Comments on: To Be, Or Not To Be… http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/ Black Celebrity Gossip | Relationship Advice | Beauty Tips for Black Women Fri, 10 Feb 2012 20:27:53 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.6 By: dala82388 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-3812 dala82388 Fri, 31 Oct 2008 15:29:35 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-3812 i must admit that dating is difficult...but that is exactly what it is dating. there is no commitment involved so...LIVE AND EXPERIANCE BLISS AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE! i must admit that dating is difficult…but that is exactly what it is dating. there is no commitment involved so…LIVE AND EXPERIANCE BLISS AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE!

]]> By: ATLCandy1 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-3811 ATLCandy1 Thu, 30 Oct 2008 21:02:39 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-3811 I think not. It seems that many, male and female, are bent on this nonrelationship THING. What is this phenomenon? Why are people so afaid of being in a relationship? The bottom line is how can you can expect something that is not to behave as though it is? We are either in a relationship or we are not. Nothing from nothing leaves nothing. How can one continue to run on empty. It is frustrating and infuriating. I think not. It seems that many, male and female, are bent on this nonrelationship THING. What is this phenomenon? Why are people so afaid of being in a relationship? The bottom line is how can you can expect something that is not to behave as though it is? We are either in a relationship or we are not. Nothing from nothing leaves nothing. How can one continue to run on empty. It is frustrating and infuriating.

]]> By: cranberryapple1 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-3451 cranberryapple1 Fri, 24 Oct 2008 03:34:51 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-3451 i have been hurt more than once,i try not to change but try to be the person that god meant for me to be and that is honest caring,sensitive to other peoples feelings and if your with someone you really care about love them for who they are and not try to change them because that is the soul reason you are with that someone special because what you can bring into the relationship the passion, the love i have been hurt more than once,i try not to change but try to be the person that god meant for me to be and that is honest caring,sensitive to other peoples feelings and if your with someone you really care about love them for who they are and not try to change them because that is the soul reason you are with that someone special because what you can bring into the relationship the passion, the love

]]> By: Jam72 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-3312 Jam72 Wed, 22 Oct 2008 03:16:59 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-3312 Hello Beautiful, Are u saying she doesn't respect ur feelings and if so why do u really want to be with her? We women want our cake and eat it, too. But we both better respect each others feelings. If u can't make allowances to make the relationship work it is time to move on. Hello Beautiful,
Are u saying she doesn’t respect ur feelings and if so why do u really want to be with her? We women want our cake and eat it, too. But we both better respect each others feelings. If u can’t make allowances to make the relationship work it is time to move on.

]]> By: MOEB1100 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-3112 MOEB1100 Mon, 20 Oct 2008 20:59:43 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-3112 I am beginning to realize that it is hard nowadays to not be afraid of committment, especially for men. We are all just afarid of getting out hearts broken, and there is nothing wrong with that. I am actually glad that you are able to admit that to yourself, most people can not. I would say before you actually enter a realtionship with someone else that you do not do so unless you are willing to take that risk, the risk of getting your heart broke. I also think that it's cool to be friends first, to see what you're getting into. (if you guys have engaged in "relations" then this becomes more difficult.) As far as the standard, you get out of it what you put into it so to speak. I am beginning to realize that it is hard nowadays to not be afraid of committment, especially for men. We are all just afarid of getting out hearts broken, and there is nothing wrong with that. I am actually glad that you are able to admit that to yourself, most people can not. I would say before you actually enter a realtionship with someone else that you do not do so unless you are willing to take that risk, the risk of getting your heart broke. I also think that it’s cool to be friends first, to see what you’re getting into. (if you guys have engaged in “relations” then this becomes more difficult.) As far as the standard, you get out of it what you put into it so to speak.

]]> By: sheryldash http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2681 sheryldash Thu, 16 Oct 2008 14:47:59 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2681 Kevin, in this day and time we need to look to the hills from whence comes our help! Jesus said that HE who finds a wife finds a good thing! Seek ye first the Kingdom of Heaven and ALL its righteousness and all of these things (love, happiness, joy, peace, relationship, wealth, strength, etc.) will be added unto you! You must know who you are first in order to know who you want! All of the answers you seek are in Jesus! He says that I have come to give you life and life more abundantly. God is Love, He created and ordained love between a Man and a Woman and when He gives you a mate, then you will find happiness, love, peace, and joy because you will have learned the mysteries of who you are in Christ! Read the book of John, pray for understanding, wisdom, and knowledge of that book and He will give it to you! I pray that this word will not fall on deaf ears and that it will bring forth good fruit! Be Blessed in the Lord! Kevin, in this day and time we need to look to the hills from whence comes our help! Jesus said that HE who finds a wife finds a good thing! Seek ye first the Kingdom of Heaven and ALL its righteousness and all of these things (love, happiness, joy, peace, relationship, wealth, strength, etc.) will be added unto you! You must know who you are first in order to know who you want! All of the answers you seek are in Jesus! He says that I have come to give you life and life more abundantly. God is Love, He created and ordained love between a Man and a Woman and when He gives you a mate, then you will find happiness, love, peace, and joy because you will have learned the mysteries of who you are in Christ! Read the book of John, pray for understanding, wisdom, and knowledge of that book and He will give it to you! I pray that this word will not fall on deaf ears and that it will bring forth good fruit!

Be Blessed in the Lord!

]]> By: stopbeingsorry http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2642 stopbeingsorry Wed, 15 Oct 2008 23:03:53 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2642 in spite of the fact that i found your blog to be very interesting i thought tht it was missing something like a pb&j sanwhich without enough jelly... what EXACTLY is the issue that you're having with her??? have you conveyed your feelings with her?? is it that big of an issue that you can't look past it?? if it is move on??? if not stop dwelling on it and move on and see what the two of you can blossom into.... in spite of the fact that i found your blog to be very interesting i thought tht it was missing something like a pb&j sanwhich without enough jelly… what EXACTLY is the issue that you’re having with her??? have you conveyed your feelings with her?? is it that big of an issue that you can’t look past it?? if it is move on??? if not stop dwelling on it and move on and see what the two of you can blossom into….

]]> By: waynelaboy http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2601 waynelaboy Wed, 15 Oct 2008 16:49:41 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2601 none of it will ever work out. men and women cannot work together w/out cheating on their spouse or significant other. very few people have that rare trait sooner or later we'll see someone we're attracted to and with the encouragement of friends!!!! none of it will ever work out. men and women cannot work together w/out cheating on their spouse or significant other. very few people have that rare trait sooner or later we’ll see someone we’re attracted to and with the encouragement of friends!!!!

]]> By: coffey4too http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2592 coffey4too Wed, 15 Oct 2008 13:13:24 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2592 I think relationships have changed. It use to be a bond between man and women a bold so tight that no-one person could ever break apart. Now, its just want you have to offer. What can I gain for being in a relationship with you. I think relationships have changed. It use to be a bond between man and women a bold so tight that no-one person could ever break apart. Now, its just want you have to offer. What can I gain for being in a relationship with you.

]]> By: n2musak http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2591 n2musak Wed, 15 Oct 2008 11:04:44 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2591 People can't hide behind foolishness long. At some point the truth oozes out without warning and you will know what's really going on. People can’t hide behind foolishness long. At some point the truth oozes out without warning and you will know what’s really going on.

]]> By: chocolate_girl_4u http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2581 chocolate_girl_4u Wed, 15 Oct 2008 07:41:11 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2581 Anybody on any of the interactive sites should know that there are people who aren't seriously looking for a serious relationship. I see so many people who prefer casual relationships, relationships without responsibility. People are putting their profiles online on these sites and it entices people to join and search out those they want to find that is close to what they themselves are lacking. We often are vain and we look for compliments that will compliment us, but we are missing one thing and that is love. No on can live without it, but stay in the belief that love is real and it can be obtained. You just have to trust your heart and use common sense. Anybody on any of the interactive sites should know that there are people who aren’t seriously looking for a serious relationship. I see so many people who prefer casual relationships, relationships without responsibility. People are putting their profiles online on these sites and it entices people to join and search out those they want to find that is close to what they themselves are lacking. We often are vain and we look for compliments that will compliment us, but we are missing one thing and that is love. No on can live without it, but stay in the belief that love is real and it can be obtained. You just have to trust your heart and use common sense.

]]> By: Totalimage_2 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2542 Totalimage_2 Wed, 15 Oct 2008 03:12:39 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2542 My brother, the most powerful words in all your blog on this is...Can you hold someone to a relationship standard, yet not be in one? No matter how compatible, how strong your feelings and emotions are, if neither of you are committed to eachother in any form...what do you really have? I believe the bible suggests the final goal is to become one(of course when you get married). But to get to the ultimate goal...dating has to become a prelude to the latter. Bottom line, no you can't hold someone to a relationship standard and not be in one. My brother, the most powerful words in all your blog on this is…Can you hold someone to a relationship standard, yet not be in one? No matter how compatible, how strong your feelings and emotions are, if neither of you are committed to eachother in any form…what do you really have? I believe the bible suggests the final goal is to become one(of course when you get married). But to get to the ultimate goal…dating has to become a prelude to the latter. Bottom line, no you can’t hold someone to a relationship standard and not be in one.

]]> By: YXESSSA http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2531 YXESSSA Tue, 14 Oct 2008 23:10:11 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2531 i found that sometimes thats the best way to be. just no that when your with that person you do your best to let them no your ture feelings at all times.that way things dont go crazy.a under standing person will no that every body wants there cake and want to eat it to but will also no everything is not for every one. i found that sometimes thats the best way to be. just no that when your with that person you do your best to let them no your ture feelings at all times.that way things dont go crazy.a under standing person will no that every body wants there cake and want to eat it to but will also no everything is not for every one.

]]> By: MeMe1997 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2521 MeMe1997 Tue, 14 Oct 2008 20:59:18 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2521 Wow, you said a mouthful. I can only speak on my experiences, do I want my cake and eat it to. Why have the cake if you can't eat it? Seriously it is up to the person. No one is perfect so no one can expect to find the perfect mate. I feel you have to find the one that fix you best. Then you have to make the choice to go all the way no stay at home. Don't play with people's feelings and if you feel yours are being played with speak up. You really only can control you, and how you are treated so take that control and use it. Wow, you said a mouthful. I can only speak on my experiences, do I want my cake and eat it to. Why have the cake if you can’t eat it? Seriously it is up to the person. No one is perfect so no one can expect to find the perfect mate. I feel you have to find the one that fix you best. Then you have to make the choice to go all the way no stay at home. Don’t play with people’s feelings and if you feel yours are being played with speak up. You really only can control you, and how you are treated so take that control and use it.

]]> By: …And The Award Goes To… | The Urban Daily http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2511 …And The Award Goes To… | The Urban Daily Tue, 14 Oct 2008 19:47:40 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2511 [...] for Don’t Lose Your Day Job. Been too busy dishing the goods about my dating life for Hello, Beautiful. But a few weeks ago, yours truly, went back to Ohio for the last time (…for a while…) [...] [...] for Don’t Lose Your Day Job. Been too busy dishing the goods about my dating life for Hello, Beautiful. But a few weeks ago, yours truly, went back to Ohio for the last time (…for a while…) [...]

]]> By: Stormyweathers25 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2501 Stormyweathers25 Tue, 14 Oct 2008 19:39:31 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2501 Don't be afraid my dear. I tell people to take their time, take each day at a time. If it is ment to be it shall be, but if it doesn't work and even after you have tried, you never know what else may be in store for. I wish you the best! -storm Don’t be afraid my dear. I tell people to take their time, take each day at a time. If it is ment to be it shall be, but if it doesn’t work and even after you have tried, you never know what else may be in store for. I wish you the best!
-storm

]]> By: fluffyangel http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2461 fluffyangel Tue, 14 Oct 2008 17:46:31 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2461 I'm a lyricist/novelist, so I do understand possessing talents. It's truly important to meet one's potential and center one's self around positive thinking individuals. I strongly encourage this particular past time. I'm single not lonely; however, you indeed interest me. If time allows, send an e-mail/stop by my page. -Merlyn I’m a lyricist/novelist, so I do understand possessing talents. It’s truly important to meet one’s potential and center one’s self around positive thinking individuals. I strongly encourage this particular past time. I’m single not lonely; however, you indeed interest me. If time allows, send an e-mail/stop by my page. -Merlyn

]]> By: muphasa69 http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2431 muphasa69 Tue, 14 Oct 2008 15:06:35 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2431 Hey whats up my name is Rafael and reading u thought in all this it seems that u dont listen 2 ur self I mean u dont wanna end up like lavern and sherly all tho why not just trust ur self and beleaive on ur expectations the rest will b understood on the way so dont trip - if yes said no , and no said yes would there b room 4 maybe's- holla Hey whats up my name is Rafael and reading u thought in all this it seems that u dont listen 2 ur self I mean u dont wanna end up like lavern and sherly all tho why not just trust ur self and beleaive on ur expectations the rest will b understood on the way so dont trip – if yes said no , and no said yes would there b room 4 maybe’s- holla

]]> By: What To Watch Monday: 10.13.08 | The Urban Daily http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2261 What To Watch Monday: 10.13.08 | The Urban Daily Mon, 13 Oct 2008 19:56:09 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2261 [...] night, The Urban Daily’s resident TV blogger, Kevin L. Clark, gives you his What To Watch rundown for everything on point that’s on television. [...] [...] night, The Urban Daily’s resident TV blogger, Kevin L. Clark, gives you his What To Watch rundown for everything on point that’s on television. [...]

]]> By: http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/hello-beautiful-staff/to-be-or-not-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-2231 Mon, 13 Oct 2008 16:24:35 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=15141#comment-2231 awww, kev! godspeed, that's all i gotta say. love is a mean street. but there are some pleasant rose bushes along the way. (no pun intended) awww, kev! godspeed, that’s all i gotta say. love is a mean street. but there are some pleasant rose bushes along the way. (no pun intended)

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