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3 Men You Never Thought You Would Like

Written by Von-Anise McCoy on December 7, 2009 6:00 pm

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Studies show that as we get older our priorities change, those hot guys that have nothing to offer but hot sex on a platter, we see through them right to the core of a big ball of mess. Security equals happiness, so uncertainty in your future partner is a turn off.

We all remember our grandmother saying that relationships work better when the man likes the woman more. The theory behind this school of thought is that women take the relationship with us everywhere that we go and men do not. A common example: When a woman sees a man wearing a shirt that she likes she thinks, ‘I wonder if my boyfriend will look good in that?’ When a man sees a woman wearing a shirt that he likes he thinks, “Nice rack.” If you subscribe to this theory then here are the three guys you may want to take another look at, while heading down the dating path trying to end at a relationship:

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The Short Guy:He is smaller then you and hopefully he knows it so he will work harder to win your affections. You will brush him off a couple of times making him work even harder, and the good thing is, men love a chase. Height used to be a deal-breaker but if his Napoleon complex is not too huge, then he could really be a great catch.

Geeky: As long as he has come to grips with the fact that someone finally wants him. Hopefully, he is not in the ”late bloomer stage,” still trying to bed as many women as possible to make up for all of the lost time. The geeks of world can almost always turn into a good relationship if the two of you have similar interests. He may not be into the chase that much because he probably got rejected a lot– so try not to play “The Rules” on your geek–he will run.   

Different Culture/Race: This guy can be so different and so fun. The two of you already are from different backgrounds, so he will almost always be accepting of you for who you are. Once you get over the differences, you can discover how much the two of you have in common.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Hayzie/ Hayzie

    ZZZZZzzzzzz

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/momono3/ momono3

    These ‘tips’ are going to give some women the mis-guided belief that they are doing some guys a favor. Date the short man, he’ll work harder. The geek will finally realize someone actually wants him. How would this sound if you said “The women with short, unruly hair will finally realize somebody wants her” or “The chubby woman, or the woman with kids, or the woman with crooked teeth, or the handicapped woman” No one is doing a favor by dating anyone becaue there is somebody for everybody. Even the bearded lady had a man. But anyway, it is best to not only find a man who loves you more, but find a man who was raised similarly to you. If he was raised by a neat freak, but you were raised by a woman who didn’t wash the tub after she got out because it will only get dirty again anyway, there may be problems.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Hazel_eyes27/ Hazel_eyes27

    Definitely date John Cho, Zack Braff is cute and funny, and Aaron Mcgruder (i mean come on, The Boondocks are the best!); Omarion just keeps getting more lame as the seconds pass, he’s still fine though, Jaleel white NO, asian guys are sexy too! That guy in Ninja Assassin, omg can get it!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/WestsideCartelAtl85/ WestsideCartelAtl85

    Hello Beautiful is putting out more bs articles. SMFH.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    Guess my choice will MORE limited wit the ladies in the geek categeory, however if they want the hunks and movie stars, be my guest, but they have flaws as much as the short guy or the geeks, and the celbrities aren’t really all that, either….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Mr_Patches/ Mr_Patches

    Qu’est-ce que c’est? D’abord, vous les gars faire un marché gros cul sur les hommes noirs datant femmes blanches. Ensuite, faire cet article à peu près en disant que c’est correct pour une femme noire à ce jour sur la course. WTF? Donc, tant que les filles noires aller à l’extérieur de la course c’est très bien droite. Je ne peux pas croire que tu es en les encourageant à le faire. Mais quand nous le faisons, nous devons être une vendre et toute cette merde.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/I_Jus_B_Blaz_n/ I_Jus_B_Blaz_n

    lol im stuck with the short-guy lol.. but i love him oh so much

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Shontelle09/ Shontelle09

    HELL WHO WOULDNT MESS WITH OMARION COME ON NOW

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/EgyptianGoddesss/ EgyptianGoddesss

    WHO CARES ;-P

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IvanRoss/ IvanRoss

    Ladies, with all due respect the question is this, if you wait until you are old to realize that you should want a guy thats better for you than hot sex on a platter and all that other ish….?

    Who the hell gonna want you when you are all old, fat and worn out????

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Emerald_City_Beauty/ Emerald_City_Beauty

    Well Hello Beautiful did not disappoint me again…They exceeded my expectations with another typical Bull@#$% article…WOW! You guys never fail when it comes junk articles. In fact you are off the charts when it comes to that! Obviously you don’t know much about women, because the typical woman is not only interested in great sex when she is younger. I know I wasn’t, I was more interested in love and respect. It had nothing to do with the hot guy giving it to me all the time. Like someone said in an earlier post, there is someone for everyone. What might be attractive to me, may not be so attractive to someone else and vice versa. What may be short or geeky to someone else, may not fit that profile for me. Hello beautiful is just always trying to start something because we already have people on here talking about what about older women who are all fat and worn out and no one wants them then. Just another way to start some male/female bashing. Guys, ask the average woman what she looks for in a man. Unless she is a freak, or has little respect for herself, the first thing that comes out of her mouth is not gonna be great sex! So here we go again…. But I’m with Hazel_eyes27…That Asian guy “Rain”, the lead actor in Ninja Assassins, is “SEXY AS HELL”!!! LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chictatious1/ chictatious1

    i am already down with the geeky, race or culture, but never shorter than me…thats just embarrassing when i am taller than the average guy. good observation!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CHl_BAD_BlTCH/ CHl_BAD_BlTCH

    Lol I don’t even look at men as shorter than me as men… they’re like big children. I can’t have sex with a big child! I may consider dating a guy the same height as me but NEVER EVER shorter…

    http://www.theblacklabelsociety.com

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blaqprinz803/ blaqprinz803

    yo that is some bulls**t…! i’m a 5’7 brotha and strongly resent the fact that because of that I have to work harder to find love, or to get a woman to notice me….look at what “Chi_Bad_B***h” had to say on the matter….! f**k da bulls**t ladies, a brotha will love you good if you treat’em right and vice/versa…besides i got all the inches a b***h lookin for right here in my Calvins! Damn man it really IS hard out here for a pimp!

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