I most definetly agree with Kareem. Go with your gut and your feelings, because they usualy don’t lie! Good luck to you! Don’t settle!

do follow your gut because they let or tell you want they want u to see or heard.don’t be nobody door mat if u don’t stop it now than he will keep on doing that to you.the same thing happen to me this me i start dateing in nov of last yeasr everything was good untill i had a dream about him and his best friend which was a lady .i ask him about it and he couldn’t said anything when i brough it to him about it his lips just drop and ask me how can i see that in my sleep.i told him that the lord wanted me to see it so he make it so clear that i woke up and sweeting and my heart was beating so fari though i was haveing a heart attack.don’t be a fool take care or u and your child.stay safe

DAMN BABYif he dont how to treat you call me 513-633-9158 MY NAME IS ACE

That’s true, if your gut is telling you something isn’t right go with it . i wish you all the best…

go with your first mind sweetie. if you continue to stay in this relationship with him and you feel that he is cheating on you then you are not doin nothing but making it harder on yourself. its plenty of fish out there in the sea. i agree with kareem. good luck with what you decide to do.

I got cheated on through myspace…when I was pregnant. I kept having dreams and seeing it over and over…I went with my gut and was right. Not only iwll my baby daddy/ ex fiancee` never meet this girl that lives hundreds of miles away. He’s lost my trust because he couldn’t handle the stress…don’t put yourself through it. IT IS A WASTE OF TIME!

the answer is all in you really. you dont have to go anywhere else. its hard to accept that we already know the truth, so we go finding it somewhere else. stay strong for you and your son. i just got myself out of the same situation and all though i thought i was so lost without him, i didn’t let him break me but i used the situation to make me stronger. i was going crazy for a few weeks, i thought my world was over! theres a lesson to everything and you’ll only repeat it if you didn’t catch the point of what you’re trying to teach yourself. hope all goes well.

u kno what for get him and come and b wit u real man that dude is a loser
he never will get or kno what to do
aint goin to do nothin wit him self

damn a kareem that fool aint never
goin to b nothing get at a real man
and drop that fake

IF HE DID IT ONCE, HE’LL DO IT AGAIN. LONG AS HE SEE THAT YOU’LL FALL FOR THAT LIE. HE’S GOING TO KEEP CHEATING. I’VE BEEN THERE!

i agree with goddess_987. i’m going through the same thing. i’m expecting my first and me and the baby daddy been together off and on for 3 years now. i see it like this, he hasn’t changed last year or the year before, what makes us think they gone change next year. if a man really cares about us they wouldn’t put us through all this. it may seem lonely at first but there is another man out there who will care and do for u and your child. that’s how i motivate myself but i hate sittin here wondering what he doin when i know he’s cheatin still.

my story is almost exactly like ‘MzBubbleButt22′ and now my son is a year old. i left my child’s father at the beginning of my pregnancy for the same reasons. he hadnt shown progression & i wasnt trying to wait around & see if he would. he’s been just short of a dead beat father. i can count on my hands how many times he’s spent time with his son & contributed with money. currently i am happily engaged with an awesome man who stood by me through my pregnancy & now adores my son as his own. anythings possible!

I know this may seem strange and this maynot be your case but i have a few friends that use to cheat on they girlfriend like it wasnt nothing, then they told me they was going to marry the girl friend and i would say are you going to be faithful. Well these same friends been married 2 and 5 years now and they havent step out cause they say they love their wife and they made an oath in front of god. So who knows.

Im going 2 say that Im a witness that dont giv up on ur baby daddy I was n tha same boat as u I was gettin done wrong but my baby daddy can 2 his senses and seen that I was a down chick 4 him like no other so now u close as ever so dont giv up jus sow him u there and that u aint going no where ok keep ya head up.

LOOK I DONT HAVE ANY KIDS BUT I LOOK AT THE THINGS GOING ON WITH MY FAMILY AND OTHERS SO I CAME UP WIT THIS MOTTO IF U LIE,U WILL STEAL,AND IF U STEAL U WILL CHEAT SO U CAN TAKE THIS A GO WITH IT R U CAN QUIT LETTING HIM PLAY U LIKE A TOY

I love the subtraction of love from the equation…. That how so many people get caught up, thinking that love is the only thing that matters. That’s a big reason why there is so many couples are divorced now.

But no, I wouldn’t (if I had one) marry my baby daddy. If all you two do is fight and ooze negativity (whether its cheating, or speculation of it etc); that can’t be good for the child and his/her possible view of relationship and love. It could start a vicious cycle.