Comments on: No Judgement Fridays: So You Want To Date A Bisexual? http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/ Black Celebrity Gossip | Relationship Advice | Beauty Tips for Black Women Sat, 11 Feb 2012 02:17:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.6 By: xxxtahcee06 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-925177 xxxtahcee06 Fri, 20 Nov 2009 17:17:48 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-925177 shoot yall forgot to put Missy Elliott, The Brat, Trina, EVe And all them other Cat lickers up there please its more chicks than that in the industry that love them some Pu$$y shoot yall forgot to put Missy Elliott, The Brat, Trina, EVe And all them other Cat lickers up there please its more chicks than that in the industry that love them some Pu$$y

]]> By: sylkiifeather http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-924337 sylkiifeather Fri, 20 Nov 2009 08:48:05 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-924337 are we still on this dumb a$$ sh*t??? are we still on this dumb a$$ sh*t???

]]> By: msveevee1 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-923117 msveevee1 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 23:40:02 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-923117 Well like I've said a million times before and I guess I'll say it one more time...bcuz everyone was BORN INTO SIN, we ALL HAVE THE TENDENCY TO COMMIT EVERY SIN KNOWN UNDER THE SUN. Just like ppl born blind, deaf, mute, with leukemia, sickle cell and every other ailments known or unknown. Adam and Eve was made PERFECT! Sin came in and each generation became weakened from that perfected stature. Each generation passed on all kind of new sins for each generation to cultivate in mind, body and soul ( I always say that bcuz satan caused the 1st ppl to sin, he is the force and will always be the force behind all evil and wicked things...sin). Homosexuality is just as much sin as anything else. Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed bcuz of it. The men in that city fed off of the sexual perversion and immorality that they even wanted to rape the angels that came to save Lot and his family from the DESTRUCTION of that city. What triggers each sin to be committed is the DESIRE TO COMMIT THEM. So sin is linked to us no matter what. It is in our DNA and can take control of one's soul/spirit. But that is, IF YOU LET IT! Ppl who have been raped, molested or abused are easy targets to carry on the legacy of homosexuality. That is why it happens to them so young in age. Bcuz they are innocent and as pure as they can be at that time. That's when the demons come to take their innocence away by corrupting and tainting their young and impressionable psyche/spirit/soul. Bcuz for them to indulge in it, it HAD TO BE PASSED ON TO THEM in some kind of form or fashion. But what puzzles me is...for those who were sodomized by a trusted person or even somebody you don't know...or for even those that just been fondled in molestation...why would it make them WANT to engage just that much more in that activity almost to the point of leading them into promiscuity? Did someone say it was a form of love? Or did they say that in order to live in this world you have to give your mind, body and soul over to sexual sin to feel needed, wanted or accepted? Bcuz believe me you, if I was raped, molested or abused, bcuz of my spirit, I would turn away from that bcuz it's shameful, it makes you feel guilty and dirty. And most of all, it confuses you. So why do ppl in those circ u m stances easily accept the role that they have been given to continue on with satan's lies and practicing immoral perversion? Then they get mad at ppl who don't accept that garbage and think that we should understand their weak-minds and spirits and just say and think, "Screw it! If I can't convince them of the heinous crimes of their sins than I should just join them!" Is that what you homos and bi's think? That everyone should just be loaded down with perversion like yall? I mean, the demons are having a big ole' fun festival making weak ppl like homosexuals think that they "got it going on". It just reminds me of a childhood game that we used to play. You know, tag? It's like ppl are running around saying, "Tag, you're it!" while they past the contagiousness of homosexuality on to other ppl. But bcuz I KNOW WHO I AM and STAND FIRM AGAINST THE ENEMY, satan know (and anybody else whose strings he pulls) that not only is he rebuked, but it AIN'T NEVA and I do mean NEVA, popping off like that over this way! I put my RIGHT HAND UP TO JEHOVAH GOD on that! Well like I’ve said a million times before and I guess I’ll say it one more time…bcuz everyone was BORN INTO SIN, we ALL HAVE THE TENDENCY TO COMMIT EVERY SIN KNOWN UNDER THE SUN. Just like ppl born blind, deaf, mute, with leukemia, sickle cell and every other ailments known or unknown. Adam and Eve was made PERFECT! Sin came in and each generation became weakened from that perfected stature. Each generation passed on all kind of new sins for each generation to cultivate in mind, body and soul ( I always say that bcuz satan caused the 1st ppl to sin, he is the force and will always be the force behind all evil and wicked things…sin). Homosexuality is just as much sin as anything else. Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed bcuz of it. The men in that city fed off of the sexual perversion and immorality that they even wanted to rape the angels that came to save Lot and his family from the DESTRUCTION of that city. What triggers each sin to be committed is the DESIRE TO COMMIT THEM. So sin is linked to us no matter what. It is in our DNA and can take control of one’s soul/spirit. But that is, IF YOU LET IT! Ppl who have been raped, molested or abused are easy targets to carry on the legacy of homosexuality. That is why it happens to them so young in age. Bcuz they are innocent and as pure as they can be at that time. That’s when the demons come to take their innocence away by corrupting and tainting their young and impressionable psyche/spirit/soul. Bcuz for them to indulge in it, it HAD TO BE PASSED ON TO THEM in some kind of form or fashion. But what puzzles me is…for those who were sodomized by a trusted person or even somebody you don’t know…or for even those that just been fondled in molestation…why would it make them WANT to engage just that much more in that activity almost to the point of leading them into promiscuity? Did someone say it was a form of love? Or did they say that in order to live in this world you have to give your mind, body and soul over to sexual sin to feel needed, wanted or accepted? Bcuz believe me you, if I was raped, molested or abused, bcuz of my spirit, I would turn away from that bcuz it’s shameful, it makes you feel guilty and dirty. And most of all, it confuses you. So why do ppl in those circ u m stances easily accept the role that they have been given to continue on with satan’s lies and practicing immoral perversion? Then they get mad at ppl who don’t accept that garbage and think that we should understand their weak-minds and spirits and just say and think, “Screw it! If I can’t convince them of the heinous crimes of their sins than I should just join them!” Is that what you homos and bi’s think? That everyone should just be loaded down with perversion like yall? I mean, the demons are having a big ole’ fun festival making weak ppl like homosexuals think that they “got it going on”. It just reminds me of a childhood game that we used to play. You know, tag? It’s like ppl are running around saying, “Tag, you’re it!” while they past the contagiousness of homosexuality on to other ppl. But bcuz I KNOW WHO I AM and STAND FIRM AGAINST THE ENEMY, satan know (and anybody else whose strings he pulls) that not only is he rebuked, but it AIN’T NEVA and I do mean NEVA, popping off like that over this way! I put my RIGHT HAND UP TO JEHOVAH GOD on that!

]]> By: SweetCaliTea http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-923047 SweetCaliTea Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:58:42 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-923047 @ toodelicious4u I definitely appreciate your opinion. I'm going off of studies that show that the chromosomes that regulate gender can sometimes show abnormalities. Check out this article from Time (http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,978923,00.html). The article references a study that shows that homosexuality can be genetic and can be a result of a deformity of the X chromosomes given by the mother. Therefore, in essence, one would be born gay, like I said, based on a genetic abnormality. A chromosomal abnormality that regulates gender, which I believe as well as scientist, determines ones sexuality. It is in the genetic makeup that a man is attracted to a women and a women is attracted to a man. If a person has an abnormality that causes them to relate to or have instincts or characteristic of the opposite sex (male having instincts of a female or a female having instincts of a male), it only make sense that they will, as natural instinct dictates, chose the opposite of the gender they relate themselves to (males with female instincts will naturally be drawn to males and females with male instincts will be drawn to females.) Now I do believe that there are people who, due to life events, choose to live life as a gay person as I said in my earlier response. This is evident by the fact that many women become "gay" after being raped by a man or after being in a bad relationship with a man. Same thing with men. Sometimes men will become "gay" after being molested in childhood. I believe these types of individuals are making a conscious choice based on their feelings and beliefs, but there are those who are born with abnormalities causing them to have confusion with gender relation and sexuality. Now the racist comment was pretty silly as racism is the belief that one’s race is superior over another or the hating of a person based on their race. That, I agree, can only be learned. As there isn't a gene or chromosome that regulates beliefs as there is with gender, beliefs, such as racism and prejudices, are taught. @ toodelicious4u I definitely appreciate your opinion. I’m going off of studies that show that the chromosomes that regulate gender can sometimes show abnormalities. Check out this article from Time (http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,978923,00.html). The article references a study that shows that homosexuality can be genetic and can be a result of a deformity of the X chromosomes given by the mother. Therefore, in essence, one would be born gay, like I said, based on a genetic abnormality. A chromosomal abnormality that regulates gender, which I believe as well as scientist, determines ones sexuality. It is in the genetic makeup that a man is attracted to a women and a women is attracted to a man. If a person has an abnormality that causes them to relate to or have instincts or characteristic of the opposite sex (male having instincts of a female or a female having instincts of a male), it only make sense that they will, as natural instinct dictates, chose the opposite of the gender they relate themselves to (males with female instincts will naturally be drawn to males and females with male instincts will be drawn to females.)

Now I do believe that there are people who, due to life events, choose to live life as a gay person as I said in my earlier response. This is evident by the fact that many women become “gay” after being raped by a man or after being in a bad relationship with a man. Same thing with men. Sometimes men will become “gay” after being molested in childhood. I believe these types of individuals are making a conscious choice based on their feelings and beliefs, but there are those who are born with abnormalities causing them to have confusion with gender relation and sexuality.

Now the racist comment was pretty silly as racism is the belief that one’s race is superior over another or the hating of a person based on their race. That, I agree, can only be learned. As there isn’t a gene or chromosome that regulates beliefs as there is with gender, beliefs, such as racism and prejudices, are taught.

]]> By: petiteAlicious http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-923017 petiteAlicious Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:50:22 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-923017 toodelicious4u: Go educate yourself please. Here think on this...so are you born straight or do become straight by experiences too?? If this is so then way are so many people against gay people?? toodelicious4u: Go educate yourself please. Here think on this…so are you born straight or do become straight by experiences too?? If this is so then way are so many people against gay people??

]]> By: toodelicious4u http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-921797 toodelicious4u Thu, 19 Nov 2009 17:40:25 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-921797 SweetCaliTea, No one is born gay! Being gay is a choice that you make in life. You have to experience different situations in life in order to come to the decision of being gay. You are not born into this world with experience. You learn and grow as you get older than you began to make decisions for yourself. Saying a person is born gay is just a dumb as saying a person is born a racist. Thant's totally untrue because children are born color blind before they learn other experiences and see different situations! SweetCaliTea, No one is born gay! Being gay is a choice that you make in life. You have to experience different situations in life in order to come to the decision of being gay. You are not born into this world with experience. You learn and grow as you get older than you began to make decisions for yourself. Saying a person is born gay is just a dumb as saying a person is born a racist. Thant’s totally untrue because children are born color blind before they learn other experiences and see different situations!

]]> By: SweetCaliTea http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-918287 SweetCaliTea Wed, 18 Nov 2009 21:57:17 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-918287 This article is complete foolishness, and I am so annoyed at the author and other homosexual supporters making up crap to justify being gay or to encourage people to engage in homosexual or bisexual behavior. First of all, don't let this fool feed you garbage; the attraction between a male and female is instinctive behavior; it is not behavior that is learned through socialized pressure. (Nobody had to pressure me to like men. I knew where it was at early!) In fact, some “gay” of “bisexual” individuals are gay or bisexual as a result of exposure (molestation, abuse, and/ or freaky aZZ people in their life) to that environment at a early age, and because of the early influences, they are sexually confused. There are children, however, who are born gay. This is as a result of a chromosomal abnormality. Yes, I said it, abnormality. There is nothing normal about being a homosexual. Should you be condemned for choosing to live life as a homosexual, no, not by any man or women here on this earth. Should you be denied liberties and rights because of your sexual orientation, absolutely not. But please stop conning young men and women into thinking that homosexuality is normal. It is no more normal than a lazy eye. Can you help it? No. Where you born with it? Yes. Is it an abnormality? Yes. Many people, young and old, are participating in acts of homosexuality and bisexuality because of loose morals and uninhibited views on sex . But what can you expect, sex is plastered on every media outlet you can think of: TV, Radio, Movies, Magazines, School, Internet. Don’t get me wrong I am not a homophobe. Far from it. But I am sick of the LGBT community forcing their beliefs on to me. Where are my rights? I don't want my kids to turn on the TV and see men kissing, and I have as much right to protect my children from such influences as a homosexual man has to be homosexual. This article was pure foolishness with no substance, and all it did was try to encourage freaky young men and women to participate in acts of sexual perversion by telling them it’s OK because "Everyone does it". Say “No!” to same sex marriage. The definition of marriage is a bond between a man and a women. If same sex couples want to be domestic partners, fine, but just by definition alone, they cannot be married. This article is complete foolishness, and I am so annoyed at the author and other homosexual supporters making up crap to justify being gay or to encourage people to engage in homosexual or bisexual behavior.

First of all, don’t let this fool feed you garbage; the attraction between a male and female is instinctive behavior; it is not behavior that is learned through socialized pressure. (Nobody had to pressure me to like men. I knew where it was at early!) In fact, some “gay” of “bisexual” individuals are gay or bisexual as a result of exposure (molestation, abuse, and/ or freaky aZZ people in their life) to that environment at a early age, and because of the early influences, they are sexually confused. There are children, however, who are born gay. This is as a result of a chromosomal abnormality. Yes, I said it, abnormality. There is nothing normal about being a homosexual. Should you be condemned for choosing to live life as a homosexual, no, not by any man or women here on this earth. Should you be denied liberties and rights because of your sexual orientation, absolutely not. But please stop conning young men and women into thinking that homosexuality is normal. It is no more normal than a lazy eye. Can you help it? No. Where you born with it? Yes. Is it an abnormality? Yes.

Many people, young and old, are participating in acts of homosexuality and bisexuality because of loose morals and uninhibited views on sex . But what can you expect, sex is plastered on every media outlet you can think of: TV, Radio, Movies, Magazines, School, Internet.

Don’t get me wrong I am not a homophobe. Far from it. But I am sick of the LGBT community forcing their beliefs on to me. Where are my rights? I don’t want my kids to turn on the TV and see men kissing, and I have as much right to protect my children from such influences as a homosexual man has to be homosexual. This article was pure foolishness with no substance, and all it did was try to encourage freaky young men and women to participate in acts of sexual perversion by telling them it’s OK because “Everyone does it”.

Say “No!” to same sex marriage. The definition of marriage is a bond between a man and a women. If same sex couples want to be domestic partners, fine, but just by definition alone, they cannot be married.

]]> By: ProBlackfist http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-916517 ProBlackfist Tue, 17 Nov 2009 23:50:26 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-916517 Peace,glad I don't watch tv no more. Whoever wants to b gay or bisexual don't tell me and don't worry I plan on not being around. I guess I will have to find me a woman who is straight and not going along with this trendy gay/lesbian,bisexual,metro sexual whatever. So have fun in your own world,I plan on not being there. Glad I gave up the wack club scene. You have wack music with wack confused people. Don't worry all this trendy gay,bisexual whatever will playout in time. I hope to many people don't catch aids or HIV either. Peace Peace,glad I don’t watch tv no more.
Whoever wants to b gay or bisexual don’t tell me and don’t worry I plan on not being around.
I guess I will have to find me a woman who is straight and not going along with this trendy
gay/lesbian,bisexual,metro sexual whatever.
So have fun in your own world,I plan on not being there.
Glad I gave up the wack club scene.
You have wack music with wack confused people.
Don’t worry all this trendy gay,bisexual whatever will playout in time.
I hope to many people don’t catch aids or HIV either.
Peace

]]> By: Judge274 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-916327 Judge274 Tue, 17 Nov 2009 21:31:54 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-916327 The world is f-cked up, this bi-sexual thing is going crazy either your gay or not. Today people do whatever makes there body feel good , pretty soon were going to have beastialty rights. Just watch in about 10 years sickos gonna be claiming they was born a dog in a mans body and there attracted to animals. If someone said a horse gives good head u gonna run out and find out. these same ppl claiming bi sexual will f-ck a german shephard if they friends were doing it. Im just being real! This world cant last much longer ppl are doing everything now, just cause. so sad The world is f-cked up, this bi-sexual thing is going crazy either your gay or not.
Today people do whatever makes there body feel good , pretty soon were going to have beastialty rights. Just watch in about 10 years sickos gonna be claiming they was born a dog in a mans body and there attracted to animals. If someone said a horse gives good head u gonna run out and find out. these same ppl claiming bi sexual will f-ck a german shephard if they friends were doing it. Im just being real! This world cant last much longer ppl are doing everything now, just cause. so sad

]]> By: tester02isback http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-915957 tester02isback Tue, 17 Nov 2009 18:09:47 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-915957 I love it. As an unabashed bi brotha, I'll NEVER deny my likes. I like what I like and will always like what I like. FUCK who doesn't. And if you're gonna down it, be sure to be consistent when you do. Meaning, don't down it for me the say it's ok. If you can't deal with it, make sure the person you're fucking ain't bi or that you stay "str8". I love it. As an unabashed bi brotha, I’ll NEVER deny my likes. I like what I like and will always like what I like. F**K who doesn’t. And if you’re gonna down it, be sure to be consistent when you do. Meaning, don’t down it for me the say it’s ok.

If you can’t deal with it, make sure the person you’re f**king ain’t bi or that you stay “str8″.

]]> By: sweet-n-evil-89 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-911637 sweet-n-evil-89 Mon, 16 Nov 2009 15:08:24 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-911637 Co-signing with sylkiifeather below Co-signing with sylkiifeather below

]]> By: sylkiifeather http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-911497 sylkiifeather Mon, 16 Nov 2009 13:28:31 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-911497 BLAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH.... BLAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH….

]]> By: MzBadAzzitGets http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-911327 MzBadAzzitGets Mon, 16 Nov 2009 07:51:24 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-911327 I DON'T GIVE A DAMN WITH ANYBODY SAY ITS WRONG FOR THE SIMPLE FACT IT DOES NOT BRING BABIES IN THE WORLD...IT DOES NOT REPRODUCE IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH RELIGION OR NE THING OF THAT NATURE CUT ALL THAT OUT AND THINK...CAN TWO MEN OR TWO WOMAN HAVE 1 CHILD? ILL GIVE YALL A SECOND....NO..U KNOW WHY CUZ ITS WRONG DROP THE BIBLE FOR A SECOND AND LOOK IF THERE IS NO REPRODUCTION THEN THERE IS NO US....IF EVERYONE SAID FUCK IT LET JUST FUCK THE SAME SEX HOW WILL WE KEEP GOING...DON'T SAY OH BECAUSE PPL LISTEN TO THIS OR READ THAT ITS WRONG...NO IT REALLY IS WRONG CUZ U CAN'T HAVE A BABY..SECOND WHAT A PERSON DO CAN AFFECT THE NEXT PERSON SO WTF U TALKIN ABOUT PPL ARE CLAIMING TO BE GAY BY FOLLOWING OTHER PPL...AND BI-SEXUAL WTF NO UR JUST GREEDY AND PROBABLY HORNY..LESBIAN LES BE HONEST U KNOW U LIKE DICK CUZ WHAT DOES A STRAP ON A DILDO AND ALL THE OTHER DICK OBJECTS HAVE ANY BUSINESS BEING USED? THEN UR NOT A LESBIAN U RATHER DICK THEN COOCHIE BUMPING ...DUECES**** I DON’T GIVE A DAMN WITH ANYBODY SAY ITS WRONG FOR THE SIMPLE FACT IT DOES NOT BRING BABIES IN THE WORLD…IT DOES NOT REPRODUCE IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH RELIGION OR NE THING OF THAT NATURE CUT ALL THAT OUT AND THINK…CAN TWO MEN OR TWO WOMAN HAVE 1 CHILD? ILL GIVE YALL A SECOND….NO..U KNOW WHY CUZ ITS WRONG DROP THE BIBLE FOR A SECOND AND LOOK IF THERE IS NO REPRODUCTION THEN THERE IS NO US….IF EVERYONE SAID F**K IT LET JUST F**K THE SAME SEX HOW WILL WE KEEP GOING…DON’T SAY OH BECAUSE PPL LISTEN TO THIS OR READ THAT ITS WRONG…NO IT REALLY IS WRONG CUZ U CAN’T HAVE A BABY..SECOND WHAT A PERSON DO CAN AFFECT THE NEXT PERSON SO WTF U TALKIN ABOUT PPL ARE CLAIMING TO BE GAY BY FOLLOWING OTHER PPL…AND BI-SEXUAL WTF NO UR JUST GREEDY AND PROBABLY HORNY..LESBIAN LES BE HONEST U KNOW U LIKE DICK CUZ WHAT DOES A STRAP ON A DILDO AND ALL THE OTHER DICK OBJECTS HAVE ANY BUSINESS BEING USED? THEN UR NOT A LESBIAN U RATHER DICK THEN COOCHIE BUMPING …DUECES****

]]> By: Swagger2BagHer http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-911167 Swagger2BagHer Mon, 16 Nov 2009 04:02:43 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-911167 I ain't down with none of that bisexual sh*t. Some women think that sh*t is sexy to men. F*ck I want a woman who likes the same thing I do and goes after the same thing I do? Hell nah. I can't stand when women on here or just women in general like to come out the blue with that "oh, did I tell you I was bi?" Should've let a brotha know from the get go cuz I don't find that sh*t sexy, attractive, or a turn on. And with these f@ggot DL dudes out there many of you women are "dating a bisexual" and don't even know it. I ain’t down with none of that bisexual sh*t. Some women think that sh*t is sexy to men. F*ck I want a woman who likes the same thing I do and goes after the same thing I do? Hell nah. I can’t stand when women on here or just women in general like to come out the blue with that “oh, did I tell you I was bi?” Should’ve let a brotha know from the get go cuz I don’t find that sh*t sexy, attractive, or a turn on. And with these f@ggot DL dudes out there many of you women are “dating a bisexual” and don’t even know it.

]]> By: msveevee1 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-911037 msveevee1 Sun, 15 Nov 2009 23:59:27 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-911037 Like I stated before and I don't give two damns about your speech of equality or what you gotta say about me....eeeeeeeewwwwwwww ppl these days are disgusting! Atleast I didn't get into no speeches of the bible or curse you to damnation (which I figure this topic is so redundantly ran into the ground so it makes no sense to keep talking about it). I don't like the way that gay/bi play games with ppl's minds in making them think that everyone should accept them and their obviously wicked ways. Absent-mindedly knowing that bcuz they were molested, raped and abused by trusted ppl is the reason behind their now accepting ways of homosexuality. And then they try to push that stuff off on heterosexuals and then make us think that we're so closed-minded to their deceptive ways. And I do agree, to each their own and ppl should be able to live their lives the way they want. But just like homos and bi's have the right to be them, I have a right to say what I want, when I want, to whomever I want and however I want to say it. Just like you feel, if you don't like it, then get used to it and get over it. Like I stated before and I don’t give two damns about your speech of equality or what you gotta say about me….eeeeeeeewwwwwwww ppl these days are disgusting! Atleast I didn’t get into no speeches of the bible or curse you to damnation (which I figure this topic is so redundantly ran into the ground so it makes no sense to keep talking about it). I don’t like the way that gay/bi play games with ppl’s minds in making them think that everyone should accept them and their obviously wicked ways. Absent-mindedly knowing that bcuz they were molested, raped and abused by trusted ppl is the reason behind their now accepting ways of homosexuality. And then they try to push that stuff off on heterosexuals and then make us think that we’re so closed-minded to their deceptive ways. And I do agree, to each their own and ppl should be able to live their lives the way they want. But just like homos and bi’s have the right to be them, I have a right to say what I want, when I want, to whomever I want and however I want to say it. Just like you feel, if you don’t like it, then get used to it and get over it.

]]> By: X-TORTION http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-910917 X-TORTION Sun, 15 Nov 2009 20:54:21 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-910917 I have dated bi-girls in the past. 2 of them. The first one was more into guys at the time we dated...but she was also greedy and slick so that did'nt work well. The 2nd tried to hide it from me the whole time we were together but i put 2 and 2 together. I even tried to tell her if she was (which she was) that it was ok we don't have to have 3somes all the time just once in a while and she don't have to sneak around but that ain't work either. I have dated bi-girls in the past. 2 of them. The first one was more into guys at the time we dated…but she was also greedy and slick so that did’nt work well. The 2nd tried to hide it from me the whole time we were together but i put 2 and 2 together. I even tried to tell her if she was (which she was) that it was ok we don’t have to have 3somes all the time just once in a while and she don’t have to sneak around but that ain’t work either.

]]> By: eks_07 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-910887 eks_07 Sun, 15 Nov 2009 19:45:06 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-910887 THIS DAY AND AGE WE ACCEPT SOOO MUCH MORE THEN WE USE TO. IM AFRAID WHAT WERE ABLE TO ACCEPT IN 10 YEARS. BEING OPENLY GAY IN AMERICA STARTED IN I THINK THE 60'S OR THE TIME OF WOODTSOCK AND MCJAGGER. BEING BI IS MORE YOUNGER THEN GAY. NOW IM NOT A HOMOPHOBE, OR GAY HATER I JUST DONT APPROVE OF IT NOR SUPPORT IT. NOW BEING BI I DONT LIKE PROBABLY JUST AS MUCH AS GAY BECAUSE OF THE FACT YOUR PLAYING BOTH SIDE WHICH IS JUST AS WRONG. YOU NEED TO EFFIN CHOOSE. NOW I KNOW ITS NOT A GUARANTEE THAT YOUR BF/GF WILL CHEAT ON YOU BUT IN THIS DAY N AGE ITS HARD AS HELL TRYNA HAVE A GOOD LOOKIN GIRLFRIEND WITHOUT HAVING TO BEAT NIGGAS OFF HER NOW WITH HER BEING BI YOU GOTTA BEAT GIRLS AND GUYS OFF HER. WTF!!!!! NOW WOMEN SAY THEYRE ATTRACTED TO WOMEN...THATS BS AND NAIVE BECAUSE I CAN EASILY SAY THAT EVERY LESBIAN HAVE A DILDO FOR THEM OR THEIR PARTNER MEANING THAT THEIR PUSSY IS STILL HETEROSEXUAL MEANING SHE STILLLLLL LIKE DICK. WE ACCEPT, DRUG DEALERS MORE, GANG BANGERS MORE, CHILD AND TEEN PREGNANCY MORE AND EVEN CHILD SEX. WITH ONE OF THE OTHER BLOGGERS I AGREE. NEW SOCIETY IS SOOO SEX DRIVEN. I CAN BARELY LISTEN TO A "LOVE SONG" THAT ISNT CENTERED ROUND FUCKIN. AND YES BEING BI IS BOUT SEX CUZ WHEN YOUR ATTRACTED TO A PERSON THATS SAYING "HEY, I'D FUCK HER/HIM" THIS DAY AND AGE WE ACCEPT SOOO MUCH MORE THEN WE USE TO. IM AFRAID WHAT WERE ABLE TO ACCEPT IN 10 YEARS. BEING OPENLY GAY IN AMERICA STARTED IN I THINK THE 60′S OR THE TIME OF WOODTSOCK AND MCJAGGER. BEING BI IS MORE YOUNGER THEN GAY. NOW IM NOT A HOMOPHOBE, OR GAY HATER I JUST DONT APPROVE OF IT NOR SUPPORT IT. NOW BEING BI I DONT LIKE PROBABLY JUST AS MUCH AS GAY BECAUSE OF THE FACT YOUR PLAYING BOTH SIDE WHICH IS JUST AS WRONG. YOU NEED TO EFFIN CHOOSE. NOW I KNOW ITS NOT A GUARANTEE THAT YOUR BF/GF WILL CHEAT ON YOU BUT IN THIS DAY N AGE ITS HARD AS HELL TRYNA HAVE A GOOD LOOKIN GIRLFRIEND WITHOUT HAVING TO BEAT NIGGAS OFF HER NOW WITH HER BEING BI YOU GOTTA BEAT GIRLS AND GUYS OFF HER. WTF!!!!! NOW WOMEN SAY THEYRE ATTRACTED TO WOMEN…THATS BS AND NAIVE BECAUSE I CAN EASILY SAY THAT EVERY LESBIAN HAVE A DILDO FOR THEM OR THEIR PARTNER MEANING THAT THEIR P***Y IS STILL HETEROSEXUAL MEANING SHE STILLLLLL LIKE DICK. WE ACCEPT, DRUG DEALERS MORE, GANG BANGERS MORE, CHILD AND TEEN PREGNANCY MORE AND EVEN CHILD SEX. WITH ONE OF THE OTHER BLOGGERS I AGREE. NEW SOCIETY IS SOOO SEX DRIVEN. I CAN BARELY LISTEN TO A “LOVE SONG” THAT ISNT CENTERED ROUND F**KIN. AND YES BEING BI IS BOUT SEX CUZ WHEN YOUR ATTRACTED TO A PERSON THATS SAYING “HEY, I’D F**K HER/HIM”

]]> By: TiredMan http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-910817 TiredMan Sun, 15 Nov 2009 19:15:13 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-910817 Silly rabbits...cl*ts are for men! Silly rabbits…cl*ts are for men!

]]> By: 1necutefem http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-910797 1necutefem Sun, 15 Nov 2009 18:51:29 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-910797 I LOVE BEING BISEXUAL AND IS NOT ABOUT SEX.IM JUST MORE ATTARCTED 2 FEMALES I LOVE BEING BISEXUAL AND IS NOT ABOUT SEX.IM JUST MORE ATTARCTED 2 FEMALES

]]> By: DaintyJen http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-2/#comment-910787 DaintyJen Sun, 15 Nov 2009 18:48:26 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-910787 I agree with sylkiifeather and Tha_AngelDevil and Da_J_Rok is it just me or blogging has really gotten BORING! the topics....ewww, can we talk about anything other than sexual preferences and whose doing who? I agree with sylkiifeather and Tha_AngelDevil and Da_J_Rok

is it just me or blogging has really gotten BORING! the topics….ewww, can we talk about anything other than sexual preferences and whose doing who?

]]> By: Tha_AngelDevil http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-1/#comment-910617 Tha_AngelDevil Sun, 15 Nov 2009 13:13:33 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-910617 Being a Bisexual woman myself, I feel that if that is your sexuality that no one should judge you, we have to remember people hate anyone different from them no matter, race, culture, sexual orientation and sex. I love both men and women because they are both beautiful not just because society says I should only date men. Be happy who you are and stand by it! Being a Bisexual woman myself, I feel that if that is your sexuality that no one should judge you, we have to remember people hate anyone different from them no matter, race, culture, sexual orientation and sex. I love both men and women because they are both beautiful not just because society says I should only date men. Be happy who you are and stand by it!

]]> By: Da_J_Rok http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-1/#comment-910517 Da_J_Rok Sun, 15 Nov 2009 08:08:04 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-910517 *sighs* *sighs*

]]> By: sweet-n-evil-89 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-1/#comment-910477 sweet-n-evil-89 Sun, 15 Nov 2009 06:57:23 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-910477 Hell, I say if something makes you happy then do it. I know I have. Bisexuality isn't as big of a deal as some people make it out to be. Live and let live, I say. If it doesn't affect you directly then it shouldn't be something that bothers you. But hey some people can't seem to handle things like that. And bisexuals can be in commited relationships, so it's crazy to say they cannot commit and want to have sex with any- or everybody, cause it's not true. But this is one of those topics that seems to make a lot of people upset. And if I know how the people are who come on these blogs, then get ready for the scripture quotes and religious debates to begin... But I could be wrong this time. MAYBE. Hell, I say if something makes you happy then do it. I know I have. Bisexuality isn’t as big of a deal as some people make it out to be. Live and let live, I say. If it doesn’t affect you directly then it shouldn’t be something that bothers you. But hey some people can’t seem to handle things like that.
And bisexuals can be in commited relationships, so it’s crazy to say they cannot commit and want to have sex with any- or everybody, cause it’s not true.

But this is one of those topics that seems to make a lot of people upset. And if I know how the people are who come on these blogs, then get ready for the scripture quotes and religious debates to begin… But I could be wrong this time. MAYBE.

]]> By: sylkiifeather http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-1/#comment-910387 sylkiifeather Sun, 15 Nov 2009 04:50:27 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-910387 just because someone is bisexual doesnt mean they have sex with just any and everybody. nor does it mean they are cheaters. therefore, they can actually be in "committed relationships". assumptions assumptions assumptions...you know the saying.... i dont judge what others do unless it affects me personally, simply because i just dont have the energy to do so...not because i feel anything goes. i just dont care. i dont care what you do in the bedroom, unless it affects me. that being said....if you are my man and are bisexual, then i would have an issue with that BECAUSE IT AFFECTS ME. but some random person, no i dont care. so many people judge as if they are any better than gays/bisexuals. now do i find it right or wrong...thats a whole topic in itself. but for me, to each his own... that was not towards anyone in particular by the way... just because someone is bisexual doesnt mean they have sex with just any and everybody. nor does it mean they are cheaters. therefore, they can actually be in “committed relationships”.

assumptions assumptions assumptions…you know the saying….

i dont judge what others do unless it affects me personally, simply because i just dont have the energy to do so…not because i feel anything goes. i just dont care. i dont care what you do in the bedroom, unless it affects me.

that being said….if you are my man and are bisexual, then i would have an issue with that BECAUSE IT AFFECTS ME. but some random person, no i dont care.

so many people judge as if they are any better than gays/bisexuals.

now do i find it right or wrong…thats a whole topic in itself. but for me, to each his own…

that was not towards anyone in particular by the way…

]]> By: TiredMan http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-1/#comment-910187 TiredMan Sun, 15 Nov 2009 03:30:40 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-910187 First of all, f**k that "don't judge" nonsense. That's whats wrong with black people...we DON'T judge. Anything goes, especially if it relates to sex (I'm guessing because we live in such a sexually-obsessed society where people are no better than animals...allowing their baser, primal urges to control them instead of being controlled). So what if you and some bisexual person are in what could laughingly be called a "committed relationship?" What is the straight partner supposed to do when the bisexual partner gets the urge to be with someone of the same sex...wait at home and let them get their freak on? People's lose attitude towards sex borders on the insane. First of all, f**k that “don’t judge” nonsense. That’s whats wrong with black people…we DON’T judge. Anything goes, especially if it relates to sex (I’m guessing because we live in such a sexually-obsessed society where people are no better than animals…allowing their baser, primal urges to control them instead of being controlled). So what if you and some bisexual person are in what could laughingly be called a “committed relationship?” What is the straight partner supposed to do when the bisexual partner gets the urge to be with someone of the same sex…wait at home and let them get their freak on? People’s lose attitude towards sex borders on the insane.

]]> By: Genevieve_Velvet http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-1/#comment-910067 Genevieve_Velvet Sun, 15 Nov 2009 02:02:49 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-910067 I would not date a bi sexual man, being a bi sexual woman, there is just something about two men that makes me sick! I dont car if people think that I am nasty for being that way, but the my husband of seven years loves me and my family accepts me. I have rules as well. A woman must be neat and tidy in all places, and must have a recent STD test. I would not date a bi sexual man, being a bi sexual woman, there is just something about two men that makes me sick! I dont car if people think that I am nasty for being that way, but the my husband of seven years loves me and my family accepts me. I have rules as well. A woman must be neat and tidy in all places, and must have a recent STD test.

]]> By: kaikai7 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-1/#comment-909947 kaikai7 Sun, 15 Nov 2009 00:37:49 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-909947 I personally would not date a man if I knew that he was bi sexual. People are what they are and like what they like I feel more comfortable with a man that I know is 100% exclusively in to women, and not juggling both sex's! I personally would not date a man if I knew that he was bi sexual. People are what they are and like what they like I feel more comfortable with a man that I know is 100% exclusively in to women, and not juggling both sex’s!

]]> By: WindChimes http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-1/#comment-909727 WindChimes Sat, 14 Nov 2009 19:21:36 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-909727 No, I would not consider being in an intimate relationship with a bisexual man. I would appreciate his honesty being upfront because he took me into consideration, so I could decide if I want or can handle having a partner who is "open" to same-sex relations as well as being with a woman. I'm not bisexual nor bi-curious. HIV is a serious matter; therefore, I would not increase my risk by engaging in sexual intercourse with someone who will opt to be with either gender sexually. Condoms don't make you AIDS-HIV proof; they only lower the risk of contracting it. No, I would not consider being in an intimate relationship with a bisexual man. I would appreciate his honesty being upfront because he took me into consideration, so I could decide if I want or can handle having a partner who is “open” to same-sex relations as well as being with a woman. I’m not bisexual nor bi-curious. HIV is a serious matter; therefore, I would not increase my risk by engaging in sexual intercourse with someone who will opt to be with either gender sexually. Condoms don’t make you AIDS-HIV proof; they only lower the risk of contracting it.

]]> By: sylkiifeather http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-1/#comment-909687 sylkiifeather Sat, 14 Nov 2009 19:06:17 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-909687 apology accepted, but no need to apologize really...i get why you were probably upset... but girl...thick skin thick skin thick skin...because on here, they will attack you personally as if they know you, or as if they are any better...not pointing at anyone in particular, but they know who they are... apology accepted, but no need to apologize really…i get why you were probably upset…

but girl…thick skin thick skin thick skin…because on here, they will attack you personally as if they know you, or as if they are any better…not pointing at anyone in particular, but they know who they are…

]]> By: naughtia74 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/the-venus-files/von-anise-mccoy/no-judgement-fridays-so-you-want-to-date-a-bisexual/comment-page-1/#comment-909607 naughtia74 Sat, 14 Nov 2009 18:28:00 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=588867#comment-909607 damn i need to slow down when i'm typing ppl just fill in the blanks where i clearly fucked up at my bad lol damn i need to slow down when i’m typing ppl just fill in the blanks where i clearly f**ked up at my bad lol

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