Punched and smacked are two different things let’s get that right first of all lol secondly I couldn’t imagine that happening in public….Maybe a stomp on the foot or a grab of the thigh under the table but her hauling off and smacking or punching him isn’t really in her character in my opinion ;)

This is why i was a little conflicted over the whole CB thing. It says Mary it him first (punched or slapped we don’t know) and then the first thing she does after hitting him is provoke him further by basically saying “even though I just hit you, you better not dare hit me back”.

Can people seriously not see why some dues go Tyson on their ladies????? Please, not saying he should do anything, but can you at least see how that upsets a guy. It like you can hit us and holla and scream but just because you got a separate set of sex organs than us it makes you immune to any consequences.

I know the popular thing is to say that CB was wrong and that he should not hit a female for any reason, but to be honest a part of me fell I would have done the exact same if the situation was the same.

I know i’m the bad guy let the nasty responses begin.

He should have slapped her back so hard she couldn’t say anything but whats the 411 hun. If she is man enough to pass a lick than she should get one back. Now if she caught him disrespecting her by flirting with women and she caught him I can not say she was wrong. If she caught him than yes she should had. Same if a man catch his wife or girlfriend doing the same thing.

Hahahahahahahhahaahaha….that’s right mary, git dat nicca in check…hahahhaha I love Mary man…dat’s my gurl…i would marry her right away!!!

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or it might be a publicity stunt for the upcoming album

she prolly didn’t hit him and if she did and??? HB and their ‘sources’ prolly makin up sh*t

But forreal forreal come some of yall asking me if i think it is right for a man to hit a woman or vise versa…no…no one s**t hit anyone…But that’s the problem, that dude should have known not to do that to Mary at her big event…that is selfish and ignorant!! Distorting your wife’s image ain’t kool… yeah i admit, we men do get out of pocket with our hormones, and it takes a strong mate to keep us grounded…but that is why the flesh is so weak….it would do anything…you can be as sexy as you want to but you must get into that man’s head and spirit, to somehow make the flesh obey and still it is hard…just the nature of a man…women feel helpless then they want to hit…but thats when you go and get a restraining order on her, like i did to two of my ex-girlfriends let them pay the fine….and they learn their lesson. There are ways for us to deal with this men. But we men have become so weak minded. Don’t let no woman make you beat the breaks off of them, sue dey a.ss!!! Forreal….this type of anger is gradual if you don’t won’t them leave them alone…if you want another girl or to creep on da side…tell them, you will be suprised by their answer…i never ever feel you should lead anyone on, and say, i don’t wana hurt her feelings….that is a lie, cuz you wouldn’t be getting it on da side….men are not perfect and women dam sho aint either…Flirting with men and emotional issue all come about for lack of self esteem… show some love and you will get some love… and know thyself…..and you want more…say so!! if they cannot put out, put em’ out!! It’s simple…save the boxing matches for Hollifield and Tyson and Layla Ali fine self!! Hehehehehhe

a little bit too protective on her part, they been married for how long?

Whatev…its just a rumor. HB has a habit of posting articles about stuff that may not have happened. Get solid facts before posting this stuff please.

MJB needs no publicy she is a Icon clearly. Its crazy how the media cant let go of the bulls**t on black planet at anyrate we are all human and all siners but its still that crab in the bucket theory in the black community correct your self trust we all need to look in the mirror even the persons writing this s**t 9 times out of 10 you have absolutely no idea. Damn can we get some good news. And this article and its content is clearly to try to dehumanize a young man that made a mistake or didnt know howto handle the sittuation, Hell no nothing that took place between them on that night was right but it is over so rest it. Be encouraging dangit upleft your peopleWhat the f**k is wrong with you all is this your attempt to show good leadership cause your not any better then all the f**ked up actions your bringing attention to. Perhaps if you focused on something positive you would get a positive responce!!!!!!!!

dang mary your husband sort of resembles jay z a little there. lol

mary j….you are lucky HE did not press charges!

I think dey are a lovely couple, and I don’t believe dat…

lol, she probably did hit him and if she did its their buisness. They quick to throw the Chris Brown and Rhiana incident in everything.

I dont believe it, sounds like a RUMOR to me, but who knows if they was’nt there to see it happen

Another article based on absolutely nothing of fact just gossip and assumption. I clicked on the article because I really like the artist and the couple. I hope all is well in their world.

Good job Mary. Nice punch. He needed that.

Of course….Mary J and Trina can hit THEIR “men,” but Chris Brown….HE’S a “animal.” It couldnt have been me…

this c**t of a singer got the nerve to tell him he better not hit her back. B!tch if you smack, slap, punch me or whatever you gonna get the same thing back, only its gonna be harder. If a woman wanna step up like a man then she should know she’ll be treated as one. Funny how its wrong for Chris Brown to do it but when a woman does it its ok. talk about double standard, and women still wanna come out and defend her as if was the thiing to do, no wonder yall aint got no man. I bet her man sat there and took it like a punk. how you gonna smack ya man for lookin at another woman, he a man. same as how u dgonna smack ya woman for looking at another man. its all natural, part of being a human. strange, well not strange, how you also got men defending this woman as if its ok. yall need to grow a pair of nuts and take off them panties yall got on. the reason why women act like they do etc is cause men put up with it. 2010 should be the year black men stand up to these angry black women and make them get their s**t together

I would have just pulled that azz to the side and let him know that “my house aint gonna be your home” if you keep on disprecting me in public like that, and walk away from him. Keep the Party Going.. HEY!!!! : )

How many different stories gonna come out about why she slappled him? Just let us get something and it will get alllllllll twisted up. SMH!!

ummmm Chris Brown beat Rihanna’s ass in February not June damn get yall dates right

i dont care….

Might be a rumour but i wont be shocked if this is true cuz Mary J is the most celebrated hoodrat in the music business……smh

Richardman11 its amazing you can type with your own nuts in your mouth, If she did hit him he is a grown man he doesnt have to grow what he was born with ignant azz. Whos taking up for her I just havent read that comment yet and neither have you!!! if she s**t on the lawn at the whitehouse here music is still boom, no one is perfect Thekid1986 that explains alot do you know MJB? Exactly she is one of the most talented weman in the music industry and she got the bread to prove it so stop hating . May be when you get grown you can have a lil more respect for your mother aunties grandmother cause I am pretty sure they have lived in a hood at one point of there life thats probably where you where concieved. And for all the men that are acting like some one said its ok to hit yall aint read that nowhere he can press charges or it couldnt have been you what ever the case may be you do the crime you do the time brah!!!!! Just plain degrading

Ummm Chris Brown and Rihanna was around Grammy time, which is nowhere near June.

Until I hear more or read this somewhere else I’m going to have to take it with a grain of salt,because this message board has been known to report something ,only to say down the line it didn’t happen! Get the info right before you report!

My mother taught me that man/woman boy/girl, if a sucker can pass a lick, then he/she can take one…and as far as I’m concerned, all the “any-man-who-hits-a-woman-is-a-punks” won’t change that immutable fact. Any woman who decides to step to a man like a man should be treated like one…damn the “strong ‘independent’ woman” BS.

if it happened like that then he must not want her no more

Mary, Mary, next time tell him about his self ant then give him the cold shoulder.

Here we go again wit these waitress b***hes..

awww man… you can take the girl out the hood, but you cant take hood out the girl. i thought they was better than that. they just seem so happy together and secure about their relationship. i guess you never know what goes on behind closed doors. i hope this aint true though

Hattie3 ,the fact that your music is great doesnt make it right for you to hit your spouse,whether in public or otherwise.You dont have to be grown to know that.Every interview MJB has a with her man she admits over and over to being a difficult person to be with.

After dealing with her partying,drug use and other issues of her “darker days” homie supposed tolerate a punch in public? When Trina hit her man all of you jumped up,she a hoodrat,blah blah blah.Now because its MJB she cant get knocked because she could sing and have alot of money.It gets reduced to “shes not perfect”.lol Get off the black,independent diva BS.Its not about dissin all women from the hood either.We all know that the hood produces both good and not so good peeps.Its simple…….A hoodrat is what a hoodrat does.

That story totally sounds like a rumor. Makes no sense….saying “whatever” to this waste of space wannabe news story.

YOU KNOW, I VERY SELDOM RESPOND TO THIS “RUMORS”, BUT I DON’T BELIEVE IT’S TRUE…AND IF IT IS SO F**KIN WHAT! LEAVE THEM THE F**K ALONE…LEAVE RIHANNA & CHRIS BROWN THE F**K ALONE…LEAVE TIGER WOODS & HIS WIFE THE F**K ALONE! LEAVE SHAQ, LAMAR, LEAVE THEM ALL THE F**K ALONE! FOCUS ON THE PEDIFILES, RAPISTS, & KILLERS OF OUR CHILDREN…THESE ARE GROWN ASS INDIVIDUALS CAPABLE OF MAKING THEIR OWN DECISIONS & TAKING CARE OF THEMSELVES, THEY DON’T NEED THE WHOLE F**KIN WORLD AS COSIGNERS IN THEIR “PERSONAL” RELATIONSHIPS…I CAN CARE LESS THAN A F**K IF SHE DID SLAP HIM, BECAUSE 9 TIMES OUT OF 10, EACH ONE OF US, ALL OF US FEMALES, BLACK, WHITE, LATINO, WHATEVER YOU ARE, YOU KNOW DAMN WELL THAT WE WOULD DO THE EXACTLY THE SAME S**T IF IT WAS US & OUR MAN…THE RIHANNA, SHAQ, & LAMAR SITUATION, HAS BEEN YOUR SAME EXACT SITUATION IN THE PAST, AND PROBABLY STILL IS RIGHT NOW AND WILL PROBABLY BE SOMETIME IN THE NEAR F**KIN FUTURE….ALL THIS TALK ABOUT YOU CAN TAKE THE GIRL OUT THE HOOD BULLS**T & I THOUGHT THEY WERE HAPPY BS & MJB ALWAYS BEEN DIFFICULT TO DEAL WITH…GROW THE F**K UP! LIVE LIFE A LITTLE…FALL IN LOVE…REACH ROCK BOTTOM AND CLIMB YOURSELF BACK ON TOP OF THE WORLD…AND THEN COMMENT ON THIS SITUATION AGAIN–LET’S SEE IF YOU HAVE A DIFFERENT VIEW FROM AN ADULT’S PERSPECTIVE!

Freedom can be bestial….thats all I can say in response to people having the freedom to post garbage they consider rumour/news.

I smell 1)bulls**t article or 2)publicity stunt for the new album….can’t call it

Ole girl below plZz lmao who hit they man cuz he lookin at som1else. Chile plzzz once again if u need violence 2 control to man ladies somtin WRONG and I Hope He Do CHRIS BROWN yo azz .I. Don’t know if it’s true or not hopefully NOT

I CAN MAKE YOU RICH AND FAMOUS.

I have no idea if this is true or not, but it’s funny how this article is claiming CB and RiR’s incident happened in “June.” Wow, get it together.. Anyway, even if it did happen, a woman still has to check her man from time to time..

UMMMM ANYONE ELSE THINK THIS IS SOME BULL. OK YA’LL KNOW THIS AIN’T TRUE MARY IN MY EYES IS A LADY AND IF HE DID CHECK OUT ANOTHER BROAD THEN SHE CHECKED HIM @ HOME. THESE PEOPLE JUST NEED A STORY AND MADE SOMETHING OUTTA ABSOULUTELY NOTHING.

How come she wasnt arrested?? Are women above domestic violence laws?? Then again they didnt arrest Tiger’s wife either! Go figure!!!!!!!

Clearly this J Blige incident didn’t occur. First & foremost Mary is a superstar, and they both are in the spotlight all the time. Kendu is bound to look at beautiful woman all the time. These allegations came from “witnesses”…what witnesses? How credible? Trying to make a buck off of tabloids with nothing to support their story…just their word! We know Mary is too intelligent to go out like that. I am not MJ status, and i wouldn’t go out like that. please! Next gossip story please…

mary j is hood, sexy, and classy. how many women that age you know can rock a gold tooth and still be thought of as sexy??? lol

Lol. That’s funny in a way. She was lowkey clownin’.

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mary got drama queen written all over her. i wouldnt mess with her. she must be real fiesty in bed though……..probably likes it rough and likes to be choked

I dont know why anyone would believe the s**t that comes from hellobeautiful, its like reading the Enquirer, I love Mary J they need to leave her out of their gossip!

MORTALS WHEN WILL YOU REALIZE YOU CANT HATE ON MARY……..IF ANYTHING YOU SHOULD BE TAKING NOTES……MARY IS SYNONYMOUS WITH CLASS !!!! AS IF A MAN TRULY DESERVES HER IN THE FIRST PLACE…..A WAITRESS PLEASE…….THAT NIDDA AINT STUPID…..NO SLIGHT TO CHRIS BROWN POOR BABY WHEN WILL HE LIVE THIS DOWN

get it together HB! was it a punch or slap? if you gonna post get the facts right before you waste your readers time.

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uh what you rather her slap the waitress and were hey at the dinner table how do they know . if i were she id say kiiss my A55 its my husband mind your business and who ask r u going o Chris Brown me its the other way around DONT LET ME Chirs Brown your ass, And Chris should have slapped Rhianna I dont like something about her lets talk how she copies off Beyonce . why Mary guess shes been to quiet . Sounds like somebody hating on Mary go girl :)

If this dumb azz s**t is true she must ain’t learned Sh*t from when KC was beatin that azz. If you think its cool for her to slap that dude then you’re a bone head hands down.

oh puhlease. lol

IF THAT DID HAPPEN GUESS HOMEBOY MUST OF FORGOTTEN THAT MARY J WAS FROM THE HOOD.IF IT WAS THE OTHER WAY HE WOULD OF C .B. HER .NO IT NOT RIGHT FOR ABUSE BUT SOMETIME WE ACT FIRST AND THINK LATER.AND AS FOR THAT WHATS HER CHRIS U DIDN’T LOOSE NOTHING MUCH .CHRIS KEEP UR HADE UP AND DON’T LET SOMETHING LIKE THIS HOLD YOU DOWN DO WHAT U HAVE TO DO AND BE STRONG.SHE WAS KEEPING THE OLD FLAME ON THE SAID IF U AND HER WOULDN’T MAKE IT.AGIN NO ITS NOT RIGHT TO BEAT ON UR PARTNER FOR NO REASON JUST PACK UR BAGS AND LEAVE IF IT HAPPEN 1 TIME IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN.SHE WAS TRYING TO MAKE YOU LOOK BAD AND HURT YOU TO MAKE HERSELF LOOK GOOD.

Pic 6 is so cute! If she hit him….well…..hurt people hurt LOL, IDK, who cares they’ll be alright! A woman’s hit is soft and harmless anyway, to a man at least! Take it like a man lol!

he should have slapped her clumped deoderant , hairy armpit ,one dance her whole career aaasss right back…..he only has one life to live…thats it…..and do you really expect him to spend the rest of it relagated to looking @ her only…until the end….nobody else…..with all of these phat lil biiitch’s squeeking around…..shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit……she’s nutz

…While I wish the best for them… c’mon… NOBODY’S relationship is perfect

Ok, and why is there a big deal being made out of this. She didn’t do anything different that another woman of celebrity or non celebrity status would have done

yeah she hit the homie.. just saw the footage.. a little exaggeration but ole girl did lay hands on a brotha. i love mary but she is from the hood and i have heard how hood she is. she has been said to get violent over a man. stupid but thats what she is said to be like. now she has to save face. she said what her step-daughter did was stupid when she punched her ex boyfriend in his face.. now look at her. a grown azz woman smacking her husband.. oh well to each there own..

Wow…after reading all the SUPPORT for what this broad did, I’m starting to see why blacks are the laughable race right now.

First of all, from what I read, the only REAL cats on here with any type of LOGICAL opinion is Richardmann11, Tiredman, and thekid1986. Cats who believe in FAIRNESS.

I’m just curious how come anytime a woman hits a man, its “cute.” Its funny. He “deserved” it. But whenever a man hits a woman, he’s not a real man and gets crucified in the public eye? Case in point with Rihanna. The broad was beating him in the head with stiletto heals while he was driving on the HIGHWAY. But NOBODY mentions that part. She’s the “victim.”

I grew up in a household of “if you don’t wanna GET hit, don’t hit nobody.” That was true for the females also. Ya’ll need to get off of this whole feminist movement. Ya’ll sticking together regardless of how ridiculous your bullsh*t is only makes you look ignorant in the long run.

If you hiss and throw sh*t at a dog, is he wrong for biting you? Not unless you’re a woman. So why do you expect to be able to hit a man without repercussion?

Well put ambitious_balla……

Mary does have a reputation of bugging out if she even get a whiff of her man’s infidelity.I read and also saw a doc**entary where I heard Andre Harrell said on TV, that one night when Mary and K-Ci did a show together Mary went ballistic on K-Ci of Jodeci,because she sang to K-Ci that, she love him, on stage in front of a pack audience but K-Ci instead took off his shirt and gyrate his hips and showed off his chest and sang to the women in the audience that he love them..K-Ci even did an interview with vibe magazine and stated :K-Ci-There was something. It wasn’t what Mary wanted everybody to think. She wanted the world to think that we were living a fairytale and all of a sudden I ended it. We cared about each other, but I wasn’t in love with her. The feelings were never mutual. We would do shows together and afterwards I wanted to hang out with the guys and party and talk to fans. Mary would go crazy. She would come up to my hotel and bang on the door, screaming and hollering at the top of her lungs until I came out. She would come up to me at parties and disrespect my company. I had to be careful because if she saw me with a woman she would try to start fights and put on a big show. It was crazy.I don’t understand how, because I told her all the time that I didn’t want to be in a relationship with her. That still didn’t stop her from calling and paging me and showing up at the studio drunk. There were so many episodes. She was constantly embarrassing herself. Thats just a little snippnet of his interview with vibe about Mary..He said more bad things about Mary in the interview..I could be wrong but I do believe he led Mary on..

Ny_Lover_Girl, I disagree. If a man TELLS you “I don’t want to be in a relationship with you” how is that “leading you on?”

Thats the thing with women. Ya’ll THINK men are LYING when they say stuff like that. Like “how can he NOT love me the way I love him.” Despite how much of a “good person” and how much you think he loves whats between your legs, a man does NOT have to have mutual feelings about you. If he says it or better yet, if he even SHOWS it, accept it for the reality it is. A man doesn’t have to say “I don’t wanna be with you.” If you’re doing all the calling, all the texting, and he’s not making ANY effort to communicate or spend time with you, trust me, he’s spending it elsewhere. So just “let it go.” Its not that hard……I can almost PROMISE you your life will be SO much better when you STOP trying to keep a guy who doesn’t wanna be kept.

Most of the time, dudes just tolerate you because he knows it’ll be less drama just to put up with your sh*t for the time being.

MARY IS BEAUTIFUL & SHE GETS BETTER WITH TIME! IM A FAN OF HERS & I HOPE SHE CONTINUES TO STAY STRONG!!

YAKNOW WHAT ELSE MAKES MY NECK AND SHOULDERS HURT A LITTLE BIT……(I’M TALKING ABOUT P$SSY ASS N$GGA’S NOW)…..IS HOW A M$THERF$CKER TRIES TO SAY SOMETHING ABOUT YOU…..BY NOT SAYING IT TO YOU…..CUSHIONY AZS N$GGA’S LIKE YOU…LACKING THE TESTICULAR FORTITUBE TO EVEN TRY TO VERBALY(LEGALLY)INSPIRE A CHANGE WITH STRAIGHT TALK , IS EXACTLY WHATS WRONG WITH THESE BYTCH’S TODAY….ALONG WITH BEING SHOWN AN EXAMPLE OLDER BYTCH’S…..IN THIER OWN FAMILY, OR THROUGH THE MEDIA…LIKE….(ALL THE W***E’S HAVIVG BABIES BY BALLPLAYERS THAT DROP CONDOM’S ON THE FLOOR…..OR BY TWERKING AND OOoossy AAaaing so loud that he has a tough time pulling it out…..you know n$gga….f$ck you…….you’re not helping with your passive aazzs attemps to appear MORE!! than some of us…..keep doing it your way….and in 200 more years…blacks will be behind mexicans in the social order…..F$CK YOU MAN!!!!!….how’s that for not talking talking to a m$therf$cker……….

There was a movie starring Jack Nicholson entitled ” As Good as It Gets”. Nicholson plays an eccentric writer who says whatever he’s thinking. No matter how cruel. Anywway, this receptionist asks him “How do you create such believable female charaters?” to which Nicholson replies “Its simple. I start off with a man and then I take away all logic and accountability.” Great Line! Once had a woman ask me “if for no reason at all, I was to haul off and hit you in th face as hard as I could what would you do?” To which I said “I’d probably hit you back” She goes from 0-60 in a heartbeat “WHAT KIND OF MAN WOULD HIT A WOMAN?!!!” and on and on, profanity the whole bit. I told her to “get out because you’re destroying my peace” to which she said “f your peace”and squawk, squawk….So I put her out. Sistah was foine! Broke my heart to see all of that booty walk out of my place..The next day she calls back “I’m sorry…I guess I was out of control…Can we get over last night?” I told her “no” and haven’t heard from her since. I never have been able to understand men who hit women, because I know what I’d do to someone who hit me and had the nerve to go to sleep…And I’ve never been able to understand women who hit men and wanna cry “Abuse” when they get their hat blocked. If I’m givin away 60 pounds while benchin 180 to your 400…You gonna have to be messin with my woman, children, family, or something real serious before I get into a fight with you.

LOL I wish a b***h would…he’s a simp, she dont respect him, he wont be around for long. Ask the lonely women on this board they can relate.

Oh, real talk greywolf, especially the line from As Good…I remember that.

Both men and women who are in relationships check out other people. Some do it blatantly, some are slick about it, but we all do it, and there’s nothing wrong with it as long as you’re committed to your relationship.

I do hope he gets the justice he deserves… Coz that’s just wrong

There go that man talkin bout that movie again LMAO

I AM A BIG FAN OF MARY BUT RIGHT IS RIGHT AND WRONG IS WRONG…IF THE TABLES WAS TURNED THE POLICE WOULD HAVE BEEN CALLED ANDTHE BROTHER WOULD HAVE BEEN CUFFED AND BOOKED…SHE HAS ALREADY BEEN IN A ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND SHE NO HOW IT FEELS…..LEAD BY EXAMPLE. THAT IS NOT WHAT YOU WANT THE MEDIA OR YOUR FANS TO SEE. YOU ARE A VERY STRONG WOMEN THAT HAS GOTTEN BETTER WITH EVERY STEP YOU HAVE TAKEN. LEAVE THE HOOD WAYS IN THE HOOD. ACT LIKE THE LADY THAT YOU ARE…..

I guess that’s how she got that scar under her left eye, by putting her hands on the wrong mofo man. I guess thats why she got a plain ole non industry man for a husband, he’s happy to be in her limelight and spending her money. But he got to take all her shyt.

In other words she got herself a simp

dam im feelin flik 36

I jus saw the video look like he was bout 2 hit her AZz back !!!! Lmao she lucky them peop was there

lol @ how she wit his ass u couldnt find nobody betta lookin i thought this was jay’s dad lol and oh yea see now if he wouldve knocked the s**t outta her the whole world would feel sorry for her

ROTFLMAOOOOOOO @ WeSt-CoAsT-909 and ‘Jay’s dad’!!!! OMG I cant stop giggling at that one! Boy u crazy!

She’s a hoodrat pretending to be a classy lady.

HER HUSBAND LOOKS LIKE JAY-Z FOR REAL…HOV MAY BE MARY’S STEP-MOM….SHE IS SO GHETTO BUT THAT IS WHAT MAKES HER MARY…OPRAH, COUNSELING AND NOTHING ELSE WILL CHANGE THAT….WHEN YOU ARE HOOD, YOU ARE HOOD FOR REAL….

Ok I usually don’t comment on a lot of these articles, but after reading some of these other comments, I can’t help myself. Let me say first I am a huge Mary J Blige fan. I love her music and her style, so ladies I am not hating on her one bit. This being said however, Mary was dead ass wrong this time. Man, woman, celeb, non-celeb, you should never put fight your partner. period. Being upset, being hood, him looking at whoever, none of those are justifiction for her behavior. If we are going to make excuses for Mary’s acts then when Kendu knocks the s*** out of her we have to make excuses for him.

SMDH….here we go again. All I saw was Mary’s hand go up while she appeared to be arguing with Kendu. This footage shows nothing, absolutely nothing about Mary punching anybody. All that was seen was her hand going up as she was talking. Coulda been her attempt to hit Kendu OR coulda been her just talking with her hands (you know how we do when temperature rises…dudes clap and we talk with our hands). Point is that video shows nothing thats being put out there. There are three sides to every story. There is her side, his side, and THE TRUTH. No one other than Mary and Kendu and God knows the real accounts to this story because you’ll get sooo many variations of it. Remember…this is Hollywood. Mary and Kendu are not speaking out on what happened, their publicists are (and you know how they do when celebrities are in hot water). The media would put out anything to stir things up and for ratings so I’m not believing all of that hype. Things do jump off and for all we know, Mary and Kendu probably kissed and made up and moved on from this. As far as the video goes, it shows no one putting their hands on no one.

‘“She said, ‘You ain’t going to go Chris Brown on me, are you?’” according to a source’

lmao…That don’t even sound like something that would come out of Mary’s mouth.

Shame on Mary (I hadt o take that HOTTIE tilte away from her because of her bad karma)..he was flirting, but that’s all he did…she went to far. I bet if she saw a fly guy she might flirt with him. and if he gets jealous and hits her. it will be over the papers. Can you say BIASED????? I know you could…..

Mary too cool for all that. I belive it was a joke that was misunderstood. Who ever this person is they need to mind there own bussiness.

What do you expect the man to keep his eyes on. Face it Ladies all men look at these scandalous dressed women. Hell I look my dam self. LOL! Its one thing to look but another thing to go and start flirting with the chic. She should’e just brushed his ass off like we’ll talk when we get home S**T I’M MARY J.

Honestly I just think this is another attempt to slander the BLACK FEMALE!

Think about it.. Mary J Blige is really one of the few Black women that managed to stay and LOOK Black at all times! And she sings about Black love and the pain of the Black woman… Now they are out to tarnish that image as well! These people stop at nothing!

I usually condemn the media for butting thei damn noses in peoples personal business, but Mary, baby… Rule #1 (the cardinal rule) neva air out any greivances with your spouse in public. A situation that could have easily been diffused can turn into a f**kin’ firestorm. MJB was probably a lil’ tipsy (but it’s ok), she’s entitled. You never see Hov and Beyonce’ arguing in public do you?
Kendu was just testin’ the waters. But in the future, please keep that s**t under wraps : )
(You know what kinda Lady you have) (Mary will whoop yo’ azz nigguh!)

It’s funny how we as the media act….Mary J. hauls off and slaps the crap out her husband but if it would have been the other way around we would have crucified the man lol….I love double standards

People forget she’s only human, and yea though she’s a celebrity, at the same time as a woman when we’re mad, we’re mad, and we allll know we’d slap our man too for lookin’ at another woman!

“She’s only human” doesn’t excuse it.

More power to ya, Mary J!

If bro can’t respect you by not looking when you’re at his side, regardless of how scantily dressed a female is, then he needs a n166a wake-up call. Continue to be a strong Black woman!

Oh boy, here we go with that “Strong Black Woman,” s**t. You can be strong without striking someone.

If this is what makes up a Strong Black Woman, then perhaps it needs to be redefined.

Ok, I didn’t see her slapping him, musta missed that in the video. However, there is no excuse for it if she did. I have to agree COMPLETELY with onmygrind1230, if the situation was reversed, he would be the BAD GUY………..

I THINK MARY WAS HAVIN A BAD AND NITE B CAUSE THEY BEEN IN THS KINDA ENVIROMENT B 4 WHERE THERE WAS LOTS OF WOMAN AND MEN. SO IF IT IS TRUE MARY IS WAY WRONG.KEEP YOUR HANDS 2 YOURSELF TAKE YOUR ANGER HOME BEHIND CLOSE DOOR SO PEOPLEWANT PUT YOUR PROBLEM OUT THERE. U R SUPPOSE 2 LOOK AINT NO CRIME B A QUEEN THAT U R B A LADY.SHE KOO EVERYTHING GONNA B ALRIGHT. WE STILL LUV MARY THE HIP-HOP QUEEN.SHE IS A CAPRICORN AND SO AM I SHE WILL SETTLE DOWN AND SHE WILL SAY SHE SORRY.THEN SHE WILL RECORD A SONG BOUT NO MORE VIOLENCE.

I didn’t see any slapping. But those in the know know Mary is a volatile chica. Love her music (always copped her 12″s because her remixes have always been wickid!) but yeah, her hubby puts up with ALOT from her. As someone who have been involved with an insecure, volatile person in my past it is hard work appeasing them 24/7 because everything makes them bug OUT. And if she did slap him? She had no right. If Mary’s video for “It’s a Wrap” is an indication of how she fights her men, well, that’s far from appropriate. Strong women don’t slap men, they exercise control and create boundaries or move onto greener pastures. But that’s just my own personal standards speaking.

BUT…I read somewhere in the comments by someone how Mary has always ‘looked black’. Is this the same Mary J. Blige who is a weave/contacts/European fashion addict?

LOL

Man…some females trip me out. All these celebrities are dressed by gay black men who love Euro couture. If anything, Mary is dressing like the Italian women have been waaaaaaaaay before Mary was born.

Just a little fashion perspective for those not up on their Cavalli, Guiseppe, Prada etc being as well, they are all ITALIAN labels.

Rewind – yep, she slapped him. Her hand came up and around and his face moved like he was smacked. I feel sorry for him.

if you hit a man like that, expect to get hit back. dont hit a man and then play the tina turner role! it dont work that way

Did she not know her album release party was that night, why is her hair not fully done? Let the police sort it out. Her hair is more of a problem!!!

He’ll be alright, just walk it off.

yo its really funny how some women on hear is condoning Mary’s action if in fact this is true. Some of you are quick to throw around comments like “be a strong black woman”,”she’s human” but i bet it was the opposite comments on the Chris Brown incident. I wish a women would put her hands on me even if i was in the wrong. i guarantee you she wouldn’t do it again.

LMAO @ playing the Tina Turner role. lmao.

I mean here

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Im really disappointed in a lot of ya’lls comments. The fact that you all think this is “humorous” somehow bothers me. Its ALWAYS funny when a woman hits a man. But when a man hits a woman, ya’ll wanna throw him to the wolves. I don’t understand this double standard.

YES, we are men and we’re naturally stronger than ya’ll. However, EVERYONE has their breaking point. NOBODY likes to be hit…PERIOD! And its also amazing how any time a man hits a woman in retaliation, everyone says “he should have just walked away.” How about YOU be the bigger person and YOU walk away before YOU hit him. I don’t care how upset you get, keep your hands to yourself.

I feel sorry for this next generation. If all of you feel its okay for a woman to hit a man with no repercussion, I’m almost scared to ask what kind of morals you’re teaching your kids.

I defend myself. I could care less if its a man or a female. I’ll break a woman in half just as fast as I’d break a man. I’m not gonna play into your whole “I am woman, hear me roar” movement where you feel like you can do what you want and get away with it. You hit me and you’re gonna get that ass whooped worse than the slave who got the master’s daughter pregnant!

In a relationship everything should be done with respect for one another ,I DONT CONDONE IT but if she was going to slap him she should of did it in there privacyLOL

She shouldn’t have hit him PERIOD! Mad or not.

Had that been me, she’d STILL have my handprint embedded in her jaw

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i feel ya ambitious, this post “Chris brown era” is getting out of hand.

now yal see what we mean when we yal don’t know both sides if the stiry now lets say kedu whooped her butt that night i not saying he’s right but he aint wrong for getting on that ass she as a older woman knows better I SHE FORGOT WHAT THEM ASS WHOOPINGS FROM KC WAS ALL ABOUT

she should be locked up if the shoe was on the other foot he be up under the jail no one should be laying hands on no one and she was mad dont cut it

Lmao @ ambitiousballa 2 f**kin funi!!!!! I agree keep to Hands 2 yoself

I wonder if they will stop her from singing on Target commercials like they stripped chris brown from his endorsements, The answer is heII fukc no. I’ll slap the sh1t out of a b1tch for slapping me. Don’t throw one if you can’t take one.

Mary seems to be sporting Rhi’s hairdo which is equally unflattering on her, as it is on Rhi. As for slapping her husband, that was as ugly as her hair. Nobody tolerates being slapped in the face without wanting to retaliate. Even in nature, animals will consider that a reason to strike back.
If Mary believes her power and control display will keep her husband from using his eyes to look at what he wants to look at, then she’s stuck on stupid. Will that provoke her to blinding him w/hot grease? If she’s “all bad’ like that then she should have taken the come around punch and not let the bouncers come in between them. If Mary don’t want drama, then she needs not to start no drama.

I guess home wrecking and azz beatings are in season this year….

The information I read said that nothing happend that a friend said that haters of Mary tried to make something up so it would like something went down. Even if something did happen at the party the husband deserved it for staring to hard at the waitress. No one told him to be staring
at her ass hard for Mary to catch him looking. I am not saying he couln’t glance at it now and then
but he has to do it in a way that he doesn’t get caught, because he is a married man and if Mary
catches him looking she is going to get angry and feel dissrespected.

i hope she not back on that stuff again.

no more drama!

I totally agree with you 100% ambitious_balla couldn’t have said it better myself. The double standard we have in this society is ridiculous. At the end of the day it’s all about respect for your mate and yourself.

Now if this had been the other way around the man would be hauled off to jail somewhere! I hate double standards.
Now she should respect her man and not disrespect him in public because she didn’t handle the situation like a lady. Oh well, not my life, problem or situation to deal with.d

They’ll be aight.

Please Mary J. keep your hands to your self, And work on what you need too do and take good care of the kids and the family? Dont let the pops get to this S**t at all because they can F**k up on some of this s**t between you and your man,It could have been for fun but you dont need that s**t in your life M.J. Next time you mite go to jail with no return think about this next time.It could get ugly M.J

I didn’t get to see the video because it was already removed, but if this is true, Mary shouldn’t be promotin that she’s gettin stronger with each tear…seems like she needs to cry a bit more, because putting your hands on someone is a very weak thing to do. Although she is still one of my all time favorite artists, I am very disappointed in her {if this is true}.

bob and weave kendu bob and weave,lol

@ambitiousballa: YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE THAT FEEL SORRY FOR THIS GENERATION AND THE NEXT TO COME! Domestic violence is a two-way street now. How do we expect the youth to respect each other when they are witnesses to our behavior. If this story is true, her behavior was intolerant especially at a public event. There is more than one way to handle a situation and violence should be omitted. Hopefully this story is not true because it would be immature of her to get mad at Kendu for “noticing” a waitress and further feeling like he deserved a smack!

Why is domestic violence on the rise in women? lol

Nothing more disturbing then the men who support this behavior from Mary. No wonder we are running short of real men while steadily increasing in effeminate behavior and ways of thinking. I guess this is what 2 whole generations of black men raised by their mothers in a matriarchal household will do.

Also, the video is REAL…I seen the s**t, she smacked the chap off his lips.

daintyjen…LMBAO!

Dang I missed it !!! but to all that said she should keep her hands to herself! Thank goodness because i sooooo agree no woman should get away with putting your hands on another person man or woman! put yourself out there and challenge some one be prepared to get it back! That’s why I smh at that Chris Brown thing.

Yea i bet she ont get ostrasized like CB got, prolly gone get an award for this shyt like a hero

Im not sayin he should have looked but keep ya damn hands to yoself if he would git her back HE would have caught all the heat an been the new Chris Brown, but to avoid dat now dudes gotta take punches like some punks. I pass, its no wonder blk women are single in high numbers, the relationships are trainwrecks an TYPICALLY all BAD, its some good ones no doubt but the bad ones are a fukin force these daze an this typa shyt is all too popular. A girl asked me about this exact typa thing tha other day an when I said this not my style she was like ‘you cant take a slap from yo girl?’, like the shyt is part ova man’s duty or some shyt, I was like you out yo rabid azz mind if you think you can jus outright bytchslap me an walk, im not a he-man woman beater but i have the right to defend myself

i am really tired of this kinda bullshyt tho, why blk women on average find it so hard to be NORMAL is beyond me an yall growin stranger by the day, the good ones should start teachin some classes and outcasting the bad ones, we need to finally jus be real and recognise this is NOT the minority among blk women

You know who else condones this behavior? The legal system. It’s set up to protect the woman, hence the reason they don’t hesitate to pass a lick. I read the law on it and it basically states that because a male is “physically stronger” than a woman, he should never be physical with her…not even if she hits first. So you know me….Mr. “Scenario.” What is she’s a bodybuilder? Am I to stand there and let her choke slam me through a damn table? I mean, at what point is a man allowed to defend himself when being attacked by a woman?

Think about it…Rihanna hit Chris and he retaliates. Who went to court? They didn’t even give her a damn citation about it! They just felt sorry for her and crucified him.

Mary slaps her dude and adds insult to injury by following it up with a statement like “You ain’t going to go Chris Brown on me, are you?” That c**kiness ALONE shows that she KNEW what she did was wrong, yet she knew that he’d suffer more behind his actions than she would. He stood a lot more to lose if he hit her back. Not just his reputation, but also his freedom.

I don’t know what happened between the 80′s (when I was a kid) and now, but the standards and respect has changed dramatically. When you’re a public figure, you have a lot more power than you think. There’s a LOT of women who look up to Mary because they can relate to her. What kind of message is she sending by telling these young women who follow her “yeah, you can slap a man AND challenge him to hit you back if you want to”?

If we continue this trend, it’s gonna get bad……REAL bad. Celebs have a LOT more to lose than the average 9-5 working male who’s not going to sit around and take a female putting hands on them. And I’m not saying men don’t do their share of foulness. But a physical reaction isn’t the answer. Despite what you believe or see on tv, nothing hurts a man more than seeing you happy with someone else. LEAVE! Its that simple……

Its a shame that we live in a world where its OK for a violence of any kind to be entertaining. HAd Kendu hit Mary J it would be on a police blotter and we would be discussing jail time. Since its a jealous rage over a man possibly having paid too much attention to a waitress it gets a pass.

Mary J of all people…so disappointing.

The “Hip Hop Queen of Soul” domestically abused her man?!?!?!? Say it ain’t so!!! After singing all of these songs about abuse and dogged men out on every one???? Please tell me I’m dreaming right????!?!?!?!?! Where is Oprah and the Nightline cast??? Does anyone knows if the police pursued this as diligently as they pursued Chris Brown??? I’m automatically assuming not!!!!!

omg i think she should be put in jail 4 what she did cuz if he had slap her ugly ass he would be in jail and thats not right c** on wuz up wit that there is nothing wrong with him looking at another female hell he’s leavin with her when tha release party is over man mary is really crazy so OPRAH WINFREY what do u think bout mary now she aint s**t y she did’t do KC like that cuz her blonde headed ass kno better KC didnt play wit her azz KENDU ur a punk u should have slid that hoe under tha table i want buy ur CD cuz ur trash and so is ur CD.{MIZZ TAZZIE}

@Ambitious balla..I forgot to add, initially I do believe K-Ci led her on..He wanna make out like in the beginning Mary did not turn him on and he told her from the rip he did not feel something for her..He even went on to say that she was no Vanessa Williams or Hallie Berry..Well K-Ci is no Christopher Williams,either..LOL..
Thats the thing with SOME OF U men.You will TELL LIES to get a woman in the bed @ first..IN ADDITION,TELL THEM ALL THE THINGS SHE WANTS TO HEAR AND THEN ONCE U GET IT U READY TO DUMP HER..MEN LIKE THAT NEEDS TO MEET WOMEN LIKE GLEN CLOSE’S CHARACTER IN FATAL ATTRACTION,LOL..Now don’t get me wrong I don’t condone anybody trying to force themselves on a person when the person says its over..Thats not my style to go on when the man states to me its over! My #1 rule:If it don’t fit then don’t force it..

Why are y’all so fast to believe the negative about celebrities? People are funny. Come on now.

you know something no matter how many people are covering up and trying to come to her defense and PR trying to do they job, but when it is caught on tape how can you deny that. Damn there is trouble in paradise for those 2.

Aww now Mary. What happened to “No more Drama”? You of all people should know betta. You sang, you cried and sang and cried about emotional and physical abuse…………now here you go? I’m not digging this side of you Mary. Either you’re going to be the victim or “The Suspect”.

THAT’S ASSAULT!!!! LOCK MARY UP!!!!! LOCK HER UP!!!! If her guy would have smacked her they would MELT THE KEY to his jail cell lock!!! HOLLA!!!

Zero Tolerance 4 domestic violence on any level! If Chris Brown got in trouble so should anyone else!

lol i don’t think she did anything wrong it was HER album release party he shouldn’t have been checking out a waitress especially in front of her.

Leave Chris Brown outta this. Thats all i got to say

NY_Lover_Girl, the only rebuttal I have is “so what men lie.” Maybe if some of these women made a man wait longer than 2 days to give it up, they’d see the nonsense behind their words.

Men are VERY impatient creatures. Wanna see if a man is really into you for anything other than sex? Make him wait or give the impression that there’s no chance in hell that he’d get it any time soon. The average cat who’s just looking for a jump off will dip out after a while like “man, I’m not bout to put up with this sh*t”. Especially when he has other options. The cat who sticks around REGARDLESS of your standpoint on NO sex is the one you should focus on for something serious. Him wanting to be around you without the sex shows that his desire to be with you is greater than just a sexual relationship.

I’ve been telling women this for YEARS, but they seem to think they know more about men than me….another man.

Believe what he SHOWS you…not what he says.

What happened sis? Don’t do that in public? Check his ass at home…you better than that..she don’t have anything on you sis.

So what?? Why was he flirtin wit some dumb broke hoe at Mary’s party anyway…he deserved it…i woulda did my man the same!! Men always wanna do stupid ish then get mad when we respond in a stupid way. Domestic violence or not…he was an idiot and he got treated like one…he woulda did the same thing had it been his party and she was doing it. Shes the bread winner so that lame can kick rocks or get slapped…LOL!

WTF!!! First they claim she punched him than they claimed that she smacked him!!!! That’s bull because I’ve watched that video over and over again and not once did I see either! People are always taken shyt, running with it, and maken up their own story to it….

@TOODELICIOUS4U…..right girl i was thinkin the same thing….its funny how some random guy was right in the middle blocking the camera with his back…yea ok…haterism is a contagious disease fareal…LOL

swaggalicious30, So you’re saying “well done” to Mary and you “would have done the same thing.” Now, lets just say you DID hit your dude and he decided to break you off right then and there. Do you feel that he would have been “out of line” for hitting you back or that it would be “deserved?”

If your man is doing “stupid ish” as you say, then why do you do the SMART thing and leave his ass? You CANT change a man or correct his ways unless HE wants to. So what he looked at another woman. Who hasn’t. I’ve been chilling with females I were involved with and somebody like Tyrese would come on the tube and they’re on some “oooh wee! He could get it!” Should I had hauled off and punched her for that? Who cares about who looks at who? Obviously she’s not taking care of home…otherwise she wouldn’t have to worry about who he looks at.

Superstar or not …you aint gon slap me…It just goes to show how you run your house/relatioship…Kendu is second fiddle puppet husband. Not to say its right to peep another chic, theres no harm to look. Mary was outta line if she smacked him in a crowd…She would get suppm back Diva or no Diva….

when did he get slapped?? i missed it?

It seems like there is a double message about domestic violence. A woman can do that to a man and oh it’s ok and he deserved it. Yet when its the other way around and a man hits a woman lock him up throw him in jail. I think domestic violence of any sort is wrong male hitting a woman, woman hitting a man, man hitting a man, woman hitting a woman. Wrong is wrong abuse is abuse and should not be tolerated or accepted.

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@AMBITIOUS…why would i leave my husband for looking at another woman…um…thats stupid!! I would defenitely check him if he did it in my face at my party. What just let him talk to a flirt with another fem right in my face…yeah right! I be less than a woman if i just stand there like some dumb blonde and act stuck on stupid! About him hitting me back…well if hes feeling froggie than he can leap if not get his s***t straight then! I get so sick and tired of men saying “well if she was doin her job at home”…blah blah blah! If a mans gone cheat hes gone cheat, it doesnt matter if shes Beyonce, Halle Berry You can do back bends and leg lifts, cook clean have their babies and go to work….IT DONT MATTER…A mans gonna do what he wants to do…PERIOD!

YALL BLIND? ITS NOT LIKE SHE GONNA WAIT FOR THE CAMERA TO BE PERFECTLY ON HER TO SLAPP HIM….WTF OK YEA ITS A COEINCIDENCE BUT IT STILL HAPPEND…U SEE HER LIFTIN HER ARM AND U SEE HIS HEAD REACTIN TO THE PUNCH. NOW AS FAR AS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE I DONT CONDONE IT PERIOD. WOMEN HAVE DUMB ASS REASONS TO HIT A MAN. U WAS LOOKIN AT HER ASS?! SMACK, YOU INSULTED ME?! SMACK….WTF IF THE MAN DIDNT PUT HIS HANDS ON U OR HIT YOU…U HAVE NO REASON TO HIT HIM PERIOD!!! YALLL GONNA STOP THINKIN THAT MEN ARE PETS, LIKE YALL CAN JUS TELL US WHAT TO DO, WHEN TO DO IT AND TRYIN TO PUNISH US LIKE PETS….I NEVA HIT A WOMEN AND SHE NEVA HIT ME. NOW WOMEN IF YOU HAVE THE BALLS TO HIT A MAN THEN HE HAVE THE RITE TO HIT EM BACK. THE PROBLEM WIT SOCIETY IS DAT WE LET THE OPPOSITE SEX CONSIDER WHAT A REAL “MAN/WOMAN” IS. IM A MAN AND IM NOT PLAYIN TO WOMEN STANDARS…REAL MEN CRY, REAL MEN DONT HIT WOMEN, REAL MEN SHARE THERE FEELINGS,,,, BULLSHYT!!!!!! THATS NOT A MAN THATS A PET

I’ve had a change of heart about this. Even though I don’t condone domestic violence from what I heard on the radio about this situation Mary didn’t do as bad as most women or men in the same situation would have done. Apparantly there is far alot more about this story coming out everyday. It would be safe to say there is trouble in paradise with these two. If they can’t work it out hopefully they will do the right thing.

I am a woman myself, but some of you women posting on here are trippin! SO WHAT the dude looked, I say again, LOOKED at some woman’s azz or thighs or what the hell ever. That is NOT a reason to lay hands on someone because had he hit her back! Holy shyt it would have caused a million woman march! Men look, period. Nothing wrong with looking..its human nature and dont think for a hot azz minute that YOU, his woman are the BEST looking woman on the earth OR that he’s going to stop being HUMAN once he gets with you. Marriage says ‘forsake all others’, it dont say stop looking. We women know we look too on top of that, I dont care how fine our own men are if we saw tyrese, reggie bush etc walking around, then guess what, we damn sure are going to look and a good long hard look at that! lol.
AND ALL OF THE WOMEN posting that crap about ‘i woulda done my man the same way!!” mindset….Don’t look now but YOUR man just walked out the door…

Domestic Violence is just that Domestic Violence period! Whether she didn’t hit him hard enough is irrelevant and for those of you who are so quick to condone this behavior i really have nothing to say to you.
All i have to say is that whatever is coming outta your lips is ignorant and if this is so right then quit talking about Chris and what he did, then y’all are saying Rhianna deserved what was coming to her. Mary is no different than any other abuser there is out there and she needs help.
I wonder why her crazy ass is not in jail, its so sad that these women be beating up their men and when they get caught, nothing happens. But when the roles are reversed its just ridiculous how people then pass judgment and condemnation. Shame on you.

@CaliFemme23. . .PREACH IT!

@Califemme23 so true and I especially like that last ending of our post :)

LOL…too funny…thats some BS!!

I love when SINGLE ladies make comments about how to treat a man…LMAO…it kills me!!

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I had much respect for Mary even though I have never been a big fan. However, it seems like the one who always claims to be the victim is not such a victim after all. Sometimes when people get into arguments they punch the other person but not hard though, it happens, but you should never do it in public, geez. That is disrespectful to him no matter what he did. And if she aint secure enough about her being his woman that she cares if he looks at a waitresses’s butt, geez Mary, wtf. Its the same as if you shout your man out in front of people – he will not feel like a man if you do that and its down right insulting.

Wow. I’m going to just say this. IMO I would be asking questions if my man Never looked at another woman, whether it be her A$$ or Tits or face. People are different a man loves and is with you for more reasons then your looks, at least I hope so. Women get so caught up in believing that he’s with you because he believe you’re the finest thing since I don’t know what, but reality is you fit a type of woman that he found interesting so he pursued you. You got to know each other and it developed. Now although everyone is unique in their own way there are certain similarities that you may share with a bunch of others, such as if you guy liked you because you have a nice smile, then chances are there are other women with nice smiles as well.

Abuse is Abuse no matter who it is coming from , male or female, it is never ok to put your hands on someone else. That’s just opinon

I wouldn’t have hit him in public like that, I would have handled his ass at home, but many women want to be where Mary is “on top.” SOME men, eventually, get emasculated by a woman who really doesn’t need them, for some reason it’s just not enough to a man to be wanted so he creeps with the chick he knows “needs” him to pull herself up. This is the same-o-same-o thang.

Either way let God’s will be done in your life Mary, even if that means letting him go, trusting him, forgiving him or whatever. No more drama! LOL~peace~

I agree and get where CaliFemme23 is coming from. But, there is a line of respect. If he’s looking so hard I notice, she notices as well, he’s crossed the line. A woman knows her man. She knows when that hunt is in his eyes and if he’s disrespectful, hitting IDK/don’t agree, but making sure he knows you won’t take that mess you should do fosho!

well one thing for sure he was being disrespectful for staring at another woman while in his wife presence,but ladies,get over everyone look,even Mary looks at men i’m sure,but she was being disrespectful as well as slapping him especially in public,she’s abusive if you ask me.anytime a man or woman feel the need to solve problems by getting physical ,it’s clearly a sign of abusive,,,so be careful dealing with people like,you should have self control be upset,talk,but not physical

Mary J, and that girl that Chris popped a couple of times should not hit men and expect nothing, after all, “if you can’t take it don’t give it”. A lady should act like a lady, if she is expected to be treated like one.

Wow, that action surely takes a back to her persona that she rides in her music and in interviews. I thought that she was happy with her place in life, she seems a bit insecure and her recent actions kinda personify that fact.

THIS LOOKING ISSUE IS OUT OF CONTROL… YES WE ARE MEN AND THE SHAPE SMELL AND EVEN GRACE ATTRACTS US TO OTHER WOMEN.. BUT IF WE ARE TRULY COMMITED TO THE SPECIAL SOMEONE THEN THATS IT. ITS LIKE DUCKS: THE MALE DUCK HAS THIS GREEN COLAR THAT LOOKS OH SO FLASHY… HE HAS THAT TO ATTRACT THE FEMALE DUCK… WOMEN THAT ARE GOREGOUS AND HAVE NICE PHYSICAL QUALITES ARE JUST ON DISPLAY.. SO IF SOMEONE IS SIMPLY ACKNOWLEDING THEM IS THAT SUCH A SIN… I FEEL MARY ON THIS AT THE SAME TIME THOUGH CAUSE YOU CAN TAKE A LIL PEAK NAD NOT GAWK. BUT AS A CELEB AND BEING A ROLE MODEL TO YOUNGER GURLS OR WOMEN SHE COULDNT HANDLED THAT ISH IN THE LIMO OR SOMETHING… SHE SHOULDA GRABED A PHONE BOOK AND WENT UPSIDE HIS BLOCKHEAD LOL

Same sh*t.Different day. If I had a daughter one of the very first dating lessons is “keep your hands to yourself. If you don’t want to get hit don’t pass a lick…” The video clearly shows her shoulder and arm swinging & his head jerking back..If the man doesn’t break it up this gets sloppy very quickly. Don’t defend this stuff.It’s weak,lame, and very dangerous.With brothers like JohnBrock, Southern Swagger82, and ambitious balla-LMAO!! you’re taking safety in a very risky area. I agree that the legal system promotes this stuff but most brothers say “I’ll just do the time…” If a sister hits you she has NO respect for you or fear of you… Sistas you can’t hold anybody to standards you’re not living yourselves…

Peace And Blessings To All

it really doesnt matter. men r going to do there thing with u without u. we as women just look at it this way. do unto others as they do unto u. he looks im going to look also. so no one can be made if both r looking. it was a open party and thats what happens. but if it was just the both of u by ur self then there is a serious problems.

When is Mary going to grow up,doesn’t she know that there is no such thing as an old ghetto queen. When she decides to become a real “Secure in her Black- Self-Woman”, then she can appreciate the qualities of a so called “Good Man”(regardless of race) when she finds Him. Now I was not there When Rhianna got her ass beat by her play mate Chris Brown, but you can see how the ghetto drama probably got started. You would think that the in the AGE of Obama that these silly boys and girls would try to evolve themselves to the next level of Civilized behavior, and stop promoting the so called “thug Life”.

In this day and age she better be glad he was staring at the body of a FEMALE in the first place…When my man sneaks a look at a woman out the corner of his eye im like ‘WHEW! GOOD! hes not gay!”

Men change their minds like the weather for real. If he was the head of the Mary’s label, why is he the one doing so much with this little girl who looks like she belongs on FOR THE LOVE OF RAY J? Can the child even sing? Mary is grown now. Although her we still see her as Mary, her personna is more mature. Men always want that to play with the little girls who want to try to prove they are just as grown as any woman – when they don’t have a clue what being a grown woman is. That’s why men want young girls so they know that the girls think its about show how hard they can get down.

Mary was right to knock his ass out. Don’t disrespect. But she shouldn’t have called Chris Brown out like that. RIHANNA WAS STEALIN ON HIM WHILE HE WAS DRIVING CUZ SHE’S A HOOD RAT and she got what she deserved.

Trust – Mary can get someone else. She is STILL a bad b***h.

i didnt c anything

they need to get this s**t off here.. youcant see s**t.. this idiot should have kept this s**t to himself..

Ok 1st there was a slap. Someone was standing in front. You can see the hand draw back and him jump back. 2nd..if it was a joke why was ol’ boy being held back. 3rd..Ive lost respect for Mary. How can you hit someone when you were constantly gettin that ass whipped. She keeps singing about no more drama and how people are constantly hating on her and how she dosent care(which I am sorely tired of hearing about) but makes such a public spectacle as this. Mary needs to realize that shes too fly to go through s**t like this and that she can get another dude as fast as she changes hair styles. That was her event and she shouldnt have let anything get in the way of being a lady.

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Ok. First, she denies this incident ever took place. Why lie? Ok….you lost control we all do. However, you must be able to maintain your sanity in the process. I agree w/CaliFemme23 and mrsholland22 domestic violence is not the answer to your insecurities. Obviously, she still has a lot of growing to do. Allow him to look. Let him be human. Don’t suffocate him and not allow him to be a man. Now, his image has been bruised. People will see him as weak, which hurts the both of them. I’m glad he decided to be the adult in this situation. If she was quick to react w/violence because he looked/glanced at another woman. I can’t image how she would react to him having a very attractive female business partner. Honestly, I don’t think this was his first time feeling Mary’s raft. She’s probably killing him at home. Domestic Violence (physical or mental) is never good. Leave before it’s too late Kendu.

p cavalier1,the 12nv42k2 i appreciate yall’s stand on this which i think is devoid of sentiments.Ordinarily women would naturally defend their own kind inspite of glaring logicality involved, moreso when its “THE CANT-DO-NO-WRONG-ALMIGHTY MJB! first off am not her fan @ all, i would rather gladly choose Faith Evans who is a better singer anydayy! Now we know a tad bit what might have happened with her & my boy K-Ci of jodeci!!! Her insercured self need to quit soundind like a broken record & find other ways of reinventing her washed up self like Queen latifah Tyra Banks & other good women did.Domestic violence could go both ways.all dat no mo drama s**t is jst her way of gettn paid while she manipulates impressionable & childlike minded women. my woman initially struggled with the same s**t tryna tell me not to look around me…. fact is one has to be insecured to want to stop another from lookin

First of all Chris & Ririrs smackdown was held in Feb 8th not June!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Second of all, Mary slapped him not punched!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Third of all why is this a big deal???????? Couples slap eachother all the time!!!!!!!!! Fourth of all, I am with Mary on this one, bcuz he must have been giving that waitress some special attention, I would have done the same! All you heffas who are against Mary slappin, you probably have low self-esteem and have men walking all over your pathetic ass. If you think that the reason you dont wana slap your man bcuz u scared he might leave yo pathetic ass, thats so pathetic. It was just a slap not a violent attack, it is okay for women to slap their men when they are doing something wrong but it is never right to slap a woman, sorry thats the way it goes, look at Tigers wife Elin, she got away with it :)

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YEAH HE WAS ABOUT TO SPARK HER ASS! LIKE THE AVERAGE BLACK WOMAN SHE GOTTA HANDLE THAT RIGHT THEN.WE NEED TO KEEP OUR HANDS TO OURSELVES MARY. THERE ARE OTHER WAYS TO PUNISH A MAN. I BEAT MINE TO, JUST NOT IN PUBLIC! LOL

smh… it’s “funny” when a woman hits a man but if he would have slapped her ass in the club he’d be the devil. isn’t THAT ironic.

O.K …..whatever the reason, I personally dont condone violence of any kind. Man/Woman or Woman/Man…C’mon now some of you women actually put yo’self in that position and you get delt with, when all you had to do is walk away……..I love the hell out of mary, plus she from Y.O my native, but if he had of hit her azz back then what? we would have labeled him a “Chris Brown, when she hit him first! She know the game, but she let the hood out her….we all got it, but she should have handled it better…no matter what the reason, unless someone put they hands on you, keep yo hands to yo self!

thats right mary keep ur man in line thats men problem now they dont no there place but every now and then u have to pop them back in line

NOW I BELIEVE RIHANNA HIT CHRIS SEVERAL TIMES WHILE HE WAS DRIVING. NOW MARY HITS HER HUSBAND AND THEN MADE THAT STATEMENT “U R NOT GOING CHRIS BROWN ME” WHAT SHE DID WAS ABUSIVE. SO NOW U SEE MEN GET HIT,BEAT BY THER WOMEN ALSO. (BUT MEN DON’T TELL THEY R ASHAMED) WOW!!

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there something about kendu and this mystery homo who got between him and his wife it appears that the guy holding kendu was getting up in his face a little too close for comforti see kendu gave him a gentle push back! i wonder if its something fishy or down low going on here is dude bisexual or is this clip appearing that way look at the white girl looking on while this FAG is trying to restrain him. is he security? was this mystery person with him at the mayweather fight? WOW! THIS IS CRAZY YO BUT I PRAY FOR MY BABY MARY THAT THIS GUY SHE LOVES AINT BI HMMMMM….DEEP.LOVE YOU MARY if you think im hatin, watch the clip again and watch how some guy gets up in kendus face the white cutie is in between the shot lookin at them then THE CAMERA REPLAYS IT AGAIN IT’S SICKENING TO IMAGINE . PUT CHEATERS ON HIM TOB WATCH HIM MARY LOVE YOU BABYGIRL IM OUT…PEACE

WAS SHE DRINKING OR JUST STARTING, BLOWN OF CONTEXT MAYBE? JEALOUSY AND ENVY ARE FRIENDS AND THEY PARTY AND BULLS**T TOGETHER AND WHEN LEAST EXPECT THEY LIKE TO COME F**K WITH YOU. JOKE MY ASS.

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