How about, NOT comparing you to some woman from his past (or any other woman) as far as YOU being more like HER.

“I wrote a post entitled “8 Mistakes Women Make To Ruin A Relationship” and received high fives and applause from men all around the world who felt that I had single-handedly grasped many of the mistakes that women make when dealing with their men. ”

Lol I love how you bypassed the comments about your belittling unprofessional post. FIGURES.

Spell check is a beautiful thang..

“A woman never wants to feel like the man she loves is putting his freinds before her.” *Friends
“you may feel closer to your freinds than your girl and share a special bond with them. ” *FRIENDS

#5 “5. Not Telling Her How You Feel” That is a common WOMAN’S problem–men are not that difficult, a man pretty much shows when he is upset or withdrawn.

“If no one else in the world makes her feel like she is the s**t then her man should. She does not care that you think the girl in the music video has a fat a**. So no need to let her know that you are comparing. ” Thanks for that very unprofessional help ONCE AGAIN. My God have you ever spoken this way at a job interveiw?!!?

yep, #2 and #3 are pretty much the reasons why my relationships failed. also #8…i don’t wanna hear you talking about this chick and that chick…this celebrity and that girl you just met. STFU…this relationship is about me and you. ME, and you.

Thank you so much Mrs Pink Diamond. I did make mistakes while rushing to post the article. Again, thank you. You truly are a genius.

Since we’re on the topic Ms Pink…

Thing NOT thang

Interview NOT Interveiw

And what do you mean when you say “unprofessional help”? I do not see anywhere it says Dr. yeashesaidit

I’m just wondering why most of these are considered “mistakes”. I personally feel to each his or her own.

Like making the same “mistake” over and over. I think when the person does it about 5 to 6 times, you’d realize it’s part of their personality NOT a mistake. Same goes for men and women.

I love how the picture shows a guy on the phone when it could just as easily be the woman.

1M. Not Spending Enough Time With Her
1F. Spending Too Much Time With Him

2M. Making The Same Mistakes Over And Over Again Once You Have Been Forgiven
2F. Your “Mistakes” Are His Personality

3M. Putting Others Before Your Woman
3F. Letting Others Into All Your Business

4M/F. Selfish Behavior

5M. Not Telling Her How You Feel
5F. Always Fishing For Compliments

6M. Expecting Sex To Solve Your Relationship Problems Instead Of Talking
6F. Expecting Talking To Solve Your Relationship Problems Instead Of Sex

7M. Letting Ego Guide You In Your Decision Making
7F. Letting Emotions Guide You In Your Decision Making

8M. Not Making Her Feel Special
8F. Making Him Make You Feel Special By Acting Like He’s 12

We’re from the same planet, we just want different pieces of the same thing

la_fruta_prohibida,
I actually meant to put THANG not THING. Thanks.

yeahshesaidit,
its okay, you dont have to fakely apologize to me with sarcasm–next time, just use spell check or copy and paste it into MS Word. I thought all [real] writers did that?.

la_fruta_prohibida oh wow I spelled INTERVIEW wrong–big difference is I’m not writing an article for a professional website, so in theory, yes I can call out her grammatical errors. My ONE misspelled word in the comment section does not compare to the NUMEROUS misspellings in the ACTUAL ARTICLE. GTFOH.

“unprofessional help”, did you not read the other article? Maybe you should read that before posting an ignorant statement as you did. When one is writing an ARTICLE for a MAJOR WEBSITE and is on STAFF, one is held to a certain degree of PROFESSIONALISM. Are you stupid, dumb, deaf, retarded, or just not comprehending that being professional has nothing to do with the title the preceeds your name. Lol, you trying to belittle my statements was cute though, notice how I said try.

Again, using such phrases as “If no one else in the world makes her feel like she is the s**t then her man should. She does not care that you think the girl in the music video has a fat a**.” Does NOT fall under ‘professionalism’. And of course, those reading this will think this is how ‘educated’ black people express themselves.

Why yeahshesaidit couldnt have said “If no one else in the world makes her feel like the beautiful queen/woman/princess/goddess she is, then her man should. She does not care that you think the girl in the music video is has the most gorgeous butt you’ve ever seen…”

Do you see how I truned that into a PROFESSIONAL statement?? Smh I swear some people man..some people….*mumbles* degenerates

Spoken like a true moron. I know a thing or two about content presentation in media so let me school you.

It is NOT the journalist or writer’s responsibility to make sure his/her article is grammatically correct. That is the editor’s job. Get it? EDIT-OR. The person that edits and makes sure it is ready to be presented.

What the journalist/writer’s PROFESSION is is to write AND to make sure his/her facts or ideas are presented in an easily understandable manner. One magazine might not allow words like SH!T or AS$ but another would.

So get mad at the right person for the spelling. And save your definition of “professionalism” for someone who gives a damn.

Un-retarded enough for you?

All this depends on the woman you’re dealing with. Some women appreciate attention, some women don’t because they’ll start to feel like he ain’t got enough to do or looks lame/cheesy. Well I’ll say this…..Don’t try this with a female from the hood lol. Some women will take dick before they accept love and sex is not love, you know, the thing that has substance haha. Find out a way to seperate the two types of women, then take this advice seriously.

Trilldaofficial is right. some broads drawn closer to a dude if he puts her through the wringer and on a few mental and emotional roller coaster rides!

This could apply to ladies.too……

Lol, I wasnt going to beat the preverbial ‘dead horse’ but what the hey!

la_fruta_prohibida, you call me a moron? I would love to know where you read articles that the journalists is able to curse freely, and repulsively such as this one here? And I said journalist, not direct quote from an interviewee. Go ‘head—I’ll wait. *Smile*

“It is NOT the journalist or writer’s responsibility to make sure his/her article is grammatically correct. That is the editor’s job. Get it? EDIT-OR. The person that edits and makes sure it is ready to be presented. ”
This statement ranks with one of the most stupidest things on bp I’ve ever read. First of all, are you saying that a journalist doesnt know how to spell simple words, or have any sense of grammar? LOL, now thats really funny. Please, again, please lists these publications that will hire such a ‘journalist’ *smile* I’ll wait. Second of all–it is NOT an editor’s job to PROOFread an article, they decide which article goes where and which article should gain the spotlight or the lowlight. Idiot. Oh and if you dont believe me…here are a few definitions:

Editor-a person having managerial and sometimes policy-making responsibility for the editorial part of a publishing firm or of a newspaper, magazine, or other publication.

Editor-the supervisor or conductor of a department of a newspaper, magazine, etc.: the sports editor of a newspaper.

Perhaps you meant…PROOFREADER? Since there are those on staff…the editor does a FINAL check through to ensure that the article is ready…what idiot thinks that someone hands an editor of a major magazine a first draft?!

“And save your definition of ‘professionalism’ for someone who gives a damn.” And you my dear, are whom the blog posts are target towards.

Targeted twoards*

Lol damn my fast typing! Towards*

#1-ok spend time oh ‘s ya when Im ready that’s about it
#2well if a female cant see that she’s stupid an also if I make a mistake i don’t need no forgiveness because I’m not begging no women that’s weak.I’m human an I’ll forgive myself an move on because at the end of the day its more women an the competition is real good in my favorite because I don’t have to settle at all.Remember I don’t have a biological clock.
#3Now that one I don’t believe in I’m not putting nobody before me that’s stupid because at the end of the day a women can live the dumb fool who do stuff like that.I’ll rather be into myself at the end of the day an also females should be them since they so “independent” like they say.So don’t get mad since women are so strong an powerful lol
#4Ok it is all about me that’s a fact of life an I don’t care if its a turn off.Because again its all about me so if your turn off well Im not losing anything only more women to gain.An also I’m not thinking about another person on my mind nope not me that’s when a female knows she conquer you that’s a weakness .If a female haunts your mind she’s manipulating you with you believe this or not its the art of seduction even if she’s not consciously aware of what she’s doing because as humans we manipulate each other all time even if were being honest.

It’s a shame that none of this will secure a woman staying with a man. If her head isn’t right, none of this will matter. Sadly, it takes unfortunate and/or unflattering circ**stances to get to that point (extended age, children, the general flower wilt, or simply station realization). Before that, none of what this article addresses has any real importance. Ladies, with the most to offer a good man, willingly and repeated throw it away at the feet of flashy losers, that are too busy collecting the likes of these idiot chicks in question en masse, to give a d@mn about any one of ‘em. I guess a lack of strong fathers makes it easy to be enthralled by bustas …

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Hi y’all,i m kinda new to ds site n i hv been following yr updates all along.
Just wanna chip in by askin 4 suggestions n advice frm ma fellow bros n sis’s.
Met a guy via d internet about 3months now,he a lil over ten yrs older than i m and we hv really been getting along well.we are both citiizens of d same black country but he currently resides in d US.He is comin home pretty soon,already bought his ticket n sent me his booking information.Said he s comin. Arnd for my sake,says he wants to meet me n then
our relationship can move to d next level .
Met with his mum and best friend here……but my problem is …we got talkin on d phone few days ago n he asked if i could invite a friend to watch us hv sex *which i sense cld lead to a twosome* or if i can allow him hv sex with a friend of mine of my choice..
Initially,i got upset but he calmed me and said it wasn’t a big deal,that it would be fun and would even make our love stronger..*this is someone promising me marriage*
I asked for sometime to think before i give him my answer but deep down,i think its absurd.maybe i m just thinkin like an average african but i really need quick anwers.
I love him already but i want to be sure he s not playing pranks on me or maybe wot he needs is a fly by ngt romance.
??????