Ok…i’ve read a couple of comments from the first article posted on this site and i have to say, everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion. I can’t help but say that, as another BP member has expressed, there are 3 sides to this story, but does it make it right for Al B to keep silent? I understand that a lot of celebs want to keep things personal, but no “personal” outreach was given at all. I feel Quincy’s pain, because I too have grown up without a father, but to be raised solely by my mother with 2 other sisters. I’m thankful that i’ll be able to “most likely” find my dad one day because I know what state he resides, but other than that, I hadn’t heard from him in years. Quincy, stay strong and continue to be thankful of who truly supports your well being.

It’s a shame that a child has to go to this extreme to get attention from his father. So many fathers just simply refuse to even acknowledge their children. The bad thing is the acknowledgment is all that most kids need…a phone call, a letter, a text…just something to dispell the belief that child has that his father doesn’t love him or doesn’t care enough to be a part of his life. My son’s father is the same way. my son has tried in every way to contact his dad and this guy refuses to even talk to him on the phone or correspond through email in fear that I’m looking for child support. (What he doesn’t know is that I’m not.) I would be happier with him just having a relationship with his son. I don’t understand men that could be this way. How hard is it to pick up the phone and call your child?

why cant he jus b ok wit diddy being his dad and jus except Al B Sure doesnt want anything to do wit him?

This to be said of fathers who don’t acknowledge the attempts that these children are making. Here I am the proud father of one biological son, taking care of my SON and his four siblings and I am not with their mother, BUt I know what it is like to grow up without your father in your life. It is a painful experience but believe Quincy it is just that an EXPERIENCE because it will make you a better man, a better father to your children and over all a better human being. Al B., I’m not going totell you how you should feel or what you should do or should have done because you are not a stupid, careless, heartless human being, at least I hope not. But what I will say to you is “What you put out into the cosmos comes back ten-fold, the bible tells you that, Just as Quincy reached out to you and you ignored him, you will reach out to him, and let’s just pray he is more empathetic to you than you were to him…
Peace out “Stay strong Quincy”……….
Ya Boi,
Treyvion Frantz.

This kid is starting to sound like a whiny little fagot. Ok first letter very heart felt and very understandable. But kid, you HAVE a good father figure in Diddy and MONEY. Shut your b***h ass up.

Al B Sure is a playa he dont have time for kids apparently. Sad story, but true. Alot of black men are like that. Make kids and dont take care of them. But in this case, he has family support and wants for nothing.

I will say this, Sometimes (right or wrong) men have issue with someone else being able to do better for thier child then themselves. No excuses for AL B but I think Puffy being around actually makes it harder for AL.B to man up- because in his mind he has to compete w DIDDY (and we all know that isnt much of a comp on ALs part) Shame is an incredible burden- and sometimes people dont have the courage to face the shame that is part of any road to redemption.

I agree with 2009Producer Boyz. Good points!!!

some of yall are cruel, this boy knows who his father figure(diddy) is, but he wants his dad in his life as well, whats so wrong with that? and for the ppl saying he should just be satisfied with diddy and the money yall r ignorant, i wanna see how u would react if u were in this situation and someone told ur kid that or better yet if u were the kid in this situation.

Ok, I’m a little confused at this whole situation. Yes, Every child deserves a father to nurture and raise them to become a man cause I’m a father of two myself, BUT, I read the first letter and it was very immature and childish on Quincy’s (and Diddy..as a stepfather) part to blast his father out publicly when it was supposed to be a private matter. I never seems to amaze me what new low Diddy will step to. He straight-up remind me of 50 Cent as far as drama goes. Al does need to step up and raise his son like a father should, but I agree with one of the other people that responded..he doesnt stand a chance against Diddy’s bankroll. It wouldnt surprise me if he eventually buys Quincy’s love away from his father.

maybe a handful of men get a little upset when they see another man taking better care of his child. most do not give a damn because it means less money they have to spend or little to no child support. some men brag about another man taking care of his kid. sounds like AL was never around. he was bringing in the dough years ago. i think he was just a deadbeat from the gate and GUILT is why he has not reached out to HIS SON. the son who looks exactly like him. my ex stayed away from our kids for years on end. no calls,letters, and maybe a few visits over a 22 year period. also only 5 or 6 child support checks all my kid’s lives. they are 22 and 19. this was all done to spite me and hurt me. now guilt is eating away at him. he could not even face my mom. when he would see her he’d go the other way and no my mom would have cussed him out she was not like that.he could not even face me. he told my 22 year old daughter that i was going to cuss him out if i saw him. my daughter said no we are grown it is over now. my mother is not thinking about you or what you did in the past. and my child was right. so guilt has consumed him all these years. it has been made clear to him recently by me that we are over. there will never be an us again and believe me he did not want to hear that and he has not called back since. so in other words because we could not be he did not want to be a dad and now he regretts it.

He should have never taken his issues with his father public…as a parent I would be offended by this type of exposure especially since we don’t know both sides to the story….the kinda recent picture with him and his dad indicate that he knows how to contact his father directly ….This kid handled the situation to his advantage …It should have been dealt with in private

Your pops was in the biz…Squirted off in some hot young thang…and you just so happened to come out of the womb looking’ just like the n/gga…get over it…

I wish I had a n/gga like Puff around when I was a kid…*lol* Most people want to come to terms with what they don’t understand…Maybe Al B. Jr, needs to come to terms with not coming to terms…

And go wax those eyebrows!!!! *lol*

why would you have the audacity to be upset? i would have outed my dead beat dad too! that’s rediculous to take offense because YOU AS MAN neglected your responsibilites! hell nah! he should be embarrassed and ashamed. and if not for anything else, he should reach out to his son to get him to quiet down about his fathers lack luster performance to his title. good for the young bull… but i don’t expect anything to come of it.

As long as u takin care of ur own kids, that all u need 2 be worried about. there are some ni99az out there, even famous, that dont ….oh well. next subject pls!

how can al b be a dead beat… child support was ordered and is paid… how small an amout it is based on what damn near 20 years ago when he was hot….. so people please and look at the pics he’s in recent photos with his dad and older sibling… wake up and read the statement and letter he didnt write them sorry to say i mean did you see him on mtv’s my super sweet sixteen thee way he was talking and now he speaks so passionately in this letter this letter wasnt written by him and i agree with others how can he mange to get recent photos with his dad but cant manage to contact his dad…. puffy wow anything to make you look good…. and who can compete with puffy dollars all b sure cant surely he doesn’t have that much money and he doesnt have much in royalities coming in since no one can say when the last time they brought an al b sure (record) or when the last time you saw his name as a songwriter for anyone… this is a waste of time beating a dead horse and if you look to family pics u see quincy with his dad all through out the years so no al couldnt give him the puffy lifestyle nor dream hey my hat goes off to kim i mean she wasnt a top model or a high paid model just a chic who lucked up with al b sure when he was hot then puffy now she go kids so hey the checks will never stop coming in…..

TYPICAL FILTHY HALF BREEDS

al b sure i s not only a homosexual but so is his eldest son

this is oahtetic

no afrakan man who is in fact an afrakan in spirit would do this to his child.

i feel nothing for this half breed period

al b sure feels inadaqute as a man im sure the days of him f**king with ldy boys is ovr but he cannot hep but think damm puffy an afrakan man looks better then me and also has more money then me

but at least we both homosexuals

plain and simple

al b sure feels inadqaute as a father which drives many men away i feel maybe he should just say im not man enough to be ur dad!!!!!!!!!!!

tragimulatto syndrome

p.s

blckplanet keep feeding the sheep this ignorant bulls**t like anyone who is anyone cARES BUT I WEIGHED IN ON IT AND HE NOTHINGTO ME BUT A HALF BREED HOMOSEXUAL WHO HAD A SON KNOWING DAMM WELL HE CANT TEACH HIS SON S**T BUT GIVE HIM EMOTION FILLED PEP TALKS.

TO AFRAKAN STANDARDS THIS IS PATHETIC

i Still say the letter is a fraud. Now why would Quincy write a letter and give it to this website? all the connections that diddy has, this letter could be in any major blk owned magazine. Why here. From what i hear Quincy has a relationship with his dad, its not as tight as the one with Diddy, but thats only b/c his mother lives with diddy off and on.

Ok, maybe he didn’t need to air this out in public but we all have to cope the way we feel best. Maybe this was way he thought he could get his dads attention. But, I can see from the pics with his dad that even though they have pics together you can tell that they aren’t close. All of the pics with Al B. Sure looked posed for where as the ones with Diddy look like you can see the connection between the two… Just my opinion…

I am in the same position my dad was and is still a complete a*****e and he would use my mom as an excuse not to take care of me. My little sister has it even worse. Thanks to my mom for holding up the fort and I was able to help as an adult with my little sister, so we hadn’t missed out on anything we both had plenty as kids even more than some with two parents. But my point sharing that is if I have a problem with my dad I will take it to him not let everyone in the world know. He is not the only kid with a deadbeat dad. I think he is trying to gain financialy from it. And if thats what he is trying to that good for him. But it’s not gonna make his father change.

BTW, I mean’t to say hats off to Diddy. Even tho I don’t really get with the whole Diddy way of life. I have to give him his props for stepping up and being a father figure to a kid that he had no obligations for. Even during the times when him and Kim were off he was still handling things with dude… Thumps UP!!!

publicity STUNT.

yo this quincy dude is mad sexy..lol..anyway this is sad..your own son putting yo on blast and you still dont want to reach out..hmmm..

Man Al B. Sure is trippin! Now that is the son that should have been called Al B bc he looks just like him. He need to grow and be a man and try to be there now. And far as Quincey goes if he has not reached out now dont worry about it he will eventually just move on and do you!

THANK GOD FOR STEP DAD’S. IT TAKES A VERY SPECIAL MAN WILLING AND WANTING TO TAKE ON ANOTHER MANS’ CHILD

know matter what the reasons were for the letter the child is obviously going through some things nad is still having serious issues getting over the fact that his dad is M>I

Al B needs to get it together!! You know what they say, “what goes around, comes back around.” I just hope that he comes to his senses and reaches out to his son. I have mad respect for Diddy for being a father figure to Quincey. Not many men today would do something like that.

QUINCY IS TRYING TO SELL RECORDS BECAUSE IF IT WAS THAT SERIOUS HE WILL NOT BE WRITING BUT KNOCKING ON HIS DAD DOOR

and so what they have new photos together. hell my 22 year old has a new photo of her and her dad an he was and is still a deadbeat dad. like i said he was not around for years. so anyone can get a picture of the absentee parent if you only see them every few years or longer..

In response to what stokes 44 had to say about this child just trying to sell records, he may be doing that and im pretty sure that he has the talent to do so. As far as knocking on his dads door, thats not his responsibility. His dad should be man enough to acknowlege that he has a child and try to reach out to him. I’m pretty sure if Quincy reaches a certain level of fame his dad will be more than happy to talk to him. If I were Quincy, I wouldn’t dare write another letter to this man. He has reached out to him more than he should have to. Quincy move on and be happy with the father that has always been there for you and don’t look back.

young man all i can say is be the best man that you can for the rest of your life…in this instances don’t be your father’s keeper. show him what being a man is all about. just know that when you look in the mirror you will see his face until you forge your own identity.. much love boo

I don’t understand why he takes care of his other son and not Quincy. I’ve never understood why “fathers” decide to be good parents to select children and abandon the rest. Its not money (cause he has plenty), he cant say he’s not his (cause Quincy is his little clone), is it baby mama drama? What’s up with that?

Leave Al alone!!!! He only has ONE eyebrow for god’s sake! His son looks like him, only better, he’s prolly angry n jealous. To top it off, a person better at music than him is helping raise his son…could life get any worse?

Life is such a harsh and cold world Men are to set a stone foundation fro their children mostly when it comes to yound boys. My father wasent in my life not by choice but my mothers choice! I have twins and their father does nothing for them three years and counting and he has only seen them a hand full of times. Hold on young man gain that inner peace that you wan’t so much and go hard in everything you do never give up never slip up and when you have your children spoil them with love and know you will not let them down!

I didn’t have a father growing up either… I’ve looked for him & asked questions about him, but still none of my questions have been answerd… i make the best out of life & i try to make sure that none of my children experience none of the things that I’ve been through in life, not to make the same mistakes that I’ve made… I know that u want to know your dad & when I was young I was a big fan of your dads, I’ve still got his first album on CD, but you have a lot of things that some of us out here don’t have & didn’t have & thats a mother that loves you dearly & a step dad that loves you very much…. what I wouldn’t do to have DIDDY as my step father… “I WOULD BE HAPPY & SATISFIED WITH THE FAMILY THAT GOD HAS BLESSED ME WITH”…. You could be doing a lot worse…. Just thank GOD & be thankful for what you do have cause I would do anything to be in your shoes right now, just to be able to sit there, listen & learn from my mom & Diddy… To be able to learn from him & soak up all of the knowledge that he has to offer, thats like a dream come to to me…. If your father doesn’t respond to your letters then so be it, thats his loss not yours!!! you have a chance right now to do whatever in the world that you want to do, you have the resources & connections right ther with you to do & be anything in this world that you want to be so take advantage of it while you have the chance, because life waits on no one…. we continue to grow older each second, minute, hour, day, & year so don’t waist your time you have a life to live & to become the man that you can be & the man that your parents “your mom & Diddy” know that you can be…. so with that said sit down & think about what i’ve said…. TAKE CARE “MUCH LOVE, VEENOM915″

why does he need all this public attention? He should just find Al. And B.Sure he tells him in person what he is really feeling.All this airing of family laundry is a bit over board. He’s not the only kid that doesn’t or hasn’t had his dad in his life. But there is not section in local news paper to publish it like it is here.Oh i forgot they’re rich and the kids aren’t…come on BP Editors. Print some real news.

I THINK ANY SITUATION WHERE A PARENT IS ABSENT IS SAD. BUT AT THE SAME TIME YOU CAN’T MAKE A PERSON DO WHAT THEY DON’T WANT TO DO. I’VE TRIED FOR MANY YEARS TO BOND WITH MY FATHER, BUT HE NEVER REACHED OUT TO ME. IT HURTS BUT IT HAS ONLY MADE A STRONGER WOMAN AND ALSO HELPED ME TO TEACH MY SON HOW TO OPEN UP AND BOND WITH THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIVES. AL B. SURE MAY HAVE SOME ISSUES I DON’T KNOW , BUT HE’S REALLY MISSING OUT. AND CONGRATS TO DIDDY FOR BEING THERE FOR HIM. SOMETIMES IT’S BETTER TO JUST LEAVE WELL ENOUGH ALONE.

For one thing I totally understand where the boy is coming from. For those of use that didn’t have a father growing up its a cry out for them. When I was a child i used to write my father letters every week and get no answer and after a while and years and years of writing letters i realized that i just needed to let him go just like he let me go. But its just a cry out for his father but if i was him i would be like forget Al B. Sure, Diddy is a way better father to him.

I didnt meet my real father til I was 32 years old. There is a “deep need” inside to know and have a relationship with your biological father. Although it wasn’t right to put their business out there like that, I can understand why he printed the letter.

I’ve always known who my father was, but as I went through life he wasn’t there for me. 17 years is the number of years that I spent without my father and I really haven’t had any father-figures in my life except my grandfather who past away 9 yrs. ago. I’m now living in the same city and state with my dad and it still feels like he’s not there. One thing I can say for sure kid, “keep moving on with your life and don’t focus too hard on wanting a relationship with your dad”. In times like these there are reason’s why we are without the things we swear we want but often times don’t get.

I would like to share with you that you touched my heart! On a daily basis I struggle with the fact that my children do not have their fathers in their lives! It is no fault of my own they just chose to leave them behind and make them feel unimportant! Everyday my heart hurts but they know that I love them and that I am here 100% for them! Men out here need not lay down and make children that they will never raise it is not fair to the children! I have found a man who has stepped in and taken on the responsibilty to raise my children as his own!!! He works two jobs and goes to college and it makes me easy in life knowing that someone really does care and can make a difference in the lives of kids left behind!! Keep your head up because in the end he will suffer harder than anyone else trust me! God knows what he is doing and it seems you are living your life and that you have a bright future ahead of you!!!

I think the letter to his dad was a good he just letting him know he still him but further I thingk Diddy need to stay out of that child feelings about his father what goes between him a his dad and I say Al should just make a call or show and speak to his son.

I understand in a way where he’s coming from. My dad was there for me growing up and its always good to have a father in your life. I’m thankful my dad was there,but sad to say he passed away almost six years ago. It’s really hard not to have a man in your life and I understand what he is going through. There ain’t a day goes by that I don’t think of him. I had to go through some of the most important times in my life without him being there and I know it hurts. Its hard to know that he wont see be there for the birth of my first child or to give me away. I really hope you connect with your father because its the right thing to do. Peace and Love!!

WELL ALWAYS REMEMBER, “OUR FATHER WHICH ART IN HEAVEN”

I feel his plight. I have reached out for my dad and he reached backed when it was a convenience for him. But the Blessing of it all is that Quincy had a father/daddy in his life and is taken care of him like the DNA is there. Alot of kids growing up including myself didn’t even have that. If Al B. Sure doesn’t reach out, that is a sad situation because Quincy seems like a very well-mannered child. I wish Quincy all the best.

Keep your head up Quincy!!!! If your Dad doesn’t come around, you know that you tried. Just put it in the hands of the Lord. That which does not kill us, makes us stronger. If your Dad doesn’t come around it is his lost. I admire you for opening up such a serious portion of your life to the public. That takes heart and character.

Love Always
Boss Diva from New Orleans

DEAR QUINCY

HI MY NAME IS MONA I WANT TO SHARE THIS WITH YOU, I TOO WASNT CLOSE WITH MY DADD AT ALL AT THE AGE OF 21 MY FATHER STOOD IN MY FACE AN TOLD ME HE WASN’T MY DAD AN HE WASN’T MY DAUGHTER GRANDFATHER. THAT HURT ME SO BAD I CARRIED THAT BURDEN ALL THE WAY UP TO THIS DAY AND I’M 35 NOW JUST LAST YEAR MY DAD DIED 4 DAYS AFTER MY B-DAY AN WAS BURIED DAYS LATER.I TOLD MY DAD AT THE AGE OF 21 THAT HE WOULD REGERT SAYING THAT, SHORTLY BEFORE HE PASSED I STOOD AT HIS BED SIDE AND TOLD HIM I WAS SORRY FOR WHAT EVER I DID TO MAKE HIM NOT LOVE ME. HE LOOKED AT ME AND STARTED CRYING AND HE TOLD ME IT WASN’T MY FAULT THAT HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN STRONGER AND HE FINALLY APOLGIZE TO ME AFTER 34YRS OF MY LIFE IT WAS A RELIEF BUT YET I WAS STILL AT A LOST FROM HIM NOT BEING THERE. BUT AT THE SAME TOKEN IT WAS A BURDEN LIFTED OFF OF ME BECAUSE NOW I KNOW ALL THE YEARS HE DID LOVE ME, SO LET YOUR HEALING PROCESS BEING ALWAYS LOVE YOUR FATHER BUT UNDERSTAND HE HASN’T GROWN UP YET AND ONE DAY HE WILL REALIZE WHAT A GREAT LOVING SON HE HAS AND ALSO APPERICATE THE LOVE YOUR MOMS AND STEP-DAD GIVE YOU AND YOU WILL ONE DAY GET TO THAT PLACE WHERE YOU WILL SAY YOU DONE YOUR BEST YOU CAN BRING A HORSE TO WATER BUT YOU CAN’T MAKE HIM DRINK IT!!! SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSTIVE PEOPLE AND YOU WILL FEEL MORE LOVE THEN YOU KNOW YOUR FRIEND MONA NOW YOU TOLD YOUR STORY AND I SHARED MINE SO NOW HERE I AM AND I’VE PUT MYSELF ON BLAST LOVE MONA exquisitelady33@yahoo.com i always need a friend hope you will read this!!!

I understand what you are saying, I’m rising my neice and trying to get her to understand what my wife are trying to do for her as been a challenge. We love my neice with evrything we have but we also know we can not replace her mother and father. We hope one day she reallize what we are trying to do.

Dearest Q,
ive too been in your shoes and one day i got tired of trying to be the daughter and told my father if he wants to be my dad he know where i am at…see he left me when i was 12 and never came back and sweetie i am 32 and all these years later i went from being an only child to i have 3 sisters that live with him in newyork city… so i too miss him but babay you cant wait your whole life for him to come around…..bump him he must not know who your step dad is… you have a world most of us dream off so just put it out of your mind for now but i have a great feeling that he will come around….you got mr combs to fill that void for now…. honey i wish you the best and i will pray for you for i truely know what your going thrue..only diffrence my father aint rich!!!!diddy keep this young man spirits high show him that your love is all he needs…. i wish yall the best and quincy if you never believe anything i say believe this he will be back!!!!and look at diddy and sho him thanks for being that light that you needed….and always remember the father you have in heaven….good luck to you and your family……….

My letter to Quincy!

Dear Quincy,
I can understand you missing your biological father in your life and wanting to reach out to him. However, you went about it the wrong way. If you really wanted to make things up and reach out to your dad, I bet you could have reached out to him through a third party without embarrassing him through the media. You are selfish and you are seeking to use this to make a name for yourself.

Truly,
NYCsmoove(aka the truth)

Well one thing for sure. Any man can be a Father, but it take a real man to be a DADDY. No more need to be said. God bless you. Keep the faith. Love always Stephania

That’s effed up, AL can support his other bird chested son “Lil’B Sure” (at least he did on the reality show) but not Quincy? Why? SMH….

I’m sorry, but I believe that there is more to this than we are told. Don’t put Al down until we know the whole scoop!

Its wrong how after everything he said about his father in the letter and how every emotion was shown! he still cant be a man and show his son that he really do love him or have some type of feeling in his heart! Diddy is a better father to Quincy than Al and thats looking from the outside in. Imagine how it is for him not having his real father in his life.

Look my father dont give a damn he got 14 kids and my mom had two my brother and i and he was never there for me but i never knew y it took till i was 18 to answer that million dollar question.It took his last baby mother for me to put 2 and 2 together the only way my sperm donor was upping anything meaning tlc, money,attention anything was only if the mother as having sex with him. He maybe ya father but diddy will alway be your daddy. trust he would sole want he weep..at the end god will handle him

Im 28 years old and Im my fathers oldest child and he did for me when I was younger and with my mother. But when he lost interest in my mother he moved on and made multiple chidren wit mulitiple women and he has a certain two kids that he gives all his attention too because he is in love with their mother and she doesnt even want him…I have still been there for my dad even if he s has not been a good father but he burnt me out with not appreciating my love and forgiveness so we dont speak anymore…Im a lil upset that we are not close but Im so over it cuz guess what he is the ASS!!! His other kids just use him and rob him blind… good riddance!!!

I’m a single mother that understands the heartache and pain that a boy child have. I tell my son that God has a plan for you, and this is just something in life that will make you stronger. See these dead beat father’s never know when they might need a glass of water and u refuse to bring it then they will relize the tables have turned.

I will put it this way, there is not doubt that Al B Sure in this case is the father, as maury would say, Al you are the father, the damn boy is a spitting image, now thats the number one reason why AL is wrong, second make no excuses for a man as his mother will do until the day her son dies, a man can’t be a man if he wasn’t shown how to be one by a real man, third his son should continue to reach out because Al will always be running until he can’t run anymore, fourth regardless of what we don’t know, what we do know is that your son needs you even living under Diddy, now how real is that, living with a man with money wanting to be loved by one with less, so lets not make this a he said she said, because from what I see He said Al ain’t S**t! lolol

I believe there is more to this than we all know , it is easy to jump to conclusions. It seems to me all last year I saw Al B and Q in photos together on multiple occassions. Again I will reserve judgment.. We all know his Step Dad is the master of Hype.. and doesn’t this boy have a Rap CD in the works..I wonder who’s label he will be on

OH an BTW everyone is praising Diddy but what about him spending time with is daughter in ATL.. True he might be a role model to ALB’s son but what about his oldest son and daughter

I FEEL LIKE THIS IF AL B SURE WANTS TO RUN FROM HIS WHAT HIS SON IS SAYING THEN I THINK HE IS A REAL BIG ASS FOR THAT…..SOME DEAD BEAT DAD’S KILL ME WITH THAT S**T AND THEN WANNA COME AROUND WHEN THE KID GETS MONEY OR GET WELL KNOWN FOR SOMETHING GREAT YOU HEAR IT ALL THE TIME….MY FATHER WASN’T THERE FOR ME EITHER BUT IT’S FUNNY HE FOUND TIME FOR HIS OTHER KIDS…AND NOW THAT I’M 27 I FEEL THAT I SHOULD FORGIVE HIM BUT I DON’T HAVE TO FORGET THAT HE WAS NEVER THERE FOR ME….I HOPE QUINCY FINDS TRU HAPPINESS FOR HIM SELF….

diddy has aids

well i kinda feel his pain a lil bit cuz iam 25 years old and my dad wasn’t present in my life and it wasn’t until i started my own family i found out that i had four more younger siblings one of them which he hasn’t seen since she was maybe two or three ,now i know the boy is hurting from him not being around but sometimes you gotta let that s**t go and understand it’s not worth holding on to which something that i came to grips with on my 25 birthday when i had to move my father’s younest daugther in my house because she had nowhere to go . and as for the sister that he hasn’t seen since she was 2or 3 she’s honors student at the university of maryland NOW AINT THAT GREATNESS FOR YA ?

we all kinow what it is. al was on the top in the late 80′s and diddy has been on firesince ’94. it hard to be like that when that was you and now you just another dude in the street and al may feel like his son see as less of a daddy figures cause he doesn’t have figures like diddy. i hope that isnt the case

unfortunately i didn,t even know about this situation or letter.but what i have to say is this.the youngman looks jus like his father.whom i use 2 think was very cute and was smitten by for years when he was in the lime light of his musical career.i don,t know the full story,or any of it.as far as how they got to this place or his son ever existed.but from personal experience of being a single parent of a youngmen myself.i know how having an absent deadbeat father can shatter a boys self worth and self esteem.of being brought up with jus a mother in your life.exspecially your adolescent life of coming into your manhood.we as single mothers do our best to raise and guide our boys into well established and healthy well adjusted boys to men.but as you can see thru our society many still fall between the cracks .to the drugs,crime and jails.my plea to these fathers is even if you haven,t been there for your sons and boys.it,s never too late to reachout in their lives.they still want to know what they did soo wrong where the man that help them be concieved.feels he no longer wants to be around to help him grow and be worthy of his love and care.whether it,s emotional.physical,financial or otherwise your son still needs you in their lives to structure and be there in there lives.what if all women abandoned and became abscent deadbeat mothers to their girls.where would they be how would they establish their women hood to become perspective mothers and ladies.we must all learn that no child asked to be born.and your born to a family you don,t get a choice or pick.be responsible for your decisions and actions then,now and forecoming pls.and men pls don,t interfere or try to make a rights call when some other man is doing the job of raising and taken care of your seed.when you dropped the ball.but give him his due respect and together both be in his life and contribute to his well being.and know you both can claim your respective roles and place in is life.my son is now 22 going on 23 and his very bitter and resents his father abscence and involvement in his life.he says it don,t matter and he don,t care.but i know better it,s in his actions and destructive behavior where it shows most.i cry in private when i see and have seen the pain this man has caused my son thru the years and still causes.i never kept my son from knowing his father.or being involved in his life .even when he couldn,t or wouldn,t contribute to him financial or otherwise.because he could no longer have a attatchment to me.he chose to seperate the bond with his son.which i feel is so wrong.i hope in the end quincy you get some kind of closer with your father son.i think most are so ashamed in ignorant that they stayed away that they don,t know how to approach them or come back.i pray for you an your fathers recociliation and hope all turns out well.i pray all boys can forgive and move on even my son.don,t hold on to a grudge.if god takes you to it.he will take you thru it.have faith in all of our father.the man above will never be a absentee father.amen

I feel his pain I spent most of my child hood in foster care ,and I know how it feel to try and reach out to your parent and there not around. Son you have a great step dad he has treated you like his own and you will one day face your father and he won’t have much to say like now just be a better man to your seeds and all will be well

all i can say is a damn shame. I have heard through the years about him never seeing or reaching out to his son even as he reached out to him. Al b. Sure has missed out on some wonderful experiences that only he and his son could have shared. It is his loss for his son looks as if he has grown up to be a wonderful young man in his own right. You will get through this with spirit intact.

this is so old. already heard it on mediatakeout and bossip.

SO SOMEONE TELL ME THIS IF THEY HAVE NO RELATIONSHIP WHY DO THEY HAVE PHOTOS TAKEN TOGETHER FROM THE LOOKS OF IT THEY ARE RECENT PERSONAL PHOTOS OF HIM AND HAS TWO SON? I AM CONFUSED

hi i live in georgia,and i was raised with my father.and for yrs .and i reached out ot search for my father i found him&his family living in savannah ga. and for yrs his wife who is deceased as of 2003.she said that they was divorced&she didnt know where he was,he never even knew i called that woman.but just so happen a p.i. was running a ad in our news paper and i wrote the p.i. a letter.2wks later i got a reply from the p.i.he sent me a letter and a map of where my father worked as a security guard in a liquor store.i drove to savannah 1 even&i asked a police how do i get to the address to where he work.and the police said i will escort u.and thats what he did.the police walked me into the store and ask for my dad.and my father come outta the back part of the store.the police asked him did he know who this young lady was.he said to the police,”yes,sir.she looks just like me thats my baby daughter freckles.and he just cried.so to say all of that u grew up with the grace of god to be a nice gentleman.and god has bought u this far,hes not gonna fail you know.god bless you&your family,miss freckles in georgia

dont know what it is like to grow up w/o a dad but I do know that not all male species who have seeds deserve to be called a dad or father when they have no parts of raising their seeds. More like a sperm donor if they have no regards for the seeds that they have planted. There is a reason why so many of the youth act like they do, because they are missing a vital instrument in their life, the man who made them. Its a shame how menfolk can spend a lifetime trying to be all that and have total disregard for their seeds. Those who are responsible, good, youre supposed to be, but for those who have no parts in their childs life, God will get your azz in the end! You cant run but for so long. I say this to all of those types, if you dont want a child, dont create one and then abandon her/him. A you women who allow those men to impregnate you thinking he will stick around, its just a ploy to get your cookies and bounce! Come on now, time to be more responsible and wiser when it comes to bringing life in this rotten world! Will people ever really learn?

THANK YOU LORDROCK! Look at the pics. They have some type of relationship. This is a publicity stunt. He probably about to drop an album or somthing. Who would make a letter to their deadbeat father and make it public? Al B probably dosent want any part of it. So stop giving this lil dude sympathy and put down th violin.

I must say i’m not surprised at this blk men for the most part rarely stay around to be a father or dad and some are half ass fathers they feel because they give money that makes them a father speaking from a single mother rasing a daughter it’s sad when i kno my daughter will grow up with a father who rather do him than be a man and be a father thank god for the strong women out there when will men and women stop bringing children in this world they are not ready for

I want to say something.First of all,I’m sure that you (Quincy)are going through a very trying time w/out your dad in your life.Second, you are a very strong & wise young man to be able to reach out in a very public way. I had my dad in my life & I love him dearly, but sometimes it may be better that he wasn’t there.I dont know the circ**stances as to why he wasn’t there & I wouldn’t wish that on anyone because I know how I felt missing out on some time in MY kids lives, but you have been blessed to have a mom & stepdad who TRULY love & support you.So many of us (even with BOTH parents in the home) dont have that. God bless you & stay strong.

I had my father in my life until the day he closed his eyes which was the saddest day of my life. and I truly thank God that I didn’t have a dead beat dad… or a dad that could not man up and be a father to his children… I miss my father and I enjoyed my life with him.

I am really tired of him “looking” for his daddy. Al B. Sure is on the radio in Los Angeles and I listen to him everyday. Why you can’t find him? I think you just trying to rub his nose in it….cuz Diddy is your stepdaddy. Not sure why your relationship with your father is strained…what does your mother have to say about the situation?

Yo i think this is a ploy to get the masses on his side, and from my understanding of how it was back in the day up in NY. Al used to have his kids and baby mama with him when they were out and about, hell i even saw them a few times myself!!!! Something is fishy just to put ya Pops on blast like that in the media, maybe the Diddy money has gone to his head or whatever!!!!

AND NOW SOME WORDS FOR MR. AL B- IM NOT SURE I WANT TO BE IN MY SONS LIFE. YOUR SON IS IN VITAL TIME WHERE HE NEEDS HIS DAD. YOU MAY NOT BE A READY TO BE A FATHER TO YOUR SON BUT HE NEEDS YOU. AND WHAT YOU DO MAY AFFECT HIM LATER. SO I SAY THIS AT LEAST REACH OUT TO HIM AS HE HAS DONE TO YOU. BECAUSE SOON YOU WILL BECOME A DISTANT MEMORY TO HIM IT DOESN’T MATTER IF HE HAS A STEP FATHER IN HIS LIFE YOU CAN STILL BE THERE YOU ARE APART OF HIS GROWTH AND HE IS NOT TO BE FORGOTTEN WHATEVER BAD THINGS YOU WENT THROUGH PUT THEM ASIDE FOR HIM BECASUSE IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU ANYMORE AND I KNOW THIS IF HE’S PUBLICLY REACHING OUT TO YOU THEN HE’S HURTING AND JUST BECAUSE HE’S A BOY THAT DOESN’T MEAN HE’S EMOTIONLESS. HE’S STILL HUMAN SO IF YOU READ THIS SHOW QUINCY LOVE BEFORE IT’S TO LATE AND YOU LOSE HIM. I LOST MY FATHER AFTER 34 YRS OF MY LIFE AN I SIT IN THERAPY FOR IT AN I STILL CRY I’M STILL MY DADDY’S LITTLE GIRL EVEN THOUGH HE WAS NOT IN MY LIFE. AND I MISS HIM AN HE PASSED LAST YEAR 4 DAYS AFTER MY B-DAY DON’T LET IT BE THE SAME WAY TO HIM. I KNOW WHAT IS TO NOT HAVE ALL MY CHILDREN THERE BECAUSE OF STUPID MISTAKES I MADE. BUT I DO TRY TO MAKE IT BETTER NO MATTER WHAT IT TAKES LOVE MONA exquisitelady33@yahoo.com

i feel ya pain cause i too kno what its like to grow up with out a dad.its sad to know that my daughters too will grow up without their daddy in their life.im going to make sure they grow up to be strong women.but keep ya head up and stay strong.u never kno,he might need u one day.

RE: my_adidas_shelltoes…. to you who are you to judge anything like that. You think a boy of his age and status needs to call out his dad.. NOW!!.. why would he wait so long? You really dont think maybe he tired of Diddy and just want DAD… not make reason for the past for how a parnet treat their child in th future. So what he way there then.. where is he now.. when he needs him. If you were in his shoes, with all the money and fame.. when close doors and walls start to get close all you can think about is that missing link. So before you judge the young man goal with his dad. Think of all the kids that need and what their dad and they dont have a father figure like Diddy… plus Diddy ego love nothing better than to be the better MAN. To Qunicy making the first step hoping for the best is always the way to go. Much love sweetheart.

i woud say something negative to you but that would be typical for most people but i will say this read what you write parent not parnet here’s a hug to you

He’s so cute, kinda reminds me of a friend looks wise. This isn’t surprising, just cause you have money doesn’t mean you’ll do any better than a lot of other men out here. I have a brother who has 4 children & so far has been around mostly for one and sometimes I want to tell my nephew to be happy he knows his father & have shared time with him & received gifts & gone on trips & has a good relationship with us cause his other brothers & sister dont. The oldest ones are in their teens the oldest being 18 (im 22) and met him for the first time when he was 16 & already I believe he knows us better & has a stronger bond with us than his own father but we all know they’d really like to have a relationship with him. It’s somethin that takes time for a lot of kids & I can only understand some of what Quincy’s goin through.

Stop pity party for this kid and take another look at situation here…it’s not like this kid grew up without a father figure in his life. Besides, he grew up having everything he wants. What about those poor kids in the projects without their fathers and their mothers struggle to put food on the table? From What I understand, Quincy is going to be dropping an album soon so he found a way to build a fan base while bashing his dad in the media. Good going…I bet diddy is behind this.

agree wit NYCsmoove 100%..

wtf he cryn about??..

smh

oh lord whos daddy is in they life? lol….but not everybody step daddy diddy either so lol….but whatever he just needa keep his head upa nd move on and count his blessings

WOW!!! all I have to say to Quincy is that your Dad needs to learn from you how to be a REAL MAN sta8-up. by you writing that letter to your dad and is willing to forgive him for what he’s done and he still isn’t talking to you???? WHAT are you serious??? I just don’t know how your dad can leave with himself, I was going to say all this negative stuff about him but I really don’t need to, JUST LOOK AT HIM, HE’S PLAYED-OUT, PROBABLY BROKE, YOUR STEP DAD DIDDY WILL NEVER LET YOU GO WITH OUT, SO THE BOTTOM LINE IS I FEEL SORRY FOR HIM AND I KNOW YOU DO TOO, just live you life and continue to do good, GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF HIM, THAT’S FOR SURE!!!!!!

no matter if there is a father figure in your life a man still wants to know and be apart of “father’s” life, plus he probably feels even worse cause al b sure is all in his older sons life, that’sgot to be hard to swallow. when a dad chooses one son over another… al sure was grinnin when the other son was on show about celeb kids singing.. but can’t take the time to be in quincys… its rediculous.. don’t make kids if u don’t want to be there for them.. period!!

@NYC..The lesson here apparently is that material and wealth does not replace the love of a father. Rejection hurts on any level, but to be a man (or boy) who is rejected by his own father is something else.

what it do wit you Quincy? im sitting here reading your letter and i feel u on so many levels. i grew up around my father and he never showed me any affection,still til this day we dont speak when we see each other. i have learned that as long as you accept yourself and the people who are there for you.but i know how it feels when the one person you really want to be there isnt there, you walk around feeling kinda empty inside.i know that u have wonder people around you that will always be there for you. the only people i have in this world to keep me strong and to hold me up when im down is god up above, my twin brother and my little sister. restore your faith in god and he will guide you and keep you strong. be easy brother and stand strong on your feet

i feel wat he is saying because my father has done the same to me, but have done better with my life than he has and i own all my thanks to my wonderful mother and step father.

Al B. Sure…that was a b!tch move not reaching out to Quincy after he poured his heart out in that letter! Love your kids! they need you man!

Man…this story touches me…because my kids(boys) are 4 and 1 their dad is treating them the same way. He will not be involved in our kids lives I’M THE ONE making all the efforts for him to be involved in their lives. I’m on the verge of giving up! My oldest he is smart (he’s only 4) he tells me all the time ….momma I don’t wanna talk or be around my daddy because he acts like he don’t have time for us. That hurts so bad for my baby to say that. I just pray all the time, that he will eventually wake up. See what he is missing, and will miss if he don’t wake up soon!

THAT LETTER TO YOUR DAD WAS BEAUTIFUL…KEEP YOUR HEAD UP YOUNG MAN…..YOUR DADS 1ST ALBUM IS A CLASSIC….BUT HE NEEDS TO GET OFF HIS FAT AZZ AND HANDLE HIS BIZ!!!…NUFF SAID

I know y’all are gonna crucify me for this, but here it goes. Something doesn’t smell right with this whole scenario. It smells like a publicity stunt.
I haven’t seen my father in 30 years. I might write him a letter, but I am not gonna put it out there for the world to scrutinize. Whatever issues I have are between me and my dad. The world don’t need to know about them. Plus, what young, teenage dude is willing to put enotions out there like that. I’m not hatin’, I just think something smells a little fishy.

man thats some crazy s**t how does that make you feel al?im sure like a dead beat dad that you are!maybe thats why your career came to a halt karma!

F**K HIM U DONT NEED HIM CORY U GOT SOMEBODY THAT LOVES U UR MOM AND STEPFATHER F**K HIM AND HES OTHER SON DONT EVEN LOOK LIKE HIS ASS AT ALL BUT HE SPEND TIME WITH HIM LOL NOW THATZ SOMETHING FUNNY BUT HOLD UR HEAD UP BAY BOY HE WILL NEED U AT DA END ON HIS SICK BAD AND DA ONE WHO HE SEES AND TAKE CARE OF GONE BE DA ONE WHO HURT HIM AND LEAVE HIS ASS DIEING SO NO WORRIES ON UR PART U GOT DIDDY LOVE, YOU CORY CHERRY_ICEY69 HIT ME UP IF U LIKE UNTIL THEN IM OUT AND U GOT TWO PPL THAT LOVES U TO DA FULLIEST

Ok wtf is goingz on with this bull. Al come on man be a man, and take care of your son you laid up to have not diddy, i just dont understand y men want other men raising their kids. my dad has never been there for me either, and i have daughters whose fathers are not in their life. keep ya head up lil man. an no matter what forgive him cause GOD will handle it.

I know a lot of yall are gonna raise hell for me saying this but there are two sides to every story. Everybody is on Al’s case but lets face it we don’t know the real situation. I myself was not raised in a 2 parent home. My parents split up before I was born and can’t stand each other for their own reasons. My dad was around even when I didnt want him to be. We don’t know if Al and Baby Momma had drama that affected how he was able to interact with his son, or if this is really not some publicity stunt or something. Also someone made the comment Al be with his son who don’t even look like him. Looks don’t determine paternity. Secondly how the hell they get those pics if Al and
Quincy don’t ever see each other. People don’t buy into everything at first glance there is always more to a story than meets the eye. If it is truth then Al need to step his game up if not look at it this way. Maybe he was not around so a better man could be dad to you.

Also you know everyone is all on Al’s case, but you see diddy more with stepson quincy, and his other kids than with his son with that stylist. No one has said a thing about that. All I say is I need the whole story before I jump to conclusions.

Not really the smartest thing in the world to put someone on blast like that. I agree with the last comment about the pics. Obviously he has had some contact with his son. It isn’t like he drove thousands of miles just for a pic. I am sure the pics aren’t fake. Grow up, get over it. It isn’t worth the effort for a deadbeat dad. You shouldn’t really put your personal matters out in public like that. It only makes you look foolish. I wouldn’t respond to someone putting me on blast…especially when everyone do not know the full story behind him “not being around”. Maybe it was you and your mother that decided not to have him around.

Did I really just make a comment on this garbage? I just wasted 5 minutes of my life reading and responding to this bullcrap…shame on you.

i been threw the same thing before…ive been trying to reach out to my father for 10 years now…and he never onced tried to call nor write me back….if u ever wanna talk my email is kevonchaejenkins@yahoo.com….just know u need the people who is taking care of u now…he’ll be the one with regrets not u

Yeah there’s always two sides to the story, but on the real if my son was calling me out I would step up. I aint hating on Al, but its not like he’s asking for money. He probably gots more money than his dead beat father anyways. Be a man and step up fool….

It’s always difficult when a kid KNOWS who his father is but sometimes if a father isn’t in his son’s life check tha mother’s story on why. There are times when her own vindictivness against the father carries over in the things she says about him to his son and what son is going to call his mother a liar? A man does NOT walk away from his son unless he is just a real sad case as a man himself BUT he can be driven away by his son’s mother NOT wanting him to be in his son’s life. When women stop acting like their kids are toys to play with and start realizing that that “toy” is going to grow into a real adult one day then you’ll have less single parent homes and men to be there in their cildren’s lives.

alpha111906 is a total idiot! that boy was having some issues, obviously. you dont know when those pics were taken, maybe Mr. “off on your own girl” been missing in action lately, and the kid wants to know where he stands with his pops. maybe he felt putting him on blast was a last resort for his fathers attention. Al B. Sure’s other son see’s him often. you should not have wasted the last 5 min of your life even saying anything! sometimes drastic measures is what it takes…idiot!

oh yeah and diddy’s kid with the stylist is with him alot too….speculations….umm, umm, ummm.

January33 you don’t know anything about either of them…so resorting to name calling is making you the idiot…no that isn’t the way to ask for help….going to a biased media..that only puts unnecessary people in your business…you don’t know s**t about that family and you are making assumptions about them…so f**k off dumb ass. Those pictures were taking..doesn’t matter when…that means he was in his life at some point and the guy is saying like he was never ever in his life…dumb dumb..you are speaking like you know Al or his kid…you are not Judge nor Jury so stay out of grown folks business…he is not your kid…he is someone looking for attention…he has many avenues to get in touch with his father…why doesn’t his mother step up and go on the media and tell all their business as to why they aren’t together and why Al isn’t there…bet you 100 percent she has something to do with it…but this isnt’ a soap opera nor my life so i stay out of it..all that I care about is my wife and kids…no one elses…you should too….dumb ass heifer.

January33 you don’t know s**t about “diddy” or anything else but what you see on tv…so don’t make dumb judgements about someone’s personal life…dumb people like you makes stories like these even more pitiful…there are kids out there that don’t even have money…food on the table…and this spoiled little punk is concerned about someone who he claims is not in his life? Move the f**k on…stop wasting time caring about Rich kids business…worry about the kids in your community..help them find their father instead…idiot

Oh and by the way January33 you should spend more time on the thread mill instead of reading garbage and insulting other people..fat ass

Its a million more stories out like this. Why is this news?

Only reason this is printed cause he rich. Its hella blackmen/teens in jail with the same story. And yall damn sho aint bout to print they letters to dad.

LOL@Alpha (male), you know you ‘wrong’ for that! But anyways, I totally feel everything you said. I mean, c’mon! WHO put this twin up to putting his dad out here on blast. That sh!t is and was just plain wrong, wrong, WRONG! Look at those damned pictures. They weren’t taken THAT long ago and I do think there is some sh!t stirring in the pot (publicity stunt) and think it’s SO wrong for this kid to even go this route to blasting Al…

Like Alpha stated, Al’s IN the industry…and PUFFY IS your step daddy with A LOT of connections…so what’s the hold up or problem in reaching your REAL father, son? Ain’t none. Thought so.

Amen @ Willtenit. In jail or out of jail…there are a lot of stories like this. This is ONLY news because Puffy needs attention and is using Al’s son to get it. Seems like he’s using this boy to make AL look like a dead beat, out of touch, father. Puffy’ll use ((ANYONE)) to further his agenda to try and make himself larger than life! Ask Mary! Ask those girls he ((rocked and dropped)) in Danity Kane-and if you THINK he wasn’t ‘hittin’ ALL of that, you crazy! Hell, ask SHINE (one minute he was on TOP of the world, now he’s wasting away as the FALL guy in a damned JAIL cell!) and so many others who have been PUSHED to their iconic deaths by Puffy! Watch and see what I tell ya. What ever doesn’t come out in the initial wash…always comes out in the final RINSE!

Puffy’s got this boy’s mind all twisted….smdh.

Quincy has been with Diddy since he was very young Diddys kids call him big brother so in my opinion this is not a Diddy stunt

Well alpha 11906 you are right we don’t know either one of them,but because of that we don’t know if he has been in his life or not.That picture means nothing.I have a picture with my sperm donor from a couple of years ago,but he was not and still is not in my life.Obviously there is something going on if his son wrote that letter.Nobody knows what’s going on if you are on the outside looking in.

I really don’t think diddy needs to do stunts any more he’s diddy. Not the cool to put that on him. Q, wanted to do what he did how come he did we will never know that’s a teenage young man dealing with the life he’s the one that did it. Diddy loves this boy and why wait until now to use him. Come on, why blame him. At least he’s been there, when he talks about his children he always, always mentions Q, so come on don’t blame him. I thank him for stepping in I don’t know why and for what reason all this happen I don’t walk in the diddy circle of life. But I thank you for being a father to a young man that needed one. D be blessed

well i think that it prolly is a stunt by diddy…..in a way…u kno how puff got that swag about em…he can get ppl to do things without reaaly telln em….we all know that he the stepdaddy and we all know that he been takin care of q for many years. But wats wit the letter Q? y u aint call daddy and cuss em out for not being in your life..?Y momma aint got em on child support…another thing, if you gotta write a letter post it nation wide, as a cry for love to your daddy then, you dnt need his sorry red ass. Kim need to tighten up and nip this stupid drama in the bud b4 al b comeback wit sum mo b.s. and this thing keep goin on and on…

Hello
Quincy
I’m a 51 ‘single mom 0f 4 kids that God has entrust ‘ bless me with .
All of are in college and doing well , with No help of there dad I cannot even say Father, Anyway keep u head -up and keep it moving , this has nothing to do with u as a person There are some people Who just and cannot be a good role model ,this is deeper u can u know and it really with u mom and Mr Al B Sue r. U are a very strong young man , U have did what is need for u to move on with u life .
It a very sad day when u child is more then a man then u are .
Know this Mr Q ‘ God Has this in every way . So get busy doing what young people u age enjoy life.
Brynn

I can’t beleive some of the things you guys are saying, look around to see how many people are in this young man shoes, this is black planet and i can promise you 9 times out of 10 people on here grew up without their father, like i have, and untill you have walked in those shoes, you will never ever understand how that feels… So i feel his pain, no matter if your step father is diddy, your real father or mother is just what it is and no one can take that place, no matter what.

And by the way, dang he looks just like his father, how could you not be in someones life that looks like a mirror image of you, even if he didn’t look like him it’s still not right but hey, we really don’t know what happened to al b sure and kim, i have always been a fan of al b sure, so i hope you find it your heart and man up because your son loves you no matter what..

I can most definitly relate as to were Q is c**ing from because I grew up in a home were my biological father was not there, but there was a male role model in my life, I grew up wit my step-father since i was about 7, and I give alot of credit to him, but at the same time I luv my biological father as well, I don’t any harsh feelings against because I was able to c him when we had a chance to get together, my biological father past away about a year ago and I thank god that I was able to start developing a relationship with him before he passed, so evethough ur dad hasn’t responded to ur letter he will soon c** around just make sure that ur there with open arms so u all can start building a future and just remember that it is never to late for ur dad to c** back into ur life, when the time is right u will both know, just embrace it with all ur heart because you never know when that chance will be gone

Quincy, you are going to be alright and if your father can not be the man he is suppose to be then the man who you have been coming to with all of your problems and talking to about LIFE, that is your father not by blood but by love. Diddy loves you as his son but Al is only a sperm donor and let it be. He should know how it is in this world of ours with the female being the mother and father to their children……You did not make a phone call to him to talk to your dad….YOU POST A LETTER FOR EVERYONE TO READ ESPECIALLY YOUR BROKE DOWN-ASS FATHER….then you don’t need him like I said early the man who has been there for you is your father and Diddy might not be hurt by this but says that he understands but he just wants you to be happy and if that means posting your open letter to your father makes you happy then be happy and if does not answer you…..PLEASE BABY DON’T BE SAD, DON’T BE ANGRY JUST BE GLAD THAT YOU HAVE SO MANY PEOPLE ON YOUR SIDE THAT THE HURT YOU ARE FEELING WILL PAST AS SOON AS YOU……1 STEP BACK AND REALIZE YOU ARE LOVE ….2 BREATHE….3 JUST GO RIGHT ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND LIVE LIVE LIVE
Be Blessed Q and remember you are with many in the same situation but you sent an open letter and like if he don’t answer you by letter or any other way….be glad that you just made friends with the world and the world loves you for you are going to be a man and a good strong respectable man and God loves a man whom takes care of his own……………..take care and keep doin your thang

There is two sides to every story, for some strange reason, im not buying this story! Why go public with this situation? What role is ur mom playing in this? Why r u just now doing this?

Just in time for the album release!

I keep reading the comments that we don’t know what Kim did to Al, But in all actuality does it matter? Does Quincy need to be punished for Kim’s flaws? Did he ask to be born? Did he do something as an infant that sent his dad running? The answer to all of the above is NO! The child didn’t ask to be here and sure as heck can’t control what happened between 2 adults, nor was there anything he could have done to deserve to be abandoned by his father. Stop using the 2 sides to every story line as an excuse to be bad fathers. Men grow up and accept your responsibilities. For those of you who think Kim is behind the letters I ask you this? Al is broke and she has Diddy what the hell would she get out of making her son reach out to his dad in this form?? Teenagers have their own minds and if this is the manner in which he chose to express himself then so be it, but I’m sure his mom didn’t put him up to it. Many of us have written letters we just weren’t in position to have them published!

This is not a new story. Quincy has been begging for his father’s attention for years. On his sweet 16 party(that aired on the tv show “my sweet 16″ Diddy said he called Al and offered to fly him in to the party for free. Al didn’t come. what excuse could he have for ignoring his son. he doesn’t have to see Kim or Diddy. Both have said they will send Quincy to him whenever and wherever. I know it hurt Q to see Al on the tv show(where celebrity’s kids sing trying to get a record deal) with his other son, but won’t even call him. that is just cruel. i don’t much care for Diddy personally, but i give him big props for loving and raising a son that isn’t his, the same as the kids who are. At least Quincy has one male in his life to care for him. Al you know you wrong.

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He should reach out but its easy for us to say that! we have no idea whats going on behind the scene, it could be some really deep stuff going on. Sometimes a mother can cause a riff between dad and son and then want to step back and say she had nothing to do with it. From the pics i saw he was spending time with him at some point, so what really went down?

Damn AL! somebody needs to call nino to come stab yo @55 up again. just casue light skinned niggas with out don’t mean u should turn your punk @55 back on your son. Bro u the reason girls put niggas on childsurpport. step up bro and get at your boy..

From reading everyone’s post. I will say it again. Most people have grown up without a father in their lives and have become successful adults with their own families. This is not something that should not hold you back in life.What doesnt kill you makes you stronger.But making letters to your father public is just playing the sympathy card to increase sales.I hope these letteres arent true because if this young man is truely talented he dosent need to do this because it is not going to help the situation with his father

AL, AL, BROTHER WHAT IN THE WORLD ARE YOU THINKING ABOUT? BE A MAN, A FATHER, STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND HIT THAT HOME RUN WITH YOUR SON. HE’S CALLING FOR YOU. LET BYGONES BE BYGONES. YOUR SON IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE. DON’T ALLOW EMBARRASSMENT STILL YOUR EGO. DEAL WITH IT. BE THANKFUL THAT YOUR SON CAME THIS FAR WITHOUT FALLEN UNDER THE STEREOTYPES OF OUR YOUNG BLACK YOUTHS WHO DON’T EVEN KNOW THEIR FATERS.

This letter made me very emotional. I share the same experience with Quincy but to see someone else reach out like he did is makes it even more emotional. I hope that you get what you want out of your relationship with your dad. I grew up on Al B. Sure! and I would like to think he is the man that I always believed him to be.

WTH !? I cannot believe what Iam reading. Yes I too grew up without a father but my mom was a very independent woman and didn’t take s@#$ from a man so there went that. And to top it off my greatest love, my fiance and father of our son (who was 2 1/2 @ the time, died of cancer @ 38 just as we were starting our life together. He didn’t have money BUT what he had was far greater than that. He had a love for his children that was unsurpassed! I was really mad at God for calling him home so soon, especially when there are MF’s like you still alive running around breathing and sucking up oxygen causing heartache for your offspring you ignorant a@! but DAMN ALBERT BROWN aka Al B. Sure I am Soooooooo effened dissapointed in you. I had such admiration for you brother back in the day not to mention that you were a hottie back then and I was “just” thinking about you last week wondering what happened to you and where you were? Now I know( in the bottom of some ordinary aluminum old school trashcan with the maggots) and just for the record both myself and my fiance are what our people call light, bright, damn near white. Stop giving us a bad name punk. That boy looks JUST LIKE YOU..You must hate yourself.Well now I hate you too. You make me sick. Good luck on your worthless existence.Don’t look for any support on ANY lame ass comeback. Your son is more of a man than you are and as far as the whole Kim Porter issue, I don’t care what she did!!!! THATS YOUR BLOOD

Oh and one more thing I don’t really care for the Puffy, Piffy, P Diddy or whatever big head is calling himself these days. He has never been one of my favorite anything, he’s arrogant omungst other things and personally I feel like if it wasn’t for that fact that Notorius B I G is gone He would still be Biggie’s stage wing man or close by riding on his coat tails but apparently he has SOME worth which is more than can be said about cha !

TREYSEI IT NOT GOD FAULT THAT YOUR FIANCE DIED WHEN IT IS TIME AGO IT IS TIME AGO PEOPLE LIKE BLAME GOD SAY WHY DID YOU LET MY KID DIED OR ANOTHER FAMILY MEMBER DIED WHEN TIME FOR THEM TO GO THEY GO EVEN YOU WON’T HIM GO BUT IT HAPPEN.
JUST BE IN LORD AND FAITH STRENGTH IT WILL GET YOU THROUGH .