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Recently I was reading through some of the most commented articles on this website, and what I noticed, (as many have before me), is that inter-racial dating, is a big topic of discussion, with very definite points of view. Just two articles alone, ‘Why is ‘interracial’ such a sensitive term for some black women’ and ‘Jill Scott on interracial dating: we should hold onto our culture’ have so far received over 980 comments.

I’m not trying to stoke the flames about who we should or shouldn’t date, my question is, why is inter-racial dating such a big issue anyway? Does every decision we make need to be viewed racially?

America prides itself on being the ‘land of the free’, with free choice and free speech being applauded. A lot of the comments to a recent article about arranged marriage, highlighted that the problem with arranged marriage is that there is perceived to be no free choice by the couple. However, it seems that, exercising the free choice to choose whatever partner you want to spend your life with, is met with contention by some quarters. And it’s not because their prospective partner is a criminal, or a dead beat dad, or someone who treats others badly. No, it’s because of what they look like. How come we as a society can be so against arranged marriage, but then criticize someone who exercises free choice to date someone of a different race?

Another point I have noticed is that if you are a black man choosing to date a white woman, or vice versa, or if you are for inter-racial dating, then you tend to be considered anti-black, and a traitor. There is no gray area. Why is that?

From a lot of the comments I have read, it seems that there is a lot of stereotyping and generalizations about men and women who date people of different colors. For example ‘every white woman wants a cute mixed baby from men who should be off limits to them’, ‘these black males are self-hating’ and ‘once white women have a black baby, no one else, but a black man will want them’. It perplexes me as to why, in the 21st century, these attitudes still exist. Who I choose to date doesn’t reflect upon all other women, and even if the men I date are all morons, that doesn’t mean that all men are morons nor does it automatically mean that I should only date women from now on. It’s ridiculous to think that every woman who dates a black man, is doing it to upset their family, or to believe that every man who dates a white woman is doing so because they are ashamed of their race.

People don’t fall in love with a person because of their color, but because of their personality. Weren’t we all told as children not to judge a book by it’s cover, and it’s what’s inside that counts? If my brother wants to be with a white girl, an asian girl, or a black girl, and he’s happy with them, and they treat him well, then why should it even bother me? I have two very close friends of mine Chrissy (a white girl) and Ross (a black guy), who have been dating for a couple of years. They were both my friends before they started dating and I can’t see why my opinion of them should change now that they are together. If they are both happy, and the relationship is healthy, then why do I even get an opinion on it?

I have tried to set friends up on blind dates, and had the same done for me, but none have worked out too well. One girl named Brigid who we tried to set my friend up with, and who we thought was perfect for him, turned out to be the stalker kind. The person might have been, on paper at least, perfect, but you can’t make someone fall in love, just because you think it would work out.

My point is, although you may not find certain people desirable, that don’t mean someone who does is wrong, or that they are trying to sabotage their race’s chances of being happy, for people date who makes them happy, regardless of race. We were all raised to believe that color is no boundary or limitation to anything, and everyone is equal. So why do we feel the need to put a racialized slant on dating?

Why Is “Interracial” Such A Sensitive Term For Some Black Women?

VIDEO: Jill Scott On Interracial Dating, “We Should Hold On To Our Culture”

VIDEO: What Is Wrong With Black Relationships?

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    I’m in favor of falling in love(and STAYING in love) with the person of YOUR choice….I would LOVE to be with a sista, but be with one that makes you HAPPY, and I feel that’s what EVERYBODY is looking for, and some cannot give, but rather TAKE instead…..who wants to be with someone like that? Not meee…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soultry-soul/ soultry-soul

    Here’s my story,

    I have a very handsome 23 yo King as a son. I’m the only black in my corporate office. They have all bared witness to my son’s educational accomplishments. He’s never been in trouble with the law, has no children, works with at-risk-teens and lives on his own.

    My job started the “Race & Social Justice Initiative”. We read books, hold seminars and had departmental discussions on race.

    One day I got so dayum tired of hearing them talk about how they are not prejudice and treats everyone equal. I guess I snapped, because this is what I stated while sitting amongst 12 yt corporate executives.

    “You all state you are not prejudice nor are you racist, you have all known my son since he was 15 y o, you all know he is a college graudate, never been in any type of trouble, and when you see him you want to pat him on the back, hold conversations about how things are going in his life, you further want to tell me what a wonderful job I’ve done with him. BUT, if my black son comes knocking on your door to pick your yt daughter up…you all will stop breathing. Please understand that if my black son brings home your daughter I will do the same. Why, because I’ve informed my black son there is no other race of women that will understand the struggles we as black people go through…than a black woman. So, I challenge you all to speak what’s on your minds and stop sugar coated the discussion.”. They all looked at me and after the meeting, a few of them approached me to say, “I’m so glad you exposed the elephant in the room.” Yt folks saying…I had to ask someone what that meant.

    This topic is full of shyt to me. Because, every person in my circle is black and they all married and are dating Blacks. Know who you are…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/theJUICEandBERRIES/ theJUICEandBERRIES
  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nana9595/ nana9595

    Ain’t nothing wrong with having a preference for one’s OWN RACE. In America racism still exist and relationship’s are hard enough without adding the racial aspect to it.

    We don’t live in a color blind society so naturally inter-racial dating isn’t for everyone.

    And for those sensitive interracial daters. Toughen Up! It shouldn’t matter what other people think as long as your happy.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dkh2/ dkh2

    I think that you should marry the person you fall in love with, regardless of race or ethinicity.

    However, this issue is EXTREMELY complex. There is an ugly history of racially motivated crimes related to interracial flirting, dating etc. in this country. I.e. Emmett Till. We also still in 2011 have cases of African American men being accused of sexual assaults that they didn’t commit. I have rareley if ever heard of a Caucasian man falsely accused of a sexual assault.

    Another piece of this issue is the African American men i.e. Slim Thug, Lil’ Wayne, etc. that feel that dating interracially is inclusive of bashing the entire African American female population. If you date/marry interracially, that’s fine, but you have NO business generalizing an entire gender of an entire race of people.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Anthropological/ Anthropological

    @Soul Soultry
    “I’ve informed my black son there is no other race of women that will understand the struggles we as black people go through…than a black woman”

    you gave him the WRONG information….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mr_rightnowww/ mr_rightnowww

    well, if you want to perpetuate the black race then it matters, but if you dont care about that then to you it doesnt matter.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MZ_KNIGHTOWL/ MZ_KNIGHTOWL

    well $hit,,,race will always and forever be a factor. i get the question all the time why i only date black men, and i ask ppl, why do they choose who they choose? I dont go after every black man thinkin hes open to dating me, because not all want to date outside their race, and im not interested in any black man that comes my way. I grew up round latinos only in the area i lived, until 14, and the blacks that were around were my moms co workers & their families, that were like family(which we dont have much of like the stereotype says of all latinos) and still are, since we were kids, we even lived with my sisters god mother & family when i was like 5, who is black, and nothing influenced my choice that i wanted only latinos at the time growin up, cuz thats what i waanted. Ive dated every race out there, but latinos were #1 on my list,,til me and my ex split,,and i met someone @ a club who happend to be black, he wasnt the first black men ive ever dated but he was the first i fell in love with and i was a grown woman, not a child anymore. Me & tht man saw each other EVERY day since the day we met & i thought damn i aint never been so happy like this b4, we had alot in common, then i met someone else sometime later who happend to be black,,,and i fell in love & what we had was better than the last.

    As time went on, I found myself more attracted to,,and having a better connection with black men then any other race ive dated. They didnt change who they were, and i didnt adjust myself to whoever i dated, we just fit. My friends and fam didnt & dont try to change that in me, cuz its not a choice anymore,,if i end up with another race, im sure i wont be 100% happy.

    My Uncle (whos half mex/half white) used to only date white women & then he met his wife, who is black. It just happens sometimes. But i think the main thing is,,,u go with what u feel and what makes u happy. Im fine with peoples opinions bout what they think and wont try to convince them otherwise, cuz reality is,,,ima continue to do what i want and it wont matter in my life, cuz it hasnt so far. But i dont knock y ppl think the way they do, cuz its life, we all go thru different $hit in our lives which makes us feel the way we do. I learned not to question it anymore. Cuz ima be happy, and when u know what makes and keeps u happy, ur a$$ wont change a damn thing for nobody.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CynamynQueen82/ CynamynQueen82

    I didn’t think I would see a topic like this one in a long time, lol.

    Love is not always colorless. Some see color and become attracted to it, whether it is black, white or etc. Race will always be a factor when it comes to attraction for some folks. I don’t see it as a good or bad thing. It’s okay to have racial preferences just as long as you don’t go out of your way to insult those you don’t prefer.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DAREALRECKLESS/ DAREALRECKLESS

    because this is amerikkka mothaphuka!!!!
    by the way a BLACK/AFRIKAN woman is the ONLY woman for me. not no “cavebytch”!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DAREALRECKLESS/ DAREALRECKLESS

    let me lighten my tone and suggest that if you believe in your heart that racism and prejudice and such are going to just go away one day you are living in a FANTASY world! we are HUMANS, not cartoon drawings!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DAREALRECKLESS/ DAREALRECKLESS

    and WHEN eye have kids eye will teach them to do whatever pleases them but eye am ALSO goint to teach them to love themselves and that there is NO love like BLACK/AFRIKAN love!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BeautasiaLovely/ BeautasiaLovely

    lol I agree with DAREALRECKLESS, rascism will nevr go away, and it’s likie living in a fairytale world to think otherwise, so until they re write history erasing slavery, and make more retributions and stop takin so many black men to jail over the smallest things and locking them up for a longer time, than the other races, then we might have more of a chance at eliminating rascism but until then it aint goin away no time soon..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/carol125/ carol125

    You all could say what you them, but to white folks you still a nig.ge.r and it’s just a matter of time before it comes out. Nothing like black on black love.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BeautasiaLovely/ BeautasiaLovely

    I also agre with soultry soul, Im very proud to hear about your son… I think you gave him the right info because a black woman can better identify with the struggles that your son will face as a black man.. I mean how would a white woman understand that your son or any black man will be looked at suspiciously because of his skin color ?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BeautasiaLovely/ BeautasiaLovely

    lol @carol.. I absolutely agree.. nothing like black on black love ….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Ok whoever this chick is that wrote the article is probably some mixed breed or white chick herself that is defending sucking her black d*ick as we speak….

    Now, the article….Race is always going to be an issue because not everyone deals with IR dating the same way. Black men/women often times BLAME their entire counterpart for their troubles. Black men/women also BELITTLE their own when they get with another race…AND some of us are just tired of IR dating being shoved down our throats, stuck in our faces, force fed to us at every turn we take, because it clearly says, “WE DONT WANT YOU BLACK FOLKS TOGETHER!!!”
    Now if no one can ‘get’ that propaganda, then stop asking this played out question OR keep ‘other’ race hunting….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mike_diesel27/ mike_diesel27

    I was born from a black woman. I loved black women all my life. Now I’m married to a black woman. I understand some people may feel “Love has no color,” but that’s fairy tale type sh*t to me. I live in the IR capital of TX and people look at my wife and I like WE’RE the ones that are out of place. SMH…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/thahusoman4reel/ thahusoman4reel

    I’m gonna be real about this… To be honest, I would date a woman of any race as long as she’s good to me. However, I prefer dating the sistaz. I’m never afraid to give my all to a black woman. But… Sometimes I wonder if they would do the same for me. I’m not saying that only black women wouldn’t give me the time of day. To be straight up with you, I’m struggling to date a woman PERIOD no matter the race. I can’t deal with some sistaz down here in Louisiana. Some only want me because I got money, rims on my car, look like a thug, or some other stupid BS! Not to brag about myself but… I’m a black man whose taking care of my responsibilities as a man and a father. I’m not a woman beater. I’m not perfect but I try my best for a woman. I respect a woman for who she is. I don’t go the clubs. I don’t look for trouble or think I’m a bad azz. But I don’t understand why I would be the last person ANY woman wants to date… I guess it’s true that women don’t want men that’s too good for them. I don’t wanna feel like I’m complaining but… Damn! What the hell am I doing wrong?!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/alishakel/ alishakel

    Has anybody else notice that she types white girl, asian girl then black girl last? this is a common trend with mixrace people they always type black last, and its always the blacks that accept them and their other mix half that rejects them.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2biggteddybear69/ 2biggteddybear69

    REAL HUH ?????????THIS WHY OBAMA CAN NOT GET NOTHING PASSED, THIS WHY THE GOP WANTS TO GET RID OF HEALTHCARE BAR THE PRICE, THIS IS WHY THE WOMAN LAST WEEK WENT TO JAIL FOR EDUCATING HER KIDS TO A BETTER SCHOOOL ,YOU PUT HER IN JAIL BUTT CANT STOP SCHOOL CRIME?
    WHY OUR PARENTS FOUGHT FOR BUSING IN THE 60S,, CIVIL RIGHTS
    ACT, VOTINNG RIGHTS,
    VOTINGS RIGHTS ACT TRYING TO GET VIEW NOW ,REDISTRICTING YOU BLACK FOLKS NEED TO LEARN BOUT THAT , GOT TO DO WITH VOTING CATCH THE HINT? NEXT ELECTION,
    3/5 OF A HUMAN WE USED TO BE PEOPLE OF COLOR ,WHAT WE WHERE CONSIDER
    WORKHORSES FOR PLANTATION OWNERS ,WHERE RAPINGBLACK WOMEN FOR FUN , NO WONDER THEY WANT TOO REWRITE SCHOOL BOOKS AND CUT FUNDING IN EDUCATION TO KEEP BLACK WOMEN IN X-RATED FILMS AND STRIP CLUBS

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/autohomey/ autohomey

    i feel race should not be a factor when it comes to dating. we love who we love black white purple green polka dot striped doesnt matter. Im a white man that just happens to be attracted to black women. do i know why? nope. am i wrong? define wrong. its who im attracted to. honestly it could also be the fact that white women look at me like im the one out of place and i just happen to be a white dude with big soft lips.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/yesweretogether/ yesweretogether

    I think race is still a factor when it comes to dating because race is still a factor when it comes to life.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DarkrThnMost/ DarkrThnMost

    Race should not be a factor in many things but guess what, eventually it comes into question, that’s just how it is… All of you who are in denial about this truth needs to step outside of your cubicle of life and quit sniffing that fantasy dust… Race plays a factor in everything, from how you get served at restaurants, right on up to who runs the country. So what makes anyone think that something as significant as love and relationships wont be scrutinized by racial barriers?!?! COME ON PEOPLE, WORK WITH ME HERE!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JayRuckNYC/ JayRuckNYC

    I don’t care who anybody else dates but me personally I still dig sistas. No white girls for me.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/neva1betta/ neva1betta

    IM SICK OF THIS SHYT!!! The same bastards always asking the ? about why race is still a factor in blah blah…u b***hes are just as much at fault for making it a issue….i mean really…was this article necessary????? HELL NO IT WAS NOT!!!! Now race is a factor in plenty these days…many ppl just want to become blind and act as if racism doesnt exist and say WE’RE ALL THE SAME JUST SO THEY CAN “MATE” WITH EACH OTHER….BUNCH OF DEGENERATES! SO THE NEXT TIME U FEEL THE NEED TO READ MOST COMMENTED ON ARTICLES…HOW ABOUT READING THE CONTENTS ON A VARIETY OF POISONS, AND SAMPLE UR BEST PICK!!!! THAT WORKS FOR ME…..I MEAN IM NOT TRYIN TO STOKE ANY FLAMES, BUT WHY BE STUPID..WHEN U CAN STOP BREATHING???

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    @Lauren Minogue,

    U’z a damn lie. You say you previously read where some other racial shyt had over 900 some odd comments, and you arent trying to ‘stoke the flames’??? B*itch stop playin. I have NEVER seen your name before on here, so THIS was the perfect way for you to break out on us….YOU want those same number of hits and you picked a sneaky, grimy way to do it….

    Go back to school for nails and hair, you FAILED this one…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soultry-soul/ soultry-soul

    @ Anthropological – No Sir, I did not give my son erroneous information. My teachings, values, morals instilled in him have been with outstanding results. As a mother I am very proud to know I’ve presented a King to this world that understands the worth of a Queen.

    @ BeautasiaLovely – Thank You Sistah!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/itsmeChrissy901/ itsmeChrissy901

    Why is race still an issue in relationships? Because race IS

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/itsmeChrissy901/ itsmeChrissy901

    YOU have to consider that our relationships are to find our mate. When you choose a mate, you are also choosing your mate’s family. Even if race is not an issue between the two of you, it may be for some members of either family and that can complicate things…like family dinners.
    Besides, if you so choose an interracial relationship throw the “I don’t see color” line out of the window. Because failing to acknowledge and understand each other’s cultural differences will surely doom your relationship from the start.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mad-hatter85/ mad-hatter85

    Race will always be a factor, maybe not to the two individuals involved in the relationship but it will be to those on the outside.

    Also i find it funny when people equate dating inter-racially to having “self-hate”, that is the most ridiculous comparison one can make, in fact it could be argued that people who date outside their race are more confident and sure of themselves because they don’t care how others perceive them.

    If two people share the same attributes, characteristics, culture and they love each other should they not be together because they have different skin colors (and yes it is possible for people of different races to share the same culture)?

    Date whomever you want, even if that person happens to be non-black. There are a waaaaay more important things to look for in a mate than skin color

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1SexcellentGal/ 1SexcellentGal

    If u r not black I don’t want u

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    Always was and ALWAYS will be, even if ones been mistreated, dooged or just been hurt too many times by one of the SAME race…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DontaviousCortez/ DontaviousCortez

    Race will always be a factor, solely based on the word and opinion of other people. You just have to make sacrifice and realize that it is a issue, and ignore people in your life who disagrees with your choice solely based on the ignorance. I am in a interracial relationship for about 9 months, and I couldnt be happier. That being said, I dont think that interracial relationships cant work.

    Idk, I just find it disturbing when black or white people wont date outside of their race, just because that person is a certain race. Might miss out on something good

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bigsexynumber1/ bigsexynumber1

    Yeah yeah, this is getting so old now. There is only one race……

    The Human Race is the only Race……., We all bleed red blood, we are all biologically the same. So what’s the freaking problem.

    I am a mixture of various ethnic flavors. I am very happy for this, for if it were not so, I would not be here.

    My most prominent ethnic flavor is African, then some White was thrown in the mix, along with some South American Indian….I taste so yummy…., I know you want the recipe.

    If we take a sampling from all the ethnic groups, we will fine many who are “Racial”

    Variety is the spice of life, so mix it up…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chrs96/ chrs96

    When you live in a place where almost every aspect of your life is based on what race you are…or arent,dating is right at the top of the list.Its a shame that the new trend for BLACK people is to claim all of these other races in their genetics to make themselves socially acceptable,when i look at myself i see a strong educated BLACK man,i dont need any outside validation…
    I LOVE BLACK WOMEN!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/luckyluckycharms/ luckyluckycharms

    listen the world respect one color alone and its green,the problem is social acceptance.In my opinion we need to support our people no matter what decision they make,because what that person eat dont make others fat.If it is whats on the inside that count rhen most of women in America are like those vikings in the Capital one commercials always asking “whats in your wallet”.We have to conform our way of thinking most of us missed our marks already by settle down with anybody,and when it doesnt work out its back to the drawing board like calamity coyote.Then expect God to bless you with your soulmate,to realize that’s not going to happend,after the fact you choose to take your will from him

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Trevel89/ Trevel89

    race is a problem because some not all but some black people dont want to let go of racism themselves but want white people too give it up alone. and some white but not all dont want to give up racism either. I’d date a black, white, asian, mexican, indian,etc. i dont care, as long as she’s a good woman it doesn’t matter to me.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Soultry-Soul, “@ Anthropological – No Sir, I did not give my son erroneous information. My teachings, values, morals instilled in him have been with outstanding results. As a mother I am very proud to know I’ve presented a King to this world that understands the worth of a Queen.”

    Presented a King….Thats what I’m talking about! Great post!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crewchieff_16/ crewchieff_16

    Gee I was always told that Love was color blind

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nanny69/ nanny69

    i couldnt agree more but some people still have not evolved aand move forward and some never will because of there upbringing all we can hope is that generations to come wont have the same dramas

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soultry-soul/ soultry-soul

    @ CaliFemme…Thanks Sistah!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/youngbuck09GA/ youngbuck09GA

    i think everbody should stick with there own color i don’t like white women i just like black women the only color i care about is green my nigga.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Mei0Mei/ Mei0Mei

    The problem is that this country has been founded on “race”! So, how is it not an issue when the majority (whites) are the ones that introduced it and therefore, continue to carry it like a torch in America today. I don’t think anything is wrong with dating another race. However, I do believe that the “reasons” black ppl, especially black men do it, is the problem. Some men want women of other races to have a “good hair baby” and some black women do the same. I love my race, but, I do believe that interracial dating is good as long as it’s not for those reasons immediately mentioned. And as for the black women, I do believe we should open our options bc there are a rise black men who are dating outside as well.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soultry-soul/ soultry-soul

    Mei0Mei…”And as for the black women, I do believe we should open our options bc there are a rise black men who are dating outside as well.”

    Sistah there are ppl out there killing, robbing, kidnapping, and killing themselves…should we all do it because they are doing it?

    There is nothing this society can brainwash me into doing, and for dayum sho-dating a yt man. There are a plethora of GOOD, BLACK, INTELLIGENT, SEXY, TALL, CHOCOLATE, DOWN HOME BRUTHA’s out there that love, appreciate, adore and desire BLACK WOMEN.

    “I’m just saying”.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/stevealex/ stevealex

    In Amerikka their is only one race they want,and thats a race of drones and clones,culture is something the white man can’t control or conquer,he can’t steal your soul or posses it.Let the white man have these plastic Negroes,they have the same mind as him,they are his property,who cares.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Once again @ Soultry-Soul, you nailed is sister..

    There are too many good black men out there for me to even fathom dating a white man or any other race. I know that black man is the FIRST and STRONGEST man on the planet, why would I settle for less???

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SoSoPrettyMS21/ SoSoPrettyMS21

    Why is it anyone’s business on who people choose to date in the first place? If you don’t want to date outside your race then don’t. It’s that simple. People spend way too much time worrying about what others choose to do w/ their lives.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soultry-soul/ soultry-soul

    @CaliFemme23 – RAT-on my Sistah…

    @SoSoPrettyMS21…Sistah, I think the issue that many Sistah’s have is there are way too many people making the suggestion for them to date outside their race. I have no problem if you as a woman date, marry a yt man – your choice you have to sleep with that pink shyt. A problem is created if you say, “Gurl, you need to go-on and get you a yt man.” (You feel Me?)…this is not directed at you Sistah, just making a statement…

    Date, love and marry who you want…I just want folks to stop that cult like shyt telling others what that need to do to brighten their horizons and that color is blind…I’ll be dayum, my love is BLACK.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mandyboo30/ mandyboo30

    People are so quick to judge others for what they do. Who cares who others date? My mom raised me that we are all human, skin color is no different than hair and eye color. If most people would look in the family’s history they will see they will see that they aren’t as pure as they think they are. I had a black girl friend growing up who said she’d NEVER date a white guy and now she is with one and they have a son. I have a white friend I grew up with who said she would NEVER be with a mexican. Now shes married to one and they have four kids. Never say never. People just need to worry about what they do and not worry about what other people do.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Imizcool/ Imizcool

    Race is only a problem with crybaby African Americans. Case closed.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mddarch/ mddarch

    dating people of a different ethnicity has never been a problaem!!! WHY they dat has been a problem…WHY they dat is annoying to some people….i have have been reading some comments on the internet and to tell you the truth ..what people thought a lot of interracial dated for is comepletley the truth!! people dont date just because they like someone…they dat to spite someone, to annoy someone , to put down someone..to disrespect someone..that is why people tend to have a little problem when some “people” always throw their interracial romance in their face they seem to get annoyed! and whats with all the forums and videos by black women about dating out side your ethnicity?why is it Only black women do this? not black men , not white men, not asian women…just black women…is this the most important issue in the world to black women..and why do they always want to share it?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mddarch/ mddarch

    @imizcool your an idiot!! i bet you feel empowered cus you only date white women.. and now you decide to look down on black people…your not black your a negro!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Soultry-Soul, “Go on and sleep with that pink shyt” LMBAO!!! I’m no longer at the office but I am rollin!

    I think you hit it again. I don’t care who someone else dates, I just get tired of it being thrown in MY face personally. Uhhh like THIS black website does day in and day out. Like the white men do on THIS black website when they contact this here black woman and attempt to either call me racist because I don’t IR date OR they TRY to go in on what the black man’s ‘problem’ is and how he, the white guy can ‘fix’ it for a black woman. WRONG!

    I don’t see how any black woman can deal with a white guy sitting in her face telling her what all her BM counterpart is doing wrong. They don’t, can’t and will NEVER understand us as a people because they won’t recognize the part their people have played in the crux of our issues. Black women can’t allow the WM to belittle the BM because that is her own image as well….And BM can’t curse the WM by day and fcuk his women by night….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    LOL…Take a gooooooooood look at Mr ‘Imizcool’…Do black women really want that? I think not…..

    carry on folk….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/-_ACE_-/ -_ACE_-

    race is a factor because racism still exists. Just because the other person may not be racist that doesnt mean the rest of their family is not. soon as stuff goes wrong and it doesnt even have to be your fault the other racist family members will join in which could result in some one losing their life. why take the risk.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    You can have a master’s degree, have ALL the money, be or NOT Look like Denzil Washington, NEVER have a crimal records, be a pillar in YOUR community, but when one see nothing but the EXTERIOR HUE(and damn what the person can offer from the INSIDE) of a person, then there IS a problem……..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Texas_Boi1386/ Texas_Boi1386

    There’s a difference between being proud of your heritage, and letting that be known, and popping off at the mouth. Reading some of these comments I’m realizing that some of y’all have simply missed the mark. When you degrade and talk down to any another race just to get your point across, you are no better than someone else from another race who also chooses to degrade and demean to get their point across. It definitely bothers me when we talk to folks within our own race with a sense of entitlement. Don’t think you sound smart because you can rattle off a few history lessons. My success as a man, not just a black man, is a reflection of where I came from and how I was raised. This will never change, it doesn’t matter the color of the woman whose hand I’m holding. I’ve dated all types of women with different types of backgrounds. Some of the worst looks I’ve gotten weren’t from the other races…I’m just sayin

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/franknitty410/ franknitty410

    i love white women sum are sexy and there mouth is amazing latin and asian too but if i was rich and sucessful im gettin a sister kno doubt i love my black queens more and dont wanna share my money wit no white devil but i tthink black women and men have issues that divid them from education to employment to things as simple as respect for one another

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/RayAlonzo/ RayAlonzo

    It’s a factor on here because race seems to be all hello beautiful talks about. What I have noticed is that a lot of older black women are with white men and that’s fine. As long as they’re happy.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/fireNwater/ fireNwater

    Not saying that there is anything wrong with INTERRACIAL, but wouldnt it be nice if black people could come together as one BEFORE everyone starts jumping ship. The black community is weak right about now. Another thing….Black people could at least set some standards when dating other races. I be seeing black dudes with these humpty dumpty shaped white women…..and the black women with dudes who look like the UNABOMBER.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/neva1betta/ neva1betta

    thank u FireNwater…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    fireNwater…..

    I wanna thank you…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/katdaddy2/ katdaddy2

    The problem is not race. IT’S IGNANT MUPHUKKAS THAT’S THE PROBLEM ! RACIST NYGGAS IS THE PROBLEM ! BITTER @SS SISTAS WHO SEE A BROTHER WITH A WHITE GIRL AND GET A DAMN ATTITUDE ! BYTCH MIND YO GAWD’AM BUSINESS ! THE NYGGAS AIN’T PHUKKIN YOU SO WHY SHOULD U CARE STUPID ???

    PLEASE ! WILL U BROADS GET OVER THIS SHYTE ALREADY ??? 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 IT’S THE SISTAS THAT HAVE THE PROBLEM.

    I DON’T SEE BROTHAS GOIN AROUND TALKIN SHYTE ABOUT SISTAS DATING WHITE GUYS CUZ WE DON’T GIVE A SHYTE !

    NYGGAS LOVE WHITE GIRLS, PERIOD ! THIS IS A PROVEN FACT ! GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON ALREADY !!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sub-Negro/ Sub-Negro

    OH sh!t HB hadn’t touched up on this issue in a LONG AZZ time. I guess they needed to generate some more hits to bring in ad revenue.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/barrybonds79/ barrybonds79

    Ad revenue, dam sub negro that may be the most truth in a short space I have seen on here.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ katdaddy2 who said, “NYGGAS LOVE WHITE GIRLS, PERIOD!”


    sho u right, bro, “NYGGAS” do love white girls, but BLACK MEN prefer BLACK WOMEN.

    For all u bros who think race doesn’t matter, remember that the next time you get racially profiled by the police, or the next time you can’t get a job as a black man

    and most of all,remember that the next time a black man needs some help from his community, just make sure you don’t hit up the sisters, or your black momma, and sister, or aunt

    and don’t ask the NAACP, or ANY black organization to come to your aid since MOST of them are wo-manned by black females. Make sure the next time a JENA SIX happens, where six black boys were being railroaded into felony convictions, and remember WHO made up most of the folks who showed up from all over the nation: black females

    the next time a black man — sorry a NYGGA — gets into a jam, make sure you call on a WHITE FEMALE ORGANIZATION, and see what kind of response you get.

    i usually don’t name-call, but some posts are so lacking in intelligence, and decency that they deserve a response. What kind of male (can’t call it a man) would post the poison that you posted? what kind of respect could you have for the black women in your family, brother? What kind of respect do you have for yourself? The answer is OBVIOUS. NONE.

    Any black man who understands that our community and black men are under attack by this white supremacy system, that can fix his mouth to worship the women of his oppressor, who by the way are practicing racism against the black man every day of the week — DESERVES WHAT HE GETS.

    by the way, WHITE GIRLS DON’T HIRE NYGGAS OR BLACK MEN
    WHITE GIRLS DO NOT SHOW UP AT JENA SIX MARCHES
    MOST WHITE GIRLS DON’T LIKE YOU, NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOUR TONGUE DRAGS THE GROUND (because some know a drooling negro) is APE-ING the white man, and wants what the white man has, and some white WOMEN are smart enough to know it ain’t about them, that it’s about a black man with an inferiority complex

    last thing, if black men don’t care about BW dating white males, why are so many of us slamming Halle Berry after she did it?

    damn shame to read so much self-hating ignorance from black folks who are being attacked left and right by whites, no wonder our communities are in the shape they’re in..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ Cali and all the beautiful black ladies on this thread

    Most BM prefer BW, so don’t fall for the hype. Even BM who venture into white land, usually return with their tails and p*enises between their legs.

    I can’t tell u how many BM found out their white wives were stone racists, or called them a “NYGGA” or after the breakup, started teaching their half-black kids to hate black people, and especially their black daddies. And i have heard this from BM in the US and in the UK.

    The media and these websites are playing a game of divide and conquer, but you can BET they don’t play that game with white folks, in magazines and websites aimed at white folk.

    Why? Because white folk don’t play that, they would not tolerate the kind of IR brainwashing that negroes think is a compliment — even while black folks have gone steadily down hill ever since integration and IR-mating.

    In FACT, whites are the LEAST LIKELY to marry outside their race (less than NINE PERCENT) and the race they are the LEAST LIKELY to marry are BLACK PEOPLE,

    when whites marry outside their race their TOP PICK is Asian and Hispanic — NOT BLACK — the same black people who are fussing and fighting over them (talk about low self-esteem! If anyone wants the link to these stats, shoot me a note because i cannot post a link on this thread).

    we are losing homes and jobs and our freedom faster than any time in history, racism is on the rise, and the biggest thing some black folk are worried about is whether they can date the same people who are victimizing them????

    brainwashed is too mild a word for the insanity that has been bred into black minds today.

    Any BM who doesn’t see race (but complains endlessly about the “racist white man” who won’t give him a break, — you don’t need in your life so let the WHITE GIRLS have him…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ all the BM on this thread

    brothers, do you know what is happening out here? That the BM is under severe attack? Do you really think you can afford to pretend race doesn’t matter?

    how can the BM say he wants to build a community, and have any power, or build an economic base — LIKE EVER RACE OF MAN ON THE PLANET EXCEPT THE BLACK MAN — and then turn around and say you don’t need to be with the women of your race?

    the cardinal rule of building a power base is: FORMING STRONG ALLIANCES WITH THE WOMEN OF YOUR RACE.

    the white man knows this
    the Arab man knows this
    the Hispanic man knows this
    the Asian man knows this
    the Indian man knows this

    the ONLY man who doesn’t seem to understand this principle is the black man who descended from SLAVES. This is why so many of us do not understand why the white man, the Asian man, the Arab and the Indian man is making money off the BM and has the BM in the position of an economic SLAVE.

    even the non-white immigrant who JUST GOT OFF THE BOAT — is doing better in OUR BLACK COMMUNITY than the black man is, and NO, it is not because the bank won’t give us a loan, it is because we refuse to respect, provide for, unite with, and protect our women.

    we are still on the plantation, thinking like slaves, dependent on every other race of men, letting our women and children fend for themselves, and wasting time talking about “it don’t matter what race a woman is” yet we endlessly complain about the white man and what he is doing TO us, forgetting that the white female is his PARTNER IN THE CRIME OF PRACTICING RACISM

    the only way the BM will be able to get off his knees, is to take our knee out of the back of our women and uplift them the same way the white man uplifts his — which is WHY he has power and we have NONE. (don’t get it twisted, money is not power, money is a piece of paper that buys more S)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/80zBaby2012swag/ 80zBaby2012swag

    what about African women, Carribean/UK blacks, Afro-latinos, Dalits/Dravidians, Aborigines, etc etc ????????

    sorry I just dont find european & asian women attractive lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blknall/ blknall

    franknitty410 is gay

    Imizcool is white

    and rest of the self haters r obviously All Souled Out

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/80zBaby2012swag/ 80zBaby2012swag

    why get a barbie when you could have an Oshun, Auset or Sekhmet ?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/22andlovingit1/ 22andlovingit1

    its s sad i hate it becausei be wanting to date other races aswell u never no what can happen but people are so racist .

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    @Cramm…

    Brother you already know…I’m with you 100%…

    @KatDaddy2,

    WHEW! I’m glad you specified ‘nyggas and bytches’. Now I can continue on as a BLACK WOMAN and only deal with our wonderful BLACK MEN…

    It’s really ‘cute’ though, how you call black females ‘bytches’ and ‘sisters’ in the same breath…Very cute indeed…I think you LOST your cred on the rant with that blatant confusion…

    Thank you much for clearing that up for us! :)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ 22andlovingit

    a question, sister,

    #1 – what comment do you think is “racist?” and why do u think it was racist?

    not attacking u,

    just curious

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    @22andlovingit1,

    Go head and date the other races…Who’s stopping you? I would only suggest when you do date other races, don’t completely BURN the bridge with your own race in the process…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ Cali

    in reality, I got no business slamming any BM who calls BW ‘bytches’ and loves white girls. It’s a home-training (and home) problem, first of all. Second, i say let the white girls have BM like this, they serve NO useful purpose in a community that is under attack. let them go, and make their way in the white community and see how long they last…most will come crying back to some black women (like momma) so all that tough talk don’t mean a damn thing..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    @Cramm,

    I hear you loud and clear. Little do those types know, we BW aren’t looking for them to accept us at all. We like to KNOW who they are so we can avoid them at all costs.

    What’s even ‘funnier’ is how a lot of the BM I’ve come across on THIS site, speak one way in these kinds of forums and have an entirely different prose in private so to speak. As in real life as well. Makes me wonder are some black really afraid to unite publicly? Are they so afraid to betray the white race?
    Slaves anyone?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    Cali,

    i would suggest sisters check out a book called “Pieces of a Puzzle” by Reneathia Tate. This sister interviewed a lot of BW who had dated WM and interviewed some WM and talked about her own personal experiences in sleeping with WM and it was disturbing.

    because MOST black folk know little about our history OR how the WM sexually used and abused BW during AND after slavery, they are letting the white media cloud their brains and make them think “Reality TV” is reality.

    they watch Chili date all these white males, making it look all peachy keen, when in REALITY, all REALITY SHOWS are scripted, rehearsed and PHONY. That’s why the black person comes back season after season “looking for love” because it’s a TV SHOW, and after the cameras stop rolling the black person and the white “love of their life” goes their separate ways.

    Any race of people who saw this scenario play out over and over, with the black person ALWAYS picking a white person, would smell a rat, but black people are still looking for some white person to validate us and make us feel “accepted” and so don’t see the GAME being run on their minds.

    IR Sex is nothing new, nothing special, and not that hard to get. Why black folk act like it’s manna from heaven is beyond me. Hell, any black male or female can hit a bar and wind up with a white folk in their bed in 2 seconds flat.

    yet, some act like somebody is depriving them of food and water by criticizing IR dating

    yet these same black folk will cry and complain and moan and groan about the way some white folk treated them, or why a white folk won’t hire them, or why white folk get better this and that than black folk, or will complain about all the Koreans and Arabs in our neighborhoods running all the damn businesses

    and will NOT ONCE ask themselves why that is so even though the answer is OBVIOUS TO A 2ND GRADER: Arabs and Koreans STICK TOGETHER, RAISE THEIR FAMILIES TOGETHER, WORK TOGETHER, BUILD TOGETHER, AND GET SOME PLACE IN LIFE —

    HOPEFULLY, AS FAR AWAY AS POSSIBLE FROM THEIR DIS-UNIFIED, SELF-HATING, AND SELF-DISRESPECTING, WON’T STICK TOGETHER LONG ENOUGH TO UNWRAP A PIECE OF BUBBLE GUM BLACK CUSTOMERS.

    they don’t waste a second of time putting each other down in public, or worrying about “integrating” or IR-dating, they are TOO BUSY running all the businesses and making ALL the money in the black communities…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tc2ewra/ tc2ewra

    @Crammasters

    Brother you speak nothing but the absolute truth.

    Racism is ever present yet many of us want to try to act as though it doesn’t exist. Why? I think it’s because we are so in love with this man’s illusion of wealth.

    The truth is not racism.

    Many of us want to be him so badly that we want what he wants and even like what he likes.

    Many Black folks look at Whites and think they are the sh*t.

    We only think like that because we don’t study origins (history).

    All this hell Blacks are experiencing due to White racism yet some want to find partners among those very people. Thats insanity and suicidal. Somebody has a death wish.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tc2ewra/ tc2ewra

    @Califemme

    Sister, as usual you make an excellent point. Some of us are one way in public and another way in private.

    I think many want unity but don’t want the sacrifice that’s comes with unity.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ tc2ewra,

    brother, i was younger once, got my head bumped from lack of knowledge, but i was never so lost that i didn’t know racism was a serious problem, and I was never so confused that I thought black people were collectively mistreating white folk.

    in fact, most of the black folk i saw was either SCARED of white folk or was busy kissing white azz — and the same it true today.

    how can you complain about being mistreated because you’re black, and get all ticked off cause a white cop shot an unarmed BM (Oscar Grant) and say you can’t get a job cause of racism

    then flip your mouth around and say you want a white person? Is that not insanity, like you said?

    try to imagine someone fighting a war, and the men on the losing side are sleeping with their enemies’ women, and leaving their own women and children to fend for themselves. Would those men deserve to win? Or would they deserve to be defeated?

    and what about the women on the losing side, who were sneaking off to have sex with the same men who had killed their brothers, sons, and fathers? Would those women deserve to live in peace? Or would they deserve a worse fate? come on now….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tc2ewra/ tc2ewra

    @Crammasters

    Its a damn shame that in 2011 some of us still blieve that we can’t do anything with White people.

    Many of us think to plot a course of action that might exclude Whites is racism when in fact its nothing but intelligent.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    @tc2ewra, “All this hell Blacks are experiencing due to White racism yet some want to find partners among those very people. Thats insanity and suicidal. Somebody has a death wish.”

    Truth! Absolute! Complaining of this system yet have a partner that is a part of the same system…It is suicidal..I know we can all think back to one Mr. Omar Thornton? That black man lived this very truth you speak of here, day in and day out and he SNAPPED! People like to call ME racist/prejudice, but I refuse to snap…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    @tc2ewra,

    Yes indeed….I love it when even BLACK people tell me my way of thinking is racist..And that’s just white conditioning…

    ‘Reverse racism’ terminology is nothing more than the people in power trying to make those trying to gain their own power feel guilty about doing so…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tc2ewra/ tc2ewra

    @Crammasters

    We are at war so how could you even trust the enemies woman or man?

    Its a lack of self love. Its fairytale like to pretend that we at not at war with so much statiistical data showing that we are the hardest hit by forclosures, unemployment, police brutality,educational inequities etc.
    Again TRUTH IS NOT RACISM!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ Cali

    right! that’s exactly what happened to Omar Thornton, he went from being tormented on his job by white folk then went home to complain about white folk to another white folk (his girlfriend) and then got up and faced another day with racist white folk,

    and if u remember, one of his ex-girlfriends (white) said, she used to hit on him and he would just take it, and how he put her family up in a hotel after their apartment caught on fire and wound up filing for bankruptcy (but she didn’t say JACK) about her family HELPING HIM after he spent all his money on them

    and the last white girlfriend he had said, that he was real “sensitive” about race and didn’t like to be called a N*IGGER, which makes you wonder HOW she knew unless she was the one calling him one…

    and IF that brother had been around black folk who could have pulled his coat because they had walked in his SHOES, my bet is he would still be alive TODAY

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ tc2ewra

    brother, TRUTH is what some black folk don’t want to hear or think about, they still want to believe in the dream, in what Paul Mooney calls, “the illusion of inclusion”

    that’s what slaves had to deal with when they were trying to run from the plantation, the same kind of blacks we are dealing with right now, who love their enslavement and white masters more than they love themselves and would TURN on their own PEOPLE just to please the white man

    and it’s the same mentality that blacks during the civil rights movement had to deal with during the Montgomery Bus boycott and marching because there were always those black folk who were too afraid to fight, and were mad at the black folk who did fight

    but after the prize was won, were the FIRST ONES to step up and enjoy those “rights” but would be the MAIN ones who would tell the freedom fighters that they were “wrong” to fight white racism

    and Malcolm X wrote about blacks like this, who would rather deal with racism than support the blacks who were fighting it

    this mentality is nothing new, but there will come a time when these black apologists and IR loving folks will have to be cut loose, because they will be a burden and will be the first ones to run and tell the white man where the “slaves” are hiding…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    @Cramm,

    Absolutely…That man fell HARD due to him I guess being a ‘NYGGA THAT LOVED WHITE GIRLS’. We see what it got him. You can’t be mauled by the lion then run to the lion for treatment…THAT is insanity…

    If we don’t see the ills of IR dating by now then….*shrugz shoulderz*

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ Cali

    don’t forget about the Dr Laura “N**igger rant” shortly after Omar Thornton, where the black female was married to a white man who didn’t say jack when his white friends and relatives made racist comments to her face.

    remember, Dr. Laura, a white female, told her if she was so sensitive, she shouldn’t marry outside her race, and then Dr. Laura kept saying “n*gger, n*gger, n*gger” over and over again

    see, this is the SIDE of IR dating that Chili’s and Ray Ray’s “reality” show will NEVER show. But folks watch al that TV and think that is reality, even though they are living in the REAL world where racism is a constant reality, so i don’t get all the innocence…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tc2ewra/ tc2ewra

    @CaliFemme23
    Some of us call Truth racism because to accept that Truth would meant they would have to check their own self loathing behavoir (assimilation).

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tc2ewra/ tc2ewra

    Correction
    Its a damn shame that in 2011 some of us still believe that we can’t do anything without White people.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tc2ewra/ tc2ewra

    @Crammasters

    Dr Laura has a history of being bigoted and treating black folk with a heavy hand

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ tc2ewra

    right, right. it’s interesting how both black folk in IR, male and female, went to OTHER white people to deal with racist white people and got shot down. you think there’d be a lesson in all that for black folk…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tc2ewra/ tc2ewra

    @Crammasters

    Now thats the truth brother. thats what was so crazy about the woman who called Dr Laura. I’m thinking what did she expect?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ tc2ewra

    IR confuses black folk and makes them think white folk care about them and see them as “equals” simply because they lay up with one every nite

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Magnus400/ Magnus400

    Why do you guys give a flying f**k about this? Y’all ain’t gonna change s**t! Move on

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    Forget about one’s education, income, humor, interests or other POSITIVE attributes one could bring to the opposite sex….it’s the HUE/what’s OUTSIDE that counts over what’s INSIDE, SMDH……

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ Magnus400

    just look at the state of the black family & black community, brother. Do you think IR hurts or helps our chances of survival? How can any BM look at our condition AS A RACE and not be concerned?

    Why do YOU think every other UNIFIED race is doing better than black people when it comes to having a business/economic base that allows them to employ themselves, yet the BM has to go to some other race of men and BEG for a job? Do you care about that?

    Why do we give a S? because we are SMART enough to understand WHY the white media is pushing IR ONLY ON BLACK PEOPLE. because we GIVE A DAMN about surviving as a race. Because we KNOW from history that the WM and WW have used IR sex to destroy the genetics and self-respect of other non-white nations from Australia to the Fugi Islands to Africa, Latin America, and the list is too long for this post

    if black folk knew the history of this, they wouldn’t be so blase about this IR push. Or maybe, we’re so hungry for white validation, we just don’t give a damn about surviving and being able to work and put food on the table.

    Regardless, i have the right to state an opinion so without being rude, i would STRONGLY suggest that those who don’t care for that opinion can ignore it OR move on…
    —-

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/satin39/ satin39

    I am a black woman who has dated a few white men in the past. I have dated Latino men also. When I am with a white man in public I detect a very negative vibe from the brothas and hear rude comments. On the other hand, when I am with a latino brother or a man of mixed race the brothas don’t seem to have a problem with it. I prefer black men, but there aren’t enough to go around so I have broadened my horizons. Unlike many brothas; I do not feel that as I become more affluent that I need to upgrade to someone white. Anyway, I have found that there is a double standard when it comes to black women dating white men. I love being a black woman and have no hatred for my race. The brothas need to get used to seeing us with white men. It’s a sign of the times.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dnomyaRising/ dnomyaRising

    “It’s a sign of the times.” DAM!

    These yankees don’t give a dam about you negro wo-men. I get tired of hearing ‘there’s not enough Black men to go around.’ That shyt is OLD!

    These caucaoids still call you negro wo-men; niggaz and you still want to date them, marry them, and sex them after all the shyt they did to our foreparents? Just look at Scalley Berry and what she is going through with her drug head ex-husband.

    That boy don’t love her or their child because she is ‘mixed.’

    WAKE UP NEGRO WO-MEN…WAKE UP!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nodoubt10/ nodoubt10

    It’s sad how so many people minds are so far from the truth. Whenever I used to see people frown upon me with contempt and show grimace, I thought maybe it was me that needed to get my life together, tighten up, get an education, and a nice job. After I received all of that, I realized that those same contemptuous looks still existed even when I accomplished so much. I know those who are reading this are probably wondering what’s my point. Here it is, I finally realized that it wasn’t me on a personal level that needed to get myself together (although it’s something that we all should attempt to do you – for yourself) but that no matter where I went, and how much I had accomplished, my race plays an important factor in this society. Those looks of contempt weren’t because I was some uneducated low life growing up from the gutter, but because only a few people have respect for my race, a black man. Those people expressing disapproval didn’t know me on a personal level, so how could they judge me? I tell you, this skin I’m in carries a great burden in this country. There’s so much on our shoulders everywhere we go. We are being watched from standing in line in a grocery store to taking the trash out at home. Most of us may decide to turn on our blinders and ignore harsh reality, but soon you will realize the truth.

    That’s why when people like crammasters, CaliFemme23, and tc2ewra, and soultry-soul make the comments like they do, people ought to slow down and actually pore-over what they are stating. Click on either of their profiles, you will see that these aren’t just a bunch of young simple-minded people who don’t have a clue of what they are talking about with an axe to grind. These are people who ARE just like you and I, who have a great level of maturity, self-respect, and fresh experience from dealing with the harsh reality of living within a racist system. They couldn’t just be making stuff up because I myself have experienced some of they things they speak about in their comments. Only a few are able to see the truth and covey the unadulterated message to others. I challenge those who are still reading my comment at this point to continue to read by picking up a book that you could learn something from. The information is out there, you just need to go get it. Educate yourselves, and make whatever decisions that work for you, but only after you do some heavy reasoning and meditating.

    One last thing, if you decide to date other races, no one can change that or make you feel indifferent. The change has to happen from within, and some people learn better the hard way. If you decide to do so, don’t justify your reason for doing it by accusing your own race of your deflection. As for the white people, stop propagating fallacious information by telling us that we are practicing “reverse racism” (no such thing) by not wanting to date you. Us black people need to stop being so naïve and believing that crap, sharpen your minds so that you can counter-attack false information when you hear it. No one is telling Asians, Spanish, or Native Americans or any other race of people that lie. We are the only folk who believe that stuff just to appease people and to calm our enslaved minds. Are Japanese people wrong for coming to America and buying Japanese made cars, or are they smart for making a good choice of vehicle? We are so quick to snub our own people when they speak the truth and so quick to listen to others when they spread a lie. To the writer of this article, don’t you understand that articles like this only continue to make us fight amongst each another and continue to love those who don’t love us? To all black men here, those contemptuous looks you get from other racial groups are not because of what you don’t have (having a degree does not earn you respect), it’s because of what you are not doing. I shouldn’t have to tell you what you are not doing, but just incase, things like not being a leader in your community, not being a father to yours and a teacher to others, and most importantly, not respecting the woman from which you were born – a black woman, will earn you disrespect. Hell, anybody I see not doing that, I automatically have no respect for you, and that’s an equal opportunity feeling – no matter what race you are.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/neva1betta/ neva1betta

    *steps in* cramm THANK U SIR!! THANK U!!! CAN ALWAYS EXPECT THE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH FROM U…..

    @KATDADDY, 0_o BRAH u just need to stop ur bs….i believe cramm told u right as well as the OTHER FEW SMART black ppl on this lil thread….1 thing i absolutely HATE is for the B*TCH ASS BROTHAS like u, who try to speak for REAL BLACK MEN…no no NOT TODAY, NOT TOMORROW EITHER…allow these black men to speak for themselves…just because a couple of you like TRASH..means nothing..there are brothas who still have standards ;) u saying “NYGGAS LOVE WHITE girls ” sir that offended no1 with “sense” here…because as its been said already…a REAL BLACK MAN wants, needs, and deserves A REAL BLACK WOMAN…so a NIGGA IN MY EYES CAN HAVE HIS PICK OF WHATEVER..CUZ A NIGGA DAMN SURE AINT ON MY RADAR!! Now i wouldnt get angry if i seen u with a white woman…id just be like hmmm she must be his hairstylist…SO SHES THE ONE THAT KEEPS THOSE PLAYED OUT ASS CURLS JUICY….LOOOOOOL!! now that b***h s**t, should be saved for the woman who gave birth to ya….so kill that noise..
    satin 0_o dont u bring ur happy ass on here talking about “signs of time” bs…how i see it, if u think there are enough brothas that pay attention to you, when ure walking down the street with a white man…then clearly there are enough 2 go around…im thinking the brothas who see u DONT GIVE A DAMN either way..LETS BE HONEST…thats what im thinking…u aint felt no bad vibe..it was probably GAS!!! So save that hot air..and find u a brotha…loooool…sign of the times my A**…Just a sign of weak negros who dont know any better…and if u knew better…you’d do better!

    have a nice dayum day!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    @satin39,

    Bite your tongue off please…Seeing this black woman with a white man will NEVER happen. That is NOT a sign of the times, it’s an ill decision on YOUR behalf. And there is no shortage of black men. I meet, see, observe, flirt with etc…black men all the damn time. I can’t stand when an ignorant person tries to speak for all of us….

    @Nodoubt10/Cramm,
    Please speak on it brothers…I APPRECIATE you!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/hera12/ hera12

    Jazzwatch, but is it a terrible thing to have physical preferences? I’m not disagreeing with what you wrote; I think there are a lot of people who are caught up on appearances rather than substance (and, to tie this back to the main topic of interracial dating; there are many who date outside their race because they are brainwashed–not all, but quite a few). However, where do you draw the line between mere physical preferences and being superficial? Just asking…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/stevealex/ stevealex

    I always wondered how most people vibe to dating white folks,I have no emotional hatred for whites which would be destructive to oneself,but I never found a white women that I would be able to relate to.What will we talk about?oh honey it was a bad day at the job,the boss called me boy,I went to court and the white judge gave me a fine for a thousand dollars,I was pulled over by two racist white pigs and searched like a criminal,went thru a white neighborhood and all eyes were on me,honey,did you see on the news a Black women that was raped and killed by a white racist,they found them cut up in a trunk of his car,(true story in N.C years back,honey Jim Jones killed over 900 Black people back then,all the top men were white,the list goes of the conversation would be in book form.And then honey,why do poor Black men like me get the ugly fat beat up white women that the white man don’t want,but the rich Black men get the beautiful white women who won’t even give me the time of day?like Don King would say,only in AMERIKKA.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/stevealex/ stevealex

    Oh yeah,race is everything in the world,thats just how it is.Look how the prison system operates,all the races have gangs that represent what race they are from,travel aroumd the world and peole are tribal.The social engineers promote interacial dating so they can weaken your race,you become a …..gee,I’m still trying to figure this one out…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ nodoubt — brother, your post said it all and I hope folks give what u said some serious thought

    @ neva1betta — glad to see more sisters ain’t falling for the divide and conquer tactics to get the BM and BW fighting each other OR diluting our genetics and potential power (base) with IR sex

    @ Cali — likewise, I appreciate YOU!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ stevealex — likewise, I do not hate anyone but it’s hard to understand how black folk can ignore the reality right in their faces. They read the articles about racism on this site, they deal with racism on the job, in school, in retail stores, with the police, with getting a loan, and all the black folk they know that have lost jobs, homes, and freedom, and all the sitcom buffoonery were blacks are made to look like fools, and all the commercials that show BW disrespecting BM, and BM salivating over some white female, and the list is too long…

    yet they still don’t get it, still have to be convinced, still get mad when racism is mentioned, and still think whites will one day “accept” them…and I’m still trying to figure that out…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soveu34/ soveu34

    Who fkn cares hb nothing new to write about yet I see

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soveu34/ soveu34

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    hera12, even if that person is PERFECT they have FLAWS(ego, treating other better/worse than THEM, etc.), but I believe that SOME Balck men/ladies date outside their race because they was MADE to feel like they’re NOT beautiful(we NEED to love each other, not BASH each other), been treated like crap from their OWN people, so they go to the OTHER side, yet they want to be loved for THEIRSELFVES, not just the color of their skin(and this imbroglio here is a NEGATIVE proof of one rejecting their race and feeling oTHER are better=FAIL)….but when people talk ILL on one’s looks or say they’re ugly, stupid or whatever, then what are they suppose to do? Fell sorry for theirselves? Stay lonely for the rest of their lives and not try to find someone to love THEM? Some people out there LOVE to f**k over others, be MEAN, vicous, to make theirselves feel SUPERIOR, but really end up being the most miserable/s**tty cowards alive…..

    I prefer strength, warmth, humor, and MUTUAL attraction in a sista, not someone who looks likea celbrity….and I feel that’s MORE important than someone who looks PERFECT on the outside…….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dnomyaRising/ dnomyaRising

    Why do negroes put these yankees on a pedestal? It’s like, being with caucasoids (male or fe-male) is the highest step you can make to be happy! caucasians ain’t shyt!

    We birthed these albino mutants and negroes must OVERstand that they don’t HATE us because we are Black; they hate themselves because THEY ARE PALE AND COLORLESS!

    If I’m lying; why do caucasoids, tan (winter & summer) to become ‘Black?’ Why are caucasoid wo-men getting injections in their lips (for them to become full)? Why are they getting injections in their flat azzes (to become plump)? Why are they marrying and dating Black men (to get close to that melanin).

    When y’all start OVERstanding this truth; then you will not become so ignorant, to think that being with a caucasoid is the ultimate standard of being successful.

    THE BLACK WO-MAN IS THE MANTLE PIECE OF SOCIETY…I’M OUT!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A_MANI_LOVE/ A_MANI_LOVE

    @ crammasters,califemme23,neva1betta,nodoubt10,soultry-soul and to the host of those who don’t walk around with their eyes wide shut,”SPEAK ON IT MY BRUTHAS/SISTAS”. This puff piece article of “Artificial Enhanced Flavors is just another example of singing us a lullaby to rock us to sleep at night or a “Baby’s Pacifier” to keep us quiet to the real deal of whats happening.If it was not for your informative timeless verifiable truth packed facts/examples/impacts on our society as a whole, you would have what is truly the focus of these blogs—”Separation of a People, as you all have stated so eloquently before. We keep getting the watered down version of freedom of choice without the instruction manual of why people feel/act they way they do.It really is insulting to say the lease on how posts like these see the light of day all be it known the gravity of the topic. That live and let live ideology is all well and good but for true respect……research/report,”Tell the whole truth, not just the news @ 6,Six,VI highlights to appease ratings FEEL ME!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A_MANI_LOVE/ A_MANI_LOVE

    P.S. to the Monday Night quarterback critics and NEH Sayers, as a individual I have universal love for all, not because its the flavor of the moment, but because its in our spirit.I just can’t turn my back on my people who struggle and still are the targets of hypocrisy world wide. It’s 2011, some things changed, but seriously, “It ain’t a damn thing changed”. Contrary to disbelief,we collectively as a people are the most nurturing,loving,understanding,spiritual/tolerant/persecuted/copiedindividuals in history.Our revolution is never telecasted its typecast(If you can visualize it) “Folks want to be us but don’t want to see us.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cutthashyt/ cutthashyt

    this bullshytt again come on hellougly so this how yall gonna start off 2011 huh?..yall muthafukas need 2 b pimped slapped..twice

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/WMsHURRICANEW/ WMsHURRICANEW

    WHO IN THE WORLD GIVES A DAMN ABOUT ANY OF THOSE SO-CALLED “FOCKTORS”, REALL PPL DATE WHOEVER THEY LOVE CUZ REAL LOVE SEES NO COLOR!

    wONEw

    I CAN NOT SPEAK FOR “THEY” ALL BUT YOU personally DO SOUND LIKE THOSE POOR BONEHEADS, IS IT CUZ YOU’RE ONE OF THEM or IS IT CUZ YOU SEE YOURSELF AS “FUSED AND DYED”?
    P.S.I NEVER TAN, STILL AM NATURALLY CURLY&CURVY JUST LIKE MY MOM&SISTERS, SO WHY DON’T YOU JUST SHUT THE FROGG UP&SIT YOUR PILLORY A55 DOWN SINCE NO1 GIVES A FROGG ABOUT YOUR “melanin” WHICH OBVIOUSLY HAPPENS TO BE THE ONLY LIFE “MESURE OF EFFICIENCY” YOU’RE GUIDED BY@dnomyaRising

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/6ft180nATL/ 6ft180nATL

    All the preaching in the world on flawed ideals isn’t going to stop people from dating Inter racially and those who do have a problem probably have a reason for it in their mind that wont be changed.

    Still as time goes on there are less and less in the new generations who have a problem with it. It isn’t going away it is only gaining ground as people mix and understand each other more so you better find a way to deal with it.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MyEyezAdoreU/ MyEyezAdoreU

    I’ll take Gabriel any day. Even better, Johnny Depp. OMG! HOTTTT

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soultry-soul/ soultry-soul

    It’s crazy how Sistahs will stargaze behind a yt man that would not look twice at them…Dayum Shame!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LoMasBella/ LoMasBella

    Since as far back as I can recall, I, personally, have never had anyone treat me coldly or cruelly in life but black people, and more often than not it has been complete strangers. So with that being said, I do not have any life experience to speak of that would make me think anything is wrong with white folks. So many of you say that a black partner would understand your struggles in life, but how would I be able to reach out and find understanding from a black man if the only hurt (of so many different measures) brought on me by any one group of people is from blacks?

    My husband is white, his family never has any problems about us, and neither to the people in the small town we live in. When we take our baby son out, white people come up to tell us how beautiful he is and give him the biggest sweetest smiles. At this point he knows nothing of hate, but you know what, he soon will; and why? Because he does get terrible looks, or get completely shunned and ignored… by the blacks we run into. Now, granted, the other mixed people we run into do not treat him like this, but non-mixed blacks, of all ages, do not give him the time of day and it is because of this foolish frame of mind. I’m going to have to one day explain to him, like my mother did for me, that some people will treat him poorly because they don’t agree with or understand him and all you all are doing is feeding this sick fire.

    You all repeat the idea that racism will never go away but how can it if so many sides keep up the cycle of a grudge against others, Even in such a subtle way as voicing being against dating another race we are inflicting poor ideas and hate upon our children, and likely, theirs and so on. When is it ever going to stop if we can’t let it go? On an individual level, every race and ethnicity does it, but no one so much as us that I have personally seen. We cannot let anything go… I mean, you don’t see Jewish peoples still holding on to horrors of the holocaust… Americans don’t hold a grudge against Japan for Pearl Harbor; or Japan against us for throwing them in camps… And yes, I understand that so many people still experience problems today, but in the 50s and 60s, so many of our great civil rights leaders experienced ten times as much shyte, and they were able to turn the other cheek and proceed forward toward progress. Much of the verbal things that racists throw at us are no worse than the horrible things some of you on these comments say, and that is a fact. Don’t you think it would be better to the bigger person and let it roll of your backs? Or do we continue this tit-for-tat play until we take it back 60 years to segregation? Remove all that Dr. King worked for?

    Besides, a widely-known fact is that the worst atrocities (serious crimes like murder, rape, drug sales) to befall black americans today is from fellow blacks, why doesn’t anyone ever complain about that? Anytime a race-related issue is approached you all are so quick to start off on how the “white devils this” and “whites need to perish… go back to Europe… bow to black kings…” really? That is the same dumb s**t that some say about us. Real kings and queens don’t stoop to the level of their opposers…

    I know none of the hard-headed, hate-filled, war mongers will listen to me; infact, I’m sure many who recognize me wont even read this. I just hope, one day, all of you will find some nice island to live on in peace and leave us regular people be, because I sure am sick of being treated as though I’M the ridiculous one, when you all talk just like the klan does.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/6ft180nATL/ 6ft180nATL

    @LoMasBella I understand what you are trying to say but from reading that I think you should be careful that you don’t end up doing the same thing as the people your post was aimed at. IE blaming all black people for the negative interactions you have had with a small percentage of the black population the same way they are judging all whites based on their negative interactions with the vocal minority of racists.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LoMasBella/ LoMasBella

    Hun, I’m not judging “ALL” of anyone, I am talking about the people I have personally experienced that have treated, both, me and my son coldly for (no other apparent reason than) who we are. And I was specifically speaking to the people who have and always do have something silly-sounding and extremely harsh about ALL white people. That’s why I said “…because of this foolish frame of mind.”, “Much of the verbal things that racists throw at us are no worse than the horrible things some of you on these comments say…”, and “Anytime a race-related issue is approached you all are so quick to start off on how the “white devils this…”; I’m speaking to those who have said these types of things.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    People have to find love….. some fall in love, some fall OUT of love, some people in the SAME race aren’t meant to be together, so they go to OTHER races….but no matter what, there will ALWAYS be factor in race, even if the couple IS in love and other don’t see nothing but the HUE…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MisterUnderstood425/ MisterUnderstood425

    @ LoMasBella – While I am not one to speculate on someone else’s experience, you will always find perspectives differ from person to person and the reason, I suspect, that you may receive those stares and/or harsh receptions from Black people could be from your perspective and personality. I know as in my experience that many light skinned women have all or most have had some prideful attitude about themselves that made them feel as they were God’s gift and it really was more irritating than anything as I saw nothing different about them than any other Black women. This is not to say that I have not found attractive light skinned women or dark skinned women for that matter, but I couldn’t care less as they are both representative of my community and the beauty therein.

    I also suspect that from your taste in music, hobbies and the like as well as your skin hue, you are more likely accepted into white culture as you are seen as more of them than you are Black. This however is speculation based on experience and therefore cannot fully be proven at present, but has more validity than just idle hurts along the way. Negative experiences from one particular group of people is usually not common unless there is a catalyst put there in the first place and more often than not, it is the demeaning and denigration and often public scrutiny, murder, injustice and consistent inconsistencies that are prevalent within this entire country.

    It is interesting to note though that you mention MLK considering that toward the end of his life that he was even quoted saying that it was a mistake integrating into a burning house and was observed coming to agreement with men like Malcolm X and Marcus Garvey, both of whom have experienced and quoted on numerous occasions about the worst opposition that they have had has been from their own people. This being the case… while you have experienced “opposition” per se in your life as to your choice of dating/marriage material, it is not to say that it is the majority’s perspective or even how you would be treated by the majority.

    Moving along….
    Race will matter always in dating and for those that don’t agree, keep on going and you will find the reasons for yourself. There are exceptions to the rule for those open minded and those resolute to changing their environment to suit them as opposed to letting it change them, however I have noticed that many usually go for the latter.

    As far as the articles reference to the article on Jill Scott’s perspective, it is understandable to a large degree simply because life experiences are going to play a big factor in how you perceive receptions from certain people so if you have had negative responses from one particular group or race of people then you will likely perceive that entire group’s receptions and perspectives as negative. This goes both ways and while I do understand that white people as a whole are not entirely evil, but the one thing that all of them have in common is that they are part of the system that holds the minorities (racial and economical) back from their potential. There is an institutionalized racism in this country that is prevalent in everything from law enforcement to criminal justice to money lending industries and employment practices. So to be able to “claim” Black women as their wives, mistresses or just guilty pleasures, it still acts as a slap in the face because it’s saying that you’re not good enough to be in our society, but we can still get busy on the low.

    I have nothing against love and a commonality that makes someone want to share their life with someone that truly loves and appreciates them, but I have a problem when one of those parties isn’t committing to appreciating that person or allowing them to be a part of your life or your family. I have seen and heard few examples of Black men or women who are invited into or at the very least accepted/tolerated by their white partner’s family and/or community especially if the spouse is a Black male.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blackbizman2008/ blackbizman2008

    Interesting points of view. LoMasBella brings up some good points, and I want to especially highlight one sentence from her: “Real kings and queens don’t stoop to the level of their opposers…” Now that’s some real talk. There’s a book called MicroTrends written a couple of years back that has a chapter on micro trends related to interracial dating. The author is the same guy who helped the Clintons take the white house by identifying the micro trend we now know as the “soccer mom.” He found that white guys and asian women were the number one pairing, followed closely by black men and white women. Asian men and black women had the hardest pairing with other races, so he theoretically (and jokingly) advised black women to pair up with asian guys. Of course, we can have all kinds of conversations about that, but my point is that each of us will still tend to be attracted to those who look more like us or one of our parents, but some people are not limited by physical features such as race or weight or hair type, so why hate on anyone else? Having said that, I do think that those who get with people of other races because you hate your own will find that you’ll have a string of empty relationships and never know the source of their failures.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ dnomyaRising who said, “THE BLACK WO-MAN IS THE MANTLE PIECE OF SOCIETY…I’M OUT!”

    i agree, they have always been my choice, just like the white female is the preference of most white males, and Asian females are the preference of most Asian males. It’s the most NORMAL thing in the world to prefer your own, and that has NOTHING to do with “hating” another group.

    back to the point, if so many non-black females are getting lip implants, butt implants, breast implants, plastic surgery, hair weaves (the first ones were made for WW), curly perms, skin tans, and is always trying to sing, dance, etc like the BW — how can the BW be inferior?

    the white media refuses to give the BW credit, so they pretend Angelina Jolie’s lips are brand new or super special OR J-Lo and Kim Kardashian invented round butts,

    when in reality, neither of these ladies have the best lips or butts, not compared to the BW i see (and have known personally, if u hear what i’m saying :-)

    not to say that BW don’t imitate white beauty BUT they have been taught (programmed) from cradle to grave to believe that white beauty is superior, so they have an excuse to be brainwashed.

    what is the excuse of the non-black female — who have been taught that white is better — but choose to imitate BW?

    regardless, what i found is as much as some non-black folk (and some sick black folk) put BW down, they usually have some other issues, like ENVY, or they have been rejected by a beautiful BW women they wanted and are just bitter. Maybe some BM had an abusive mother and dislike BW in general because of it, or maybe the BM is on the D/L and dislikes women in general because he’s afraid to come out the closet…

    because what kind of “sexually normal” man or a BM who loves his black momma would spend all that time putting down BW? and that goes for a white male, Hispanic, etc who dislikes his own group of women..

    it makes no damn sense

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ #
    @ WMsHURRICANEW who said, “REAL LOVE SEES NO COLOR!”


    i could swallow that except most of the IR-loving folk i have seen go from one black or white person to the next, they will refuse to date their own race, so how is that “color-blind?” Makes no sense to pretend we can’t see color unless you’re blind…

    you may not give a “frogg” about melanin but black folk have been murdered, lynched and enslaved because of it, so it’s a big deal to US.

    In addition, scientists have discovered that melanin is found in every brain cell, that it makes organs stronger, that it is responsible for the early motor development of black babies who walk and talk sooner than white or Asian babies, and it accounts for fewer neurological diseases than those with less melanin (white folk), and is responsible for the age-resistant skin of darker skinned folks versus the skin of whiter folks who age faster.

    it may also account for African women being the most FERTILE women on the planet while European/white females are the LEAST FERTILE women — which is evident by all the fertility drugs, sperm banks, in-vitro and test tube babies, sperm donors, Indian and African females “renting” out their wombs to carry the fetuses of white females who cannot carry babies to them and the adoption mills for WW who cannot have children of their own

    so, i would say MELANIN is a big deal to most of the white world…

    YOU JUST SHUT THE FROGG UP&SIT YOUR PILLORY A55 DOWN SINCE NO1 GIVES A FROGG ABOUT YOUR “melanin” WHICH OBVIOUSLY HAPPENS TO BE THE ONLY LIFE “MESURE OF EFFICIENCY” YOU’RE GUIDED BY@dnomyaRising

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ LoMasBella

    why do you mention your husband is white? Aren’t you white? If you are non-white you still look white enough to “pass” and i’m sure your baby looks white, so why wouldn’t white folk smile at your baby? I don’t get your point….

    without addressing every point you made, please enlighten me and tell me what black people — as a group — have ever done to you?

    i’m not talking about a black person who gave you a dirty look or called you a name, that stuff happens to EVERYBODY,

    I’m talking about a black person who stopped you from getting a job, a home, a loan, a good education, or justice at the hand of the law, or harmed you by falsely arresting you, racially profiled you, followed you around a store, etc.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ A_MANI_LOVE

    brother, i hear you, some folks have fallen for the hype that things have changed, but we know things are going BACKWARDS for black folk, from education, to losing our homes and jobs, to police murdering us, etc.

    black folk better get their heads and sexual body parts out of the white cloud and look at the reality staring us in the face, and stop letting the (white) and pseudo black media brainwash us into dividing and conquering ourselves

    i’ll say it again, when you look at every other ethnic group in America, you’ll see the men and women of that group working and building together, which is why most of the businesses in the DIS-UNIFIED black community is run by non-blacks.

    what does it take for us to understand that IR-dating is NOT as important as ECONOMIC SURVIVAL? damn, you can’t eat IR, you can’t live under IR, you can’t wear IR, and u damn sure can’t count on it to get your black A out of a jam.

    IR is nothing new, nothing special, and is one of the biggest reasons the Black community is so dis-unified and in such bad shape…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ ALL

    for those who think “things have changed” for black folks google

    Neo-slavery in the American South

    I can’t post the link or this post will never show up

    here’s an excerpt:

    Though called by other names, poor Blacks are kept in bondage today in the United States.

    Nearly 150 years after Emancipation, trapped by extreme poverty, isolation, fear and shame, some Blacks remain victims of neo-slavery in rural areas of the South, locked into work in fields, factories and assorted industries.

    While not bought and sold at auction block, these poor Blacks are forced to work, live in shacks, often have no indoor plumbing and are often trapped in peonage, tied to land where they owe owners debts that are never repaid, according to an activist and researcher. Some Blacks are even forced to pay rent to White landowners for dilapidated housing but are fearful of identifying landlords and owners.

    “Slavery never ended and that’s the point, it never ended. It just disguised itself in other forms,” says Antoinette Harrell, who is based in Louisiana and has doc**ented the plight of people she describes as modern slaves in America.

    now this article was written in 2010, NOT 1910, so it seems that either it’s one of two things:

    1) either we do NOT KNOW what is happening to other black folk in this country, or

    2) we do not care what happens to other black folk as long as it’s not happening to us

    what i do know is we better wake up, and see what fate is in store for MORE of us, as the economy tanks, jobs disappear, and black poverty continues to rise, and I GUARANTEE YOU, all the IR sex is the world is NOT going to save a single black azz…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TiffTalks/ TiffTalks

    Who you date is not as important as WHY you chose to date them. Choosing a partner is one of the most important decisions we will ever make because choosing the wrong partner can have life long consequences. If we are relying strictly on race to be the determining factor regarding our choice for a mate, we have a long way to go.

    I would hope that African Americans begin to understand that the importance of building wealth for our communities is our responsibility and is usually a lot easier when we chose someone who looks like us. Don’t marry a white woman just because she’s white. She should be able to help you build your community and instill a sense of pride in your brown children, that will have a lasting impact on your family and your community no matter what color she is.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ TiffTalks

    no disrespect, but is sounds like a contradiction. How is the race of the person you marry not important IF you want to building wealth for the black community? Blacks are engaging in a lot of IR but our communities are going downhill.

    The immigrants just off the boat are not engaging in IR for the most part, but they run the majority of businesses in the black communities. Less than 10% of whites marry outside their race and they are the most powerful people in the nation (and the world).

    yet, black people are still acting like IR has no effect on the black community and our ability to feed, house, clothe, and employ ourselves. What is it we don’t get?

    Is it the brainwashing of entertainment TV that makes us think “unity” doesn’t matter? Non-reality shows like “What Chili Wants” or “Flava Flav”, or “Ray Ray” or “I Love NY”? (where the actors read the script then go their separate ways — paychecks in hand — after the cameras stop rolling?

    Is it movies like “Something New” and all the false images of integration and IR harmony that we’re bombarded with BY the same white entertainment elites who almost NEVER marry outside their race — and control the world?

    Sounds like we want it both ways, we want the same success RACIALLY UNIFIED groups have — without doing the WORK of coming together as BM and BW.

    With all the IR sexing we’re doing, I guess we can look at the black community and see how well that plan is working…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/phazex_female/ phazex_female

    Why Is Race Still A Factor When It Comes To Dating?

    “Because I am for, by and about BLACK people ONLY.”

    Next question!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ phazex_female

    the entire existence of black people is based around “race” whether it is education, housing, law enforcement, employment (or unemployment), court systems, incarceration, healthcare, economics, and even romance and relationships

    so how some think “race doesn’t matter” is puzzling. They should be able to see that the white media NEVER allows a BM and BW to be in a loving relationship unless they are clowning and acting like buffoons, on Tyler Perry-type buffoonery, or “The Game” where endless clowning and conflict take place, to the State Farm commercials showing BW disrespecting BM, to the Superbowl commercials showing the stereotypical “evil and jealous BW in a weave” who throws a can at her BM and hits the beautiful, innocent white female

    and let’s not forget ALL the black (non) reality shows where black males and females are “looking for love” and always wind up picking a white person BUT the reverse is NEVER true

    white folks ALWAYS pick white folks

    but that FACT flies right over the heads of those who are placing all their faith in IR love, and ignoring that black people are falling behind EVERY UNIFIED ethnic group in the nation

    on and on the white media attacks the CONCEPT of black love and BM and BW being together is SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS yet some still don’t get it, which is proven by this endless “Ahh, i think i want to date a WM” OR “Oooh, white girls are special” OR “skin color doesn’t matter when it comes to love”

    yet these same folks — IN THE NEXT BREATH — will complain about racism at their jobs or why they can’t get a job or a break cause ‘white people this and that’ to me (???)

    all signs of a media-programmed mind that will not or cannot see thru the racist hype and think for itself.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ jazzwatch

    “love” is all good and fine, but survival trumps all that.

    try to imagine this:

    the Palestinians are in a life or death struggle with the Israelis, who are more powerful and dominant

    so the Palestinian men — who are losing land, lives, and the ability to maintain what little they have, decide to mate with Israeli females because “love is color-blind” and they’re having problems with Palestinian females due to the pressures of being in a war

    the Palestinian men don’t see that the WAR is the biggest problem OR that the WAR is making their relationships with their women MORE difficult

    they decide that “love” is all that matters even while their CHILDREN are being killed by enemy fire and their women are fending for themselves — OR sneaking off and sexing the SAME Israeli men who are killing their men AND children? (ever heard of “Monsters Ball?)

    what would think of the Palestinian men? Would they deserve to win the war? What about the Palestinian women who are sexing Israeli men behind their men’s back? What would they deserve?

    OR is it OK for the Palestinians to keep their heads in their own private bubbles while war is raging around them — and just wait for the thing called a brain to POP?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ MisterUnderstood who said, “t is interesting to note though that you mention MLK considering that toward the end of his life that he was even quoted saying that it was a mistake integrating into a burning house and was observed coming to agreement with men like Malcolm X and Marcus Garvey.”


    looks like they were right, because this “house” is burning down around us with black folk sustaining 3rd degree burns. The root of his mis-idenfication with white folk is TOO MUCH TV, ENTERTAINMENT, AND MOVIE-WATCHING, and TOO LITTLE READING

    a lot of us have begun to judge our “reality” by the non-reality on TV land, while ignoring the reality staring them in the face. For all this “talk” about dating and sexing and loving outside our race, it’s real telling that MOST of these IR relationships don’t last, and in FACT, don’t last as long as black/black relatonships. So much for “real love”

    what most BW who give IR a shot will find is the white male is of the SAME mindset that white males have always had toward black females: sexual experimentation then go back to practicing racism (remember Dr. Laura’s black female caller?)

    The same is true of a lot of black-D*CK-loving white females, they’re just messing around, and really don’t care about black males or black people, which explains why WF can be so sexually aggressive — because a BM’s opinion of them CARRIES NO WEIGHT.

    even marrying black folk doesn’t change anything because those white spouses will STILL deny that racism is a big problem, do NOT want to talk about it, and WILL NOT do anything to help the black victims of racism, including their own black spouses and half-black kids. I know this, and have seen this countless times, where in order to “get along” with that white spouse the black person has to “tone down” their blackness and complaints about racism.

    guess some black folk have to learn the hard way…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A_MANI_LOVE/ A_MANI_LOVE

    @ Crammasters, peace to you bruth, I’m sure you are aware that a lot of contributing comments on the subject matter from people on Black planet are “Hypocritical” to put it mildly and insulting/cruel to be blunt.We understand that everyone is protected under “The 1st amendment Rights of The Constitution which is Freedom of Speech”. My point is that “LOMASBELLA” is one of those “Undercover with No cover racist herself. I read her take on the subject and found it confusing and misleading(just as I think you were too). It was more of a limited generalization than anything. So I comprehend your request for more data from her. Personally if you do get a response, it will most likely be skewed(Native American Indians would say “Speak with forked tongue”. Upon discovery, I have seen her page on BP and it is subtle to a degree.But in fact as I surveyed it I found a Confederate/Irish Flag.I did the research on the Confed. flag. while some groups use it as a symbolic reference to racism, it has also been said about the American stars and strips too.So understandably I know where she is coming from(representing a heritage) as well as the Irish flag too. While looking at the pictures you would see that she definitely favors the caucasian persuasion equation,so unless their are overt qualities in the child that would dictate mixed, you would not be able to tell unless you are doctoring a image. But what’s disturbing to me is the “Fact/not Fiction that in her music play list of 100 songs, their are 2 “Certified” tracks that are as southern country racist as you can get. The trax titles and names are—>”N***er Hating Me” by Johnny Rebel #82 on the play list and “Damn, I wish I was A N.” by David Allen Coe #83 on list. It is straight ignorant and shows why you can’t reason with idiots. The choice of derogatory garbage is a choice thing, but come on “On Black Planet”. I feel that she and others are trying to get away with the same divisive bulls*** that divides/confuses us all.Sadly, the friends list has a few people on their that probably are not aware of this. Also, she really has no intention to frequent this site, she got friend requests recently and she even did not understand why as I do.I’m telling you not everybody is deserving of a community if your underlying purpose is to inflict harm/mayhem to a people by hiding a true agenda. That’s my spin on it…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crammasters/ crammasters

    @ A_MANI_LOVE

    brother, I was puzzled by her post, too, and her ethnicity. Didn’t bother to check her page but I wouldn’t be surprised if what you said was correct.

    it never fails to amaze me why so many white folk who don’t like black folk seem to gravitate to black websites, as though they have to keep tabs on what we are saying and doing.

    Their mentality reminds me of that niccolo machiavelli saying:

    keep your friends close
    and your enemies closer

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/eng22008/ eng22008

    Good conversation>>>>let’s make this the truth, White women date brother because of the…great sex, the large to and not being pressured to stay a size 5….Brother date white women because white women don’t mind pleasing thier man in anyway….
    Sister date white men because she think white men will take care of her,white men date sister because of the great ass, and to bragg to their buddies that they been with a sister…So most everybody thats doing it is getting something out of it….The rumer about the black male must be true, because a lot of white women’s have returned for second and thirds …Sister find that the white man will take care of her, but she will have to do some of the freakish thing’s that she have never done in her life, anal sex,swalling the juices, giving long oral jobs( I had female sister friend that dated a white..She told me that he wanted her to put beads in his butt, and to strap on a dildo because he wanted to know how felt to be poked…nasty nasty)…PS” TO THE SISTER THATS ALL A BROTHER WANTS TO, AND WE WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU>>> No one wants take anyone home to mommy… they just want to have fun…So please everyone just amit it …. you date out of your race because of the benifit’s….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/a26b25c24/ a26b25c24

    Did any of you even read this editorial? You’re all off on some tangents that have to do w/ ur own insecurities and nothing else. And for the record Halle and Paula are MIXED, not black. So, it shouldn’t matter if they choose white men cuz they are part white.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MrsBlessed4/ MrsBlessed4

    After reading some of these comments i am amazed at how many people are down grading white women saying that the only reason why black men are with white women because they put up with Sh*t that black women wouldnt. Which is completly un true. That might be a rare case, but in my marriage is not the case. I am in an interracial marriage. I am a white women and we have to face challenges everyday in our marriage. People look at us crazy everywhere we go from white and black backgrounds. they doubt us and say we wont last. the saying love is blind explains so many things i love my husband with all my heart and soul. He is my soul mate, we have a beautiful child together and i wouldnt change that for the world all you people out there that only date within your race never know because you might have passed up the love of your life. because LOVE overcomes everything LOVE is omnipotent, and omnipresent. Love comes in all shapes sizes and yes colors. When love is blind those who are inlove don’t see race, religion, physical imperfections like weight or beauty age etc.
    For many love is not blind because they can’t get past the things I have mentioned above. Especially race and physical imperfections. as we grow older though some learn to be more accepting of many of the factors that prevent love from being blind.
    When love is truly blind it shouldn’t matter that their skin is a diffrent color, or they are 200 lbs over their ideal weight or 50 lbs under it. It shouldn’t matter that on the outside someone is not physically beautiful. We shouldn’t care that someone is 30 years older or younger than us of course that is unless that would make one party a minor then we should care.
    Too often so many of us are unwilling to relax our standards of who we will be in a relationship with. Frankly it is quite sad when many of us do that because we miss out on opportunities to be with someone who could be our perfect match in almost every way except they aren’t the right race religion weight aren’t pretty or handsome enough etc.
    The world would be a much better place and less people would be alone in this world if we all just learned to relax our standards a little bit and not let such silliness stand in our way of opening our hearts to someone.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    Crammasters, I feel ya, but when a Black guy wants to BE with a sista, but ends up getting played, rejected or told that you’re unattractive, or some other bulls**t reason, what is he suppose to DO???? Stay LONELY? Not fall in love? Don’t have any kids? Not find someone in THIS life then die knowing you MISSED you opportunity to find someone???? It’s HARD to find someone who LOVE you for YOU, but these days you gotta look like Denzil or Halle, have 6 figures, and be ALLOWED to be controlled by the mate or else you’re NON-GRATA….Some people LOVE to be in a relationship to DOMINATE someone, not do what out forefather/mothers did..and if he tried so MANY times to find that sista, then what? He may had done some wrong things, but so had the WOMEN, but they don’t want to take a account of their shortcomings..just BLAME the Black men!!!! That’s why MANY go to other races to fell LOVED, but there are DEMONS out there of other races, too, but thinking that OUR race don’t have them is ASININE…..all in all sometimes we just cannot get NO love from the sistas, no matter what…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2_14_1983MAN/ 2_14_1983MAN

    OK OK OK TO ALL YA’LL KILL WHITEY JOKERS YA’LL NEED TO STOP REAL LIFE. THE PROBLEM WITH THE “BLACK” COMMUNITY IS THE “BLACK” FOLK. PERIOD. GANG BANGERS, DRUG DEALERS, ETC LIVING WITH HARD WORKING “BLACK” FOLK HOW ARE THEY SUPPOSE TO GET AHEAD WHILE THEY LIVE IN FEAR EVERYDAY. SECOND PROBLEM WITH THE “BLACK” COMMUNITY IS HATE SPEWING “BLACK” FOLKS. TELL THEM SOME THING GOOD HATER!!!!! LIKE CALL THE POLICE WHEN YOU SEE DRUG DEALERS, DON’T JUST GO AROUND SLEEPING WITH ANY (INSERT NAME HERE), TEACH YOUR KIDS MATH AND SCIENCE NOT WHEN THE NEW JORDANS COME OUT, TEACHING YOUR KIDS TO LOVE THEIR SELF AND HOW NOT TO PLACE BLAME, AND ABOVE ALL TEACH THEM THAT ALL HATE IS WRONG. I AM A PROUD PARENT OF THREE “BLACK” CHILDREN AND TWO “BIRACIAL” CHILDREN (WHO ARE NOT BIOLOGICALLY MINE) AND I TEACH THEM TO PAY ATTENTION IN MATH AND SCIENCE CLASS WITH MORE CONCENTRATION THAN ANY OTHER CLASS, LOVE YOURSELF, AND HATE BIGOTS.
    THE THIRD THING WRONG WITH THE “BLACK” COMMUNITY IS IDENTIFYING ONE’S SELF AS “BLACK”
    YOU ARE AN AMERICAN NOT “BLACK”. “BLACK” IS A COLOR NOT A NATIONAL ORIGIN. I KNOW SHYT IS FVCKED UP BETWEEN RACES IN THIS COUNTRY AND UNTIL WE AS A PEOPLE SAY ENOUGH AND START ERADICATING ALL FORMS OF BIGOTRY SHYT IS GOING TO STAY THE SAME. YOU HATE YOU TREAT ALL HATE THE SAME. “BLACK” HATE IS NO DIFFERENT THAN “WHITE” HATE BECAUSE HATE IS HATE AND USUALLY ALL HATE HAS NO REAL MERIT SO IF YOU ARE ONE OF MY “BLACK” SISTERS WHO IS IN LOVE WITH AN ASIAN MAN WHO IS IN LOVE WITH YOU DO WHAT YOU DO IF YOU ARE ONE OF MY “BLACK” BROTHERS IN LOVE WITH A LATINA WHO IS IN LOVE WITH YOU DO WHAT YOU DO. IF YOU ARE A HATING “BLACK” BROTHER OR SISTER THEN YOU ARE A TRAITOR TO YOUR NATION AND PEOPLE AND YOU NEED TO BE DEALT WITH IN THE SAME FASHION WE DEAL WITH ALL TRAITORS. A BIGOTED “BLACK” PERSON IS IN THE SAME CLASS AS A NAZI OR KLANSMEN IN MY BOOK AND ALL OF THEM OUGHT TO BE LINED UP AND SHOT IN THE FACE ALONG WITH ANY FAMILY MEMBER OVER THE AGE OF 12 BECAUSE YOU ARE JUST ADDING FUEL TO AN ALREADY UNCONTROLABLE

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2_14_1983MAN/ 2_14_1983MAN

    IF THE “WHITE” MAN WONT “GIVE” U A JOB……. START YOUR OWN BUSINESS….. THAT IS THE MAIN PROBLEM WITH THE “BLACK” COMMUNITY TOO DUMB TO PULL TOGETHER. SHYT AND “BLACK” PERSON ON HERE IN THIS ROOM WANNA PULL SOME MONEY TOGETHER SO WE CAN START OUR OWN STORE HOLLA AT ME IM WIT IT, BUT HOW MANY WILL ? I’M A FELON YOU THINK ANY KIND OF MAN IS GOING TO GIVE ME A JOB? REAL TALK THE REASON WHY WE AS DESCENDANTS OF SLAVES ARE NOT AND DO NOT HAVE THE SAME AS THE OTHER RACES IN THIS LAND IS BECAUSE WE BE ON THAT DUMB SHYT AND DON’T INVEST MONEY BACK INTO THOSE PROJECTS THAT MANY OF US WERE RAISED IN SO NOW THE “WHYTE” MAN IS KNOCKING THEM DOWN B/C THEY ARE MAKING A BAD USE OF THAT AREA OF THE CITY. IF YOU FEEL YOU NEED A “WHYTE” MANE TO GIVE YOU A JOB YOU AIN’T SHYT B/C A REAL “BLACK” MAN WILL DO WHAT EVER IT TAKES TO MAKE SURE HIS PPL ARE LIVING GOOD JUST LIKE ANY OTHER MAN. STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT THIS MAN OR THAT MAN IS/ISN’T DOING AND GET ON YOUR OWN JOB

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/alisalip/ alisalip

    Do you want to expe rience i-nterr acial d a-ting?

    – Blac kw hiteC upi d * C 0 M –

    It gives you a chance to make your life better and open opportunities for you to me’et the attractive interr’acial sin’gles and treat you like a King or Queen. Maybe you wanna check it out or tell your friends. ;) ;)
    beautiful lady

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    This writer is not TRYING to stoke flame, but I’m sorry, honey….you ALREADY did…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius16/ A-Real-Genius16

    THOSE FILTHY DEVILS DON’T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH DATING OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE OF NATURAL PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE DEVILS ARE FILTHY AND DON’T MIND ABOUT HAVING FILTHY SEX….ANYTHING THAT THOSE DEVILS WILL DO TO ANOTHER PERSON BODY IS OF FILTH BECAUSE THEY ARE OF FILTH THEMSELVES BUT,THEY ARE JUST TO DUMB TO KNOW THAT. GOD HAD KICKED SATAN THE DEVIL OUT OF HIS CLEAN SPARKLING HEAVEN BECAUSE HE WAS A FILTHY MINDED DEVIL AND THEN SATAN THE DEVIL WHO WAS KICKED OUT OF HEAVEN HAD STARTED CREATING MORE AND MORE FILTHY DEVILS JUST LIKE HIMSELF SO,TO BE ABLE TO LIVE WITH DOWN HERE ON THIS FILTHY PLANET EARTH WHERE ALL OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES ARE BEING CARRIED,SPREAD AND PASSED AROUND TO THOSE THAT DOESN’T HAVE A CLUE ON WHATS REALLY GOING ON WHEN IT COMES TO HAVING SEX AND CATCHING DISEASES OR JUST BEING SICK AND DIEING FROM IT.

    YOU WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE FILTHY AND INFECTIOUS WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THESE BLACK MEN. THOSE WHITE PEOPLE CARRY THOSE INFECTIOUS DISEASES AND VIRUSES CALLED LARYNGITIS,SWINE,HERPES,HEPATI TIS,LYME,SYPHILIS,AIDS,PARASIT ES,MENINGITIS etc….BECAUSE I AM NOT TRYING TO CATCH ANYTHING THAT THOSE OTHER FILTHY INFECTED RACE OF PEOPLE HAVE BEEN PASSING AROUND TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THEM. THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A DOG. I AM LOOKING FOR A BLACK MAN THAT HAS NOT EVER SLEPT OUTSIDE OF HIS RACE OF BLACK WOMAN WHO THINKS THAT HE IS HEALTHY AND ONE WHO DOES NOT BREAK OUT WITH FEVERS OR DIARRHEA. IS ALL THAT YOU PEOPLE KNOW BY FIGHTING OFF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES IS USING CONDOMS,AND WASHING YA’LLS HANDS? SH!T WHAT ABOUT NOT ALLOWING FOR OTHER PEOPLE THAT YA’LL DON’T KNOW TO BE ALL UP IN YA’LLS FACE BREATHING IN IT OR TALKING TO YA’LL,TOUCHING ON YA’LL SKIN,LAYING IN YA’LLS BED WHEN THEY LOOK TOTALLY DIFFERENT FROM YA’LL,GETTING AWAY FROM THOSE THAT HAVE COUGHS,COLDS AND RUNNY NOSES,THOSE THAT VOMIT,SNEEZE,THOSE THAT HAVE THE FEVER FROM HAVING THE FLU,THOSE THAT SPIT ON THOSE SIDE WALKS,THOSE THAT ARE BLEEDING,THOSE THAT ARE CRYING,THOSE THAT YOU CATCH BLOWING THEIR NOSE,THOSE THAT CONSTANTLY KEEP ON TALKING BY HAVING THEIR MOUTH OPEN,THOSE THAT BE FARTING,THOSE THAT BE MOVING THEIR BOWELS WHO MIGHT LEAVE A ODOR IN YOUR HOME,KEEPING PEOPLE OUT OF YOUR HOUSE SO,THEY WON’T HAVE TO SIT ON YOUR FURNITURE OR USE YOUR BATHROOM,EAT FROM YOUR DISHES AND SILVER WEAR….ALL OF YOU PEOPLE ARE DISEASED BUT,YA’LL DO NOT KNOW THAT THOUGH AND THAT IS WHY YOU PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS GETTING SICK. YOU PEOPLE CAN CONTINUE TO RESUME YA’LLS NORMAL LIVES BECAUSE…. JAMES JAMAL TEDWILL IS ABOUT THE MOST HEALTHIEST BLACK MAN FOR ME FROM OFF OF THIS CONTAGIOUS BLACK PLANET WEBSITE FULL OF THOSE INFECTIOUS FLEA BITTEN PARASITE CARRYING DOGS AND THAT IS THE ONE THAT I WANT.JAMES IS THE BLACK MAN THAT IS THE ONE THAT I WOULD LIKE TO SAVE FROM THIS EPIDEMIC. I WOULD LIKE FOR JAMES CHOCOLATE TO MEET MY CARAMEL.

    ARE THERE ANY WHITE PEOPLE OR ANY FOREIGN PEOPLE IN HERE? YOU HAVE TO BE KIDDING ME. YOU MEAN TO TELL ME THAT THERE ISN’T ANY WHITE PEOPLE OR ANY FOREIGN PEOPLE UP IN THIS FORUM TALKING ABOUT THE HIV/AIDS VIRUS THAT THEY CARRY AND HAVE BEEN PASSING AROUND? THEY MUST BE SOMEWHERE AROUND IN HERE SOMEWHERE TRYING TO FIND THEMSELVES SOMEBODY WHOSE BLACK BED TO CLIMB UP IN AND CONTINUE TO PASS THEIR INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES AROUND. IT WAS THOSE TWO DEAD OR RATHER DECEASED FILTHY GAY WHITE MEN THAT HAD CAUGHT THE HIV/AIDS FOR HAVING SEX WITH EACH OTHER IN THEIR INFECTIOUS BOOTY AND THEN THOSE IGNORANT WHITE PEOPLE STARTED PASSING AND SPREADING THEIR GAY WHITE INFECTIOUS BLOOD AROUND TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE SO,TO TRY AND WIPE YALL OUT AND THAT IS WHY SOME OF THOSE GAY BLACK MEN HAVE THE HIV/AIDS TO BECAUSE THOSE FILTHY WHITE PEOPLE HAD PASSED IT TO THEM (that contagious white gay blood should have been destroyed but,instead those stupid white people kept their tubes of blood and started passing that sh!t around to you black people so,to make yall look sickly and diseased just like they are) THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE WANT FOR YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO JOIN THEM IN DIEING WITH THOSE DEADLY INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY ALL CARRY AND THEN PASS TO YALL. THOSE WHITE PEOPLE WILL ONLY SAY THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE CARRY AND PASS AROUND THAT HIV/AIDS VIRUS BUT,THEIR WHITE BEHINDS ARE THE ONES WHO CARRY IT AND SPREAD IT AROUND BECAUSE THEY ARE THE VERY FIRST PEOPLE THAT CAUGHT IT AND THEN STARTED SPREADING IT TO YALL. ANY AND EVERY TIME A TELEVISION COMMERCIAL OR A HIV AWARENESS DAY COMES ITS ALWAYS YOU BLACK PEOPLE THAT WILL BE THE ONES THAT WILL TALK ABOUT IT THE MOST BECAUSE THOSE TRICKY LYING WHITE PEOPLE ARE THE ONES WHO HAVE PASSED IT TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE BUT,NOW THEY DO NOT WANT THEIR WHITE FACE TO SHOW ANYWHERE SO,THEY WILL ONLY HAVE YOU BLACK PEOPLE FACE SHOWING EVERYWHERE. MAGIC JOHNSON WAS PUT IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD PUBLIC EYE BY THOSE RACIST WHITE PEOPLE AS A CELEBRITY BLACK MEN WHO HAS CAUGHT THE HIV/AIDS VIRUS BUT THOSE WHITE PEOPLE WILL NOT PUT ANY OF THOSE CELEBRITIES WHITE PEOPLE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD PUBLIC EYE WHO CARRIES IT.WHENEVER THERE IS AN HIV/AIDS AWARENESS POSTED SIGN SOMEWHERE THOSE WHITE PEOPLE WILL HAVE A BLACK MAN AND A BLACK WOMAN BUT,NOT A BLACK MAN AND A WHITE WOMAN PHOTO SINCE IT WAS THOSE WHITE PEOPLE THAT WERE THE VERY FIRST PEOPLE WHO HAD CAUGHT IT AND THEN STARTED PASSING IT AROUND TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE SO,TO MAKE YALL LOOK LIKE YALL ARE SO,FULL OF VIRUSES AND DISEASES WHEN GOD KNOWS THAT IT IS A LIE BECAUSE IT IS THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE THAT ARE FULL OF THOSE VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT ARE FLOWING THROUGH THEIR INFECTIOUS BLOOD CELLS. WHY IS IT SO HARD FOR MEN TOO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT USING CONDOMS IS ALWAYS THE BEST WAY TOO START……. PROBABLY BECAUSE IT IS SO HARD FOR YOU WH@RES TO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT YALL WILL ALLOW FOR THOSE MEN NOT TO WEAR A RUBBER FOR THE REASON OF YOU BEING DUMMIES TRYING TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM….THOSE MEN NEED TO START USING CONDOMS MORE OFTEN BECAUSE IT IS DEFINITELY YOU WOMEN THAT BE PASSING AND SPREADING THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES TO THEM. DID YOU HEAR ABOUT HOW THOSE UNITED STATES TROOPS HAD TOOK SOME KIND OF VIRUS OR DISEASE OVER THERE TO HAITI AND THEN STARTED INFECTING THOSE HAITIANS WITH IT? I THOUGHT THAT THOSE STATE TROOPS SUPPOSE TO HELP THOSE THAT ARE IN NEED BUT,IN HAITI THEY ARE KILLING THEM UP INSTEAD. THOSE WHITE PEOPLE SAID THAT IT WAS A EARTH QUAKE THAT HAD HIT HAITI WHICH KILLED A LOT OF THOSE HAITIAN PEOPLE OVER THERE….THAT WAS NOT A EARTH QUAKE THAT HIT HAITI BECAUSE A EARTH QUAKE WILL ONLY SHAKE OR TREMBLE A PORTION OF THE EARTH.THOSE WHITE PEOPLE DELIBERATELY BLEW HAITI UP WITH THOSE NUCLEAR BOMBS SO,TO TAKE OVER THAT FOREIGN COUNTRY AND NOW THEY ARE OVER THERE STILL KILLING THOSE HAITIANS UP WITH THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY TOOK OVER THERE WITH THEM. SOMETIMES BACK IN THE YEAR OF 2007 IT WAS A FILTHY INFECTIOUS WHITE DOG ON HERE TELLING THOSE BLACK MEN THAT I WAS ON HERE SPREADING POISON BUT,I WASN’T I WAS ON HERE TRYING TO STOP THE POISON FROM BEING SPREAD BY THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING FILTHY DOG SMELLING WHITE PEOPLE AND FOREIGN PEOPLE. ONE THING THAT I WOULD LIKE FOR YOU TO KNOW IS THAT SINCE YOU ARE A BLACK MAN THEN IT SHOULD BE A BLACK WOMAN THAT YOU HOOK UP WITH BECAUSE THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WILL NOT BE HEALTHY ENOUGH FOR YOU AS THEM CARRYING THAT VIRUS/DISEASE TO BECAUSE THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE CARRY ALL KINDS OF VIRUSES AND DISEASES IN THEIR INFECTIOUS BLOOD CELLS. SO,ONLY HOOK UP WITH A BLACK WOMAN AND THOSE MIXED WOMEN ARE NOT BLACK WOMEN. I HOPE THAT YOU DIDN’T CATCH IT FROM A WHITE DOG OR A FOREIGN DOG. THIS FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE DOG THAT GOES BY THE SCREEN NAME OF (Trac23) IS ASKING YOU BLACK MEN WHY DON’T YALL TAKE CARE OF YALLS OWN BLOOD…..IN ORDER TO RISE UP THEN YOU MUST WAKE UP FIRST….WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS BY THAT IS WHY DON’T YOU BLACK MEN TAKE CARE OF YALLS OWN BLOOD BY NOT MIXING IT UP WITH THEIR INFECTIOUS BLOOD SO,TO NOT MAKE YALLS TO BECOME CONTAMINATED LIKE THEIRS ARE? ITS STATED IN THE BIBLE THAT PEOPLE SHOULD NOT EVER GET THOSE BLOOD TRANSFUSIONS BECAUSE THE BLOOD IS CONTAMINATED THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE BLOOD CELLS ARE CONTAMINATED SO,THEREFORE YOU BLACK PEOPLE TRULY NEED TO STAY AWAY FROM THEM BY NOT MIXING YALLS BODY FLUIDS WITH THEIR INFECTIOUS BODY FLUIDS. THOSE DEVILS ARE SOME TRICKY LIARS SO DON’T BE FOOLED BY THOSE DEVILS.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius16/ A-Real-Genius16

    @MrsBlessed4

    YOU NASTY DOG HAIR SMELLING HOUND WHAT EVEN GIVES YOU THE RIGHT TO COME UP INSIDE OF HERE TRYING TO TELL THESE BLACK PEOPLE ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT WHAT HAS BEEN WRITTEN INSIDE OF HERE? DO BELIEVE THAT WHATEVER HAS BEEN WRITTEN IT WAS MEANT TO BE WRITTEN YOU FILTHY WHITE B!TCH.

    STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THESE BLACK MEN YOU FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE MANGE DOG….I HATE YOU IGNORANT AZZ TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE WOMEN….GET OUT OF HERE YOU FILTHY WHITE DOG AND GO FIND YOU A WHITE MAN….YOU FILTHY AZZ FLEA BITTEN DOG SMELLING ANIMAL….THE HELL WITH YOU WHITE WOMEN AND YA’LLS GOT DARN WHITE MEN…..KISS OUR SWEET BLACK ROYAL AZZES….YOU STUPID WHITE B!TCH….GO KILL YOURSELF BY COMMITTING SUICIDE HOE OR EITHER GO AND F*CK AROUND WITH ONE OF THOSE ANGRY N!GGAS JUST SO,THAT HE CAN SHOOT YOUR TROUBLE MAKING WHITE AZZ DEAD THE HELL IN YOUR MOTHER F*CKING HEAD.

    THAT IS MAINLY WHAT THIS BP WEBSITE IS FOR TO TALK DOWN ON YOU FILTHY WHITE WOMEN AND YOU FILTHY FOREIGN WOMEN BECAUSE YOU RACIST BEAST HAVE BEEN TALKING DOWN ON THIS BLACK PEOPLE FOR MANY YEARS AND SO,THEREFORE IT IS OUR TURN….YOU NASTY WHITE B!TCH AND IF YOU DON’T LIKE IT THEN TAKE YOUR FILTHY FLEA BITTEN LICE/TICKS/BUGS IN YOUR HEAD DOG SMELLING MICRO WORMS SQUIRMING INSIDE OF YOUR CONTAGIOUS BOOTY THE HELL UP OUT OF HERE BECAUSE WE AS BLACK PEOPLE TRULY DO NOT GIVE A GOT DAMN WHAT YOU STINKY FOUL WET DOG P*SSY SMELLING WHITE HOES THINK ABOUT WHAT WE HAVE TO SAY ABOUT YA’LLS STUPID WHITE BEHINDS AND THAT IS WHY WE SAY IT.

    SO,WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT THAT YOU FOOLISH AZZ WHITE B!TCH? SAY SOMETHING YOU FILTHY WHITE DOG….THE HELL WITH YOU WHITE WOMEN AND YA’LLS GOT DAMN KIDS THAT YA’LL ARE RAISING TO BE STUPID,RACIST AND FILTHY JUST LIKE YA’LL ARE.

    THIS IS BLACK PLANET YOU FILTHY AZZ FLEA BITTEN WHITE DOG AND NOT WHITE PLANET HOE.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius16/ A-Real-Genius16

    Lessons Every Mother Should Teach Their Sons

    I KNOW THAT THE MOST VERY IMPORTANT LESSON THAT THESE BLACK WOMEN SHOULD TEACH THEIR BLACK SONS AND THAT IS TO STAY AWAY FROM THOSE FILTHY AZZ INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE WOMEN.

    THIS IS WHAT YOU CALL SETTING THE RECORD STRAIGHT.

    WE AS BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO COME TOGETHER WITH YOU FILTHY RACIST STUPID TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE HEATHENS BECAUSE ALL THAT YOU WHITE PEOPLE KNOW HOW TO DO TO US AS BLACK PEOPLE IS TRY AND MAKE FOOLS OUT OF US BY TRYING TO TURN US AGAINST EACH OTHER FOR YA’LL….YOU WHITE PEOPLE AND YOU FOREIGN PEOPLE LIKE FOR US BLACK PEOPLE TO GO AROUND HATING ON EACH OTHER.

    YOU FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE WOMEN BE TRICKING THESE BLACK MEN INTO GIVING YA’LL THEIR MONEY INSTEAD OF THEM SHARING THEIR MONEY WITH THOSE BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE YOU STUPID WHITE WOMEN WANT TO TRY AND GET RICH OFF OF THIS BLACK MEN WHO HAS MONEY SO,TO KEEP YA’LLS RACE OF WHITE PEOPLE WITH MONEY.

    YOU FILTHY FLEA BITTEN WHITE WOMEN WANTED FOR THESE BLACK MEN TO TREAT YA’LL BETTER AND RESPECT YA’LL BETTER THEN THEY WILL DO THEIR OWN BLACK WOMEN….YOU BIG D!CK LOOKING AROUND FOR DOG SMELLING LYING WHITE WOMEN JUST WANTED TO COME BETWEEN THOSE BLACK MEN AND THEIR BLACK WOMEN SO,TO CAUSE THEM PROBLEMS IN THEIR RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE.

    YOU STUPID WHITE WOMEN WERE HAVING THOSE BABIES BY THOSE BLACK MEN AND WAS TRYING TO TRICK THOSE BLACK MEN INTO BELIEVING THAT THOSE BABIES WERE BLACK BABIES BUT,THEY WEREN’T THEY ARE ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” BECAUSE ONLY BLACK CAN MAKE BLACK….YOU STUPID WHITE WOMEN WERE TRYING TO CHANGE THE ORIGINAL BLACK MAN AND THE ORIGINAL BLACK WOMAN BY TRYING TO CALL YA’LLS MIXED/BIRACIAL BLACK KIDS WHEN ALL OF THE TIME THEY WERE ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” AND NOT BLACK.

    YOU WHITE WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN JEALOUS OF THESE BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE OF THEIR DARK SKIN COMPLEXION (in other words you white women wanted to be those black women but,ya’ll couldn’t so,therefore ya’lls low down and trickish behinds started getting pregnant by those black men to try and make ya’ll some black babies but,ya’ll couldn’t because only black can make black) YA’LLS BABIES ARE WHITE

    YOU STUPID LYING WHITE WOMEN WERE ALSO TRYING TO TRICK THESE BLACK MEN INTO BELIEVING THAT YA’LL WERE NOT ANY GOLD DIGGERS LIKE THOSE BLACK WOMEN WERE BUT,YA’LL ARE GOLD DIGGERS TO THOSE BLACK MEN JUST AS WELL AS YA’LL ARE GRAVE DIGGERS TO THOSE BLACK MEN.

    YOU STUPID FILTHY WHITE WOMEN WANTED FOR THOSE BLACK MEN TO LEAVE YA’LL MONEY JUST IN CASE THEY HAD HAPPEN TO PASS AWAY SO,THAT YA’LLS RACE OF WHITE PEOPLE WON’T EVER GO BROKE.

    YOU STUPID RACIST LYING WHITE PEOPLE WILL TRICK THESE BLACK MEN OUT THEIR RICHES/MILLIONS JUST TO KEEP YA’LLS WHITE RACE OF PEOPLE WITH MONEY.

    YOU WHITE PEOPLE ARE NOTHING BUT,A BUNCH OF BLACK RACE HATING ON LYING HEATHENS.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius16/ A-Real-Genius16

    @MrsBlessed

    THE MOTHER F*CKING HELL WITH YOU AND YOUR GOT DAMN WHITE KIDS YOU STUPID AZZ WHITE B!TCH THAT THINK SHE CAN MANIPULATE THESE BLACK PEOPLE INTO BELIEVING THAT YOU WHITE PEOPLE ARE SOME GOT DARN GOOD PEOPLE WHEN WE ALL AS BLACK PEOPLE KNOW THAT YOU FILTHY DOG SMELLING WHITE ANIMALS ARE NOT ANYTHING BUT,SOME RACIST WHITE HATING ON BLACK PEOPLE AND THEIR KIDS MANGE DOGS.

    YOU STINKY DOG SMELLING LIKE THE ANIMAL YOU ARE LYING WHITE B!TCH….I TRULY DO HATE YOU TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING LYING AZZ WHITE WOMEN AND YA’LLS GOT DAMN SYPHILIS CARRYING AZZ DAUGHTERS….YOU WHITE WOMEN BETTER KEEP YA’LLS TRIFLING WANTING TO SUCK ON A BLACK MANS D!CK FILTHY DAUGHTERS THE HELL AWAY FROM OUR BLACK SONS….YOU FILTHY WHITE DOG SMELLING INTERNET BIMBO

    WE DO NOT WANT TO HEAR WHAT THE HECK YOU HAVE TO SAY ABOUT WHAT YOU THINK THAT WE THINK ABOUT YOU FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED TRYING TO TAKE OVER OTHER PEOPLE LIVES IGNORANT WHITE PEOPLE….KISS MY BEHIND YOU IGNORANT TROUBLE MAKING LYING WHITE B!TCH

    DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WHITE PEOPLE CAN DO FOR US BLACK PEOPLE? YA’LL CAN KISS OUR MOTHER F*CKING SWEET BLACK ROYAL AZZES AND THEN GO AND COMMIT SUICIDE BY SHOOTING YOURSELVES DEAD IN YA’LLS RACIST MOTHER F*CKING HEADS.

    SH!T MATTER OF FACT YOU WHITE PEOPLE HAVE THE GOT DARN RIGHT TO GO AROUND YA’LLS WHITE NEIGHBORHOODS AND SHOOT DEAD IN THE HEAD EVERYBODY WHITE THAT YA’LL SEE.

    REGINALD DENNY-

    WHAT THE HELL HAPPEN TO REGINALD MOTHER F*CKING DENNY? DID THOSE N!GGAS KILL THAT RACIST WHITE MOTHER F*CKER?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius16/ A-Real-Genius16

    Those Filthy White Women Will Give Their Rotted Out P*ssy To Any Body That Wants It Because It Ain’t No Good.

    THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN WILL GIVE THEIR P*SSY TO ANYBODY BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT IT AIN’T NO GOOD (think) IF THEIR P*SSY WAS ANY GOOD THEN THEY WOULDN’T BE GIVING IT AWAY TO EVERYBODY.THOSE BLACK WOMEN CAN CONDUCT THEMSELVES MUCH BETTER THEN THOSE FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS CAN WHEN IT COMES TO SEX BECAUSE THEY DO NOT GIVE THEMSELVES TO EVERY RACE OF MEN LIKE THOSE FILTHY MANGE DOG SMELLING WHITE WOMEN WILL DO (in other words those white women are animals of some sort of kind) JUST LOOK AT THEIR HAIR AND THEN THINK ABOUT THOSE BUGS THAT THEY SAY WILL GROW IN IT AND THEN THINK ABOUT THE DOG ODOR OF THEIR WET AND SWEATY BODY….THEY ARE OF ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WHICH IS WHITE

    another thing is those white people really do love those cats and dogs don’t they? maybe because those cats and dogs are apart of their family tree.

    WHITE MAN=WHITE WOMAN
    FOREIGN MAN=FOREIGN WOMAN
    BLACK MAN=BLACK WOMAN

    THOSE BIRDS OF THE SAME FEATHERS ONLY FLOCK TOGETHER

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius31/ A-Real-Genius31

    I STILL DON’T BELIEVE THAT FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING STUPID WHITE DOG SAID THAT WE ARE INSIDE OF HERE DOWN GRADING THE WHITE WOMEN WHEN ALL THAT THOSE FILTHY AZZ FLEA BITTEN SYPHILIS,TICK,LYME,HERPES,LARYNGITIS,AIDS,MENINGITIS,EVER DID WAS TO TRY AND DOWN GRADE THE WHOLE BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE SO,TO MAKE THEM FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT THEY ARE BORN HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN.

    YOU STUPID WHITE PEOPLE REALLY HAVE IT BAD WHEN YA’LL THINK THAT YA’LL CAN JUST COME ON THIS BLACK PEOPLE WEBSITE AND JUST START JUDGING THESE BLACK PEOPLE ON HOW THEY SHOULD LIVE THEIR LIVES OR EITHER HOW THEY SHOULD RAISE THEIR KIDS OR RATHER WHO THEY SHOULD AND SHOULD NOT DATE WHEN YA’LLS STUPID WHITE BEHINDS AREN’T ANYTHING BUT,A BUNCH OF BACKWARDS THINKING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING FILTHY DUMMIES.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/50Cent_Lova_19/ 50Cent_Lova_19

    For all of you that think people that dating interracially are living in a fantasy land, and it just cant work, cause of the cultural difference, thats bulls**t! If the 2 people have things in common, enjoy being together and are open to new things and willing to learn it can work! And f**k this black love is real love s**t, love is love, what the hell is the difference? How is black love difference the white love,asian love, interracial love? get real!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/KINLOCH2/ KINLOCH2

    I THOUGHT THE SAME THING ..(THE TITLE) CUZZ BLK MEN ACT LIKE THEY INTIMIDATED OF BLK WOMEN

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1SereneOne/ 1SereneOne

    It isn’t. Not to me anyway. And no black woman intimidates me, I think it’s the other way around.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/digg_it_up/ digg_it_up

    well black women makes a lot of noise to front thier weakness…and black men makes a lot of noise to front their mistakes…

    so are we gonna say this is the reason why we dont get along?…

    cas i dont care really…. a black woman tree will always get chopped down in my garden morning, noon and night. MI LUB DEM.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/digg_it_up/ digg_it_up

    race is not the factor….its who you feeling….

    sometimes some dudes dyck aint raised for another race till she suck it….

    then other shyts start poppin off…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius168/ A-Real-Genius168

    HELL YEAH,I CALLED ALL OF YOU STUPID AZZ FLEA BITTEN BUGS IN YA’LLS HAIR LIKE THOSE MANGE ANIMALS THAT YA’LL TRULY ARE WHITE WOMEN FILTHY BECAUSE YA’LL ARE AND YA’LL ARE ALSO BORN HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN….YOU BUNCH OF DOG SH!T SMELLING HOES AND B!TCHES.

    KISS OUR SWEET BLACK ROYAL AZZES

    I ALWAYS WONDERED WHY GOD WAS SPELLED BACKWARDS FROM DOG.

    THE REASON WHY IS BECAUSE THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE ARE BORN HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN AND THEY TRULY DON’T AGREE WITH ANY OF GOD’S BELIEFS LIKE YOU BLACK PEOPLE DO.

    THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE TRULY YOU BLACK PEOPLE ENEMIES.

    ABOUT THE WORST KIND OF BLACK WOMEN THAT YOU BLACK MEN CAN BECOME INVOLVED WITH ARE THOSE SO,CALLED EDUCATED BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE THEY ARE DUMB AS HELL AND ALL THAT THEY ARE GOING TO DO IS HOLD YA’LL DOWN.

    ABOUT THE MOST WORST FILTHIEST AND STUPIDEST WOMEN THAT YOU BLACK MEN CAN BECOME INVOLVED WITH ARE THOSE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN BECAUSE THEY ARE BORN HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN AND THEY ARE FULL OF THOSE MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THOSE BLACK WOMEN DON’T CARRY SO,THEREFORE THEY ARE THE ONES WITH THE CONTAMINATED BLOOD CELLS THAT GOD HAD MENTIONED IN THE BIBLE WHEN HE SAID DO NOT ACCEPT ANY BLOOD TRANSFUSION BECAUSE THE BLOOD IS CONTAMINATED WHICH IS ABOUT THE SAME AS LAYING UP WITH THOSE CONTAGIOUS MF.

    AT THAT WEBSITE CALLED “BLACK PEOPLE MEET” ARE THERE ANY WHITE PEOPLE ON THAT ONE TO?

    WHY DO THOSE WHITE PEOPLE BE FOLLOWING UP BEHIND YOU BLACK PEOPLE EVERYWHERE THAT YA’LL GO? IS IT BECAUSE THEY WANT TO PASS YA’LL THOSE DOG DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY OR RATHER HAVE

    ALL OF THESE WOMEN ARE BORN DUMMIES FOR THE REASON OF THEM COMPLAINING SO MUCH.

    THOSE IGNORANT RACIST WHITE MF WILL LIE TO US ABOUT MOST EVERYTHING JUST SO,THAT WE WON’T BE MOVING TO FAR UP IN THE WORLD SO,THE BEST THING FOR US TO DO IS TO START THINKING ON OUR OWN SO,TO BE ABLE TO GET AHEAD IN LIFE….THOSE STUPID RACIST LYING WHITE PEOPLE WILL COME AROUND US AS IF THEY REALLY DO CARE ABOUT WHAT WE ARE GOING THROUGH IN LIFE BUT,THEY DON’T CARE ABOUT US BECAUSE IF THEY DID THEN WE WOULDN’T BE IN THIS SITUATION IN THE FIRST PLACE.

    USFG

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius168/ A-Real-Genius168

    WHY DO THOSE PARASITE CARRYING AND FLEA BITTEN DOGS CONTINUE TO KEEP ON FOLLOWING US AROUND AND TRYING TO GET US TO SLEEP AROUND WITH THEM IN OUR BED UP UNDER OUR BLANKET?

    GET THAT BUG OFF OF YOUR PILLOW (i tried to tell you not to let those flea bitten dogs in your house).

    YA’LL BETTER LEAVE THOSE VICIOUS MANGE SMELLING DOGS ALONE BEFORE THEY BITE YA’LL AND GIVE YA’LL THE RABIES.

    I STILL CAN NOT UNDERSTAND HOW YOU BLACK MEN DIDN’T KNOW THAT YA’LL WERE SLEEPING AROUND WITH HUMAN DOGS THOUGH? DIDN’T YA’LL EVEN TAKE A VERY GOOD LOOK AT THEIR HAIR OR RATHER SMELL THE FOUL ODOR OF THEIR BODY….SHAME ON YOU BLACK MEN FOR SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE HALF HUMAN FLEA BITTEN DOGS.

    I CAN SOMETIMES JUST IMAGINE WHAT THE HALF HUMAN DOGS MUST SMELL LIKE GIVING BIRTH WHILE THEIR LEGS ARE WIDE THE HELL OPEN? IT MUST BE (foul foul stinky stinky funky funky).

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius168/ A-Real-Genius168

    THE ONE THING THAT I HAVE NOTICED ABOUT THOSE STUPID AZZ FILTHY BUGS IN THEIR HAIR PARASITE CARRYING AND FLEA BITTEN WHITE WOMEN IS THAT THEY WILL COME AROUND US LIKE WE REALLY WANT TO BE BOTHERED WITH THEM.

    ANOTHER THING THAT I HAVE NOTICED ABOUT THOSE INFECTIOUS BOOTY HOLE HIV/AIDS CARRYING WHITE DOGS IS THAT WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT THEM LIKE THOSE MICRO WORM AND RABIES CARRYING MANGE ANIMALS THAT THEY ARE THEY STILL BE SITTING THERE OR STANDING THERE LIKE THOSE STUPID BAD AT COMPREHENSION BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED WHITE DUMMIES THAT THEY ARE AS IF THEY DO NOT KNOW WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON HERE.

    I WONDER WILL THEY UNDERSTAND THIS

    GET
    OUT!

    WHY DO THOSE SKUNK SMELLING WHITE WOMEN LIKE TO PLAY IN THE MUD BY DOING THAT WRESTLING? IS IT BECAUSE OF THAT ANIMAL INSIDE OF THEM? I AM TALKING ABOUT THAT PIG

    THOSE WHITE WOMEN HAVE THAT PINK PIG SKIN

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE REALLY DO LOVE THOSE DOGS AND CATS.

    Michael Vicks

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius231/ A-Real-Genius231

    IN ORDER FOR A PERSON TO BE INTELLIGENT THEN THEY WOULD HAVE TO DEFINITELY KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHATS RIGHT AND WHATS WRONG AND IF THEY DON’T THEN THAT ONLY MEANS THAT THEY ARE EITHER DUMB OR STUPID WHICH TRULY MAKES THEM IGNORANT.

    AT THAT WEBSITE CALLED “BLACK PEOPLE MEET” ARE THERE ANY WHITE PEOPLE OR ANY FOREIGN PEOPLE ON THAT ONE TO?

    WHY DO THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE BE FOLLOWING UP BEHIND YOU BLACK PEOPLE EVERYWHERE THAT YA’LL GO? IS IT BECAUSE THEY WANT TO TRY AND PASS YA’LL THOSE DOG DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY OR RATHER HAVE

    THOSE STUPID SICK IN THE HEAD CRAZY PSYCHOTIC BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED LUNACY WHITE PEOPLE SHOULD BE TREATED JUST LIKE THOSE MENTALLY DISORDERED FOOLISH ANIMALS THAT THEY ARE.

    ONE THING THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE REALLY NEED TO TRY AND UNDERSTAND IS THAT WHEN YA’LL ARE DEALING WITH THOSE RACIST WHITE PEOPLE YA’LL ARE ACTUALLY DEALING WITH SOME STRAIGHT UP DUMMIES (sh!t all of those white people are racist to me and regardless if you black men are pissing inside of those white women mouth,in other words they still can not be trusted).

    I STILL CAN NOT UNDERSTAND HOW YOU BLACK MEN DIDN’T KNOW THAT YA’LL WERE SLEEPING AROUND WITH HUMAN DOGS THOUGH? DIDN’T YA’LL EVEN TAKE A VERY GOOD LOOK AT THEIR HAIR OR RATHER SMELL THE FOUL ODOR OF THEIR BODY….SHAME ON YOU BLACK MEN FOR SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE HALF HUMAN FLEA BITTEN DOGS.

    WHY DO THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BE TRYING TO CONVINCE YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO SLEEP AROUND WITH THEM OR RATHER TRY AND ENCOURAGE YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO SLEEP AROUND WITH THEM? IS IT BECAUSE THEY ARE BORN HALF DOG/ANIMAL AND CARRY MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE DON’T CARRY.

    THEY BE SAYING COME ON TRY IT

    DON’T SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY DOGS OR OTHER WISE THEY ARE GOING TO PASS YA’LL THE HUMAN DOG RABIES.

    usfg

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/leon757/ leon757

    “FIRST OF ALL, I DATE WHO I WANT WHEN I WANT” I AM NOT SCARED OF ANYONE OR ANYTHING. THOSE OF YOU THAT DO NOT LIKE THE ISSUE OF INTER-RACIAL DATING, “GO HANG YOURSELVES ON A TEN FOOT WHITE ROPE.” THERE IS NOT A DAMN THING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius2108/ A-Real-Genius2108

    SH!T I TRULY DON’T GIVE A GOT DAMN WHO YOU DATE DUMB AZZ N!GGER BECAUSE I DO NOT KNOW YOU ANYWAY YOU IGNORANT AZZ B!TCH.SH!T YOU CAN GO KILL YOURSELF FOR ALL THE HELL THAT I CARE.

    STOP BEING FOOLS/FLUNKIES FOR THEM:

    THOSE STUPID RACIST LYING UNDERHANDED BACK STABBING WHITE PEOPLE HAVE BEEN PLAYING THE GAME WITH YOU BLACK PEOPLE FOR MANY LONG YEARS WHICH IS CALLED THE N!GGER GAME (meaning lets make some fools out of them because they are dumb anyway).

    THEY COULDN’T GET AWAY WITH PLAYING THE N!GGER GAME WITH ME THOUGH BECAUSE I AM NOT A FOOL FOR NO ONE SO,THAT IS WHY THEY HAD TRIED TO TAKE ME DOWN BEHIND THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT BACK (in other words they were trying to block me from contacting ya’ll so,that i won’t be telling ya’ll all this true and good sh!t that i know).

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE CAN NOT BE TRUSTED BY ANY OF YOU BLACK PEOPLE AND THOSE BLACK PEOPLE THAT BELIEVE IN THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND IN THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE (closedonacctof_rain) CAN NOT BE TRUSTED BY ANY OF YOU BLACK PEOPLE EITHER AND TO BE ABLE TO FIND OUT THE TRUTH ABOUT THEM IS TO KEEP A FAR DISTANCE AWAY FROM THEM OR OTHER WISE THOSE WICKED DEVILS WILL BLOCK YA’LLS LIGHT BY KEEPING YA’LL IN THE DARKNESS OF NO TRUTH.

    JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A WHITE/FOREIGN MALE FRIEND OR FEMALE FRIEND DOESN’T MEAN THAT YOU SUPPOSE TO DISRESPECT YOUR OWN RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE OR RATHER FIGHT WITH YOUR OWN RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT THEY EXPECT FOR YA’LL TO DO TO EACH OTHER (which is the black on black crime for them).

    IN OTHER WORDS FIGHT ANOTHER N!GGER (dumb azz) FOR ME BECAUSE I AM WHITE OR EITHER FOREIGN (in other words they have become use to ya’ll hurting one another for those other race of people instead of ya’ll sticking together).

    THEY WILL NOT EVER TURN THEIR BACK ON THEIR OWN RACE OF PEOPLE FOR YOU BLACK PEOPLE….MATTER OF FACT THEY WILL NOT EVER TAKE A STAND TO ANOTHER WHITE MAN FOR ANY OF YOU BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WILL STICK TOGETHER WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE.

    THE STUPID RACIST WHITE MANS CONSTITUTION WASN’T BUILT TO HELP THE BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE IN ANYWAY AT ALL IT WAS ONLY BUILT TO BE TOTALLY AGAINST THE BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE (thats called racism).

    THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE PEOPLE DO NOT LIKE IT WHEN YOU BLACK PEOPLE HAVE BLACK LEADERS TO FOLLOW UP BEHIND BECAUSE THEN YA’LL WON’T HAVE THEM TO LISTEN TO ANYMORE (in other words those born mentally disturbed white dummies want to control you black people).

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE NEED SOME OF YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO BE FOOLS FOR THEM SO,THAT WHEN THEY DECIDE THAT THEY HAVE TO TAKE YA’LL DOWN THEN THEY CAN GET ANOTHER BLACK PERSON TO HELP THEM DO IT,LIKE FOR INSTANCE WHEN THAT ONE BLACK MAN LAWYER HELPED THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE MEN TAKE DOWN THE BLACK MAN LAWYER NAME JOHNNIE COCHRAN.

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE DON’T LIKE IT WHEN YOU BLACK PEOPLE JUST LISTEN TO OTHER BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THEN THEY WON’T HAVE ANY FOOLS OF BLACK PEOPLE HANGING AROUND THEM TO HELP THEM TAKE DOWN ANOTHER BLACK PERSON IF THEY HAVE TO,LIKE FOR INSTANCE WHEN THE BLACK DOCTOR HAD KILLED MICHAEL JACKSON AFTER THEY HAD GOTTEN TIRED OF HIM (this is it).

    THOSE WHITE MEN NEED FOR YOU BLACK MEN AND FOR YOU BLACK WOMEN TO BE THEIR FOOLISH FLUNKIES AT TIMES….THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE PEOPLE FEEL THAT THEY CAN GET YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO DO THOSE KIND OF THINGS FOR THEM WHEN IT COMES TO YA’LLS OWN RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY SAY THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE ARE DUMB ANYWAY.

    usfg

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Prototype_Brotha/ Prototype_Brotha

    Race is a factor, because I love black women. I want beautiful black babies with big eyes and full lips. I want my boy to have waves like daddy did. I want my beautiful black ass daughter to be 1 of the smarter black girls who values her family and herself to the point where she will not abandon morals for money or “love” like most other people. I want my black ass children to know about brotherhood in ways that werent taught to most of us brothers who joined gangs because the fam wasnt tight enough. White folks are beautiful, just not attractive to me. Lips too thin, gut too thin n Im not into light skin. Race is a factor in EVERYTHING. I have my mentality because Im black. Race should be and always will be a factor. when we stop lying to ourselves it wont be a bad thing.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius262/ A-Real-Genius262

    THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING LYING OTHER RACE OF WOMEN HAVE BEEN TRICKING YOU BLACK MEN IN THE BED WITH THEM FOR MANY OF YEARS HAVING YA’LL THINKING THAT THEY WERE THE MUCH BETTER AND MORE HEALTHIER WOMEN FOR YA’LL WHEN ALL THAT THEY WERE IS SOME BORN FILTHY MANGE HAVE HUMAN AND HALF DOG HOES WITH SOME CONTAMINATED BLOOD CELLS AND SOME CONTAGIOUS AND PARASITE CARRYING DOG P*SSY.

    IF YOU BLACK PEOPLE WILL TEACH YA’LLS KIDS TO NOT DATE OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE THEY WILL DEFINITELY GROW UP WITH MUCH BETTER MORALS ON HOW TO RESPECT THEMSELVES WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE.

    TELL YA’LLS KIDS DO NOT EVER SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY OTHER RACE OF DOGS AND THAT YA’LL MEAN IT….MAKE SURE TO TELL YA’LLS KIDS THAT THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE THE ONES WHOM CARRY ALL OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES BUT,THEY LIKE TO PASS THOSE DISEASES TO THE BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE SO,TO TRY AND WIPE YA’LL OUT.

    usfg

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius181/ A-Real-Genius181

    TRUTH IS:

    SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY FLEA BITTEN MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING DOGS IS NASTY.

    YOU BLACK PEOPLE GOD GIVEN COMMON SENSE SHOULD TELL YA’LL THAT THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE NOTHING LIKE YA’LL,THEY DON’T LOOK LIKE YA’LL,THEY DON’T SMELL LIKE YA’LL,THEY DON’T ACT LIKE YA’LL,THEY DON’T THINK LIKE YA’LL,THEY DIDN’T COME FROM YA’LL,THEY DON’T TALK LIKE YA’LL BUT,THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE DON’T HAVE ANY GOD GIVEN COMMON SENSE TO THINK THAT WAY JUST LIKE THEY DON’T HAVE ANY GOD GIVEN COMMON SENSE TO KNOW THAT THEY ARE FULL OF MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE DON’T HAVE BUT,STILL IN ALL THEY SAY COME ON AND TRY THEM OUT IN THE BED (in other words they are born some infectious disease carrying and passing animals).

    TO BE INTELLIGENT IS TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHATS RIGHT AND WHATS WRONG (in other words its the opposite of being ignorant).

    INTELLIGENT IS THE OPPOSITE OF IGNORANT

    DO ANY OF YOU KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE SAME AND THE OPPOSITE? COME ON NOW DIDN’T WE ALL LEARN THAT IN ABOUT THE 1ST GRADE OF GRAMMAR SCHOOL

    BLACK AND WHITE ARE NOT THE SAME ITS THE OPPOSITE

    THOSE TWO PEOPLE ARE THE SAME BECAUSE THEY ARE BLACK BUT,THOSE TWO PEOPLE ARE NOT THE SAME BECAUSE ONE IS WHITE AND ONE IS BLACK.

    UP AND DOWN IS NOT THE SAME ITS DIFFERENT

    DEAD AND ALIVE IS NOT THE SAME IT IS DIFFERENT BECAUSE ONE IS HERE AND ONE IS GONE.

    DAY AND NIGHT IS NOT THE SAME IT IS DIFFERENT BECAUSE ONE IS LIGHT AND ONE IS DARK.

    TO BE A MATCH IS TO BE THE SAME.

    NOW DO I HAVE TO BRING MY 12yr.old SON INSIDE OF HERE TO TRY AND EXPLAIN THIS TO SOME OF YOU?

    WHAT DO THEY TEACH YOU BLACK PEOPLE KIDS IN SCHOOL ABOUT SEX EDUCATION? DO THEY TELL THEM TO SLEEP WITH THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE? DO THEY TELL THEM THAT A PEN!S IS A PEN!S AND THAT A VAG!NA IS A VAG!NA WHEN TRULY IT IS NOT AND IF SO,THEN THEY ARE NOT TEACHING THEM ON HOW TO AVOID CATCHING CERTAIN DISEASES THAT THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE CARRY.

    THIS IS WHAT I CALL WISING UP TO THE TRUE FACTS OF LIFE.

    usfg

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AfricanSpeech/ AfricanSpeech

    Since whites constitute the majority in america, race will always be a factor… A minority group cannot change the issue of race. Only the majority can do that so if there is a race problem, it is largely caused by the white majority… They need to sort that out. Black people have never gained anything from racism. Whites gained over 400+ years of free labour and free sex from black people using racial subjugation and if something has worked for so long, why would they fix it? If anyone owes anybody anything, whites owe black americans everything in america and that’s the truth…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Game-Over60n/ Game-Over60n

    Study Shows Mixed Women Are Seen As Most Attractive

    DON’T BELIEVE THAT BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE MIXED WOMEN ARE JUST AS FILTHY AND DOG SMELLING AS THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE….THOSE MIXED WOMEN ARE BORN HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN JUST LIKE THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN ARE.

    THOSE BIRACIALS ARE ABOUT THE MOST IGNORANT PEOPLE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD BECAUSE OF THEIR CONFUSION IN LIFE (in other words they are more dumber than a black person and are more stupider then a white person).

    THOSE BIRACIAL PEOPLE DON’T REALLY KNOW WHO THEY ARE THEY JUST KNOW WHERE THEY COME FROM AND THEN THEY THINK WHY DID IT EVEN HAVE TO HAPPEN.

    I HAVE STATED ONCE BEFORE THAT THOSE BLACK WOMEN ARE DUMB AND THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE STUPID WHICH MAKES THEM BOTH IGNORANT.

    I HAVE STATED ONCE BEFORE THAT THOSE BIRACIAL WOMEN ARE MORE DUMBER THEN A BLACK WOMAN AND MORE STUPIDER THEN A WHITE WOMAN BECAUSE THEY ARE MIXED WITH BLACK AND WHITE WHICH MAKES THEM EVEN MORE IGNORANT THEN BOTH THE BLACK WOMAN AND THE WHITE WOMAN (in other words those biracials people had thought that they had the best of both worlds,meaning that they thought that they could speak on black and speak on white because they are mixed with both races) BUT,MY STUDY HAD DETERMINED THAT IT WAS NOT TRUE AT ALL.

    THOSE BIRACIAL PEOPLE ARE ANOTHER WHOLE RACE OF OTHER PEOPLE WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” THOSE SCIENTIST HAD TO DISCOVER A NAME FOR THEM SINCE THEY WEREN’T FULLY WHITE OR FULLY BLACK (in other words all colored people that become involved with any other race of people and have a baby then that baby will be considered another race of baby/child/people) WHICH IS CALLED A “MALADO”.

    THE TRUE DEFINITION OF ‘MALADO” MEANS “DIRTY”.

    ONLY BLACK CAN MAKE BLACK.

    IF ANY BLACK PERSON EVER MAKES A BABY WITH ANOTHER RACE OF COLORED PERSON THAT BABY WILL BE CONSIDERED A BLACK BABY BECAUSE BLACK IS POWER (in other words only black colored and foreign colored people can make a “BLACK” baby together).

    ALL BLACK PEOPLE SHOULD BE CONSIDERED BLACK REGARDLESS OF WHAT THEIR SKIN COMPLEXION IS JUST AS LONG AS THEY HAVE A BLACK MOTHER AND A BLACK FATHER….THOSE MIXED PEOPLE ARE TRULY NOT CONSIDERED BLACK PEOPLE (in other words ) MS.O’BRIEN IS NOT CONSIDERED A BLACK WOMEN SHE IS ANOTHER RACE OF WOMAN WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” MEANING DIRTY (in other words she is mixed or biracial) BUT,NOT EVER A BLACK WOMAN.

    BLACK IS POWER.

    THOSE WHITE WOMEN AREN’T ANYTHING BUT,SOME MANGE AND RABIES CARRYING FILTHY ANIMALS THAT WILL GIVE THEIR P*SSY TO ANYBODY BECAUSE THAT SH!T AIN’T NO GOOD.

    I KNOW THAT THOSE DOGS AND CATS GET FLEAS WHICH ARE THOSE BLOOD SUCKING BUGS BUT,HOW ARE SOME BUGS GOING TO ALL OF A SUDDEN FORM OR RATHER GROW INSIDE OF A PERSON/HUMAN HEAD SCALP? (i am talking about those white women with that lice/crabs/fleas) WHAT KIND OF SH!T IS THAT

    DO THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN GROW LICE ON THEIR VAG!NA TO? I AM ASKING YOU BLACK MEN THAT BELIEVE IN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY FLEA BITTEN DOGS OR DO THEY HAVE TO KEEP THEIR PUBIC HAIRS SHAVED OFF OR SOMETHING?

    DOES THAT SOUND CLEAN AND HEALTHY TO YOU BLACK MEN OR DOES THAT SOUND KIND OF SICKLY AND INFECTIOUS.

    THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN ARE BORN SOME HUMAN DOGS OR RATHER SOME KIND OF HUMAN ANIMALS.

    HOW COME YOU BLACK MEN CAN NOT TELL WHEN YA’LL ARE SLEEPING AROUND WITH SOME KIND OF FLEA BITTEN MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING ANIMALS?

    THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A FILTHY MANGE AND RABIES CARRYING ANIMAL.

    THOSE FILTHY DEVILS DON’T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH DATING OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE OF NATURAL BORN PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE DEVILS ARE FILTHY AND DON’T MIND ABOUT HAVING FILTHY SEX OR CATCHING AND PASSING THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY ALL CARRY….ANYTHING THAT THOSE DEVILS WILL DO TO ANOTHER PERSON BODY IS OF FILTH BECAUSE THEY ARE OF FILTH THEMSELVES BUT,THEY ARE JUST TO DUMB TO KNOW THAT.

    GOD HAD KICKED SATAN THE DEVIL OUT OF HIS CLEAN SPARKLING HEAVEN BECAUSE HE WAS A FILTHY MINDED DEVIL AND THEN SATAN THE DEVIL WHO WAS KICKED OUT OF HEAVEN HAD STARTED CREATING MORE AND MORE FILTHY DEVILS JUST LIKE HIMSELF SO,TO BE ABLE TO LIVE WITH DOWN HERE ON THIS FILTHY PLANET EARTH WHERE ALL OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES ARE BEING CARRIED,SPREAD AND PASSED AROUND TO THOSE THAT DOESN’T HAVE A CLUE ON WHATS REALLY GOING ON WHEN IT COMES TO HAVING SEX AND CATCHING DISEASES OR JUST BEING SICK AND DIEING FROM IT.

    THEY ARE SOME FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS THAT PASS AND SPREAD DISEASES TO YOU BLACK MEN….YOU BLACK MEN DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THOSE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN BODY FROM THE INSIDE SO,WHY IN THE HELL DO YA’LL BE KISSING ON THEM AND PUTTING YA’LLS TONGUE INSIDE OF THEIR MOUTH,AND LICKING ON THEM AND HAVING THE FILTHY DOG SEX WITH THEM? THAT SH!T IS NASTY

    YOU BLACK MEN WILL CATCH THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES BECAUSE THOSE INFECTED HOUND DOGS WILL PASS IT TO YA’LL…OUT OF ALL OF THE RACE OF MEN YOU BLACK MEN ARE THE ONLY MEN THAT THOSE FILTHY AZZ HOUND DOGS WILL MAINLY PASS THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES TO THAT THEY CARRY BECAUSE THOSE MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING DOGS KNOW THAT YOU BLACK MEN WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH MOST ANYTHING (thats called wiping out the original race of black people while trying to make another race of black people by having children by them).

    HOW TO TELL IF SHE IS A HOE/DOG.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND SHE IS NOT OF YOUR OWN RACE OF WOMEN THEN THAT SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD INFECTIOUS FLEA BITTEN DOG.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND SHE KNOW THAT YOU BE HAVING SEX WITH THOSE OTHER WOMEN THEN THAT SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A FILTHY NO GOOD HOE/DOG.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND YOU KNOW THAT SHE HAS A MAN ALREADY THEN THAT SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD HOE/DOG.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND SHE KNOW THAT YOU HAVE A WOMAN ALREADY THAT SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD HOE/DOG.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND SHE KNOW THAT YOU ARE DATING HER MOTHER THEN THAT SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS A NO GOOD HOE/DOG AND VIS VERSA.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND SHE IS YOUR FATHERS GIRLFRIEND THEN THAT RIGHT THERE SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD HOE/DOG AND VIS VERSA.

    IF YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND YOU KNOW THAT SHE IS YOUR MALE FRIEND GIRL THEN THAT RIGHT THERE SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD HOE/DOG.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU JUST TO PAY HER BILLS OR JUST BY GIVING HER DRUGS TO USE THEN YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD HOE/DOG.

    ANY WOMAN THAT CHEATS WITH A MAN THAT ALREADY HAS A WOMAN IS A NASTY AZZ INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING HOE.

    usfg

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/azza19/ azza19

    i date all types of beeyotches, the ones i really love are the ones who give up that puhsee quick, no matter what6 color she is, i bust off in a white beeyotch, chinese beeyotch, indian hoe, african hoe, and puerto rican hoes. they all drank my spooge and loved it!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dragoness01/ dragoness01

    Race is not a problem for me. I do want the man to be confident and proud of himself so he has to be comfortable in his skin. I do not believe that love is limited by skin color.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Harley_Davi_Girl/ Harley_Davi_Girl

    I think that it is sad that there is so much confusion, ignorance and just plain not educated on who you are as an individual of any race. There is no 100% black or white, if you could really look into your gene pool and where you really came from you will find that there was so much mixture of races before you were ever even thought of being born, just because there are two black people making a baby doesn’t mean that your child will be completely black.
    The fact that interracial dating is going on now more than ever in America, is nothing really new, it’s just that now we can all voice our opinions about it and discuss it. Whatever works for you stick with it or go with it, dating out of One’s race is not for everyone it has to be a strong person to endure the stares and glares and comments from others, and depending where you may live it may be the norm or not, but love should be blind, but it isn’t, love should be kind, but it always isn’t, love shouldn’t hurt, but it does sometimes, and we wish we could not feel the hate that comes from others but we can, so in the end and at the end of the day, do what’s right for yourself.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1SereneOne/ 1SereneOne

    Date who you want to date, this is the 21st century. You don’t owe anyone anything, but you owe yourself happiness not to limit your options.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mrcuban69/ mrcuban69

     I hear you girl just don’t worry about those people I’ve read your profile and I agree with you. I don’t like “ethnic films” either and I understand. But you can’t worry about what others think about you, all you can do is take care of yourself and your happiness and remove yourself from those ignorant judgmental people that do not understand. I do not even associate with those that do not understand.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MRREMO01/ MRREMO01

    you are right,keep it 100 

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/-_ACE_-/ -_ACE_-

     the only reason race is a factor in dating is because just based on my opinion.. im looking to continue my african american bloodline even if that means limiting my options or being single for majority of my life..  im fine with that.  I really dont need any one but God, me and my family.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/-_ACE_-/ -_ACE_-

     ok ok…. i just got a thing for dark skin sistas :)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/phazex_female/ phazex_female

    If bros. are intimidated by sistas, it can only be due to their insecurities or worse, our “confidence.” Many (not all) bros. contradict themselves in this area stating that they admire confident, assertive women that “know where they are going and know how to get there.” As one that has been there and done THAT, I’d advise OBSERVE a hella lot. 

    (shrugging) Better to have a healthy ego than to be anybody’s door-mat is my spin on it.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Melech/ Melech

    ITS A FREE WORLD DATE AND MARRY WHO EVER THE HELL YOU WANT NO MATTER WHAT RACE THERE ARE JESUS HOW LONG DO WE HAVE TO TALK ABOUT THIS ISSUE ITS ABOUT A UNIVERSAL
    STATE OF MIND LOVE HAS NO COLOR IT SHOULDNT MATTER WHAT RACE THE WOMAN I CHOOSE TO LOVE AS LONG AS SHE LOVES THE GUY FOR WHO HE IS INSIDE THATS ALL PEACE ONE 

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/srhurd/ srhurd

    Do you think this adds anything.  You just seem really racist

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/srhurd/ srhurd

    black women and asian men growing trend it surprised me too.  I see them more often and even see interracial dating sites for just black women/asian men.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/srhurd/ srhurd

    And vice versa.  There are white men who won’t black women who won’t look twice at them.  Stop pretending that only black men are atracked to black women we know it isn’t true.  And if you look at history it has never been true.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/srhurd/ srhurd

    We know that just because you have sex with someone doesn’t mean they see you as equals.  The slave masters didn’t see the slaves as equals.  But just because some man is black doesn’t mean he see me as equal either.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/srhurd/ srhurd

    They do all the time comment on black women wih white men.  Ask any sister dating one.  And the majority of black men are with black women.  So some Nyggas do.  But who wants a nigga. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Sara-Rogers/100001831989006 Sara Rogers

    whom i date is none of your damn business and that is the beginning, middle and end of the discussion.

  • http://www.facebook.com/laquitathodge Laquita T. Hodge

    If you don’t want to date outside your race, then that’s what you want. My aunt told me she would be upset if her sons ever dated or married anyone who wasn’t black. Sad thing for her is that her oldest likes nothing but white girls. I had to explain to her that she wasn’t any better than a racist white person who hated black people. She can’t stop her son from falling in love with someone because of their race. 
    If you marry someone in your race or outside of it then who cares. As long as you’re happy then that’s all that matters. Don’t listen to the ignorance spewed from people’s mouths whose only emotions are hate

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/314_femme_Lex/ 314_femme_Lex

    black men only hunni. yum!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BeautasiaLovely/ BeautasiaLovely

    True, but you still don’t know what it’s like to be Black.. Your right ppl can find love in other races but race will always be a factor because rascism is still alive and well. Not saying that interracial love can’t work but statistics show that interracail marriages have the highest divorce rate so what does that tell you ?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BeautasiaLovely/ BeautasiaLovely

    Race will always be a factor be cause rascism is still alive and well as it was 400 years ago. Black people still constantly go through obstacles and suffer the way their forefathers did. Not to the same extent but we are still affected by these things and still impacted by slavery. Obviously race was a factor then; and out ancestors most often mated within their own race because if they did not their wouldnt be any more black people like myself in the world today. The black man and woman had to stick together to preserve their bloodlines forover 400 plus years.  If race wasn’t a factor everyone would be of mixed race to a greater extent.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Charmed2Def/ Charmed2Def

    People are going to date who they want to date, and people who have a problem with it are utterly powerless to change it.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SimplyComplex_87/ SimplyComplex_87

    race SHOULD be a factor when it comes to dating…at least for black folks. we need to stick together…not to mention, in many cases of IR dating the black person of the couple is brainwashed into thinking their white S/O is “better” than anything black. i’ve heard the sentiments from black men and women alike…this s**t is real and so very sad.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Ms_Vida/ Ms_Vida

    Wow ok people I have been single for what seems like forever and I date black and white guys. I just really want someone who is going to be good to me, to my family and learn to get to know my friends and he lets me do the same. I need a guy who will treat me like the Beautiful black Queen I am and I let him be my King!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SwtChocLady3/ SwtChocLady3

    I LOVE BLACK MEN!!  My step fater is white, & my mother has said MANY times, she did not want children by a white man; because of what she saw growing up when people would treat mixed kids like trash.  She hated that.  For myself, Black men!!  Yet, to each thier own.  I do not care if I see a mixed couple. 

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Shinobi_Kokujin/ Shinobi_Kokujin

    where is the accredited doc**ented research to prove that  IR couples have the highest divorce rate?  sounds like some BS.

    white people are not the most powerful people in the world, they want you to think that and use the media to  enforce that deception.

    race obsessive America uses the social construct of race as one of many tools to divide and distract people from the system,  while people are  fueling thier cultural and racial ignorance, the system  and the elite are enacting programs and laws that take away our freedoms little by little. 

    people been interracial dating since the beginning of civilization, not anything new.   some black folks  have an issue with  IR dating but some of them are the same hypocrits with  European ancestry  who are not  pure African  who  will diss  Africans and Caribbeans/  South Americans.

    ive had people say ignorant shyt to me cause my girl is  Asian.  cultural ignorance.  didnt take the time out to study…..in my case Filipinos to realize that  Filipinos are the decendants of Black pygmies called Negritos,   some Filipino ethnic groups are the decendants  of  Black American soldiers who joined with them during the  Pinoy-American war, one of the connections i feel with my  girl is that her people went through the same struggles that my people did.

    when it comes to IR dating, people are wrapped up in  outdated warped concepts about “race”, and the  Ironic thing about it is  it comes from European ideology that people of color have adopted an they misguidedly think they are being  Pro-whatever.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/QDOG4LIFE36/ QDOG4LIFE36

    I WONDER IF THIS HELLO BEAUTIFUL WEBSITE IS A PROMOTER OF THE WILLIE LYNCH LETTERS?
     
    WHAT DO YOU THINK???

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BeautasiaLovely/ BeautasiaLovely

    Race will always be a factor, it’s been a factor for 4oo plus years, and history only repeats itself, black folks still experience rascism in this day and age eventhough it’s alot more subtle we still suffer the way our ancestors suffered. Perception is everything, I hate to hear ppl say tht when black men get money they get a white girl, that is not true because majority of black male actors and athletes are dating and/or married to black women, but the media wants us to percieve that those men are eating up white women like hot cakes, but they are not, they focus on the interracial couples more than they do the black couples but the truth is there are far more Jay z and Beyonces than there are ice t and coco”s. The same with Black women in hollywood they highlight the interracial couples making us believe that theres a higher percentage of ppl dating out of race when there arent. Majority of black men prefer black women, but there will always be those that prefer something else, not knocking interracial dating but why is it that  interracial marriages have the highest divorce rate ? although it can work it can still be a bit challenging; its still relatively small in comparison to the number of black couples, black love is still alive and well…. carry on folks …

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    ANd it ALSO makes no sense when a  BW put US down, too for the SAME reasons, IJS…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Late6Knight/ Late6Knight

    I only date black women, but I know that when we clearly define love we find that it has no color.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Late6Knight/ Late6Knight

    Self Preservation: humans instinctively feel that if things change then their future dies

    crazy, right

    but i love black women only

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Alexander_Hoffman/ Alexander_Hoffman

    there is nothing wrong with interracial dating, the idiots who have a problem with it are usually insecure, and they view a woman, or man choosing somebody of a differant race over them, as rejection, so they try to do everything in their power to keep it from happening, and their efforts make it happen even more.

    Let me make something clear,  Whites originated in africa too, so we carry the same african bloodline, but we adapted to the colder european climate.  Our skin became more resistant to frostbite, and grew lighter to capture more nutrients from the sun.   So A person of african descent doesnt pollute their bloodline when dating a white person, but rather enhances it, and vice versa.  It is better to have a child that is adapted to a hot climate, and a cold climate instead of overspecializing to one, so interracial dating is healthy for our species.
    And as for our communities, they are merging, anyone who has a problem with it has drifted away from martin luther kings dream.  If you have a problem with it, than your going to be extremely frustrated, cause nothings gonna stop it. Its Gods will.
    As far as culture, America is the melting pot each culture in america enriches the other culture, by blending with it.  If you dont want to see your culture evolve further, then get out of the melting pot.   This is a revolution, there will be no stopping it, and those who try end up looking like the village idiots, and they are on the little yellow bus of the human evolutionary journey.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/78swagnut/ 78swagnut

    why does blackplanet kepp talking about race and dating??? is race and dating so important to black people? cus i see it on th e internet a lot..and black people love to flock to any websites that talking about interracial dating..it seem like it is so important to black people..no other race or ethnicity is like that..NONE!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sub-Negro/ Sub-Negro

    Ok if this was posted on June 27, 2011 why are some of these comments coming up as a 1 month old and in soem cases 3 month old?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/screwlove/ screwlove

    Sorry but people generalize everything.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/screwlove/ screwlove

    To bad most people have no clue bout evolution. Good job.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/screwlove/ screwlove

    ive heard and dated white women who demean white men in favor of blacks. your opinion in invalid.

    once you go black, you never go back.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_DEZ3CHYXW6Z3MOGMBTA2ZI7UF4 Daddi

    I disagree with this on many levels. For years many black women have ignored me and just wanted nothing to do with me. It wasn’t until I married a non black that I started getting attention from black women. By that time, many of these same women murmured about how I was a traitor to my race and things like that. Even when my first marriage fell apart, these same women never bothered to go out with me. So when I married my current wife, a Latina, I stopped paying attention to them. I don’t think interracial dating or marriage is as easy as one person hating their own race. Frankly, sometimes you just find your match outside of your race. I don’t need science or anything else to tell me who to date. I’m not going to figure out why those girls did not date or marry me. I’m just going to go for who I’m attracted to that is also attracted to me.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cutemase/ cutemase

    Where ever you find love dont matter to me, black,white,yellow, green whatever. There are both good and bad men and women from ALL races, and no particular race has it all. As for me i’m color blind.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Donna-Anderson/1723060509 Donna Anderson

    Good for you

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Donna-Anderson/1723060509 Donna Anderson

    Frankly I think you should be with who you want to be with.  I have dated black men, hispanic, and white.  The pool of good black men is small enough as it is so I am not going to limit myself to just black men, I want someone who is kind at heart and who will treat me right whatever color, and at the end of the day, I know I am nor will I ever be any other color than black.  All I can say is just don’t disrespect  your race when you date other races.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cubsfan1973/ cubsfan1973

    Why is this so called issue still an issue!?!?!?
    This is the same BULLSH*T just worded different!!!
    No matter what, there are people who will date outside their race & people who will oppose to dating outside their race!!!
    I personally could not care less what the next man or woman is dating and do not care what goes behind closed doors because it is none of my business!!!
    To put it bluntly, it is hard just to meet a decent person these days and that has nothing to do with interracial dating!!! That is just plain fact!!!
    People need to quit being nosey and wondering and complaining about other people and need to worry about themselves because the ones who talk the most BULLSH*T are the ones that are lonely, ugly, and do not have a significant other for themselves!!!

    GET A GRIP!!! GET A LIFE!!! DAMN it is 2011 not 1811!!!
    Whatever floats your boat, go for it!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SimplyComplex_87/ SimplyComplex_87

    i’ve heard your excuse before…black men AND women saying that they never felt the love from their own race growing up, so they eventually turned to another race for love. but IMO that’s just an excuse. you haven’t met every single black woman in the world, so you don’t know how ALL of us would view and/or treat you. but it’s just easier to generalize, isn’t it? especially when you have the media telling you every day that black women are attitude-having, thug-loving snobs. you should’ve gotten out more so that you could meet more diverse black women who might appreciate a man like you (whatever kind of man you are…lol).

    i’m happy you found love…i’m just sad you refused to find it with a black woman.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SimplyComplex_87/ SimplyComplex_87

    yeah and i bet you love those white women on your dick too…thinking you’re getting a prize or some s**t. newsflash: the sex is all they usually date black men for! the same white women who f**k you will be calling you a n****r to your face when you upset them, or calling you a n****r behind your back with their white friends, just because they can. (yes, this really happens)

    i recently had a discussion with a 25-year-old black male about IR dating. he told me he only dates white women, but has sex with all races of women. i asked him why and he said he didn’t know…he told me a story about him once being interested in two women at the same time…one was an unattractive white woman and the other was a cute black woman. he said that despite the white woman’s ugliness, he STILL desired her over the black woman! he recognized that he had a problem and talked to a therapist about it. the therapist told him it was simply his mentality…in other words, he’s brainwashed and doesn’t know it!

    this is real, folks. whatever your reason for dating interracially, do some self-reflection and ask yourself how you feel about the opposite sex of your own race. if your sentiments are not ALL positive ones, you may just have a problem that needs to be worked on.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/grwnwmn32/ grwnwmn32

    Its better to find someone that is compatible to you vs going with someone because of race. I’ve thought about it alot but my problem is that I’m colorstruck. I am very attracted to a man of color but if a white guy snuck up on me and I liked him, who knows?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/warden55/ warden55

    Why is race a factor? Why not? Most people don’t date out of their race,religion,city, state, county, tribe,or clan,so why is interracial dating so importatnt/ It’s not. Only the sensationalist news media make it important to sell”News”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/warden55/ warden55

    that’s your personal experience,and I’m glad for you,but overall is it mandatory to date out of your race?NO.all that causes is forms of fornication,such as sexual harrassment and rape.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Shaitx/ Shaitx

    Sorry but that is a stretch. You accused another poster of generalizing when you are doing the same thing yourself. To think that those who do date interracial are ‘brainwashed’ is also a stretch. For many they simply do not care. It’s as simple as that. Though I am married to a black woman and have been for 13 years I dated many races. Why? Because it didn’t make a difference to me as long as they had a strong heart, intelligent and attractive.

    Honestly, what happened to the believe in God and faith? If it exists then why the desire for separation and to then label those who do not see racial lines ‘brainwashed’ or ‘insecure’. I for one use to walk those lines and anyone that knows me can tell you I’m no where near either of those traits and probably overly c**ky and confident as it is. I know my worth. I’m an attractive, strong and intelligent black man and any woman is lucky to have me. But only one has that claim and she happens to be black. She could have easily been something else because it wasn’t her skin that drew me in. It was HER. Her soul, her heart and those eyes didn’t hurt either.

    I would hope that if we truly want a world where racial lines don’t exist we begin to understand that happens within ourselves first. Do I think it’s possible? Heh, probably not or if so it would be so far down the future I’ll be dust. It doesn’t mean I give up and turn my back on it so I will raise my three kids the same way. To not look for the color of the skin but to look for the nature of the heart and soul of a person. We’re all humans, we’re all God’s children so we need to look at each other that way.

  • http://twitter.com/mimienfrancais Moremi Ogbara

    Some of these writers are seriously lacking when it comes to grammar and other conventions of writing.

  • http://twitter.com/DrizzleOK2CA Drake Barnett

    I’ll pray for you

  • Anonymous

    SMH. 

  • Anonymous

    I agree, but some people don’t know better.

  • Anonymous

    Have you ever thought why blk women”ignored” you ? If that is true. Lol.

  • Anonymous

    White females don’t demean white guys. Lol blk boys are finding more and more excuses and reason’s to be in denial. SMH lol.

  • Anonymous

    Dang. That’s s@d. 

  • Anonymous

    They are brainwashed. Ask one and you will hear him speak every negative thing towards and about blk women that the world, white male, and television has spoken. Believe in God and faith? Does that apply to your own race? Any woman is lucky to have you? WTF. You don’t sound as happy about building a blk relationship. But don’t forget we must start with ourselves.

  • Anonymous

    Claps. That is the only way to continue our race.

  • Anonymous

    Lol. Smh. Basically you just said happiness is in another race. Are you not happy with yours. Lol

  • Anonymous

    What weakness’s do blk women have? Choose your words wisely and be professional wit it.

  • Anonymous

    Race is still a factor because the white people still fail to acknowledge all the good things the blk race has to offer. They still make our people look bad to the world etc. Blk ppl just stick together, love yourself and one another, get your own d@mn networks and stop the brainwashing bs.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MisterUnderstood425/ MisterUnderstood425

    I guess the misunderstanding in this is that many fail to realize that this particular site is predominantly involved in divisive topics as such. I’m surprised that most of the people on this site haven’t realized that yet.

    Moving along… the reason why race is a factor STILL in dating is because of racism (which most don’t understand is an evolutionary form of tribalism). I’m not speaking on racism as a prejudicial preference to one’s own as individuals, but more along the lines of institutional racism in which most minorities have access to little resources and wealth, not to mention disproportionate representation in politics, employment and over representation in the criminal justice system. 

    The problem that many feel is the biggest divide between Black/White relationships is the feeling of betrayal by “sleeping with the enemy” with the enemy being the participant and supporter of the same system that holds our community back. Granted, this is definitely not to say that they are the sole reason, but they are one of the biggest. As was stated by a friend on here (@crammasters:disqus ), you have noticed that immigrants to this country have been the least of the participants within IR dating and yet are more prosperous in a smaller time frame than the Black community. 

    As per society is right now… my preference is for my Black women as a whole as they are the most beautiful women on the planet from everywhere including Caribbean, Africa, Canada and even my own backyard, but if necessary for survival then I have little hesitation to do what is necessary for my family’s survival because I will do what I need to do and sacrifice my life for my wife and children like John Q. 

    If race doesn’t matter to you then I give you respect as this world needs more of that love and unconditional respect, but as an undeniable truth of this world and society at large, many stick to their own and will try to protect that as they have done for eons. The only hope that I remain is that my family and community can come together as one and work together as we have shown in the past. It is truly disheartening to see my brothers and sisters hating each other, but I guess that there’s not much to do if few, if any, will listen to you.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/KING_OF_KUTZ/ KING_OF_KUTZ

    So let bring some facts to this discussion.  First the Caucasoid did not originate in Africa (Tamoora, Sudan, Etheopia what ever original name you wanna call it).  The Albino African (who could not stand the intense beams of sun) migrated to the Caucus Mountains because of the more suitable climate for them there.  As the Ice Age came these same Abino’s began to die off because of the extreme cold climate.  With the cold being so extreme a person with carbon (melonin) could not survive.  As they began to breed there kids began to be born based on the Evolution of Adaptation.  Meaning that as they bore kids the kids had to be able to naturally survive in the climate they where born into.  So each kid that was produced was born closer and closer to a body and a physical make up that would allow them to survive in there current surroundings.  After a few thousand years of this and living in caves the Caucasoid was produced.  Unfortunately because of there natural habitat there also became a very morally depraved type of people.  In the Caucus Mountains they could grow no vegetation and had very little to eat.  So women where seen as a burden.  It is hard to see someone as a helper when you dont have food to eat and they take some of the little you have.  So they lived in a very dog eat dog, people eat people type of place.  These things where literal.  Over the course of time the descended from the Mountain and went into different parts of Europe (Rome, Russia etc.)  But they took there mentality with them. 

    I’m gonna shorten this part of history cause it could be a 1000 page book.

    As the European began to come in contact with other people (who didnt look like him) he began to notice his inferiority.  Meaning he couldnt survive because of his genetic recessive traits.  When mixing with other people who have Carbon he naturally dies off.  Again his traits are RECESSIVE.  Meaning they are the least dominate on all the earth.  Plus he posses no traits physically that he can call his own. Outside of his skin color.  By very inbread nature (at this point) most, not all, Caucasians have a natural tendency towards there own survivial because they realize that they cant survive by mixing. 

    So what we have in our moden day and time is a push (so called) for interracial dating.  Well if the Caucasoid knows he cant survive this way why would he be ok with this push.  Well he really isnt.  What you wont find is the hiarchy of the Caucasoid family is mixing.  It is only the least among them (appears to be the best among them from the common eye) that is allowed to do this.  In most of the most powerful and WEALTHIEST Caucasoid families the practice of marry anything other than a Caucasoid is forbidden.  However to keep the mask over the African (Muur, Moor ie. Blacks) eyes a vale is created that promotes something that is actually forbidden in the inter most secret of families.   

    They have taught us to hate each other for years.  Now they are teaching us that we need them inorder to be successful in family life.  (This coming from the same people who instituted homosexuality in there culture and raped and ate there own women)  This push for inter racial dating has nothing to do with world unity.  It has everything to do with keeping us from raising ourselves up as a people.  Once we realize that we are all we need, we instantly become the most powerful force on the planet.  However until we stop look at the Caucasoid Man and Women for acceptance then we cant achieve that unity  Thats why this push is happening to keep us from that reality.  There is not one thing I have said that is not a historical fact.  This is not my opinion.   The truth is hidden in plain sight.  Unfortunately we see this information everyday but have been wiped clean of our own history so we dont recognize it anymore.    Hotep!!!  Man Know Thyself!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soultry-soul/ soultry-soul

    I just wish folks will pick, choose and select what they want. 

    So many, many times I’ve walked by an IR couple (brutha and pink-toe) whereas the brutha will look, stare at me like I was a homemade double cheese-burger.  Maybe its the sway of my hips, the thickness of my lips, slimness of my waste or the beauty in my face, or my stance…not sure what it is and do not care.  Just be with what you want – why are you all in love with the pink-toe yet salivating over me (You feel me) 

    IR have never been a thought in my mind, there is no yt  man worthy of my, my essence, my intelligence or sharing of my mind.  I’ve taught my son/King 24 y o there is no pink-toe in this world that will understand his struggle and he better NOT bring one of them to my house, there is no pink-toe in this world can tell you ”go sit yo-black-@$$ down somewhere” you can’t even have that type of fun with those devils.
     
    For all of you that are protesting and marching in the streets in belief this is okay…keep on keepin on – just keep that shyt from me.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AwesomeRia/ AwesomeRia

    Lol who the hell cares? like really?…just be with someone that makes u happy.

  • http://twitter.com/mr_adubb_atl A-Dubb Wimberly

    If race isn’t an issue then why are there so many black women out there who prefer strictly to date a white man? I see it online all the time. It goes something like SBW ISO SWM. It’s crazy, but it makes sense. It’s because in their mind all black men are inferior or will treat them wrong or dog them or give them an STD. They’ve got their mind made up that they’ll trust a white man more and that he’ll be humble, financially secure, and not give them so much drama. They write all black males in America off as if we’re all the same. It’s as if they’re trying to say “I’ve have it with black men. They’re all the same. Nothing but low down dirty dogs”.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/miss-meth/ miss-meth

    Sorry, is it just me or does anyone else find it ironic that the picture on this page is of Halle Berry and her ex?

    You know, the same ex that called her a “n*gger” and does not want his child to be called “black”?

    Thus, this is but one case why there will continue to be discussions over inter-racial dating.  Do not just think about what happens in the bedroom and all the innocent fun to be had.  There are bigger implications to think about.

    In this case, tell me, what happens if Halle Berry’s daughter grows up and choses to identify herself as black? (as she will find out the police, future employers and racist people in general will not class her as simply bi-racial and give her white folk treatment……just look how they treat the BLACK but bi-racial President)……Is her dad going to be mad as he does not want people to call her “black”? Does her dad’s family hold the same view?  And does Halle now brand what was her once a loving partner as a undercover racist?

    All this can just cause identity crisis and on-going problems.  And racist ideology can be buried so deep within a “We are the World” white person, but in times of anger and conflict (or after they have used you), you’ll be surprised with what comes out the mouth.  But grown decision-making adults still create these situations. 

    The world is not fluffy and full of equality.  Race matters like it always has and always will.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/vitamine_eve/ vitamine_eve

    thanks for this one

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  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_EGXZ26MK42CPGJ2FMIR3VXS4T4 flextime

    Black women loose out in interracial dating.  Yes everybody can see and name a token black female or celebrity that has dated interracial but check the numbers.  Black men are often courted or hunted down by women of other races.  Black woman are not even a choice for most men in of other races or countries.  

    I have heard this myself from an Asian co worker that he could never bring home a Black woman to meet his parents.  I have heard from Hispanic workers that told me they would love to sex a Black women but they would never date or marry a Black woman in fear of what their friends may say.  Still in the USA, white men are scared to be seen with a Black woman but would to hide her from the rest of the world.

    So why should I be condone interracial marriage when it doesn’t benefit me?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/buickjazz/ buickjazz

    Race and love are two separate, mutually exclusive things.   It’s only a factor if you want or need it to be.  But love is where you find it.  If you and another person click on all or most levels and the only thing keeping you from loving that  woman or man is skin color,  you’ll never know the meaning of true love because of your fear.    

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Foodlips/ Foodlips

    If the black community is so aids ridden, why are these white people so fiercely and vigorously pushing  themselves on to us….and promoting that we should date them? Im I the only one who see that something is seriously wrong with that picture?  What if the statistics of blacks that have aids is wrong and its the whites that are actually passing it around to us?

    Lets look at it this way, they say we black women are less likely to get picked, and we are at the bottom and are most of the times single more than any other race of women, which also means we’re getting less sex. So why is it that we are said to be ridden with aids more than any other race.

    Are we giving ourselves aids by being single and lonely?

    While the other race of women that are not single and having more sex are more healthy.

    Does that really make any sense at all?

    unless there is a serial killer doctor injecting black people when he she goes for a check-up

    who knows.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ziggidy/ ziggidy

    this is america…race is a factor in EVERYTHING.

    HB knows all they gotta do to get hits/views is post some shyt about “race” and “dating” in the same headline.

    i fell for it (hence the comment) and yall did too…

    it works.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AwesomeRia/ AwesomeRia

    …no…thats was not said at all…it basically says…what was said…smh people always tryin to read too deep into something simple.

  • http://twitter.com/BryantOctavia Octavia Bryant

    IDK  but it’s not an issue for me or anyone in my fam you date who you want and if you love them then what anyone else say really don’t matter. There is nothing wrong with interracial dating only problem could be them not understanding each other completely but that’s with any couple.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sha785/ sha785

    I just dealt with the issue at work yesterday. A young black man stated “the thought of a black woman touching me makes my skin crawl”, “other races of woman look better” but in the same sentence asked me for a ride and I’m a black woman. I told him ask a white woman for a ride and son, love who you want to love but remember who looks back at you in the mirror and who your mother is. Those comments really hurt me as a black woman because its self hate. When a black man puts down a black woman he degrades himself. Just say that its what your prefer not the put downs because no matter what his puts his body parts in its not going to change who he is (black man). He pulled me to the side and said he was sorry, those comments were wrong. I told him its nothing wrong with the color of woman he likes but, just dont tear yourself down, would you burn your own house down because your neighbors looked better? Just tell people that you love black woman but you like to date other races and leave it at that..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sha785/ sha785

    so so true, but my mother said let a fool be a fool these are foolish people so there is no need to discuss this with them. Only a fool burns down his own house. Just to think how us as black woman get treated by our men but we still dont say “I’m getting a white man”. As I told this young man at work the devil knows that if our men took their place in our community our race would be unstoppable. The Mexicans are taking their place and taking over, they are unstoppable because they can fight and be right back together the next day and 30 of them will live in a 2 bedroom house and never have an issue with who gets to sleep in the big room lol. Its the slave mentality of our men and reverse slavery. They will always be a nigga when she gets mad and when he looks in the mirror a black man is still going to look back at him.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sha785/ sha785

    wow I need to post this on my fb page lol humm where is his comment now lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sha785/ sha785

    wow well spoken! Are you a white man because your pic looks like it. I am a black woman and I have never heard this issue being said before except from myself omg. Well said, I applaud you…ps it doent matter what your race is I just saw the pic and asked.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dkh2/ dkh2

    Wow.  You handled that situation beautifully.

  • Anonymous

    Wonderful history lesson that many don’t like to admit to and I hope that many wake up in time, but from the progression of things, I don’t see too much on the horizon.

  • Anonymous

    First of all, I would like to apologize for such appalling behavior by one I would like to consider a brother in the same fight.
    Putting the very same woman down that brought you into this world is asenine and utterly counterproductive as it lowers your own self worth by proxy. I believe that Black women, while some don’t themselves, are some of thee most beautiful creatures on God’s green Earth and the original woman on the Earth. Can’t hate your own origin. 
    Whatever the case, I believe you handled the situation wonderfully and while I don’t agree with his perspective, I think that he definitely has allowed society’s pressure to influence his mind as with numerous other Black men and women.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Matureblkbbw/ Matureblkbbw

    Obviously,  it is important to a certain percentage of Black athletes (OJ Simpson) actors, entertainers and
    politicians.  They start out with an African American woman.  Once they become a celebrity they  date/marry  outside their race.  These  women  would never  give
    them the time of day,  if they did not have the “celebrity” status/money.

  • wile coyote

    I’ve had many black men tell me the same thing.  People don’t remember when “BLACK WOMEN”!!! shunned dark skinned black men during the 70′s.   They wanted nothing but the banana brothas!!  But,  LOL!! those same black men who couldn’t buy a date from a black woman found love elsewhere!  And white girls were willing and love it!!  Now black women want to complain?? It’s your own damn fault!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BakkByPopularDemand/ BakkByPopularDemand

    “WHY IS THIS DRIED UP, DEAD, BEATEN ASS TOPIC STILL A FACTOR?” 

    OH I KNOW WHY…BECAUSE LAUREN MINOGUE CAN’T WRITE A DECENT, HELPFUL, POSITIVE ARTICLE AND GET A LOT OF COMMENTS…..THAT SEEMS TO BE AN OXYMORON ON THIS SITE….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-144K/ A-144K

    “From a lot of the comments I have read, it seems that there is a lot of stereotyping and generalizations.”

    That’s b/c the majority of IRs are based on stereotypes and generalizations. Black folk bash each other for mentioning these issues, but trust,..the other side(s) have thoughts about you  and themselves IR dating as well.
     
    Blackmen: Big thing having Sexual machines
    Black women: Exotic sexual conquest
    Whitemen: Security having($$$) white knight, princess saver
    Whitewomen:  Most effeminate, trophy prize
    these are but a few basic steroetypes,.and there are taboos that go along with stereotypes as well,..also there are stereotypes that go along w/ other races too,… Hispanics are like this, Asians are ike that,..these things are in the back of ppls minds when hooking up,..but ppl try to act as if those stereotypes are the furthest thing from their minds when hooking up.  Are there ppl of other races that hook-up purely for love?,…sure are,..but my perception is most hook-up just to get their freak on w/ something different. Taboo chasin’

    Another issue w/ IR dating is don’t get get in my face in public waiting for a response of negative or affirmative,..I don’t care who you’re having sex with (that’s why i think most are fake)

    Someone said it is really Interacial fornication, and I agree.
     

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BeautasiaLovely/ BeautasiaLovely

    your right aint a damn thing changed .. The more things change the more they stay the same …

  • http://www.facebook.com/tonyromano36 Tony TheTalented Romano

    The ignorance, hate, paranoia, and racism on this post is just unbelievable, but then again none of the people advocating those characteristics will think they are, so arguing about interracial dating or race is futile. Those of you who want everyone to “stick with their own” or make their own race more “superior” than others remind me of racist organizations like the KKK and dare I say it black organizations with the same mentality. Another person you all remind me of is a guy named Hitler! You might have heard of him! Some of you probably have a picture of him on your wall!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SatiateU2/ SatiateU2

    Guess what comes after dating?  You, Ms Minogue, made either no or very little mention of preservation of culture or heritage, history, affect on Blacks socially, economically, religiously, politically, etc.  There are more things to consider than whether you can find someone who’s interested enough in you to have sex with you.  I understand that every race has its rejects and have to get it where they can.  But, at least have enough humility to admit it and stop putting your own people down because they can’t see you as a potential life partner.

    Do you really want to know what upsets most of us so?  Black women tend to date/marry a White man (not interracial – White) who elevate them, while Black men tend to date White women who  are either unwanted by White men or want us for whatever money we might have.  Just take a look at the number of Black male athletes who are either married to or dating White women.  That has been a source of frustration for us for some time now and is only contributing to the decline of our communities.  It doesn’t serve us AT ALL.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BushidoBoi/ BushidoBoi

    ok, i just spent 2 hrs of my life reading these comments, and all i gotta say is that majority of ya got some serious issues. B***hing over IR dating, when there more things to worry about . As a community we are already in the worst state when it comes to areas education, employment, etc. and yet some of us have nutin better to do than to blame the white man “oh it was the white man who keeping us from reaching our potential,” and other shyt like that. How about we all stop blaming other people for our own shortcoming…. i dont believe it was the white man who told us gto go out into the streets and sell drugs, and give up on trying to be successful. 

    Now i do agree thaT the media is partially to blame as well because almost everything that concerns is some negative stereotypical shyt, and ppl like to buy into that.

    as for IR dating itself, i say those who do that just because they got issues against their own race  are probably just insecure about themselves, and that’s a horrible excuse to start going for other race of ppl. Personally, i believe that race does play a role on who we choose to go out with, because of all the assumptions and stereotypes that are said about other ppl (good and bad) . Personally i prefer IR for mecuz i like the fact of dating somebody different. Personailty matter to me the most

    Final Statement: all of you ppl that keep complaining about how IR so bad and criticizing need to just end this shyt already n go on focus on something else.

  • aa9625

    You know a lot of times, people make stupid comments just to make you upset. They may or may not believe what they are saying, but they say it knowing it will hurt your feelings. Maybe he was recently rejected by a black woman he was pursuing, so he decided to take it out on you!!! People have motives when they say things that are obviously mean or rude. I mean, he is not stupid. He knew he was talking to a black woman! Right? Maybe he is a very insecure person and he wants you to be insecure also. A lot of times people make comments against people in their own ethnic group because they are bitter. It is that simple. So don’t allow his insecurity with himself  hurt you!! Love yourself. Personally, I don’t have a problem with interracial relationships but many times people get involved in these relationships because of self hatred or because they believe in stereotypes ( white women are feminine, black women have attitudes, black men aren’t ambitious, white men are successful men who will “save” you from your bleak world).  If it is just about love, then it shouldn’t be a major issue. Love is beautiful. But sometimes people practice racism against those in their own ethnic group out of bitterness, insecurity, or ignorance. I personally would rather be with a loving, caring black man, who is intelligent, romantic and responsible. That is my preference.  I want to see black people love each other and feel good about one another simply because in this nation( the United States) black love is in a lot of trouble. Blacks are not marrying like they should. The African American family( one with a husband and wife)  isn’t as prevalent as it should be.  So I think we should promote black love. That is not to say that I hate interracial marriage. But I just want blacks to learn how to trust, respect, and love each other. There is so much mistrust and tension between black men and women. How can we survive as a community if there isn’t peace  between black men and women, if  the black family can’t survive?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TanDan34/ TanDan34

     This BLACK WOMAN prefers BLACK MEN…..END. OF. STORY.

  • http://twitter.com/rewith85man Ernest DeBrew III

    No one has a right to tell me who I should be with unless he/she tells me that the person is shady or so. The same thing goes with me too.

    People should date whoever they like. Parents, kids, and others need to stay out of it. 

    When people die, do they think that God is going judge them based on their skin color or race? 

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