I REALLY DON’T SEE TOO MUCH WRONG WITH WHAT SHE SAID…IT’S HER CHOICE. ALTHOUGH BEING TOO C**KY & HAVING TO MUCH ARROGANCE ISN’T GOOD AT ALL. YEA SHE MADE HAVE BEEN A FIRST LADY OF A COUNTRY BUT HER ACTING SKILLS ARE MEDIOCRE AT BEST. SHE’S NOT AN “A” LIST CELEBRITY SO PUMP YA BRAKES HOMEGIRL!

LISA RAYE NEEDS TO CHECK HERSELF…SHE HAS’NT LEARNED FROM HER MARRIAGE AND DUDE WAS SUPPOSE TO BE AND HAVE THIS,THAT AND THIRD…HE FOOLED HER NUT ASS…PUT A ROLLS ROYCE IN HER NAME AND ALL…ASK HER DOES SHE STILL HAVE THE CAR…F**K NO….SHE COULD’NT AFFORD IT…GET YOUR OWN LOOT AND THAT TYPE OF S**T WON’T HAPPEN TO A GROWN ASS WOMAN…..SHE LOOKS GOOD THOUGH…SHE WILL DEFINITELY FIND A HERB OUT THERE…..

yes she is a gold digger she didnt even know the d@%n man long that she was married too only thing she seen was dollar signs

The commentary after the radio show is hilarious!!!! LOL

she should have mention BACKGROUND check lol

GOLD DIGGA MY ASS..
SHE TRYNA MAKE SURE THE
NAGGA GOT SOMETHIN
TO BRING TO THE TABLE
TO MATCH WHAT SHE GOT.
AND I UNDERSTAND IT..HELL…
I WOUNLDN BE DATIN NO BROKE NIGGA
AND EVERYWHERE WE GO IM PAYIN

Ladies always talking about we BROTHERS abandon a sista when we Blow up, I wounder why lisa not comeing down my way where a brother is Broke like BET network, with a food Stamp card and not scared or afraid to pull that hair (SMILE)

why do people assume golddigger in the first place when they her a woman say they want a man with money. she clearly stated that she had money before she met her ex. and she still does. i think she’s right. its better to have a man to meet up and beat her goals for a man than have some broke man who’s depending on every dime to come from her. men like that are gold diggers too. and it’s no fun to have to pay or support a grown ass man. if he can’t suport himself then he can’t support her. it has to work both ways. settling for something lesser than you is degrading yourself. it’s ok to want to give gifts and do for a man. but if you constanlty doing it then its a golddigging problem with your man. so i don’t blame her. and the same applys to the man with money. you want someone who is decent and respectable with her own bank account and not always yours. and relationship should be based on love any way.
so any ways……………………..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

LisaRaye is not a gold digger , she is just ain’t messing with a broke nigga and I understand that

I feel like this….she already had money, she’s pretty as hell, she’s famous, and even if she didn’t know him at all he knew what he was getting into. If you’re dumb enough to be played ( if that’s what she did) then so be it!!! I ain’t hardly a gold digger, but you only get done to you what you allow!!! So I feel like if she played him it’s just as much his fault than hers!!!!!!!! Come on people it’s always two sides to a story!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That aint gold digging when you expect somebody to be able to at least meet you 1/2 way and match you on what you already have, aint nobody got time for moochers and free loaders. There is nothing wrong with going 50/50 mos def aint about to carry no grown person though– man or woman it aint that serious.

what is the big deal with this woman? after all these years….i still don’t get it, yes she is a very pretty woman, but not the prettiest…i’ve seen much better looking women on tv

thats true there are way better looking women then here and thats kinda stupid that you would let love pass over salary im all for beign equally yoked but umm come on you have more then what the average person has but i guess anybody with the same amount of money as here probably thinks the same way smh how money was the main factor

If thats what you call gold digging Then hey i’m guilty as hell lol, the point of the matter is don’t I want no broke man that can’t do anything for me or less then I can do for my damn self…equally or more, hey call it what you want..nothin wrong with wanting nice things, feeling as though u deserve the best, or not settling for nothin but…it is what it is get wit it or get lost!!Do your thing girl!!!

I feel like she is entitled to her own opinion….she wants what she wants! And there is nothing I believe that people should desire a partner that is on their level. But seriously…….i might be the only one that feels this way…..i doubt she was just throwin that kinda money on a pair heels!!! She wasnt making that kinda money! Her acting isnt that good….just my opinion.

She deserves everything she feels she is deserving of, thats the problem with so many women, they dont think they are deserving of good things so they dont even speak them up

OK LISA NO MAKE UP LOOK @ MY PICTURES THATS NO MAKEUP @THE AGE OF 48 I LOOK DAMN GOOD WITH NO MAKEUP,NOTHING @ ALL AND DARK SKINNED GIRL PLEASE YOU ARE CUTE BUT NO MAKEUP MEANS NONE @ALL…MUCH LUV 2 U MOCHA

you have to understand that things shouldn’t be just based over money.why come everytime somewhere gets involved ,it has to be about money instead of what it supposed to be about.what happened to the love,trust,understanding and support that’s emotionally , unconditonally and faithfully.i’m tired of some women only wanting a man for money .hell if you want a good man,treat him just like you would want to be treated.like men ,some women should understand and realize that they don’t want a man to just have sex with them if they want more from a man than just sex.well some men don’t want a golddiggger,they want a woman that gonna treat them good,vice versa.all of that materialistic s**t is priceless,uncondtional love never is .however,i do know where she’s coming from becuase me as a man would want a woman who trying to have something ,but i’m wouldn’t want her for her money becuase money is temporary ,once it’s gone ,it gone.love last a lifetime,ya dig.

i never was impressed with her. she has a tendancy to get fat, and besides a large chest and nice legs (at least in stockings) she doesn’t have much to offer me. i can spit and find those ‘attributes’ on just about any woman the spit lands on.

she’s got a huge forehead, and her attitude is beyond laughable. her being a former ‘first lady’ to some off the wall island nation means nothing.

however, i’m sure there’s some 50 year old plus guy with money that would view her as a prize…any guy nearer her age can get a younger, hotter woman without the attitude.

kind of sad for a woman to be in her forties and to think the way she thinks.

I can see where she’s coming from a LITTLE! I guess comin form a woman living like she does, I’d expext her to say that..she keepin it real tho’!! Lisa got her own money too…I want my guy to have some type of money to but not ONLY for me…for HIM..I aint takin care of no man..And if Im going to invest time with him, and vice versa, we both need something to fall back on for when push comes to shove..Ima hold my man down financially, to a certain extent, if need be and I expect him to do the same…BUT, he has to be intelligent…have charisma like she mentioned and ALL the above….Money is the root of evil but you cant take it to the grave with you.

That’s really sad money means more to her than anything. That’s why all of her relationships have fail. These celebrities are crazy! She just a crab that the white man pulled out of the barrel and if she don’t do what is ask her, she goes right back into the barrel with rest of the crabs.

I understand the fact of her partner must have some financial credibility to be at the level that she is at. BUT…for being a mature woman you must learn from past experiences to avoid future issues. Your lifestyle may be a content yet glamorous one but certain ideals that you portray are childish yet materialistic. In which I also add that it is the type of man you willl attract(heavy in finance,little in substance). In the relationship hopefully if she finds one will be an equal other than her being “the better half” will be actual love which in most cases is a priceless gift to obtain.

All the haters here are men. Yall make me laugh. And I’m a broke mofo. What a bunch of hypocrites. She knows what she wants. And if you think that’s wrong, then thank her for letting you know up front. I know I can’t afford her, so I just have to keep it moving. You’re all complaining because a fine woman broke your hopes. But let a woman come at you without the right look and you’ll shoot her down like nobody’s business. Game recognizes game. You look at lips waist booty tits and asses, and she looks at he almighty dollar. Men can be superficial but women can’t? It would be different if she didn’t tell you what she’s about. I’m a superficial chauvanistic mofo and even I have to thank her for letting me know what I have to do IF I want to get with her. So respect her game, she just saved your finances! I mean you are free to whine and moan about what kind of woman she is, but do you know what you want in a woman? Because if you did, you wouldn’t be worried about fine ass Lisa Raye. Like I said, she knows what she wants, and I know she don’t want me, and I can’t cry over someone I never had. But I HAVE to respect her for putting it out there.

Let a white woman come at you like she did. Some of you would find a second job in a minute.

Keep it moving folks, you’ll find happiness somewhere.

I don’t think that Lisa Raye is a gold digger at all!! It isn’t nothing wrong with wanting a nigha who is bringing something to the table besides baby momma drama, and kids… In the bible it says we are supposed to be equally yoked with our partners and thats what she went for last time a nigha wit money and look, her azz is alone again! Yeah she is beautiful but she ain’t all that, for her to almost be fifty and the only quality that she thought was worth mentioning was money… I feel so sorry for u honey!!! Plus she aint a real chick cause if she was it wouldn’t matter what the dude got if she loved, and cared for dude and wanted to b wit him she would help him get his game tight and get him on his feet!!! A real Bi**h will hold you down whateva and wheneva… LISA RAYE STEP YO GAME UP!!!1

Look at this wash up ho…she is just a cute black ho with nothing and want to use up someone else s**t…and she don’t look good without makeup fyi…

MAN, I WILL TEAR LISARAYE’S A.SS APART FU.CKIN HER. SHE’S SO DAMN FINE.

lisaraye mccoy is probably the only black woman worth of my di.ck. Her booty is so damn big that i’d fu.ck her all night long.

and Damn, why don’t y’all have a picture of her big booty? and terrance73, you know you’d hit it if you had the chance. and correction to my last post: i’d fu.ck buffy the body too.

MOREANMORE : YOU SAID THE FIRST INTELLIGENT THING I’VE READ ON HERE REGARDING THIS POST…

SOME OF THESE GUYS A=ON HERE ARE HELLA F**KING IGNORANT AND ARE REALLY TURNING ME OFF FROM BLACK MEN !

Even if i was the richest man on earth i wouldnt date lisa raye. id either be single or be dating some one that was with me before i got rich

I’m surprised she said it with so little finesse, but I don’t think she’s a gold-digger she’s a successful woman and she did have her own money before she was with her ex-husband. She was just trying to say that she wants someone on her level in all ways. I’m not mad at that, but I think it could’ve been put in a better way lol because money isn’t the most important thing she should have learned that from her ex, I’m shocked the first thing on her list wasn’t something like “honesty”, “loyalty”, or something else substantial like good character lol…I wouldn’t list money as number one..but whatever floats ur boat different strokes for different folks.

terrance73 : Those are some VERY strong and angry comments directed towards a women you know nothing about ! She has been in several movies, magazines and talkshows, also sitcoms. So for u to say she doesn’t have anything….. Need I even elaborate? And her looks are matter of opinion so….. Anyway…. She knows herself better than anyone and knows what she is deserving of. So we really can’t judge. Although if her standards are too high time will tell, because she will be left alone until she lowers them to something more realistic !

I might get blasted for my statement but If Im giving an honest opinion on what I think needed to get her. Fame is the most important. If Im being honest her looks have carried her this far. I know this might offend some fans but the chick cant act. She’s fine as hell though. She is a low level celebrity. Someone else that famous could help boost her career.

Well folks can be mad at me but the way I see it, yea she wants money…..so what? A lot of women who aren’t nearly as intelligent, sexy, or paid themselves say the same thing. I mean truth be told….if I was worth millions due to the work put in by my own hands, no I wouldn’t want someone who worked at burger shack either. Let’s be real here folks, it’s 2009 and people barely speak to each other in their outside of their own neighborhoods because no one trusts anyone anymore so why would a woman who A) Is physically astounding, somewhat of a prototype for high fashion models and cover girls, B) Respected in her craft, C) a mother, and D) worth more financially than probably everyone who responds to this post put together be looking for someone who she has to always wonder in the back of her mind if the person is after her or her money AND have to downgrade the lifestyle she’s worked hard to achieve just because she’s interested in him? It’s not healthy to feel confined by your relationship. She’s right, money does make the world go round in certain aspects and after you work so hard for so long the last thing you’re looking to do is give out free rides to those who possibly have potential but not enough heart to go the extra miles to get what it is they want. It’s a quick route to devastation. I know women who have buzzes like Lisa, just on a smaller level. Do you realize a woman like that walking down a normal street would get gawked at or asked out by almost every man who she comes across? At the store….getting gas….getting lunch….the man in the car next to you at the light….it’s retarded how much they get sweated. So….long story short…..yea my ego likes to entertain that THE Lisa Raye could be chillin at a bar and see me and my 02 Monte Carlo and my Sears brand clothes and go “Dang…..this dude has really got it goin on” but that ish ain’t gone happen! She’s a star and the law of physics says that normal things won’t last long when in close proximity to a star, takes a special something to be able to withstand the nature of not only who but what she is. Last but not least, say for example she likes you and ya’ll hit it off. Suddenly she wants or needs to go to Paris for 2 months and wants you to come with her. What then? You gone tell your boss, “hey I’ll be back in 2 months”? Heck no you won’t because where ya gone live? What ya gone eat after them two months? “She can take care of me” Why in the heck would she? I’m just sayin…

why do black women spell the word woman as women?

Im not hating on lisa at all but lets be real here she is far from an A list celeb. If it wasn’t for BET we wouldn’t even be still talking about her. She played on that sitcom on UPN about 4 years ago, she’s been in about 3 music videos, acted in the players club which was released in 1998 & thats about it. She honestly can’t be that financially well off considering her less than impressing lines of work. Im not knocking her on wanting a man that is financially stable but that shouldn’t be the first thing on her list. Thats most likely the reason why she can’t keep a man now. Even in her 40′s she has alot of growing up to do.

Lisaraye is a very beautiful woman and she know it. That is men weakness they look at the face first then the body and how that woman can satisfy them. I saw lisaraye wedding on the oxygen channel and it was very extravagant. She is out to get what she want and she know that her looks will get it because most men are weak like that. But black don’t crack so she may look good for awhile maybe.

Even if I WAS rich, I wouldn’t wanna be with a woman whose first response is, “He gotta have money.”

in today’s society ,a woman using a man for money is like a man using a woman for sex.see how lisaraye would feel then if she was to be used for her body,hell ,yall better go back and watch ,”the players club”,and see what happened to her, especially her cousin.that should tell you something of not wanting a man just for his money and not wanting him for his heart.

here it is in a nutshell, if a man with money went out and found a woman that he likes for whatever reason whether its looks personality or some other eccentric trait, wouldnt nobody question and that would be perfectly ok…..might not happen that often but it has happened, happens and will happen again. let a woman get some money and except in a few rare occasions she will only be around guys with money. i dont understand when you got money like some of these people got money as long as you are not STUPIDyou will never go broke, might be minor lifestyle changes you have to make but when you are talking about love what difference does that make. dating a woman with money is fun but as much as she might not like paying for the more expensive things, i dont like asking her, but when you care enough about each other all those ridiculous feelings go out the window. too bad we as people and women in particular dont allow themselves to find that out. at the same time it is almost a protective measure because there are so many guys that would be in it just for the money that you can save yourself a lot of trouble by avoiding that issue altogether. there are times though that the situation presents itself that women shut the door summarily without thinking twice cutting themselves off from something great. rich women can be funny though not exactly my cup of tea, fun thrilling joyful ride in the beginning …….

Evenly yoked has nothing to do with financial status or what you got… it’s spiritually evenly yoked, TRUE godly woman with godly man… godly woman with sinner man WILL NOT WORK… PERIOD! Money not worth nothing anyways, wake up people, the bank holiday happening soon and sooooooooooooooo many people will be crying in the streets and in their homes, the lovers of money both men and women about to have a rude awakening something serious!

WELL SHE HAS GONE BEYOND REGULAR MEN

SHE WAS THE FIRST LADY OF A COUNTRY

SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS
JUST LIKE MEN IN HER POSITION.

Lisa got her own damn money, so fuc all the hating about being a gold digger! These men don’t want no broke woman, or barely a black woman for that matter.(could care less) So,why some of ya’ll hating because she feel the same way??Lisa is worried about some dumb comments!

Why she gotta settle for less, i wouldn’t. she needs to chill tho, and act more like a lady

check out kanye, you think amber rose has any real money, now it maybe just because of how she looks then again maybe no, but do you really think money had anything to do with it? look at some of you famous male actors that are happily married and see how many of them are married to ladys wit money. its all about love and where you find it.

Ok, LisaRaye is gorgeous and her beauty has taken her far. She made a lot of money as the Entertainment Spokeswoman when she was the Premier’s wife…. I hear it was like 10,000,000+ she was paid.

I had no idea she was so shallow. And f**k all these gold digging b***hes out here, that’s why they ain’t gonna ever be happy. I thought she was a lady, but turns out shes just another b***h with a pretty face. She’s from chicago too, the capital of stuck up, material b***hes.

she fulla s**t

DredWalker is one of the reasons I haven’t completely given up on the brothers. His post is NECESSARY! You other Black men should take note…especially dumb ass like “Smack U Silly”

UM, AGAIN IM NOT GETTING WHAT THE PROBLEM IS HERE. HOW IS SHE A GOLD DIGGER WHEN SHE HAS HER OWN MONEY LOL. ITS NOT LIKE SHE IS BROKE TALKING ABOUT SHE ONLY WANTS A MAN WITH MONEY. YOU SHOULD GET WITH SOMEONE WHO ISNT GOING TO BRING YOU DOWN…SOMEONE WHO IS AT LEAST ON YOUR SAME LEVEL. ITS FUNNY HOW MEN CAN BE SUPERFICIAL AND ONLY WANT A WOMAN WITH A CERTAIN SKIN COMPLEXTION, CERTAIN LOOKS, CERTAIN BODY TYPE. BUT WOMEN CANT BE SUPERFICIAL IN RETURN LOL. A MAN CAN REJECT A WOMAN BECUZ SHE IS UGLY, OR FAT OR WHATEVA…BUT ITS WRONG FOR A WOMAN TO REJECT A MAN WHO HAS NOTHING MORE TO OFFER HER. IF I HAD HER TYPE OF MONEY, I WOULDNT WANT ANY BROKE *SS MEN EITHER. THATS COMMON SENSE. AS YOU MOVE UP ON THE SOCIOECONOMIC LADDER, YOUR STANDARDS BECOME HIGHER. FOR EXAMPLE, IM SURE ALOT OF RAPPERS WAS SETTLING FOR THE HOOD RATS AROUND THE WAY BEFORE THEY GOT FAMOUS. AND NOW THAT THEY ARE FAMOUS, THEY WOULDNT DARE MESS WITH A GIRL FROM THE HOOD…THEY MAY ONLY MESS WITH MODEL TYPES. THATS JUST THE WAY THINGS WORK.

sounds to me she is a gold digger. i remember a time when she didn’t have work and was on this tv show about actresses an actors out of work. clearly you people have forgotten where these folks come from. even before she married mike she did not have it like that. now she got a taste of paradise and thinks she can have it like that at all times? no. what is she doing now? they don’t even play all of us in syndication for her to even get a check. so what? i mean come on…money is the rule of all evil and some of these stars are making it clear to me now…all that glitter isn’t gold and you can easily get broken down in a matter of seconds. folks need to appreciate what they have, make good use of it and don’t get the big head. it’s better to be seen an not heard.

ugh! why are b***hes on here so f**kin simple? lisa rae has come a longggggg way and has earned all the fame and paper she has now, for god’s sake, she was married to the head brotha in charge of turks & caicos, ummm, why wouldn’t she expect to continue livin in the lifetsyle she is accustomed to? she wasssssssss once broke but now she’s not, why would she lower her standards to be with someone that couldn’t bring just as much to the table as she is? duhhhhhhhhhhhhh..it ain’t rocket science.. AGAIN, WHY DO SOOOOOOOOOO MANY FEMALES HATE ON OTHER FEMALES DOIN GOOD? insecurity, jealousy & envy is NOTTTTTTTTT a good look…. i will give a chic her rops in a minute instead of wishin i had it like her…. simple ass broads on here…

Let’s address a few things, and make sure we address this very well. Every woman wants a man with money who has the ability to get anything she wants when and if she wants it. Whether she has money or not makes no difference. LisaRaye has done her part in making money. Why would she want a man who has nothing, and may in any circ**stance take hers. Everyone needs to hop off of her back. Honestly, she is a beautiful woman who happens to be a very well known celebrity. STOP HATING ON HER!

amen brook_lynn23………..

SOOOOOOOOOOO WHATS WRONG WITH HAVING STANDARDS (SHE GOT HER OWN MONEY).THATS WATS WRONG WITH THE WOMEN TODAY WE SETTLE FOR NOTHING.WE NEED STANDARDS.

yes! too many women expect s**t and will settle for s**t. i don’t expect a man to take care of me without me havin something already for myself. i have my own business so no i don’t expect a man to also have his own business but he has to at least have a j o b and be stable financially cuz i am… cuz i ain’t financially supportin him…. if you expect more for yourself, then that’s what you’ll attract and receive, if u stay in hood rat mode, then thats’ what you’ll get…again… simple b***hes..

LISARAYE WHO??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

LMAO.. The video was very entertaining. But um Lisaraye is a gold digger simply because of the way she answered the question. The first thing she said was money and she was quite frank about it. All of her reasonings makes sense however she does not seem sincere. She had that “nicca do you have money or not” type of attitude. Very unattractive if you’d ask me!

First of all I agree whole heartedly, she did in fact sound like a gold digger, but ask any woman MONEY is a factor. She just came out of a real messed up relationship he got gifts for her in her name, he was spending her money private jets and carrying on, please if I was in a situation like that I’d say money too, NO ONE and I mean NO ONE wants a broke ass nigga, or a broke b***h…Smell me…now tell me if im lying

That man was the prime minister of a nation @ sexycouture~lol

What makes you think this man was spending her residules from The Players Club~ All of Us~ and her fledgling “rap career”?

He got in trouble w/ his country because he was spending the countries $$$ on HER~
Anyway~ do you girl~ make that money don’t let the money make you~ ooops sounds like it did~

and?lisa ray is one of the most beautiful women out there and she is independent, so what is wrong with her asking for a man that has his ish together also?See that is whats wrong with some black women just having babies with ganger hood rats and complaining @ the end of the day. And some black men running out of their children’s lives b/c they are too lazy and scared to deal with responsibilities and basically-reality.ugh.see I set standards b/c I have my own and women who do that are hardly ever failures at the end of the day. ;-)

oops *gangster

I understand Lisa Ray’s POV but she’s a gold digger and I just lost a little respect for her. So you mean to tell me a brother making 80k don’t stand a chance? Please, she probably will be miserable and it sounds like she hasnt learned from her last experience that money dont buy happiness.

I dont think shes a gold digger…shes a successful black women who just wants a man to be able to provide for her if she needs it.

LMBO @ THE VOICEOVER AT THE END!!! That was TOO funny I’m sorry hahaha

I co-sign with Dreadwalker…

AaaaayMennnnn!!!@ 2Frosty4U03: “sounds to me she is a gold digger. i remember a time when she didn’t have work and was on this tv show about actresses an actors out of work. clearly you people have forgotten where these folks come from. even before she married mike she did not have it like that. now she got a taste of paradise and thinks she can have it like that at all times? no. what is she doing now? they don’t even play all of us in syndication for her to even get a check. so what? i mean come on…money is the rule of all evil and some of these stars are making it clear to me now…all that glitter isn’t gold and you can easily get broken down in a matter of seconds. folks need to appreciate what they have, make good use of it and don’t get the big head. it’s better to be seen an not heard.” ((Wild applause!!))