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By: Stan_Vinyl

Stan_Vinyl — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 13:14:56 +0000

Look str8 up, if it’s THAT serious just be prepared financially so the child or children to come have a safe landing pad when descending from the high heavens.

Don t be selfish and try to start a family with food stamps as the blueprint for feeding them. Above all, truly LOVE your lover and make a love child, to the men… STAY & HELP RAISE THE CHILD. (this is not a free pass for anyone to get up and bounce!)

There issue solved… lol!

By: Qt_n_Ks

Qt_n_Ks — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 09:45:21 +0000

Men have biological clocks just like women so the issue isn’t the biological clock. The issue is the overly aggressive and needy approach to dating. Noone wants the weight of being the gatekeeper to your everything. Being more interested in getting married or having a child than with building a friendship and partnership smacks of deperation and communicates to the other person that you really aren’t that interested in THEM but rather what their gender can provide for you. Women and men alike who act like that (at any age), IMO, aren’t motivated by a biological clock but rather low self esteem and the idea that something or someone other than themselves can make them happy.

By: Nesianlady99

Nesianlady99 — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 07:59:45 +0000

I’m gonna have to co-sign on cushiont’s comment… I agree that women need to be more patient & trust God on the timing of having kids, and just enjoy life before/without kids in the meantime. That realization in a woman takes pressure off of a man, and lets him know you are there to get to know who he is as a man & not just because of what he can do for you. Two people who want to form a lasting union need to be at equal places in their lives, not one latching on to the other for a hidden agenda; either way. If you are meant it will happen; women need to make peace with and accept that, whichever way it goes. Men do all day. But I really think the men should be answering this article. Does the bio clock turn men off? In my opinion I would have to say yes, I think it turns GOOD men off. I believe that men need to establish their place in the world before they can truly focus on committing to and creating a family; so I can understand how rushing that would make a man want to ditch this country and all the women in it. American society is over-sexualized as it is. I’m 28, don’t have kids, and grew up helping raise the ones in my family; so I have a taste of how hard of a job motherhood must be just being an older sister & an aunty.. which is why my bio clock went out the window, and which is also why I’m able to party when and wherever I want to, blow all the money I want and not come home for days, etc. I would love to have kids, and I have a feeling I will have them; but my focus is and always has been on the quality of the man. If I can’t rely on him just dating him, I damn sure am not about to sit there and hope he’ll be reliable after babies, let alone actually do it and make my future babies suffer through what I could have avoided & knew from jump. It’s common sense. Women need to get that Cinderella sh!t outta their heads & stop bettin everything on that ‘hope’ plan. Waiting and observing women who rush this has made me a more mature and wise woman, and I am grateful. At my age, I’m either going to do it right or not at all, and I think that’s something that a man can appreciate.

By: such_a_fn_lady

such_a_fn_lady — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 06:42:15 +0000

& for the young man who mentioned abortion like its some stop and shop decision: Just because a man and a woman arent ready for a child doesnt mean God isnt ready for you to have one. If your grown enough to do grown ppl things like sex you better be able to accept a chance of a child. Abortion is murder and its dead wrong-I dont care what you say. Technology isnt above nature. Have you seen pictures of dead fetuses? I suggest you take a look. Then we got Obama approving live abortions-damn shame. Im so sick of ppl thinking they can play God. If your too immature to raise a child your too immature to have sex fking dummies. If you werent supposed to get pregnant God wouldnt have let it happen. How many ‘accidents’ have alot of you had that didnt result in pregnancy? Probably too many to count. That should tell you that if one so happens to end up a pregnancy then it was chosen by God. Women were getting married at 13 and 14 and raising families in any historical research you look into. Indigenous cultures are still doing it. This society we have before us are full of too many irresponsible basket cases who don’t care about human life and barely care about themselves. We’re a mess out here and I agree that alot of you dont deserve children and shouldnt be getting pregnenat @ all. So please do us a favor-instead of destroying the potential of a human being who could very well turn out better than you if it was giving a chance-but instead u murdered it. Do everything in your power not to even get pregnant if your a fking looser. There is no perfect scenario to having children-you make the best of whatever u have. Back in the days big momma was having 5-12 kids and never complained that it was too hard-whats wrong with u ppl who cant even handle one-just destroying your blessings. Alot of women wish they could have a child. This world is a mess. Sad.

By: AngryCornflakes

AngryCornflakes — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 06:23:13 +0000

Umm “Inocenteyes”??? you said that “Women do not have time for the BS” i think if women MADE time they’ll see that aint every dude about the “bs” and they’ll finally realize that they need to find a more mentally mature man if you messing with boys you are gonna get games it’s that simple dont blame MEN for things that boys do……” why would you talk to or be in a relationship with a woman if you don’t see your future in her eyes you wasting her %#&@$!ing time.” well why would you indulge a man that doesnt see his future in your eyes?? I dislike seeing a woman blaming HER issues on men if you with a dude that aint coming home at night than there’s a problem either cut him loose or DEAL with it you act like HE choose you it’s suppose to be a mutual decision….. “When she could be with a real man prepared to make her dreams come true.” no woman should depend on a man to make “her dreams come true” that should be a joint effort and if you expect someone to make your every wish come true they are more than likely to let you down just put yourself in a position where YOU can be comfortable and im sure everything else will fall in place

By: such_a_fn_lady

such_a_fn_lady — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 05:41:53 +0000

These are the end times-black ppl better start coming together and making families before they find themselves in a situation they cant handle alone. Thats why our ppl don’t have anything-don’t know how to work together and build. Your money isnt gonna comfort you when they get rid of the dollar. If you all cant see what they’re doing to the economy then you deserve what you get. I suggest you all let go of your egos and come together while you still have a chance. Grow up-we’re @ a time where options are being depleted. Dont say you havent been warned. All the glitz and glam & TV is making you believe things arent that bad. News Flash-its getting worse everyday. We spend so much time putting up a front for each other-when are we gonna be real and admit that even though most are making ends meet and still pulling in paper we still are one foot in and one foot out @ any moment. Black ppl are so fake. Spending your rent money and car note to stunt aint gonna get it anymore-SMH.

By: Inocenteyes

Inocenteyes — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 05:03:17 +0000

I said it once and I’ll say it again…..

I am really tired of these dumb %#&@$! men who think its cool to play a woman and waste her time. But then again you gotta blame the woman for dealing with mentality of these men.

First of all a woman’s time is precious and valuable. And so is her body. If your prepared to waste it then I wish more woman would just say kick rocks. If a woman wants a child and man doesn’t want to step up to the plate. Be a real man and marry her and do the damn thing, then he should walk down the block to he nearest high school or closest college waste someone’s time who has it.

Women do not have time for the BS, I hear these men talking about how boring or how its a woman’s problem because her eggs are drying up. Well why would you talk to or be in a relationship with a woman if you don’t see your future in her eyes you wasting her %#&@$!ing time. When she could be with a real man prepared to make her dreams come true. You in the way of a real man who could provided for her every need.

All these niggaz in here gonna be 40 looking for they %#&@$!in wife when they 40, when there done playing games and then wanna be mad at the 20 year old heffa for taking him for everything he has.

By: cushiont

cushiont — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 04:28:18 +0000

the world would be a better place if we leave 2 things in God’s hands: marriage & babies.
also, women need to be more patient. look around more women are having babies at 40-45. those are the women that make sure the men in their life are going to stay and do the right thing. women need to relax. if you have a GOOD man and he is not ready to have kids, then WAIT. when women rush men, it is a turn off. i’m a female and i dislike to hear other women complaining about their clocks. besides, the longer u wait to have kids, i think the more mature and patient you become (both male and female)….just relax and enjoy life!

By: eks_07

eks_07 — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 04:14:18 +0000

the times a child was brought in the equation i never ran from the situation. it was times i thought about it but i stood my gorund. luckily i was able to avoid being a father but i was prepared some what. now women like to blame a man saying “your man enough to lay down with me you should be man enough to face the consequences” BUT as well she should be “woman” enough to know that shes not ready for a child or that shes too young to be a mother. Once i had to pay for abortion now women always get edgy about that issue but if were supposed to be REAL or GROWN we need to face grown situations no matter how gruesome it is. you pop out a child no matter if your ready or not. and if your GENIUS to know that your not which alot of women are these days then get the abortion…suck it up n do it. and by the way narcasistic (conceited) women turn me off. Miss im every women, my ish dont stink, my profile name is SEXY dis or BEAUTIFUL dat or sum shyt, i got my own i dont need no nicca.

By: 1-LL

1-LL — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 03:34:57 +0000

Hmm. Let me go ask the brothers that pay lots of child support….:)

By: fokuzd918

fokuzd918 — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 02:36:49 +0000

@ Crazyhorse1177

First off yeah certain men tend to flee once a baby is brought into the world but not all men are ignorant to let their own seed have that type of life. I for one am not goin to sit here and let you demean myself or any other man up here tryna make themselves better for any reason. I for one have had more women come into my life break my heart and then let me drop like a rock so don’t hassle us bein from one veiw point. you won’t win like that…now yes i will admit im not perfect but i will be damned if i dont try to be for “Her” and if she aint i dont expect her to be but i will push for 210% for “her” i have tried they couldnt believe me so i got played. just like women get hurt by men who feel that they cant sit still men feel that same fire from women who feel that, by the first year or second year, they arent “ready for a relationship” and that is what drive black men nuts. im young yeah but im not oblivious to the fact that both sides gotta do work. i am willin to approach you if i feel you got sense just like you wouldnt come to me if you felt i didnt have any or wasnt physically attractive to you. but for now i leave you with this Question? Why do you feel that way about the guys just bcuz you happen to run into a few bad pages or a few rude notes? Just a few….get over em and let the next man show you he that he damn sure aint like that last bruh cuz that is being close minded about us. dont do that

By: MISSLAUREN1

MISSLAUREN1 — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 01:35:04 +0000

all men are not like that the dont hit it and run if that ur case pick better guys next time….i no alot of men who take care of there kids and its the best thing to see when u see a man at the park mall whatever thatt mean he cares and not a loser…

By: Hip_Hops_Savior1

Hip_Hops_Savior1 — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 00:47:10 +0000

all men r not like dat Crazyhorse1177 becuz i take care of my daughter 100% and luv my daughter…..my ex is not even n da pic cuz she dont wanna b a mother….itz how u carry urself n life…..u cant judge da next man based off ur passed if dat wuz da case then i would have done dat wit my current seein as how my past has been hell….but i dont and datz y we r happy together

By: Hip_Hops_Savior1

Hip_Hops_Savior1 — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 00:43:28 +0000

ms_nikki_26 i have to disagree cuz it does not matter if ur younger or older….if ur mind set is all about sex then datz all ur goin to go after….itz juz a matter of how mature u r and how u wanna live ur life style….if u want dat fast life and not really care’n yes alot of people will juz have sex….but for those who want da life of bein married and havin kids…itz more to it then juz havin sex…it takes honesty faithfulness andbein commited to take on dat high level of a role.

By: Crazyhorse1177

Crazyhorse1177 — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 00:43:05 +0000

Men dont care- its not like theyre gonna stick around once she has the baby anyway. Im sorry but from the notes Ive gotten and the pages Ive seen, it would be a death sentence to have any of these guys’ baby

By: jonjacobs62

jonjacobs62 — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 00:41:42 +0000

Men are only as thoughtful as their experiences in life. With that being said, men are only turned off by the pressure of a woman’s need/want to be married, have kids, etc. Most men dont want to be under pressure to do things that they may later regret. Everything is in due time. More time that is taken on knowing the person, the more likely success will be achieved no matter the age.

By: ms_nikki_26

ms_nikki_26 — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 00:20:06 +0000

i believe that dating gets better as you get older. when you’re younger men are mostly after sex, but if there is someone turned on by you and wanting to be with you in an older more mature age then its normally because they are really feeling you. and you stand a chance of being together longer.

By: DYNASTY152

DYNASTY152 — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 00:13:26 +0000

I believe that the reality of “Forever” or serious commitment definatly turnd a black man off. Marriage and children mean responsibility and untill a man is ready for that on his own, there is no way he will ever go along with it. You cant force a man into anything he does not already think is a good idea. We as women know what type of men we are involved with from day one but we like to play “Dumb” we should choose our men more carefuly so we are not stuck with cheaters and kids without fathers.Its not all them, we gotta accept some blame and responsibility for messing with lame-o’s.

By: shyscorpio1

shyscorpio1 — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 23:17:43 +0000

if a woman wants to kill the love a black man has for her, just say “I’M PREGNANT!!!” you wont need to worry about how to get rid of him anymore. men need food shelter sex in order to survive. women want too many things and get mad at the world for lying to them about their priorities. ladies, would you rather have the love of a man or a baby for the rest of your life. choose carefully!!!

By: R_ARCHIE

R_ARCHIE — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 23:14:06 +0000

lol at broke as ajoke

By: BeeQuiet35

BeeQuiet35 — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 22:26:14 +0000

I believe that MEN (as outlined by Naim Akbar in Visions for Black Men) have a serious problem with contemporary female behavior. Women enjoy ‘special privilage’ in this country similar to ‘white skin-privilage’ and they perpetuate male emasculation. We need a new breed of woman in this country.

By: broke_as_ajoke

broke_as_ajoke — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 16:01:03 +0000

Well my 3 cent, men don’t want to hear about when u want to have a baby or how old your eggs are getting.