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Not every woman needs to climb her way to the top, for some women success is so desired that they will do whatever it takes. They have no shame; and their mama did raise a hoe with lessons like “you gotta use what you got, to get what you want.” Besides, sex is used every hour of every day to exchange value and get things done. Sex is a commodity, like it or not.

If we are talking about two consenting adults that are upfront and honest about their intentions, and both parties are aware of the exchange, then live and let live.  Some will say that these shameless women make us all look bad but I say as long as she makes no apologies, and like Jay-Z said “What you eat don’t make me sh**” As always, know thyself and use condoms.

It’s No Judgment Friday, so here are 3 tips on how to sleep your way up the career ladder?

1) Be able to identify the gatekeepers: These are the people that can get you access to the powers that make the decisions. A true opportunist can size up the work place quickly then she will befriend and/or figure out how to get herself to someone that can get her that raise.

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2) You cannot discriminate when it comes to “the loving”: Your career is your number one priority, not being attracted to your “potential sex partner,” whether he is fat, old, has a hairy back and/or butty is irrelevant. None of these factors should be a deterrent for a true career gal, with few morals who is ready to advance. Just keep your eyes closed, while dreaming of your new corner office.

3) Train and save money: When you get to the position which took you so many hours on your back and/or knees to obtain you can show all (because word will get around– so having thick skin will serve you) that although you “spread it” to get there–you are also intelligent. Yet, if you do not have the job skills, save your money because if that person who “put you on” gets fired then you will be the first to go.  And who knows when your next opportunity will arise?

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BonitaApplehead/ BonitaApplehead

    Come on now, Diddy? He may not be a rapper but he IS a mogul and has made himself a millionaire buy starting out as an intern and worked his way up. I can’t hate on Kim, even though she may have changed the way she looks and slept with B.I.G to get put on, she does have SOME skills, I bought Hardcore back in the day and still play it. The rest of that list is pretty accurate, New York’s 15 minutes has been up.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    Like Deelishis, Ashanti, and Cassie…the rest are B-U-T-T-F-A-C-E-S…..Diddy is the Berry Gordy of the 2000s…mogul who goggle on talent just like Mr. Motown……

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Nightowl358/ Nightowl358

    New York is so ghetto fabulous

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CristalMoet/ CristalMoet

    I like NY she was the realiest chic in the flavor of love house and that’s why she became famous and better than all the rest.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Candyboxxx/ Candyboxxx

    Is this article serious? Sleeping one’s way to the top is antiquated in REAL Corporate America and in industries where minorities are barely visible, it can be damaging to black women or men to bed the boss (or any of his “yes” people) for a promotion or raise. There is still a perception that black women are sexually promiscuous and unintelligent, getting jobs because of tokenism. Shagging your boss will only reinforce this myth.

    I can also say that screwing yourself to the top doesn’t guarantee that you will keep your position or even get it. I have seen some women do this and all it did was give them the reputation of being s**ts. So in effect, by screwing the boss, they screwed themselves. Don’t eat where you s**t.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Candyboxxx/ Candyboxxx

    …Okay, I get it now: this is advice for those who want to get into the entertainment industry. I just noticed that the photos posted are of women who have slept with celebrities. Basically, these womens’ only talent is being opportunistic. That’s great: give advice on how to be a video ho or bed producer. Nevermind giving advice on how to properly climb the Corporate Ladder. But then again, some of the people who write these articles are either jackasses or think that most of its readers are–or both.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DeltaBoyy17/ DeltaBoyy17

    Women ain’t s**t period…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TAmour/ TAmour

    I am with another poster…this article can’t be serious. This is not good advice and only continues on with stereo-types about women (specifically black women). SMH

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TiredMan/ TiredMan

    I know that this article is a tongue-in-cheek look at people who advance their careers with sex, and should be taken as somewhat humorous, but there IS a grain of truth to it. Women not only have this as an option over men who are trying to make it to the top of the career heap, but it perpetuates the notion that women are “sex objects.” But you can’t flaunt your sexuality and femininity without a level of responsibility.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TiredMan/ TiredMan

    BTW…if they ever go back to printing paper food stamps, they should put New York’s face on it…the High Priestess & Personification of Ghettotification. :D

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Blue_AKA_LisaJsawoo/ Blue_AKA_LisaJsawoo

    lmao @ tiredman

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/duncan69/ duncan69

    IF YOU MOVED TO JERSEY CAUSE THIS CLOWN NAMED HERSELF N.Y. YOU DIDNT DO MUCH BETTER YOU SHOULD’VE MOVED TO CHINA OR OFF THE PLANET CAUSE IM SURE SOME PIGMIE OR BACKWOODS FOOL IN WEST BUM FUCH KNOWS WHO SHE IS!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Motown_Lovely1/ Motown_Lovely1

    Does that go for your mama too “DeltaBoyy17″ Or was a she crackhead w***e who deosn’t know who your father is? That might be a plausible reason for including her.Or are you self-hating homo who wises you could be a woman?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kaikai7/ kaikai7

    Some of these stories are simply ridiculous! Are you givng women advise on being gold diggers?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soveu34/ soveu34

    How about how not to disrespect yourself by sleeping your way up the ladder at the end of the day male or female if you f ucked your way up to the top your still a hoe on top nothing more now ponder that.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/WestsideCartelAtl85/ WestsideCartelAtl85

    HB is up to it’s old tricks again. So y’all promoting being a h/oe now? SMFH.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    I know that BOTH males and females sleep their way in Hollywood for over 100 years( from Clark Gable to Will Smith), and it’s still happening now…it’s just that when you hear about it now or when they get STD or AIDS and get real sick……

    It’s hard to sleep your way today, due top the economy, where can you go? Most of the building downtown has “For Sale” or “Availible”……..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CAROLINAGIRLSRDABEST/ CAROLINAGIRLSRDABEST

    @ Deltaboyy17-out of everybody on here who posted something…WHY IN THE HELL did your IGNORANT A$$ say woman ain’t sh!t? Are you guy or did someone do something to you that hurt you so bad that you got to take it out on all women? Now if all women thought that way about men you would be trippin on them hard. Its sad,you feel that way and yeah alot of women ain’t about sh!t and some men are no better. ANYWAY back to the topic-HB STOP telling people to fu(k to get to the top…its not CUTE nor SAFE and you SHOULD be ASHAME of YOURSELF.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DR_J21/ DR_J21

    What a strange article…this advice is so awful it wouldn’t help anyone get anywhere especially with the way the world is now (HIV, Hep C D E….Z, Herpes, the list goes on). I am successful, educated, and drama free, why would anyone want to bring that kind of drama on themself?

    PS

    Is it just me or in pic 17 lil kim looks like an Asian woman?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Candyboxxx/ Candyboxxx

    DR_J21–you’re right, Lil Kim DOES look like an asian woman (thinking of the character “Ms. Swan” from “Mad T.V.”: “he looka like a mahn”)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Candyboxxx/ Candyboxxx

    I guess I just have to put things in perspective: Hello Beautiful panders, it’s smut. Yes, I am guilty of reading many of these article (although I read more serious material from other news magazines and papers). That said, there are several teenagers and tweens who don’t read anything but HB, Glamour and Cosmo magazines (etc.) and may actually take information like this to heart.

    Shame on you, HB. You need to hold yourself to a higher standard.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    You’re right, Candyboxxx, it’s a s**tty article unless you got low self esteem. and yes Kim looks worse than BUTTAFACE. more like H-O-T-M-E-S-S

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/QLEANQLASSY/ QLEANQLASSY

    sad they even posted this

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