Guys always ask, why do women fake orgasms and to be honest I can only think of one reason. We are scared to hurt the guys feelings or confront the situation at all. There maybe a few reasons for this: you are a prude, you are a protector of feelings, you don’t know how to bring it up, etc. Whatever the reason, women all over are not getting satisfied because they will not speak up.
The benefits of speaking up outweigh the fear by leaps and bounds. If you don’t want to take my word for it, picture a world with a bunch of sexually unaware men. If there was never that brave woman who spoke up and said “honey, you are doing it all wrong,” all the women who were sexually active after her would not have had the pleasure they received by the man who now knew what he was doing.
Next time you are getting ready for a steamy session between the sheets, remember to thank the brave women who spoke up before you. Also, if you aren’t getting what you want, find the courage to speak up yourself. What is the worst that could happen?
Tameka Foster’s BFF Spoke Up For Her!
Another example is work, how would you ever get the raise you deserve or become where you wanted to be if you did not speak up. The women who are the most powerful in business are the ones who are not scared to make demands and see them through. Women always fear aggression, but it actually helps you out.
Finally, think how many times you are scared to say how you really feel about something, “does this make me look fat?” If you answer yes, you probably feel bad, but I would rather have only you see me looking fat, rather than an entire crowd of people. There are times when you will get upset with roommates, family, and even friends but are scared to say how you really feel or what is bothering you. I have seen too many friendships end because women won’t speak up about the mistreating.
Don’t let this happen to your friendship!
Therefore, I beg my fellow women to stop the silence. Speak up for how you feel. You deserve to live life happy, not unhappy and silent! So speak up!
