damn…what happened to kelis singing career? i know nas got to take of his child but how much is actually going to the child.

why dont they both take a step down from their mountain and realize that even if hes paying 11,000 a month thats way more than whats needed to take care of a child. this is why certain people dont need to get rich. they then turn greedy

Am I the only one seeing Kelis as more of a gold digger than anything?

That’s ridiculous!! She’s just doing this to get back at Nas for hurting her ego! True, wrong is wrong.., and if he did cheat on her, then he has to pay for that. If I were Nas though, I’d give her 10 million, and tell her to kick rocks & be done with her forever!

Kelis is a gold digger seriously.And she is mad because she has no career.She can’t sing and Nas cheated! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Well to fully understand the situation you have to realize that they are celebs and as such they are always above the normal rules: normally kids can be out in public go to school etc but as celeb kids the threat of kidnap/harassment is always present and as such they have to go to a school that they know will be protective of their kids i know it sounds extreme but that is always a consideration. They have “appearances” to keep up with as well factor in concepts/ideas like that and it pushes the “child support” bracket alot higher than normal but the amount that is tossed around seems ridiculous because she’ll just hire a baby sitter/nanny (which Nas could do) to watch the kids at home and hire a body guard (which Nas could do) to watch over them in public so if i was him i’d just file for my kids and as far as “spousal support” i dont see why if when we divorced i gotta pay for her stanking azz does Nas get “spousal sex” because they’re separated??

Is spousal support a payoff from the husband to the wife in order to get out of a marriage?

At one time, the purpose of alimony was to punish the husband for leaving his wife without a good cause. With the recent rise in no-fault divorce, this purpose of punishment became moot. As stated above, the main purpose of spousal support today is to maintain a certain standard of living for a divorced spouse who is not capable of attaining employment which would suffice in maintaining that standard living.

I think its totally fair, why gyp the kid out of a lifestyle that he would have lived any way had daddy NOT cheated on mommy in the 1st place.

Why should Nas be balling, and his kid just be ok??

Of couse Kelis is pissed that her man cheated, who wouldn’t be. He shoulda kept it in his pants or divorced her if it were so bad…

Lesson learned today: ITS CHEAPER TO KEEP HER lol

This is some superbullsh*T 500,000 a year for what. what kind of kid needs that to live off of.

Nas married tha milkshake gurl and ended up with a hot mess with a gay friend (pic #3) – Black women tend to let themselves go in relationships and especially when they get pregnant and they never come back. Then they box out their man and try to have a relationship with tha baby. That baby aint yo man. That shyt is sick get sum help. Ya’ll know who you are and if it aint you then don’t get mad.

OMG Kelis js makes $17,000? She needs to start “singing” again for real! Why are ppl just making it out to seem that Nas needs to pay pay pay when it takes 2 to make a baby, the baby I might add that js turned 1 month(?) Interesting how the few responses I’ve read below have not included the fact that she immediately put him on child/spousal support when the baby was like 1 day(?{ and js makes her out to be a gold digger making sure her living is still good.

I don’t personally depend on men for sh*t and they are only good for two things: sex and money as I was told by an older woman who is married and mostly raised her son by herself prior to marrying a man not his father. When Knight gets older, he should thank his father for his upbringing since he is the one paying the bill and not Kelis for sitting on her lazy ass. Nas should’ve went after a Beyonce who plans to make a movie/album a year and not someone who hasn’t made an album in years!

I think this is outrageous! Sure Nas should take care of his son and yes most mothers would like to be able to stay at home to care for their children but I don’t believe child support and spousal support should be a punishment for helping to bring life to this world. It should not be a means to bankrupt a person. Why is he being punished because their relationship did not work? It takes two to make a relationship work. Was she really accustom to this high lifestyle? I really doubt it. I am sure if she was she would never had filed for a divorce. What happen to counseling and mediation? (A law student in shock!)

DAMN…..NAS..IT MIGHT BE CHEAPER TO KEEP HER BIG HOMIE…..WHOA…IT DOES’NT EVEN TAKE THAT MUCH MONEY TO RAISE A CHILD EACH MONTH…THAT’S SOME CRAZY S**T RIGHT THERE….KELIS IS A GOLD DIGGER B***H, KARMA IS A MUTHAF**KER….

A WOMEN SCORNED, SHE TRYING TO TAKE HIM FOR ALL HE HAS…DAMN…BOO ABOUT TO GO BANKRUPT…

Well you know what she is like me. If you lay that seed down in me. You stuck with me and what ever comes from me for life….. You know Dogs are always ready to jump in something new when they fill they have you forever by the child and that is something I would not play so Yes….$$$$$$ The wife is always right when a man feel he wants to act a ass. Good girl Kelis.. 100% You make sure so when he wants to run off with that new lil girl. He will be leaving the cash behind…lol

if she making only 14,000 for month then she not suppose to run a certian lifestyle on other ppls back u better start doin somthing with your life
hate gold diggers

you tryna tell me this b***h can’t raise one kid and live comfortably with 17,225 a month? Get the f**k outta here nas need to hire a private investigator and find some dirt on her so he can get custody and have the gold diggin b***h payin him.

Damn Nas, you have my sympathy. I can’t believe people are saying that’s fair because he cheated. This has NOTHING to with the child. This BROAD is mad because SHE made a bad decision who to lay with and feels scorned. That’s what happens when you lay down with nothing a** females. Do they give a class somewhere where females put a price on themselves? Why don’t ya’ll just save us the trouble and tell us up front how much YOU think your nothing a** is worth and let us decide if we wanna pay to play with you. I’m sure I could find a better deal somewhere else if I don’t like the price. And these types of females wonder why they are looked upon as objects instead of women.

Brotha’s I don’t care how good you treat a women or who long you were together when it ends there is only one place that women wants to see you and thats in the grave yard….Lol….That’s real talk…….

man this child support s**t is goin into another level. ma baby mama rippin almost half of ma net income rite now. i cant even spend time with ma daughter cauz i gota work everyday just to keep up with bills n child support, its so f**kin crazy. if u got greedy babay mama plus f**ked up system(child support) then u destined for disaster. i see y sum of these niggas go out hustlin i da streets just to keep up, its rough out here

I’m starting to see her as a gold digger more and more. My thing also is i thought she cheated first. Did nobody see the sex tape of her and another dude? Dude even said “NAS you better learn how to control yo b**tch.”

i would think putting a hit on this b***h would be cheaper and more effective and dont forget to get a policy on this b4 hand.

what the f**k i don’t think that makes no sense at all.why should he have to pay that much child support for he is a baby.he is crazy i agree to pay it but i would open a bank account in the baby name and KELIS couldn’t touch his baby money i would agree that i would pay this amount but she could only get 5 to 10 thousand a mouth and put the rest in the bank.why is it these guys pick the first things that come by.i look at it this why why pay all that child support of the mother or the father was going to take care of there child anyways.Spousal isn’t that just takeing care of your family and huband needs she was going to do that anyways so y pay for it.

he need to put dope in her car,and drop an anonymous tip.get his kid and raise him himself.I dont have a problem with child support,but that spousal support is bs.she supposed to be an entertainer,she should be able to support herself.

This is some firs-class Bulllll Shyyyyyyyyt!!!! That is rediculous!!! Kelis was wifey in my heart up to this point!!! I fell in love with her from her song “Get along with you”… I noticed she was changing when she dropped “Milkshake”!!! She seemed to change or always was the woman I sift through everyday!!! From this report I lost all hope i women. Real love is dead!!! NAS!!! Get a DNA test cause that hoe is dirty!!!

She still a Basic B!TCH

Thats bs he makes 29 mill a year and she should get 33 million for what ???? Marriage can be some bulls**t if you are a entertainer.She doesnt need 33 million dollars he wont have s**t !!! Nas god, you need to do something about this.

can we say GREEDY!! It’s she’s already getn well enough for their child as well as her greedy self..I mean, it’s not like nas isn’t going to still do for the child even with payin child support..this b*tch is greedy as hell…come up with some hotter shish and maybe u wont be so damn dependant!!

So sad, really really sad. I wonder how Nas feels about it? I also wonder if he truly realized he was marring a Boss from the jump, HUMMM?

You know people business should not be in the news ; the internet is like a grand jury needing some type of level playing field. With a new born in life there is much to live for in one another. Imagine putting a cut out without thinking ? Both fields are hesitant to making good music. Search for a potent agreement; 0—-5—9!

SEE LADIES, THIS IS WHY MEN DO NOT GET MARRIED. YOU TAKE A BROKE CHICK WITH NOTHING, GIVE HER A COUPLE OF GUESS SPOTS ON A FEW TRACKS, MAKE A FEW CAMEOS IN HER WHACK ASS VIDEOS AND NOW SHE WANNA LEAVE WITH ALL HIS S**T? I MEAN THE MAN TATTOOED HER NAME ON HIM SO IF HE’S NOT A GOOD DUDE THEN I AIN’T S**T AND EVEN HE GOT DID DIRTY. THAT’S WHY IM NOT GETTING MARRIED JUST A LONG ASS ENGAGEMENT, LMAO.

damn , kelis nas anit really bringing in that much money, im pretty sure he would like after hes kids, u trying to get him for everything he got, nas i seen that comming, thats why niggas date white girls. they dont give u a whole bunch of bull s**t, hood bithes like kelis try to break a nigga down. keep them at a distance.

prenup!

damn Its cheaper to keep her

See, being married is suppose to be all about love or it was something about that person to make you want to spend the rest of your life with him/her in the 1st place. Then when it’s time for the divorce you REALLY FIND OUT WHAT OR WHO YOU’RE dealing with. This is why most men with money or male celebs DON’T GET MARRIED AND I DON’T BLAME THEM AT ALL!!!! NAS has been making his money for years WAY before KELIS and how long was her career????? Damn that marriage s**t!

Get dat Money lmao…this kat is D-U-M-B!!! ┌П┐(=_=)┌П┐

O my Gosh…to bmorestwan…thats why niggas date white girls?..Dude niggas date white girls because that want a b***h to hush and take all there s**t,I do believe in being humble and being submissive…but not simply shutting the f**k up,Nas knew what type of freak he was dealing with thats his fault trying to turn of hoe into a housewife,sista told him her milkshake brings all boys to the yard,how the hell he thought he got there,so what he thought he was so special or better than the next dude?Hell he was better and now we see why because he had more money…so yeah Kelis is dead wrong for trying to break the dude but hell like the comdian SMore said..you f**k with me you stuck with me…He should’ve pulled out.lmoa

B***HES STOPP HATIN, AND NIGGAS THIS IS A LESSON LEARNED, IF U CHEAT U WILL PAY THAT SIMPLE”’, YALL DIDIN HEAR HER SHE’S A BOSSS B***H”””… AND BESIDES THEY WERE MARRIED LIKE THA SAYIN GOES, HAPPY WIFEY, HAPPY LIFEY, UNHAPPY WIFEY, F**KED UP LIFEY… SEE NIGGAS NOT ALL MEN ONLY NIGGAS DONT THINK, SEE WERE NIGGAS GO WRONG IS YALL TRY 2 DO 2 MUCH, U THINK COZ U GOT A LIL PAPER, U NICE LOOKING, U GOT THAT TROPHEY CHIC ON UR ARM ‘S THAT YO S**T DONT STANK, SEE KELIS HAD NAS SOLD UP FROM DAY 1 BUT HE SLEPT ON THA FACT, HE NAS SO NO CHIC CAN PLAY HIM, EGO, EGO GET YALL F**KED ERRRRRTIME.. NAS THOUGHT HE HAD HER SOLD UP, NA BRA COZ U NAZ DONT MEAN S**T, HE THOUGHT HELL I MARRIED HER GAVE HER MORE THEN LIFE ITS SLEF S**T, LET ME STEPP OUT AND HAVE MY CAKE AND EAT IT 2…. U CAN HAVE UR CAKE BUT CAN U HANDLE THA ””””RAFT””” THATS ABOUT 2 BE LAID UPON YO ASS!!!! NIGGAS YALL THINK YALL BE GETTIN OVER DOIN YO DIRT”””’, NOT ONLY HAVE WE MEANING LADY’S,WOMEN, THA REAL WOMEN, HAVE PEEPED YO STEELO , U BUSTED, BUT WE DONT SAY S**T JUST KEEP HANDING U THAT ROPE SO U CAN HANG UR ON DAMN FOOL SELF AND THATS WHAT SHE DID 2 HIS ASS…… SHE LET HIM HANG HIS SELF, SHOOK HIS ASS, HAD HIS BABY, AND POPPED THAT BANK ACCOUNT, WAY 2 SOCK IT TA HIS KELIS, S**T NOW HE CAN HAVE ANY B***H HE WONT JUST DROP BY THA CRIB KISS UR SON AND PAY LIKE U WAY,NIGGGA I LOVE IT……… IT DONT PAY 2 BE FAITHFUL 2 A GOOD ASS WOMAN ESPECIALLY IF SHE GOTT UR BACK STUPID ASS NIGGAS, IM HOLLIN,LOLOLOLO… BUT SEE WHEN WE HANG YALL ASS OUT 2 DRY ,WE OR NOW BEEN CALLED NAMES LIKE GOLD DIGGAS, GREEDY B***H AND SHE AINT S**T, NAW WHILE UR STUPPP-PID ASSSS WAS OUT F**KIN OTHA CHICS AND TRICKIN”””’ WIT OTHA B***HES, KNOWING DAMN WELL U HAVE A WHOLE WIFE””””” NOT A GIRL FRIEND DUMB NIGGAS A WIFE””””” @ HOME AND SHE’S HOTTT, LIKE BIGGIE SAID, WHO SHOT CHA”, MO LIKE WHO ROBBED YA,LOLOL….. IM BOSSY!!!

P.S.
Now hes all in his Feelins,lolol
(S.A.N.) STUPID ASS NIGGA…..IM HOLLIN LOLOLOL

IT DONT PAY 2 BE UNFATHFUL 2 A DAMN GOOD WOMAN AND I GOT UR BACK NO MATTER WHAT!!!!

Damn when will dudes learn ANY dude with half a brain will get a pre-nup Woman have shown themselves to be vindictive so we as men have to protect ourselves. The courts have shown a willingness to break a nigga pockets so we must protect our own. why should he pay back support? Kelis is just anotha damn gold digga cause she got no real talent to make any guap so……

damnnnnnn, she took that nigga to the cleaners!!!! DAMN HOMIE

LOL.. Its not all about the money. But Karma is a B***H!! You know when s**t like this happens to a man its probably well deserved….

FUK DAT BYTCH!

BYTCHES AINT SHYT!

dats why u should never marry them hoes,u just f**k them nd leave they ass

Women just dont act like this for no reason that nigga did some s**t!!Its some crazy s**t that goes down behind closed doors!! Just look at it this way there is 2 sides to every story!!

it’s funny that people on here are throwing darts at Nas talking bout he as cheat and all that. If you really have done your research you’d know that SHE was the first to cheat and SHE has a sex tape of it that has been leaked! Then he supposedly messed around after that and asked for the divorce. GET IT RIGHT.

KELIS IS A LIAR…SHE BRING IN MORE MONEY THAN THAT…SHE IS STILL WRITING MUSIC FOR OTHER PEOPLE

some females r bytches like kelis fuk dis ho tawkin bout her milkshake brings all the boys to da yard kelis u aint worth shyt u a fukin s**t fo leaving nas n as far as them pics u need to dress n look better cuz u look like a fukin hot mess n i know nas gon find someone better so nas keep ya head up n fuk dat bytch she just greedy kelis being greedy wit da money hell naw fuk her

WELL THAT THERE LIFE U SHOULD THINK BEFORE GET MARRIED THEY ALLWAYS GIVE THE WOMEN EVERYTHING GOOD LUCK!

WELL THAT THERE LIFE U SHOULD THINK BEFORE U GET MARRIED THEY ALLWAYS GIVE THE WOMEN EVERYTHING GOOD LUCK!

PEPOPLE PEOPLE… U MEN RAND WOMEN R 4GETN THAT CELEBS LIVE A DIFFERENT LIFE STYLE THEN US.. THEY SPEND A LOT MORE $$$$ ON JUST THE REGULAR S**T LIKE CLOTHES, FOOD, AND ETC… $HIT THEIR BABIES DIAPERS PROLLY COST A GRIP BECAUSE THE ONLY WANT THE BEST.. SO THAT’S Y THE COURT IS MAKING HIM PAY THAT MUCH MONEY…I DONT THINK SHE IS A GOLD DIGGER. SHE IS JUST GETTN WHAT IS HERS. ITS THE COURT THAT MAKES THOS DECISIONS NOT HER. SO I DONT KNOW WHY ALL THESE MEN ARE CALLN HER A GOLDDIGGER BECAUSE THAT SHE IS NOT…BESIDE WHEN A MAN OR WOMAN BREAK THE VOWELS OF MARRIAGE THEY SHOULD PAY HEAVILY.HE DIDNT TAKE HIS MARRIAGE SERIOUSLY AND LOOK WHAT HAPPENED…MEN ALWAY THINK THEY CAN HAVE THEIR CAKE AND EAT IT TOOO. THEY ALWAY THINK THAT THEY CAN KEEP A GIRL ON THE SIDE AND EVERYTHING IS ALL GOOD…WELL GUESS WHAT IT AINT AND KELIS IS JUST LETTN HIM KNOW…. HE IS PAYING FOR HIS MISTAKE AND THATS THAT…SOO PLEASE STOP CALLING HER A GOLDDIGGER BECAUSE SHE MAKE MONEY PROLLY MO THEN ALL THESES MEN THAT R CALLN HER A GOLDDIGGER… THER IS ONLY ONE THING THAT I THINK IS WRONG AND THAT IS THE FACT THAT THEY ARE HAVING HIM PAY MORE A MONTH THEN HE MAKES AND THAT IS NOT RIGHT THE COURT IS THE ONE THAT IS f*CKED UP NOT KELIS SO GET THAT STRAIGHT… AND SHE SHOULDNT CARE BECAUSE HE DOESN’T DESERVE HER FEELINGS ANYMORE.

This is the reason why we date white woman. 7/10 Black woman are crazy like that.

Jaxan… There are more reasons why you date white women… perhaps self loathing? I dont know, I charge for my sessions… and im no longer accepting new patients. But isn’t it safe to say that white women are “crazy” too? Besides if you go looking for trash… in the trash… I assure you, you WILL find trash. So stop blaming black women and blame the TRASH you’ve chosen to date.

I think that the courts should take into account that he has another child to support that was here before this child came along, all she is seeing is dollar signs which is bad

an awful price for a lil milk shake aint it??

LMAO Jaxan…. I’m sure the reason YOU date white women is because YOU can’t get 1/10 black women… We usually hold higher standards than what you portray…. I mean, for a man to make such an ignorant comment…… I can only imagine how sad and pathetic you must be. I don’t even have to look at your profile, nor do I have to go over the list of “crazy” acts women of other races have done….. And I don’t see anything wrong with her asking him to take care of her and her child. MAYBE BLACK WOMEN SHOULD START DATING WHITE GUYS, BECAUSE NIGGA’S BE TRIPPIN WHEN U WANT THEM TO ACT LIKE A F**KING MAN AND TAKE CARE OF THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES !

P.S
CLEARLY UR A B***H JAXAN ! LOL

I like your analogy on trash. You are absolutely right. Its hard to find a good black woman because culturally its like looking a dumpster. I’m sure it’s equally the same for black women finding good black men. I know it seems wrong for me to say that, but I honestly want a strong faithful and beautiful black lady. Only problem is there are very few. They are like an endangered species and it depresses me.

Lustful_Sins what a nice name to talk trash on me. You are a poster child for why black men turn their head to the left and cough. I classify you ma’am as that 70% of fiasco most of us have to deal with.

http://www.mensplaybook.com/relationships/4-simple-reasons-why-he-wont-marry-you/

Take notes.

Every time Kelis cashes that $55k monthly child support check, Nas should be allowed to choke the bougars out her damned nose! Hell, I make 49k a year with an additional 8k in child support and my 2 two kids don’t want for anything! They dont go to bed hungry, they dont leave out the house dirty and they dont go to school dumber than the day before! My kids don’t wear Target and Walmart, their in Dereon, Babyphat and Enyce. (They make excellent grades, so I dont mind spending the extra money!) $55,OOO a month is too much money for anybody to pay in child support. It’s purpose is to take care of the needs of the child- not the mother. Most of the money from a child support check isn’t spent on the child. Its used to…
1) get the mother’s hair and nails done weekly
2) pay the mother’s car note, cell phone bill
3) buy a new outfit so she can go to the club and pull another knucklehead
I’ve seen it happen too many times, where the mother’s pissed off because he cheated or broke up with her azz, so she goes to the court tryna break his ass. “He’s driving around in a ’09 Escalade,paying this other b***h’s rent, hmmph! My son, Pookie Jr. needs this, he needs that” NEVER NOT ONCE DOES POOKIE’S DUMB@SS mama ask for health insurance or for money to be put aside for Pookie’s college fund!

kelis is no longer his responsibility. only the baby is. hell he should be the one getting custody since he makes more according to the courts.

Babyphatcatt, you have the right attitude. I mean this man didn’t file for a pre-nup because he trusted and obviously loved her. Men don’t just marry for no reason. There has better be a damn good reason to marry this person because he knows he makes way more money than she does. I know they are celebs, but that that much money is not that necessary monthly to take care of a single child. That is pure greed and revenge. What happened to Forgive and Forget? I believe she deserves some kind of settlement, but that is ridiculous

Attention back at Lustful_Sins. Maybe you should start date white guys. No reason to discriminate. If you like a person more power to you. You might get a boat or 2 and some really nice fortune 500 stock and ownership. If you going to be a gold digger you might as well do big and smart right? LOL

Grow up. Giving 50k a month is not what i call supporting my child. Its called gold digging.

Uh marriage is a bad idea…

this b***h is being straight greedy she know damn well she dont need that much money she need to be slapped in her mouth..huh i cnat stand for someone to try and rob their ex spouse when they get a divorce

she’s asking for it because its him that caused the divorce. If i found out my husband was f**kin his best friend, i would have him killed, and all his money would be mine. And lets not forget he agreed to it, only him and her know what happened and it sounds like hush money to me. But if hes okay with it, why are all the broke, bored and miserable people so concerned?

thats ok because i think him being who is , hes just gonna prosper more and be happy. and shes afraid of that. shes trying to scorn him because she knows it wont be long before a dime walks in his life and take care of him. hell continue to make classic hits, movies, etc. and she’ll just be old news and forgotton. that pisses her off more than anything that soon some hot celebrety will be in his arms living the life again and she’ll be stuck at home wiping s**t from her kid’s ass wit her little 17 thousand dollars. lol

LOL… Marriage isn’t even the same as it use to be 30 years ago. Its a whole new generation when you have social networks like this, IMs, Emails and GPS! I’m real traditional. When I get married its a done deal man. I’ve only had to dump one ex out of 5 serious relationships the rest were mutual. I know I would have regret and not only that I always assume if I was to cheat that chick would have something. STDs is something no one wants to live with for a fling or one night stand.

people people, marriage in this babylon system is only for the legality of it… aka MONEY if something goes wrong, read Deut 22:13-21, then Gen 24:63-67… He didn’t take her in the tent to talk! to have sex is to marry, nowhere in the bible it says you have to get down on your knee and put a ring on her finger… this is the most High law and it still stands! If you don’t think so read Matt 5:17-19 to see what Christ said about the law… wake up people, you have been lied to, open the bible and seek the truth! And the love of money is the root of all evil… the courts use child support to divide the family and oppress the black man by promising the woman money… even when the man willing to take care of the kid and I’m sure Nas more than able to do that! Plus the love of money has turned the black man against each other… drugs, using money to classify people/belittle people, the so called “lifestyle” it’s all coming to a abrupt halt very soon… WAKE UP PEOPLE! MAN AND WOMAN… your MONEY will not save you!

one thing about celebreties, u can hurt em, or cripple them for a moment , but we all know that once that happens, the drama itself brings more buisness opportunities to get back on top. ie, reality tv,interveiws, guest appearances, need i say more. in my opinion she just boosted his career lol

somimi25, you are truly ignorant for that. You would take a life because someone cheated on you. I know i would never cheat, but that makes no damn sense. Grow up a little, because that’s no way to think. You are no better than who we are talking about. I don’t care how hurt I would be from a relationship I would never think of anything remotely as crazy as that. I think my point from earlier has been proven by your post.

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I agree with you kevanj

The funny thing is when a Jaxan mentioned dating a white girl ya’ll dogged that n!gga out. Thing is i’ve seen plenty of n!ggas go after black gurls then for whatever reason they get turned down. Now I guess they should stay black and go gay then LOL. Some of ya’ll black woman need to wake up cause we here and we want ya’ll but if ya’ll don’t want us then some of them white girls will take us.

But on the point I guess Nas shoulda gotta prenump. She bout to get him by his ballz. HE better try and to fight for custody of this kid but I highly doubt he will it.

thanks ahch (brother in hebrew) but the scriptures says it all… that’s why the word says all are adulterers because people having multiple sex partners not knowing they marrying everytime they slippin and slidin! You can even find the so called “wedding vowels” in the bible… people better wake up and repent, the kingdom of heaven is at hand… like right at the door, they have NO IDEA HOW CLOSE HE IS TO BREAKING THAT ATMOSPHERE

jaxan, did u hear what i said, the man was sleeping with men, that means he was putting her life and the life of their kids on the line. And if you read my post, i said, if i found out my husband was cheating with a MAN, i would kill him. If he wanted to screw some man butt from time to time he should have never gotten married. And i think its crazy everybody is ignoring the fact that hes GAY! And the fact that he agreed to the amount. Do ya homework before you try to check me.

skrewed

wow. kevanj. what u r saying is everytime people have sex, they r basically bonding in marraige?

yall got it twisted! This Broad got a sex tape with another rapper name Infa red from ruff ryders. While married to Nas! In which he paid to have hushed. Check Hip-Hop weekly 2mons ago.He neva spoke about it or nothing. He kept it G like he always has. His biz is his biz. I used to have love for her. Now she played her no talent ass out. He was the only reason people even paid attention to her sorry ass. And if he was smart he would get a test to see if thats really his Son. So before u call the kettle Black,make sure ur pot ass is not.

whoa, somimi25, nas is gay? lol omg

True Story Sub-Negro true story. I wont like I’ve been turned down, but what guy hasn’t? But, the reason I get turned down is because I talk more proper and I have a good education. Its sad when that is a crime for dating with in your own race. So, the only black woman I’m attracted to as to be equally educated. Sorry…

He aint neva Gay! And for u to Believe that BS. Shows how simple minded u are. He only agreed to what he felt she deserved. She upset that he dosent want a bum has been R&b or whatever she called it singer. Plus a man will do whatever it takes to make sure his child is in a happy enviorment. So the lil change aint a thing. But what she is about to do is loose what she is getting for being greedy. Like most stupid greedy Women!

somimi25, the man’s business is his. If he is gay that’s his business. But, killing a man or even thinking about it the way you described is just wrong. You get a divorce and you go your separate ways. That is just bigotry. My first girl friend was Bi. I found out after the 2nd year we dated. Are you saying i should of murdered her? WTF? No. If you are willing to take someone’s life over their sexual orientations than you are a coward.

Let me flip it. When do you hear gay people commit hate crimes on straight people?

You taking this thing way off topic.

somimi25 where’s your proof? On a sidenote, why does she need more money?

Jaxan I feel your pain. I I’m very educated myself and I get turned down. Oh well, that makes two of us ^_^

@shawt1974 yes that’s exactly what the scripture says… it’s the truth ahch, read them scriptures if you haven’t read them Deut 22:13-21, notice in the 13th verse it says “go in unto her” that’s how you take a wife… sex is to marry and Gen 24:63-67 that’s the law of the most High ahch… they didn’t go into the tent to talk he took Rebekah as his wife by going in unto her, then read Matt 5:17-19 to see that Christ said he didn’t come to destroy the law… the preachers been lying ahch.

its 2009 and i dont put that past anybody, and if u do, then your crazy! And if she has a sex tape, he shoulda divorced her. and really what man is really gonna pay to have a sex tape hushed. Like i said, it doesnt take that kind of money to raise a child. She knows somethin he doesnt want out, (too late;)) and hes paying her to keep quiet. He does not earn enough money to be okay with that decision. And people, he’s okay with it, that doesnt tell yall anything!

and jaxan since when have you heard about a bi woman giving her mate aids, there is a big difference! You call yourself educated but i shouldnt have to explain that to you. If you are gay, be gay. If you dont want anyone to know, do it on the down low, but stay away from women! You dont have to get married, have kids, just to feel safe to screw men on the low. Nobody really cares if your gay!

A that just shows how stupid u are. U will kill the man & end up in jail. Then the Child has no parents to raise him. But u sure show him. Idiot!!!!!!!!!!

And yes i would kill his ass and his boyfriend, but i WOULD get away with it, idiot!

A real man who puts family before BS. When u marry its for better & for worst! So u supposed to be in it for the long haul. But now days women just want to run & get paid for doing it. Nas was a real man who believed in his vows & protected his wife even in her wrong. Like a real man is suppose to do. Not run at the site of a challenge. I guess he showed u the when he smashed Jay-Z!

people think it’s ok to be gay… but the most High cares if you are gay, and it’s an abomination to him and he can’t stand it! If anybody think it’s a game, you shall see on judgement day… it’s not in your best interest of anyone to tell them it’s ok to be gay… you going against your creator… BAD MOVE

@somimi25 that doesn’t prove that Nas is gay. And it’s very logical for a bi female giving her mate AIDS if she gets around enough. It actually happens often. Also, he probably paid to keep it quiet because he didn’t wanna look like a sucker. When a woman cheats on her man, that damages HIS reputation and image because people will think he can’t keep control over his relationship. Your logic’s way off

No u wouldnt getaway! Idiot!!!!!! Be realistic he a celebrity! They would lock u up first. U his wife & your BLACK. Duh! U would be trying to prove ur innocent. From Jail.

Somimi25, to answer your question on “ince when have you heard about a bi woman giving her mate aids?” It can happen and it is common. You don’t have to have intercourse to spread the disease. When you brush your tooth you can leave small liaisons on your gums and the rest I’ll let you imagine. Thank you, for showing your ignorance again. You can try to flip this as much as you may like, but the point you are trying to make is you don’t like gay people.

What if he was cheating with another woman would you let him live? What are you smoking? Its wrong regardless to cheat. Just give up you are wrong and you need to stop. Don’t embarrass yourself again on here. The only thing i agree with you is the putting at risk part.

Being gay doesn’t spread STDs/AIDs
Being Straight doesn’t Spread STDs/AIDs
Using unsafe sex practices and cheating does.

somimi25, I hope you take this the right way. You need to get the information yourself. “Since when have you heard?” statements is what gets people into trouble. When people say stuff like that, that means they don’t know. Knowledge is power baby and It is your best weapon in the world. It really is. All, I’m trying to do is educate. Sorry i had to be blunt like that, but that kind of ignorance is unacceptable.

JAXAN- You are living a fantasy if you think someone as UGLY, ignorant, tacky, ghetto and trashy as you are would ever get a “strong faithful and beautiful black lady” ROTFLMAO ! WE BOTH KNOW THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN! For a “strong faithful and beautiful black lady” will realize what a weak piece of trash you are and walk the other way. You’re completely ignorant in every way and clearly a poster child for self-hating “nigga’s” ! I’m not sure what ur mother did wrong when raising you but she clearly messed up pretty badly therefore scaring your perspective of black women. Yet you’re delusional enough to think you can have the attitude you have towards us and will actually find a black woman of quality, who will respect you and actually want to be faithful to you! PLEASE ! That won’t ever happen.
Ur the type of dirty black guy I see with a white woman and thank God it’s ONE LESS TACKY SELF HATING NEGRO CHASING AFTER ME! Broke, trifling, and stupid as hell. Please reply and continue to publicly display ur ignorance… I LOVE IT !
AND ASK FOR UR RETARTED ASS COMMENT IN THE END…. I HAVE A GOOD FINE ASS BLACK MAN WHO LOVES AND RESPECTS ME. ONLY A STRONG MAN CAN HANDLE A STRONG WOMAN… REMEMBER THAT LIL B***H !

SERIOUSLY SWEETIE, I JUST LOOKED AT UR PAGE AND I THINK I’VE SEEN ENOUGH, U DOIN BAD ENOUGH AS IT IS… I MEAN, HOW CAN U BE THIS F**KIN UGLY AT ONLY 22 ??

Live is obviously horrible for you so Ima let it go cuz I see now why you’d hate black women. I KNOW we aint giving you the time of day ! …So sad ! JUST UGLY !

I mean LIFE… LOL

Lustful_sins… Did it really take you about 2 hrs to respond to me with this trash? Self-hating? looool! You are a funny character. What is it with women like you? Its like you have a chip on your shoulder. Lustful_sins you are not a quality black woman. Because if you were you wouldn’t have this type of tantrum like you are having towards me. You clearly singled yourself out from that 70% I was referring to. It was an indirect statement I made.

For your man, I feel sorry for him. Grow up please. You sound like a 14 year old at her first time on the internet. You have zero self control. Its okay, because I believe in The Lord Jesus Christ and he has good intentions for me and everyone who believe. Lustful_Sins you still have time to get saved and believe me I am praying for you.

You probably should change your name, because it doesn’t go well if you are trying to talk intelligent.

I never said I hated black woman. My point was I don’t like typical black women and you ma’am is as typical as it gets. Loool, thanks for checking out my profile, but I don’t waste my time looking at trash. Ugly is what you make it. I don’t have I look at your profile to know you are ugly because you’ve shown it.

Work on getting a better education, because there is no excuse not to. Get some perspective and grow up. Because, I’m pretty sure none of these guys on here would marry you with that attitude. You probably one of those women who value their body over their mind. You’d get a boob job if you got a good discount for it. You disgust me… Have some self esteem.

soooo how about those giants and the divorce settlement? kelis is burnin holes in those pockets!. smGDh!. makes no cents.

It’s very simple ladies and gentlemen…Marriage is an institution that should not be based on monetary value.I keep hearing from people that marriage is like a business arrangement.Umm,, no it is not..You are taking the responsibility of your life and someone elses life in your hands.At least that’s what it should be.The bottom line is this,their are to many men and women today who live as if they are going to be here forever.When do people decide to grow up and do what is right instead of being selfish?Broken families because people decide to stop communicating with one another and stop putting stock into their sacred union based on something that can 9 times out of 10 be worked out.Plus,its not fair to the children.Why cheat them out of a stable home with a mother and father?
What attracted the both of you to each other based on non superficial means is the only way that a union can last a lifetime.I know because my parents will be celebrating their 35 wedding anniversary this Dec.But i’m sorry to say that the caliber of men that exist today don’t come close to the man that my father is.Who learned how to be a an from my granddad J.C. Responsible,protective,loving,respectful of women,hard working,friend,loyal and believing in his family and woman enough not to ever walk away from his wife to give his responsibility to another man.The men and women I know are a dying breed. The only thing left for those of us who come from this kind of stable background is to work on ourselves,go after our dreams and invest in us.Because their is no way i’m settling for something less than what my father has shown me.How a real man acts towards women.I;m sorry to say,this generation is dropping the ball and letting down the ones before us.It may not mean anything to some of you,but it means everything to me.The ones who came before and showed me how to do things the right way.How to do right by others and how to respect men.
The same standards that men put on women are the very same standards we expect out of men.You cant come on here ranting and raving about how their aren’t any good women left when you are part of the problem.What I mean by that is sleeping with the very women that you call hos,that you disrespect but want a good woman when its time to get serious.Same goes for women.I believe how you live is important.People do make mistakes but one doesn’t continue to make the same mistakes.
The bottom line is this,if your over 30,it’s time to grow up.To stop chasing your youth because time isn’t slowing down for no one.What kind of legacy will you leave behind as a man,a woman,for your family and children? Everyone gets to choose.Its what you choose and how you decide to live it that will make all the difference.You may not see it now,but time will always tell.And how your children grow up to be will tell you if you did a good job or not..I hope Kelis and Nas can get it together for the sake of their child.They are a family whether they like it or not.

Its all good. She will be condemned something fierce later in her life. Greed leads to misery.

courtneyR, I 100% agree with you. “A dying breed” Best said. I’m telling you… The traditional marriage is dying. Our culture is being corrupted by greed and material things. Don’t blame rap music and these celebs it is your fault to embrace it.
People, invest in stocks, get trust funds, CDs(Not music), plan for kids that you may or may not have because you never know. Life is only as long as you try to do something with it. You are not 16 anymore, grow up and be a man and woman.

It’s sh*t like this that make black women look bad!!! Kelis doesnt hav to stay wit Nas if she doesnt want to but, just because she dont make nearly as much money as he does, doesnt mean take him for everything he’s got!!! I mean, my goodness!!! I do believe he should contribute something as a father, and nothing more, but she should at least stand on her own like a strong black woman should, and if she feels that she’s not making enough money then she need to get a daytime job or somethin!!!

I see it like this, our black women are portrayed on TV like they are some kind of sex objects, all on the vids half naked, and portrayed as the woman that goes after money on the vids as well, but NO other nation of women portrayed like that… especially the white or asian woman, therefore not only the black man but the other nation of people tend to look at her as a sex object… they be like yea I’ll sleep with her but I won’t commit to her… and let me put something else out there, NO relationship will work if the woman don’t follow the order of the most High… 1Corin 11:3 But I will have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of woman is the man; and the head of Christ is the most High, so ladies no you can’t say you run your man because it won’t work and men get a backbone and be strong for our black women stand up and step into your position as the head, be an example for her and the children! Epehsians 5:25 tells Men we must love our women like we love Christ, protect our women, love her as we love our own self Ephesian 5:25, women you must submit to your man Esphesians 5:22 tells you that! Sadly most women want to have control and that dooms the relationship from the jump because spiritually it’s already out of order! Wake up people, open your bible and seek him that came to redeem us!

Good word Brother Kevanj. This was one of the headlines yesterday on blackplanet. This is probably the best thing I’ve read this month. Check it out Y’all. “4 Simple reasons why he wont marry you” I believe this is more true in us as a people than any other race.

http://www.mensplaybook.com/relationships/4-simple-reasons-why-he-wont-marry-you/

This situation gives such a negative message on what happens to a man if a marriage falls apart! Now check the scenario on how this negative cycle affects our black people. This gives greedy women the ambition to marry a man just for his money and divorce him taking him for what he’s worth and getting away with it even if she had nothing to do with his success. And Now this gives our black men the reason and excuse not to marry a woman that he may love because in the back of his mind, this bulls**t may happen if things don’t work out. This looks so bad for black women on so many different levels. I’m sorry but this is dead wrong. This a*****e is a modern day Robin Givens……Money is the root of evil so those who sellout or sell their souls for it well have to explain that to God…………

You are right Brother Coolflex. I mean its messed up because, these are black celebs. If Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman I don’t believe it would effect the white race as much as this effects us. We are a crippled society and are in need of major physical therapy. I know earlier I said “This is white we date white women” I’m not saying all black women are like this, but I for damn sure under the impression that most are. And why is that? I’m not going to lie I’m afraid to date black woman anymore. I date anyone outside of my own race unless i come across someone who isn’t typical.

There needs to be an edit comment on this thing… Anyways correcting my comment. “This is the reason why we date white woman” loool

babyphatcatt-Your kids dont wear Walmart and Target? So what is your point. Are they better than my daughter, who wears Walmart and Target? She also makes excellent grades, is a Karate champion, and speaks proper english. No ebonics. I make less than 25K a year, no child support, no welfare. Name brands dont make you, except in your own mind.

Alot of anger on here. Self-hatred, thinking your better th

And addressing the the self-hate on here.Im a single, black female. Again, make less than 25k a yr, no welfare, no child support. Speak proper english, raise my child correctly ( she doesn’t know the lyrics to Lil Wayne songs…) dont smoke, drink, party. I have been through nothing but hell with black men. Lying, cheating, jail, un-employment, ect. Yet, it never crossed my mind to date a white man. But maybe i should, since the few black men who claim to be about something, feel that they are too good for black women. In that case, can ya’ll atleast pick some pretty white women, because the ones I see ya’ll with are ALWAYS hideous. lmao

Loool. The black race will be extinct soon. Black Men and women not getting together anymore an eventually we will all be mixed with another race. Its almost like a government plot loool

That’s just a DAMN SHAME!!! They really should be worrying about the baby. Kelis shouldn’t go after Nas’ money, but should make sure her baby is taken care of. If she survives off of 13,000 a month, what does she really need Spousal Support for 72,000 for? She’s just a money hungry Gold Digger.

man get the f**k out of here these bithes, ( to who it pretin to) talking about u gotta pay when u cheat, and if u get caught thats it, like its a set up or some s**t, they be the mean ones doing the cheating , they just dont get caught, its like u got to beleve what they say, if u in a relaionship, in ur girl come in at 3am or 4am in the moring u think nothing of it cause she said, she was with here girlfriends, if a nigga come in at 2.30 am ,she got a hundred qustions for him.they wont to know why at the club anyway, at least five years before u get married, if u a celebrty, f**k it get a prenup , u can’t trust none of them.

damn i started some s**t on here…lmmfao

WOW,NELLY I FEEL FOR YOU,BUT LISTEN TO THE WORDS SHE WAS SINGING ABOUT HER MILK SHAKE BRING ALL THE BOYS TO THE YARD,BE CAREFUL WHO YOU MARRY,KEEP YO HEAD UP NELLY.

tru marriage is the first agreement between the two to commit,anything after the first agreement to commit is bullsh!t(unseen hand,control by the system).love is love,if its mint to be it will be,love dont needs to be married to prove its love 4 love,if its truly love?

And I bet she calls herself a “Strong independant black woman”…Brothers if you marry a Sister GET A PRE-NUP…..IF SHE DOES NOT SIGN IT DO NOT GET MARRIED Personally, I do not date the A typical Black woman. If you are one of those on this site that condones this type of robbery please never procreate and teach your daughters the garbage you believe. Men should take care of their children. He or she can not work to live. However, you mothers can and should. This is an example of how we as a race are falling apart. Its a shame pretty soon the good brothers that do make decent money will not want to marry you black women. I am telling you if this is an epidemic and this mentality will lead to catostrophic ramifications. Personally I do not limit myself when it comes to dating because ignorance is a disease that infects every race so I date for personality and quality. Not color ! I would say that is best for males and females. However, If you women really condone and feel this is just, then NO ONE WILL WANT YOU ! And you will live a very lonely, bitter life. Man I can see a lot of interracial marriages forming as I speak and some of you “black woman” are being left out in the cold. Hey, if the shoe fits lace it up ! If you are really a “strong independant educated black woman” please stay that way do not let the disease that infects these other “women” over take you.!

I only got JUST one word for Kelis……

The word of the day is GOLDDIGGER……… Come On Class…… can you spell it???

Nas…… why don’t you just fight for custody of your son, and let that b***h fend for herself.

Two things I hate most in this world are a goddamn moocher and a goddamn golddigger.

–chaskelljr1963–

P.S.: And you wonder why men don’t want to get married today????? This is a good reason right here.

Why do all women do this same s**t? When their getting ready to leave you or done left you they always want another motherf**kas money. Even if they got a job, they still want your money.

CourtneyR I do not know who you are but if I could clone what I percieve your mentality to be and inject it into some of our less than astute black women I would be doing the Black race a great service. I read your comment on the ” kelis and nas divroce thing” I agreed with all of it. I really do think that in the late 70[s and 80′s the whole crack epidemic destroyed a whole generation that connected the civil rights generation to the modern generation x. We are acting as if we are trying to figure out how we are suppose to live . When your mom and dad like mine already knew how to live. But most of us black people are not blessed to have that type of foundation because of the destruction of that connecting generation. We are in a world of hurt and we lag behind everyday because we never move on . We stay stuck in the same garbage they dumped us in ! This mentality that I have read on here screams of the destruction of Black civilization. And the one thing that made the civil rights movement a success was the Black Family and now its being destroyed one failed marriage/ relationship at a time. Do any of you know what you are doing by displaying such ignorance for the World to see? I think Bill Cosby was right and I am really scared for my children’s future. The Black race is in BIG trouble !

OMG DAT IS TOO MUCH MONEY…17,225 A MONTH FOR CHILD SUPPORT? THEY IS CRAZY…TURN DAT S**T INTO 17,225 EVERY TWO YEARS LOL…N WHY SHE GETTIN ALL DAT SPOUSAL SUPPORT…THROW DAT B***H A CRIB,A CAR WIT A TRUNK OF BABY S**T N CALL IT A DAY 4REAL…GOLD-DIGGING ASS…

And yes the END is near . Get right with God thats all I can say because the signs are all pointing to it ! I will pray for all of you and US !

F**k money hungry b***hs. If dat nigga takin care without tha courts involvement why should he give dat b***h anything…..

r u kidding me, wut the hell is retro child and spousal support? some s**t the court made up? get outta here with that Kelis is a LAME,BUM ASS WOMAN for that!

Nas should dropp this b***h off the QB ASAP!!!

he should pay wateva she wants… a child has endless needs and he wasn’t thinkin about that when he married her or went up in there raw so if he has it he should spend it on her and his son to make sure they’re taken care of , if not he’ll spend it on sumthin dumb,every man should take care of his children regardless of how u feel about their mother.

Wtf is retro child support and retro spousal support? Kelis is wrong 4 dat shyt! I wud say f**k her n dat retro shyt and send her da muni 4 mi kid n b dun wit dat b**ch.

Man. the statement it’s cheaper to keep her makes more and more sense. Yo, everything in this damn world is set up for a woman’s advantage. Then women have nerve to look down upon a man struggling.

People talking about Pre-nups it won’t save you from child support these chics are creative. Alimony matches the years you were married or until the woman remarries.

Women get pregnant they get all kinds of benefits subsidized housing, grants for school, free health care etc…

Take an average weekend hanging out women get in the club free, women typically have men by there drinks, women can by an entire outfit that looks good for the club for a $100.00 or less including some shoes! Other than the cost of paying for gas they are good to go.

Now fellas get no benefits if they become father’s from the government.
Men damn sure have to pay to get in the club, they have to by themselves drinks and are usually buying women drinks, a guy is never going to find a whole outfit for under $100.00!

This country is set up where the burden falls on men. “Notably as it should”, but where’s the support from the country that his labor and hard work fuels. Where’s the support form the woman when he’s down when she has the world at her disposal for a lending hand and all he has himself…

No, you don’t see that! You see this kind of stuff a woman who cheats. Get’s mad because her man can’t get past it. Then takes him to the bank. Your left scratching your head wondering what the hell went wrong how does this type of stuff happen.

There are black women that put together birthdays, new school clothes, a roof over a child’s head and meals off of thin air water nickels and hope.

So what she needs an absurd amount of cash for is ridiculous…

TEEDIAMON85, I agree and disagree with you. I disagree with “He should pay wateva she wants” because they are not married anymore and she makes 13K a month. That is plenty to support a child on her own. That’s more than the majority of our population makes in 8 months and only 1 month. When it comes to the child yes, be a good father and support your child but.. I don’t make 55k in a month are you saying i can’t support my child?

They are celebs. And you need to take perspective. That much money is not necessary. A child does have endless needs, but that doesn’t mean you have to spoil then. I sure the hell wont spoil my kids, because they need to know what it means to earn what they get.

Jaxan served Lustful_Sins a cup of “shut-the-f**k-up”. Buen trabajo hermano chocolate! jajaja

damn that’s an expensive milkshake

See I hate B***HES like this. ALL ABOUT MONEY. If he is a good father, which she never said he’s not. Women get dudes for all this cause their mad they not together no more. Why all this money for nothing??? If he already doing for his kids. She is BROKE and this is the only way she can still live and maintain her rich life style.

niggaz sayn dumb s**t and makin songs about “it aint trickn if you got it” , them crackaz get in ya business and make you pay a trick cause you got it, and niggaz wanna get mad… if you rainin on hoez stop complaining

thas why he shouldve married me ..

Lets be real, she getting all that money from him for a newborn. What the hell do u need to buy for a newborn that will be worth $30,000 a month? We all know that money is going to be spent on her. This sh*t is just ridiculous, I hope if I ever become rich that my life don’t turn around and be as f*cked up as half of these rich folks that’s supposedly living good.

why women got to be b***hes? If you dumb ass men would keep your dicks in your pants then you don’t have to worry about paying for the mistake. FYI women pay too and it really don’t matter what you make if you slip up and get caught up best to believe your azz will pay up. I hate dumb azz men now take that apple eat it and ponder about it. If we as women are b***hes your mother should slap her self for having an a*****e cause that’s what you sound like

wow there’s some real gold-diggers on here huh?
ain’t no kid going though 30k a month, that chick is just getting him. He’s stupid himself for being a sucka for love.

to the guy that said the world is set up for women
I don’t think it’s set up for us to get things free or cheap. Go back for a min men for years have been the bread winner while white and black women stay home and be mothers, maids and f**k partners. When you were a kid who did the work around the house for you, who wipe that s**tty ass? Who took you to the doctor or better who ran up to the school when you were in some s**t that you knew if daddy would find out he will kick that ass? Men did bust their ass to take care of BILLS, FOOD, and if you want to hang out THAT TOO So if we get into parties for free is because we need a break from all the damn kids we raised, if you want to buy a women a drink then that’s your mistake. Who the hell started this I buy you a drink then expect to get some p***y? I bet it was a MAN so please don’t complain about what a man have to do when the women do the same thing

Basically..at the end of the day Kelis is a gold digger..13k a month is more than enough to live off

When your eyes aren’t fixed on God, you will be in court fighting over money. Keep your eyes on the Lord and you will be blessed with riches more than beyond what you ask for…..Build a relationship off the Word of God.

lets get deep to the root of the problem, 1Corin 11:3 tells us that the head of every woman is man… but satan has put up women in the world over the man for bringing into sin with her (1Tim 2:14) causing the whole house to be out of order because women want to be the head and it’s spiritually not right so the relationship doomed from the jump, and he uses money to lure particularly black men and women away from the power that spread the red see while coming out of egypt, the same one that sent his only begotten son to save us from sin and bring us back to the father, WE are the people of the bible, the house of Israel, the so called negroes are the tribe of Judah… read Deut 28:68 (egypt is the greek word for slavery/bondage), then red Gen 15:13, then read Rev 2:9 and when you finish reading that last verse look up the Israeli flag and see who faking to be us… the true people! The whole world is against us, read Psalms 83:1-12! We are the hidden ones because we as a people don’t even know who we really are… and the beast system/money is used to divide us… wake up people!

How the hell does she get almost $300K in spousal support? They were married for like 3-4 years. Does that mean she deserve a $100K a year for being married to NAS? That’s some bull$h*T women like this be using marriage as if it were the lottery. The marriage didn’t work out so move on, she was nothing in 2005 and she’ll be nothing in 2010.

That is some BULL

I do believe that he should be taking care of his child but damn $17,225 a month for child support!!!! We are have to admit if he didn’t want to kick out that kinda money he should of had a prenup.That was a precation that he should of taken,she’s maybe had 2 albums for the duration of their marriage and courtship and of course she would be awarded money to continue the life she is accustomed to.He wasn’t protecting himself and that what happens when you running around tatting her on your arm lol.

Damn Kelis????…………. Give my man Esco a break…… This kind of stuff makes a rich man not wanna get married, she hosing the hell outta that nigga…… She trying 2 take all the crumbs from the fallout…….. Why does she need 72,000 for herself and only 17,000 for her child?????…….. America, does that make sense????? Hell Naw…. Hey Kelis, You want money, get off your ass and make another record………..

OMG KEVENj…. I THINK I MIGHT LOVE YOU ! THAT’S SO TIGHT WHAT U JUST PUT OUT THERE !

JAXAN : I USED TO DATE WHITE MEN AND GOT PLENTY. HOWEVER THEY NOW REPULSE ME.
The reason being is that I felt that the main reason these white men were treating me so good was to try and prove somehow that they were superior to black men ! BULLS**T ! AS SOON AS I REALIZED THAT I STOPPED DATING WHITE MEN AND STARTED DATING BLACK MEN. The first black guy I dated treated me WORST than s**t ! But that’s a long story. ANYWAY’S I’m not a materialistic money grubbing b***h AND I’M TIRED OF SO MANY IGNORANT ASS BLACK GUYS ACTING AS IF ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE GOLD DIGGERS AND WHITE WOMEN ARE NOT ! Ya’ll dudes are HELLA STUPID !

BLACK WOMEN AREN’T GOLDDIGGERS ! WE JUST SIMPLY DON’T LIKE TRIFLIN ASS TIRED NIGGA’S TRYING TO LIVE OFF OF OUR HARD WORK !

IF I WAS A GOLDDIGGER AT ALL I’D STILL BE DATING PATHETIC ASS WHITE GUYS. BUT I FOUND A BLACK MAN AND HE TURNED ME OUT WITH HIS DICK AND TONGUE. AND SO HAPPENS HE GOT $$ TOO ! SOOO WHAT ! IS IT BETTER TO BE WITH A MAN FOR HIS SEX OR HIS MONEY? TELL ME THAT JAXAN !!

smfh at this money hungry c**t… nobody has morals and standards anymore…i hope this bish gets hit by a greyhound

Dam give My boy a break money aint every thing, Im tired of celebs womans, breakin up with celeb men just because of money, wow its the person thats counts. i feel most celebs are money hungry, dam yall so lost all of yall real religion. Nas you think about leaving her before she do cause that aint u player. she gold diggin player! dam somebody need to make the song money should not be a issue, if it is dimiss that person because thats all all all they thinking about, what about the good times yall shared be thankful for what u do got. she listen to other people that mean she easily can be pulled she a lame

@Lustful_Sins I put it out there because it’s the truth, we as the house of Israel need to know this, EVERYTHING is aimed at us! Just look at how they portray black men as gun slinging killers or drug dealers… like that’s all we good for?!?! And it’s so messed up that if we see any other race with their pants down and hat turned to the side or back… first thing we say is “they acting black” which leads me to say the WORLD looks at us like that because that’s what they see on TV and through TV it’s programmed the current generation to think that’s how they supposed to be, even our own think we supposed to be like that! We kings and the women queens, not a pack of wild savage animals, we are a holy people chosen by the most High… and the world and satan who rules the world hate us for that! That’s why the most High said this: James 4:4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.

black white asian, all other religions commit crimes so they can kill putting black people on the spot cause really it dont work no more cause whats happenin we coming up slowly fa showly

Religion comes from the word Religgio, it means to confuse, confound, tie down… Religion has divided the whole world, especially the chosen people of the most High… and that’s us! They gave us a fake image of Christ to worship coming off the cargo slave ships in the 1400′s and took our Hebrew Israelite heritage away from us by beating it out of us and through generations of slavery we have forgotten who we are but now the spirit of the most High is being poured out on us (his chosen people) and some of us are waking up… just look at the movie roots at how they beat Kunta until he said his name was Toby, then they let him down! THEY (the other nations) know who we really are and they are very afraid of us finding out, but sadly most of us don’t know who we are and accept anything they tell us!

OMG… THANK YOU KEVENj ! YOU ARE SOOO RIGHT MAN !

KELIS is a woman scorned ya’ll do have to remember that ! And like they say “HELL KNOWS NO FURRY LIKE….” ^ U know… ALSO YA’LL DON’T KNOW THE ENTIRERTY OF THEIR SITUATION SO ALL YA’LL TRYIN TO SERIOUSLY CLOWN OL GIRL NEEDS TO CUT IT OUT….

FROM MY RELATIONSHIP EXPERIANCE I’VE LEARNED THAT EVERYTHING THAT GOES WRONG IN A RELATIONSHIP IS ALWAYS THE GUYS FAULT… LMAO !

SO WHY NOT MAKE HIM PAY?

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mane she dirty damn golddiggers

b***h u aint gettin enough already get a life

thats fair. if he don’t wanna pay he should stop having kids. men wanna complain about child support but will not stop having kids

NAS. does not have alot of kids….maybe 2 altogether…lol

And why would a woman need support when she is pulling in over $100,000.00 a year easily and getting another close to $200,000,000.00 a year in child support…? Fair? Your Milkshake needs to get another album and support ya damn self….His only obligation should be his child,,,,not the sticky fingers that has ‘em

Ya’ll Women are Nutz!

if i was NAS i would want to take the kids since i will feel just as lost without them as the EX. But then i won’t be like her seeking child support or that other bogus support since she makes over $13k a month on her own.. I can see if she didnt make anything like some other ex wives out there or loser moms that don’t want to work . If thats the case she will need the support.

@ Kev…

Slaves came from the WEST COAST of AFRICA…I love it when ya’ll keep trying to come with that hebrew stuff…lol

Egyptians do not look like us,,,and hate to tell you they are still here today…RELIGION is a WORD…So what ever it means does not “MEAN” that is how it is used…You remind me of all of the people that tried to act like 5% and kept breaking words down…”Like HISTORY….His-Story”….So whatever you believe should be in today not the PAST….B***H has a whole new meaning today then even at the birth of this country!

LOOKS LIKE NAS GETS TO TAKE CARE OF HIS KID, KELIS, AND HER NEW BOYFRIEND WHEN SHE GETS ONE FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE AND YOU CALL THAT FAIR DIVORCE?. ITS NOT CHILD SUPPORT ITS “TAKE CARE OF YOUR EX LIFE AND CHILD SUPPORT”. WHY CANT A MAN THAT MAKES BIG MONEY COME UP OUT OF HIS OWN POCKETS AND TAKE CARE OF HIS KIDS?. HE EARNED HIS MONEY AND NOW SHE GETS A FREE TICKET FROM SOMETHING SHE DOESNT DESERVE. CHILD SUPPORT MY ASS, SHE SPENDING THAT MONEY ON HER KID AND WHAT SHE WANTS. ITS DEGRADING

He should pay only child support. Women complain about not getting child support well women should stop allowing men to get them pregnant or give the children up to the father if the man wants the child. Spousal support us Fu***kin outrageous. Women want to be treated equally well get a fu***kin job or two. The legal system only works for the woman in that regard, men always get fu***ked in the end, what a country! I guess Martin Luther King died in vain. Where’s the equally? Some bit#hes are just too greedy! Sorry to the real women I may have offended but to the project bit#hes living on men’s backs. Be a real woman, get a fu***kin job and stop stealing from the father’s and your children which the money doesn’t go to.

I think “Shawnty1974″ has clearly hit the nail on the head.

If I were Nas right now, my one AND only responsibility would be to my son AND only my son. I am not married to Kelis anymore, so I wouldn’t give a s**t about her f**king welfare. That judge who will be handling that case can make all the decisions he wants. In the end, I am not paying Kelis any spousal alimony. I don’t give a f**k what that judge says.

I’m going to make sure my son is taking care of, and that’s it. Kelis’ cell phone bill??? Her housing???. Her transportation???? Her lipo sessions with her doctor??? Getting her hair and nails done and so forth??? I’m not giving her any money for that s**t. I don’t give a f**k what that judge says

This is going to be about my son and my son only. And my son would get the best of everything. And he WILL get a top flight education too (yep…… even his college education will already be paid for), on top of that. And sensing what daddy is going through with mommy right now, I will make DAMN sure that I will teach his ass well when it comes to relationships, so he won’t make the same mistake his daddy did.

$18K a month is enough for child support. That b***h would not be getting any alimony at all. She needs money so f**king bad, then she can get off of her lazy ass and get a job. She doesn’t have any skills??? Then I’ll pay for job training for her ass, and that will be it. She chooses to f**k it up after I given her that money to better herself, then that’s her f**ked s**t. She makes her damn bed, she’s going to lie in it.

And to make sure the money is spent on the child every month, I would be making the checks out in my son’s name.

I’ll be damned that b***h will be spending my money on another nigga that comes along.

F**K THAT S**T!!!!! I’M SORRY ABOUT THAT!!!!!

–chaskelljr1963–

I’m Back!!! Good comments! Wincie, I know its your opinion that you think its fair that s**t gets a nice pay check out of this, but let me ask you this. What if the situation was flipped. What if she was making the money Nas is making currently and vice versa? Would it be fair that Nas gets the child and that settlement? Yes, men do complain about child support, but this is not real child support. This is robbery and you should know the difference. There needs to be regulations on this for real.

can’t feel bad for nas, cause it’s his own fault this is happening, should of got a prenuptial buddy.

jaxan you got a point first of all, i was cool with kelis getting 50, 000 amonth because hell the baby is an infant and by his first birthday he would have grown like a weed money is needed plus i thought 10,000 of that was going to the child’s trust fund but now she talkin 250,000 almost a month what the f**k is wrong with her. when you greedy you greedy but to be greedy using a child thats just f**king wrong. and kelis needs a reality check with all this s**t about wanting this much money hell nas dont even make 250,000 he makes 244,000 so where the other 9 or 10 thousand gonna come from. and hell what the f**k are you gonna do with 250000 thousand dollars really it aint that much diapers needed in the world hell.

Lustful_Sins, In my personal opinion and this is really my opinion, that’s not what I would look for in a mate. Money is not eternal and good sex is a strong plus, and having those two with one person is nice, but its more than those two things. What if you man lost everything and had to file for bankruptcy? What are you left with? You still have good sex, well hell many brothaz can play the pipe game well out there. So what is your real reason being with him after that? I’d hope its because you “Love” him. You have to have boundless love and be committed. After I’m finished with my degree and get out of the Air Force I’m going to be making around $75-83K a year. I’ll have the clearance and experience that I need in my field. If I’m single and start dating again pulling in that money I’m going to make sure she absolutely isn’t in it for the money. Because, I wouldn’t be in it for her wallet. She’ll know I’m into Computer Networking and that’s it, no specifics until i know i can trust her. A lot of people trust people to easily. Trust really takes time. Sadly, this generation is in need of Pre-nups like condoms. You just don’t know what you are getting into.

Wow @ some of these comments. But anyways, Nas shouldn’t be made to pay spousal support. They weren’t married that long. I could see if they had been married 30 years and she didn’t have any kind of skill to fall back on, but to only be married ( what 5…..6 years ) and she has a career ( faltering as it may be )……hell to the nah. He should only have to pay for the care and support of his son……if he questions how the money is spent…..have the judge order her to keep an itemized account of all expenditures in the best interest of the child. Or put a bulk of it into a trust fund that only Knight can access when he reaches a certain age. Seems to me Kelis is being a bit greedy.

Money is the root of all evil. Money does not really bring you happiness. Money sure seems pretty damn good when you don’t have it, but it’ll lead to misery if you worship it. That’s not my opinion that’s a damn FACT. Stop buying stuff all the time. The the I know and its not my opinion this is statistics, is that we as a people don’t invest our money properly. Look into stocks, trust funds or CDs ( not music its a fund) and be amazing how much your money grows. Get direct deposit and open one of these and choose your deductible. Over a span of 5 years( may seem long, but its not) you’ll be amazed and 10, 20 years. People we don’t die at young unless you are into foul play like gang banging. Imagine where you would like to live when you are 50 years old and believe me 50 is still a young age it is not old.

Already!! I am a single mother of 2 and I don’t ask dat sorry Mutha for nada!! He know he has 2 children!! She should be freakn happy with the support of the child!! QUIT BEING GREEDY!! DAT IS RIDICULOUS!! MAMAS BABY….DADDYS MAYBE!! NAS IS GOING TO TAKE CARE OF HIS CHILDREN!!!…DAT CHILD SLUM LORD NEEDS TO TAKE CARE OF HER SELF!! YOU ARE GIVING A BAD NAME TO WOMEN THAT DON’T HAVE AS MUCH AS YOU AND YET CAN DO IT ON THEIR OWN!!! KELIS…….HONEY “GET IT 2GETHER!!!! WOMEN UP!!” DAT IS WHY MEN DON’T WANT TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT!! DAT BABY DON’T NEED ALL OF THAT MONEY, AND IF HE DOES, LIKE OL’ GURL SAID…..’PUT IT IN A TRUST FUND AND SHE SHOULDN’T BE ABLE TO GO SHOPPING WITH IT!!” YA KNOW THAT IS WHAT SHE GONE DO WITH IT!!!

this damn woman is crazy and needs to be brought down back to reality….the first amount she got was ridiculous….people raise newborns on way less than that, now she asking for money, she getting greedy, her actions make all woman look bad..thanks alot kelis…..being a b***h now wont make nas stay around…you should have calmed your ass down and seen what he was going to do before you threw your hand out expecting a payout….tsk tsk tsk…

Yeah i like the trust fund ideal. @ jaxon i get picked on or people say i’m not black because i invest into stocks and i currency trade. Or that i actually like my field of choice for school and not for the money i will be making. Yeah some girls will probably guess how much i have by somethings i have but will not really know because of how i spend money(you can almost say im cheap). Regardless, im get a prenuptial when i get married. Even then i’ll probably never tell my wife how much i really have. Believe me people you can make alot of money investing and managing your own money.

JAXAN… I’m not sure how many guys you’re f**ked, but from my own personal experiance and from listening to MANY girlfriends I can tell u that MANY MEN DON’T KNOW WHAT THE F**K TO DO WITH THE P***Y ! So ur lil statement about brotha’s knowing how to lay the pipe… WRONG !

MONEY IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL THO ! AND LOVE IS THE REASON WOMEN GET SO EVIL AND CRAZY AND WANT TO F**K MEN AROUND AS BAD AS THEY CAN !

BUT ONE THING YA’LL FAILING TO LOOK AT IS IF NAS HAD JOINT CUSTODY OVER HIS CHILD HE WOULDN’T HAVE TO PAY CHILDSUPPORT !

WHY DOESN’T HE HAVE PARTIAL CUSTODY ? PROBABLY BECAUSE HE PLAN TO BE A DEAD BEAT ASS FATHER JUST LIKE THE MAJORITY OF BLACK MALES IN THIS COUNTRY !

THE LEAST HE CAN DO IS SEND A CHECK ! MONEY DON’T RAISE,COMFORT, SET A GOOD EXAMPLE FOR, TEACH HOW TO BE A GOOD MAN NOR NURTURE A F**KING CHILD !

NAS, REMEMBER THAT WHILE U SIGNING THAT CHECK AND COMPLAINING ABOUT IT ! THAT CHECK AINT GETTIN UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT 6 TIMES TO COMFORT UR SON !

She’s just being greedy. The amout that he’s giving kelis for their son is more than enough. If kelis wants to live her lifestyle, she can go back to what she was doing before Nas: Singing! I just hope that the money will actually go to their son.
Lustful_Sins: even when a man has joint custudy of a child, they still need to pay child support. So don’t assume that Nas is going to be a deadbeat dad like SOME men are. You are right and i agree completely that it takes more than just money every month to raise a child.

She is a SAD CHICK 2 me because thats wrong the brotha is willing 2 take care of there son she’s trying 2 live off of him thats why brotha shouldnt marry low life chick’s like her from the jump do like the other men put it on paper what u came with is what u leave with so if u came in with some $$ u leave with ur $$ if u came BROKE U LEAVE BROKE GO SALE UR AZZ 2 THE NEXT GUY..

I believe in monogamy. And you know what. Its just as much your fault that they aren’t pleasuring you the way they what as theirs. You have to tell and show a man how you want him to love you. What works for you may not be what works for another woman. That’s absolutely the same for guys. Again Education is your strongest weapon. You can’t expect to have it perfect with ever guy you are with. You know it takes experience to be good at anything and everything in the world right? Well, I’m sorry for the brothas you were with, but my pipe game is strong dawg. She has no complaints. Unless most men I know when i woman has an orgasm. For guys its obvious. I think he needs to just get a paternity test. Just get it down with. But, you know what. Anyways I believe sex should wait until marriage. Love does not make a woman evil and crazy. They do that on they own. Self-control is a virtue.

@ Jaxan and Anthology77..I can agree with alot that both of you gentlemen said.I most certainley understand the fustration that some black men have against us because I have a brother.I sat back and watched him date women that he brought home that I would sit down and talk to find out what kind of female he was getting himself involved with growing up.WHY? because thats what sisters are suppose to do.And although I would never argue with any of them,I would give my brother Richard Jr the heads up to take things slow and keep his eyes open because I didnt feel right about them.It was all based on one basic thing. DOES THIS GIRL HAVE ANY MORALS IN HER AND DOES SHE RESPECT MEN.How did this girl grow up in her home.?It matters.What did this girls mother teach her about being a woman? how does she view men? its important.It tell you what kind of problems you are going to have.If any.If she doesnt respect men,she damn sure isnt going to respect my brother.Yes I said it ladies.Their are to many of us who gripe about men not respecting us but to many of us dont respect men enough..We use men.Its not cool when you have a mom telling her daughter to get whatever she can get out of a man by any eans neccessary.Some of you cause your own problems by moving to damn fast.My job as a sister was to make sure that he didnt get caught up with some trash that was less than mom..To get himself trapped by to many women who are looking for a comeup in some shape or fashion instead of building with a man.The last girl he dated before he got married 5 months ago tried to get him a record by saying that he hit her.All because she couldnt get her way and wasnt willing to stand by a hard working man.She wanted that fast money.The it man so she could bost.The man with the big whip,cloths all that nonsense.My brother did things the right way.and hes gorgeous.Now he has a wife that wanted to build and they are doing fine.And homegirl got a kid and no man in site because she looked for cash instead of SUBSTANCE.To many of women dont want to build.They want kelis money..

The first red flag for me when he first started dating her was when I asked him,how was her home life.? Was their a father in the pic? were her parents supportive and loving.I made it my business to get to know her and right from the start,I told him to keep his guard up.AND NEVER EVER GET ANY GIRL PREGNANT.Thats sacred and its for you to share with a wife someday.HE LISTENED.Here is a girl that my brother treated like his own mother but because she came from a situation were the father wasnt living with the mother,him running the streets,the mother not being supportive,I knew that their would be problems because we didnt grow up like that.What this idiot didnt realize is that when she lied and said that my brother hit her,she never showed up to court .not once,REALLY? who does that,second,the entire neighborhood knew my parents and how great they were as people.My parents raised 10 other children that werent their own and everybody knew us.third,when my brother got to court,the lawyer knew my dad because they were in the same army platoon.He knew the character of my family.Told the judge who he was,took my brother in to get his side of the story and of course what she said that happened made no sense.it was thrown out.After so much drama,I PERSONALLY told him to open his horizons and look for someone that comes from stability.No matter what color she may be.If she turns out to be black,fine,if not fine.As long as its based on the real deal.Here is a black man ,my brother who is 31,just got married 5 months ago and hes happy with who he picked.Am I mad about the choice he made,hell no.Shes a school teacher and working on her masters,coaches basketball at the college.And what I love about them is how respectful they are of one another and supportive.

A problem can only exist when their are two or more parties involved.Usually meaning that the problem is with both men and women.I live my life the same way.I date who I want,what race I want as long as he has commonsense,decency about himself.I’ve dated black men who cant relate to how I grew up thus causing the misunderstandings.To many times most black men equate wanting to be treated with respect and dignity as being stuck up or to strong.WRONG!! IF I dont guard my life and take it serious,then that means I allow men to WALK ALL OVER ME.Their is nothing wrong with being brought up with the values of respecting yourself and making others respect you.Their is no harm in that.

Women,we have to check our behavior,and we have to know how worthy we are of true love and respect from a man.But you have to be shown that early on in life how a man is suppose to treat you.If you dont know,then you get caught up.

Men,the same goes out to you too.You must watch the kind of women you get yourselves involved with.Because that could mean a lifetime of attachment with the wrong woman that you never wanted in the first place.

BOTH NAS AND KELIS ARE WRONG!! both of them.Nas is wrong with his reckless behavior towards women and kelis is wrong for stepping out of her marriage.He may have also done it too.we dont know.these two need to take a long look at their lives and realize that their marriage failed because of the both of them.They are both at fault.If KELIS was a real woman,and NAS a real man,these two should sit down like mature human beings,apologize for what went wrong instead of pointing fingers,and work out a deal amicably.No kelis shouldnt take him for everything,its not fair,nas shouldnt trash his former wife,he laid down with her he picked her.But Nas should make sure she is ok and that their son is and will be.

Trust me,as hard as it is for black men,its as equally as hard for black women who dont fit the stereotypes.So,we must find what we are looking for anywhere we can find it.It doesnt mean exclude our own,it just means allow others to come your way as well.real love cant be forced.it must happen naturally and maturely.Im not turning that away no matter what color he comes in.

Really nice story and point CourtneyR. I really believe a father in the household is really important. I’m fortunate that I grew up with both my mother and father(Married 32 years strong). My father is a Colonel in the U.S. Army and has really great character. The kind of role model I wish everyone could have. My Mother has always be so supportive. My father went over seas for 2 one year terms in Iraq and my mother didn’t sleep around or go shopping. You know what she does? She takes care of everything involved with finances and raised my brother and I and she has her own business. In a way my dad would be lost without her. This man makes $120K+ a year and that comes with time people. 30 years active duty will get you money like that. These two are a prime example of a real marriage. They don’t go buying up clothes every week and getting rims. They invest their money into me, my brother and their retirement. I guess what I’m trying to get at is, if you are trying to get married do it for the right reasons. The two of you need to play your role in the relationship. I know I don’t want anyone less than my mother like CourtneyR mentioned. And I’m my fathers spit imagine and I have at most of his characteristics. When I die I’d hope I’d be remembered as not a Liar, Cheater, Gold Digger, Criminal and Deconstructive, but as a good father and husband and one of the best supporters a child could have.

@Moment I suggest you go buy the book From Babylon to Timbuktu and find out the real history of who we are, we ran into africa (ham), the mountains of Morroco and Lybia (Matt 24:15-16) and migrated into the west coast of Africa (ham) from Israel in 70 A.D. fleeing roman persecution and slavery, and those that stayed got slaughtered, we stayed in Africa (Ham) for about 1100-1200 yrs and the Arabs sold us to Esau/Edom (pure blooded Caucasian) and they brought us here to this land. We are not Africa, if you think we are go there and say “I’m home brother” and watch what they tell you… they know who we are, WE lost our history through slavery, the other nations didn’t. The sons of Ham are Mizraim(egypt), Cush (Sudan, Ethiopia), Put(Lybia) and Canaan your north, central and south Africans which we drove out the land because it was the land of Canaan when Joshua led our forefathers in there after Moses died on the mountain after he got his view of “the land of milk and honey” and we named it Israel because of Jacob our father was named Israel by the most High we are the Hebrew Israelites… look in your Zondervan bible dictionary and see that it tells you we are not Hametic (African) people, research and see for yourself… don’t believe the lies that have been passed down to us over generations.

f**k Kelis and any b***h riding with trying to get a nigga for his hard earned cake like she is. I aint knocking niggas taking care of they seeds, but this s**t is ridiculous, give that b***h 250 g’s and she can step for life on the financial tip, for real!!! B***h ALREADY GOT A GIG, PLUS SHE GETTING 14 G’S A MONTH OF HER OWN BREAD, and if you know like I know she need to lower her standards and get it poppin with her little 14. Nas made a mistake on this one, maybe he should have asked 50 Cent for some advice on how to handle female celebrities trying to turn a cheap f**k to a million dollar divorce (sorry Vivica), 50 told him he was stupid for marrying the b***h who’s milkshake was bringing all the boys to the yard!!! I wonder if he regrets that tattoo he got now??? Much love to Knight Jones, god bless you kid, I guess that makes you God’s grandson, huh??? LMFAO!!!

hey it happends to the best of them eric bennet is still getting money off halle berry she was paying child support for his daughter she adopted and she was paing child support..nick lecha got jessica simpson for half of her 50 million..and the list goes on and on ..but thats divorce with rich people..dont see why dudes getting so mad ..most blk males dont pay s**t on there child support and we wont even get into spousal support cause yall will pop a seed into a chick before you pop the question of marriage..quit nutting int hese no good chicks and you wont have nothig to complain about..or be smart and ask for joint custody so the child support payments get cut in half..YALL DO HAVE RIGHTS AND SO CALLED FATHERS..

ALL GUYS CARE ABOUT IS MONEY CASH HOES…SO WHEN A WOMAN IS HURT OR TRYING TO GET EVEN SHE GOES FOR YOUR MATERIAL POSSESIONS….MESS UP YOUR CLOTHES ,,SLASHES TIRES, SCRATCHES YOUR CAR THROWS BRICKS IN YOUR WINDOWS ETC..ANYTING THAT WILL COS T U MONEY ..ITS SAD HOW SO MANY BLK MEN USE THERE BABY MOTHER AS AN EXCUSE AS TO WHY THEY DONT SEE THERE CHILD.. IBET IF SHE TOOK A BAG FULL OF CASH AND SAID YOU COULDNT SEE IT OR HAVE IT BACK U WOULD BUST DOWN THE DOOR ..BUT YALL WONT MAN UP AND IN FORCE YOUR RIGHTS AS FATHERS..YALL STILL MAD ABOUT CHILD SUPPORT ..GET OVER IT ..SO YOUR BABY MAMA AINT SHYT..THAT DIDNT STOP U FROM NUTTING IN HER …DAM MAN UP

that hoe trippin. and this message is to different_mentally, if you did your homework miss thang, you would have known that nas tried to see the birth of his son, if you would have done your homework, you would see that kelis called it off with him as soon as she made the 9th month for undisclosed reasons so before you put that MEN DO bulls**t in effect, do a little bit of research first, its not men fault that all you seem to date are losers but its obvious why thats all you attract.

Wow. Then what will the court say when Nas no longer has money? They’ll take him to jail when he is flat broke. That’s bulls**t!

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That b***h(kelis) did this s**t on purpose females like this kill me and gives women a bad name. but hey thats what happens when u try to change a hoe fyi she cheated on my dude and da b***h got da nerve to ask for money?? smfh if the courts give her this much they are some fools

It really is crazy how Black men and Black women talk to each other with such bigotry. I mean it really is amazing. I’m for real, you people need to get over this childishness and be responsible you even get into this mess. Different_mentality: You can blame men all you want about a guy getting a woman pregnant, but… last time i remember a woman has equal choice in conception. You are the one who allowed him to wear the condom or not be on birth control. Baby, that road isn’t a one way street, you have a choice.
Now, on that part about all guys care about money and hoes is flat wrong. I don’t care about money at all and I don’t respect women who disrespect themselves. So, I’m offend when you put me in that 100% category. A lot of women do have high standards in men, but some of those standards are highly unrealistic. You want a man that’s a Thug, fine, gets lots of money, put it down under the sheets, will stand up for you, and will take you around the world. When you get out of high school between the ages 18-24 there is probably less than 4% of the black population of men that have those qualities and 3% of that most likely don’t get their earning legit. Nas fell into this category in 1991. Women, not everyone is a rapper, NBA player, NFL player, Lawyer or what ever that makes that kind of money that young, so fix your standards. What you need to be looking for is black men who are trying to go back to school and finish their degree, In the Military, or into real job training otherwise you are setting yourself up for failure. Men should look for the same quality and follow by example as well. – Jaxan

GOLD-DIGGER!!! GOLD-DIGGER!!!, she is Clearly trying to use the law to the fullest ex-tense. All other comments about Naz should pay up, black history etc..GO OUT the window IT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH IT. That’s a sign of a GOLG-DIGGER (period). Kelis has LOST HER MORALS

And for the Preachers, Historian, needs to realize THEY DIVORCE BECAUSE KELIS HAVE SEX TAPE, KELIS HAVE A SEX TAPE

3 quickies:

#3.Different_mentality; “If all u ever meet is ain’t sh** ni.gg.a’s then u need go to a doctor and have yo-self checked, coz maybe u working wit some AIN’T SH** pu.ss.y”- Katt Williams, on Def Comedy Jam

#2. Spousal Support according to Law is to allow a spouse (M or F) to continue a lifestyle they’ve become accustomed too, -to determine this the court balances the years of her youth, early adulthood and how she lived during matrimony. the equal of three ie; if she lived on $28k a yr from age 18-20 then $3.2M a year from ages 21-23 thus, $9,600,000 divided by 6 years roughly $1.6M+ per year as a couple- her equal share is $800k a yr (half of $1.6M) for 3.5 yrs as spousal suppport (thats prolly how her lawyer got to the $72k a month as a support figure 72 x 12 mos = $860k a year)
So the spousal would only be fore the equal number of years she and he were married then it would be stopped!

#1. JFYI , The worlds firstt attempt at getting Child Support was by a BLACK LAWYER!
W.E.B DuBois wanted the children fathered by slave masters to get support from their fathers after the Emancipation. he lost the case, but in 1945 an Ohio lawyer (white biys) used his argument – word for word and won child support for a rich white woman who was getting divorced.
Her spousal support was cut short’ so the laywers researched and used DuBois case as a basis for their argument, — ironically one of the attorneys who won that 1st child support case admitted before death that it was not really for the kids, so much as they were trying to hurt the father and take him for more money and provide an added revenue for state coffers’ States retain a administrative fee for collecting CS. States benefit as much as the children do .

Surprised more brothas with long paper don’t insist on Pre-nups. then again, maybe intelligent sistas wouldn’t sign it anyway…lol :)

Thanks for the information “write_man” about the law. Kelis is using the to the fullest but again A SIGN OF A GOLD-DIGGER

I think I’ve decided I’m going to have a pre-nup or nothing. She keeps what she earn and I keep mine. If I feel like she’ll be struggling after the divorce I would give her some stimulus. The problem that is most women have a chip on their shoulder or something. Ego kicks and when you want to help. She doesn’t want to to help her out, she wants to hurt you and take, not receive. Brb going back to the Air Force Recruiter :)

@sexyasiam1977

With all the points you bring up, Black Women (since these are the only women I associate with) are owed NOTHING. Taking care of your children and your household is a fulltime job that DOES NOT COME WITH A PAYCHECK! Why? Because it’s not supposed to! You don’t get any extra credit$ for wiping your kids a$$. You don’t get an extra credit$ for going up to the school to bail your kid out of some ish. If you ask me, you shouldn’t even be allowed to get into a club for free or have drinks free all night just because you are a women. You are owed NOTHING! Too many BW don’t realized that a big reason for the division that they experience with their men is because of dumbness like this. Get out of the idea that you are owed something just because you are a woman, just because you’ved raised kids, just because you took care of your household. Don’t nobody owe you a damn thing! You need to cop my book when it comes out. M.O.B – MIND OVER BODY!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0kub7Woqe0

That is just crazy that she should get that much money I mean last time i looked it didnt cost that much to buy a package of pampers and pay for daycare. Why pay the 17,ooo a month? That is just crazy. He should just flip it and take the baby and have her pay him. We’ll see what those figures are. Stand up NAS and claim you baby and keep your money!!!!!!

Goddam she really cleanin his ass out. All i gotta say is look out 4 that next nas album real soon LOL

She’s not gonna get what she thinks she’s gonna get I mean Nas got some lawyers on his side so we haven’t seen da last of this battle.

that brotha makes 3 mil a year and yall feel sorry for him ? thats bullshiiit ! you have brothas out here making 30,000 a year and have to give up more than half, THATS BULLSHIIIT !! he will not starve and he should be under the same scrutiny as us working class men. you stick your diiick in it, you suffer with it !!! period !! any one of these women talking shiit on this forum would get all she could in court if the opportunity arose !! thats what you all do !!! is it fair ? hell, i dont know. all i know is you ladies can STOP being hypocrites !! all i hear is brothas, good fathers, going to court just because he dont want to be with her anymore, but he’s a damn good father to his children ! but she’s mad !!! so off to court you go. MOST OF YOU DO IT !!!!!

SOME OF YALL GUYS CAN NOT TALK!!!!!!! SOME OF YOU SEAT HERE AND CHEAT YALL AZZ OFF.TURN AROUND AND WANT YALL WOMEN TO FORGIVE YALL OVER AND OVER AGAIN. BUT WHEN WOMEN GET TIRED OF THAT AND GO OUT AND SLEEP WITH SOMEBODY ELSE SHE HAVE TO BE A HOE, A GOLD DIGGA, S**T, ECT…… IM NOT TAKING NO SIDES BUT KELIS….YES SHE WAS WRONG FOR THAT BUT WE DO NOT KNOW IF NAS DID ANYTHING TO HARM THEIR MARRIAGE BEFORE SHE WENT OUT AND DID WHAT SHE DID.

@MIZZ_CANDI22

So are you saying that in order to right a wrong, you think it’s justified for a woman to go out and commit a wrong herself? Because honestly, that’s exactly what it sounds like. Not only that, it also sounds both vindictive and manipulative, two negative characteristics present in too many Black Women that cause them problems in relationships with Black Men. If Kelis did something in their marraige that goes against their vows, there are no BUTS. There is no, “we don’t know what Nas did”. At the end of the day, the only person you have control over is yourSELF. If your man cheats and react by doing the same thing, then what that says about you is you lack SELF-control and that you’re just as much a part of the problem as he is.

Severe Poetry

I’m not one of these women on here talking ish @ Korg, but I can honestly say I had the judge reduce my child support to make sure my child’s father and his new family ( wife and child ) didn’t struggle. I handle my own…..yea, the support is a lot of help, but I didn’t need as much as the court system was trying to give me. So I gave it back.

Wrong is wrong and right is right… Two wrongs dont make a right only in math… But this is not adding up… some of us can only hope for a little help from the childs father but i cant get over stars raising their kids as if they are on the top of the world… be blessed for what you get and make do… show your child that money is not love… love is not money…

This goes out to all the women who have posted stating that a child or children deserve to live the same lifestyle as the father (NAS). As women and as mothers, if you truely believe this, reliquish your custodial rights over to the father then. It’s about the child or children, not you as the mother, RIGHT? Wrong, it’s not just about the children, it’s about YOU, too! See women spout that BS all the time to deflect attention from how they really feel. It wouldn’t be PC to come out and say, “yeah, I wanna still feel I have a right to live that lifestyle”. Children are POWER, they are BARGAINING CHIPS and without them, women would lose a lot of the power they have over the fathers. Let’s be real and keep it 100. Kids, for the most part, not only don’t care about lifestyle, they also don’t even understand what it is until they get old enough. ‘Deserving or having a right to live the same lifestyle as..’, is a grown man and woman theory (mostly women) and has nothing to do with children. Adding ‘children’ into the mix is just a slick deflection tool to take the focus off the fact that WOMEN (not all) are the ones who feel deserving of the right to live that lifestyle.

Severe Poetry

CreamNDaKoffee lets get married you will go far in life lazy ass Baby mamas with they hand out that dont want to work or waiting for they babys money to spend will be paying and or going to jail once we get equal rights as parents … foodstamps, section 8, and cash aid will soon be gone …Get a education need motivation watch your kids leave for school in the morning and you do the same thing the kids are more brighter than the burnt out parents …And to all yall real independent women and men keep on pushin are day is coming Dont call yourself independent if your independence comes from money you taking from the babies … 1LAOUTY

they should try to make it work and stop playin’

Woah! sistahs! the point of this is MONEY! boot all the cheat’n! that’s just sex! when u get in a botha’s wallet u can come up miss’n! he cheated, she cheated no Dude is going to get they woman back by call’n the white man on her to get her money! thats wrong on every level! she should just pack up her milkshake and bounce!

Triflin b***h (And I dont give a f**k if I spelled it wrong lol)

WOW. IM TROUBLED HEARING THIS NEWS .WAS SHE THEIR WHEN HE WAS MAKING ALL THE MONEY HE MADE(UNFAIR AT BEST).LAWS SHOULD BE CHANGED ,HOWEVER THEIR ARE OPTIONS THAT ARE PUT IN PLACE TO PROTECT MEN AND WOMEN IN THESE TYPE A SITUATIONS ITS CALLED A PRENUP THE LEGAL EQUIVALENT OF A CONDOM.GOOD LUCK TO BOTH PARTIES INVOLVED.

1LAWorkman I see you most not have any kids but things are super high and u will need help. And all females are not lazy because I was tauhgt to have my own.

This whole thing is just so crazy, stupid and really selfish. We are talking about a baby, a little person. Sure Nas should pay child support but this little guy hasn’t even been in the world good why should Nas have to pay so much? He hasn’t been acustomed to anything yet! Where is the justice in this whole matter is he supposed to give her everything just like he make money she can do the same.

Fast black-06 I have four 1 boy 3 girls my child support balance 0 I work go to school then go back to work. Two of them are not mine by blood I adopted them because I love them no support from the other half at all never for the last 7 years… I use it as motivation to provide for mine I apologize if I offended you I thought I gave props to all the real winners when i said all the real independent Women & Men keep on pushing are day is coming…You included too …this was to all the lazy AZZ baby mamas that spend they babies money on material bs for selfish reasons ….I know it gets hard out here. A real man you wont have to go to court on to get his check garnished he gone to handle his business like We suppose to A dead beat gets no respect from me like a lazy ass baby mama..both losers in life …just dont be greedy because after age 19 they still need cars clothes and shelter…so be fair and dont ruin the relationship between the child and the parent because you mad your baby father or mother has stepped into another relationship it selfish and the child ends up paying for it ….Lets start to communicate its a new day stop letting the enemy control our family spend time with your seeds feed them the right food and watch them grow thanks Sistah 1LAOUTY

Kelis bogus as hell and nas bogus for not making her sign a prenuptial agreement….even if he cheated or whatever, does this chick really deserve all that money? You have good times and u have bad times. Shes pulling 13 stacks a month, she and the baby are going to be just fine…Its females like her that make it hard for men to fully trust in women with everything. She didnt put in the hard work to make all that money Nas did. When you get married u agree to go through whatever. If u want to leave then leave but dont take the brothas money, especially when you are well off! Glad i got into optometry school because I dont understand what be going through women (similar 2 Kelis) heads these days. Hungry as hell for s**t. Get your own hustle, make your own money and hold your own b4 you demand anything from a man. thats how i feel

Here’s another black little the father want to back out his responsibility. He’s not getting back at KELIS She is his wife and the mother of his male seed.He has a daughter by the Sister who wrote a tell all book about her Nas and Jayz. He pay for her whom he had her of wedlock.

THIS WHY I DONT HAVE ANY KIDS :)

This is why I don’t want to get married

It’s ashame nas didnt pay attention to details about that tramp see had he talked to pharelle before for marrying that freak B$#%@ he would have simply smutted her dirty ass like pharelle did and never married her 2nd Listed to her music Blindfold me? Milkshake? Thats all the hooker is good for “Head” you cant build a marrage on that. Nas file for full custody and make her broke ass scrounge up child support….