wow. i must say i agree with this 100%.. i had a best friend who i confided everything in.. that was until oneday, her and her boyfriend gets into an arguement and i started defending her… than he starts AiRing all my dirty laundry. I felt betrayed. Because he saying stuff that only she was suppose to know. Anyways, that just goes to show you.. to keep your friendships and your relationships personal. when you mix the two, it can cost you both..

Well the same thing could be said to you by your man- that your bestie knows all of his business- his short-comings and weaknesses and perhaps a few of his darkest secrets because the ish was all too heavy for you to hold it in. So- its probably even if he knows things about you since you probably most likely know all the dirt about him, especially when he got busted for whatever whatever or did something messed up in some other way. Trust me- I know so much about my girls’ men and their eff ups that I could definitely embarrass their boos equally if they ever tried to put me on the spot for anything my besties may have confided in them, about me. So I ain’t trippin.

First off, I want to say I was laughing my @zz off at the ‘number of men slept with” comment. That is oh so true because deep down, we don’t want them to know anything they can use for ammunition later. We all know that during a fight, we can all drop to the Mike Tyson level and go for blood when we feel we are losing the argument. That said, NEVER TELL YOUR MAN NOTHING. ZIP, NADA! Because believe me, he is only human, and he WILL USE IT LATER. Or what if you break up, especially if it is a nasty one. How will you feel stumbling up on him and his new sweetie and she gives you that smirky/knowing look, as if he got something from YOU that he is not about to get from HER? (or did something to you or even treated you in a way she thinks she doesn’t have coming) Let him run his mouth all he wants, all about his friends, what he did sexually to a female in the past and all that because HE IS ONLY A MAN, not a friend to the end.

That’s why I don’t like to talk much(unless I want to clear something off my chest)……Why tell SOMEONE your business when they will SNITCH it to others?????? And be asured that they will tell others about YOUR buisiness, too…….

Never inform your man about anything your Sistahfriends do – outside of devulging smalls things such as your plans to go to lunch, or promotion celebrations.  The thing is, you want your man to believe that your Sistahfriend and you are on the same level.  Evening if she’s single, there’s no need for him to know about her single dating life, any depression she may suffer from, or financial. Sistahfriend shyt is privy information.  (Protect the Privacy Laws/Rules)

The last thing you want is for your Sistahfriend and your man to have conflict.  You must have balance in these areas. 

Bottomline…stop running yo-dayum-mouth!

 i agree, cus he’ll use da info against u…

 Only one person can guarantee a secret. God. The author should have kept her mouth shut

Lesson Learned.  Move on.

And you’re STILL gonna keep tellin her shish so idk Y U wrote this. Females needa just stop sharing your lil “scoop” period. Some things, even best friends don’t need to know about. Idc how long you’ve known them or what you’ve been through. There comes a time when you become an adult that realize Ur personal life is just that!! Now let that be a lesson.

Best Friends quickly can become “Best Enemies”………………………………………..marinate on that. 

She was right about 1 thing and that is men gossip just as much or more than some women!!

Wow…. this is interesting to say the least. To think that gossip is really as much as women if not more among men…. that is truly sad, but hey… to each his own. 
I’ve been the “best friend” role and known women who have told me both “numbers” and never used it as ammunition. Whatever the case, this is truly juvenile…. if you didn’t want it out in the first place, you shouldn’t have shared it anyway, I don’t care who you told.

Peace and Blessings

LMAO!@ “The ass whoopin im bout to put on her in this blog”…

Uhmm yeah, men gossip like you wouldn’t believe. I took my nephew to get his hair cut at the barber shop and hotdamn!  You could have sworn it was an episode of “Men Waiting to Exhale”…Those brothers talked about everything from childhood to losing their virginity, to all the hundred and one woman they ‘smashed’, to who was a hoe in the hood, whos mother was on drugs and whos girl was cheating on them…..Oh yes bro, men gossip!  

On the subject, sometimes people need to just vent to who they think is a close, TRUSTING source. Nothing wrong with that. If someone tells me “just between me and you”, im not going to spill it to anyone else…..thats not much to ask for….

“IF YOUR FRIEND BECOMES YOUR FOE? ALL THE SECRETS THE WORLD WILL KNOW.”

I have chit that is going to the grave with me. I confide in very FEW people, I’d rather have ammo in case I need it.

GOD WILL ALWAYS CURSE THE DEVIL.

WHEN SATAN WERE CREATING THOSE
WHITE PEOPLE HE PROBABLY WAS LAUGHING
BECAUSE HE KNEW THAT THEY WOULD BE BOTH FILTHY AND STUPID.

Six
Reasons To Date More Than
One Man At A Time

ONE OF THOSE
REASON SHOULD BE BECAUSE YOU ARE A INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING
AND PASSING FILTHY DUMB HOE THAT DOESN’T HAVE ANY SENSE OF DIRECTION IN
LIFE AND ALSO TO PROVE TO THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD WHY THOSE BLACK MEN
DON’T TRUST YOU LYING,SNEAKY AND TRICKY FILTHY ALWAYS LOOKING AROUND FOR
MONEY AND AND ANY KIND OF PEN!S BACKWARDS THINKING LYING CAN’T BE
TRUSTED BIMBOS.

5 Ways To Keep Your Man From Cheating

ONE
WAY SHOULD BE TO TELL HIM IF HE CHEATS ON YOU WITH ANY OF THOSE FILTHY
INFECTIOUS HIV/AIDS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING WHITE/FOREIGN HOES THAT
HIS PEN!S AND PELVIC BONE/HAIRS ARE GOING TO START SMELLING JUST LIKE
THOSE CATS AND THOSE SKUNKS THAT BE SPRAYING OUT THAT STALE FOUL ODOR
FROM THEIR BEHIND (in other words those white/foreign women are of
filthy animals) THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A
DOG.

Racist?! Magazine Study Claims Black Women Are
“Unattractive”

THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE WILL POST UP FORUMS LIKE
THIS BECAUSE THEY WANT FOR YOU BLACK MEN TO THINK THAT THE FILTHY FLEA
BITTEN FOUL SMELLING DOG SEX IS MUCH BETTER THEN YA’LLS OWN SAFE BLACK
WOMEN SEX IS (in other words those hiv/aids,mange and parasite carrying
dogs are after you black men pen!s) I AM TALKING ABOUT THOSE
WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN (those white/foreign women are born half human and
half dog for the reason of them having a foul dog odor to their body and
for the reason of them growing those blood sucking flea bugs in their
filthy dog hair) THOSE FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN CARRY SYPHILIS FOR
ANOTHER REASON THAT THEY SMELL OF FOUL SKUNK WHEN THEY TAKE THEIR
CLOTHES OFF OR RATHER WHEN THEIR PULL THEIR PANTS DOWN.

TAKING A
DOUCHE INSIDE OF THEIR CONTAGIOUS BLOOD CELLS BOOTY HOLE WOULDN’T EVEN
TAKE AWAY THAT FOUL DOG AND SKUNK ODOR OF THEIRS.

WHY DO THOSE
FILTHY DOGS ALWAYS BE WAGING THEIR TAIL AND BARKING AT YOU BLACK MEN
TRYING TO TRICK YA’LL INTO GETTING IN THE SAME BED WITH THEM? YA’LL
SHOULDN’T LET THOSE FLEA BITTEN DOGS LAY IN YA’LLS BED BECAUSE THEY WILL
PASS YA’LL THE FREAKING FILTHY RABIES.

YOU BLACK MEN WILL WOUND
UP WITH THOSE REDDISH/PINK ITCHY RASHES ON YA’LLS PRIVATE PART OR EITHER
YA’LLS PELVIC BONE FULL OF PUBIC HAIR WILL BE FULL OF THOSE CONTAGIOUS
BLOOD SUCKING FLEA BITTEN BUGS (in other words those white women and
those foreign women are nothing but,some parasite carrying and filthy
flea bitten dogs).

THOSE FILTHY WHITE PEOPLE WILL CALL EACH OTHER
TRASH BECAUSE THEY ARE SOME TRASH

“QUESTION”

DID YOU
BLACK MEN FORGET THAT THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN WERE TRASH FOR THE REASON
THAT YA’LL WERE SLEEPING AROUND WITH THEM?

YOU FILTHY WHITE
WOMEN ARE SO,VERY STUPID AND IF I WERE A BLACK MAN I WOULD BE TO ASHAME
TO EVEN WALK DOWN THE PUBLIC STREETS SIDE BY SIDE WITH YA’LL BECAUSE I
WOULDN’T WANT ANYBODY TO THINK THAT YOU WERE SUCKING ON MY GENITALS.

HOW

TO FIND A WHITE/FOREIGN HOE.

ALL THAT YOU BLACK MEN HAVE TO DO
IS TAKE THE COVER FROM OFF OF THOSE SEWER HOLES AND OPEN UP THOSE
GARBAGE BINS AND THEIR FILTHY SKUNK SMELLING BEHINDS WILL START TO
CLIMBING FROM OUT OF THERE (in other words those white/foreign women are
always ready to funk up you black men body with that dog odor that they
no good dog body carry).

THOSE STUPID FILTHY DOG AND SKUNK FOUL
BOOTY SMELLING INFECTIOUS HIV/AIDS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND
PASSING WHITE WOMEN SUCK MORE PEN!S AND HAVE MORE PEN!S STUCK UP IN
THEIR CONTAGIOUS BEHIND THEN ANY OTHER RACE OF WOMEN ON THIS PLANET
EARTH.

THOSE STUPID FILTHY FLEA BITTEN PARASITE AND MICRO WORM
CARRYING WHITE WOMEN ARE ALWAYS LOOKING AROUND FOR YOU BLACK MEN TO TRY
AND GIVE THEIR NO GOOD MANGE AND RABIES CARRYING DOG VAG!NA TO.

JUST

BECAUSE ONE BLACK MAN IS WILLING TO PISS INSIDE OF YOU FILTHY WHITE
WOMEN MOUTH DOESN’T MEAN THAT ALL BLACK MEN WANT TO PISS INSIDE OF
YA’LLS MOUTH.

HOW IN THE HELL CAN YOU BE CLEAN AND YOU ARE A
FILTHY DOG.

ALL THE RACE OF OTHER PEOPLE PLUS THOSE IGNORANT
HOES….WHITE,BLACK,MIXED AND FOREIGN WHOM ARE DUMMIES WANT TO TAKE
CONTROL OVER THE BLACK MANS MIND (thats called mind control) DON’T LET
THEM,LEARN TO CONTROL YA’LLS OWN MIND (in other words learn to think on
yalls own) SO,TO NOT BE CONTROLLED BY ANYONE ELSE….YOU BLACK MEN ARE
NOT NO DUMMIES SO,THEREFORE DO NOT ACT LIKE ANY.

IF YOU BLACK MEN
ACT LIKE THOSE DUMMIES THEN YALL DEFINITELY WILL BE TREATED LIKE THOSE
DUMMIES.

YOU BLACK MEN ARE NOT DOGS EITHER YA’LL JUST BE
FOLLOWING UP BEHIND THOSE FILTHY NO GOOD INFECTIOUS DOGS (in other words
its those filthy hoes that are the dogs because they are the ones that
carry and pass those infectious diseases around to ya’ll).

THOSE
WHITE PEOPLE ARE YOU BLACK PEOPLE ENEMY JUST AS WELL AS THOSE FOREIGNERS
ARE.YOU BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE ARE THE MOST HATED RACE OF PEOPLE THAT
WALKS THE FACE OF THIS PLANET EARTH.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ARE VERY
BAD AT COMPREHENSION WHICH IS WHY THEY ARE SO,HARD AT UNDERSTANDING
OTHERS.THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ARE VERY STUPID FOR THE REASON OF THEM NOT
KNOWING WHAT THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHAT IS WRONG AND WHAT IS RIGHT.THEY
ARE SOME DUMB BLIND WHITE DEVILS.

THE FAMILY OF DOGS AND CATS.

THOSE

WHITE PEOPLE WOULD LIKE TO OWN YOU BLACK PEOPLE LIKE THEY OWN THEIR
DOGS AND THEIR CATS AS IF YA’LL DON’T HAVE A THINKING BRAIN OF YA’LLS
OWN.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ARE NOT ONLY BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED AND
HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN THEY ARE ALSO BORN SOME STUPID WHITE DUMMIES
THAT DOESN’T HAVE A GOOD SENSE OF DIRECTION IN LIFE.

HOW IN THE
HELL CAN A BUNCH OF BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED WHITE DUMMIES TELL ANOTHER
GROUP OF PEOPLE WHICH DIRECTION TO GO IN WHEN THEY DON’T HAVE ANY
DIRECTION IN LIFE THEMSELVES? THEY CAN’T BECAUSE THE ONLY THING THAT
THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE WILL DO IS LEAD YOU BLACK
PEOPLE TO A DEAD END BECAUSE THEY DO NOT EVER WANT TO SEE YOU BLACK
PEOPLE DOING BETTER THEN THEM WHILE LIVING IN AMERICA.

KISS OUR
SWEET BLACK ROYAL BEHIND YOU FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN PIECES OF INFECTIOUS
SWINE OR SHALL I SAY PIECES OF SH!T? YOU WHITE WOMEN AND YOU FOREIGN
WOMEN ARE BORN HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN FOR THE REASON OF THOSE BUGS
GROWING IN YA’LLS HAIR (lice/ticks/fleas) AND FOR THE REASON OF YA’LL
HAVING THAT DOG ODOR TO YA’LLS NO GOOD BODY AND FOR THE REASON OF YA’LL
HAVING SO MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF VIRUSES AND DISEASES.

BOTH THOSE
FILTHY WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FILTHY FOREIGN PEOPLE WILL PASS AND
SPREAD THEIR INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY INSIDE OF
THEIR CONTAGIOUS CELL BLOOD.

HOW CAN’T YOU BLACK MEN SMELL SH!T
WHEN YA’LL BE LICKING ON,HAVING SEX WITH AND TOUCHING ON THOSE OTHER
RACE OF WOMEN? YOU BLACK MEN AUGHT TO BE ASHAME OF YOURSELVES FOR EVEN
ALLOWING FOR THOSE HEAD BUGS CARRYING ANIMALS TO GET IN THE SAME BED
WITH YA’LL….STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THOSE BLACK MEN YOU INFECTIOUS
PARASITE AND HIV/AIDS BOOTY HOLE WHITE AND FOREIGN DOGS BECAUSE THOSE
BLACK MEN BELONG TO THOSE BLACK WOMEN….QUITE PASSING YA’LLS INFECTIOUS
VIRUSES AND DISEASES IN THOSE BLACK PEOPLE NEIGHBORHOODS.

WHY DO
THOSE WHITE PEOPLE BE EATING THEIR STEAK RARE OR EITHER MEDIUM RARE? IS
IT THAT FILTHY FLEA BITTEN ANIMAL THAT RESIDES WITHIN THEM (they are of
animals and aliens) THEY ARE CONTAGIOUS TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE AND THAT IS
WHY THEY ARE ALWAYS TRYING TO GET YA’LL TO DO THINGS THAT YA’LL DON’T
WANT TO DO (they want to control you black people and tell ya’ll what to
do because they say that you black people are dumb but,what those
white/foreign people don’t know about themselves is that they are
stupid) DO NOT BE CONTROLLED BY THESE FILTHY HUMAN DOG SMELLING AND
RABIES CARRYING ANIMALS.

GO FIND YOUR FAMILY TREE OF DOGS,ALIENS
AND CATS SO,THAT YOU MAY CAN FIND YOUR LONG LOST UNCLE OR AUNTIES OR
SOMEBODY.

NO WONDER WHY YOU WHITE WOMEN BE GIVING BIRTH TO THOSE
BABIES THAT LOOK OF ALIENS THAT ARE CALLED THE DOWN SYNDROME AND CLEFT
LIP KIDS….YOU WHITE/FOREIGN PEOPLE ARE OF ANIMALS AND ALIENS AND YA’LL
CARRY THAT INFECTIOUS DISEASE CALLED SYPHILIS.

YOU BLACK PEOPLE
DO NOT EVER BE GOING AROUND THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BECAUSE YA’LL ARE
NOT TROUBLE MAKERS OR PROBLEM CAUSERS TO THEM BUT,EVERYWHERE THAT YOU
BLACK PEOPLE ARE THEN HERE COMES THOSE FILTHY WHITE INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND
DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE DOGS TO SOLICIT YOU BLACK MEN SO,TO
TRY AND PASS YA’LL THOSE CONTAGIOUS DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY AS BEING
THOSE FILTHY WHITE DOGS THAT THEY ARE.

THOSE DOGS AND THOSE CATS
ARE THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE ANCESTORS OR RATHER
THEIR DESCENDANTS.

Michael Vicks

usfg 

THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING HOES WASN’T GOD’S MISTAKE THEY ARE  SATAN’S PURPOSE (in others words satan is a filthy devil himself).

YOU BLACK MEN THAT CAN’T SEEM TO GET THE BLACK WOMAN THAT YA’LL ARE LOOKING FOR ARE ABOUT THE MAIN ONES THAT BE JUMPING OVER THOSE GATES LOOKING AROUND FOR THOSE FILTHY FLEA BITTEN BUGS IN THEIR HAIR DOG AND SKUNK FUNKY FOUL SMELLING WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN TO SLEEP AROUND WITH (in other words those black women don’t sleep around with every race of men that they see) THEY ARE NOT AS DISEASE PRONE AS THOSE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN ARE.

AND ALSO YOU BLACK MEN THAT WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY FLEA BITTEN MICRO WORMS INSIDE OF THEIR CONTAGIOUS BOOTY HOLE DOG AND SKUNK SMELLING WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE THE BLACK MEN THAT SHOULD REALLY NOT BE TRUSTED BY THOSE BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE FROM WHAT I CAN SEE YA’LL WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH JUST ABOUT ANYTHING WHICH IS CALLED BEING DISEASE PRONE (in other words ya’ll are some very filthy black men) SHAME ON YA’LL FOR NOT KNOWING A FILTHY FLEA BITTEN MICRO WORMS AND PARASITE CARRYING DOG WHEN YA’LL SEEN ONE.

THOSE FILTHY DUMB HOES WILL CALL YOU BLACK MEN DOGS BUT,YA’LL ARE NOT THE DOGS THOUGH YA’LL JUST BE FOLLOWING UP BEHIND THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING DOGS.

THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN HAS POISONED YOU BLACK MEN THAT SLEEPS AROUND WITH THEM MIND BECAUSE YA’LL DON’T SEEM TO KNOW HOW TO THINK BLACK ANYMORE.

usfg

Really? Where in the world did you find the time and patience to type all of that?

Okay, stop and think. If she is telling you his business and you are okay with it, (you KNOW she is) then don’t get mad when she tells him yours!!!! That what you get when you are friends with MOUTH ALMIGHTY. Next time keep the damn scoop to yourself.

thats real s**t and yoru man will black male you after its all said in done..by teling your friend all the secrets you divulged.
…Uggs Giving Away Stuff After PETA called them out.. http://goo.gl/YOAJA to Get Consumers to Support them….haha got 2 pair!

Good advice!!!

i hate when females do that. i know women that run and tell their men everything that is discussed between them and their friends. i really don’t understand that, because trust and believe that he’s not telling what him and “the boys” talk about. sometimes women get so “dicknogtized” that they don’t use that thing in their skull called a brain..smdh

Man trust me this goes both ways its certain things that you and your partner should know but one if you not married dont do married things and even then you know who you are marrying so dont be surprise if things fall this way, each individual need a level of privacy telling you and your friends business NO just like for a dude NO that simple

cardinal rule?!?..u broke the #1 rule of the universe..if you dont want anyone to know..dont say s**t to anyone…and trust me you think that was the first time she told your business..

Keep it to yourself…Cause real friends keep their mouth shut, and the ones who are ready to do you in will sing like the choir..Watch your back!  IJS….

The author is an idiot!
Talk about loving the drama! 
If her friend didn’t want anyone to know…she should have kept it to herself.  How simple is that.
Your man should be your best friend!  That doesn’t mean you have to tell your man someone elses business though.  It the same aspect…I wouldn’t even want to know their business.
Here’s a quote for you:
“The hardest thing about business,  is minding your own.”

This is interesting on a couple of levels.  Sooooo, a man is SUPPOSED to tell his woman/wife EV-ERY-THANG (including how many past partners) but the woman is supposed to withhold certain things?  Eye-opener.

Second, what kind of MAN would start whispering and giggling with his woman about someone’s secret at a dinner party???

“Trust me, marriage does not mean forever.”  And THAT statement reflects a PART of the mentality that has driven divorce up.

More like.. stop telling me your man’s business.. But title will never come up

 The ratio of gossip between women compared to men is 50/50. The beauty salon is gossip headquarters for women. Barber shop for men.
 Remember in the Master P movie when he told the guy… “I don’t even trust my mama”.
Good rule of thumb…. KEEP YA MOUTH SHUT!

that is so true I can’t stand women like that I’ve had so many relationships end because of that it’s ridiculous!!!!!

as a GROT, women talk too much. about everything. about anything. then they pause for a breath, regroup….and talk some more.

i had to tell my last gf “stop tellin me this shyt! idgaf about this…”

women will tell it all. thats why dudes end up fcuking their gf’s buddy.  the gf will be done told em EVERYTHING. and i mean…everything.

moral of the story-women. talk. too. fcukin. much.

i don’t like friends or family that does this.. these types of women you can’t confide in at all.. they should know better.. i don’t tell my man any of my fam or friends business cause it ain’t his business.. not only that u know how men are, they’ll kick your friend back in and try to keep you from hanging w/them every chance they get cause now u don’t opened your big assss mouth..

Really now?….
This must be in your area because honestly, the MEN I hang around might speak about generalizations and some overall experiences, but as far as gossip, it’s unlikely and usually very rare at that and even then it’s only if they know each other pretty well.

Whatever the case, as far as the “trusting” source, there’s many that have made that mistake in more ways than one. I’m not saying that people can’t keep secrets, but more often than not, it ends up coming back in one form or another. It’s not much to ask for, but sometimes you justr don’t know someone’s true intentions.

Majority of the time, when it comes to personal stuff or things that I don’t want others to know then I’m not letting it out. I keep it to myself and do what I do…. I don’t need to “trust” anyone else with information that I know I can keep to myself.

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