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Tameka Raymond’s best friend of 20 years Nyeisha DeWitt, is speaking out about the Usher/Tameka divorce. Nyeisha recently sat down with Essence magazine and basically said the divorce proceedings was a surprise to Tameka, she hates the way the media is protraying her girl and just wanted to clear up some rumors.

Here’s what she had to say:

NYEISHA: Let me first say that I hope Tameka and Usher can salvage things as a couple. I’ve known Tameka since I was in middle school and she was in high school, and we’ve been friends since. It’s not that I have to defend her or speak on her behalf as if she’s done something wrong, but I simply want people to know everything they read about her isn’t true. It hurts me to read the lies that people write and say about her.

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ESSENCE.COM: Is it true she first learned that Usher filed for divorce after reading about it?
DEWITT: She didn’t know that he was going to file. Of course, she knew that there were challenges in their relationship and had been some discord since March and was aware there were some things that needed to be worked through. But did she know that divorce was imminent? No. It was a total surprise.

ESSENCE.COM: Was Tameka also caught off guard by the images of Usher and Def Jam’s Grace Miguel?
DEWITT: I don’t know what it is or isn’t. What I admire about Tameka is that, despite all the gossip, she isn’t bitter or hardened by it. I don’t know how she does it especially with children [from a previous relationship] old enough to read the lies that are written. It’s like having to keep your hands at your side while someone repeatedly punches you in your face.

Tameka spits fire at Usher’s camp

Here’s some pics of the couple in happier times:

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MSGRAND1/ MSGRAND1

    What happened to the STRONGHOLDS of a relationship!! Yes, I know this is a new day in time and I may not even know the real reason behind the divorce. I just wish we as black people could learn to work such beautiful gifts (marriage) out. We take it to lightly. I thought marriage was suppose to be a vow, a promise between you, God, and your spouse. I just pray that either they work it out or at least still be able to be friends after its final. If not I would take Usher any day, lol!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ms_shann/ ms_shann

    People break up and get divorced EVERY DAY…. she will be OK….
    Shell get over it… Hell she is TWICE his age HOW long did she REALLY think he would stick around… I knew this marriage was doomed from the beginning….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tx_danni/ tx_danni

    hon that’s because they don’t respect this institution of marriage or the entity that created it. People often get married for the wrong reasons & try & do it their way & not GOD’s way…that will always end in divorce.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sunshine_ryder_1523/ sunshine_ryder_1523

    My whole this is who give a rats @ss… as Ms_shann said… people get married and divorced everyday. If it was me and my dude, there would be no cameras, no stories, no exclusives or inside information. It would be another broken marriage. So… really who gives a rats @ss.. they are people like everyone else, get over it. To much time is put into the celebrity gossip, marriage, divorce…etc.etc…. not enough into REAL life.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AWDAYUM/ AWDAYUM

    Maybe it was doomed at the start cuz people forget Tameka was ALREADY married with 3 kids when he got with her…Major mistake is fooling around with another man’s wifey…1st mistake. Ok she ALREADY had 3 kids and U have sex with her KNOWING she’s quite FERTILE and U R a R&B star???? Can U say trap?? U impregnate another’s man’s wifey. Then U have to get her divorced with ur money and then U hastily marry her so U can hide the fact U were sexing a married woman and she is havin’ ur 1st child, her 4th…2nd mistake…Then U marry her, get rid of the ur mom/manager who got U 2 where U are 2day and let TAMEKA with NO INDUSTRY experience to run thangs? 3rd mistake….She gets pregnant again??? R U kidding me? She paid for the next 20 years…Talk bout a come up..One day U R a hairdresser 2 the stars and now U paid for the next 20….However, I ain’t hatin’ on Tameka cuz game recognize game…Usher like Evander Holyfield is just a sucka for ghetto ass females…I mean U get trapped twice by the same female?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sunshine_ryder_1523/ sunshine_ryder_1523

    I know that right………… I totally agree wiht AWDAYUM………….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/letzget2it1/ letzget2it1

    tx_danni, i couldn’t agree with you more…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/eharri00/ eharri00

    That whole “People get divorced everyday” mentallity is exactly why marriages don’t work today. People don’t take marriage seriously. Girls – stop saying to yourself I want my kids to look like him and you won’t get tricked. Guys stop saying to yourself – Man I would love to get her in bed & maybe you wouldn’t find yourself in Child support court. Marriage is supposed to be forever, so before you look at the person as a temporary fix to your sweet tooth, try to look for somebody who will provide you with a garden of fruit and not a temporary sugar rush.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sima430/ sima430

    I would like to raise a question, Tameka claiming she didn’t know Usher was filing for a divorce?? I’m sorry, but no one just wake up in the morning and just file for a divorce without letting their husband/ wife know about it. There been some trouble with the marriage in the beginning. Tameka is trying to play it off, like she didn’t know. Clearly there is some issues aren’t being discussed.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/normal6751/ normal6751

    @ eharri00, YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. I AGREE

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Da1NOnly_Jules/ Da1NOnly_Jules

    I disagree that people do not know that their spouse are filing for divorce. I work at a law firm and some spouses file for divorce and send the papers to the other person via email, text message or the they know when the sheriff serve the papers. It is known to happen. Now I am sure that were problems that have been brewing but as far as her knowning about him filing for divorce I can believe that part become I have seen it happen many times.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/100juicy2009/ 100juicy2009

    Everyone knows that even though you have a best friend you may not always tell them everything. I think Tameka knew it was going to happen but didn’t know WHEN.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mia773/ mia773

    i kind of new that it wasn’t going to last that long because people don’t take being in a relationship serious it’s like a man think if they get a woman pregnant that they should married them that not really true because if yall had problems before the baby was made you going to really have problems when you take that big step then people really dont no what the meaning of real love in being wit that peron finding out all you can find out about that person then you say f**k it im going to wake up in get married today that’s dumb ass hell

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BlckBeauty19/ BlckBeauty19

    I think Usher loved Tameka and the problem is he doesnt know how to keep it in his pants and see his way through the hard times with his wife, I am an Usher fan I have been for a long time, but his treatment of women is disgraceful and no PR can help his true personality. He needs to stick it out with his wife and stop the foolishness because if he doesnt he is just going to repeat the crazy behavior with Grace Miguel. She ought to be ashamed of herself because she will lose him the same way she got him.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BabyGyrl810/ BabyGyrl810

    oh well we all knew that their relationship wouldnt last….its sad becus in my opinion marriage is something sacred…but oh well…i think the only reason he married her in the first place was because he wanted children….hell she shouldve known better…like they say what goes around comes around….if he cheated on chili with you what makes u think that he wouldnt do it to you??

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Koolaid_281/ Koolaid_281

    most black women are on that I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T trip to realize when sumbody really love and care about they ass thats why i say f**k relationships

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/indy19/ indy19

    is tameka a man? lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Koolaid_281/ Koolaid_281

    lol look like it huh

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/djazz58/ djazz58

    too much money
    too much time on your hand
    too many houses
    too many cars
    too much of everything
    but not enough attention
    ok now ill get married
    Bordem is not a reason to get married

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SXYREDDBONE4U/ SXYREDDBONE4U

    Why are people acting so surprised Chili refused to take him back so he found this broad on da rebound and dropped a baby in her not knowing that the baby was only a temporary fix so he does it again baby #2 and now wonders is baby #2 his maybe he should have listened to his mom .

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MSTHANG4EM/ MSTHANG4EM

    THIS WHAT I WANT TO KNOW WHY DOESN’T THIS CHICK HAVE HER TUBES TIED…SHE OLD AS HELL, GOT KIDS ALREADY, & THOUGHT DROPPING 2 MORE WOULD KEEP MR RAYMOND AROUND????

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kellie_18/ kellie_18

    man usher need to get his life together he da fell out of love and lookin in da wrong places ..he da messed up when he met tameka man she trapped dat man how u some one stylest n da next day u his f**k friend lol she look like a man for real no joke n da best friend is trinna help up for her i got 4 words for her “SHUT DA F**K UP” tameka got a mouth if she wanna defend her self she got a mouth ..he need to just leave her she nothing but drama n get a DNA test she way to old for him neways he can find something WAY BETTER !!! i guess chilly must be sayin WTF her over me …she should feel played real talk dats a insult lol ” USHER BABY MOVE ON FIND SOMETHING BETTER AND AROUND UR AGE DIVORCE HER AND GET A DNA AND CALL IT A DAY” dats some good advice ……( 17th nell new orleans 4 lif3)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MSTHANG4EM/ MSTHANG4EM

    AND I AIN’T BUYING WHAT HER BF IS SAYING…SHE KNOW DAMN WELL SHE BEEN SITTING ON PINS & NEEDLES WONDERING EVERY SINCE HE LEFT HER, NOT TO MENTION THAT LIL VOICE THAT WOULDN’T GO AWAY SINCE THEY WERE ENGAGED!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SAJA_2005/ SAJA_2005

    I am a big fan of Usher’s music….but from what I hear and see he has a big problem with manogmy…..He is dealing with these older woman but he is too immature……i can tell he is the “in the moment” type…these women should have known better….they are older yet they fall for the okie doke everytime….as far as Tameka….its hard for me to feel sympathy for her because she was cheating on her husband with Usher and she actually thought her marriage would be blessed…C’mon Tameka….be real….Karma is a BYTCH!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/spankylove/ spankylove

    From what I see Tameka’s bestfriend doesn’t know her friend doesn’t know her friend very well. Usher and Tameka have been going through this since before March and Tameka is just one of those woman who likes to get what she wants. I mean dang did yall forget that Tameka was with her kids father when she was messing with Usher? She is not an innocent bystander and she knew that this was comming. What real woman wouldn’t. Tameka has some real issues that she has to work on. Not to mention what goes around comes around.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/spankylove/ spankylove

    Another thing….Usher thought he was doing the right thing by marrying this dude..I mean chick.lol…He gave it a chance. She too busy trying to get body work done that she didnt even realize that the marriage was over. Tameka is toooo old not to know that a baby is not going to keep a man around. She hurt her other kids father and was a jerk to him also. He worked hard and is a good father just like Usher. Next time I bet he will listen to his mother.lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/masculine31/ masculine31

    I truly believe there is two sides to every story…especially here! I believe usher is in denial wit his sexuality.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Creola1977/ Creola1977

    cheaters never win…enough said…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/destind4success/ destind4success

    It seems to me that maybe her maturity level isn’t where it should be for her age. I am not knocking relationships with age gaps, but my experience has shown me that usually the older party lacks the maturity of others their own age. By being with a younger person, they may feel that they are able to compensate. The maturity that I feel she lacks is the ability to face reality. I can tell myself all day that I am a millionaire, but I am not. She can tell herself all day that they had an harmonious relationship, but they clearly didn’t. Now it is up to her to “grow up”, tuck her tail, bow out while she is ahead and raise all those kids.
    Anyone think that it’s a bit strange that even in high school she was kicking it with middle schoolers? I mean women can be pedophiles, too.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/satinkisses/ satinkisses

    in pic number 5 she looks a like a drunky
    and the new chic is ugly smh@this b.s

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sweetness_407/ Sweetness_407

    LOL i’m sorry but that last comment was just too funny! That’s all I have to say.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexymissmaria/ sexymissmaria

    I’m sick of this “BFF” mess. Why can’t we say “best friends”? It sounds so much better than that grade school crap. It’s that influence from those other folks (lol) and I don’t like it.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/EbonyEyes247/ EbonyEyes247

    In picture 4, they forgot the iron was invented and she looks more like his mother than wife!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nanapeppa/ nanapeppa

    in response to ebonyeyes247 (pic 4):
    their top garments appear to be either organic cotton or linen; wash & wear fabric that’s worn naturally without ironing.:)

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