first of all, why would any self respecting female with morals, ever entertain the thought of involving herself with a married man??????..is there so much of a shortage of men, that women have to resort to dating or being intimate with another woman’s husband?????..whatever happened to respecting another persons marriage????….but to answer the question…any woman in her right mind would know that if her married lover leaves his wife for you, you will most definately be in the same position that you put that mans wife in…he will have another mistress. Karma has a way of biting you in the butt when you least expect it.