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bored black coupleHow many times have we heard from our sisters that a good black man is hard to find? Why are white and asian women taking our men? Are we willing to date outside our race? Ladies take a look at this video where 2 women and 1 man discuss what is wrong with black relationships? From our attitudes, to not having our ish together, these three break it down.


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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/PrettyKitty98/ PrettyKitty98

    Here we go again. Why do you all insist on berating black women on this site? Istead of telling black women what they are doing wrong let’s try and analyze what is wrong with societies perception of black people today. Surely you jest! Let’s talk about what has our community bound and some of the factors why successful imagery of positives relationships are not projected in our community. Let’s talk about the influence that music’s Misogynistic undertones has on the relationship value placed on black women.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Are you freakin kidding me with this? AGAIN??

    *SIGH*…..This should no longer even be up for debate…As black people this ONE time we should all come together on the fact that these types of articles are played out, non sequitor and are ONLY posted for ‘hits’..That atleast we should all agree on.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Rdawta/ Rdawta

    i agree, this kind of nonsense only marginalizes us more. white folks got relationship troubles too, why is that articles keep saying its a “black” thing. Our problem is because we are key holed and centered in a white dominated culture that keep us confused as FK! So as a result, we don’t know if we coming or going, and where we even begin. If we/you don’t know yourself, and where you come from, then you won’t know anything about being with someone. Know thyself, and the rest will follow, and please HelloBeaut. Stop posting this over racialized non-sense to continue Black self hate. Halley berry and the rest of them can have their confusion. I don’t want it.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/a_true_diva1/ a_true_diva1

    I am convinced this site is a means of belittling African Americans and try to continue to make us believe that something is wrong w/ us. These types of articles, promote self hate and only add fuel to the fire, making us hate ourselves and each other. This new form of slavery is the reason we can’t bound together and become one as a kind because we are constantly being told what’s “wrong” about us instead of celebrating what is right about us. EVERY culture have things that are wrong w/ their relationships to one another, so to act like African American’s are the only ones to have things wrong in relationships(to the point that your writing this article, to point it out) is ludicrous.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/home-wreaker33/ home-wreaker33

    i think this video is ridiculous .i hate hows it make it seem like all black women have bad attitudes and that is the reason why we can’t find black men .now some of that is true i do know some black women with attitudes but i also know white women with bad attitudes and Asians and the attitude alone doesn’t make a man period let alone black want to deal with them. so it angers me when i see this video blaming the black sista for wanting a man to be a man or having some respect for someone other then themselves .but hey if a black man wants to run to another race let him run because sometimes the grass aint greener because white girls are starting to get a little ghetto too .

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LegendBlkOne/ LegendBlkOne

    ha, it must be that time of the week again. The same thing all over

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    And to think with this being BLACKplanet, you would think they would post more articles and self helping tips on what black people can try or do to get a better understanding of each other..Yet instead they post articles that tell us to date outside our race, what we can learn from other races, our attitudes, our black men being criminals, sexist, abusers, the black woman who is abused by black men and so forth…I would be amazed if ONE time they posted something that showcases the MANY happy, self sufficient black couples/families out there that do exist. ( I came from one)….But I guess that wouldnt be the true definition of a black rooted site…Guess I’ll go join e-harmony or something, see what they got goin on….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sylkiiifeather/ sylkiiifeather

    WOW….really HB? really? again?…..wow…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/stephanie7777/ stephanie7777

    THERE ARE VERY FEW “GOOD MEN” IN GENERAL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DangerouslyInLove/ DangerouslyInLove

    That’s because BLACKplanet isn’t run by BLACK people…they’re having a field day posting crap like this up, and we fall for it everytime(well, a lot of us do not all)…..man it’s good to be “LOVED”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    @dangerouslyinLove
    The problem is all these fuking advertisements all over BP with AFROROMANCE and it’s just about interracial dating! It’s the devil’s propaganda that is telling blacks to hate each other, divide and conquer. It’s already working on black chicks, by the boat loads nowadays, so in a sense, the battle is lost now that black chicks are trying to their Avatar on. lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/infinite_question/ infinite_question

    i dont think that a couple of interacial couples will destroy the african american population. i dont think black women are doing anything wrong. i also see no honor in sterotyping all black women as a certain way. honestly, i think the biggest problem facing black couples is the hiearchy of american society. 2 often we have our culture and moral temprature dictated 2 us by those who seek 2 sell us products (BET, even BP). on the other side of the spectrum, there is a shortage of black men in places that generate the most money. i dont mean athletes or rappers, as they only make up a minor demographic of african american males. i mean the banking, healthcare, and administration positions are disproportionatley distributed to females, leaving a SOME black men to question their rightfull place with the black women. white women are flooded with white males in these job markets to socialize with, and it is my theory that they quietly look for sexual gratification with the black men SOME black women may look past because of his low place in society. i also feel that if the 1/3 of the black male population were not victimized by the american criminal justice sytem, there would be less interracial relationships.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/lovprecious_03/ lovprecious_03

    Personally I dont get on B.P. like I used 2 for things like this. But I guess they are trying to say something that someone else brought to my attention. I have noticed that alot of men on B.P. are not even looking for black females so whats the point of even being on the site. I personally dont care what they are going threw but I did notice one time when I was browsing threw pages that one boy (not a man or gentlemen) put on his page he doesnt not date black women. I was gonna comment on that but I thought to myself WHY? I guess what I see B.P. is trying to do is promote more interracial couples I guess thats why these topics always come up. Me personally I could careless what race the guy is honestly as long as he treats me right and is not gonna try 2 mooch off of me.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jack_Stephen1/ Jack_Stephen1

    the problem is blk women get their degree then get a job at the phone or gas company then start thinkin they’re condaleeza rice and lola falanna rolled into one! they’ve forgotten their place in the presence of the Blk King! they need to return to the role of a june cleaver, carol brady or edith bunker!

    i’m just playin!!! don’t y’all attack me!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/petitesexylady/ petitesexylady

    I am so sorry but i’m never going to date someone that is not my race . NO i’m not racist i just LOVE my black brothers. point black period !!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/westchestergirl/ westchestergirl

    I agree with all 15 comments posted. Blackplanet should be an uplifting site, instead it’s TRYING to minimize black people’s awarness of self.. Things that should be magnified are not. We as BLACK PEOPLE are stronger than ever, we just have to pull the rest of our community up:)

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DaUnbreakable1/ DaUnbreakable1

    Typical black women today don’t deserve a good man lmao

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/The_Rude_Awakening1/ The_Rude_Awakening1

    YOU BLACK WOMEN WH@RES AIN’T ACTING RIGHT.SO START TRYING TO GET IT RIGHT YOU IGNORANT A$$ BYTCHES.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2good2bsingle/ 2good2bsingle

    It seems to me that MANY Black ‘Women’ SAY they want ONE THING, but really desire ANOTHER THING ENTIRELY. That to me is one of the reasons that we have such a difficult time meeting/dating/marrying (eventually). I know that guys also do it, but.. What percentage of Black Men or to what extent is unknown to me. I only study the behavior patterns of Black Women because they’re the ones that I date. And THAT’S the REAL DEAL! ;-)

    @ Claifemme23-> eHarmony ain’t $#!T either!! Trying to join them is like trying to get into Harvard!! You have to be P-E-R-F-E-C-T! I was gonna elaborate, but I changed my mind. You’ll see when you get there. It takes HOURS to apply with them and fill out all of the CRAP they ask you to put in! Believe me.. I KNOW!! That’s the way it was about 4 years ago, anyway. I don’t know if they’ve ‘Loosened up’ or anything since then. I doubt it. Anyway.. PHUCK eHarMONEY!! ;-)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Deletha_J/ Deletha_J

    here we go with this s**t again. the blame game and why. many black men blame black women. few black women blame black men. just another way to put us against each other. may be the damn relationship just wasn’t meant to be. what in the hell does that have to do with my skin color? there’s no such thing as a “typical” black woman because we are all different. its all about who you attract.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kris_87/ Kris_87

    i just so happen to agree with everything that was said in the video. *gasp!*

    don’t complain when someone’s trying to help YOU out. if you got offended by the vid, then uh…i think a look in the mirror is in order…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    2good2bsingle, LMAO! I tried E-harmony a year or so ago myself out of curiosity and ironically enough they ‘matched’ me with about 12 white guys, 5 asians and 10 hispanics…Hmmmm MESSAGE! you think?? LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/WestsideCartelAtl85/ WestsideCartelAtl85

    Here we go again with divide and conquer bs. There are good Black people out here. Screw believing the media and it’s false perception of us. HB has nothing positive to say about Black relationships at all. Only negative bs.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Shanaj25/ Shanaj25

    Who exactly are these 3 people suppose to represent? Are they scholars, psychologist, relationship experts, anything like that?? Personally I don’t think so… Just seems like 3 random ass niggas to me. Who cares what they think. They can’t speak on behalf of everyone.

    I agree with most, this is just another negative video BP put out for controversy. Typical!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    I fell the reasons are no love, communication, sex, money and compatiblity…..ALL of us want these things, but if that person don’t have one or all of these, then they’re disqualified in he or she’s life……The guy might have $1 million, or the lady might want a guy that looks like Denzil Washington, but NOBODY can possess it all, either in Hollywood or in the hood…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sweet_Lioness/ Sweet_Lioness

    what is making me laught is the ghetto ass asian lady interviewing
    im sorry her face to her voice is just contreived all over

    and so patroniszing to boot, my brother , my sister….lmao

    piss take mate

    and the topic is about why blacks should date out of there race!

    so they can clone more mini interviewees?

    half half whatever!

    every topic on her is set to insite hate and jeolousy among us
    face it tho , black people seem to be a subjectof facination for years and always will be

    lets build each other up my people

    higher ..higher

    no higher!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Dr_Detroit777/ Dr_Detroit777

    I’ll Tell You What’s Wrong With Most (Black) Relationships; There Is A Priority Of Emphasis Of Nurturing And Justifying And/Or Realizing ‘A’, Instead Of The Priority Of Emphasis Of Nurturing And Justifying And/Or REALIZING Our SOULs (And Right CONSCIENTIOUSNESS).

    The Abomination That Causes Desolation.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TantricSol/ TantricSol

    This is bull s**t. We keep speaking as if blacks are experiencing these issues alone. Most relationships dont last regardless of race. But as usual we want to focus on black people. Think of all of these cheating lying ass snake white men, educated men, tall men… And women arent any better… women of all races cheat and lie and snake in relationships. I want an accountable adult. Most of my friends who are in relationships regardless of their color or age or status have the same drama. I have an educated white woman who is a dear friend of mine… her husband is a lawyer. He got his mistress pregnant. And now some of her income is going to pay child support for his child. The whole thing is eating her up in side… But she did not leave them. And I find these types of compromises in 99.9 percent of relationships I encounter. Now her husband knew damn well that infidelity would compromise the relationship but he did anyways… and now if his wife reacts to this… She’s acting like a b***h. whatever

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/baldy29/ baldy29

    Most of the articles are base on black women and not black men. It takes two to tangle. I would like to see what is the real reason behind black relationships.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kris_87/ Kris_87

    @TantricSol…did they not say that this stuff applies to all races? they made that clear more than once. i swear, black people always wanna play the victim, when you’re actually the ones punishing yourselves. quit being so damn sensitive and reactive, and start being proactive. focus on bettering your OWN relationships (it starts with you lol) and i bet you won’t be so upset over trivial vids like this.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    It’s cute how HB always has these what black folks need to do with each other articles..accompanied with a very suggestive photo display of HAPPY INTER-RACIAL couples….Hmmm, would it be safe to say that BLACK azz planet doesnt actually want black people together?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/doing_me74/ doing_me74

    Lets say since every black man is the problem lets say hypothetically all black men was rich an had money etc.what is black women going to do because like its said we can say whats the problem but whats the solution to the problem.Because black men always been the problem so how is the problem going to be solve then because you know at the end of the day its the black man problem.So what is black women going to do to give their solution that’s what I want to know

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/wouncie4life/ wouncie4life

    Boo whooo…….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsTjaye/ MsTjaye

    Why do Black people insist on acting like our relationship issues are any different from other races?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Lucky_Jester777/ Lucky_Jester777

    yaaawwn… next!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Peter_Black/ Peter_Black

    Black women say there’s no good black men. Black women say they won’t, “settle.” Black women say they , “deserve” better. Who the hell cares! Us Black men are happy to just get through the week putting up with racist white people and black winches. I wish our only problem was this B.S. that they talk about…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ANewStart74/ ANewStart74

    Like it was said, “if you have a stank attitude, no good man that is spiritually minded and financially moving upward or secure is going to select you to take care of. He is going to pick a woman that is non-confrontational, easy to talk to, physically appealling to him, and fun to hang out with as well.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Lucky_Jester777, Thank you!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BaldGentleman729/ BaldGentleman729

    This is pointless, if you are black, white, brown, green, whatever color, you are going to kick it with the man or woman you feel comfortable with. If that man or woman is another color so what. The only ones that will have a problem with it are the people who are always complaining about any and every thing. The bottom line it is all about love, who you love not the color of love. I am tired of this our men our women s**t, everyone needs to just do what they feel they need to be happy and f**k what anyone else says.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msveevee1/ msveevee1

    Without really watching the video or reading anyone else’s comment, I feel that black relationships don’t last is bcuz of the brainwashing of the slavery days. This Willie Lynch character really did his job when it came to segregating our ppl. Black folks don’t know how to share genuine love amongst each other for the fact of being stigmatized throughout centuries of hate amongst other racial groups until it has finally plagued our own. “The system” made sure that black men were taken out of the home and therefore missing out of the children’s lives that they’ve conceived so that the legacy of dysfunction and chasing after the white man’s “american dream” became prevalent. Meanwhile, generations upon generations of black families have been beaten down to lower their standards in the choice of finding a compatible mate bcuz they were not taught to learn to love themselves 1st. It was always looked at the status choas perceptions. They were taught to settle for a “peice” of a relationship bcuz of the so-called sake of the children or bcuz of the providance of the man or something superficial as being someone’s “trophy”. Listening to things like, “Love don’t pay the bills” has caused black women to only look for men with financial means of providing for them meanwhile, causing them to degrade themselves just to achieve it. Or if not that, becoming so independant from a man to the point where her standards have risen and any sign of a black man not meeting the qualifications of producing complementation to her already established assets don’t get a second glance in their direction. So black men think that ALL black women are gold-digging hoes that like to scheme to get in somebody’s pockets and they treat ALL women accordingly therefore thinking of themselves as this so-called, “space-aged wanna be pimps”.

    I admit, trying to find REAL love and TRUE committment in the black race is over-exhausting, depressing and overwhelming. I was just thinking about that today after talking to my daughter’s dad that I’ve realized that I wasted alot of precious time, effort, money and love on some sorry-no-good-for-nothing-but-a-nutt black bastard that I’m now no longer interested in finding love or even accepting love from others. I mean, here I am, a good hearted and spirited woman and all and all that I’ve ever experienced with black men are dysfunctional issues and drama. Lying, cheating, manipulation, trying to control me, not motivated to do better, c**ky, egotistical, selfish, greedy, evil hearted and spirited men in my life. I have not met a guy that is my equal. I either always have a dude that is intimadated of me and tries to tear me down or a dude that is so worthless that dependent on me that I feel like I wear the pants in the relationship.

    Point blank…black men have become too watered down for me. Always want to be taken care of but never reciprocate the feelings. And I realize the black women that have low self-esteem, low self-worth and value will always have a man in their life if they’re willing to put up with the BS that black men in this day have to offer. It’s all bcuz they fear being alone. BUMP THAT! I say. Shoot, I love myself more than that to the point that I will sacrifice finding love and being in a relationship with anybody. My sanity and peace of mind is waaaaaaaayyyyyyy more valuable than fearing being alone. I mean forreal though…what’s the use of being with somebody when all they do is bring you drama and disrupting your auroa of joy, peace and love? Causing you heartache, disappointment and pain? I’ll leave that to those hopeless romantics that think lust is love. And thinking that giving a man all of you to the point where you lose your identity in hopes of changing him is your lifelong mission. Not me! Being there, done that and can write a book about the do’s and don’ts of it. It’s not worth it! It just ain’t worth it! Ppl this day and age have too many issues and my motto is if somebody is not working with you or for you to help keep things in perspective, then they are working against you. So why mess with someone that is working against everything that you’re working for? I’ve said this time and time again… I’m cool being alone. I really enjoy it quite frankly. You know why? Bcuz I’M DRAMA-FREE!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kevanj/ kevanj

    Here goes the solution… kill the Willie Lynch mind our enemies have put us in and turn back to the Most High who sits on the throne in Heaven! Here is what he had to say…

    Eph 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
    Eph 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
    Eph 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
    Eph 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
    Eph 5:26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
    Eph 5:27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
    Eph 5:28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
    Eph 5:29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
    Eph 5:30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
    Eph 5:31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
    Eph 5:32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
    Eph 5:33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

    1Pe 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
    1Pe 3:2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
    1Pe 3:3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
    1Pe 3:4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
    1Pe 3:5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:
    1Pe 3:6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
    1Pe 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

    Fellas and ladies remember, the only way you get a true good husband or wife is if you are obeying his commandments… the wicked is given unto the wicked and that’s why people keep getting done over, a virtuous woman is given to a man that fear the Most High as a precious gift … hope ya’ll understand

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sylkiiifeather/ sylkiiifeather

    blah!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MrWorf510/ MrWorf510

    I think the three guests in the video all hit on good points. Without being able to communicate (that means actually listening to the other person that is talking, instead of talking AT the other person!) you are already sabotaging any potential relationship before it even starts.

    I think what may be happening is that some ladies feel that if they don’t get their point of view out that instant that they will never get to express it. However when you couple that with the other points mentioned in the video it is easy to see how exasperated this situation can become. Which is why the relationships amongst our people are breaking down.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/friscod30/ friscod30

    I think there are a lot of problems with black relationships. Too many to list. Maybe black women need to start dating better men. If more women dated good guys and only good guys, men would change. I remember when I was younger so many black women would tell me or my friends they were too nice. I never could understand that. Because of these comments so many black men have ran off to different races. Now on the other hand there are too many young black men and women that listen to these rap songs and try to live these lives that are always real. We as black men need to stay out of jail and get jobs, raise our kids and be leaders. There are too many young kids growing up without a clue. Why is it that we have kids but we wont get married. Too many people are growing up thinking that is ok. Which leads to sex but not relationships.

    Lets face it men love being single and playing the field and women dont. So women have to start changing their approach on dating. I can tell you this. I’m sick of meeting women and all they seem like they want is your money. Lets be real we all have jobs now. Why do you expect me to pay for everything. Lets say the average couple goes out on their first date. If we go to a movie thats 30 bucks with tickets and popcorn easily, if not more. Then lets say you go out for a few drink. After 3 to 4 a piece thats easily $ 40.00. So if you do that twice a week it adds up. Dating isnt cheap and too many sistas feel as if a brother owes them. Now I’m not even talking about the sistas I have met that right off the back demand you get them things, and take them places. Some even run some weak game with a sob story and how you should help them pay some type of bill. Maybe more of us should go dutch? After all arent we both looking for a companion, not just the men? The world has changed alot in the last 40 years. Shouldnt the dating scene

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/game-tight/ game-tight

    this is a question that will last for as long as the earth turns. like kat williams said… if you over 25 and still feel that black men aint s**t… then you need to look at yoself cuz you must be an aint s**t woman. what is it about you that attracts aint s**t men??? but seriously, to have a good relationship you have to understand BOTH parties in one. Im 24 and i’ve asked older men whats the way to keep a happy home(marriage). 9 out of 10 said “no matter what she is always right. thats the way to keep the peace.” my response to that was “who is peaceful is im pose to always give in to her?’ most men have been brain washed to believe that but our newer generation is not too willing to accept craziness like that. Plus not too many women will give up the fact that when it comes to a relationship you have to give as much as you receive. Most i’ve learned compromise on issues that really werent all that important in the first place then use that as leverage for their man to compromise on something that he wouldnt do in normal circ**stances.
    But truthfully the issue of black relationships are much deeper than that… lets face it, most black women dont know what a good man looks like becuz we live in a materialistic world and are more focused on what you have (outter) instead of what you bring to the table (inner).

    but it is much deeper than that… 65% of us was raised in a single parent home. no if you are a woman raised by a single mother, what are the chances that your moms gave you sound advise on what a good man is? chances are slime mainly becuz if she is still single she doesnt know herself. she has breed you to be an independent woman and dont need a man… sounds like a formula of hooking that special someone right? more than likely your mother has brought you up focused on education but never really went into details on what to educate yourself on. its the same fondation to why poor people stay poor… how can my mother teach me about money if she her doesnt have any…

    Now say you grew up with both parents (I have two girls myself and i know that im guilty of this) most men tend to spoil their girls putting it into their heads that they can do no wrong and that they are princesses and deserve the world. True as it is, we never stop and explain to them that to deserve the world you have to earn it and not think it should be handed into you. women grow and still have that mentality and expect the man she is dating to continue with how her father acted. but there is a big diff. I do that becuz you are my child i helped make you so of coarse there is more there, this man couldnt pick you out a line up before he intro himself to you. To be treated like a queen you must first know what that role is a then play it always.
    Why do we black men date outside the race… simple less drama and sad but true most women of other races are more compromising and are willing to stand aside and let a man be THE man of the relationship… why? because thats how they were brought up.
    All in all, to solve this ever going issue you must first understand its roots. afterall how can you solve a problem if you only know have the situation. thats like the blind leading the blind. Going NOWHERE fast

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/game-tight/ game-tight

    Kevanj i give you respect for your post…

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/willylandis/ willylandis

    you said it game tight and friscod

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IamDyeverse/ IamDyeverse

    Since when did BLACK realtinships fail any less than WHITE or ASIAN etc….mexican…

    Paul McCartney’s wife took half his SH*T on one leg…how does a ONE LEGGED woman break up with her TWO LEGGED HUSBAND…and think that she will find a man that will love her other than her husband? J-lo is latino, she been threw many guys…EMINEM is WHITE and hasn’t had a steady GF since we met him, I can go on but this isn’t a race issue its a MEN/WOMEN issue. The battle of the sexes, the D*CK and teh P*SSY…women DO NOT want to bow down to a man, but have no problem with a man bowing down to her. Instead of having the mentality where NEITHER should bow, NO she will jus refuse to bow to him but wont STOP him from bowing to her…and if he dont BOW she knows about 10 LOSERS who will jus for some P*SSY….

    Men need to have a backbone, men need to be able to “NOT” get p*ssy from women by telling women the truth about themselves as men and telling that WOMAN the truth about HERSELF. This WILL in fact mess up all of your P*SSY chances and your SEX LIFE will take a dive, but your PRIDE, DIGNITY, SELF RESPECT and MANHOOD will rise above levels you can’t imagine and the WOMAN for you will see it in you and the 2 of you will make a loving and lasting couple, but you must FIRST BE A MAN and tell her the TRUTH. IGNORE her emotional outcry of “WHY ARE U SUCH A JERK” or “I CAN”T BELIEVE U JUST SAID THAT ABOTU ME OR THAT YOU FEEL THAT WAY ABOUT ME” or whatever ugly truth you are revealing to her……BACKBONE MEN and stand up to these women and whatever you say you gonna do “DO” it because a woman is an expert at calling your bluff. Once she see that you aint bullsh*ttin and that you can careless about wether or not she gives you the P*SSY (which is a woman’s tool to control the male species) then she will in fact change her ways and help YOu to change any of yours. A woman dont want a KNIGHT in shinning armor she wants a KING that “COMMANDS” Knights to do his bidding while you BANG HER (the queen not the concubine but HER THE QUEEN) in the castle…..she will respect you and love your DIRTY SKID MARK DRAWS…..trust me, but show NO BACKBONE and you will always have what these 4 idiots are describing and that is a “RELATIONSHIP DOOMED FOR FAILURE”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Rayfly77/ Rayfly77

    A relationship is not a playground for OLD CHILDREN! Grow-up!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cherronw/ cherronw

    If your post was longer than 5 sentences long, I didn’t read it

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Niki711/ Niki711

    First of all pretty much everyone who commented had a good point. I agree that black relationships are not the only relationships that have problems, but I think that a lot more black relationships don’t last and end up with a baby daddy and a baby momma. I personally think that like some have mentioned, the fact that there are so many single mothers raising children in the black community is hurting us and our children from having healthy relationships. If a single mother is raising a daughter she can teach her how to be a woman but she can’t teach her how a man should treat her, what I mean is that the role of a father is soooo important in both little girls and boys. A little girl learns how a man is supposed to treat her by seeing what a good man is like. Having her father in her life and showing her all the things that a real man is is beneficial for her. Just like having a father in the little boy’s life is very important too b/c a little boy needs to know that it is important to be a man of their word, to be strong, honest, and a real man. It is very important that both the mother and the father are involved in raising our children. Statistic have proven that father-less little girls grow up searching for a male influence and become promiscuous looking for the attention they missed in a father and end up finding it in the wrong kind of men, and little boys only see their mothers working and taking care of business so they don’t see how a real man is supposed to be. For example, I am a single mother and I have tried hard for all of my son’s 7 almost 8 yrs on this earth to try and make his father be a good one…lesson learned is that I cannot make a man be a good father he has to want to, but b/c my son saw his father sitting on the couch playing video games and not contributing to the bills and responsibilities, he thought that it was ok for a man not to work. Now I am no longer with his father because he was no good, but my son had actually told me that he wasn’t going to work like daddy, so already at a young age he thought it was ok for a woman to bring home the bacon and for the man to not lift a finger. This angered me and made me promise that since his father refuses to be a man and teach him to be a man that I will do all in my power to teach him what a real man is. Now although his own father is not that good, I try to surround him with positive black men such as my brother who has done things right; he has his PhD, has no kids and is married. And my father who is a wonderful black man, so ladies even if your child’s father is not in the picture, please make sure that you surround them with some sort of good black men. I think that we as blacks do make excuses but we have to stop! We never that that we would have a black president bi-racial or not he is black and so that shows that there is no limit to what we as black people can achieve, the sky is the limit. Some of the richest people in the world are our black people…Oprah, Beyonce and Jay Z….if you dream it you can do it! One thing that I noticed is that we, and I do mean all of us has done it a time or too, but we hate on our own people too much…we need to uplift each other and be in each other’s corners. We need to stop being so judgmental of our own people. We judge each other on the way we talk, dress, dance, who we date, etc. Another thing is that a lot of black men will make babies with our sistas but don’t marry them, but if you see a black man get a white girl pregnant he marries her??? What is with that? Msveevee1 I agree with you 100%! We as women need to stop enabling those black men who want to stay feeling sorry for themselves, who don’t want to get a 9-5 but can go spend hours at a studio, fathers who say they can’t afford child support, yet can afford to buy weed every week, men who try and verbally, physically, mentally abuse you, men who try and stop you from succeeding, men who try and just bring you down. Sometimes we do it to ourselves and I was once doing the same thing but I have seen that it was hurting me more in the end. Maybe if we show these black men that we are not willing to put up with that s**t, then maybe they will have no choice but to change and better themselves instead of turing to us to fix their problems when we need to fix our own. Some men say that black women won’t let them wear the pants in the relationship, well if you can then trust we would love for you to. Do you think that we like being the mother and the father and having to do everything by ourselves? Duh we don’t, but when you get made and say you want to wear the pants, make sure that the pants even fit you, b/c I’m sick of men saying that to me and then not able to take care of everything…ya’ll want to be the man, but not in the position to do so…get it together please. So to Kevanj…how can a woman submit to a man and let him be the head of the house, if they are not standing up to that title? Yes I do agree that slavery did have an impact on our relationships, b/c like they mentioned the black man was ripped out of the lives of their family and made to go work and procreate to make more slaves. Because back in Africa, before we were taken into captivity and enslaved, the black men were the providers…they would go out and hunt and bring back the food for his family, but since slavery they took the men and the woman were left to take care of everything, but we cannot keep on using slavery as an excuse. We know what we need to do and we need to stop making excuses for ourselves and help each other. We need to be there for our children and it is our job to teach them about life otherwise they will be lost. It says in the Bible that it is our jobs as parents to guide our children and teach them right and wrong and if we don not, then we the parents will be held accountable. Whether or not we are with the other parent of our children, we need to make sure our kids get what they deserve…to have a mother and a father. So to all the good black successful men out there, thank you for being a good example of what a real man is and to all those strong black women who take care of their children hold things down thank you for being strong and a good provider!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzylicious2006/ jazzylicious2006

    Wow this is a essay write off? Wth lmao wow!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/smashmouf6/ smashmouf6

    Interesting post Niki711. I enjoyed reading it and I’m glad that you have chosen good men for your son to observe and emulate. I’m a black man, college educated, childless, working and applying to medical school next year. Just like the comments from the video, I have been in relationships where there was always a constant power struggle. I try not to let that deter me because I love and cherish black women and will do what is necessary to make it work. Last year, I experienced a painful break-up from a beautiful, highly-educated woman that I adored (and still do). She and I spoke often of having children and planning for our future. She was and still is, headstrong and an authority on everything. Although we didn’t argue alot, we argued enough for us to sever our union. I was hoping it was another brief spat from stubborn pride but sadly that wasn’t the case. In one month’s time, she got a new dude in her life. I’ve heard from one of her relatives (and it has been confirmed by others) that he’s a trifling, younger, yes-man of a dude that has three babies and is working on number four with her. Ostensibly, child support is kicking his ass and everyone around her is telling her she will be raising this baby by herself. Not to mention, medical problems may preclude her from carrying the child to term. Everyday I kick myself for letting this one go as I know and felt in my heart that she was the one I was going to grow old with. Although I’m not ready to give up or give in (as I want to initiate a renewal of our relationship) but I realize she and I will have to subdue our passions in wanting to be right in order for the relationship to flourish. To that end, we need to be men in our relationships and present that from day one. This means that we have to take the lead and not look back. I know I’m preaching to the choir but petty arguments over who is right or who is wrong will ruin the bonds in a relationship. Our ladies need to know that we respect their strength and nurturing spirit. Compromise is great as long mutual respect is established on those grounds. And lastly, I humbly believe (and I’m paraphrasing 2 Corinthians 6:14) that two people should be equally yoked. Speaking from personal experience, if you’re not you’ll most assuredly and regretfully grow apart.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzylicious2006/ jazzylicious2006

    My first solution for black relationships, is communication! We need to learn how to communicate instead of lashing out with rage and anger towards each other. I always tell myself that arguments are useless and pointless. Because one is never heard. However if you have a “conversation” you can be heard. Once you have agreed to have a conversation and or discussion then you can be heard! And then you will know why this man or woman is feeling this way. And if you care for that person enough you will come to a conclusion on how to come to a mutual agreement. So my solution is communication because a lot of black relationships(not all) do lack this because both black male’s and female’s have dominate and strong personality. And running off to another race because the “black woman” or the black man has pissed you off is not the answer. However if you are attracted and you connect with someone of another race that’s fine. But don’t subject yourself to another race because you allowed a few women or men in your race to so call “push you” to that limit.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shyscorpio1/ shyscorpio1

    first of all just listening to the statistics is enough that should bring any black woman back down to the real deal here- YOU ALREADY OUTNUMBER US AND THERE ARE PLENTY TO CHOOSE FROM! then you add the other numbers about age range and income and incarcerated and divorced and traumatized and players and downlows and gay and the HAPPILY SINGLE AND NOT EVEN INTERESTED IN GETTING NAILED DOWN IN ANY WOMANS MESS FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE…..
    ladies- i think its time for you to choose a NEW LIFESTYLE CHOICE or be celebate for the rest of your days or buy PLENTY OF BATTERIES & LUBE cause your chances of find a man to call your own are in reality just slipped from slim to NONE!!!
    so for all of you who say i will never settle- i am going to corner the market on batts N lube and become a rich man in the process of watching you hold tite to the idea of marriage before sex!
    otherwise just become nuns or lesbians!!!!
    there is no problem here between men and women- —- just numbers and THATS THE TRUTH FOR REAL!!!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/doing_me74/ doing_me74

    Numbers don’t tell nothing its all about how 2 people get along I think people just caught up in what people have at the end of the day.An also women going to do what they want so being single with kids women choose that on their own an as men we are her just to give them what they want an then take the blame that’s about it.Also a man cant lead a women because she’s going to do what she want at the end of the day we don’t need to be leaders at all because women going to do what they want I have learn that a long time ago.Thats not problem its just that people cant take what they can get an make something out of it because if I was in a relationship I don’t expect it to last anyway because a women going to do what she want.We as men is just left with the problems while women can date other men an leave him with the problems their is no solution women have the freedom to do what they feel.So the problem aint us its the fact that women have the power to make a man life hell anytime they fell like it .We as men are slaves wither you aware of it or not.We don’t have no power we are here to serve women an they can do what they want an when how they feel like it an still get what they want.So all this household crap about men is pointless because a women can have the power to take over anytime.We as men are to be used by women for temporary purpose until the women decide when its over.Since black women carried the race like they say they are the leaders not us.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Moscova89/ Moscova89

    why haven’t they talked about this movie yet?
    http://www.tiredblackman.com/

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SoularFlarez/ SoularFlarez

    4:25 said a MOUTHFUL !!!

    shout out to Willie Lynch !

    Moscova89@ damn why you let the nuke off bruh LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/doing_me74/ doing_me74

    That tired black man movie is corny a bunch of crying dudes.See the thing is every since women liberation they got freedom it aint up to men no more its up to the females they got the freedom an plus more.Trying to reconciled with women aint going to work because they have the power no matter what.They independent an they don’t need us an its true just get our sperm have a kid of their choice kick us to the curb an they still win so the best thing to do is be a sperm donor or just be single an no kids.Black women run the black community you better realized that so they have to find a solution to the problem for real not us.We as men are just by products everything been reverse.So ask them what to do since their right all time

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/classy57lady/ classy57lady

    WHAT IS WRONG WITH BLACK RELATIONSHIPS???? The same things that are wrong with any other race’s relationships.
    I noticed that this is just another subject to focus the blame on black women for not being in a relationship. This subject is so TIRED and misinformative until it’s not funny.
    So, as stated by the interviewer…..there are one point something million more black women than black men. The question should be……. WHY?????? Only a small percentage of our men marry outside of their race, so that is not the reason. Let’s appoach this subject from the front end and not the rear end. No one wants to deal with the WHY of this statement. Why are there so many more of us black women then black men?? Ah-ha, because if we approched it from the front end the question would be….Why are so many of our men in prison, being killed off, on drugs, and all of the other things that would cause us to have a shortage of men which would also cause us to take a deeper look into the reasons. And God, forbid we don’t want to do that. We would much rather put a bandage on the question, in the form of it being the black woman’s fault, and call it a solution rather than really dealing with the real issues. If we as a race of people don’t stop buying into this load of bull and stop shifting the blame we as a people will never get it together and that’s a fact.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Esoteric_Dredz/ Esoteric_Dredz

    @ classy57lady you are absolutely right. The same thing that is wrong with everyone esle’s relationships…..Oh Hello Beautiful you do know that white folks are divorcing at damn near a 60% clip right? But no one wants to talk about that. Everyone wants to obsess over what’s wrong with black folks.

    I swear the only reason this issue gets beaten to death in the media is that it takes attention away from the fact that other races dont have their relationship house in order either

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/doing_me74/ doing_me74

    So since we all on the dl in jail etc. So what is black women going to do about it ya the one need a man right or its Im independent I don’t need a man which one is it.am yea white people have their share of problems but how many black men on the dl or in jail.So the solution is left to the black women again not on us.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/doing_me74/ doing_me74

    Because who raising these young dudes the most?The single black women right so what solution they have then because at the end of the day no matter what we as men do the mindset of women today is I can do what I want an I can leave this dude anytime I want an have benefits right.So who get left out at the end the black man we cant give input because remember this they get uplifted an we get degraded etc.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/getmygrownmanon1/ getmygrownmanon1

    Wow That asian girl broke it down, so very true no one puts a gun to anybody’s head and tells them to date other races.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Gail_Brooks/ Gail_Brooks

    here we go again with with a one sided forum…what’s is wrong with black relationships? it depends on the relationship…why does everything asked about the black race have a negative connotation to it?… because if i’m not mistaken half of america is divorced or unmarried and living together and having children out of wedlock of all races.. so the question should be ‘what is wrong with ‘all’ relationships? and i’m sorry i’m not racist…but someone that is not african-american can’t ‘teach’ me ‘tell’ me or ‘advise’ me on anything about my race…there are too many african americans that have degrees as well as advanced degrees that would research and debate this subject all day long!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/doing_me74/ doing_me74

    degrees doesn’t prove that the person is infallible see that’s the thing people hold up some title an we assume they are infallible.why wait on blacks with degrees we don’t have to agree with what they say.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Bajanprince79/ Bajanprince79

    @IamDyeverse, Game-Tight, and Doing_me all of you have VERY good points, problem is most women will not want to hear that no matter how much of a point you make so its useless at the end of the day. All in all I agree its both Black men and women’s fault, I just don’t like how in most cases as far as what the Black women needs to do either gets sugarcoated or disregarded altogether.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2good2bsingle/ 2good2bsingle

    I feel that both Black Women and Black Men share the responsibility for the way things have gone so far in the Relationship realm. But.. The simple fact is that Women have more power than Men do sexually. An unattractive Woman STILL gets MUCH more ‘Play’ from guys than an unattractive Man does from girls. See? Men have the (almost seemingly ‘uncanny’) ability to ‘Look Past’ visual flaws. Whether or not it’s only for sexual reasons as it just may be in some cases. In all.. I feel that it’s up to the Women to start thinking harder as far as their dating habits and re-evaluate their priorities because when the Relationship ends, it’s usually the Women who get stuck raising the kids alone, with or without financial assistance from the biological father (in most cases not). And thus begins the cycle-> Woman raises child alone, child realizes one day that they DID have a biological father, child wonders where he is, child feels regret, disappointment, anger/bitterness and other negative emotions, mother may or may not make negative statements about the missing father, child feels even worse thinking that they’re own existence is possibly a mistake, self-esteem lowers even more, child sees a few kids at school WITH their fathers/Male Role Models (step-dads), child forms negative opinions of Men in general, child grows up looking for Father-Figures in all the WRONG PLACES (Music Videos, Movies, etc.), male/female child begins dating/imitating guys that strongly resemble the images that they’ve been exposed to, and it goes on and on. The problem has been around for a very long time now, and it’s only growing more and more common and thus a bigger problem. A wise man once said ‘It is no measure of health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick society.”. The day that we decide that it’s ‘normal’ for a child to be raised in a single-parent household, is the day our (Black People’s) population is doomed and is closing in on the last lap of the race. OUR race. :-(

    My son is 11 and has been living with me since he was about 9 months old. His mother isn’t really in his life at all. :-(

    Let’s do what we can in all future relationships to bring about the circ**stances that we (and our kids) NEED and start putting OUR WANTS aside. I love you all and I want the best for us. Let’s make it happen. ;-)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2good2bsingle/ 2good2bsingle

    I apologize for the previous long comment. ;-)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/3Shades_Of_Beauty/ 3Shades_Of_Beauty

    Haha…The host of this segment has some hood in her! Overall, this was some real talk…the race thing is a cop-out used to try to justify the high precentages against black women. But I do agree with what was being said for the most part; as a multicultural individual including (african american/blackfoot indian and german), I do associate more with being black even though the stereotypes that are out there are lingering against me. As black women…we need to learn to be more refined. Be open to the possibilities because nothing happens like christmas morning and nothing that glitters is always gold. And remember HONESTY and COMMUNICATION is key :)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blakk_gangsta/ blakk_gangsta

    I’m no relationship expert so I don’t know what the hell is going on, I’ve dated several different races and I gotta admit, dating sisters is hard and stressful.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msveevee1/ msveevee1

    I’m not really liking those that commented that its all women’s faults and everything is based on a woman’s views/opinions/choices. Men have to face up to their responsibilities too. For the most part we all know that women are smarter than me bcuz we are both side of the brain thinkers while men are one sided. Plus, bcuz women have the ability and is not ashamed to express emotions (which our Creator blessed us to have), men, on the other hand, chose to use man’s bravado to hide their’s while trying not to seem sensitivity.

    Now for one, if ppl just ask themselves what they want and are looking for in a potential mate and not just settle for anyone bcuz of the superficialities like material things (cars, clothes, jewelry, financial status, bodies, ass, titties, hair, eyes…I think yall get my point, huh?) and look deep down in the soul (the spirit within), then perhaps your potential mate findings will be more easier bcuz you have found the value and worth between yall. Now we know that NOBODY IS PERFECT and will NEVER be. So then the next question is, are you willing to compromise and use your strengths where they are weak and vice versa? Ppl see one or two flaws in someone and then all of a sudden they close the deal on the relationship. So many men play games by lying while trying to impress until when he’s finally exposed, the relationship has failed. Don’t get me wrong fellas, women do the same things to (all except this one bcuz I don’t have time waste like that).

    The main problem is that this generation lack love. Pure and genuine love. Just imagine what it would be like if ppl actually lived how the Creator intended for it to be. Everyone smiling with joy in their hearts and feeling compassion in their hearts for others to help those that need it. Ppl who’s auoras are positive and optimistic. Who always have the right things to say and help solve problems instead of create them. Ppl who you can trust and believe will have your back when you needed them…..This is what the world lacks and it’s sad and pathetic and is the reason why ppl like us comment on forums like these posting our opinions but nothing is being resolvede.

    Point blank is that ppl have bad spirits and everyone is not meant to be together in relationships especially if their life, identity and ways of vewing life is not positive. I sure would LOVE to see how it could’ve been if the evil of men didn’t prevail so strongly today. Women need to love themselves more and not give into the hype bcuz you have a coochie that you’re suppose to let every man that cause it to get wet slide in it. Have some respect for yourselves. Having sex doesn’t equal love and doesn’t cause anyone to love you. They just lust after you and I would rather be loved than lusted after. Actually when I know when someone is lusting after me it repulses me to no end bcuz I’m like, you don’t know me and there’s more to me than the outside of me. Know my mind and soul before trying to know my body bcuz I love me and anyone dealing with me better treat me like I treat me and that’s with love and respect.

    Men need to love themselves and stop depending on the rise and fall of their dicks to make decisions about who they deal with. Life ain’t always about dicking everything you see. If you have a partner that you love, then I’m sure you can dick them down on a regular basis. But then there’s those men that think,” I need a variety” and that’s bull. You men don’t know that women are waiting on a man to sweep them off their feet and show them the LOVE THAT THEY DESERVE. Being that is says in the bible that a man that finds a woman finds a good thing, women are single bcuz black men have not stopped being such conniving, lusting, w***e-monging, s**t hounds to want to committ to ONE woman. Women would be married if they went out of tradition and asked a man to marry her. But then once again, it didn’t say in the bible that a woman that finds a husband finds a good thing. So that means that men are the ones that have to set their pride and egoisms aside so that they can find their wife. And that means to be satisfied with the one they chose and not feel compelled to think they’re “missing out” on what they COULD be doing out there in the world.

    So if ppl knew who they were (and it SHOULD be that you are a child of a loving and wonderful God), then ALL relationships regardless of race would not be suffering, confused or lost. So for those men that commented and said that its bcuz of women….NO! It’s bcuz of YOU! Do a self-evaluation. What do you want? What are you looking for? How do you want to be treated? How should you treat others? And most importantly….WHO ARE YOU? Everyone on this earth can have someone in their life if they would just follow the simple rules of loving themselves, loving others and loving God. But bcuz ppl don’t do any of these things for whatever reasons, divorce rates will continue to sky-rocket as well as teenage pregancies and out-of-wedlock pregnancies, low-self esteem, hate, jealousy, murders, deceit, lust, affairs and ALL the negative things that go on in this world today. I happen to be one of the few ppl that has decided to remove relationships out of my list of priorities. Bcuz best believe…I may have 99 problems, but a man ain’t one of them!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/EmbracinMyNaturality/ EmbracinMyNaturality

    As msveevee says in which i totally agree…we need to do a self evaluation first to figure out who you are and the things that u want…Also, Christ should be the center of all relationships..for God is love.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blakk_gangsta/ blakk_gangsta

    the measure of success in a man eyes is family, the woman he calls his wife and the his legacy, his kids. the measure of success in a womans’ eye is materialistic, the brand of car she gets to ride, the name on her purse and shoes. we men set out to find someone who is just as visually stimulating as she is mentally, for the most it’s just more visual and less mental.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/KP_2G/ KP_2G

    I have said this once and I will say it again….There is nothing wrong with dating outside your race! We all answer to the same God in the end. In heaven (or hell for that matter) there is no race classification!

    Having said that, I am totally open to dating outside my race. As a Black woman, I think that all Black women should be open to it b/c there are so few Black men for every Black woman. The men don’t have a problem doing it. Why do we try to be so “loyal” when there are all types of other races of men that love us (strong opinions and ALL)? I am not one of the women described above as having an attitude all the time or a “sour-puss”, but I do have my opinions and my own personality and I am not going to hold that back for anybody! I am an individual with opinions and beliefs and “quirks” and I don’t think that “submitting” to a man should mean holding any of that back to boost his ego…..I am not Beyonce (don’t care for the Big Ego dudes, at all).

    Maybe that is why I am so open to other races of men in the first place….because it seems to me that Black men don’t know how to be sensitive and caring and supportive of the women they are with. Black men seem to want the support and caring to be one-sided (always women treating the men like “kings” and making them dinner, not arguing with them, etc.). I see Black women in relationships with men of other races and they don’t have that problem…its about balance. I care just as much as you care. I do for you just as much as you do for me. I respect you as a human being and you respect me as a human being. That is what a relationship is about. If I have to look outside my own race to find that, then I will.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sPiRiT_wRiTeR/ sPiRiT_wRiTeR

    MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN SURELY HAVE IT THE HARDEST
    YOU SAY THINGS TO HURT ME, BUT I LOVE YOU REGARDLESS
    THINGS LIKE WE’RE ALL BUMS AND WE SUCK BEING FATHERS
    KNOW WHERE YOU COME FROM AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE OUR DAUGHTERS
    I WAS HANGING FROM A TREE WHILE YOUR WERE RAPED BY MASTER
    IT HURT ME TO SEE YOU DOING WORK IN THE PASTURE
    IT HURT ME TO SEE YOU BREAST FEEDING HIS CHILD
    I DID MY BEST TO PROTECT YOU AND MAINTAIN A SMILE
    YOU KNEW THE MASTER’S WIFE HAD HER EYE ON MY BODY
    BUT YOU DON’T HAVE TO LOOK LIKE HER OR LIKE ANYBODY
    HE SEVERED OUR TIES BY BREEDING YOU WITH DIFFERENT GUYS
    ALL THE NIGHTS I WAS ALONE HEARING YOUR CRIES
    WE BOTH SLEPT IN THE BARN WITH THE HORSES AND FLIES
    DREAMING OF FREEDOM AND TRYING TO KEEP OUR EYES ON THE PRIZE
    NEITHER ONE OF US COULD READ SO WE BOTH LEARNED LIES
    ANYTHING THAT WE COULD LEARN FROM, THE MASTER WOULD HIDE
    THE THOUGHT OF YOU BEING SOLD TURNS MY HEART SO COLD
    THE BIGGEST BLESSING IS FOR YOU TO STAY WITH ME AND GROW OLD
    OUR SEEDS WERE SCATTERED ALONG SO MANY DIFFERENT PLANTATIONS
    GROWING UP WITHOUT A CLUE AND NOT A CHANCE IN THIS NATION
    I GOT MARKS ON MY BACK BECAUSE OF ME AND YOU
    WHIPPED TO AN INCH OF MY LIFE, BETTER ME THAN YOU!
    MY HANDS ARE TIED, SO TELL ME WHAT YOU’D HAVE ME TO DO?
    SHOULD I JOIN IN A REBELLION WITH THE TURNER CREW??
    DO YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS IF I GET CAUGHT WITH A STICK?
    RATHER BE SHOT IN THE HEAD THAN BE CRACKED BY THE WHIP
    AND I CAN’T RUN AWAY FROM HERE WITH YOU ON MY HIP
    WHAT THEY WILL DO IF THEY CATCH YOU MAKES ME SICK!
    AS I SWING FROM A BRANCH WITH A BIRD ON MY SHOULDER
    MY BLACK WOMAN BEING EXPLOITED WITH NO ONE TO HOLD HER
    THE KIDS COMING FROM HER WOMB ARE TOO TAN FOR THE HOUSE
    AND ARE SEVERELY HATED ON BY THE MASTER’S SPOUSE
    LOOKING JUST LIKE HER HUSBAND, SHE FIGURED IT OUT
    SHE DON’T CARE WHAT YOU DO TO THEM, JUST GET EM OUT!
    SO THERE’S ANOTHER GENERATION THAT GOT LOST IN THE WIND
    WHO NEVER KNEW WHO THEIR FATHER WAS, BUT STILL TAKEN IN
    TRYING TO KEEP FAMILY UNITY AMONGST THIS SHAME
    $HIT ROLLS DOWN HILL, SO NOW I’M THE PERSON YOU BLAME?
    KEEPING US SEPARATED GIVES US NOTHING TO GAIN
    YOU’LL BE EXTINCT BEFORE ME ON YOUR ROAD TO FAME
    SEE I NEVER ASKED YOU TO MAKE A CHANGE TO YOUR HAIR
    IT’S BEEN CENTURIES AND CENTURIES AND I NEVER CARED
    I NEVER TOLD YOU TO PUKE WHAT YOU HAD ON YOUR PLATE
    I ENJOY THE PLACES WHERE YOU PUT ON EXTRA WEIGHT
    FOR ALL MY FAULTS, YOU’RE THE ONE WHO WITNESSED MY STRENGTH
    MY RUN-INS WITH THE DEVIL THOUGH I AIN’T NO SAINT
    DON’T PLAY WITH ME!!
    MY LIFE AIN’T A WALK IN THE PARK
    AND YOU SHOULD KNOW YOURSELF WOMAN, FROM BEING AS DARK
    FOR HUNDREDS OF YEARS, YOU WERE VIEWED AS GRATIFICATION
    A BLACK MAN CAN’T GIVE THAT KIND OF SENSATION
    YOUR LIPS ARE FULL, I NEVER WANTED THEM TO BE THIN
    BUT IT’S COOL, YOU CAN GO AND GIVE MY KISSES TO HIM

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/doing_me74/ doing_me74

    I see what all ya are saying but women got all the power it doesn’t matter if a man does what because at the end of the day he is just her slave point blank.It aint on men at all its on the women because she run the black community an she hold all the power it cant be denied.(the women carried the race on its back not the men)All that god talk is pointless but in reality even christian women do the same they know they got all the power men aint got no power men are only slaves to women that’s about it.No matter how rich or poor a man is it’s a women with more power at the end of the day.So at the end of the day WOMEN HOLD ALL THE POWER AN EXPECTING MEN TO Play A GENDER ROLE IS POINTLESS BECAUSE MEN DON’T HAVE NO POWER AT ALL.So even if you talk god it doesn’t change the real truth that women hold the power socially an sexually an naturally.Its nothing that men can do all they going to do is pressure themselves for nothing because at the end of the day women have all the power CANT PEOPLE SEE THAT.Women can raised kids by themselves that’s been proven all the time they don’t need us that’s just to make us believe were needed when were not at all, just use for the service of giving a women what she wants a kid or kids because at the end of the day the women holds all the power.Kids turn out bad by choice not because of no father that’s fiction not reality even kids that got fathers turn out bad.Women don’t need a man its just that we think they do when they don’t.Because they can get rid of you at the drop of a hat they got all the power.So society makes men believe that their needed when women are really Independent for real.Their just fighting for their power back an it doesn’t matter the race of the women they all have the power.And since women are smarter they need to solve this thing not men we don’t have no power we fooling ourselves its the women that have all the power of the government etc.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/__ash___/ __ash___

    OVER IT.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DameDivalicious/ DameDivalicious

    Not again!! HB is a big joke on this all trying to start some sh*t when they need a reality check. HB need to watch some shows on cable stations ID, Biography, Oxygen, and HLN (Nancy Grace) that White, Latinos and Asian people have mad problems too. As for dating outside of my race been there and done that. I never give up on the brothers because there are good ones out there jut that some sisters have not been looking farther or even know one is right under their nose but don’t see it. I found one just like that and he was a real bad boy and all that but he did changed his life on his term for the better and now running a business. Too many people are too occupied with the negative image on black men put out by mainstream media. Denzel Washington, Samuel L. Jackson’s wives gone through hell and back with them and sacrifices a lot too and look where they’re at now. There are more like them who are not famous everywhere. Notice: Samuel did not married his wife till they were together for 6/8 years and he was in the dump at that time.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SnapshotNTime84/ SnapshotNTime84

    These are issues that women from all ethnic and racial backgrounds experience. How can you attribute a specific set of characteristics to a broad range of individuals. Black women’s personalities range just like our hues. Not all of us have attitudes, financial problems, or issues with men but when we make that clear we are “too independent,” “too strong,” or we “don’t know how to let a man be a man,” etc. Black women know how to be submissive, but we are not going to submit to a weak man or a man who cannot control his own affairs. Would you go to a man who filed Bankruptcy and ask him where to invest your money? Would you ask someone who has been divorced for advice on how to have a happy marriage? This is ridiculous and it is not a Black thing…It is a woman thing. Who cares who anyone dates? As long as you are being treated with dignity and respect and you are truly happy. Not every Black woman gets offended when she sees a Black man with a woman of a different ethnicity or race. I personally do not care. I know a lot of good educated Black men that have their priorities in line and who just want to be happy with Black women and many of them are. A personality is a personality and it doesn’t matter what shape, size, color, creed, race, ethnicity, or nationality it comes in if it is unpleasant, it is unpleasant. And if one really wants to get to the meat of things, it is mostly women of other ethnicities who talk about Black women. All men do not have problems with Black women, just like all Black women do not have problems with Black men or a men of other ethnicities. But I can understand why some women feel the need to point the finger to get the attention off of their own flaws. And for the record, there are a lot of men of different ethnicities who love Black women and one of them may be your man. A good man (regardless of race) will see your qualities and appreciate you for them.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SnapshotNTime84/ SnapshotNTime84

    All men do not have problems with Black women, just like all Black women do not have problems with Black men or men of other ethnicities.*

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/carlene5/ carlene5

    I think it has a lot to do with how black men treat black women, a black women needs to be treated and respected like a queen. We as black women have always been left caring the baggage and you wonder why there pissed off, she adjusts to being the bread winner so that becomes all she knows and when a black man comes along to make things right in her life it becomes a power struggle of learning how to let go, because they been doing by themselves for so long it becomes a part of the norm.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/omai70/ omai70

    everytime i think about dating outside my race
    a fine black woman walks past with a booty for days…
    NO CONTEST!…LOL
    of course there is more to a black woman than her booty dont get it twisted
    just call me instead :)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SoularFlarez/ SoularFlarez

    Carlene@ i hear you !! but if she wants to be treated like a queen she gotta act like a queen so she can attract that king

    cant act like some confused hoodrat and expect dudes to be rollin the red carpet out like santa clause or sumthin…….

    blackmen AND black womben have alot of healing and de-programming to do…..

    hell, alot of black womben HATE blackmen cuz they hate their fathers

    but end of the day…. if he’s f**ked up, she will be do…
    and if she’s f**ked up he will be too

    back in our parents/grandparents generation when everybody was on that black love and black is beautiful vibe…..

    then european women who were oppressed by their own white men said “come on black womban, get down with the FemiNazis”……

    then came section-8 housing ,welfare and all that talking bout ”we’ll hook you up with cheap housing and give you asistance BUT YOU CANT HAVE THE FATHER IN THE HOME”……..

    plus post Vietnam War times in the 70s, mad fatherless kids as it is…..

    then when intergration really started poppin off with the affirmative action thing it was easier to bring black womben in since they werent as ”threatening” as a blackman, plus they killed 2 birds with one stones…. since black womben are a double-minority. #1 black #2 female……

    did I forget to say how many womben HATE their fathers???

    anyway, end of the day…. blackmen & blackwomben are supose to be a TEAM, cuz when we struggle against one another we BOTH LOSE and you know this mannnnnnnnnnnn

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SunnyCocoa/ SunnyCocoa

    It is also important to understand that the media frames problems for us to ponder. Is there really a problem? I doubt it. There have always been married and single people. I for one am an intelligent Black woman who is single but I don’t place blame on anyone in particular. I will always love Black man if not for just the mere fact that they are so fine. I think people read too much into it. Where I am from “hoodrats” tend to get the pick of the litter and successful women that are holding their own are looked at as having standards that are too high. I will stay single and loving it if it means I don’t have to compromise myself or my standards.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msveevee1/ msveevee1

    @sunnycocoa….It’s funny that you said something about the “hoodrats” getting picked as wifey material bcuz I have a associate that just got proposed to on Valentine’s day by a guy that is not somebody that is not equally yoked with her. Especially being that I know who here ex was. Which was my ex-abusive-boyfriend’s brother.

    The guy that is trying to wife her is from Pennsylvania, mixed and real proper speaking. He, to me is a lame, but he treats her like a queen. He takes care of her three children (2 of them is by her ex-boyfriend), works while she stays at home being the “candy lady” and screw other dudes while he’s at work.

    Now don’t get me wrong. I’m very glad for my friend bcuz I believe in a woman being treated like she deserves to be and finding someone who sees her as wife material. But I’m just describing the irony of my friend finding a husband and a good woman the opposite of her finding a true and faithful man.

    My friend is so hood, but she is also very intelligent. She’s countrier than the most countriest of ppl and she has a vulgar mouth. She’s not really lady-like and doesn’t wear make-up or any feminine clothes. And she gets a man that loves her dirty draws. Meanwhile, a woman like me have intelligence as well, I’m in a nursing career and I am feminine acting and looking. Our lives and personalities are totally different, but both deserve to be loved and treated like a woman should. Yet she’s the one getting married. It sometimes just puzzles me and I’m so confused in what men want from a woman to the point where I don’t care to even want to find out any more. So I accept being alone since it seems that men appreciate a woman of my caliber. It seems that the best choice for men in this day and age are the low-achieving hoodrats, that smoke weed and sell boot-legged beers on Sunday. Whatever! I guess (*kanye west shrug*).

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msveevee1/ msveevee1

    *I meant to say, “since men DON’T appreciate women of my caliber”.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soveu34/ soveu34

    WHAT ARE YOU DOING: PICKING LINT OFF MY SOCKS AND REALIZING SINCE MY HIATUS HB HASNT CHANGED FOR SHAT ESPECIALLY THESE TIRED AZZ TOPICS

    AINT A DAM THING WRONG WITH BLACK RELATIONSHIPS EXCEPT FOR THE LACK OF COMMUNICATION ON BOTH PARTIES SIDE AND THE WILLINGINGNESS TO COMPROMISE AND ONE MORE THING WERE ALL HUMAN BEINGs SO THE BLACK RACE DOES NOT HOLD THE EVERYTHING IS WRONG WITH US PEOPLE CARD SO TAKE IT AND SHOVE IT HB YOU AND YOUR SO CALL EXPERTS.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mayhem187/ mayhem187

    well it never really been me, it always been the girl n how do i kno that because everyone tells me that n im tired of dating ghetto girls. i dont get how i end up with them but it always happen.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soveu34/ soveu34

    @Mayhem, if you look for a classy lady you’ll find her but not all the time will she be classy, so put your standards up higher instead of looking for ms bootilicious with the head banging hoops some of yall need to look for the wifey material type. Ms. I aint got a date because I aint hanging my assets out, nor am I letting you hit it on the frist, second, third or any night until I get to know you woman lmaooooooo….just my pov take it as u like :)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Popi_99/ Popi_99

    @Mayhem….I feel you. I’ve been single for a while and it seems that as an educated, working man I can’t meet a good sister. The ones I do meet are all hung up on past relationships or are chasing a dream. Sisters are major components to the current dating scene problem. I mean what does a good have to do? There are plenty of men out there like me who doesn’t get a look from these women.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jojo864/ jojo864

    THE MAIN THINGS I SEE :1.) some women make another man pay for what some other man has done to them 2.) wanting things they can provide for example : a woman says she wants a man with money good job ,no kids, collage education ,tall and fit but ;inturn shes jobless, 2 kids, high school drop out and over weight NOTE; not all situations are like that im just speaking on things i have seen /been through,3.) be who you are for what man you want.ex be your self just being real i find in most blk females trying to be something there not i m like all people i just cant stand to see how some people act in public its a discrase 4.)loud ,yall know what i mean no explation is needed ……..5.) stuck on past relationships when there in a good one thats one i cant stand ! i mean theres some good black women and men out there hopefully one day they can find each other instesd of bad meeting good ……..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/momono3/ momono3

    People need to stop looking for ‘perfection’ unless they are looking to our Lord. Some of the prettiest women I ever met refused to sit in a tub of hot sudsy water. Some of the handsomest men I ever met refused to fill out a job application. They are usually on their way to jail or already in there. The ones with jobs are usually arrogant AND unattractive. If he is working, nice and attractive, he’s paying thousands in child support for his 22 kids. If working, nice, attractive and no kids, he’s a momma boy who can’t dress. If nice, working, handsome, no kids and not a momma boy, he got a man already. So pick your poison and drink it.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DreamKeeper46/ DreamKeeper46

    When 3 million african and caribbeans came into america 15 years ago, all of black american society felt their impact in every way. We Should not have been quick to embrace them, and their 3rd world problems. Actually all of america has been negatively impacted by recent white, black, and asian immigrants. In the past, the immigration dept made sure that ONLY THE BEST people from foreign countries were allowed in the U.S. People who wouldn’t become dependent upon our welfare system, and came here with money. The last 15 years they opened up our borders to THE MOST WRETCHED POVERTY STRICKEN from all over the world. They both with them their diseases and spread them rapidly, their social problems, their hatred of christians, and their own satanic religions and drugs.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DreamKeeper46/ DreamKeeper46

    3rd world culture has made a major impact on america.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Asia_Lady/ Asia_Lady

    wow @ some of these comments

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CAROLINAGIRLSRDABEST/ CAROLINAGIRLSRDABEST

    KML-at the topic and if anyone watch the clip and believe or think this is how your relationship is or show be is crazy. Thats the problem now listening to everyone else instead of listening to yourself and learning from your mistakes.(JMO)

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MzJackson_If_U_Nas-T/ MzJackson_If_U_Nas-T

    This is crazy…..Everyone has their problems…men just have the source of abundance when it come to black women so they pick and choice what they want to deal with and put up with. Its simple a man is the head and if you want to be treated like a King you have to treat a woman like a Queen lead by example. Men are more confused than these women because they don’t want to viewed as weak.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bleweyez/ bleweyez

    I know this may not be a well received comment but sista’s why is it when you here general comments like this you dismiss it as though it’s being made up. Why is it that there is so much said about black women and their attitudes, do you think most ppl just want to come down on you all for no reason and just make this sh*t up? My parents use to tell my sister all the time that sometimes you need to shut the hell up and listen and stop being so defensive about everything, because her mouth has gotten her in trouble and that’s my sister im saying this about. That advice pertains to the masses that refuse to accept that there is a disproportionate amount of black women today as compaired to all other races that have bad attitudes and they don’t want to be submissive to a “good man” because they feel it’s beneath them and somehow shows a sign of weakness. Why is it that when you hear from other black woman that are keeping it “real” about how sista’s act many of you want to tear them down and discredit them as though they don’t know what they are talking about, the truth hurts! I understand there aren’t enough good brotha’s to go around, but the ones that are available are not taking this bullsh*t from anyone and it’s not pertaining to just black women but any color woman. I have many black female friends that are very candid and open with me and we discuss these types of things all the time and many of them will come out and say the same things that all 4 said in this interview, so I say this again “the truth hurt sometimes”. I love the sh*t out of black women and the flavor you all have with the swagger and all but many of you have to start listening and stop being so damn defensive and consider that maybe there’s some truth to this and also maybe many of you need to look in the mirror to solve most of the problems you may have.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/phazex_female/ phazex_female

    “What Is Wrong With Black Relationships?”

    BOTH are vying for the role of “Best actress/actor” without “training.’

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Lik3_n0_Other/ Lik3_n0_Other

    How the f**k is Halle and her man an interracial couple when she is half white herself, if she was a black man it wouldnt be considered interracial!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Lik3_n0_Other/ Lik3_n0_Other

    correction,,, if she was wit a black man

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sweetdiamond55/ sweetdiamond55

    I agree with this we need to stop being so mad and having attitudes and there is nothing wrong with letting the man be the head and we be the neck. Men have their egos and they like them stroked not bruised I have been guilty of this before but I know better now. It’s hard and some of our black men are dogs but hey they don’t all wag their tail at every stray b***h….

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1GODDESSQUEEN/ 1GODDESSQUEEN

    oh please black women stop beating urself up about this these men need 2 be checked they need 2 stop compairing us 2 other races of women we r different in how we r treated by men we have been there 4 the black men from day 1 and the women in this clip r bashing there own that is 1 problem we as women need 2 know and see women all over the world r mistreated by men we all go through the same things with men just at different times in our lives instead of pointing fingers join hands hug and join 2gether 2 put a stop 2 this instead of turning against each other that’s how it is done seen it time and time again i got 1 more thing 2 say if a man treats u good bet believe he has treated sum other woman bad i say that cause what a woman has in outer assest is more important than who she is now days anyway pretty face big ass big tits so please as faith and eve said in a song sum years ago love is blind

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1GODDESSQUEEN/ 1GODDESSQUEEN

    how is it that when u see a black man in the news nowdays he is with a women from another race especially celeb.most of them r leaving because they think the grass is greener on the other side everytime i come 2 this site i see stories about couples that r of 2 different races people r people no matter what race they r from only when 2 people want a relationship 2 work it works it has nothing 2 do with race now u sisters that think the black woman is a nagger or has 2 much attitude guess what they r what they where made 2 be by men thank u

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Valerie_Joanel13601/ Valerie_Joanel13601

    THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH A BLACK RELATIONSHIP OR A INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP OUR FACES ARE JUST STUCK UP ON OTHER PEOPLES BUTTWHOLE THAT WE ARE LISTENING TO WHATEVER PEOPLE ARE SAYING A RELATIONSHIP ONLY TAKES TWO PEOPLE NOT THE WHOLE WORLD.GET OVER IT REALLY PEOPLE THIS RACISM SHIATE IS SO OVERRATED ITS GIVING A HEADACHE.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/los-68/ los-68

    f**k it ama get me a white girl lol am so ignorant i love all woman regarless of color or race black woman need to get off that i need a black man s**t time will pass you by and youre black price never come then ure old a nd alonely evil black woman real talk

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Mungu1/ Mungu1

    wow. here we go again. its so funny that the media has been waging this psychological war to get us to get with white people. we have mixed with whites more than any other race in the world. what has been the benefit? can anybody tell me?

    you race mixing house nigggers are of no asset to your forefathers or your children. you have sealed your people’s future. its funny how the more we mix, the more we end up in poverty (2009 US stats) and the more we are filling the prisons.

    @bleweyez
    “That advice pertains to the masses that refuse to accept that there is a disproportionate amount of black women today as compaired to all other races that have bad attitudes and they don’t want to be submissive to a “good man” because they feel it’s beneath them and somehow shows a sign of weaknes”

    but they sure so submit to white men.lol

    @DreamKeeper46
    you said “The last 15 years they opened up our borders to THE MOST WRETCHED POVERTY STRICKEN from all over the world. They both with them their diseases and spread them rapidly, their social problems, their hatred of christians, and their own satanic religions and drugs.”

    you are just jealous that these Africans have intact families and a sense of community. something that you white loving toms dont. only a tom would call the religion of his forefathers “satanic”.

    christianity is a satanic religion

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Mungu1/ Mungu1

    now really. are you people that stupid that you will fall for the “black men/women are no good, gonna get me a cracka” shyt? if thats what you believe then none of you aint good. your moms are shyt, your pops are shyt, your sisters are shyt, your brothers are shyt, and your children are shyt. that means you aint shyt. but thats what i hear coming from yall mouths.

    there is no shortage. just a perception that is created by media for idiots like you who eat it up like the cows tongue the massa threw on the floor for ya.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Game-Over60n/ Game-Over60n

    Study Shows Mixed Women Are Seen As Most Attractive

    DON’T BELIEVE THAT BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE MIXED WOMEN ARE JUST AS FILTHY AND DOG SMELLING AS THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE….THOSE MIXED WOMEN ARE BORN HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN JUST LIKE THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN ARE.

    THOSE BIRACIALS ARE ABOUT THE MOST IGNORANT PEOPLE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD BECAUSE OF THEIR CONFUSION IN LIFE (in other words they are more dumber than a black person and are more stupider then a white person).

    THOSE BIRACIAL PEOPLE DON’T REALLY KNOW WHO THEY ARE THEY JUST KNOW WHERE THEY COME FROM AND THEN THEY THINK WHY DID IT EVEN HAVE TO HAPPEN.

    I HAVE STATED ONCE BEFORE THAT THOSE BLACK WOMEN ARE DUMB AND THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE STUPID WHICH MAKES THEM BOTH IGNORANT.

    I HAVE STATED ONCE BEFORE THAT THOSE BIRACIAL WOMEN ARE MORE DUMBER THEN A BLACK WOMAN AND MORE STUPIDER THEN A WHITE WOMAN BECAUSE THEY ARE MIXED WITH BLACK AND WHITE WHICH MAKES THEM EVEN MORE IGNORANT THEN BOTH THE BLACK WOMAN AND THE WHITE WOMAN (in other words those biracials people had thought that they had the best of both worlds,meaning that they thought that they could speak on black and speak on white because they are mixed with both races) BUT,MY STUDY HAD DETERMINED THAT IT WAS NOT TRUE AT ALL.

    THOSE BIRACIAL PEOPLE ARE ANOTHER WHOLE RACE OF OTHER PEOPLE WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” THOSE SCIENTIST HAD TO DISCOVER A NAME FOR THEM SINCE THEY WEREN’T FULLY WHITE OR FULLY BLACK (in other words all colored people that become involved with any other race of people and have a baby then that baby will be considered another race of baby/child/people) WHICH IS CALLED A “MALADO”.

    THE TRUE DEFINITION OF ‘MALADO” MEANS “DIRTY”.

    ONLY BLACK CAN MAKE BLACK.

    IF ANY BLACK PERSON EVER MAKES A BABY WITH ANOTHER RACE OF COLORED PERSON THAT BABY WILL BE CONSIDERED A BLACK BABY BECAUSE BLACK IS POWER (in other words only black colored and foreign colored people can make a “BLACK” baby together).

    ALL BLACK PEOPLE SHOULD BE CONSIDERED BLACK REGARDLESS OF WHAT THEIR SKIN COMPLEXION IS JUST AS LONG AS THEY HAVE A BLACK MOTHER AND A BLACK FATHER….THOSE MIXED PEOPLE ARE TRULY NOT CONSIDERED BLACK PEOPLE (in other words ) MS.O’BRIEN IS NOT CONSIDERED A BLACK WOMEN SHE IS ANOTHER RACE OF WOMAN WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” MEANING DIRTY (in other words she is mixed or biracial) BUT,NOT EVER A BLACK WOMAN.

    BLACK IS POWER.

    THOSE WHITE WOMEN AREN’T ANYTHING BUT,SOME MANGE AND RABIES CARRYING FILTHY ANIMALS THAT WILL GIVE THEIR P*SSY TO ANYBODY BECAUSE THAT SH!T AIN’T NO GOOD.

    I KNOW THAT THOSE DOGS AND CATS GET FLEAS WHICH ARE THOSE BLOOD SUCKING BUGS BUT,HOW ARE SOME BUGS GOING TO ALL OF A SUDDEN FORM OR RATHER GROW INSIDE OF A PERSON/HUMAN HEAD SCALP? (i am talking about those white women with that lice/crabs/fleas) WHAT KIND OF SH!T IS THAT

    DO THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN GROW LICE ON THEIR VAG!NA TO? I AM ASKING YOU BLACK MEN THAT BELIEVE IN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY FLEA BITTEN DOGS OR DO THEY HAVE TO KEEP THEIR PUBIC HAIRS SHAVED OFF OR SOMETHING?

    DOES THAT SOUND CLEAN AND HEALTHY TO YOU BLACK MEN OR DOES THAT SOUND KIND OF SICKLY AND INFECTIOUS.

    THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN ARE BORN SOME HUMAN DOGS OR RATHER SOME KIND OF HUMAN ANIMALS.

    HOW COME YOU BLACK MEN CAN NOT TELL WHEN YA’LL ARE SLEEPING AROUND WITH SOME KIND OF FLEA BITTEN MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING ANIMALS?

    THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A FILTHY MANGE AND RABIES CARRYING ANIMAL.

    THOSE FILTHY DEVILS DON’T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH DATING OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE OF NATURAL BORN PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE DEVILS ARE FILTHY AND DON’T MIND ABOUT HAVING FILTHY SEX OR CATCHING AND PASSING THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY ALL CARRY….ANYTHING THAT THOSE DEVILS WILL DO TO ANOTHER PERSON BODY IS OF FILTH BECAUSE THEY ARE OF FILTH THEMSELVES BUT,THEY ARE JUST TO DUMB TO KNOW THAT.

    GOD HAD KICKED SATAN THE DEVIL OUT OF HIS CLEAN SPARKLING HEAVEN BECAUSE HE WAS A FILTHY MINDED DEVIL AND THEN SATAN THE DEVIL WHO WAS KICKED OUT OF HEAVEN HAD STARTED CREATING MORE AND MORE FILTHY DEVILS JUST LIKE HIMSELF SO,TO BE ABLE TO LIVE WITH DOWN HERE ON THIS FILTHY PLANET EARTH WHERE ALL OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES ARE BEING CARRIED,SPREAD AND PASSED AROUND TO THOSE THAT DOESN’T HAVE A CLUE ON WHATS REALLY GOING ON WHEN IT COMES TO HAVING SEX AND CATCHING DISEASES OR JUST BEING SICK AND DIEING FROM IT.

    THEY ARE SOME FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS THAT PASS AND SPREAD DISEASES TO YOU BLACK MEN….YOU BLACK MEN DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THOSE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN BODY FROM THE INSIDE SO,WHY IN THE HELL DO YA’LL BE KISSING ON THEM AND PUTTING YA’LLS TONGUE INSIDE OF THEIR MOUTH,AND LICKING ON THEM AND HAVING THE FILTHY DOG SEX WITH THEM? THAT SH!T IS NASTY

    YOU BLACK MEN WILL CATCH THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES BECAUSE THOSE INFECTED HOUND DOGS WILL PASS IT TO YA’LL…OUT OF ALL OF THE RACE OF MEN YOU BLACK MEN ARE THE ONLY MEN THAT THOSE FILTHY AZZ HOUND DOGS WILL MAINLY PASS THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES TO THAT THEY CARRY BECAUSE THOSE MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING DOGS KNOW THAT YOU BLACK MEN WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH MOST ANYTHING (thats called wiping out the original race of black people while trying to make another race of black people by having children by them).

    HOW TO TELL IF SHE IS A HOE/DOG.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND SHE IS NOT OF YOUR OWN RACE OF WOMEN THEN THAT SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD INFECTIOUS FLEA BITTEN DOG.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND SHE KNOW THAT YOU BE HAVING SEX WITH THOSE OTHER WOMEN THEN THAT SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A FILTHY NO GOOD HOE/DOG.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND YOU KNOW THAT SHE HAS A MAN ALREADY THEN THAT SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD HOE/DOG.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND SHE KNOW THAT YOU HAVE A WOMAN ALREADY THAT SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD HOE/DOG.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND SHE KNOW THAT YOU ARE DATING HER MOTHER THEN THAT SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS A NO GOOD HOE/DOG AND VIS VERSA.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND SHE IS YOUR FATHERS GIRLFRIEND THEN THAT RIGHT THERE SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD HOE/DOG AND VIS VERSA.

    IF YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND YOU KNOW THAT SHE IS YOUR MALE FRIEND GIRL THEN THAT RIGHT THERE SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD HOE/DOG.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU JUST TO PAY HER BILLS OR JUST BY GIVING HER DRUGS TO USE THEN YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD HOE/DOG.

    ANY WOMAN THAT CHEATS WITH A MAN THAT ALREADY HAS A WOMAN IS A NASTY AZZ INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING HOE.

    usfg

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Game-Over60n/ Game-Over60n

    Police Were Called Before Mom Drove Car, Family In River

    @NC-Majyk

    YOU STUPID AZZ BORN HALF HUMAN AND HALF DOG TRIFLING TICKS AND FLEA BITTEN B!TCH,SHE PROBABLY WAS A GOOD MOM YOU FILTHY FOUL DOG SMELLING CONTAMINATED BLOOD CELLS HIV/AIDS AND PARASITE CARRYING INSIDE OF YOUR CONTAGIOUS MICRO WORM BOOTY WHITE HOE….WHO IN THE HELL ARE YOU TO TRY AND JUDGE SOMEBODY BLACK ANYWAY YOU LOOKING FOR A BIG D!CK FOR SUCKING ON,CHOKING ON AND LICKING ON TRIFLING FOUL DEAD DOG AND SKUNK SMELLING STUPID WHITE B!TCH.

    TRUTH IS:

    YOU BLACK MEN AUGHT TO HAD BEEN ASHAME OF YOURSELVES FOR SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE PARASITE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE/FOREIGN FILTHY FOUL DOG SMELLING ANMIALS.

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE,THOSE MIXED PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE ARE NOTHING BUT,SOME F*CKING FILTHY AZZ INFECTIOUS FLEA BITTEN DOGS.

    THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE PEOPLE WANT FOR US AS BLACK PEOPLE TO BELIEVE IN AFFIRMATIVE ACTION BUT,THEY DON’T BELIEVE IN IT THEMSELVES (thats called racism).

    IS THAT ANOTHER REASON WHY THOSE STUPID RACIST UNDERCOVER LYING SNEAKY WHITE MOTHER F*CKERS KEEP ON FOLLOWING US AROUND EVERY GOT DARN WHERE THAT WE GO? SH!T THEY WILL SURELY LET IT BE KNOWN WHEN THEY DON’T WANT OUR BLACK AZZES AROUND THEM AND BECAUSE OF IT I AM GOING TO SURELY LET IT BE KNOWN WHEN WE DON’T WANT THEIR STUPID RACIST WHITE AZZES AROUND US TO BECAUSE THEY CARRY TO MANY GOT DARN DISEASES.

    FAIR IS FAIR GOT DAMMIT.

    DO YA’LL SEE ANY WHITE PEOPLE?

    WHEN THOSE FOOLISH AND STUPID RACIST WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOOLISH AND STUPID RACIST FOREIGN PEOPLE GET MAD AT YOU BLACK PEOPLE THEY WILL CALL YA’LL SOME LIL MONKEYS OR EITHER A N!GGER BUT,WHAT THEY DON’T SEEM TO KNOW ABOUT THEMSELVES IS THAT THEY ARE TRULY BORN HALF HUMAN AND HALF FLEA BITTEN FILTHY DOG.

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE SAID THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE ARE DUMB BUT,WHAT THEY DIDN’T SEEM TO KNOW ABOUT THEMSELVES IS THAT THEY ARE STUPID.

    YOU BLACK PEOPLE ARE NOT OF MONKEYS BUT,TRULY THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE ARE OF DOG AND YOU CAN EVEN SMELL IT WHEN THEY ARE WET OR EITHER SWEATY AND THEY ALSO GROW THOSE BLOOD SUCKING BUGS IN THEIR DOG HAIR.

    THEY ARE SOME FILTHY CONTAMINATED BLOOD FLEA BITTEN ANIMALS THAT CARRY THE HIV/AIDS VIRUS INSIDE OF THEIR MICRO WORM CONTAGIOUS BOOTY HOLE.

    THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN ANIMALS ARE FULL OF MANY KIND OF INFECTIOUS DISEASES AND YOU BLACK PEOPLE REALLY DO NEED TO STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM BY NOT ALLOWING THOSE FLEA BITTEN DOGS TO GET IN THE BED WITH YA’LL.

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE ARE THE MAIN ONES THAT BE TRYING TO ENCOURAGE THIS KIND OF FILTHY BAD SEXUAL BEHAVIOR TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONES THAT CARRY AND PASS THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES TO OTHER PEOPLE….I WOULD RATHER HAVE A ROACH IN MY HOUSE THEN TO HAVE A WHITE MAN/WOMAN OR A FOREIGN MAN/WOMAN IN MY BED UP UNDER MY BLANKET.

    IF YOU BLACK PEOPLE WANT GOD HELP THEN THE VERY FIRST THING FOR YA’LL TO DO IS TO GET AWAY AND STAY AWAY FROM THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY ARE ABOUT THE WORST DEVILS THAT SATAN HAS CREATED TO BE ON THIS WICKED PLANET EARTH WITH YA’LL.

    FOR ONE THEY ARE THE ONES THAT SPREAD ALL THE DISEASES AND ALL OF THE LIES AND CONFUSION IN THE WORLD AND ALSO DO THE MAJORITY OF THE KILLING/MURDERING.

    SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY FLEA BITTEN MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING DOGS IS NASTY.

    YOU BLACK PEOPLE GOD GIVEN COMMON SENSE SHOULD TELL YA’LL THAT THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE NOTHING LIKE YA’LL,THEY DON’T LOOK LIKE YA’LL,THEY DON’T SMELL LIKE YA’LL,THEY DON’T ACT LIKE YA’LL,THEY DON’T THINK LIKE YA’LL,THEY DIDN’T COME FROM YA’LL,THEY DON’T TALK LIKE YA’LL BUT,THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE DON’T HAVE ANY GOD GIVEN COMMON SENSE TO THINK THAT WAY JUST LIKE THEY DON’T HAVE ANY GOD GIVEN COMMON SENSE TO KNOW THAT THEY ARE FULL OF MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE DON’T HAVE BUT,STILL IN ALL THEY SAY COME ON AND TRY THEM OUT IN THE BED (in other words they are born some infectious disease carrying and passing animals).

    TO BE INTELLIGENT IS TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHATS RIGHT AND WHATS WRONG (in other words its the opposite of being ignorant).

    INTELLIGENT IS THE OPPOSITE OF IGNORANT

    DO ANY OF YOU PEOPLE KNOW THAT SAME IS THE OPPOSITE OF DIFFERENT? COME ON NOW DIDN’T WE ALL LEARN THAT IN ABOUT THE 1ST GRADE OF GRAMMAR SCHOOL

    BLACK AND WHITE ARE NOT THE SAME ITS DIFFERENT MEANING ITS THE OPPOSITE

    THOSE TWO PEOPLE ARE THE SAME BECAUSE THEY ARE BLACK BUT,THOSE TWO PEOPLE ARE NOT THE SAME BECAUSE ONE IS WHITE AND ONE IS BLACK.

    UP AND DOWN IS NOT THE SAME ITS DIFFERENT

    DEAD AND ALIVE IS NOT THE SAME IT IS DIFFERENT BECAUSE ONE IS HERE AND ONE IS GONE.

    DAY AND NIGHT IS NOT THE SAME IT IS DIFFERENT BECAUSE ONE IS LIGHT AND ONE IS DARK.

    TO BE A MATCH IS TO BE THE SAME.

    NOW DO I HAVE TO BRING MY 12yr.old SON INSIDE OF HERE TO TRY AND EXPLAIN THIS TO SOME OF YOU?

    WHAT DO THEY TEACH YOU BLACK PEOPLE KIDS IN SCHOOL ABOUT SEX EDUCATION? DO THEY TELL THEM TO SLEEP WITH THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE? DO THEY TELL THEM THAT A PEN!S IS A PEN!S AND THAT A VAG!NA IS A VAG!NA WHEN TRULY IT IS NOT AND IF SO,THEN THEY ARE NOT TEACHING THEM ON HOW TO AVOID CATCHING CERTAIN DISEASES THAT THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE CARRY.

    THIS IS WHAT I CALL WISING UP TO THE TRUE FACTS OF LIFE.

    YOU BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT BE KILLING UP THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE BUT,THEIR BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED PSYCHOTIC AZZES SURE DO BE KILLING YOU BLACK PEOPLE UP THOUGH.

    THOSE STUPID FILTHY WHITE PEOPLE WILL TELL YOU BLACK PEOPLE THAT YA’LL BLEED RED BLOOD BUT,WHAT THEY ARE NOT TELLING YA’LL IS THAT THEIR RED BLOOD CELLS IS DEFINITELY CONTAMINATED.

    DON’T FOLLOW IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF IGNORANCE AND STUPIDITY.

    THE PATH OF THE DEVIL WILL LEAD YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO DEATH AND THE PATH OF GOD WILL LEAD YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO LIFE.

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE ARE THE MAIN ONES THAT BE ENCOURAGING THIS KIND OF FILTHY BAD SEXUAL BEHAVIOR BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONES THAT CARRY AND PASS THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES TO OTHER PEOPLE.

    THOSE BLACK WOMEN WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE WHITE MEN BECAUSE OF THAT FILTHY DUMB HOE THAT RESIDES IN THEM

    SOME OF YOU BLACK WOMEN ARE SO,GOT DARN DUMB AND IT DOESN’T MATTER IF YA’LL ARE YOUNG OR OLD,SOME OF YOU BLACK WOMEN BRAIN READS SO DAMN DYSFUNCTIONAL AND IT’S MOST LIKELY BECAUSE YA’LL ARE IGNORANT.

    YOU BLACK WOMEN CLAIM TO BE STRONG BUT,YA’LL REALLY ARE WEAK BECAUSE YA’LL DON’T EVER TAKE A STAND FOR WHAT IS RIGHT WHEN IT COMES TO YA’LLS OWN BLACK MEN OR RATHER YA’LLS BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE.

    ABOUT THE ONLY TIME THAT YOU SO,CALLED EDUCATED STRONG BLACK WOMEN WILL TAKE A STAND IS TO STOMP DOWN ON YA’LLS OWN RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE.

    THIS QUESTION IS TO YOU BLACK MEN THAT BE SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY AZZ WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN.

    WHAT DO YA’LL BE SMELLING WHEN THEY WILL PULL THEIR PANTIES DOWN IN YA’LLS HOUSE? TELL THE TRUTH

    DO THEY SMELL DIFFERENT FROM YA’LLS BLACK WOMEN?

    TELL THE TRUTH BLACK MEN ON WHY YA’LL REALLY BE SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS? YA’LL JUST BE TRYING TO HAVE SEX WITH SOMEBODY THAT’LL GIVE IT UP QUICK RIGHT?

    THE ONLY REASON THAT THEY’LL GIVE IT UP QUICK IS BECAUSE THEIR DOG P*SSY AIN’T NO GOOD (in other words it carry flea,ticks,crabs and lice and can pass ya’ll the rabies) BLOOD SUCKING BUGS

    THAT ONE STUPID WHITE MAN THAT GOES BY THE SCREEN NAME OF (georgemichael) ARE TELLING YOU BLACK MEN THAT THERE ISN’T ANYTHING WRONG WITH THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN WHOM HAS THE RABIES DOG P*SSY BUT,IF AIN’T ANYTHING WRONG WITH IT THEN WHY HE BE TELLING YOU BLACK MEN TO SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN THEN? DOING THAT KIND OF CRAP TO YA’LL IS JUST LIKE TRYING TO KILL YA’LL ON A SLY JUST TO GET YA’LL TO GET SOME P*SSY

    YA’LL BETTER START THINKING ON YA’LLS OWN SO,TO NOT BE MADE FOOLS OUT OF.

    IN ORDER FOR A PERSON TO BE INTELLIGENT THEN THEY WOULD HAVE TO DEFINITELY KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHATS RIGHT AND WHATS WRONG AND IF THEY DON’T THEN THAT ONLY MEANS THAT THEY ARE EITHER DUMB OR STUPID WHICH TRULY MAKES THEM IGNORANT.

    Do Black Men Expect Too Much From Black Women?

    NOPE BUT,THOSE BLACK WOMEN EXPECT TO MUCH FROM THOSE BLACK MEN THOUGH.

    SO,IF YOU BLACK WOMEN THINK THAT THOSE BLACK MEN EXPECT TO MUCH FROM YALL THEN STOP TRYING TO GET WITH THEM THEN.

    ALL THAT YOU BLACK WOMEN KNOW ABOUT IS MONEY,LIES,TROUBLE AND PROBLEMS.

    AND YALL WILL EXPECT FOR THOSE BLACK MEN TO PUT UP WITH THAT.YOU BLACK WOMEN NEED TO LEARN ABOUT CHANGE.

    THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING LYING OTHER RACE OF WOMEN HAVE BEEN TRICKING YOU BLACK MEN IN THE BED WITH THEM FOR MANY OF YEARS HAVING YA’LL THINKING THAT THEY WERE THE MUCH BETTER AND MORE HEALTHIER WOMEN FOR YA’LL WHEN ALL THAT THEY WERE IS SOME BORN FILTHY MANGE HAVE HUMAN AND HALF DOG HOES WITH SOME CONTAMINATED BLOOD CELLS AND SOME CONTAGIOUS AND PARASITE CARRYING DOG P*SSY.

    IF YOU BLACK PEOPLE WILL TEACH YA’LLS KIDS TO NOT DATE OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE THEY WILL DEFINITELY GROW UP WITH MUCH BETTER MORALS ON HOW TO RESPECT THEMSELVES WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE.

    TELL YA’LLS KIDS DO NOT EVER SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY OTHER RACE OF DOGS AND THAT YA’LL MEAN IT….MAKE SURE TO TELL YA’LLS KIDS THAT THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE THE ONES WHOM CARRY ALL OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES BUT,THEY LIKE TO PASS THOSE DISEASES TO THE BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE SO,TO TRY AND WIPE YA’LL OUT.

    usfg

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Game-Over60n/ Game-Over60n

    VIDEO: What Is Wrong With Black Relationships?

    THOSE BLACK WOMEN NEED TO LEARN TO ADMIT TO THEIR MISTAKES OR RATHER THE WRONG THAT THEY WILL DO WHICH WILL BE CALLED MAKING A CHANGE.

    How the f**k is Halle and her man an interracial couple when she is half white herself, if she was a black man it wouldnt be considered interracial!!!

    correction,,, if she was wit a black man

    @Lik3_nO_Other

    YOU FILTHY PIGGISH LOOKING DOG SMELLING WHITE WOMEN ARE VERY STUPID.

    FIRST OF ALL YOU STUPID WHITE B!TCH HALLE BERRY IS WHITE/BIRACIAL/MALADO (which is another race of people) WHICH MEANS THAT IF SHE DATES A BLACK MAN THEN THE RELATIONSHIP WILL DEFINITELY BE A INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP.

    THE ONLY WAY THAT A RELATIONSHIP CAN NOT BE OF INTERRACIAL IS IF A BLACK MAN DATING A AN AFRICAN WOMAN BECAUSE THEY BOTH ARE OF COLOR (meaning they both have the same kind of hair).

    IF A BLACK MAN DATES A ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE THAT HAS THE DOG HAIR THEN ITS DEFINITELY AN INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP.

    YOU STUPID FILTHY AZZ DEAD FOUL DOG AND SKUNK SMELLING WHITE WOMEN THINK THAT YA’LL KNOW EVERY GOT DARN THING BUT,YA’LL DON’T BECAUSE EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU ARE IGNORANT AND I TRULY DON’T CARE IF YA’LL DO HAVE A COLLEGE DEGREE OR A PhD.

    YOU INTERNET DUMMIES ARE VERY BACKWARDS THINKING AND CONFUSING BECAUSE YA’LL ARE DUMB OR EITHER STUPID WHICH MAKES YA’LL IGNORANT.

    usfg

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Game-Over60n/ Game-Over60n

    How the f**k is Halle and her man an interracial couple when she is half white herself, if she was a black man it wouldnt be considered interracial!!!

    correction,,, if she was wit a black man

    @Lik3_nO_Other

    YOU FILTHY PIGGISH LOOKING DOG SMELLING WHITE WOMEN ARE VERY STUPID.

    FIRST OF ALL YOU STUPID WHITE B!TCH HALLE BERRY IS WHITE/BIRACIAL/MALADO (which is another race of people) WHICH MEANS THAT IF SHE DATES A BLACK MAN THEN THE RELATIONSHIP WILL DEFINITELY BE A INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP.

    THE ONLY WAY THAT A RELATIONSHIP CAN NOT BE OF INTERRACIAL IS IF A BLACK MAN DATING A AN AFRICAN WOMAN BECAUSE THEY BOTH ARE OF COLOR (meaning they both have the same kind of hair).

    IF A BLACK MAN DATES A ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE THAT HAS THE DOG HAIR THEN ITS DEFINITELY AN INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP.

    YOU STUPID FILTHY AZZ DEAD FOUL DOG AND SKUNK SMELLING WHITE WOMEN THINK THAT YA’LL KNOW EVERY GOT DARN THING BUT,YA’LL DON’T BECAUSE EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU ARE IGNORANT AND I TRULY DON’T CARE IF YA’LL DO HAVE A COLLEGE DEGREE OR A PhD.

    YOU INTERNET DUMMIES ARE VERY BACKWARDS THINKING AND CONFUSING BECAUSE YA’LL ARE DUMB OR EITHER STUPID WHICH MAKES YA’LL IGNORANT.

    SEEMS LIKE EVERY TIME YOU SILLY BLACK MEN CHOOSES A WOMEN SHE ALWAYS HAVE TO BE A IGNORANT AZZ FILTHY HOE AND THAT IS REGARDLESS OF WHAT RACE OF WOMAN THAT SHE IS BUT,THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN ARE ABOUT THE MOST FILTHIEST AND MOST NASTIEST INFECTIOUS HOES THAT YOU BLACK MEN CAN CHOOSE IN LIFE (in other words what a waste).

    usfg

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Game-Over60n/ Game-Over60n

    SEEMS LIKE EVERY TIME YOU SILLY BLACK MEN CHOOSES A WOMEN SHE ALWAYS HAVE TO BE A IGNORANT AZZ FILTHY HOE AND THAT IS REGARDLESS OF WHAT RACE OF WOMAN THAT SHE IS BUT,THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN ARE ABOUT THE MOST FILTHIEST AND MOST NASTIEST INFECTIOUS HOES THAT YOU BLACK MEN CAN CHOOSE IN LIFE (in other words what a waste).

    TO BE AN INTELLECTUAL IS TO UNDERSTAND WHAT TRUE KNOWLEDGE IS AND THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE AND THOSE IGNORANT HOES ARE NOT AND WON’T EVER BE ANY INTELLECTUALS….TO BE AN INTELLECTUAL IS TO UNDERSTAND MY INTELLIGENCE WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO REAL LIFE WHICH COULD LEAD YOU TO BE ABLE TO HAVE A DECENT,UNDERSTANDING AND DOWN TO EARTH MEANINGFUL CONVERSATION WITH ME AS BEING THE INTELLIGENT PERSON THAT I TRULY AM.

    I HAVE LEARNED THAT I CAN UNDERSTAND YOU BLACK MEN MORE THEN I CAN UNDERSTAND ANY OTHER HUMAN BEING BECAUSE TO ME YOU BLACK MEN HAVE WAY MORE SENSE THEN ANYONE ELSE.

    YOU BLACK MEN CAN NOT LEARN ANYTHING FROM A INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING P*SSY OR A BOOTY BECAUSE IT DOESN’T HAVE ANY TRUE KNOWLEDGE,WISDOM,DIRECTION OR GUIDANCE IN LIFE LIKE YALL CAN LEARN FROM A WISE THINKABLE BRAIN (in other words a body without a brain can not lead you black men anywhere but,to a dead end).

    THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE WOULD RATHER FOR YOU BLACK MEN TO BE WITH THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING FILTHY DOG SMELLING WHITE WOMEN INSTEAD OF YA’LLS OWN BLACK WOMEN SO,TO TRY AND KEEP YA’LL APART FROM EACH OTHER.

    THOSE FILTHY GARBAGE BIN HOES ARE THE DEVILS ADVOCATE THAT IS HERE TO HOLD YOU BLACK MEN BACK FROM GAINING ANYTHING OUT OF LIFE.

    THOSE STUPID UNHEALTHY WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE STUPID UNHEALTHY FOREIGN WOMEN ARE ALWAYS GIVING BIRTH TO THOSE BABIES WITH THOSE MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF BIRTH DEFECTS (in other words let the side show begin,hurry hurry step right on in).

    YOU STUPID WHITE WOMEN BE LOOKING AT THOSE OTHER STUPID WHITE WOMEN CHILDREN WITH THOSE BIRTH DEFECTS AS IF YA’LL HAS NOT EVER SEEN ANYTHING LIKE IT BEFORE (could that be thinking that ya’ll are better then they are as being some white people yourselves)?

    DO KNOW THAT AIN’T ANY OF YOU WHITE PEOPLE OR FOREIGN PEOPLE BETTER THEN THE NEXT ONE BECAUSE EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU ARE BORN HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN (in other words all of you are born half animal).

    THOSE HOES ARE ALL DUMMIES SO,THEREFORE ALL THAT THEY KNOW HOW TO DO IS F*CK UP AND PASS DISEASES….THOSE FILTHY HOES DON’T KNOW HOW TO KEEP THEIR AZZ AND HANDS CLEAN EITHER.

    THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN BE WANTING FOR YOU BLACK MEN TO SPEND YA’LLS MILLIONS OF DOLLARS ON THEM INSTEAD OF SPENDING IT ON YA’LLS OWN RACE OF BLACK WOMEN OR YA’LLS BLACK DAUGHTERS BECAUSE THEY SAY THAT THEY ARE MUCH BETTER WOMEN FOR YA’LL EVEN THOUGH THEY ARE GOLD DIGGERS TO YOU BLACK MEN JUST AS WELL AS THEY ARE YA’LLS GRAVE DIGGERS AND BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED AND HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN.

    THOSE GOLD DIGGING WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE GOLD DIGGING FOREIGN WOMEN ALSO WANT YOU BLACK MEN LIFE INSURANCE POLICY SO,THAT YA’LL CAN LEAVE THEM AND THEIR WHITE RACE OF PEOPLE WITH YA’LLS BIG BUCKS ONCE YA’LL ARE DEAD AND GONE BYE BYE

    THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN WILL DATE YOU BLACK MEN THAT HAVE A BUNCH OF MONEY SO,THAT WHEN YA’LL DIE THEY CAN AS WHITE PEOPLE CONTINUE TO LIVE ON WITH YA’LLS RICHES INSTEAD OF YA’LLS BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE.

    usfg

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