men and athletes have sense enough to get a prenup and fixed so they won’t have Baby Mama Drama?

VERY smart man!

Well she didnt want anything, because she signed the dotted line.

One of the few times I agree with this site. Just because ur married doesn’t entitle you to anything after a divoice. If she wants money, write a book, get a scene in a movie, etc, etc….

Businesslady umm just a ritorical question, are you a dominatrix???

$6G’s a month and $50k plus isn’t nothing! she’ll be alright.

GOOD FOR YOU TYRESE SHE SHOULD’NT GET ANY OF YOUR MONEY NOWAY….CAN SHE SING….LOL IF SO GO MAKE YOUR OWN MONEY………GOLDDIGGER…….

golddgging black women smh.

digging

she should atleast get somfing……give her some slacks for being with him

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GET A DAMN JOB

I have to say that I am walking the fence on this one, for the simple fact that when you get married and there is debt to be paid to the government whether it be local, state or federal and it was caused by the bread winner ‘both parties’ are liable. Now if the one not making the money signed on the dotted line of the pre-nup agreement then why don’t the same apply to the situation as it does when the marriage is over? Just something that makes you say WTH! However, I don’t agree that anyone who did not contribute at least half of the bring home should get half of anything, especially for 10 months of marriage. Now 10 yrs and up well that is something different, but when you making that kind of money what do you expect? before he was successful did he keep the company of these types of women? Mo’money-Mo’problems, marriages within the celebrity or well to do cirle is just simply business. Every grown man/woman need to have they own and don’t marry someone that is not in your tax bracket if you don’t want to pay a person when you are done with them. Now if he/she was in it from the beginning and helped their partner through the trials-tribulations and struggles then negotiations should be open, but to get him/her after you have attained all that you have attained then I say GET A JOB!

She shouldn’t get nething but wat she came n with- she didn’t make his money he did, Now less say the had sum yrs that’s diff when it come down to yrs couples go half on just bout everything married or not.

damn, Tiger Woods needs Tyrese’s lawyer….granted he is worth much more, but his wife doesn’t deserve a dime of Tigers money either….now the kids is a different subject.

Some women (and men too ) have a low self esteem of themselves , they believe the only way to survive is to rip off a man’s (or woman’s) pocket . Tyresse is an excellent signer and definitly he’s a great actor , (LEGION ROCKS !!!) he works hard for his money , however IF he had been married longer , over 10 years for exemple and had kids with her , well … thangs would’ve been different wouldn’t it be ? (that’s why Tom Cruise divorced Nicole kidman whitout her knowing what’s going on by the way , they had been together for 9 years and 10 months )Please do not generalize , NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE GOLDDIGGERS , I know some sexy intelligent ones , lawyers , doctors and etc are desperatly looking for the right one , it’s up to us Black men to be a good men , to love them , care for them and most of all , to respect them .

tyrese needs to teach other black american men how to deal with these foreign hos looking only for money, and secretly despise black americans

WHY DO FOLKS EVEN WASTE TIME GETTING MARRIED THESE DAYS? JUST DATE AND ENJOY

First of lets keep it clean. I like Tyrese, but you do not know what he put her through in those 10 months. Also I agree with HOWTOSTAYHARD, if your not serious don’t get married,this is not a game.If I have a husband who was cool and we could not work it out, I would make sure he is taken care of.

Relationships are not easy and I think we forget our vows for better or worst! Our industry has created some mess up women! 10 months she’s just mad cause she invested time and then realized she didn’t want to be thier! I’ve walked from some men that would have had me set for life but I walked cause I could no longer be a good women for them I didn’t look at the time. I leave clean and stay friends shoot they’ve had my back till this day for being honest!

Zoe is a thin women..see black men don’t just like thick girls…cause she is so not thick. (to sheshe)

Ughhh black men do like thin women idiot. Zoe is fine all day..

but they wasnt married a yr
so u right she gets nothing what a f**kin waste lol

It’s ridiculous for a man to marry a chick who has nothing going for herself. Maybe if men married women who want but don’t them, those with more going for themselves, there’s a greater chance the woman would be init for true love and not the love of his money.

It’s ridiculous for a man to marry a chick who has nothing going for herself. Maybe if men married women who want but don’t need them, those women with more going for themselves, there’s a greater chance the woman would be in it for true love and not the love of his money.

if he lets this woman back into his house, she’ll steal everything and head back to england, and he won’t have a leg to stand on.

LOL…HOT MESS

@uhmee2 Good points, men need ot think about who they’re choosing and why

her ugly azz will con him into another marriage and get all the money if he doesn’t just deal with the child ONLY

Tyrese is an azzhole!!! That woman followed him from Europe and GAVE HIM THE GREATEST GIFT THAT WOMAN CAN EVER GIVE A MAN, A CHILD. He had a fun 10 months laying up with her and SHE IS STUCK RAISING A BLACK BASTARD FOR 18 YEARS LIVING OFF TYRESE’S CHUMP CHANGE. HE KNEW SHE DID NOT HAVE ANYTHING, YOU MEAN HE CLAIMED TO LOVE HER ENOUGH TO “MARRY” HER BUT NOT “LOVE” HER ENOUGH TO ENSURE SHE WAS FINANCIALLY WELL TAKEN CARE OF FOR A FEW YEARS, SHOULD THINGS NOT WORK OUT? C’MON, BASING THE AMOUNT OF ALIMONY IN A PRENUP ON MARRIAGE TIME IS ALMOST SECOND GUESSING YOUR WIFE IS A GOLDDIGGER, SETTING HER UP TO GET MESSED OVER SINCE TYRESE COULD BE THE ONE THAT RUINS THE MARRIAGE, OR IS A LEGAL FORM OF PROSTITUTION.

@hiphopman35
U R OBVIOUSLY A CARIBBEAN COON WHO IS UPSET THAT THIS FOREIGN GOLD DIGGING B8SH DIDNT RIP TYRESE OFF. STOP IMPERSONATING AMERICANS ON THIS WEBSITE.

TYRESE NEEDS TO KEEP HER OUT OF HIS HOUSE AND LIFE, AND HE NEEDS TO GIVE OTHER AMERICAN MEN LESSONS ON HOW TO NOT BE VICTIMIZED BY FOREIGN B8SHES LOOKING FOR BLACK AMERICAN MAN MONEY. GOOD JOB TYRESE. DONT LET HER BACK IN YOUR LIFE TO GET A SECOND POT SHOT AT U.

MARRIAGE IF 4 LIFE NOT 10 MONTHS LOL LOL LOL THAT B8SH MUST HAVE SHOWN HER TRUE COLORS BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE PAPER.

F**k y’all in defense of Tyrese and Norma. We don’t know there situation, we don’t know what kind of man and or women he was, and how is she a gold digger, they base the alimony and spousal support on his income, not all women are like that and jus bc she isfrom another county, people are hypocrites, knowing most of yallwould love to been in her position and get knocked up, cha ching huh, lol y’all a trip! There buisness!

anytime a woman leaves her marriage to a NORMAL man who loved her enough to marry her, AFTER ONLY 10 MONTHS, she is a damn gold digger. NO ONE GIVES UP ON REAL LOVE IN 10 MONTHS OR 10 YEARS. THIS B8SH COULDN’T EVEN KEEP UP THE PRETENSE A YEAR. THAT’S A LOT OF ANIMOSITY.

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SIGH, SIGH, SIGH……10 mths? Really? Just 10 mths and she thinks he owes her something? She’s lucky she’s getting the almost seven grand a mth because to be totally honest I don’t see why she should get that. In order for a person to claim support of the lifestyle that they’re used to living, years have to be involved. She can’t even claim that. On the real side of life, women, go to school, open your own business, learn a trade…do something besides be cute and pose for pictures when you marry a man in the spotlight. And even if you’re not marrying that type of man, do one of those self-supporting things anyway. The only time any woman should expect to be supported by a man is if she can’t work for whatever reason or the man is her daddy. There is nothing like having your own and seeing “YOUR” name on “EVERYTHING” including the bills. Women fought for the right to remove themselves from the authority and rule of a man, so why revert back to that for the sake of being married and being taken care of? Grow up ladies. I love having my own back and never having to worry that if he leaves I won’t have anything, because everything is already “MINE.” Don’t get me wrong, I’m not selfish, I do share, LOL. For those wondering about my superior attitude…been there, done that, learned better. Nursing school, AA degree, working on BA, already applying for my MA. Education is just as important as freedom. Believe that, learn that, live that or your story will be just like hers or worse.

@FlyingSolo72
NO ONE could have put it better!! I agree with you on every point!! And BTW congrats ma do yo thang!!

he better keep his distance, because the party aint over until the fat lady sings. if he allows her in his life, she’ll figure out a way to steal the money and leave the country.

marriage means nothing any more it seems love does not either in this day in age what happened to love u to the end of time all these cheating what in the hell in going on i know common law rs that has lasted longer than that why wast all that money 4 what 1,3,10 months just shack keep youer s**t and i will keep mind when we depart i keep my s**t and u keep youer love and marriage does not mean s**t any more NEXT

DREAMKEEPER YOU ARE NOT THAT INTELLIGENT!!! THEY WERE ONLY MARRIED FOR 10 MONTHS, SHE DESERVES TO GET NOTHING AT ALL. SHE DID NOT EVEN CONTRIBUTE ONE SINGLE DIME INTO THE SHORT TERM MARRIAGE, SO SHE IS NOT ENTITLED TO GET A DAMN CENT!!!
I COULD UNDERSTAND IF THEY WERE MARRIED FOR A NUMBER OF YEARS, WAS WITH HIM BEFORE THE FAME AND MONEY CAME AROUND, BUT SHE WASN’T.
FOR EXAMPLE THE DIVORCE BETWEEN MICHAEL AND JUANITA JORDAN IS A GOOD EXAMPLE OF JUANITA GETTING HER FAIR SHARE OF THE JORDAN FORTUNE BECAUSE SHE WAS WITH HIM AT THE VERY BEGINNING WHEN HE FIRST STARTED IN THE NBA, MARRIED FOR ALMOST 18 YEARS AND 3 CHILDREN WITHIN THE MARRIAGE.
BUT THIS JUMPOFF IS TRYING TO GET MONEY IN A SHORT TERM MARRIAGE IS CRAZY!!! SHE SHOULD BE JUST GLAD THAT SHE GOT TO LIVE THE HIGH LIFE FOR THAT TIME PERIOD.

REALLY TO BE UPFRONT, IT IS NOT EVEN WORTH GETTING MARRIED THESE DAYS!!! IT SEEMS THATY THE WOMEN ARE JUST TRYING TO GET OVER AND GET PAID FOR JUST GIVING UP THE PU$$Y!!! GEORGE CLOONEY HAS HIS GAME SET RIGHT, HE WILL NEVER GET MARRIED SO THAT NO WOMAN CAN GET THEIR GREEDY HANDS ON HIS MONEY!!! NOW THAT IS SMART!!!
AND FOR THE WOMEN THAT DO NOT AGREE WITH ME, THOSE ARE THE ONES TRYING TO GET OVER!!!

WELL BLACK TY U DID RIGHT TO WIN A CASE WATCH UR MONEY AND THAT WHAT HAPPEN TO GOLDIGGERS IS TRY TO BE GREEDY THE NEXT GIRL JUST BE A GIRLFRIEND DONT GET MARRIED
THAT HOW PPL LOSE THEIR CARRER? 1 LOVE MAKE A ANOTHER RAP OF BLACK TY JODY

Its funny how people love to call other people ugly LOL….hey yea I agree the exwife does not deserve a penny of TYRESE’S money except for child support if she is keeping the child, but I DO NOT AGREE WITH THOSE WHO ARE CALLING HER UGLY SHE LOOKS BEAUTIFUL TO ME :)

the only money this chick need from tyrese is money for food for the kid(s),a roof for the kid,food for the kid,clothes for the kid,lights water and a comfortable place for the kid to sleep.THERE WOULD NOT BE ANY SHOPPING SPREES WITH THAT CHILDSUPPORT CHECK,WAY TO GO TYRESE.MEN JUST BE SMART,IF HAVE SOMETHING,BE CAREFUL BECAUSE YOU MIGHT FIND A WOLF IN SHEEP CLOTHES.YOU WOMEN(SORRY THE BAD ONES CAUSE I CANT SPEAK BAD ABOUT THE GOOD ONES)YALL WOULD NEVER LEARN

lol tyrese needs to do what rights if she was good enough to lay with and marry he should pay.

Wow, there goes the golddigging thing again. I think if a woman has and does nothing when u get with her, then she should leave with nothing when she goes. Now if you buy her anything, then by all means she should keep it, but unless they have a child, she should get nada. That should teach a woman to jump into marriage with a man and call it quits after 10 months, really now, out of that 10 months how well could she really have known him.

Any guy in a similar position is only entitled to pay what was agreed to prior to marriage. The ex-wife should have to earn a living to supplement her income from support payments.

Child support only. If there is a child. The only way there should be spousal support is if he was caught cheating, alienation of affection type deal. Otherwise, girl, move on with your life.

I hate to see any married couple end in divorce cuz as crazy as the dating world is marrige is the best thing goin. But only God knows why this marrige ended. So I have no judgements there. But men are clearly out-matched in this arena. When a man and women argue, and the cops are called, the man is goin to jail! In most divorces, if the brotha is paid. The man’s pockets are goin to hell! It’s just set up that way in this “feminist” society. I firmly believe, you leave with what you came with. If we build something together thats different. But alot sistas need to check theyself. Cuz if the shoe were on the other foot their heads would explode!!!! So stop this “Gold-digger mentality!!! Divorce is war!!!! And women go straight for your head when money is involved.

That’s good for her. First of all, she should of had her own dam money. Second of all, if she was real, she could of sent him about his merry way with out looking for sh/t. WTF? Why do these incompetent a$$ so called wives feel that they are entitled to anything besides the door opened to let them walk through. Pathetic. The man worked hard on his career to achieve his success and the best this couple could offer is 10 measly stanky months of a waste of time, lame a$$ marriage and she expects something further out of it. I hate that. I really do. If you want the goods, then be woman enough to handle the marriage. Nothing in life comes easy. If you are not willing to work hard to accomplish something then don’t expect a reward. No marriage is peaches n cream. ON TO THE NEXT ONE…..

Tisk Tisk….stop depending on these men just cuz you have children with them and get out there and do what you gotta do for yourself dam

that y when u get money on your own just stay single.

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