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Complain, complain, complain. That’s all plus-size women do. It’s bad enough they want to share clubs with us, but they take up opportune shopping space in our stores and squeeze into the tightest seats on the bus. And aren’t there enough specialty stores, magazines, and even runways for them? They’ve got it all!

Will plus-size women ever stop complaining?

With all of the progression women of different sizes and shapes have made in the name of “self-confidence” and “self-love,” plus-size women have been stepping their game up and giving skinnier women a run for their money. Stores like Ashley Stewart and Manik Magazine cater to the “little more to love” crowd, and stores like Forever 21 have created lines like “Faith 21” with the size 12 and above in mind. But are they thankful? Of course not.

Why should people who are bigger have their own exclusive clothing and fashion shows instead of being of one accord with the general population?

Fat Acceptance Activists Push For Plus-Size Nightclubs

Why do you ask? Well, to put it simply, plus-size women are always the “butt” of jokes, (i.e., Mo’Nique, who uses jokes about herself as a defense mechanism), and don’t receive the same caliber of clothing, treatment, or respect as everyone else.

The average American woman is not a 6 or 8, but a 16! And yes, there are stores that satiate the “thicker than a snicker” fashionistas, they are so few and far between, that it’s hard to avoid looking like carbon copy. And the ratio of “big girl” stores to “slender” women’s boutiques are drastically low.

Yet stores insist on “dumbing down” styles like skinny jeans and leggings and slap the “plus-size” sticker across it and call it “plus-size fashion.” Think about the last time you went to store with a “plus-size” or “women’s” section. Notice how cute and fitted the “petite” section’s clothes are. How flattering and unique every garment is. Then step into the big girls’ area, typically all the way in the back of the store. The very store that carries the cutesy clothes for skinny women, offer bigger women “tent-inspired” garments with the nerve to make them in the same fabrics as the skinny stuff like they can’t tell the difference!

And there are no haute couture designers that make double digit sizes, except if they lines for H&M or Target. Otherwise, forget it!

Designer Says: “No One Wants To Look At Fat Women”

In fact, people like Chanel designer Karl Lagerfield, insist that

“Fat mummies sit there in front of the television with their chip packets and say skinny models are ugly.”

Very hypocritical Karl! We remember when you were a happy meal away from a heart attack!

Plus, nothing shows off clothing better than the “real curves” of a woman.

So are plus-size women, bitch, moan, and complaining a little too much? Maybe, but until the playing field is leveled, might as well invest in some ear plugs ’cause the fight will continue to wage on!

THICK VS. FAT: Aren’t They The Same???

MANIK MAG: The New Fashion Mecca For Plus Sized Women

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/FlyJones/ FlyJones

    All I got to say is EVERYBODY complains NOBODY is ever content with anything ;)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Rei777/ Rei777

    You know, I can almost go with this. I’m all for voicing your displeasure when things are unfair to you. But, plus-sized women are starting to turn that into a science. The thing that really gets me about them is that a lot of them feel it’s okay to insult others to make themselves feel better about being plus-sized. If you’re not a size 16, they call you a skinny heifer. If you’re not into big girls, they say you just can’t handle one. Now, personally, I don’t mind a nice, big girl. But, I’d like to remind some of them that it’s not the world’s fault that you’re displeased with yourself. Don’t take it out on us, aight?!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/trisha_369/ trisha_369

    Im NOT a big girl,phat,NOR plus size and I KNOW I complain…WAAAAAAAAAAY MORE than ANY woman thats BIGGER than me…HELL we(skinny women)maded the WHINY and COMPLAINING-thats ALL we DO. Just go in ANY clothing STORE and WATCH how we ACT. (this to big this to little and this don’t look right-its not my color,this is ugly on me-etc)YA’LL know its true-WE ALL DO IT.lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Shamel_/ Shamel_

    A LOT of women are just “whiny” period (that’s what we do ) and size has NOTHING to do with it (lol). I agree with trisha_369 on the going from store to store and complaining about this, that or the other. I JUST went shopping with a friend last week because she was going out of town. We went from store to store, mall to mall and outlet after outlet and she bought NOTHING! I am a rare species of women because I hate to shop. Yep, I said it. I buy sh!t via catalogue, online or just pick it up off the rack and bounce. I didn’t know the “average” size woman has went up to 16?!? Is that really true or to justify this article??? Last I knew it was a 12-14. If it is fact it is time for us AMERICANS (that means all race and gender) to start taking care of our bodies. It is alright to have curves but being “fat” or too big is not healthy.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/GrownBlkGal/ GrownBlkGal

    First off, I am woman of breast, hips, ass and thighs. Thick, fat, plump and Plus size, which ever you want to call it. I love my size and many others do as well. It has nothing to do with what you wear, its how you wear it. If I don’t feel right in what I put on then I don’t wear it. All women of all sizes do the same exact thing. We all whine, cry and complain about our size. If I want to look a certain way, I know how to change it. I don’t have anything against women that are smaller than me. If you want me to donate some thighs and ass, I can. LOL. My fellow women of all sizes and colors, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!! Your attitude and how you carry yourself determines what kind of person you are. When I look in the mirror, I see a beautiful sexy young intelligent go getting woman with curves and a big ole smile.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/trisha_369/ trisha_369

    Shamel_ lol you too…I hate to shop as well. Girl-I do the same thing and I thought I was the only one.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BlackCasper2001/ BlackCasper2001

    Maybe plus-size women also complain too much in their relationships. I dunno.

    N.S. Ugezene

    http://stores.lulu.com/NSUgezene

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Shamel_/ Shamel_

    trisha_369, OF COURSE you do…we are Pisces. We just different PERIOD ;) .

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Stan_Vinyl/ Stan_Vinyl

    Most plus size women are sexy… the can cry on my shoulder!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/naughtia74/ naughtia74

    i’m too a sexy full figured woman it’s not just plus size females who complain it’s all females and males too for that matter u have no idea how many times i get guys hating on me and yes of course they get the ultimate ride out back but to me for a guy to hate on a female of any size is a str8 b***h ass b***h made nigga str8 up so i disagree with the whiny part but i do agree that we should be treated no different than anyone else wereally dont need our own club or fashion show we just want to be equal as everyone else we are women not aliens we have the same body parts as skinny women and can do alot and i mean alot of s**t they can do if not better me personally strive to be known i’m here world and i’m not going anywhere like it or not mz. candy gets what she wants (my nickname) skinny women i luv yall because we are all women this is never anything against u guys let’s just all do us and be the strong powerful women we are duces……

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/winterissocold/ winterissocold

    This blog it dumb as hell take it down dummies

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Candyboxxx/ Candyboxxx

    I don’t know why people would feel resentful of a marginalized group wanting to even the playing field. It’s not complaining, it’s being heard and, as the author pointed out, the average American woman’s size in the double-digits (the average is actually a 12, not a 16). This implies that plus-size stores are more than a niche and that there are billions of dollars missed by retailers and designers who do not address the needs of these women.

    Moreover, plus-size women shouldn’t feel relagated to a small corner in the store. Do you know how demoralizing it is to go to that corner and find just a few items in your size, most of which are not flattering on you, no less? Fortunately, retail corporations such as Petrie stores understand the pathos of shopping (thanks to R & D); to be able to shop in an environment with others like oneself makes one feel secure, unjudged, and willing to linger in the store–which in turn, can induce the desire to buy more. So why be resentful if it makes someone else happy and it is not encroaching on your rights?

    Now, as Rei77 wrote, there are some large women who call thinner women “skinny heifers”, “skinny b***h”, etc. I agree that this is wrong. I realize it is coming from a place of hurt or may make a person feel a bit empowered (by jokingly attacking a group that they feel they are castigated by), but it is rude and disrespectul…reminds me of how blacks call whites “honkie” or “cracker” or how dark skinned blacks call light skinned blacks “yellow”. It’s unnecessary and ineffective.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Ladyd121/ Ladyd121

    Who put this s**t up here? I’m a plus size woman and obviously fine with it because if I wasn’t I’d have lost weight years ago! F**k Off whoever wrote this dumb s**t.Like Tyra said “KISS MY FAT ASS”!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LuxeKnockOut/ LuxeKnockOut

    I think Alyssa was trying to be sarcastic. She’s saying that plus sized women whine because there aren’t enough stores (or places period in society) who cater to plus sized women. The complaining is called for. As soon as marginalized people speak up about whatever injustices they suffer, they are called weak, they are called whiners.
    But I think what she is saying is that we won’t be quiet until we get what we want and need.
    the attitude seems to be that ppl shouldn’t be big so we wont cater to them, BUT dammit, we’re here and we should have access to the same things everyone else does.
    Thnx Alyssa

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Da_J_Rok/ Da_J_Rok

    I love ‘em thick… who cares

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/swt_honey_bee/ swt_honey_bee

    Personally, I say go ahead get bigger! It gives people like me in the health field more business. Its unhealthy to be overweight, no matter what excuse you give yourself to make it ok. Reality is, Your outfit really isnt going to matter.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/aja_amari/ aja_amari

    ok, hello beautiful has been writing some REAL GARBAGE lately! Yes I am a plus sized woman, but do i complain? No. Why u ask, because I have never had any complaints from any man or woman or myself about my size. Hell if it don’t come in ur size, just go somewhere else. If u are that upset about it, do something about it, design ur own damn clothes!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/marcuslove79/ marcuslove79

    if u are big do us men a favor and discount a couple points off your grading system, we gonna see that fat someday in the wrong place and we aint gonna be like dam thats sexi

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/butterfly_145/ butterfly_145

    im with winterissocold on this one

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/movingforward05/ movingforward05

    plus size women are the best. i only date plus size sista’s. everything about them is just better. i have never ran into any whiny plus size women.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shesha85/ shesha85

    WTF? Seriously? I am a plus size woman and I scammed over this and I am like wtf who writes this stuff? Hellobeautiful has been having some of the most lamest stuff it’s like they don’t have real entertainment topics to write about?!? Not all plus size women are whiny you’re just tryin to sterotyping us. But you don’t have to be plus size to be whiny I met plenty of skinny chicks that are very much whiny!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/fashionableloud/ fashionableloud

    I want to look at me because i love me when no one else wants to

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DAREALRECKLESS/ DAREALRECKLESS

    FUKC HELLO UGLY AND THE C.U.N.T THAT WROTE THIS ARTICLE. YOUR MOTHER SHOULD HAVE SPIT YOU INTO A TOWEL.

    reck don’t sit by and let anyone disrespect his queens( black women) like that!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CAROBINSONFIELDS/ CAROBINSONFIELDS

    OMG LoL Reckless you are not one to mince words are you? I am a work of art with thick hips and this article is something else but I ain’t gone trip on it. Thanks for the support but the person who wrote this article got us all messed up. Maybe M’onique was right maybe skinny B******are evil. One thing for sure they sure are vain.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CAROBINSONFIELDS/ CAROBINSONFIELDS

    Honey Bee, what is it that you do? I work in the healthcare field too and have learned that obesity is not that black and white and that larger people are also beautiful no matter what size they are, why because GOD thinks so. Matter of fact, I say so too.

    I used to be very small but am glad that I can really relate to what larger folks have to endure because it makes me more compassionate. If it was so easy then how come we still have obesity issues. Free your minds people. The outside is just a shell.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Reddlocs69/ Reddlocs69

    Wow at the folks that continue to let these tasteless articles come out…if this is suppose to be journalism, someone needs their money back from the fake ass college they went to to learn how to write like this. I am insulted, as I have never been a whiner about a dam thing, and btw not all of us were just always plus sized…sh…t bi..tch I was a size 12 when I was younger, but got some DNA and had ass and thighs before half the skinny mofos ran to inject botox and s**t into their bodies to get them. I dont care what yall think, my only beef is the fact that thicker women do have to pay for their size in the clothing department it is kinda of like penalizing a woman for having ass or hips. Other than that…I know my stuff is WANTED and sought after so to whomever thought to write this trash kiss my big black round ASS!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Anaya_Lashea05/ Anaya_Lashea05

    Being a women who is so-called plus-sized, I find this so-called article insulting. How dare you say, that women who look like me(Size Wise) complains way to much? We deal with the “skinny model”,” blonde and blue eyes” “White is right” standards of beauty day in and day out, so you can just shut the F**k up and stick to the things that you know best….we have our own thing know because it has always been about “skinny women” in fashion, so why don’t you shut the F**k up and worry about YOURSELF AND STOP PUTTING DOWN PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO DESIRE TO BE STICK THIN. DON’T HATE CAUSE THE ATTENTION ISN’T ON SKINNY WOMEN ANYMORE.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sylkiifeather/ sylkiifeather

    LMFAO @ DAREALRECKLESS…what the hell was the point of putting this article out?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/johnani/ johnani

    This is the stupidest article. It is grouping all plus size women together when it may only be a handful that complain too much, just like there is always a handful of people from every little group there is that does something that other people just won’t like. I am a plus size woman who does not like the clothing that is provided in stores for our size, so I decided to go to fashion school so that I can make some changes. All of us don’t just sit around and complain about the problem, some of us go out to solve the problem.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LastManStandingTall/ LastManStandingTall

    The more WHINING they do, the less EATING they do, so I guess it has its positives…

    Blubber butts (LOL)…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ladywarmheart/ ladywarmheart

    HB what is the deal? Some of your articles are worth reading and sometimes you go wayyyyy left! This does not make any since. I believe you just write up things to see if anyone is really reading your articles. I am a 50+ Plus size woman, always have been and proud of being able to stop traffic and get wolf calls from 14yo to now. I take pride in dressing for my size and do not let fashion dictate to me what to wear. I dress to impress myself (and not sleazy). I do not wear what a skinny (thin) woman wear. I don’t look good in “Skinny Jeans” or leggings (without the proper tops or skirts). If there is a style in the thin store, I know it will not work for me even with the extra fabric. I’ve never had a thin person tell me “I have that same outfit” and never will. I’m not a whinner, I am a BBBCW (Big Beautiful Black Confident Woman). NOW RUN & TELL THAT!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JUST_SHOOTME/ JUST_SHOOTME

    I’m so tired of this crap! I’m tired of society and the asinine labels they put on women, plus size, skinny b***h and other derogatory terms to dehumanize women. I’m not plus size but I’m so sick of gay designers like Karl Lagerfield dictating what women should look like. His ugly a** isn’t not attracted to women so he should shut his trap and do what he does best, design clothing. Women are supposed to have curves and they should not be ashamed of them. The creator made it that way for a reason. So I resent the arrogance of men like Lagerfield to say such stupid things, the next thing he should design is a muzzle for himself! I love that the author pointed out that he was a happy meal away from a heart attack than mean really needs to stfu up and this is coming from someone show been call skinny all her lives. Women love yourselves the way the creator made you…that is it!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JUST_SHOOTME/ JUST_SHOOTME

    I’m so tired of this crap! I’m tired of society and the asinine labels they put on women, plus size, skinny b***h and other derogatory terms to dehumanize women. I’m not plus size but I’m so sick of gay designers like Karl Lagerfield dictating what women should look like. His ugly a** isn’t not attracted to women so he should shut his trap and do what he does best, design clothing. Women are supposed to have curves and they should not be ashamed of them. The creator made it that way for a reason. So I resent the arrogance of men like Lagerfield to say such stupid things, the next thing he should design is a muzzle for himself! I love that the author pointed out that he was a happy meal away from a heart attack than mean really needs to stfu and this is coming from someone show been call skinny all her lives. Women love yourselves the way the creator made you…that is it!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mike_diesel27/ mike_diesel27

    I have never been into plus size women. May never get into dating plus size women. But that’s my personal preference in the women I like. However, this article is rather rude. I just think that no matter what size you are, there’s always someone that’s willing to treat you like a queen/king.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jahz_Lynx1/ Jahz_Lynx1

    I see Kimora’s on. Is she considered plus-size?

  • http://bigbeautifulpeople.info/225/plus-size-women-are-too-whiny-hello-beautiful/ Plus-Size Women Are Too Whiny! | Hello Beautiful

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/phul_phigured/ phul_phigured

    all i got 2 say is b blessed with what you got and work it well with what ever you wear don’t worry about ignorant people and there smart comments because in all actuality most thick and plus size women are healthier than petite women and men love a woman with meat on the bones ask me I know… lol now as far as whiny sh..t we all do that no matter what we look like male or female, and for men that have a lot to complain about a thick woman well geesh they mightest well !!! A big woman will complain if you have a little d.ck big gurls love nice size things so men that complain are complaining just 2 have something 2 say so people just enjoy life and move on

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CrEaMeH/ CrEaMeH

    who ever wrote this i hope you get hit by a bus…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jay_dre55/ Jay_dre55

    This article is not against plus sized women. Read the whole thing. Plus sized people are the majority now in America. Why aren’t there more plus sized clothes in the stores? Because we watch to much TV, look at the people you see everyday and look at the people on TV. Do they look the same? No. TV, movies, magazines, and videos are fiction. Wake the hell up!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/thickqt79/ thickqt79

    I think that it’s extremelly unfair to place a certain group of women in the same category. Yeah maybe at times it seems as though plus-size women complain alot,but that is only b/c we’ve been treated so unfairly. We have to put up w/ societies opinions about us,being made fun of by some men in general just b/c it isn’t their preference,and sometimes we’re our own worst enemies. All I have to say is to each his own,if your skinny fine,if your not fine,or if your unhappy w/ being plus-sized do something about it…but being a healthy sized women myself,personally I think I’m damn sexy,everyone may not agree,but that’s how I feel about myself and in the end that’s all that matters:-)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jay_dre55/ Jay_dre55

    Most of us are too shallow anyway. Stop worrying so much about looks and money and start looking for good character and morals.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/GG1025/ GG1025

    Let me start by saying this. (Let them stop making clothes, shoes, etc for women of size 16 or less. Closed down all those stores, replace all chairs for people with smaller hips and put chairs that is for larger hips men and women in the movies, public places, dr offices, etc. The list goes on…. Now less see the skinny people become Whiny! It’s sometimes not by choice that a person put on weight, it’s sometime a health, medication or yes the eat what they shouldn’t eat. But I’ve seen enough skinny people and don’t leave the men out who’re also Whiny! too. Who can’t have what they want or call names because they don’t know God. In his eyes we’re all loved. So please take note if you’re complaining about us turn around it’s something lacking in you that need to be fix/change also. It’ may not be your size. …. But I’ve seen these words come to be real… What you do to others will be done unto you. We just want to have the same thing, beautiful clothes no matter the size. To shop in stores that you don’t have to go to the back to find something. To pick out someting beautiul that you see in a size 12 can also be in a size 28 are up. Sizes 1x to 7x in local stores like Walmart, Target, Macy, JC Penny, even lane bryant, Ashley Stewarts don’t offer sizes 28 or up in side their stores only some by book…. I’m a person who likes to go to the stores…. Yes this may seem not to be important to you. But why not reach all class… Walmat step up the game and now offers 1x to 4x … But don’t stop there go the next sizes ..5x and beyond , Price adjustment/Size it up for all. You may just see you sales goes up ….in the Womens/Mens department …… Calling out to all stores, I challeage you to step up the game for plus size women/men. Walmart, Target, you keep your prices real for moms, now make it real for Plus size…. Ashley Stewarts, Avenue, Fashion Bug, Dress Barn, Macys, Lane Bryant keep it real for us Plus sizes…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/GG1025/ GG1025

    Correction some of these stores stop at size 28. I don’t and is not trying to call names or be rude to any size ….. So if it offend you it’s not ment to. Take care.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/PlusSizeMogul/ PlusSizeMogul

    As the Creator and Executive Producer of the first ever Full Figured Fashion week, held this past June in NYC, I’m not quite sure I agree with this post. I don’t think that standing up for your beliefs should be considered whinning. There is strength in unity and that is exactly what my team and I did, we united to bring a Fashion Week event to NYC just for the curvy community.

    I also would like to say that the photo used for this post belongs to me. It depicts myself and some of the most popular plus size models in the industry. Not sure why this particular photo was chosen, perhaps because of the t-shirts that the models are wearing, but permission was not granted for use of the photo. I respectfully ask that due to the nature of this post (we are a size positive group) that you please remove this photo within the next 72 hours.

    Thank you.

    Gwen DeVoe
    Executive Producer
    Full Figured Fashion Week

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/producer6tray/ producer6tray

    I have dated so called thin and plus..and as a mature man I can say that if a person doesn’t have a heart or personality , and I am sure that my mature Queens feel the same way, than the appearance will become and remain irrelevant.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Tutonline/ Tutonline

    I’m new to the site. Wouldn’t it be nice if the writers on this site, who take the time to research and prepare their storylines, also took the time to be just as careful with the use of grammar and sentence structure? I realize we’re getting pics and updates, etc. for free, but that alone does not give poetic license to “Hello Beautiful” to ignore basic sentense structure and the rules of grammar. I mean, this is an African-American-focused website and it makes me ill that we can do no better than this.

    If these op-ed pieces are contributed without charge to the site – maybe hiring writers with credentials, experience and the ability to produce news or editorial articles, checking their work for spelling erros and proper structure (as any professional should), would go a long way to helping this site prove we can indeed compete with mainstream online magazines. However, this site, in every instance I’ve seen, appears second-rate due to the lack of writer professionalism.. How about investing in proofreaders as well?

    I’m sorry but this is unacceptable.

    My real name is Linda.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sweet99Desire/ Sweet99Desire

    I agree with Tutonline. I’ve always been a fan of Hello Beautiful, but Im kinda offended and disgusted with this article. If this is Hello Beautiful, please understand beauty comes in all shapes, colors, and sizes. Skinny women complain too, so what ur point? All women complain, no matter the size, duh!!!!!!!!!!!! This was not a good stereotype.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ALThickMadame/ ALThickMadame

    Oh please…Get a life…

    Skinny women with a chip on their shoulder and any plus-size and bbw haters are too whiny!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Blac_diamond42/ Blac_diamond42

    Alyssa, you seem to have a problem with plus size women ,iam a plus size woman and i don’t appreciate your article! Iam not a woman who whines just because of my size, all sizes of women have problems pertaining to weight, height, or color! I don’t know what plus sized woman pissed you off, but don’t take it out on all of us! You are thoughtless, cruel and ignorant in your remarks! If you don’t have anything better to do than hate, you need to find another job! This is one of the reasons so many countries in the world hate America ,because we rather find reasons to fight each other,than to find our common ground, and love our differences!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TonyaMcmahan401/ TonyaMcmahan401

    First of all i don’t complain i have no problems getting cute clothes in my size which is a 18 and i am tall and i don’t take up two seats in the bus because i drive and i don’t sit eating chips all day i do work and i am not lazy so take your skinny whiny comments on go find yourself a sandwich because you need some Meat ass!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Big_Boned_Sistah/ Big_Boned_Sistah

    Once again another article meant to create drama and divisiveness. Can we get subjects that relate to more important things than celebrity gossip? BP is the BET of the net.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/judokno18/ judokno18

    Hmm… Just wondering… did anyone actually FINISH the article before they started dogging the author. Because if not you kinda proved her point. lol

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/lilhottchick04/ lilhottchick04

    what kind of article is this??

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/22andlovingit1/ 22andlovingit1

    THIS IS NOTHING BUT NEGITIVITY THE TRUTH IS NO ONE REALLY WANTS TO BE FAT BUT WHEN YOU ARE A CERTIAN SIZE THAT PEPLE THINK ARE FAT IT HURTS THE WOMEN AND THEY DO EVERYTHING TO LOOSE THE WEIGHT . bUT ALWASY FEEL LIKE THERE COMING IP SHORT THEN YOU TURN ON THE TV AND SEE ALL THE NEXT TOP MODEL SHOWS OR THAT MAKE ME A SUPER MODEL SHOW WHAT SIZE ARE THEY NO BIGER THEN A 5. i GET CALLED A FAT WOMEN OR PLUS SIZE AND LOOK AT ME IM NOT IM THICK BUT TO TE WORLD IM FA. sO ITS NO NICE LAY OFF THE COMMENTS THERE ARE SOME PEOPLE WHO CANT HANLDE IT AS WELL AS I CAN AND ARE ON THE VERGE OF SUCUIDE BECASUE OF NEGITIVE PEOPLE .

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/GG1025/ GG1025

    Recently I review this authur notes a 2nd time and agree with on of the other person whom review the note completely. The note is also letting people know that unto some change is made for plus-size women, (playing field is leveled for all. The fight will continue to wage on) That is one of the reason I redirect my challege to Stores, Malls, Dr Office, Public places to get with the changes we’re here to stay)>

    The Authur may actual help our cause……So thank you.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MarieDenee/ MarieDenee

    This is very sad, and I have written an article in response to this…
    http://thecurvyfashionista.mariedenee.com/2009/11/hello-beautiful-excuse-me-whiny-plus-size-women-are-not/

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MiamiMami78/ MiamiMami78

    I’m sorry, but this;

    “Hmm… Just wondering… did anyone actually FINISH the article before they started dogging the author. Because if not you kinda proved her point. lol”

    By judokno18

    Made me SRSLY LOL!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Tiahna_DeSha/ Tiahna_DeSha

    LOL…….Damn we couldn’t find a photoshopped pic of Mo’ ? I admit I’m a whiny complaining plus size sistah but clearly we haven’t complained enough…all these plus size “Divas” and not 1 has a clothing line. JLO has a line that includes plus, Beyonce’s line has plus…where’s the j-hudson line? What happened to Mo’s line? …dang there I go again b***hin..sorry folks bad habits are hard to break.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/-HatedOnMostly-/ -HatedOnMostly-

    blah blah blah…who WANTS to be skinny tho? i don’t understand what’s so sexy about lookn like a skeleton with skin?!!! i’m content with my size and my MAN loves me, my FAMILY loves me, my FRIENDS love me, my JESUS loves me…I MADE THIS NAME FOR A REASON…MY LIFE IS GOOD NO MATTER WHAT!

    AND I BET I COULD DRESS (AND EAT LMAO) HALF IF NOT MORE OF ALL SKINNY CHICKS UNDER THE TABLE SO LET’S KEEP IT REAL! NEXT!

    oh @ lastmanstandingtall…you literally look like a rodent homeboy why are you steady talkin bout big girls LMAO! you jus mad cuz even the big sloppy b***hes probably won’t f**k wit ya. you always talkin bout big girls ugh. sorry but super lame. not to mention incredibly immature.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/-HatedOnMostly-/ -HatedOnMostly-

    oh and sorry for using jesus and 2 curse words in the same post but people r just complete idiots and hateful for no reason…when you hating on plus-size girls you hating on me…no one said every big girl is pretty but how dare you imply that none of us are? go find a girlfriend or something!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/C4pricorn/ C4pricorn

    LOSE SOME WEIGHT U BIG COWS.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/GG1025/ GG1025

    Big cows hum I wonder who you know in your family, friends that you put on a front could see t his. How easy it is to go right to your page.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msveevee1/ msveevee1

    This is soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo redundant! Let it go please and let ppl live their lives the way they want to and look how they wanna look. If it ain’t you, then what damn difference does it make??? STF up sometimes!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/meechie2641/ meechie2641

    thats like going to the bath room after a truckdriver used it. being fat is a man made virus.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/XxsexyredbonexX/ XxsexyredbonexX

    We aren’t whiny, we want to be treated fairly.

    Now, firstly let me say that you as a woman should be ashamed of yourself.
    A woman is a woman regardless of her appearance..rep..class or size.
    I PERSONALY do not complain about who I am or about my size.. I embrace it. Why?
    Because I am who I was intended to be. And i LOVE me.. All women are beautiful. Big ups to the skinny chicks.. FAT chicks.. full chested.. flat chested.. flat bootied, cottage cheese bootied.. fake tit and booty women, weavie wonders and fro rockin women.. be they whatever race they are.This is the problem amoungst women.. WE DONT ENCOURAGE one another.. we opt to pull each other down. Fat women are beautiful.. as are skinny women, but it is a social fact that we are not excepted in media or in the social eye (ie, why our section is always in the back). That is fine and well.. but that doesnt stop us from wanting what everyone else wants. We want and deserve the same opprotunities, pleasures and posetions as everyone else.
    —*Why should people who are bigger have their own exclusive clothing and fashion shows instead of being of one accord with the general population?* —
    Because society has chosen to push us away from being excepted in the “general population”. Tell me about the last time you saw a big gurl rip the runway anywhere else besides on a BET program. NEVER! We cant go into Hot Topic, Vickie Secrets, or even JC Penny’s to find something. Oh, excuse me.. Penny’s does have “plus sized” clothing. IF you are down for looking like a granny or a picnic table cloth, then by all means BUY IT UP!! We didnt ask for population segregation. To most we arent appealing, therefore shoved into our own category. That’s why we deserve it dear.
    We took sour lemons and made sweet lemonade. Just because we are bigger gives us reason to ecxcept less? Excuse me.. but no. We are intitled to fashion and popularity as much as anyone else. As far as the Fat girl night-club.. im all for it. Why would we want to go to a club where the majority of men dont want to hit on us or even offer a drink. Even if they do wanna get at us, they wait till no one is around so they dont get dogged (those men mind you are NOT real men). It would be nice to be around people/men who embrace your physique. If you dont wanna see us.. dont come. Simple as that. You’d be surprised at how many men love us.. anywho.
    Im done with my 2cent.. Be blessed yall!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/perciouslee-lee/ perciouslee-lee

    all of ya need to shut da hell up cuz we are no damn whiny-ass chicks we want to be treated the same way as any size chicks but if an skinny-ass chick will be complaining abut their image and all other stuff.I Got one thing to say to all the haters in the words of miss tyra banks “KISS MY FAT ASS”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/haughvillemami1/ haughvillemami1

    Yea XxsexyredbonexX I agree with everything you’re saying. I’m plus sized as well and I don’t think that just because we are bigger than society wants us to be means that we can’t be as pretty or as fashionable as someone who is a size 8. Let me just go ahead and dissect this article. First let’s talk about the complaining. It may seem like thats all we do but how else are you going to hear us out? Would you rather us go on sweet little campaigns to where people would ignore us or would you rather us just sit in the shadows and do nothing? Well I’m sorry to say, but it is OUR time to be heard, and if the only way that we are going to get through to shallow minded people is by complaining, then so be it. I bet if we weren’t even complaining, this article wouldn’t have been written. It gives us a voice, letting you all know that we do care and I’ts time to make a change.

    Now to answer the question “Why should people who are bigger have their own exclusive clothing and fashion shows instead of being of one accord with the general population?” Well the author of this article is right. If it wasn’t for plus size specialty stores, these other stores that have the “Plus Size” section dont have too much variety. The fabric is inferior, the style isnt all that great and all of it always looks old like it has just been sitting there, tried on by every PHAT girl that walks up in there. I’m sorry but i go there to by NEW clothes, not “Not So Gently Used” Clothes lol. It seems like only the ones who cater to giving full figured women the style that they crave are the only ones who care about us. Thats why we have our own exclusive clothing stores. And fashion shows! Let a plus size chica work the runway at a fashion show and watch her be the butt of every joke leaving everyones lips. No matter how well she worked it, she will never be accepted like the smaller models. Point Blank. Thats all there is to it. I love to model, but i have to do it in my own personal photo shoots. And believe me, I can tear it up! Ask that chica below me who can also tear it UP!!!!!!! HAHA. Anyway. Back to it. Oh and one more thing before i move on. The stores arent dumbing down styles like skinny jeans and leggings. I can ROCK the hell out of some skinny jeans AND leggings but you HAVE HAVE HAVE TO MAKE SURE YOU GET SOME THAT FIT YOU. It depends on your body type and if you’re getting the right size. Its up to the designers to make clothes that make us look good but its up to us to judge whether or not we need to be wearing it! Let’s get something that accentuates, compliments and FLATTERS our delicious CURVES! ok im done.

    Nope not yet, the night club… I can dance all night by myself and not give a damn, but for once it would be nice to have a HANDSOME fella come and offer to buy us a drink. Since these brothas who LOVE thick women are sometimes a little bit TOO SHY to come up to us in a regular club because their boys will dog them out, I think it would be nice to have a plus size club. ESPECIALLY SINCE THOSE GUYS WHO WOULD DOG THEM OUT WOULD PROBABLY BE UP IN THE PLUS SIZE CLUB TOO! Don’t even front! I can party any where, but sometimes it would be nice to not feel like you have to “cut a b**ch) for looking at you the wrong way! haha

    And last but not least I just want to address one final question. “Why do plus size women always have to squeeze into the tightest seats on the bus?” THATS BECAUSE WE DONT HAVE ANYWHERE ELSE TO SIT! If you don’t want us to SQUEEZE then all the skinny people need to group together and give our BIG ASSES some damn room! What? Do you expect us to stand up? Hell naw! If you don’t move we WILL SQUEEZE! Its as simple as that. If ya’ll got a problem then start regrouping! Hahaha!

    With all the love for my plus size queens (and women in general.(notice i didnt complain about you all. Its because i love you too!)) Peace!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Pootapye/ Pootapye

    Tell it

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dallas-princess/ dallas-princess

    i like haughville mamis statement

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SouthPhillyDivah69/ SouthPhillyDivah69

    I AGREE WITH A FEW STATEMENTS HERE (I.E.-SHAMEL/GROWNBLKGAL) WE ALL COMPLAIN (SIZE ISNT AN ISSUE-@LEAST NOT 2ME) I USED 2B A SIZE 10, THEN I HAD BABIES, GOT LAZY & SAID 2HELL W/IT BUT KEPT MYSELF CLASSY W/AN EVEN CLASSIER ATTITUDE! UNFORTUNATELY, THIS “EURO-SOCIETY HAS “BRAINWASHED” MANY OF US N2 THINKIN THAT OUR PHYSICAL SIZE DETERMINES WHO WE R & WHERE WE BELONG-NOT!!!! IM A BLESSED “PLUS-SIZED, THICK, PHAT-WHATEVA WOMAN W/ CLASS 2SPARE & THERES NOTHIN OR NOONE WHO CAN TAKE THAT AWAY. AS 4THE “HATERS”, UNDERCOVER “CHUBBY CHASERS” & THOSE IN DENIAL: I SEND U ALL SMOOCHES & A SNICKER BAR CAUSE ITS ALL GOOD IN MY NEIGHBORHOOD! I GET MORE PLAY @MY SIZE 18-20 THAN I EVA & I AINT MAD! IF I WAS THAT UNHAPPY I WOULDVE LOST THE WEIGHT BUT WHY FIX WHAT AINT BROKE?! LIKE MONIQUE, JILL SCOTT, MAISA, ETC-LOVIN WHO U R IS WHAT COUNTS-NOT WHAT STORE U CAN SHOP IN OR WHO U CAN IMPRESS! IF UR UNHAPPY W/ UR “APPEARANCE-CHANGE IT OTHERWISE- LIVE LOVE-BE HAPPY & LIKE ME “REP UR “THICK SISTAHGIRL QUEENDOM! IM A 40 YR GRANDMA & IM COOL W/MINES!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kaikai7/ kaikai7

    I am a shapely plus sized woman wearing a size 14. I happen to love Ashley Stewart’s clothing,because I feel that just because a woman is larger than a size 1-10 does not mean that she can’t dress in a stylish appropriate fashion! There is a need for plus sized fashion lines and show,magazines,etc because for the most part the mainstream top fashion designers are creating their clothing lines for women who are a size 0. The average American woman is a lot larger than that, so there is a need and target customer for this.Plus sized woman should be able to view images of themselves in the pages of magazines, on tv, etc!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kultur32/ kultur32

    WOW, NEVER KNEW THAT, BECUZ I’M 30 AND I NEVER REALLY LIKED A SKINNY GAL, THICKNESS IS THE FUTURE, ALL THICK FEMALES SHOULD BE PROUD, THEY SHOULD LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND SAY “I’M THICK, I’M THICK AS HELL, THANK YOU JESUS-

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blue1_2008/ blue1_2008

    B***hy, whiny?? I bet some skinny ass broad wrote this to try an further berate the “Plus Size” women. I love Monique and I agree I hate you skinny b***hes always complaining that you are fat..blah blah blah…The world has led us to believe that we have to be model thin to be loved.. That’s some BS.. There are very few stores that cater to women with a lil extra cushion and Plus Size Models?? Where the hell are they becuz I havent seen any. If anyone is whiny it’s these “Perfect Models” that think the world revolves around them.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/hunnibunnz/ hunnibunnz

    @ judokno18: CO-SIGN!

    Y’all are sounding real ignorant right now!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexymocha81/ sexymocha81

    I agree with this like Mo’Nique say F**K SKINNY B***HES….yall skinny ass need to go eat some chicken you skinny b***h!!!! And I bet some size 5 b***h wrote this…I am here to say I only whine about skinny b***hes thinking they better than me…..Dont knock it til u try it BABES!!! Thanks for all the plus size women who responded to this ignorant ass topic!!! Love to all my BBW’s, Plus Size, Thick, Plump and to infinity women!!!LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/diamondoh36/ diamondoh36

    you know i dnt understand why people think that they live in a world that revolves around people like them rather we are skinny, small ,big are tall we all are made up different even a child understands that where do people get this stuff because who ever you are you need to come out of la,la land and get real your not going to stop people frm being genetically made up the way,the Lord intended for them to be made and i love Ashley Stewart i shop there all the time she has something for all sizes honey when you speak know wat your talking about because that was a stupid comment and sometimes we have to learn keep things to ourselves… im a happy bbw and loving it….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/melissa_157/ melissa_157

    I don’t want to have to go to a special “plus” store to shop. I want to know that I can go into any store on the street and find either that actually fit me…as in fit not hide. I don’t want mumus and tents. I want to look good and look sexy. I’m not whining to be treated special..I’m fighting to be treated equal.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/samsthewon/ samsthewon

    Their are some big girl’s out there with cute face’s…I’ll say that much.Like the saying goe’s…”Big Girl’s Need Lovin’ To”,just not by me they don’t.I’d probably give them the time…only if they asked nicely!…The only thing I want(need)big is a “BANK-ROLL”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/samsthewon/ samsthewon

    Some big girl’s do have pretty face’s though I’ll say that much.Like the saying goes “Big Girl’s Need Lovin’ To” just not by me they don’t!…I’d probably give them the time if they asked nicely.The only thing I want(need)big is a “Bank-Roll”…and my girl’s boob’s!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Bella_973/ Bella_973

    Who ever wrote this is the one who’s whinning, im a size 16 myself im not complaining I love my body and never really have issuse with no one. But like a petite woman who can go to Rue 21, joyce leslie, and others Name Brands and pick out what she wants I want to have the same experience as well. We can’t the help the way God created us if we all look alike we probably would not have our own indiviality. To whoever wrote this eat a burger and go to sleep….: )

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AsKBoUtMeBiAcTh_01/ AsKBoUtMeBiAcTh_01

    IS DIS SERIOUS.. WE TOO WHINY! WAT U MEAN!? SHYT STUPID

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MzBadAzzitGets/ MzBadAzzitGets

    I think everyone is missing the f**king point…She is not talking about plus sized woman she is simply stating what “other people say” she is actually defending yall plus size women in a sarcastic way..saying yes we might whine but here is the reason…we need the same respect…Or did yall just read the first paragraph and start judging…At first i was like that messed up until i read THE WHOLE ENTIRE THING… and then came up with my conculsion and yall just made the point of the article complaining…and the lady tryna help
    DID YALL READ THAT PARAGRAPH OR U COULDN’t WAIT TO START WHINING..CALM THE F**K DOWN>>>>>>>>>>>Yet stores insist on “dumbing down” styles like skinny jeans and leggings and slap the “plus-size” sticker across it and call it “plus-size fashion.” Think about the last time you went to store with a “plus-size” or “women’s” section. Notice how cute and fitted the “petite” section’s clothes are. How flattering and unique every garment is. Then step into the big girls’ area, typically all the way in the back of the store. The very store that carries the cutesy clothes for skinny women, offer bigger women “tent-inspired” garments with the nerve to make them in the same fabrics as the skinny stuff like they can’t tell the difference!
    And maybe yall should look at star jones new thing about food killing us black women in america anyways….and im sorry its not okay to be unhealthy and say eat thats what u need to do their a difference between thick and big and i truly think some of us need to take the time out and check in on that..don’t think it cute to be unhealthy and big DUECES****

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MzBadAzzitGets/ MzBadAzzitGets

    AND NO THEY DID NOT JUDOKNOW18….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ScottNaji2/ ScottNaji2

    I’m sick & tired of this FAKE ASS fat girl movement. (sigh)

    Why not just, shut the hell up, drink some water & eat some celery.

    Take yo fat asses to the gym. All the energy spent trying to force everyone to conform to your jelly roll lookin’ ass, you could use that energy on a DAMN treadmill.
    Uggghhh!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ScottNaji2/ ScottNaji2

    When these dumb asses start complaining about joint problems, diabetes, heart attacks etc. They’ll change their minds.

    Sad & narcissistic. Instead of losing weight. Everyone people, stores, clothing lines should instead conform to my fat overweight black ass!

    That is the most delusional ass backwards logic I have ever heard EVER!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kfknighten/ kfknighten

    ScottNaji2 You are stupid! Now I don’t want to be treated anymore special than anyone else cuz Im full figured but I would like the equal opprotunity to find what I need in any store I go to just like a smaller woman! I love my size and Im not whinny but I would like to go wherever and get what i need and look good and not frumpy! Im all for the fact that some full figured females wear things they shoudn’t cuz its not flattering but I would like more of a variety in more stores! There’s even more out there for the big guy than for the women! Make a change! Don’t out cast the full figured just let us be apart and be just as worthy!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/RaQuelK2009/ RaQuelK2009

    First off let stop the us them attiude… I do not think a plus size woman should have a seperate club from da normal population. That’s ridiculous. Although I believe that maybe there should be fashion shows gear just for plus size. I mean so many of us can identify with looking at America’s Next Top Model because we’re accepted as being normal in size but for a plus size woman how can she look at that and identify when that is what is still viewed as what beauty is. I have a cousin and even though she will ride with me to the end when we go out and people approach us they may say they like my outfit or I look nice but she often heres ( you have a pretty face) I mean I just think for most people if your honest you will admitt that yes we’ve came quite a ways but we still have a long way to go. I mean I often hear people complain about if they don’t make it out to the store when shipments first come in before everything is picked over it’s hard to find anything and I mean I honestly have to admit that I don’t have that problem. I mean a size 7 is always somewhere in the store but the size 16 rack for my cousin always end up saying well when we leave here lets stop somewhere else because all the sizes are out. If you want them to stop complaining then make just as many of their sizes as regular sizes…. I just feel like the plus size women are stepping up their game but all at the same time their is still a difference made in regular verses plus size..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/saartjie/ saartjie

    wow plus size club? really?, I am a plus size woman and I am not asking for any more than the next woman, I am thankful that there are more attractive clothes for the Average/ plus size woman vs/ my grandmothers day but that is expected because times have changed. All women are beautiful and I think the ones who have taken it to far are maybe the plus size population with low self esteem who is worried about acceptance so they expect for america to change on their behalf in order to be excepted. I say if thats what your worried about then get on a diet like the rest of america who feels they need to be a certain image to fit in, find your niche and shut the hell up, its been this way and always has been so get in where you fit in!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MagicallyTasty/ MagicallyTasty

    Who the F**k Wrote this should be shot… I cant believe what im reading … This was the most disgusting thing i have ever read on this site.. Dont get me wrong they have been some better bad worthless stuff on here.. but this stops the cake..I as a not so small girl am very offended by reading this .

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BonSante/ BonSante

    GOD DON’T LIKE UGLY!!! FIRST YOU’RE MEDDLING PEOPLE’S COMPLEXION, NOW YOU’RE MEDDLING PEOPLE’S SIZES. THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING “HELLO BEAUTIFUL”. YOU CAN NAME YOURSELF HELLO BEAUTIFUL AND BE VERY UGLY WITH WHO YOU HIRE TO WRITE THESE ARTICLES.
    “HelloBeautiful: Black Women, Black Beauty, Black Health …
    For beautiful women of all colors and shades. … By Hello Beautiful November 13, 2009 4:20 pm. Read more about … By Hello Beautiful November 13, 2009 1:00 pm … ”
    SOUNDS LIKE FALSE ADVERTISEMENT TO ME. THERE IS NOTHING BEAUTIFUL ABOUT THAT!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/recognize_real88/ recognize_real88

    THIS IS LIKE THE DUMBEST S*** I EVER READ. IM A PLUS SIZE GIRL AND I DONT COMPLAIN ABOUT A D*** THING. SEEMS TO ME LIKE OLE GIRL WHO WROTE THIS IS A LIL BIT TO CONCERNED ABOUT THIS AND NEEDS TO WORRY BOUT HER OWN SELF. SHE MAKE IT SEEM LIKE PLUS SIZE WOMEN IN THE WORLD AINT SUPPOSE TO HAVE S***. SHE WRITES Why should people who are bigger have their own exclusive clothing and fashion shows instead of being of one accord with the general population? I’LL TELL U WHY, ITS BECAUSE PEOPLE LIKE THE FEMALE WHO WROTE THIS ARTICLE SHOW COMPLETE IGNORANCE AND DONT EVEN WANT TO CARRY PLUS SIZE CLOTHING CAUSE THEY THINK THE SAME WAY SHE THINKS.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Cryssy81/ Cryssy81

    I have to comment on this one. I myself am a size 18. I have plus size friends, and they are good women with a good heart, unlike this B***H that has the nerve to call names and just be straight up disrespectful. Ms Alyssa, you my dear are a classless b***h who needs a course in manners. There is no excuse, NONE for you to be mean, ignorant and a straight up b***h. You probably ain’t even cute your damn self and just mad cause there are a lot of plus size women, who look a hell of a lot better than you. Just remember, karma is a b***h and I hope you get yours.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Tight_Red_Queen/ Tight_Red_Queen

    LOL……AAAAIIIIIIGGGHHT!!!!!…..I DONT COMPLAIN AND I DONT GET COMPLAINTS …HOW YOU DOIN!!!!
    http://WWW.MYSPACE.COM/MSAPRILDATHICCCHICC

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/reginadallas727/ reginadallas727

    THIS S**T IS RIDICULOUS! HOW IN DA F**K CAN YALL SAY SOMETHIN LIKE DAT. A LOT OF PEOPLE CANT HELP BEIN THICK NO MATTER WHAT THEY DO. MOST OF THE TIME IT RUNS IN THE FAMILY DUMBASSES. AND YEAH THEY DO MAKE PLUS ISZE CLOTHES LOOK UGLY ASS HELL AND GIVE ALL DA SKINNY B***HES PRETTY DECENT CLOTHES.YEAH I SAID IT HOLLA!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Dat_Neck_Breaker/ Dat_Neck_Breaker

    I am not one for commenting on these blogs, but this one slightly offended me and I felt that my opinion was needed. First of all I dont agree wth big girls being the ones to complain all of the time. I am not a skinny girl I am a size 12 and my bestfriend a 16. Not never have we spent a day complaining because we dont fit in todays society of the perfect body and nor do we speak down to another woman becuase she does happen to fit the “IT” look… Why is that you think skinny people can have their own stores but we cannot. I have been in several stores where the clothes never hit double digits. Same with the tv shows which most of which are dedicated to helping big people lose weight (not to encourage weight gain). Showing that you should be comfortable with your body but also making sure to embrace a healthy life style. So i maintain a healthy lifestyle while enjoying my Jellyrolls every once in a while a*shole.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Dat_Neck_Breaker/ Dat_Neck_Breaker

    I am not one for commenting on these blogs, but this one slightly offended me and I felt that my opinion was needed. First of all I dont agree wth big girls being the ones to complain all of the time. I am not a skinny girl I am a size 12 and my bestfriend a 16. Not never have we spent a day complaining because we dont fit in todays society of the perfect body and nor do we speak down to another woman becuase she does happen to fit the “IT” look… Why is that you think skinny people can have their own stores but we cannot. I have been in several stores where the clothes never hit double digits. Same with the tv shows which most of which are dedicated to helping big people lose weight (not to encourage weight gain). Showing that you should be comfortable with your body but also making sure to embrace a healthy life style.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SEARCH09/ SEARCH09

    you know what hello beautiful.ITS FUNNY HOW YOU’LL FEMALES POSTIN THIS MESS DAY AFTER DAY, MONTH AFTER MONTH, YEAR AFTER YEAR about women as if fat,thick, big, round was a virus.now i’m not fat nor close but like i said in another post, i have some family members and friends who happen to be on the thick side.now LAST TIME I CHECKED….THE OBESITY WAS EFFECTING BOTH WOMEN AND MEN throughout the world, predominantly blacks.

    AFTER COUNTLESS POST ON BLACK “FAT” VS “THICK” WOMEN— TO— IS THICK THE NEW FAT geared merely towards women— AND NOW— WHINY FAT WOMEN!!!!! is hellobeautiful that lonely?how YOU do’n?

    notice key words>>> “effecting” “black” “women and men” so WHY NOT HOP OUT OF THE NORM FOR ONE MINUTE AND ACTUALLY DO A POST ABOUT OBESITY IN AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN??????lets not TRY to even make this a gender issue BEING THAT YOU’LL POSTING THIS MESS 88% OF THE TIME…ARE “WOMEN”

    -search A.K.A tell it like I C it

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MarazZ/ MarazZ

    Wow. I am a beautiful plus size woman & NO I am NOT COMPLANING! I AM DOING IT! My style is on point and I work it! No I don’t complain, or whine about how “skinny girls this or skinny that”, honestly I don’t care about size whatsoever, never do I utter anything about skinny, nor am I hating on skinny women. I just want to know how is Hello Beautiful going to be so critical of a women when all women are BEAUTIFUL no matter their size, color, style, whatever. I cannot believe that WE as black women always want to downgrade each other! Its so sad that you had the nerve to write something so rude…opinion or not how does a site allow someone to post something so hateful? Hm..sad. Its hard being a plus size women, but at the same time I am NOT the typical stereotype of a “fat” woman. How dare you judge a whole group of women based on one or two people you’ve come in counter with? Smh. I just wonder what you look like, critique yourself before you can critique a whole group of women!! This is truly ignorence at it’s finest. I hope that you love yourself enough to realize that your wrong & need to get it together.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kbneville/ kbneville

    Whomever this Alyssa Manners person is, she needs to sit her dumb ass down. Maybe she doesn’t realize, but there are plenty of Plus Size/Misses stores down here in Monroe, Louisiana and the plus sized clothes are in the FRONT of the stores right along with the misses clothes.

    They keep them seperated, and generally everything that they have is not TENT-INSPIRED. Plus sized clothes, contrary to popular belief tend to be rather trendy and cute. Yes, there are some tents out there but just because they make em doesn’t mean that I have to BUY them.

    So to whomever it is that wrote this, I’ma need you to move your dumb ass around with this stupid s**t. Cause it’s things like this that personifies your ignorance. And this is coming for a big, fly ass girl! Kick rocks, Alyssa Manners!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MzBadAzzitGets/ MzBadAzzitGets

    STILL YALL NOT READING THE WHOLE STORY SMH? READ THE WHOLE STORY

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexyblkchick/ sexyblkchick

    u dumb a** b*tch u aint got no right u dnt knw a damn thing about plus size women

  • http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/making-love-to-a-chubby-belly-man/ Making Love To A Chubby Belly Man | Hello Beautiful

    [...] Plus-Size Women Are Too Whiny! [...]

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MAXAMIL1/ MAXAMIL1

    I hear plenty of whining going on and i think I smell Hatorade….

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