Now it’s funny how everyone has something to say about Chris and Rihanna, but here is a man with known Christian background and upbringing. Where are all the nay-sayers in this case? Where are the rebuttals? The refutals? No, I have to be the first to speak on the fact it doesn’t matter whether you are saved or unsaved, Christian, or just Chris Brown to strike a woman. I’m definitely not condoning the act of abusing a woman physically or otherwise, but I’m not too thrilled with the celebrity bandwagons and “bootleg tabloid researchers” spreading their “facts” either. Again I say, pitiful…purely pitiful.

you have to wait til he beats the sh!t out of her before he gets judge

I totally agree, except that it is not funny how they got in Chris Brown. He deserved it. So does Bebe. Wrong is wrong. And any of of you who go out to harm woman are cowards and definitely not men. Its the same as using a gun to show your toughness. Only a coward does that. But let’s not confuse this with Christianity. They are two different things. And lets not use this as an excuse to commit our own sins. Bebe should have walked away like a man would do. I can only find 2 reasons to harm a woman. One is if she is in the process of harming my child, and the other is if she is actually about to try to take my life. Other than that, WALK AWAY!!

It doesn’t matter to me whom it is…Be Be, CB(Chris Brown) or JB(Joe Blow from the block)..I think it is wrong for a man to hit a woman..I’m ol skool and I feel that domestic violence is wrong. I know that at times things can get heated but then it is time for a man to be a man and walk away..Go cool off..Take the lead and say Baby we need to talk about this later and get outta there. Do what he needs to do to release that energy but don’t beat the woman!

My only question is why isnt this all over the news like Chris Brown/Rhianna.

Rather its BeBe Winans, Chris Brown or the man next door, A REAL MAN doesnt put his hand on a women.

abuse is abuse point blank. i watched my dad beat my mom all the time now im afraid to get married cause i dont want it to happen to me. What is wrong with our MEN?????

NOW IT’S NOT GOOD 2 HIT ANY WOMAN …. BUT IN THE STREETS IT IS CONDONED THOUGH 2 HIT A WOMAN …. DO YOU KNOW IT USE 2 BE A LAW 2 HIT A WOMAN …… IF SHE GOT OUTTA LINE YOU COULD TAKE THAT WOMAN 2 THE COURT YARD HOUSE AND BEAT YOUR WIFE BACK IN THE DAY’S …. I SAW IT AND I WAS SHOCKED ABOUT IT BECAUSE WOMEN DIDN’T REALLY HAVE ANY RIGHTS UNTIL WOMEN STARTED ( SINGING STAND UP STAND UP .. STAND UP 4 YOUR RIGHTS ( lol ) ……. BUT GROWN UP AS A MAN YOU WERE TOLD NOT 2 HIT ANY WOMAN …… BECAUSE IT SHOWS THE SIDE OF BEING A PUNK OR YOU ARE WEAK 2 HIT A WOMAN …… BUT IN THE STREETS THEY SAY …. YOU MUST HIT A WOMAN 2 KEEP HER IN CHECK ……. LIKE 2 CHECK THAT FEMALE OR 2 KNOW HER PLACE ……. AS 2 SAY THAT YOUR THE MAN AND 2 RESPECT HIM …. AND IF SHE GETS OUTTA PLACE … YOU MUST HIT HER ….SOUND LIKE A PAGE FROM THE PIMP CHRONICLES THOUGH ……. BUT THESE ARE BULLIES THAT DO THESE THING’S BUT SOME ARE NOT BULLIES …. SOME DO IT 4 A SINCE OF CONTROL ….I MET SOME WOMEN SAY THAT IF YOU DON’T HIT ME YOU DON’T LOVE ME …. I WAS CAUGHT 4 THE MOMENT BECAUSE I THOUGH IT WAS SOME BULL SH** BUT …. BECAUSE I WOULD NOT HIT NO WOMAN ….. BUT IN RHIANNA’S CASE YOU WOULD NOT SEE THAT COMING UNLESS YOU KNOW THE MAN …… BUT YOU HEAR THIS FROM A MAN THAT’S MARRIED THOUGH ….. AND HE MARRIED AND SOMETIME THE MARRIAGE DOEST LAST …… AND THAT PERSON MITE HAVE MILLIONS OF DOLLARS … OR NT … AND HE TAKES HIS ANGER OUT ON THE WOMAN BECAUSE …. HE MITE THINK THAT SHE GOT HIM BEAT …… LIKE O.J. SIMPSON !!! ….. OR MIKE TYSON !!! …. BY MONEY AND PROPERTY .. THAT HE LOST IN A SETTLEMENT .. AND NOT HAVE 2 PAY 4 HER AND HER LIFE STYLE …..AND HE CANT CONTROL HIS FEELING ABOUT HER ……. AND HE DOESN’T KNOW HOW 2 DEAL OR HANDLE HIS ANGER TOWARDS HER …. SO HE EITHER PUSHES HER … HIT OR SLAP HER ….. BECAUSE HE FEELS THAT HE LOST CONTROL … EVEN AS A MAN THEY FEEL DESOLATE ….. BUT YOU HAVE WOMEN THAT HAVE HIT THERE MATES ALSO …… BUT YOU RARELY DON’T HEAR ABOUT THOSE THINGS …… BECAUSE MEN IN THE PAST HAVE BEEN ABUSIVE .. AND THAT AINT RIGHT … BUT THESE ARE THE MEN THAT WE CHOOSES …. LIKE ITS THE SPIRIT OF IKE TURNER ….. HAS RETURN 2 CLAIM HIS THROWN AND AUTHORITY OVER YOU ….. BUT PEOPLE STILL WANT 2 BE WITH THESE MEN THESE MEN THESE DAY’S ….. I GUESS THEY TRY 2 CHANGE HIM !!! … MAKE HIM BE A ANGEL … YOU KEEP PUTTING YOUR FREAKING LIFE IN DANGER

People say that they will never hit a women : Well I like to say No one like to be abuse whether it’s physcally or mentally.We are all human and we make mistakes.Look at yourself in the mirror before you react….An Elephant never forget the pain and the scares someone put it through . it will retaliate.Nobody likes to be Abused.

so when a woman pushes her man can we lock her up???

Man please….whoever says there’s absolutely NO reason to hit a chick is obviously dillusional…

the vast majority of people….ESPECIALLY in the black community…ar raised to not put your hands on anybody unless they touch YOU first….I live and die by that! because trust and believe….i will knock a chick straight the f**k OUT if she touches ME or tries to slap me like this is Gone With The Wind or some s**t…..if that dizzy broad screws with either of my babies, you might as well dig that chick’s grave in advance.

Other than those two reasons, there’s no reason to hit chicks….but this case is about him shoving the chick to the ground. Why they locked him up for that is beyond me…but hey…whatever system we’re in in this country…ESPECIALLY if there are children envolved…is set up completely and totally AGAINST guys….so to say this surprises me would be a lie…

IWALKALONE247…You sound like a woman beater. You might want to get some help for that before it gets too far out of hand if it hasn’t already. A REAL MAN would NEVER hit a woman under any circ**stances.

ISSEYMIYAKE…I say if she hits/shoves him, she should be locked up as well. Abuse is abuse (and is wrong) regardless of gender. However, men generally don’t report when they are being abused.

Sorry to hear that my Boo got locked up. Get it together Bebe cus I know GOD can heal, and deliver. We all have faults no man or woman is perfect. He without sin cast the 1st stone.. We all sinned!!! and some still sinning. So Im praying for you baby. Love Peace and happiness

Well its not good for anybody to hit anybody whether man or woman. If a woman hits a man then she deserves what she gets back and to go to jail just like a man would. If a man hits a woman then, he deserves what he gets.

I don’t care who you are man, woman, boy or girl. To put your hands on anybody is wrong.(Now that my mom’s side of the family thats talking.) BUT ON THE OTHER HAND SOMETIMES ALL IT TAKE IT TO KNOCK THE HELL OUT OF SOMEBODY TO GET THEM TO ACT RIGHT. SEE ON MY DADDY’S SIDE OF THE FAMILY WE HAVE MAN BEATERS, CALL THE FEMALES IN MY FAMILY CRAZY IF YOU WANT TO WE DO TAKE NOTHING FROM NOBODY

its called control,if you feel you need to hit or go off,then take a walk or go chill out,the goverment loves to lock you down
when they hear you hit a woman,a push,come on people i been push by females and hit too.

Now that everyone else has had there say let me have mine….yes its wrong to hit but lets see the real problem…the bible says,if my people called by my name humble themselves and pray seek his face,turn from there wicked ways he will hear and heal the land….the day we live in everything goes this is another trick of the devil…a assalt on him and his family,when you give the devil a little room he takes a yard.God is merciful and just…in all domestic situations. Instead of spreading trash….spread prayer. no matter who was right or wrong everyone makes mistakes they feel justified in doing….as a women i know how to push buttons as she does concerning him. They were both wrong and two wrongs dont make one right.

He went to jail for pushing her, lol. Its not like he beat her ass like chris brown did his girlfriend. IF she pushed him, she would not go to jail or get a ticket. Me and my girlfriend body slam and head lock each other all the time. I pull her hair and she slap me. Its all part of life.

Wow I think the article was writing for embarassment and not for purpose because He is known as A Gospel artist people try to put the church out there as a bad name lets face no one is perfect and lets not try to judge

LMAO!!!!!…At some fool calling me a wife beater…damn, i needed that one….they just proved my point about black people saying one thing in front of cameras and doing the exact OPPOSITE when they’re out of the spotlight…

See now, unlike everybody else on here, I’m not gonna play the fake politically correct card. Now, although some (very few) of you are genuinely honest with the things you say on here, I’m gonna be true to who I am and how I was raised….

Now, I also had to grow up watching MY mother get her face beat in by dude after dude and then have the balls to be stupid enough to blame ME for not jumping in….i was 8 f**king years old!!…but unlike the majority of dudes and chicks out there who had to go through that, I DETEST putting my hands on another human being…but all that gets put to the side of another humn being puts their hands on ME. Like i said, this isn’t gone with the wind or Casablanca where the chick says “how dare you” and slaps a guy and he just stands there and takes it….HELL NO!!…My suggestion is that she have a pillow ready and her dental insurance paid up…

there are only TWO reasons i’d lay my hands on another human….if they touched ME first, or if they screw with my babies (in which case, I’m gonna take your life right then and there)…

So to say a “real man” doesn’t hit chicks is like saying a “real man” takes a beat down or some sort of humiliation and just stands there and takes it….that’s TOTALLY giving chicks a free pass to be violent….

You can bite my shiny metal ass with that one…

Thanx Bender….lol

go head iwalkalone tell it. and you know its funny eveyone has the comment that a man can walk away;take it from a woman who has put a man in a situation like that you cant speak until your there!! And to the women with enough balls to hit a man expect it back,period. No i dont want my daughters getting their ass beat and i dont want my SON’s beat either. and face it there are crazy ass women out there… hell you might even say im one, but at the same time i dont take no sh!@ either !!

We All go through things in our relationships but that is not to say it’s ok to hit each other at all, but when you open the door for a ex he or she will do any thing to make you look bad in the public eye. So I say to him Stay strong and stay in prayer!!!

i feel you whettkatt but let me ask you this….a man and woman argues, he walks away, she punches him in the head, she then blocks him from walking out the door and grabs a vase to hit him……WHAT SHOULD HE DO IF HE A REAL MAN???????

just a question

Honestly?! Are they for real?! He pushed her down and now he’s gonna have a criminal record. I rather fall on my behind than be beat down, for real. For all we know, (because WE WEREN”T THERE!!), they got into it, she stepped in front of him told him he couldn’t leave or something, he grabbed her to move her, she lost her balance and to be vindictive, called the cops and said he pushed her down. You know people can be triflin sometimes… but if the story is a crystle as the article says, he’ll get a fine, no jail time and as long as he repents and gets it right everythings cool, life goes on… Just be thankful girl your face don’t look like Juanita Bynum’s did.

No one is perfect and I say way to go for pushing her down. She shouldn’t of been in the way it could of been worst like a punch in the eye, blows to the head, and the list goes on. She knows next time. I refuse to judge him just because he’s a gospel singer hell preachers go through things everybody does no one is prefect. He has God on his side if he didn’t his bond would of been higher and it would have been a felony instead

he had no business putting his hands on her. if it takes a criminal record to get the message across then so be it. men need to learn to keep their damn hands to themselves. i bet he wouldn’t have tried to push another brother down. unless she was kicking his ass he should’ve kept his hands to himself

Ummm……MzLyric…..go read isseymiyake’s post…let it sink in….THEN come back and write a response…because he damn sure was 100% on point…

This I GOTTA see…

Alotta people might find what I gotta say cruel, but sometimes SOME… not all, women need to be put in their place. There are women out there that purposely start s**t with a man, so he will get agressive. If a woman has the balls to hit a man, like a man… by all means knock her ass out. THen again some want u to do just that… so its best to walk away.

Can I ask a small question. I’ve been reading the comments for this article and it seems to me that a lot of the women are making excuses for what he did. Yet, no one wants to make excuses for what Chris Brown did. Why is that? I mean, both brothas got physical with women in their lives. Why the double standard?

Well number one… you know if your man has abusive tendencies, so I feel that any woman who puts herself between that rock and hard place, doesnt have a right to go runnin to the police… some of my family members have beena bused.. like my moms… but she chose to stay… some women u just cant help. IM not justifying anything.

IT DOESNT MATTER IF HE SINGS GOSPEL, R&B OR COUNTRY,OR FUTHERMORE IF HE DOESNT SING AT ALL…HE IS JUST A MAN WHEN IT ALL COMES DOWN TO IT…AND WE DONT KNOW THE WHOLE STORY SO LET US NOT JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS…WE WERE NOT THERE…APPARENTLY THERE WERE SOME ISSUES AND THE BOTTOM LINE IS WE NEED TO BE PRAYING FOR BOTH HIM AND HIS EX-WIFE INSTEAD OF POINTING THE FINGER…THANKS

what double standard…the only way I’d say that cornball Chris Brown was justified is if they were actually in one of those Ike vs. Tina brawls in the back of the limo ordeals….

This story is COMPLETELY different…from what I’ve been collecting, she damn near held him hostage when he was TRYING to walk away…besides, when there are children involved….the gloves literally come off anyway…

But all he did was push her aside and she just so happened to lose her balance…is that punishable in ANY WAY, hell f**king no!

Like I said before, whatever “system” they have setup in this country makes it so guys are at a comlpete and OBVIOUS disadvantage when it comes to dealing with the s**t chicks put us through….ESPECIALLY when it comes to our babies…..it’s pretty f**king obvious that fathers don’t mean jack s**t ni this country….but i digress….

We can say shame shame shame all day on these people fighting but the reality is they gonna fight. And its up to the women or man to get out of a abusive realationship but the heart always control the head. When the heart cant take the hurt then the abuse stops. believe that

i am not saying that either crime is wosre than the other, but i want to know when R. kelly was CHARGED as being a PEDOPHILE, people played his songs, he was able to tour and put out 2 albums during the 6 YEAR investigation???

if radio stations are gonna stop p[laying music when an artists is charged with a crime society deems sickening, then they should have son ethe same to Robert…he peed on the girl, then skeeted on her…THATS NASHTY!!!

Money, fame, and the fact that one of those chick’s FATHER was working for R. Peddy and didn’t wanna testify FOR his daughter because he wanted to keep his job, all played roles in this case….

I mean, lets be serious….how the f*** do you have VIDEO EVIDENCE and STILL get off the hook? And lets not forget the fact that they found TONS of child pornography in his house….that throws the whole “th video never lies” concept right the f*** out the window….the courts in this country lost whatever little credibility after this one…..had that been ME, I’d be UNDER the jail right now…

“Not that a woman is dangerous who holds a man by his lusts but she who holds him by his soul…” Leo Tolstoy(1828-1910). Could it be that physical attacks from a woman should not cause the slightest bit of harm towards the hard, coarse exterior of a Man? But if this is so then why must she batter him inwardly where it is most abusive. Or should the Man turn his hard outer core inward? How easy is it truly for a Man to leave that which he had helped to raise? In the minds of some, abuse becomes lop-sided, and with justice by preclusion. So here, there is not one who has the right to scorn anyone.

If you’re trying to pull that same garbage linie of “judge not lest ye be judged first” in a poetic manner, that’s BULLS**T!!…because EVERYBODY judges EVERYBODY…and it’s perfectly normal….if they deny it they’re full of s**t, because you ALWAYS see these fools smiling for the cameras and doing the exact opposite at home…..

How many times do i have to stress this?

…In the last days….Sin will be rampant everywhere, and the love of many will grow cold…. (Matt 24:12 – NLT)

Oh boy…here we go…

Okay, don’t get me wrong…I respect whatever aybody’s religion is….but seriously…do you people HAVE TO come up with bible quotes in EVERY thread?

Judgement comes with judgement it does not mean do not judge. It means be prepared for what you get in return. Be more carful when you read. If what you are saying was the case then there would not be any reason for court officials would there? If you then insist on returning ignorance then I will refrain from any further commentary with you.

I do apoligize to the young man for using the term of ignorance. I misjudged. I should have used the comment combative because my intentions are not to be combative. I will not return any further combative remarks.

WHATS THE FCK WRONG WITH BLACK MEN. THERE ARE MORE LIKELY TO CALL THEIR WIFE/GIRLFRIEND B***HES. AND THEY ARE MORE LIKELY TO HIT THEIR PARTNER.MAYBE BECAUSE OF THE WHITE SOCIETY THEY ARE LIVING IN, I DONT KNOW,JUST ASSUMING.I AM BLACK BUT I DONT CONFORM TO ANY SOCIETY IDEALS. I AM MARRIED FOR 17YRS AND NEVER TOUCH MY WIFE.BLACK MEN YOU ALL ARE NOT MAKING A GOOD IMPRESSION IN SOCIETY.

ALL I CAN SAY IS ITS JUST A TEST OF YOUR FAITH HANG ON IN THERE AND LET THE LORD WORK IT OUT.I KNOW HE WILL STAY ENCOURAGE AND KEEP WALKING WITH THE LORD. GOD BLESS YOU !!!!
SINCELY YOUR FAN,
THE TINSLEY FAMILY

SPARE THE ROD SPOIL THE WOMAN. LOL

pray pray pray!!

So maybe she had it coming. See you think females can be the only one that can snap. Men snap more but being that we are a masculine nature it is harder on us. Thats why I go by if u man enough to throw a lick u better be man enough to take one

This comment is for Culture. I’m curios to know how many Black men you know of call their wife or their girlfriends B***hes? I don’t know of none, personally. I don’t condone in a man hittingawoman, but I also know that a woman will say and do anything to get under a mans skin and over a period of time a man will have his breaking point where he can’t take it anymore. Everyone has a breaking point. Nobody was at that home but Bebe and his ex-wife and we don’t no what caused that incident to transpire. Oh, by the way. I don’t call my girlfriend a b***h, even when I am mad at her and i sure as hell don’t put my hands on her. Only when I am showing her LOVE and Affection.
Peace…

another funny one. this proves that all that religion stuff is just crap. the worst of them are the ones who claim to be oh so holy. if he was a true christian or, just a good person, he would not pushed his wife down the stairs no matter what she did or said.

BeBe is a Christian (MAN). He is only human and everyone makes mistakes. You think he would have better judgement, however, he who is without sin, cast the first stone. Stay blessed………………………

hey give be be,he was just laying hands LMAS:-O. he was whipping ass in the name of the lord. OH MAN…… let me stop now, I’m a christian man,peace n blessings

i meant give him a break

Yeah, well god beat the thieves out the temple and sometimes a hoe need 2 get slapped down – sometimes. Sorry, I love BeBe and he is so mild mannered and kool in real life – I truly doubt he did this without a just cause. But if he didn’t god forgives every1 especially in an isolated incident. It’s not like he’s been beating on her on the regular. F**k Debra!

so let me get this straight……she irritates him (most likely KNOWING that she is) about talks of the kids….he pushes her (does not hit)….gets arrested….and has to post $1000 bail??

what if it was the other way around? there is no way the cops would treat her that way if she ‘pushed’ him…..

Domestic violence is terrible and all parties must attend counseling in order to get to the root of the problem and to heal. Passing judgement isn’t going to solve the problem…. It’s funny people jumped all over C.B. for what happened to R the media took it and ran all over the world with it. But this- people aren’t really saying much about it. Is it because BeBe’s not popular right now? OPRAH if your homie assaults a woman you’ll give him a pass? Lets deal equally. Everyone involved in domestic violence get counseling. And make sure the seeds go otherwise the cycle continues. Peace

all you people are thinking about is all these is the people in the lime light . But do you think about the everyday woman. NO !!!! Just because we the everyday woman are not rich and arenot well off like you people ,do you ever think about telling our story. NO YOU DON”T. GET A DAMN LIFE.

people actually think that when a woman argues with a man that we are just supposed to keep our hands in our pockets and let you walk up on us. Woman are people sometimes equal in size and strength-but always more vicious than a man, and use that woman card to be nasty and disrespecting to men. there should be a national “push her to the ground day”. that way they’ll always remember not to be so mouthy because that one day is coming and her ass will get pushed to the ground.

well my my my wat make me sick bout a woman, thet they selfish. they mean, ungreatful there mouth.they lie they come to destroy man.god is not please we not perfect.but she so ingnorant that child is his more than hers.but first every time a man get caught up or busy, with work, here she goes getting mad then put him on child support. then we that man are trying to support his child or children, she wont let him. some womens do some stupid evil stuff. now thats selfish. and god cant stand no jessie bell spirit.my point is, she needs to obey her husband and shut her mouth and respect him.thats some of them leaving this world today.evil. but a women are so precious n our sight but they can push us so far that , we dont care any more. ladies respect ur husband and obey until then god will grant u longer life. god bless u all

Put him in jail. Amen!

Okay he pushed her to the ground..next. I guess when my brothers pushed me..they should have been locked up..

Now if it was a punch..kick..stab something..I’d say give him jail time..slap him on the wrist and tell him not to do it again like a kid.

He put a foot up in dat azz…in the name of the lawd huh? We put these celebrities on a pedestal like they aren’t “real” people.

First of all before you try to post and quote the bible about the story, read and understand, my brother. THEY ARE DIVORCED. Secondly, the bible says this, Ephesians 5:25 “Husbands love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for her.” Ephesians 5:28 “So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies: he who loves his wife loves himself.” So brother before you admonish women to “obey” their husbands and God, make sure brothers are in the place God says they are supposed to be which is
obeying the word of God and loving their wives as they are supposed to. A woman who is being cherished and taken care of by her husband as she should be has no problem “submitting” to her husband because she knows he has her best interest at heart. In addition, no one has a right to put their hands on a person in ANY fashion for ANY REASON. IF YOU DON’T CARE AND CAN’T CONTROL YOURSELF, STAY AWAY AND GET HELP FOR YOUR PROBLEM!
Finally, if a woman has custody of the children and she is responsible for their care and nurturing 90% of the time, child support is the very least a man should do for his children, PERIOD!

o man, blackplanets news gets real interestin errday

this is like rihanna and chris brown but different, he needs to get some help and couseling like going to see pastor or talking to his brothers and sisters about the incident. But I wish him well and will be praying for him.

he shouldn’t push her to the ground and they should had talked about the arrangements discussing the custody agreement of their kids. but i would have knocked him upside the head. but he shouldn’t touch her.

LMAO., I AGREE WITH DREADHED, THERE TITLES SHOW THEM AS DIFFERENT, BUT UNDERNEATH THEY R JUST LIKE US REGULAR FOLKS

Said perfectly Lady gemini

i can understant rhianna’s situation my relationship was verbal but u know what i get the hell out before it get ugly and now it make me stronger. im not taking any s**t from any man thats why in single and love it.

thats ashame grown man acting like an ass. my kid dad n i went through the child battle situation n it was hard on my baby also on me back n forth 2 court because he was trying 2 drive me crazy but i pray for him that dead beat. my child is livin with me still he do have visition when its ok with me and its not ok when im providing for my child and ur not so i told him where 2 go. but enought of me he had no right lying his hand on her whats all of this is because of the resession problem in america blk men take care of ur sisters. its ashame.

People we must remember that these people are still human, just like us, yes they are famous but they are still human.I am not saying what he did was right, because it wasn’t, but everybody is making a big deal out of these situations because he is famous, does anybody think about the people who aren’t famous, and are involved in these same situation every single day.

damn… i see everybody has problems. not saying he is right but we know that there is also more to a story then what is put in the report. there are women who are haters and vise versa and will do anything to try and destroy the other persons rep. they say he pushed her to the ground, ok so what happened next…. before the police even got involve. there are case where the woman jump in front of the door and try to stop the man from leaving cause he doesnt want to hear what she has to say, or want to take a brick to his car…. f**k all of this s**t. what about the economy…..lol

whats up with these men beating up on their women like this.

Sometime we women irate a man and belittle them in front of the children -family members-communities and everyone thinks dare he do this, but it not always the man fault. As women so of US have very bad and evil thoughts and they sometimes became tragic. Thank goodness this was not one of them.

Oh but it’s ok when a man irates a women and belittles his wife would it be ok for a women to push him or hit him? NO it never ok for either party to put him or her hands on there partner. What is wrong with you ppl?

so is Oprah going to say anything about this?

Holy holy man of what??? I’m sorry to say it but black folks need a mass therapy session and relationship counciling. I thought slavery was over. Why are we still acting like captives???

Me and my friends were talking about this. They’re fighting over custody. Going thru a divorce. He probably shoved her back out of his face and she turned on her acting skills. Either way she’s going to get money, if she had full custody she’ll get more. And just because he’s a man of God, doesn’t make him perfect at all. If it did go down the way she said, because we haven’t heard his side yet, he needs to ask for forgiveness and repent. He without sin cast the first stone. Only Jesus was perfect!!!!

Pushed her to the ground? WTF?!!! Gimme a break and this is news why?
Oh, i get it, because he is BB Winans. Again ppl, we dont know what happened. But her calling the PoPos for a push seems extreme to me. She wants to be in the news i guess.

Now that pushing is a bit much, but we all know what can happen when folks start fighting when separating…. Be Be ,you and family on my prayer list!

I really hate to hear the term domestic violence but, people need to realize that just because you are a Celebrity does not mean you don’t have faults.

I hope that Bebe and his ex-wife seeks some kind of spiritual counseling because it sounds like there was still the verbal argument before it became physical in front of the kids.

Not a good example for kids to experience. They are in my prayers. JB

Hmm, if he pushed her down and THEN punched her, would it have been o.k. to call the police then? Get Real!

I in no way condone any form of violence, but being pushed to the ground is usually the result of someone trying to inflict harm on you, and you push back instead of hitting them. I wasnt there but I have seen women jump on their men because they know they can get away with it and we push back to regain our space. This is not domestic abuse, a beat down physically or verbally is domestic abuse. furthermore their is no evidence of previous abusive behavior. Sounds like she is crying wolf.

Physical abuse can and should never be justified.But we don’t know all the facts.All we hear is that there was some pushing and falling. We dont know what provoked the pushing and if at all it was and act of violence.Neither do we have accurate facts about Bebe’s attitude towards his wife.But if my experience is anything to go by,i’d like to say that some women are very clever at concealing their wrongs.They can hurt you verbally for years without anyone knowing and just when you lose it paparazzis catch you on cam.Maybe Debra’s one or maybe she isnt.Who knows.

OMG NOT BEBE TOO!!!! (crys)

There is no where in the Bible that Jesus Hit A Woman!! Let the facts come out first before we rush to judgement! Amen
The problem is a man does not understand his role in life! A man must Sumit to God to have a understand of himself then he can understand others!! Watch the Bible!! 1st Corinthians chapter 7

LOL OK HE’S HUMAN, NO IT DOESN’T JUSTIFIES HIM PUTTING HIS HANDS ON HER, BUT HE IS HUMAN, SHE COULDN’T GOT UP AND SMACKED HIM..PUNCHED HIM..C;MON FEMALES YA’LL TO STOP LETTING THESE MEN GET YA’LL BEST..NOW ME, HUMPH, WE WOULD’VE HAVE BEEN FIGHTING..!! I DON’T LET NO MAN SPEAK OR TREAT ME THE WAY HE WANTS..POINT BLANK PERIOD

Damn first the Bishop now BeBe Winans what’s really going on with these men, they suppose to be men of God. Butterfly_Bowles I totally agree with you these females need to start fighting back and stop letting these men treat them any way they want. Maybe you can’t beat them but at least show them that you don’t play that kind of s**t and knock the hell out of them with something.

whether they are bishops or deacons or whatever. they are still human.we all sin and fall short of the glory of God

They really need to update this story because there’s more to this than the headline. Disappointed. “In response to Ms. Winans’s recent statements to the media, the public should also know that on March 11, 2009, Judge Carol Soloman issued an Order of Protection in favor of BeBe Winans against Debra Winans arising out of the incident which occurred on February 13,” the statement reads. “Judge Soloman specifically stated from the bench (and in her order) that Debra Winans was ‘not found to be a credible witness.’”

To be accused of these allegations, which arose out of a child custody right [sic] dispute and my desire to spend time with our children as court ordered, is nothing less than heart wrenching,” he said.

“Since I choose to say nothing negative about my children’s mother, I will make no comment other than to say the allegations are inconsistent with my character and the foundation upon which I was raised and I am prayerful that the matter is straightened out very soon for the sake of our children.” BeBe and Debra Winans have a 13-year-old daughter and 10-year-old son.