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Queen Latifah does not like having sex with men.  She tells Shaun Robinson in a new book about female empowerment, “I [used to] ingratiate myself to him [men] and then sleep with him [them]. Afterward, I felt disgusting- really gross and nasty … and I hated myself. That feeling was so horrible, I decided I would never do that again.”

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TheGloryDays/ TheGloryDays

    Ask Queen Latifah.. What her father and mother did to get her! Then Take a look in the Mirror.. Facking Idiot.. you are a Human.. Men was Made For Women… Puzzy was Made for Penus.. There is no other way!
    Procreation was not meant for Test Tubes. Mi done.. Before I lose my Christian Experience. rass.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2znm/ 2znm

    i wonder if she was molested as a young child, that make her feel like that…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LOOKIN4_ME/ LOOKIN4_ME

    Alrighty then she has spoken how she feels. Even though I’m not in agreement with it. It’s her choice/right and in America they are starting to recognize same sex relationships.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexxycan_i/ sexxycan_i

    SO F**KING WHAT IF SHE FELS THAT WAY. MOST MEN THINK THEY KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING, BUT THEY DONT, AND IT CAN BE A BIG TURNOFF, OR “GROSS”. SHE’S SPEAKING HER MIND! I’VE BEEN GROSSED OUT A TIME OR TWO WITH SEX WITH A MAN MYSELF! AND SHE’S NOT IMPLYING SHE’S A LESBIAN. SHE’S SIMPLY STATING THAT SHE USED TO DO IT THINKING IT WAS SOMETHING SHE HAD TO DO, BUT NOW SHE IS A BIT WISER….IS ANYONE SAFE FROM GOSSIP ON HERE?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DIVA2012/ DIVA2012

    Well it depends where she coming from with this.You should not even be having pre-martial sex unless you are ready for the responsibility that comes with it. Second diseases are out here.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Misses_Phat-Cat08/ Misses_Phat-Cat08

    A f*ck u TheGloryDays, u don’t know s**t, so what people experience things differently , u don’t know what shes been through to say that, like sexxycan_i said it could have been that particular dude that made her feel that way, it doesn’t mean she’s a lesbian, and even if she is SO F*CKIN WHAT. Thats her life and her decision, she has the right to do what makes her happy.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Baby-Baby/ Baby-Baby

    @TheGloryDay.you sound like in idiot. You a Christian Experience refresher course. So she doesn’t want a P***s doesn’t mean she’s a lesbian. So what if she is, she’s entitle to her opinion. You are probably one of the reason she was/is so gross out about having sex with men.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/thicknsexxxyin07/ thicknsexxxyin07

    I FEEL HER I FELT THAT WAY HEN I WAS 29 IT TOOK ME A WHILE BUT IM FREE NOW I LOVE THE SCENT OFF A WOMAN ,I LOVE U QUEEN NO MATTER WHO U F**KEN..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Rev1974/ Rev1974

    What do you mean IF she is a lesbian? SHE IS A LESBIAN. She came out last year. She wants to marry her girlfriend of how many years if she hasn’t already. You guys been living under a rock or something? Anyway, the reason she thinks sex with men is gross is because she was forcing herself before. Sex with anyone is gross if you don’t really want to.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/panthersrcool/ panthersrcool

    Quite frankly I don’t give a care if does not like men or not. What she does is her preference and I’am not one to judge anybody. She will always be kool in my book.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/missstrings43/ missstrings43

    Ignorance is Bliss!!!! (just like a Blister)…

    Trust me,
    you definitely do not have to be gay to not enjoy or have sex with men. In today’s society, more and more people, both men and woman have and are having issues with having sex with each oher.
    A few main reasons do not involve what sex you perfer to have intercourse with. Some females bodies as they change may not allow for the same kind of pleasure she may have had in her earlier years.
    As for men, some have sexual dispositions such as postrate problems, erection problems and arousal issues.
    So, we need to as black people stop being so quick to jump to conclusions about our own people. We definitely don’t need anyone to beat our culture down anymore….we do a wonderful job all by our dumb azzz’ selves…Wow!
    And if she is a lesbian or homosexual, that is really ger business just as it is our business to be ignorant and judge her on what she chooses for her life.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/missstrings43/ missstrings43

    ..and another thing….
    some men are so nasty in not only their attitudes but their hygiene. Why would she want to get infected? This woman has status and represents woman of strength. A lot of men today use woman constantly as a bullet on their belts of trophy pieces. I wouldn’t blame her for desiring to stayi infection free in America. Represent girl (the strong black woman)…we need emphasized today. We have a black first lady of America now. (Michelle O’bama)…If you are not married, why open your legs to every Tom, Dick and Harry if he has no intentions on being monogamous with a Queen!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/manly2299/ manly2299

    another dyke sucks p***y.. whats new???

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsBlkdymon/ MsBlkdymon

    Aint that a b***h , just because she likes p***y dont make dick sound nasty . Thats how you got here in the first place p***y mixed with dick , lmao

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/addictive4_08/ addictive4_08

    From what little I read I did not see where she said she like woman either so it’s left up in the air.You may be turned off by sex with the opposite sex but does that make you a lesbian or celibate.Whatever the case is she will do what makes her happy and to hell with what everybody else feels.Do your thing Queen..And Happy Birthday and may God give you longevity in whatever you do.Lady Raven

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MyCaliDream/ MyCaliDream

    It makes no difference to me whether she likes men or not. I Love her as a person and her movies. I think she is a really cool person. Her sexuality is her business and everyone else should mind theirs. Thank you. And last but not least,…
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY QUEEN LATIFAH!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Dopegurlmagic17/ Dopegurlmagic17

    I kinda understand her point because u hav sex wit someone jus because or u really dnt lik them it can leave u feeling really discusting and down on yourself so yea sometimes sex wit men is DISCUSTING

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BLACKBERRI40/ BLACKBERRI40

    WOW never would thought she was like that …. sex with a man is the best maybe she had the wrong man lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Angelic_777/ Angelic_777

    well, I really don’t care if she’s sleeping with men or women…she’s one of the realist females in the entertainment world and I like her as a person regardless…besides, she doesn’t have to explain to us who she’s sleeping with and why….she’s paying her own bills…DO you Queen Latifah…just continue to stay true to yourself

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mochasoul00/ mochasoul00

    Hello Beautiful should be ashamed of themselves! This is completely taken out of context. She was not saying men in general, she was talking about the one time she prostituted and slept with some man who gave her 50 or something. I knew this statement looked too familiar. And if she is a lesbian/Bi so what? She dont have to answer to no one but God.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Black_butterfly41/ Black_butterfly41

    WELL, JUS WANTED TO SAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY QUEEN, AND JUST BECAUSE OF THE STATEMENT SHE MADE DOESN’T SAY THAT SHE’S GAY OR STRAIGHT AND ME BEING A RELIGOUS PERSON SHE WILL HAVE TO ANSWER TO GOD…..SHE’S A BEAUTIFUL PERSON.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/damassager/ damassager

    I am really curious to know if this comment was taken out of context….I could understand her saying it was gross if she was forced to have sex with someone. She does not seem to dig men at all though, atleast not romantically.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1diam0nd/ 1diam0nd

    happy b-day to the QUEEN , it’s your time to just COME OUT we love you for all you do ,not who you sleep wit , BE PROUD or should I say PRIDE-FULL XO

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cravin1/ cravin1

    it doesnt matter to me who she is with, the queen is definetly the woman i have enjoyed through out the years with her music. we all are differnet and we all like different things and thats what makes the world turn! do your thang queen! much love!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JenattaP/ JenattaP

    Happy Birthday Ms. Dana! or should I say QUEEN. I have been a fan of yours for over 10 years now. I think you are one of the most influential black female stars of this decade. Keep up the good work and remember; people can put you in a grave, but God is the only one who can save you.
    Long Life my friend.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sultrybrowneyes/ sultrybrowneyes

    I love how media takes things out of context.the way her quote is written she’s talking about one person,one experience. The plural is obviouslyput in by the author. Whether she is or not isn’t the issue. Tge issue is the right to keep your personal life personal. U may want to know but no one deserves thatright unless the queen chooses to put it out there.pay attention to what is out there,talanted spokesmodel for covergirl,actress,rapper,songstress,talkshow host, let that say who she is. Do you run around screaming I’m hetro sexual to everyone?…….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/rharmour504/ rharmour504

    Happy Birthday Ms Queen, Remember they talked about Jesus Christ. You stay strong and keep your head up. We are proud of you and your accommplishments.

    God Bless you and your Family and who ever you chose to be with is your business.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com//

    Who cares what she does in her personal life. She is a great actress, singer, rapper and Cover Girl! She can’t be stopped!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/lavon5721/ lavon5721

    To Hell with them all, I love the way you have no problem being you, Queen Latifah period! Every year on my B-Day, (March 20), I think to myself the Queen is somewhere enjoying her B-Day too. Much Love!!!!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/boonya2/ boonya2

    What a load of crap. She was talking about one particular man, not all men. You can tell by the way the statement is edited. People are so f*cking stupid.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shindogg/ shindogg

    she needs help. b***h gave up on men cuz she dint like 1 guy? datz stupid az hell. ingratiate? wtf??? u mean masterbate right? she musta use da wrong word. u cant gain favors 2 sumbody. dat dont make no sense. ill bend dat b***h over an get me sum

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/burgstyle82/ burgstyle82

    LOL Sex with her looks like it would be gross regardless of your gender…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/lusciouslipznj/ lusciouslipznj

    ok well shes getting close so she should just admit she gay because its obvious and i personally have seen her at gay clubs people will love her an except her the way she is i mean look at ellen she is successful even more since she has came out

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MzBrownEyez00/ MzBrownEyez00

    I think that she has the right to be any way she wants. Some people just dont understand what yoou go through when you have been violated as a child, firsst of all children dont know how to handle that type of emotion, dont know how to deal with it or speak about. In most cases when a young girl is raped or molested by an older man she tends to hate all men…which means that she will more than likely be a lesbian later in life. So what let her be. If the nasty ass men would go pay for some p***y and leave little girls alone then some women would not go through that and they can live their life like a normal woman and not have to worry about suppressing that kind of feeling or emotion towards men. But that’s just my opinion.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Butterfly_Bowles/ Butterfly_Bowles

    so what if shes gay, she’ll make more money coming out of the closet..Watch!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sglins2/ sglins2

    I think this is the biggest way to take a statement out of context…I challenge readers to read this article with out the brackets that the editor inserted generalizing this statement, and read it for what it is. Also, I would have been interesting to see what she had to say before and after this distortion.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SweetKizz/ SweetKizz

    But that statement doesn’t mean she’s gay. She was talking about her patterns with men and how it made her feel afterwards — not even during. This is straight twisted. And even if she is gay … so what?!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MzThick_n_Juicy663/ MzThick_n_Juicy663

    umm, i have a question…when they’re quoting her, she’s saying him, where is the men in parenthesis coming from?..what does that mean exactly…b/c when i read it, it sounded like she was just talking about one guy…and sum guys are horrible in bed…that exactly doesnt make you want to go out and have sex with girls or make you gay

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MzThick_n_Juicy663/ MzThick_n_Juicy663

    when they added those brackets, they are making her gay…she is obviously talking about one guy, not all men in general…this is soo stupid…let her come out the closet on her own damn time and leave her alone, this is getting really annoying

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chi-town-dyme39/ chi-town-dyme39

    I’m from the genre of Epmd, big daddy Kane, Queen hell she been in the making for many years. Who gives a damn? She made money and waited to wave it for whatever woman she wants.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1sxycrml1/ 1sxycrml1

    Finally some intelligent bloggers. It appears to me she is talking about 1 man. Now whether this is the only man she ever attempted sex with who knows. This statement does not conclusively show her sexual orientation. Queen was abused and it is possible she was referring to the encounters with her abuser. No matter what until she has healed from being violated and victimized as a child she will find sex difficult. I will be a fan whether she is gay or not, and I think the media should show us the entire article not little tidbits that could be misleading.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/qweeni17/ qweeni17

    I feel if she isn’t comfortable having sex with men she doesn’t have to. And her sexuality has nothing to do with anyone else but her and whomever she chooses to date. And if she is a lesbian I say, “YOU GO GIRL! YOU MADE iT. N0W HELP US WiTH RECEIVE OUR RIGHTS!”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/keyona_monae/ keyona_monae

    ummm how in the hell did you get out of that, that she doesn’t like men…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CinnahminSwirl/ CinnahminSwirl

    ummmmm.. I think she is only talking about a particular man .. not men in general .. and I think a couple females have been in that situation where they felt bad.. sick .. disgusted afterwards for sexing somebody for whatever reason he could have went limp too quick .. or too small or saggy balls or bad breath.. it doesnt make u gay .. and what difference does it make if she is .. she will still be who she is … Her own person

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LaDawnThEGreaT1/ LaDawnThEGreaT1

    i know im late, but why are those words in brackets like that? Deborah did u do that on purpose? copy and paste is a b***h isnt it? im going to google this and see what i come up with..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jaywoo22/ jaywoo22

    YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU MISSING TIME AND TIME AGAIN YOU’LL CRAVE

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jaywoo22/ jaywoo22

    YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU MISSING TIME AND TIME AGAIN YOU’LL CRAVE IT

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/hothoney740/ hothoney740

    Well even I admit that my ex husband made me feel that way until I met my son’s father, God rest his soul. I’m sorry, but there’s NOTHING that can take the place of the hard, hot, muscular body of a man making love to you.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cheetah254/ cheetah254

    She could be talking about that particular man. I, too, have slept with guys and didn’t feel so great afterwards. I realized that I was having relations with guys that I didn’t love and didn’t have a deeper connection with. I have also said that I wasn’t going to do it again. That doesn’t make you gay. I am not gay, I just don’t want to have pointless sex anymore. So I haven’t. Maybe when she finds a guy that really loves her and she loves him, then she will enjoy it. But if not then that is her business. She is entitled to like whoever she wants…man or woman. We love her regardless of her preference in a mate.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/G132007/ G132007

    Can somebody tell her big but, the dude she was with probably thought having sex with fat girls is gross. She needed to qualify the dude she was porking to make sure he was into being with a girl that has rolls of fat on her body! A chubby chaser would have wore that big stuff out!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/The-Chocolate-Man/ The-Chocolate-Man

    Come on queen Latifah is a lesbiannnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. Not that it matters to me, but is it not obvious. Amber Rose/Janet Jackson/alecia Keys/Rihanna/Cira/Eve/more! as for Rihanna1 It should not come as a surprise. She is a born freak. Check the Rihanna Shakee video on youtube!
    http://www.youtube.com/bsharpp2

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/melliemel32/ melliemel32

    I think she meant that ingratiating herself (or lowering, compromising) herself to men was disgusting, not the sex itself…

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