At least Diddy can one thing right. lol!!! But this a good letter though. I grew up with both parents. So I never had to go through being fatherless.

I totally feel u. Stay up Q. I share the same “spitting image” situation. My dad was cross country as I was coming up. As a grown man, we’re getting to know each other as grown men. It’ll happen. I didn’t really have pain, because I met my sibs on my dad’s side kinda early. I was doing ok. I was like, 10. And I knew they needed him, too. but anyways. Thanks if u ever read this. See u at the top, Kindred Spirit!

I know exactly what he is feeling… my father has caused me some incredible pain, and I’ve had to carry some enotional baggage, but like Q, I ‘ve found strength in knowing that God strengthens me in me weakess moments… Greatness is calling me.

See I don’t like a lot of things about Diddy but this is one reason why I can’t really get on him. He stepped up and was a father to another man’s son. I will always give him respect for that combined with the fact that this is one thing he does with NO PROMOTION. He never makes a big deal about this, just does it like it is normal and the right thing to do.

Nuff Respect from one of his harshest critics.

Dear Quincy, your letter is very inspirational to me. I am not young, but I have been a fan of Al B. Sure’s since a teenager. His music inspired my life and I thank him for that. I still listen to his music today. I am also a fan of your stepfather. He is a great artist!!!!! However, I also grew up without my father in my life, but I do have a relationship with my father, one noone could separate. I know I am not a star or whatever, but I grew up to be a wonderful person and was a wonderful kid as my mom says. What I am trying to tell you whatever his reasons may have been do not let that stifle your life, be the best person you can be!!!!!!!!!! I did!!! My mother and father had a bad break-up and I have suffered every since but you seem grounded and wonderful, so stay that way and seize your life and become that special someone you are developing into. I like what you wrote and I visit my father, but he never visited me when I was young, but hey, that’s life, trust me, you will be great.
love,
cyndii from Alabama

WOW…that fella looks JUST like AL B Sure…I thought it was him at first.

IM GLAD HE FOUND SOMEONE TO STAND IN! EVEN THOUGH SOME MEN AINT WORTH IT I DONT PUT ANY NEGATIVE LIGHT ON MY SONS FATHER TO HIM CAUSE AT 7 HE KNOW IT ALL MOMMY! BUT I DO ENCOURAGE THERE RELATIONSHIP SO HE CAN SEE FOR HISSELF!

OMG. This letter brought tears to my eyes. My son is 17 now and has had a Pop-Tart father (my ex-husband) in and out of his life. Just not dependable. My son considers his uncle (and godfather) his Dad. And that Uncle is my ex-husband ‘s older brother.

Although neither he nor Diddy are perfect in their actions with women in their lives, they’ve been there. No excuses, no stories. JUST BEING THERE IS WHAT COUNTS!

Im glad to hear a story like this one, although I always had both parents in my life…Prior to me my mother had two older sons and even when my parents split my Father was still always there for them doing for them as there so called daddys should have Financially and Emotionally Im glad to see there are other MEN out there that are the same way

unibrowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!

I USED to be a Al b sure fan. I jsut lost all respect 4 that man. nNig, if u can b there for your 1 eyebrow, u can be there for your son. The box curl is over!!! y yall still tryn to ressurect it? let it go!! cant stand men like that. But quince, keep ya head up. Al dont know what he is throwing away. KEEP UR EYE BROWS SEPERATED! & keep writin these letters. it will help make YOU stronger as a preson and as a man.-kittens

Man please that kid is cuddling puff daddy bcuz of his fame and money. EVERYBODY loves a winner. I think Al B sure split bcuz he knew kim porter is one shady chick. I mean look at her..having 4 kids with 3 different men.

Ofcourse, Puf daddy would make a good dad. Every bi-sexual blk man with money always makes a great dad.

chicago_he ….SHUTUP!

omg!!! do you really think a 16 year old wrote that letter?

you know this is a good story and i can relate i haven’t seen my father in 35 yrs but i have had a step father that i have known all my life i am leaving in two weeks to go to mississippi to meet my real father side of the family for the first time in 35 yrs i am a whole nother life to them and i am excited but nervous to meet them but i said that to say this i still recognize my step father as my real father but i am going down there to get closer so big ups to quincy

hes older then sixteen now tho ma…

I can feel where you are coming from man because i’ve been in your shoes so i know.keep ya head up man and pray,live,love and laugh abundantly.

Yea He’s Gotta Be 19 At Least Now

WOW!!! that’s simply amazing what he wrote!!! just keep doing what you’re doing Quincy, you’re GOOD, but your father is gonna have to answer to GOD and that’s NOT GOOD!!!

got the unibrow and all! nice letter though

That was very well written. I can feel were he’s coming from but at least he had father figure in his life unlike me. No matter how much I dislike Diddy, I do respect him for stepping up to the plate.

ya”ll really need to stop stealing stories
from mediatakeout .com
stop hating!

I think he’s a spoiled li’l brat and doesn’t know the WHOLE story of grown foks business. (His momma & daddy)
I agree with QueenLonda when she wrote:
queenlonda
omg!!! do you really think a 16 year old wrote that letter?

I also agree with Chicago_He when he wrote:
chicago_he
Man please that kid is cuddling puff daddy bcuz of his fame and money. EVERYBODY loves a winner. I think Al B sure split bcuz he knew kim porter is one shady chick. I mean look at her..having 4 kids with 3 different men. Ofcourse, Puf daddy would make a good dad. Every bi-sexual blk man with money always makes a great dad.

Wow! That boy is so eloquent. Proof right there that not having your biological father in your life does not give you an excuse to be a failure.

I wonder how this makes Al B feel…should make him feel like sh*t

I think U said it right blkmail4u1

He looks like a cross between a young Ginuwine and Al B. Sure….lol

I agree with blkmail4u1, how do we know that Kim didn’t just up and leave to have someone else take care of her kid…I’m kinda going through the same situation with my fiance and his psycho BM, hey in short, there is always more then one side to a story.

@blkmail4u1 wtf r u talking about? Kim has 3 kids by Puffy and 1 by Al B. Sure-her oldest. Her youngest two are twin girls-so she only gave birth 3xs by two different men both who she was in long ass relationships with. Know your facts b4 you talk about ppl-especially if you are tryna down grade them. SMH

This story has reminded me so much of my situation that I wanted to speak out about it, anyone who cares to offer any advice, from personal experience, please don’t hesitate to hit a sister up…

He looks just like his dad Al B. Sure-I dont see nuna Kim.

What does Al B and Kim Porter’s failed relationship or how many kids by how many men she had… have to do with whether Al B was a stand up dad? It’s a sad but too familiar story. Even sadder was the individual that posted that the kids is a spoiled brat because Al B didn’t man up.

No one knows thewhole story but what is knwn because it is always been stated is that Diddy takes care of that boy as if he was his blood child. This is all he knows the life style he knew the lifestyle before he got old enough to fully enjoy it. For whatever reasons Al B Sure wasn’t in his life the way a father should have been that is his fault he missed out on the most important things in his son’s life. Diddiy picked up the slack and took him to places and showed him things in the industry. So we really can’t comment too much about him being a brat or him not knowing the whole story cause we dont either but why continue to let people say your a bad father and your not in your son’s life and speak up for yourself if that is not the case. The truth is his father should have been planning his 16thbday party not his daddy and if his father didnt plan it still go to it he didnt even show that was something important to his child who cares about how u feel about his momma or the man who has been playing the father in his life all these years. He is at the age to where he can speak his mind and if he is stateing that his father wasnt there for him like his daddy was that is his right and we cant comment on how we feelmhe is a spoiled brat or just a child he is old enough to speak his mind and let his father known how he feels and that isnt easy all the time so good for himhe got thecourage to tell his father how he feels i just hopehe gets the response that he was looking for and nothing negative out of it

i just wanna reiterate what this young man has already stated… “To all those fathers out there, step up your game!!!”… and im about to email this to my baby’s father right now.

I got to say this about all that. If the mother was an @$$ through-out the child young life while the father was trying to be involved then it’s hard to be in a childs life. Especially if the mother is difficult to get along with. I mean who wants to be scuffles and a war of words each time the 2 meet. What do you do when the mother and father don’t get along the child stays with the mother but the mother uses the child as daggeling piece like a trophey that you place on and off the shelf. Like Pimp C stated “I gotta baby but his mama act like he ain’t mind”, “wicked women use’n children to live on, wanna hurt and try to hate cause she know the trill is gone”. So what does a man do if this is Al B Sure situation, I don’t know if it is or not. But what does a man do when the mother of the child does not recognize him for the things that he does weather small or large. Alot women like to say that child support is something that man is suppose to do or it’s a given. Well, my dad was at home with me and I didn’t get a child support check every week. I was lucky to even get some money if I didn’t have a valid reason for it. He was thier and he still is and he’s a good man but at times when he started to act like the stuborn @$$hole that he is, arguing and fighting with my mom. I would wish he was not there. But I never wanted another man to be my dad, that’s ghetto to me and ignorant. I don’t care what the relationship is between a child and the father cause you only got one dad and one mom point blank. See from what Blue_AKA stated is very true. Because for some reason people like to take the women side in a baby mama, baby daddy negative situation. You have ghetto people out here that think all men are suppose to take care of woman no matter what, and then it’s like were did the independent woman go, but that’s another story. All in all I have a situation also to were each time the mother of my child gets angry at me she does not allow me to speak or communicate with my son. I pay child support and I use to give extra when I could until I just saw that she did not appreciate the extra that I was doing, again weather it was small or not. I believe that some women have sold their self so much on the fact that the daddy is some where spending money that he does not have on who knows what. When in reality most women need to relize most baby daddy are not that baller that most women mistake dudes for just because of his car or cause he keep money in his pocket or a guy wears nice clothes, and when the time came to hook up the guy may of talked to ya real smooth to make you believe he was something. When all in all he was just after ya underwear which most females when times calls be after same thing and the aftermath can end up in having kids. Then some were some how out of the blue the female creates in her mind that just because a baby is in the picture holy matra-what ever and jumping over brooms is suppose to happen. I could be rambling on and speaking non-sense but I feel I have some valid points and that’s my blog and post to the ” A Letter To My Father”. I agree with who ever called ole boy a spoiled brat I believe that to by just looking at him. I may be wrong but people with sense don’t go around calling people their dad at random and knoweledge of the real dad is there..

can you say ghost-writer? money talks…but it could be his thoughts, i mean fantasia “wrote” a book…but i digress. we don’t know the details. could Al B. Sure be hatin’ on Puff? Could he be jealous of the fame he has and wish he would have been able to reach the pinnacle of success Diddy has? Probably. Is it just the last straw that his own son would prefer Diddy over him…like is that just too much to take? It would be for me if I were him. There are a lot of deadbead dads. I had one. I’d say statistically, many of us did. But who knows the real circ**stances. I feel for dad and father…and hope and some point they can work together to make it right.

Ok PPl, how in the world would this website get a hold of this letter. Its not like al b sure would give it to them. i have read several stories from this site and have found them either untrue, or very misleading!

I’m a single parent myself and my daughter knows her father. He isn’t thefather that I thought he would be but it is -what it is. My daughter doesn’t take to well to any man trying to fill the role of “daddy”..Children come into this world LOVING thier parents..especially daddy..Sistas where ya at!!! When momma say “No”. They run to daddy..And when another brotha try approach momma even if momma and dad are splitsville most children don’t make it easy for another man. Not at all..If there isn’t a void to fill…..then most children aren’t very receptive of another man…Just a little insight..

i just wanted to add that there are to many deabeat dads in this world that don’t know that importance …as well as the impact they have on these children(sons more so) by not being in their lives….it’s a harsh reality that it hits the celebrity world just as hard…letting us all know that they are very human too. i’m not crazy about puff…but i respect his business savy,and now a new found repsect because he stepped up tp the plate and ate everything off!!!! so he gets mad cool points for that!…be blessed fatherless children, and stay strong and positive ; )

man….

I got one more thing to say. Bcause somebody stated that Al B sure should of planned his 16th birthday. How you know Al B Sure still got sure money to plan anything dammit that igga is just Albert now. Ga-Dammit dude ain’t put out a record since 1988-89 something like that. I mean were do some people think money come from trees. Diddy got money he’s a mogul in the game. Ga dammit he can take care of me every body that done posted a blog on this muth*(***** our kids and then some. So yeah, hell I’m grown I might call that ni*** daddy if he chose to call me and say. Created_2.. I’m gone take care of ya, and I’m gone be like “Shid okay daddy I mean diddy” I got a daddy but you wanna give me some money and take care me I not going to turn it down hell prices going up on $h!t not down. But if the father is being taxed by child support then got bills on top of that. If he owe records company labels and some more. Were is the dude suppose to get funds from. I guess it don’t matter as long as he would of planned his son birthday and still provide money for the mother right. Everything else is out the door right. For some reason some black folks think a man is suppose to work harder than a woman, and the woman suppose to lay on her back and do nothing. Again what happen to the independent woman. I guess she disappears when she gets tired of doing it on her own. But us men we’re not human we suppose to keep on keeping on right broke or not still provide even know you don’t give to ya self to show the child how it’s really suppose to be done. Another famous quote from the movie “Baby Boy”. How do you give you child something if you don’t have anything to give to yourself”. I just feel as if some mothers think the father is suppose to live under a bridge and give a million dollars each time the mother ask for it. Cause in this world you got some selfish b!tches out here real talk. Ask diddy how much he was shell’n out to his baby mama before he married her. Hell It’s cheaper ta keep her right. And beat the $h!t outta of her when she act up..That’s what it feel like some women want…. But hey again I could be wrong, and oh yeah that’s another story

i want to say. that family is all you have left in the end. So if there is a man out there with out your children then thats on you. I dont care if you cant get along with the mother there are ways to get around all of that bull. I know women play games and its wrong but to the fathers you would not let another man tell you you could not see your child. so dont let the mother tell you that. you cant duke it out with her physically but you can duke it out in court . and to the women who play those games you need to grow up and stop using your kids. the courts can and will make her make those kids available to the father if that what he wants. now he has to have a stable safe place for the child to be and means to take care of the child but if any man wants to be with their kids they can. I been there and me and my daughters father did not get a long but i did what ever i had to not to see him. for a long time we communicated thru his mom and his sister or on paper. so you dont have to see her if you dont want too. so stop using excueses and be fathers to your kids. and women let go of the luggage and let you kids have their life with their dads. just because it didnt work for you dont mean it cant work for them. and to everyone if you dont have kids yet. in this world today life is too short so when you have kids if you dont do nothing else a child needs mother and father. and if you have a children and things are not right it not to late to make it right.

One more thing yal..In life we do pretty much what we want to do. Regardless!!! We do what we want to do so the comment about mom being in the way it just a bunch of hot air!! It’s called “Be A Man” …If a woman is keeping the father away from their child..it’s a reason..What woman don’t wan’t her child to be happy and with a healthy self image. What woman don’t want that for her child???Doesn’t make sense…If a man really wants to see his child-he will.People do it all day every day-it’s called family court. Judge Hatchett will help you..That’s not the issue.Kim wasn’t keeping him from this child. Us women need a break from time to time.We love our children but sometimes we want to go to the mall without them and without having to pay a sitter.Shoot-forget the mall. We would love to go to the bathroom without one of them knocking on the door.!!!Sistas yal know what I am talking about..a shower in peace would be LOVELY!!! Now don’t get me wrong;I loved AL B Sure and I’m not judging anyone because I wasn’t there but I will say this most women want their children to have relationships with thier fathers.

And somebody please explain to me what makes a dead beat dad. Cause if you can’t find the igga but don’t really know if he’s the childs father then what makes a deadbeat dad. The father is in the home with the child but don’t never communicate with the child, cause he always in an arugment with the woman he with. Again what makes a dead beat dad. The father wants to do for his child like diddy is doing for somebody else kid. But daddy works at mcdonald gets child support taken out of his $5.00 an hour check but the baby mama scream it ain’t enough. Again what makes a deadbeat dad. If you say the igga got me pregnant and I ain’t sceen him since. Again still what make a deadbeat dad cause yo @$$ should of been taking birth control like ya lied and said ya was but ya wasn’t. You was so infactuated with the rims on a dude car that made you wanna have his child… Again what makes a deadbeat dad. You get child support but every other igga that step in yo face you spending the child support on him, the other igga I mean, or you going to go get cha hair, nails, feet, and toes done to catch another trick. Again what makes a deadbeat dad. Boy some of u black women and women in general love to put black men and men down period no matter what the circ**stances are as long as you’re getting your way. Again what makes a deadbeat dad

Listen brothas if you are doing the right thing and your child’s mother isn’t , the law is on your side. Go to family court and get visitation for you and your children. Don’t allow anything to come between you and your child/ren

Hey lil mama that court $h!t is out the door. I gotta pay 1600 as a retainer fee just to obtain visitation rights and I ain’t did $h!t to my baby mama but not want to be with her point blank. I really do got a baby mama that give me a hard time about being in my childs life. Cause I don’t want to be with her. Other women tell her that they wish they had me as a baby father.. Or they wish the father would just call. No reality is point blank some of you women are really crazed after the fact the father is gone. I wish it was that easy for me to obtain my son when I wanted to see him. But I have to deal with police, and then the courts. I don’t like court nor do I have 1600 to spend on a lawyer because of stated law. Some of you women need to be placed on child support and have us men lose our emotion on ya and see how you deal with it. Some of you women got tricks up ya sleeve, don’t even know you are using them.. and then some, but hey I’m done with this blog I gotta log out this mutha*&**** and find a way to make it rich cause that’s the only way to shut some of you black women with kids up. And you all still think you entitled to half for some reason

MZJAXXEN.. my situation is not that easy. I’ve called my son lives in Tenn I live in Texas. I broke the whole situation down for you to understand I would be here all night. It easier said than done lil mama.. Come walk in my shoes and you will understand… Child support laws are not on a man side.. when it comes down to it. Take it from I know.. cause I done tried some $h!t and I still am. And to who wants to be on T.V. exploiting their self. Oh and it should not have to come to that between a black man and a black woman. Sh!t ain’t us black men and women been in court enough

And all that take about duke’n it out. Don’t noody want to fight. I would Ray Caruth my baby mama if I let it escalate to duke’n it out. You can’t solve eveything with volience or thinking you just gone take a revloution to ya baby mama or baby daddy. You baby mamas don’t have that issue with us. Because most of us when do act right and in the picture most of us dudes are willing to work with the mother. But look it seems like y’all let ya children see their dads my mother of my kids don’t. Ain’t no valid reason other than the fact the thrill is gone. You can believe what you want to. But I know what I’ve researched and I know what I know it’s not that easy to do

iwascreated_2, just to set the record straight..I’m a law student..LOL..and ok so you don’t want to talk to Judge Hatchett-that’s cool! Just handle your business and be in your children’s lives is all that I am saying. I mean just imagine what this little guy was feeling when he wrote this letter.

The boy forgot to mention that Sean Combs also has more money than Al B.

Yeah you got visitation but everytime you got get the child the mother has to talk $h!t throw something at ya car, pick fights with cha. hey maine I’m done.. Men are from mars and women are from venus. and i don’t know if we will ever break the barrier of men vs women… young vs old, and race vs race… We live’n in hell and we go to heaven when we make out… That’s all I’m waiting for in these last days, So don’t think it’s any sweat off my back it’s not all in all I will prevail in the end… Cause I know my sons love me and I love them… So don’t get it twisted I know that’s what matters at the end of the day.. I out.. all in all I really don’t care about Al B and his son situation like I said how ghetto of him to air business out like that.. But I’m .. To all you women and men that got kids and get along Mann I pray you see me and I see you going through heavens gates. For all the men and women that got kids and act real b***hazzness like with each other. What in hell do want when heaven has all that you need.. I’m out

I can’t image $h!t cause …. hold okay I tell ya what call baby my mama and ask her why she won’t let speak to my child. Yeah I don cuss her out and called her names. But only because she’s keeping me from speaking to my child. When I get pissed that’s what I do at times.. but call her up and tell put aside all the bs and let my son call me go ahead maybe you can get through to her.. 901-347-3241…

that’s bulls**t. Diddy bought his fatherhood. that’s all. a good dad? 2 his kids 4 buying ‘em s**t. but not a good boyfriend. i won’t even marry the mothers of HIS kids. PEOPLE!!!!! EITHER WE GET MARRIED OR WE DON’T!!!!! ain’t no half and half s**t. ain’t no special circ**stances. if SISTAS STOP GETTING PREGNANT BY ANY OLE DUDE AND GET MARRIED FIRST then our families would be ….uh white. oh i’m sorry. i mean better (SARCASM).

say what u want mzjaxxen, i have a friend who cant c his daughter, because he no longer wants 2 b with the mother, so he cant c his daughter, he’s spendin thousands of dollars for a lawyer. (CAN U SAY BITTER ASS WOMAN). Dont get me wrong, u have some sorry ass fathers out here, but there’s 2 sides 2 every situation

Yeah, Yeah, Yeah! It is “ALWAYS” the father’s fault! What about the lady taking the child and not letting the father see the child, AND talking down on the father? (Like, yo’ daddy ain’t no good!)
Look, bottom line, you chose him! No one made you sleep with someone that is “no good”. You look at picture #1, this is a teenage boy! He knows who his dad is! Al B is on the radio every day here in Los Angeles. You can see by the picture he’s had contact with him. (And it hasn’t been that long ago! C’mon!) What, Al B hates is son? NO! He doesn’t have money for him? I don’t think so! So far as being in his life s much as Al B would like… As his momma!!!

This letter is sad but true. I applaud the your mother and diddy for apparently raising such an intelligent young man with such a positive outlook on life.

** I am not trying to be funny but is it me or does dude who is Quincy’s brother in pic 4 look a little like Soulja Boi?

F**K BP TELL ME HOW THEY GOT THIS LETTER

You can’t buy love, thats been proven time and time again. I believe Diddy is a good father to those kids, but doesn’t give a rats behind about the baby mamas, but if you dumb enough to let a man impregnant you continuously and then leave and come back, leave and comeback, then thats your sorry behind! You stupid too!! Better yet stupider, lol. But it is what it is. I just don’t understand why these women are sooooooo ignorant, what did they momma’s teach them???

This may be a little off the subject… (but not really)
Why out of all the ppl out there, do celeberties get with other celeberties wives/husbands after they break up?
I mean the whole public is watching! (Too messy!)

No, Lil “B” does not look like Soulja Boy. There is more than one side to this story. I feel that no judgement should be made until Al B. Sure’s side has been heard. People are so quick to jump to conclusions before getting all the facts.

sweet_hospitality
that’s what I said :-)

ittybittydiva07
This is another voice of a smart/reasonalbe person!

I think a lot of people are missing the point of this story. Diddy, although not marry Kim Porter, took care of this child. Now everyone is saying that Kim didn’t allow Al to interact with his son. And that is wrong, no doubt. But look at it from a mothers point of view. If I have take keep my son from you in order for you to want to be around him, that’s a problem. Then this Diddy buying this boy’s affection comment. Why wouldn’t he treat this boy as his own? I’m sure that the amount of money that Diddy makes has nothing to do with his wanting to treat the kid like his own. And then to top it off, Diddy’s not even dating KIm anymore. And he’s still taking care of him? If you ask me, Diddy just thinks of the kid as his own and that makes him a stand up guy in my book. Besides what is Al doing. Not being around his kid should not stop him from supporting him. That’s a copp out. As far as Diddy marrying Kim well that’s their decision and their business.

I agree with you Gay_And_Proud_2B

Yes Quincy wrote a letter title “A LETTER TO MY FATHER, but if that’s how he feels then don’t knock him. No one knows what goes on in his life and it’s not all about the money if Al B doesn’t have the doe then what is stopping him from spending time with his son. Plus you can’t say that his mother is keeping him away because Quincy is what…16 now. And not only that but he knows who his father is and he is just stating that Diddy is the better dad;been there for him and experience things that a father should. His opinion and only his.

@ mzvanityvanz22

Al B. Sure is a radio host here in Los Angeles. And how U know he ain’t supporting his child?

The letter is very well written, yet in my opinion (playing devil’s advocate) he makes it seem like he doesn’t even know Al is his daddy. Yea he might have been raised by Kim and Diddy but looking at the pictures it sure does seem like Al was somewhat in the picture- how much in the picture we will all never know… Kids are put in the middle of circ**stances they have no control of- who is to say that Al wanted to be there and Kim wouldn’t allow for it to happen and Diddy just happen to be there instead? No one knows the real reason for things- these are words of a child… As Quincy grows up he can always reconnect with Al if he choses, since we do not know thier situation- yea it won’t be the same as being raised by Al within the same household or however he would have like it…It’s sad that he feels this way enought to write such a movign letter but people- we don’t know the whole situation- we don’t live with them- these are words from a child….

@ HeavensLov
“His” opinion his mother more than likey fed to him! Like I said earlier, do you REALLY think Al B. hates this boy? Why wouldn’t he want to see him? Use your head!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHAT? IF MY DAD SET HIS BEST FRIEND UP (BIGGIE) TO GET KILLED FOR WEALTH, I’D KILL EM IN HIS SLEEP!

Ahhhhhh the Al B. Sure days. The last time light skinned niggas were in style. LMFAO

@ HeavensLov
“His” opinion his mother more than likey fed to him! Like I said earlier, do you REALLY think Al B. hates this boy? Why wouldn’t he want to see him? Use your head!!!!!!!!!!!! Again, look at picture #1
Do that look like a dad that wants to have nothing to do with his son? ! ? (Yeah, maybe they forced him to take this picture with his son!)

P.S. PUFFS A HOMO ANYWAYS! EWW!

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missque-que06

OMG they are like twins. I feel sorry for this kid in a sense but I’m glad that Diddy was there for him. Yet I feel that there is somehow more to this story than either he understands or what is told just based on the pictures. I seen this kids birthday party and Diddy went all out. Maybe his dad doesnt have the means that Diddy had and did something from him aside from the huge MONEY party. Which all it was. Money doesnt’ equate Love.

HALLELUJAH ! ! !

Say it again
missque-que06

I said this very thing earlier in this chat.

I’m sorry!
I meant to say Kolethia

HALLELUJAH ! ! !

Say it again
Kolethia

I said this very thing earlier in this chat.

ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS THAT KIM SEEMS TO BE LIKE A GROUPIE TO ME..FIRST AL B..THEN DIDDY..HMM MAKES YOU WONDER..BUT WHEN IT COMES RIGHT DOWN TO IT..WE DON’T PICK OUR PARENTS..WE ARE TO HONOR THEM NO MATTER WHAT KIND OF PARENTS THEY ARE..ITS NOT HONOR THY MOTHER AND THY FATHER AS LONG AS THEY DO EVERYTHING YOU YOU WANT THEM TO DO AND GIVE YOU EVERYTHING YOU WANT TO HAVE…ITS HONOR THEM NO MATTER WHAT THEY DO FOR YOU OR GIVE YOU OR WHAT THEY DON’T DO FOR YOU OR GIVE YOU..TOOK ME A LONG TIME TO UNDERSTAND THAT BUT NOW THAT I DO..I DON’T HATE MY DAD FOR NEVER BEING THERE..I DON’T EVEN KNOW HIM..I DON’T HATE MY MOTHER FOR NOT BEING CLAIRE HUXTABLE AND ALWAYS LOVING AND SUPPORTIVE..I LOVE HER FOR GIVING ME LIFE SO THAT I MIGHT LIVE AND GAIN MY OWN EXPERIENCES..SO MANY PEOPLE GET IT TWISTED..THEY SAY..MY DAD WASN’T THIS OR MY MOM WASN’T THAT..THEY WEREN’T SUPPOSE TO BE WHAT YOU WANTED BUT THEY ARE WHAT YOU WERE GIVEN SO BE THANKFUL THAT 2 PEOPLE TOOK THE TIME TO GIVE YOU LIFE NO MATTER IF THEY WERE ALWAYS THERE OR NOT

More press and P.R. for puffy….lets all clap.

I have no respect for this kid. It wasn’t like he was beat or mistreated. He’s acting out. If he doesn’t get his way. Kids say they hate thier parents if they are not allowed to go to a concert! In reality Diddy is doing him an injustice not to show him how to earn things in life!

This sounds like something for Jerry Springer! :-)

wow he look jus like hes dad when he played in “new jack city” i can recall that was him, hes handsom like hmm…. kool lol

Geez, does he ever look like Al B, two peas in a pod.

LOOK AT QUINCYS BUZZED PUBIC PATCH BETWEEN HIS EYEBROWS LOL

@ jai170

Christopher Williams played in New Jack City. (LMAO)

@ blkmail4u 1 now you know all mixed light skinned men with tight curly hair look just alike lmaowu.

I’m certainly not a fan of Diddy, but at least he’s doing the father role right. However, I do wonder….if Diddy was a regular guy without all the money and the whole Sweet 16 birthday was merely a thought and etc., would Quincy still be as appreciative of his stepdad??? I’m not trying to be cynical. It’s just a thought….

WHAT DA F**K THATS SUPPOSED TO MEAN ALL LIGHT SKINNED MEN LOOK ALIKE PLEASE SISTA I HOPE YOU AINT TRYING TO COMPARE US TO SHALL I SAY WHITE MEN LIKE WE AINT BLACK ENOUGH FOR YA. HELL WE CANNOT HELP THE WAY WE LOOK OR OUR SKIN TONE. AND I HOPE THERE ISNT AN UNDER TONE THAT WE DONT TAKE CARE OF OUR KIDS IN THAT I MEAN IF I GOTCHA PEGGED WRONG IM SORRY MY APOLOGIES GO TO YOU . BUT THIS COLOR DISSIN S**T AMONGST OUR OWN IS A PROBLEM AND IS GONNA END UP BEING A BIG ONE SOON I CAN SEE IT NOW A HATE CRIME RACIALLY MOTIVATED AMONGST LIGHT SKINNED BLACKS AND DARKER SKINNED BLACKS. SOME OLD HOUSE NIG FIELD NIG S**T. JUST ANOTHER OBSTACLE THAT KEEPS US LIKE CRABS IN A BARREL. BUT BIG UP TO PUFF FOR DOIN WHAT HES DOIN AND IM SURE AL WILL DO THE RIGHT THING

I like the fact that even though kim and diddy are not really together he still take care of that boy like he is his own more men need to run with this example. Men like to say they have kids but do they take care of them do they spend time with them do they know them it is how it is now or days it is a sad thing to say my people

Judging from the letter, it sounds to me like he would have been content if his father had been more available. I grew up fatherless and later as an adult, I attempted a relationship but nothing came of it. I don’t feel bad because I tried and found out for certain that my father was just not interested in me. I don’t hate him and I pray for him regardless of the fact that he doesn’t love me. Being rejected by him as an adult has been a blessing cause it has shown me how far I’ve come in my Christian love walk because there is a confirming peace in my heart instead of anger and hate.

First off who cares. So what you didn’t grow up without Al.B. Sure. You had a father figure. I grew up in the house with my no good ass daddy so what. There are too many other issues going on in the world to one give a crap about celebrities. Buying all they records and going to the movies and making them rich while taxes eat your ass up and you struggling. But they living the life wasting money so the tax man wont’ get it. Who cares. grow up little boy and live with it. You’ are alive, you have life and most important yo udon’t have to worry about how you gone put gas in your tank or food on your table like others have to deal with. You’ll probably decide to write a book and will have it published and out within miliseconds while I’ve written a book and can’t get a reply back from a bat.

Sharinda, even though he grew up with a father figure. You should be able to understand that he wants to have a connection with his biological father, other than his physical attributes.

He look like Al B. Sure spit him out, nice looking young man. Forget Diddy though, he’s a lil shythead. But I have to agree with Sharinda, there’s more important things going on in the world besides these self-absorbed, whiney celebrities.

umm judgin by the pics it looks like he does spend time with his father and they look like get along well…mayne he wasnt around much when he was younger but who knows…his mom could have been trying to protect him or his dad was juss too busy being an entertainer but it looks like he making it up to him….

WHO CARES..LAWD

I fully understand this young man’s plight. Yes, you are the spitting image of your biological dad, however, you have come to embrace the MAN who has stepped up to the plate. If he wasn’t a multi-milliionaire, people would applaud you. All I’m saying is continue to be strong and find your own path. God has already blessed you, so do something with it. Learn to forgive Al, because he did help give you life. No one knows your struggle except God. Be blessed!!!

damn, I feel sorry 4 the kid, being a spittin image of his loser ass “wanna b pretty boy” ass biological dad…lol

wow i dident even know his father was al b sure and dam they look just alike. I hate that s**t but anyway im in the same boat i never had my father either as much as i tried to reach out he never responds with the same love . its alsways used love i feel like he gives me whats left of his heart when i was in it giving him my full heart . But quincy lucky he got puff rich ass i wish i had a back up dad lol.

lol well my dad was never around at school functions, plays, award ceremonies, birthday parties, because he was busy putting clothes on my back and a roof over my head, he is the best dad a kid can ask for, even if i really didnt get to sit down and talk as a kid, but thats not his fault, that was the cards he was dealt, since your a man, get to know your dad now , so that way you can have a decent past !! Diddy can make millions of kids hate their daddy with the stroke of a pen across a check. I bet Diddy wouldnt trade you for all the money in the world, but your real dad will, ask him!!

Quincy Combs I think its wonderful you found love, and support, from your stepfather. I am not a someones son, but I am someones mother. My son is the mirror image of his father, and he is not in his life. He has made excusses, for two years, and has failed yet to see him. He has never done anything for him. My son does not have the love of a stepfather, but he has everything with his uncle. What I am trying to say, it does not matter where the love comes from, just be happy you have someone to provide it. In the end daddy will be missing out, it makes you wonder is blood really thicker than water. Props to all the good dads, stepdads, and uncles, loving another mans child. Also to all the cowards, not in there kids lives, you don`t know what your passing by, the child you let go could be, the next Obama.”YES WE CAN”

I have been there in your shoes youngman and have felt your pain but i true man understands regardless your bio dad is always your dad no matter what… And no money or step dad should alter that.. If anything his constant encouragement to seek your dad and his love should never stop for if it does then he has his own selfish reasons… So, even though he has been there financially and even if he has nurtured u to be the man u are today u only have one father and dad and no one except god can replace that… The real Diddy Shawn Dwight Pipkins (BEDSTUY)

I think alot of black men have that same plight and its getting worse. I grew up without having a real dad that was there and it really troubles a child especially a male. But you have to work through it and swear to yourself to be a better person.

Black men making all these babies and not taking caring of them is a damn shame and its worse now.

A lot of people who wrote comments mentioned that they either did not have a father in their life or they did not have a good one in their life. Quincy wrote a great letter, yet he has to realize that he is the lucky one- he is one of the few who can say I have a mom, a dad, and a step father- regardless of who they are- celebrities or not. He credits having support from his mom or his maternal sided of the family…to me he seem to have more support than that.

Also the article says that Al didn’t attend his sweet 16 bday. I saw it on TV as well- how did we know he wasn’t there. There is a lot of editing on that show- who is to say that Al didn’t do his own thing with his son- the show just displayed what all Diddy did for Quincy for his Bday. Unless you were there and shook everyone’s hand in the place, you have no clue if he was there or not. When you start reading the article it already paints a negative picture of Al, hence all the negative comments against him…

I wouldn’t won’t his lil spoiled punk ass neither…lol!!!

I hear, you my ex husband of 14 years wants nothing to do with his little girl never any gifts, visits, money, phone calls nothing at all and she is also a spitting image of her and thats all she has from him. god bless you sweetie although I use to be a big fan of your dad back in the days. Shame on you men who don’t care for their kids……

This letter is very right on. It is a shame that some people want to excuse the behavior of an uninvolved parent. As a single mother of a beautiful little girl. Who has reached an age where she questions the presence of her father in her life. Just like Quincy no DNA test is required to prove he is her father. From the face to the way she walks she is her daddy all over.
He isn’t there for the soccer games, dance recitals, and other special affairs. He doesn’t pick up the phone to call and say hello how are you doing. Whether the child is a boy or a girl. Having their father in their life is crucial. Fathers can teach their son’s to be men and their daughters to respect themselves and so much more for both. I have to give diddy his props. He was a real man when Quincy’s sperm donor chose not to be.

LIL BOY DON’T KNOW NOTHING…YOU GET A CAR FROM A RICH MAN..AND NOW U ALL ON HIM HUH…..WAIT TILL HE AINT GOT NO MONEY NO MORE… THEN HE WILL C WHY AL AINT AROUND ALL THE TIME

s**t so wat if diddy steps his game up n is there for the kid when his father aint man enough to do it himself im goin through the same damn thing n diddy along wit my step dad aka dad is just cleanin up the dirty work that the little boy left behind. this goes out to all men: wrap it b/4 youbring another child into the cruel world w/out a father! theyre just as important as mothers are.most women cant back out from the wrongdoings but they stay strong n do wat they gotta do

I understand this letter, but I don’t like that it’s on here. I’ve been there. My mother chose to step out of her situation with my father and try to do different. I have a half brother and we are months apart, so that gives you an idea of what was going on. Fastforward eleven years to when I “first” met him and found out he was a drug abuser. My mother never told me or talked bad about him. The truth came from my cousin. I became depressed because my dad had chosen drugs over me. Then I got angry and I wrote letters. I wrote letters to him and one to my mom, but when my mom sent the letter I had written her to the family, it made things worse. I know she wanted to do what she thought was best, but I had already written what I wanted him to read. That was for her and her only. I said way worse than what Quincy has, but I said it to get it out and move on. I love my dad regardless. I don’t love what he has chosen for himself, but I didn’t have anything to do with that. It wasn’t about embarassing him or shaming him, which is what I feel posting this letter is about. Quincy looks like Al had him all by himself, so I’m sure it’s painful for him to see so much of his father in the mirror, but not standing beside him. Yet, this is only one side. Like a few people said, we don’t know ourselves where Al is. We also don’t know what the circ**stances of visitation or contact are. Hell, I didn’t even know he had kids. Maybe this is what Al needs to hear in order to step up, but when you embarrass someone into reaching out to you, it could make them resent you and make matters worse. You can only do so much, then you just have to move on and enjoy the folks that are there for you…and yes, that’s easier said than done.

We read about it happening everyday… But you know WHOSE lost it really is THE PARENTS… yeah the child loses out on alot as well but at the end of the day when it is all over and said…. THE PARENT leaves this world DEPENDING on their child… Its just a cycle… We come in needing our parents BUT they LEAVE out NEEDING their children…. Trust me when I say AL B Sure will REEP what he sew as far as being a dead beat father… HE WILL… and that boy look JUST like him…

Yes he looks just like his dad! So true we all will have to reep what we sow. And for the parents that aren’t active in the kids lives is so sad it’s like this is an epidemic. And these are the adults that grow up disfunctional from their child hood. Maybe one day in this life time we will see absent dads step up… well it doesn’t hurt to put this out into the universe

this is straight bulls**t! shorty probabbly did’nt even write this f**ks**t! i thought it was a letter? if it was a letter he wrote to his got damn dad then why does it sound like im hearing a f**king story being told to me? if its a letter he wrote to his dad, why did he have to say,” albert brown also known as al b sure? if it was letter he wrote to his f**king father, why did he feel the need to give some uplifting words to other people? why the words of wisdom to all the other fathers out here? i thought it was a letter to his father. they did say it was a letter that he wrote to his father right? or did i miss something here?

As always there is 2 sides to every story. The one side we have not heard is AL’s. All we can do is speculate that what Quincy is saying is true. However what I don’t like is that he making Sean “Puffy, Puff Daddy, Puff Diddy, P. Diddy, Diddy” Combs perfect. We have seen news clippings of what Sean has done. The womanizing, bouncing between famous women, (not to mention shaving his legs). To me it seems as if Sean is buying Quincy’s affection. What some people don’t understand is that there are alot of mother’s who keep fathers from the kids out of spite or vindictiveness to the father. Then the child grows up thinking the father is the “bad guy”. Regardless of what Quincy’s mother has told him, unless he has talked to his father stop putting Sean on a pedestal because he is human …. and as humans we all disappoint people at some time or another!!!!

If any dude got me a classic vehicle with the inside remade…I’d probably want him to be my father too lol

This all just makes me upset with Kim Porter… who took this man to court and had him paying the largest amount of child support ever awarded to a woman and yet Diddy takes care of her child as his very own…. scandalous ass hooker

hell diddy needs to be doing something and as for kim porter and who ever that was upset because she took his ass to court for child support, look if you have children you need to take care of them and their mother because when you were with her you were getting taken care of just like every other dead beat ass man who has a problem with child support take it from someone who has been on both sides of the fence take care of your f**king kids so everybody else doesn’t have to.

AS A SINGLE MOTHER OF 3 BOYS WHO GOT WITH A MAN THAT TOOK THEM ON AND LOVED THEM AS HIS OWN, THIS STORY IS TRULY BELEIVABLE!!! AND AS FAR AS TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY CHILD SUPPORT ISN’T BEING A DADDY BY NO MEANS! COME ON GUY! HOW IS HE SUPPOSE TO FEEL HIS DAD WASN’T THERE! MEN ARE SO BIZZY HATING ON “PUFFY” ! (I MEAN YES HE’S A ASS HOLE , BUT YOU CAN’T TAKE THE REALNESS AWAY FROM HIM NO, MATTER WHAT YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM AS A PERSON! AND HAVE WE EVER MET HIM NO!

This letter seem a lil bogus. He’s not talking to his father it’s like he’s talking to the public. Which 2 me makes this look like something that was put together to make his pops (Al B) look bad. And that’s not for the public to be apart of, it’s for you and ya pops to discuss man 2 man. If I was Al B I would b pretty upset. Family matters are for family not for outsiders.

Puffy took care of his own children, but tries to buy others out, now sadly 16 is a rather influential time in a teenagers life and it can be swayed on tip scale either way, i didnt know Al B had any children, this puffy dude had desroyed more familes then he has accomadated, Ive never liked his sadity ass, and these cake ass hoes dat do like him, only like his money, no dats what you a “Busta”!

Puffy took care of his own children, but tries to buy others out, now sadly 16 is a rather influential time in a teenagers life and it can be swayed on tip scale either way, i didnt know Al B had any children, this puffy dude had desroyed more familes then he has accomadated, Ive never liked his sadity ass, and these cake ass hoes dat do like him, only like his money, no dats what you call a “Busta”!

I do understand the pain this young man is going through because I went through this with own my son. I think men sometimes shy away from their sons because they don’t want them to end up in the same situation they are in, if it is not a good one. When I ended the abusive marriage I had with my son’s father he refused to take time out with him he even quit his job so that he wouldn’t have to pay child support. But at the same time he entered into a relationship with another women who had a son and he sort of helped her raise him. This was very hurtful to my son and he did not deserve this so we moved to another state. When my son turned 25 he confronted his father all he could say was your mother left me I did not leave you, it was your mother’s fault. Sometime kids end up paying for things that are beyond their control. I know my son feels better about the situation now that he realize things would have been worse if he had a relationship this looser I just didn’t have the heart to tell him I wanted him to find out for himself and he did. So to Quincy hang in there when it is time you will have a meaningful conversation with Al. In the meantime show your beautiful mother and Diddy some love and be thankful that you have them in your life. Put it in God’s hands, believe me it works!!

That letter sounds like something straight from a public relations firm. LOL I don’t know the situation between him and his dad, the boy is still a teenager. Furthermore, I don’t know the relationship between him and Kim Porter who has stuck to Puffy’s dick like a fly on some s**t,and he still won’t marry. I simply don’t know…

DIDDY NEEDS TO TAKE CARE OF KIM PORTER????
lady are you insane? That heffa aint paralyzed!!! She can work just like everyone else… just because she was a groupie and managed to get knocked up by a star doesnt mean that she deserves to be “taken care of”…..
support for the children…. but a DIME for the mothers!

Well maybe he is just a bright kid who doesn’t have to speak like he sags his pants. He has had the good life and been given ivy league education. So he should be able to write a letter that seems to be coached. He has been educated. Hell, Al B Sure, should be ashamed of his self if this is how it is. Men make these boys and leave them when times are hard. Just because his ass aint got what Puffy got that don’t mean don’t show up. At least he is recognizing him at all. Hey Diddy keep up the good work. And I got another one for ya that I would love to turn out like YOUR SON.

WTF? TAKE CARE OF WHO, WOMEN KILL ME, TAKE CARE OF KIM PORTER ASS LOL,JUST LIKE SHE TOOK CARE OF HIM HE TOOK CARE OF HER WHEN THEY WERE TOGETHER SMH….

Now that is what I’m talking about. Diddy did right by that young man, and that is all that really counts. All the other lip yanking about his life and his past and how he destroyed something is nothing compared to the encouragement and support he has given this decent young man.

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Quincy look just like his Al B Sure!!! Wow its scary how much he favors him!!

How much props does Al B Sure get for raising his son? ‘Zero!…on the strength!’

It’s one thing to read a letter that questions where one’s father is or was. It’s another to see a bunch of pictures of the two of them together…Looks like there wasn’t much trouble finding him…

Well if that’s how he feels, then that’s his business. Even though i don’t respect puffy, i can at least say he’s a stand up guy to his kids. Those pics of Quincy and his father may be old for all we know and he may not have seen his father for a long time. I don’t think it will be hard for him to look up where Al B Sure is though.

WOW. . . MY 15 YEAR OLD SON CAN RELATE TO THIS. MINUS THE FATHER FIGURE.

I CAN SEE IN THE PICTURES ALL DOESN’T LOOK LIKE IT’S WERE HE WANT TO BE. BUT SEAN LOOKS LIKE THERES NO PLACE HE’D RATHER BE THAN WITH Q.

I GREW UP WITH THE OPPOSITE. BEING RAISED BY MY STEPMOM AND DAD. I LATER REALISED HOW BLESSED I HAD BEEN TO KNOW MY STEPMOM “CHERLY” WHO PASSED AWAY A YEAR AGO. SHE TAUGHT ME HOW TO BE STRONG FOR MY SON.

well .. Q you know who your dad is .. if he had not stop by to see your mom you wouldnt be here son… he is your dad you know how to find him … and dont let diddy or your mom stop you from .. talking or seeing your dad …

that is beautiful.I can relate to Quincy and share his pain.I look like my father alot too and he has never been there for me I see when some one in his family dies.I als have been a single mother with a son who has only seen his father a few times. They also share amirror image.My son has followed in his fathers foot steps as a jail bird and they are locked up together but no tthe smae facility. that still has gotten his fiather to write him nor talk with him or visit.

I don’t think he has trouble finding him.It’s just he make promises he doesn’t keep. He is out still beign selfish.He has time for his other 3 son’s.Quincy should have included in all he does for them. As for Puffy He stepedded up and show’s his father card. I don’t know But I don’t beleive Kimand Puffy would tell Q anything negative about his father@Cedric09. Al is not his Dad diddy is Al is his father because he fathered him. (meaning he laid down and helped him to be conceived.Quincy lastname was given to him at birth because that is how it is in NY.Al didn’t change it and tht is public knowledge.Quincy has legally changed his name to combs. I applaude that. It pays homage to Diddy.

WOW

Wow this is a serious letter. All i can say Quincy is go forth and be blessed. What your dad missed is a chance to se his wonderful grow into a man, but God put someone else in his place. Regardless of the circ**stances, just always honor your mother and your fathers for this is the first command of the Bible that has promise of a long life.
Be Blessed.

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Who the hell would have known that Al B. Sure was and (according to the letter) still is a deadbeat dad. That’s a damn shame, but now coming from his sons own words he can see the hurt, pain and devastation that was created by not being around. How can a man still call himself a man if he can’t raise the seed he created? How can he claim to be a man but yet let another man raise his own blood? Crazy, but it’s still happening. It is just good to see that a child, now a grown man can speak those painful words describing what he felt growing up so eloquently and still without disrespecting his biological father. Father’s take note, this could be your son if you continue to walk down the deadbeat path.

As a father and a step father I understand both sides of this plate. I also understand that there are 3 sides to every story. His side, her side and the truth. So people should not be so quick to judge Al B.Sure because we don’t know the whole story.

Al B. does note look happy in any of the pictures with his son. That young man is a mini me of his father in looks only. He has the mind of his father, Diddy. You did good Diddy, you did good. No one can take Quincy’s love for you away.

Quincy said it best, step up your game. He still loves you Al B. He just wants you to be there. He’s not asking you for much more than that because he has everything. He wants to know that you love him as well, that’s all.

This is the most respectful letter to a father that has not be around for whatever reason. I hope he does something positive with it.

Is this real, man this is a bunch of pre promotion for his next move. He is just setting the stage thats all. But who cares right? Diddy is a good man for taking care of someone elses kid, right?

MMMmmmm!I personally like Rihanna because she is iconic/in many ways talented/attractive among other things. On the other hand, although I dont think Rihanna is a str8 lesbian-Gay. I do beleive the girl is either bi-sexual or bi-curious. Come to think of it, if she loves it both ways? That makes her even more intresting. Rihaan girl you are WANTEDDDD! The Bsharpp2 “Rihanna Shakee” video on myspace/youtube about Rihanna/Chris Brown/Janet Jackson/Etc (even Oprah is in it) brakak it down perfectly that Rihanna could very well be bi-sexual or bi-curious. Check it out!

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idont like diddy bkuz of the whole thing he has against actual black women. but he seems like an awesome father. good job diddy

damn damn damn..your own son putting you on blast like that..dont you feel ashamed at all?

daddies are not men who father your mom’s egg but the men who nurture and care for you. Quincy you are blessed Diddy became your daddy. You owe you a lot especially as many young like you do not know their fathers and e exhibit destructive behavior just because they wan the loving embrace of their dads

All I’m going to say is WOW to this letter and other people comments. You have to give him credit for that. I love Diddy c**ky attitude. Leave it up to God. He’s in control.

people can lay down but not everyone is a true parent.. poor kid he got it rough

Quincy, I was raised without a father in my life. Believe me and I will promise you. You will become a very strong and independent individual. You’re dad will regret it everyday of his life. There’s a point in your life he will try to come back. In that moment and time, you will have to decide if you need him there. The funny thing I already know the answer. You stay strong. Things do happen for a reason. You are blessed

i can’t do anything but respect this young man for the poise he showed in this letter; not once did he say a negative word about his daddy (Al B.) which i commend him on….like someone else commented, there are always 3 sides to every story: her view, his view, and the truth. maybe Al B. feels s**tty for having another man raise his son (and did a damn good job, by the way) and just can’t be man enough to tell it. maybe diddy and kim’s hands are not totally clean in the situation.ionknow…….

Quincy is definitely highly blessed to have someone to step in and be that father figure. He definitely sounds like he’s been molded into a great young man. It’s also good to know that he didn’t allow his heart to grow bitter and cold because it’s so easy to allow that to happen in such cases as these. That letter was heart-wrenching. I also know EXACTLY where he is coming from. It’s really hard but you keep shaping and molding that clay until you’ve created a beautiful, monumental sculpture. I wish him continued love and support. —-{@

You are so blessed young man to have someone like Diddy who was willing to step up to the plate and love you unconditionally and helped to mold and shape you into a caring human being. His love, dedication and support has been a light in your life. You look happy inspite of your pain. God has richly blessed you in many ways. Remember to ask God to help you to forgive and move on. I know it isn’t easy but with God on your side you can’t lose. Let your experience be an instrument in your hands to help others who are going through the same things but don’t have the type of support that you’ve had. May God bless you in your endeavors and heaven smile upon you and your family.

Why is everone pouring their heart out? These are recent pictures of them together. This dude is about to drop an album folks. I wonder whoes label he going to be on?

Boo, Hoo.. Poor kid! Im sure that he really knows the pain of not having a father around, like the other milions of kids- with no daddy. He has a rich step father, who has been there for him his whole life(his words not mine). In my opinion he was just trying to be Al B on blast for not being there when he was growing up, but whats with the pic though? I didnt have no daddy around when I was growing up, and theres no snap shots of us together ever!!

Some of the comments on here are negative and ignorant. It really doesn’t matter if you had a step dad that has money or not. The s**t hurts when someone who contributed in bringing you here can’t even take the time to be a father or a mother but someone who has no blood ties to you can step in and raise you like their own when they don’t have to. I am blessed that I have a step mother who stepped up to the plate while my birth mother was to busy doing drugs. It makes you wonder. Why did you even take the time to bring me here if you weren’t going to be here for me? My birth mother died bout 6 months ago and I regret that I didn’t take the time to get to know her when she was trying to get to know me well after I was fully grown. Trying to hold a grudge. Now that’s something that I have to live with. Let him get it out. Damn. Some people have to talk about it or need complete closure before they can move on. He just got lucky and had someone rich there to pick up his sperm doners slack.

It’s sad to see a young man that has a living father close and yet he still feels left alone. Sadly that’s the story a lot of us had to deal with; either we knew our fathers and he didn’t want to be bothered or mom was out runnin’ around and couldn’t tell us who daddy was. Thank God for caring step-daddies! I wonder if there’s in anomosity between Diddy & Al B Sure? It takes a strong (black) man to take care of someone else’s children and for that I applaud all the “Diddy’s ” out there! There is definitely a disconnect between Quincey and his dad. I really wish they work it out somehow. Blessed love to them all!!!!

Just a ???? what about the dad that was’nt there but want’s to be there now, he still blame’s the mom for being ignorant when he found a good woman, but he’s always tried to reach out to his son, but wont get a response, what should a father do then?

i HAVE to respond to this article cause it hitz VERY close to home for me. i too grew up witout my father. life wuz hard in a single parent home wit 3 other siblings and sometimez, when thingz got extremely hard, i would even be upset that my father wazn’t there to guide me tha way that i needed him to. hearing so much negative “press” about “dead-beat” dadz, i usually didn’t even think about tha circ**stances behind his “absence”. i jus assumed that if he wanted to be around, he would be around. i wuz told by my mother, society, and tha media that my father wuzn’t in my life because he didn’t WANTto be and i accepted this as a universal fact. i’m now 28 yearz old with 4 kidz of my own and i’ve learned dat I WUZ LIED TO. i can’t speak about my father’z situation cause i don’t know exactly why he wazn’t around, BUT i CAN speak for myself: see, i haven’t seen two of my kidz in over a year now and i KNOW it iz of no fault of my own. i’m paying child support (although, even if i wazn’t, tha Attory General will tell u that child support and visitation are unrelated and u can’t deny one right because another right isn’t being respected. at least not LEGALLY, anyway.) and i have a visitation court order but my childrenz mother has been denying my access anyway. i’ve gone thru every resource available for fatherz (there aren’t many at all, look it up yourself. and tha onez dat are available are HIGHLY ineffective or very costly) and even looked into a private lawyer (which costs more than MOST criminal lawyers). i’m putting 1000% effort into doing whuteva i can to get bak into my kidz livez but i seem to be hitting major roadblockz at every turn. in my situation, my WORSE FEAR is dat i will not only be unsuccessfully re-united with my children, but dat in tha process they will also begin to judge ME for my absence. will they give me a chance to explain? will they still love me after being gone so long? will their mother teach them to hate me? if i’m unsuccessful in my fight, will they care enough to even come look for me to find out whut i have to say or whut happened? and if so, how can i make up for everything that i’ve missed? how can i heal a hurt that i didn’t cause (especially without turning tha blame bak on tha other parent whose “side” of tha story has probably been drilled in tha kidz head already). i would have never considered this “side” of the argument until i wuz ON this “side” and now that i AM, i’m more open to understanding and hearing whut my father has to say. but i don’t want my kidz to have to go though whut i’m going through before they finally get a chance, IT’Z JUS NOT FAIR. luckily, MY mother neva really spoke down on my father but i wazn’t so careful in choosing a mother for MY kidz so by now, i’m pretty sure dat they’ve heard that their father “ain’t shyt” and will continue to hear that until i’m finally able to speak to them for myself but by then, who knowz the damage that will have been done. in light of all this, i jus wanna make sure to tell folkz, JUDGE NOT. COMMUNICATE. REACH OUT. once u become an adult, do the adult thing and get tha facts for yourself. u might be surprised to learn that errthang didn’t go tha way u were “told” it went. u neva know when it might be YOU lookin for some understanding one day…

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I think a lot of folks are misunderstanding what Quincy was trying to get at. My interpretation is that why did someone else have to do your job? We all have our flaws but one thing I can say is that Diddy has shown equal amounts of love to ALL his children…..Justin, Christian, D’Lila, Jessie, Chance AND Quincy.
Not taking anything away from Al B., but if you weren’t prominent in Quincy’s life, were you at least in L’il B or Devin’s life? You can’t claim “your work” kept you busy either! Diddy had his hand in lots of S.H.I.T. and still found time to be there for HIS “son” Quincy. This letter is proof why Mother’s Day is more recognized than Father’s Day.
Sometimes strangers will treat you better than your own family!

I have to say I agree with “msneed2know.” I grew up without my Father in my life. I was 13 when I got the chance to hear his voice on the phone. I never really knew him but when I did talk to him I feel in love with my Father because I didn’t have a Dad. My grandfather was the closet person I had to a real Dad & I loved him dearly. I never hated my Father for not being there because back then we didn’t really know what was going on we had so many loving family members that showered us with love. I Love & miss my father very much even if he wasn’t around. But some people have a problem with dealing with their father’s not being in their lives. I have my issues sometimes but I pray for a loving heart everyday. So if this is Quincy way of expressing how he feels about his father then I say Quincy express yourself to the fullest. No one know your pain but you. I applaud you. It is a beautiful letter straight to the point and also honoring your father that has given you unconditional love all these many years. Be blessed.

and if al b sure was a little lighter he’d probably be a splittin image of me or vice versa. crazy s**t huh. yeaa…

I grew up without my father and didnt get to meet him til I was 13 by then i had went through s**t in my life that couldnt be erased. I have learn to forgive he cause i didnt miss out he did on a great daughter, friend and loved 1

Q is an exceptional guy. Someone raised him well.

Thats a v ery nice letter he wrote. I wrote a letter to my father but he never responded. Q should always remember that even if his father decided he doesn’t want a relationship with him in the future he has to always remember he is very fortune. He has a family who loves him which is more that most. I haven’t talked to my father since I was 7. I reached but he never reached out. f**k it. I have a mother who loves me. a grandfather who guided me and respectable male role models.

I cannot share in not having both parents around so I am appreciative of that, but my children are going through this right now and I commend Diddy for being a great father because that is exactly what he is to this young man maybe not biologically but he has done one hell of a job raising this young man I can see just from reading this letter on the internet wow If only all children had a father figure as he not because he has a fortune but because he laid down foundation for this young man I can truly see Diddy isn’t one of my favorite people but I have respect for him like no other job well done Diddy and for what ever Al B Sure was going through I don’t know the story so I can’t comment but a child need both parents its not about you when a child is born but you already know these things no one has to tell you this!

i feel quincy on that but you have to realize is tha al b sure is still your father without him it wooden be no you.so there to say yes diddly raised you to become the men you are today but hes not your biological father i am pretty sure al b sure have some explain to do.al b sure is the only one if something happens to you can save your lift diddy cant do that.i you should be mad or upset about hin beening absent from your life maybe he was trying to get his life togetther.i should know my mom didnt raise me but if something that i needed like some blood or somethinng she the only person i can go to besides my siblings. saying dont let this o thing with your father get you down hes still your dad and everyone one is not prefect. diddy raised you but hes not your biological father so much goes in a person where they just dont how to deal with things.bling bling is good to have but at the end of the day al b sure is still your father.and yes you two can be twins ok.maybe you should just talk to him.maybe your mom desided to raise you by her self like i am doing with my daughter

Awww, that made me cry a little. Quincy seems to be a very intelligent and well-spoken young men. Much success to him.
Sometimes you can have your father in your life and have him still not do crap for you.

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