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In 1992, at age 19, Gabrielle Union was attacked, beaten and raped at her part-time job in a shoestore. Her attacker later turned himself in and was sentenced to 33 years in prison. The actress recently took to her blog to speak on the gang rape story that took place in Richmond:

So as I’m on the way to shoot Chelsea Lately…I’m sad more than anything. After googling the gang rape story in Richmond and reading comments on blogs, it just leaves me sickened and really sad. The fact that race and socio-economics have been used to explain away a brutal gang rape…just sad…maybe I just have seen every kind of rapist and survivor….every race, color, religion, socio-economic status group…it’s all the same…a lack of regard for violence against women. Tolerated, and in this case encouraged by the mob surrounding the perps…laughing, joking and taking pics.

When I was 19 years old, I was raped. I was working at a shoe store in California, and the store was robbed. The person robbing the store ended up putting a gun to my head and raping me. As he was raping me, I felt as though I was floating over myself, thinking, ‘This isn’t happening.’ I blanked out and had an out-of-body experience, like I was hovering above seeing this ­horrible thing happen to someone else…not me. I was fortunate enough to go the UCLA rape crisis center after this horrific ordeal. It gave me my life back. My dignity and self-esteem were gone and they helped me find them again. That’s why I now lobby for state legislatures across the country and the federal government to help raise funds and awareness for rape crisis centers, and I speak to all different kinds of people across the country about what happened to me. My goal is to never hear the words ‘me too’ from someone after I say ‘I was raped.’

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MissBBL2Sexy/ MissBBL2Sexy

    Oh my,sorry to hear about that!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Da_J_Rok/ Da_J_Rok

    So who was the guy that did it??? This broad is fraud im tellin u

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mamangel67218/ mamangel67218

    How is she lying? The guy turned himself in.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DMY19151/ DMY19151

    YO….LOL..THE BOA Da_4J_ROK IS OFF THE HOOK PEOPLES…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AL-HAQ/ AL-HAQ

    j rok ur an ignorant ass n****r yea i sed n****r cuz u ignorant az fuk y wud a woman lie bout sum s**t like dat? especially her, shes rich she gains nuthn but humiliation by “lyin” don let me c u in real life cuz ima b da nypd an u’ll b abner louima! dumb ass negro (n****r) always got sum ill s**t 2 say bout a “sista”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/joann26/ joann26

    I believe her I remember when she went on the Oprah show and she admitted to being raped when she used to work at a store. That’s so sad that a*****e need his dick cut off.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/joann26/ joann26

    I believe her I remember when she went on the Oprah show and she admitted to being raped when she used to work at a shoe store. That’s so sad that a*****e need his dick cut off.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Da_J_Rok/ Da_J_Rok

    Ask anybody how she get down at any male strip club on Slauson in LA… google it

    Maybe she was raped …I don’t know? All I said is who is the dude, and lets here his story.

    Al_Quack… nigga please u probably the police anyway… and I stay in Warren Arkansas population 7000 all u gotta do is ask who J-Rok is they will point u to me… And the invitation is standing… kocksucka

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/reserved2009/ reserved2009

    Sorry you had to through such a violation. I feel your pain. It’s something you can never get back. It would take a sick person to fabricate a story like yours. Thank God for family and friends to help you get through something as awful as what took place.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jay_dre55/ Jay_dre55

    Its so hard to come out when something has happened to you. If she is lying she will burn for it. But if more people had the courage to come out about what happened to them it would be better for our kids to tell us if someone raped or molested them. Stop judging.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cgordon3/ cgordon3

    I always admired Ms. Union..as an actress and beatiful black woman; now, I admire her even more for telling us about this horrible ct of voilence, and cowardice angainst her.
    Yes! rapist are cowards…they use the power of a weapon to take advantage of someone they have made vulnerable with that weapon be it a gun,knife, drugs or their fist or just brut force, its an always be the act of a COWARD..someone with no backbone.no morales.a twisted sense of what it control/puwer but ALWAYS a Coward.this isnt just a sex crime is more than,that! It is an digusting attempt to dehumanize the victim in away that, the perpatrater sees him or herslf as non-responsible for their henious behavior…and self rationalization..Cowardice to the max..
    We need to put these people away for good or even capital punishment ,It is not revenge to do this esp. in the case when they do this to a child, and the child is found dead in some ditch some where..you can’t rape again if your dead! and most of the time these rapist are repeat offenders..
    Rapist are not the only cowards, Gang banger, gangstas,ganta musics producers, terrorists religiuos and otherwise, KKK, white supremist, cops that use their authority to commit murder etc, these people all are cowards in one form or another black or white..some of the worst are those comit.acts of violence in the name of their god…whether its so called Christains or Muslisms or whomever..
    Sorry to go on like this .. but until someone calls all these folks out for what they really are! ! COWARDS!…we as a society will never be rid of them! We live in an age of cowardice now!
    We need our own courage first and not wait for the other perons to stand up!
    So one day so moms without their babies won’t have to cry,and the Gabrielle Unions’ of the world won’t have to tell the horrible stories ..

    Gabrielle you are as Courageous and Strong as you are Beautiful
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    I am proactive in my community and I will do more in my communitiy to keep the cowards t bay …Gods love nd grace to all of you

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mcbarryb/ mcbarryb

    Sorry to hear that Gabrielle baby.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cgordon3/ cgordon3

    Anyone who thinks this comment was judgemental doesnot know the meaning of the word.. I give props to her Gabielle Union again…..Rapists are Cowards so are thugs and gansta and anyonelse that does a drive by ,blows up a plane …wears a badge shoots shoots some one ,lynches some in the south .sells drugs etcs..they all all the same whether they admit it or not the why would they are cowardz.. Anyone who thinks that’s wrong or being judgemental ???
    And if anyone thouhgt I was Judging Gabrielle…please read it again… I used to think of her as a 10 bur now 10+++++++plus .. rape is no joke….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/panamaniak/ panamaniak

    I can understand what she meant by comments on blogs. That’s why when something like this happens I RARELY read message boards or posts. Just like the Kanye/Taylor thing. Yeah he was wrong but what some “people” were saying went WAAAAAAAAAAY beyond calling him out for having bad manners. It’s a shame that human being are so stuck on what “race” (which doesn’t really exist biologically wise,we are ONE whether people want to believe it or not). What happened to this young lady I wouldn’t care if she was the daughter of the Grand Wizard,I would not wish that on anyone and I certainly wouldn’t post gleeful comments celebrating that someone was GANG RAPED. But then again,I’m a CIVILISED man and care about my fellow human beings as PEOPLE.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/classyb5/ classyb5

    Does it matter if she is a stripper, does that mean it is okay to rap someone. No I do not agree with women using their bodies that way, but to make a statement ” she strips for a club” What are you saying? Wow when are nasty ass men going to get it. It does not make you rap a women because you see them half nude. NO means no. I am soooooooooooooooooo sad to hear this.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cestleon/ cestleon

    I’ve heard this story before. It sucks that she had to endure that. No woman deserves that. Even if she may be a notoriously promiscuous home wrecking freak, she still didn’t need to go though that. I wonder how Dwayne Wade took that info when she told him?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tyrell170/ tyrell170

    I have been amazed by Ms. Union sense the first time a saw her, your my vision of a intelligent and lovly lady, Your one of favorite actress and i love that movie deliver us from Eva. My heart is weaken to hear you were harmed, I wish i could have been there for you and all rape victims. I smile everytime i see Ms. Union on Television. I don’t heve the words for rape, there is no logical way to view rape its some kind of devil sickness that i don’t have the words for. i don’t understaand so much about people do a lot of things i you in the news. Ms. Union My heart goes out to you in a very special way, also to the other ladies that have been harmed by crazy rapers.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mrbluesays/ mrbluesays

    Is she related to that girl in those porn movies ? They look just alike.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BLACKWALT55/ BLACKWALT55

    I AM SO SO SORRY 2 HEAR THAT GAB-I HAVE THEE UTMOST RESPECT 4 U 2 BE ABLE 2 COME OUT & TALK ABOUT IT-IM SURE IT WILL & DOES ENCOURAGE OTHER RAPE VICTIMS 2 COME FORWARD & BE A EXAMPLE – & LET PEOPLE KNOW THAT YOU CAN STILL TRIUMPH OVER TRAGEDY!!!
    GOD BLESS

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/trisha_369/ trisha_369

    Im so sad-to read that this happen to her and IM glad the ANIMAL that done that to her is in the CAGE-he belong in…and SHE has over COME this matter and FIGHTING BACK to HELP other WOMEN who is going threw the same thing. GOD BLESS YOU-Gabrielle Union!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msveevee1/ msveevee1

    It’s like, who hasn’t been raped or molested in this day and age? Isn’t that an old, but heavily sought after phenomenon? I guess when you live amongst sexually driven and perverted human beings, why would it NOT be everyone’s story? It’s disgusting. It takes ppl’s innocent and free will away. I hate men so much for this! Taking it upon themselves to place their disease infested dingalings and throw themselves on someone without consent. Men are truly the evil ones passing that same demonic spirit on weak-minded and weak-spirited women who will just throw they nasty stanking stuff at them. You would think that it would make the rapists and molestors happy, but nooooooo! They seek out the helpless and defenseless to taint and corrupt them. And the chain reaction goes on and on and on. Pretty soon God’s justice will prevail!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msveevee1/ msveevee1

    (Adding…)And I can’t wait til that day comes!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Da_J_Rok/ Da_J_Rok

    I didn’t say “SHE” was a stripper… She is a “Jane/Trick”…even to the point to where it ruined her own marriage…. not to mention, a nice promoter

    Don’t let this be a misconception that I would wish harm on anyone, because that aint what I was addressing… im talkin about her own defects and why this could be just another “Girl Cryin Wolf” for attention

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bettaholla/ bettaholla

    anyone saying this is a cry wolf or whatever negative is the same person i would never allow my kids,so afraid of some of you! good girl gabrielle keep up what u are doing and i commend your efforts..another not only men rape ladies do not forget there are plenty of women that are pervs to maybe some of you better questions some of ya weird ass friends..never sleep on a predator them come in all colors n both sexes! just a lot of men when they come of age are embarrassed to tell there fake auntie or real,,whom ever has done horrible things to them which also lead lots of men to promiscuity..peace and love to all!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bettaholla/ bettaholla

    further how someone going to speak on her marriage like you were a fly on the wall or friends with the former couple..stop believing everything they post..this is a gossip column! smarty!oh my bad guess many are gossips too,so they would not see my point..lmao

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2cutetwinz/ 2cutetwinz

    OMG! Ppl r so stupid we totally agree with mamangel67218 and AL-HAQ why would she lie about this, r yall stupid, retarded or slow which 1 is it. It must b all da above 4 real. We feel bad 4 wat happen 2 her and glad she can talk about it 2 others. 4 those of u dat thinks she is liein jus shut da *uck up cus u dnt make sense.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/toodelicious4u/ toodelicious4u

    I totally feel her pain…. This is sad how people can be so careless that they don’t care about harming another human being. When you are raped or molested, you are not only being physically abused but you are also being mentally abused. This is something that will effect you, your entire life! It will effect your decisions and how you react to different situations. I think that at least 40 to 50 percent of woman have been molested in their life time. And I didn’t forget about our men, we are all victims sometimes!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nikki497/ nikki497

    that is so sad that this has happened to her, hope she keeps her head up!!! she is a great actress not to mention pretty. glad the guy turned himself in maybe GOD will forgive will forgive him.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DeniseLove87/ DeniseLove87

    Yes it’s very sad to hear, I was molested also by a very close close family member, til this day I am still ashamed about it. If you don’t get help for it, it will effect you for the rest of your life. It still bothers me until this day but you know I take it a day at a time. It’s horrible to know that over 20 people could watch this girl get raped and do nothing at all about it, it shows how cowardly they really are.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/truthserumX/ truthserumX

    Gabrielle Union is so beautiful. This is very, very sad, and I’m sorry it happened to her. I wish her the very best.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/truthserumX/ truthserumX

    Da_J_Rok- don’t hurt nobbody LOL!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/PuroMestizo/ PuroMestizo

    If he turned himself in, what could his story possibly detract from whats already said? Common sense obviously ain’t that common.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TMAC_35000/ TMAC_35000

    This is old news, she talked about this years ago.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Da_J_Rok/ Da_J_Rok

    actually bettaholla… My baby mama brother is a male exotic dancer to some of the places that she is a frequent patron, so this aint no internet gossip… u people think everything revolves around the internet… hey there is a whole world out here and celebs aren’t the only people who live in it, just because some of you have no idea how to network and mingle don’t mean we all share your dormant personalities. And to the chic that said somethin about not being around her kids… please… your kids probably dont wanna be around you… snotty nose c**t… ya’ll net lames kill me…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dafinestmama/ dafinestmama

    wow… i was raped at 19 also, by a bf and it took me two years to get ova it

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sekou718/ Sekou718

    wow thats crazy, man idk what i would do but i jus dnt see my self not fighting back or lettin it go…i prolly hav so much anger i’d make sure the person who did that to me suffers much worse.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/innerbeauty09/ innerbeauty09

    This is a sad thing. I was raped more than once and molested more times than I care to remember, and the sad thing is you will never forget. I am now 38 and I look back on my life and see how it has affected it. I became premiscuious and all, I figured why not it was going to get taken anyways. I wished I had someone to talk to back then and maybe my life would be different now. It takes a special kind of coward to do that to someone… yes I said coward. G_D bless her….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/wincie/ wincie

    i read about this before and i’m glad she is speaking out about it. alot of women have been raped or molested in their life. I assumed I was the only one but I realized I’m not

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sternie/ Sternie

    Damn,I swear,every singer and actress was raped before.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/courtneyR/ courtneyR

    Strong lady,very proud of her and her organization against rape..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/courtneyR/ courtneyR

    oh and im loving her character on Flashfoward…Such an intelligent,positive role.And no,Gabriel isnt lying about being raped.This isnt the first time she spoke about it. good grief…unbelievable..are there a few loonies who do lie about it?of course.but they always find out the truth if those women who lie about…newflash..Gabriel isnt one of those lying women…um,he turned himself in,and the evidence added up..sheesh…GOOD JOB Gabby…just goes to show,all races of women get raped and some men as well…

    http://judiciary.senate.gov/hearings/testimony.cfm?id=3898&wit_id=8041

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msveevee1/ msveevee1

    Don’t no men get raped, puh-leeze! Men are so perversely and sexually intuned, when will they ever turn down some sex from anyone?? Men are the perpetrators! Always! The only males that get raped and possibly don’t want it is a lil’ boy before he hits puberty. Now THOSE lil’ men get raped and guess what? It’s always by another man. And guess what again? The ones that are in prison also gets raped. By who you say? Surprise!! By OTHER MEN!! Which states factual evidence that MEN ARE PERVERTED AND DISGUSTING!! Always! And they love when they get weak-minded and weak-spirited women to have fun and be perverted with (i.e, threesomes, lesbianism…promoting homosexuality) and no everyone has jumped on the “come eff me and make squirt bandwagon”. This world will be destroyed AGAIN like Sodom and Gomorrah bcuz of the perverse actions and minds that is being past around like AIDS. From one dummy to another!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msveevee1/ msveevee1

    Another thing…only 2% of women might have raped a lil’ child or minor, but 98% of men have raped women from 3 month old infants to elderly women and even dead ppl. Ugh! Oh yeah, and there is the same precentage that rape other men and young boys. You do the math and face the reality. Nasty bastards!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2daTopnonStop/ 2daTopnonStop

    We gotta do better~ and it starts by raising our girls to believe and know that they are precios and worthy and virtuouse~ then hopefully they won’t put them selves in possible horrible situations~ And the men in our lives will be raised to know and believe the same of women…to protect them and honor them and respect them…had this young lady NOT hopped that fence and went and got drunk w/ a bunch of fellas maybe this wouldn’t have happened….it is NOT her fault but it could have been prevented~

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/_UnStoPable_/ _UnStoPable_

    for a person who was raped,she sure has a whole lot of confidence.which is quite unusual.Gab is exceptionally beautiful and has talent but again only her,the rapist and God knows what really went down that day…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soveu34/ soveu34

    I heard her story before and commend her for having the strength to conquer what she has been through and because of her speaking out when she did the last time and she continues to speak maybe more victims will come forth and the perps will be sent to jail where they belong.

    And who would want to talk to the perp who in the course of a robbery raped Ms. Union I don’t get it but with attitudes like that its a wonder that some rapist are getting high fives, video taping, and having by standers stand by and participate in such animalistic behavior.

    We already know that in some communities rape, incest, domestic violence and child abuse are considered taboo and not reported. We dont need more “Precious” in our communities we need to continue to stand up for our women,children and men and continue to report these type of incidents.

    No one wants to be a victim nor should anyone have to be

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/smileofsunshine1/ smileofsunshine1

    some of these opinions blow me away. rape is very common and often goes unreported because of the feelings of embarassment that go with it. people dont put themselves in a situation to get raped..she was at work..and people can move on from rape and be confident women, not all women get stuck in the incident. and men/boys do get raped. are you serious what about all the boys who are being taking advantage of by grown men and women, not all boys/men consent to sex…men in jail get raped. rape is rape regardless of genderor age, if you say no that should be the end of it.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TMAC_35000/ TMAC_35000

    msveevee1, are you trying to say that 98% of men are rapist?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TMAC_35000/ TMAC_35000

    Also, as far as men not getting raped, that’s just plain stupidity. It happens quite often, as a matter of fact right before I moved here we had a guy get drugged, beat up, and gang raped by 5 other guys.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/flyfisher_20750/ flyfisher_20750

    How any man could rape a woman, especially one as beautiful as Gabrielle Union–or anyone like her–has always been beyond me. Rapists need to be locked up and given treatment to find out what moves them to commit this sort of crime. They shouldn’t be alowed out until evryone involved in the treatment agrees that said individual is no longer a threat to women and has spent ten years behind bars, minmum, depending on the circ**stances.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Diary_Of_A_Hustler/ Diary_Of_A_Hustler

    Smh @ msveevee1- Def don’t know where you get ya statistics from but please your def not educated because that’s some bulls**t. If 98% of men are rapists then every dude in ya fam are 2. and If you have sons I feel sorry for you cause they might just rape ya ass. Smh! Dumb B***h!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jahz_Lynx1/ Jahz_Lynx1

    Is she for real? I have some problems w/this rape tale b/c w/robbery usally perps get in, get the money, and run the hell out. Rape adds time to the job, and if the guy nuts he’s spent.

    Her 2006 account sounds like an Oxygen channel plot. “Thank God for Oprah because her words helped me live.” Union is convinced Oprah’s advice helped her stay calm enough to win the rapist’s trust, which she used to turn the tables on her attacker. She adds, “At some point he put the gun down and calmly asked me to hand him the gun and, at that point, I was like, ‘Oh, it’s me or you, and it ain’t gonna be me today. I’m about to kill you.’ I grabbed the gun, I spun around and did the best I could trying to kill him.” The actress missed her attacker when she shot at him and this led to a fight for the gun, which left her black and blue. The rapist fled and later turned himself in to police after another rape attack.”

    This is confusing. Why did he turn himself in? Because he raped somebody else?

    Thanks a bunch Gabby for all the crisis work at rape shelters. But, “My goal is to never hear the words ‘me too’ from someone after I say ‘I was raped.’” is unrealistic, that behavior goes back to the cave man.

    This all sounds like PR to me. Sorry I’m not more sympathetic. I got my own rape stories to tell so it’s not like I can’t feel for the victim. Men and women can become victims of rape, so watch yourself.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TOTALBODYIMAGE/ TOTALBODYIMAGE

    TO ALL YOU PEOPLE, SAYING THAT GABRIELLE WAS NOT RAPED—-WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU? WERE YOU THERE??? SUCH IGNORANCE!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jahz_Lynx1/ Jahz_Lynx1

    @ Body Image: I did not say she wasn’t sexually assaulted. Please note that. I’ll restate my position that the reporting sounds contrived. For example, she gives credit to Oprah for helping her gain the trust of the rapist. Rape isn’t about trust. It’s about control. Date rape is about misappropriated trust. Being held up at a shoe store is totally different. Secondly, she had the gun and a nutted perp and she missed that shot? Did the gun only have one bullet? At that point she had all the control, esp. if his pants were around his knees. Oh yeah, he asked her for his gun? I’ll admit there a dumb criminals out there but the first shot should have been a warning that his sack of nuts were going to be cracked by high velocity. I don’t believe there is any man who would fight a woman who has a gun pointed at his nuts. Mentally, fight or flight is going to kick in and flight would win that brief discussion hands down. But maybe she was distracted because she was thinking about Oprah.

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