I can’t speak for other ladies. I’m looking for that special man for life. In the summer is when I would like to show my man off, with walks in the park or on the beach. In the winter is the perfect time to cuddle under the covers. All year around I like to cuddle. I want a meaningful long relationship. A quick lay (excuse my bluntness) is all that is. What happens when you find out that all you have in common. Thats sad.

To me it shouldn’t be the cold month to settle down only. Everybody should be able to settle down anytime. Just because it’s the cold weather of the month, doesn’t mean it’s the perfect time to settle. It’s how your heart feel and if you think in the inside this the right time to settle. You just got to put your faith on God and let him tell you when it’s time for you to settle, and let him decide the right man or woman for you to settle with. That’s how I feel.

I would like for once in a life time to be with a special man who not all about getting some when you first meet but to ask me how am I am doing ect.

now u know just like I know..MR.Clark , people don’t look for love in the summer because in a sense ..they feel like their going to miss out on something by being taken but what people fail to realize is that everything that amuse your five senses ain’t always good for you..feel me! me , well I love-love and the feel of love so I’m always on the look out!

I don’t that it’s only in the winter months that people look for a cuddy buddy. I think that once you find someone you get comfortable and don’t take as much time on yourself because the one you’re involved with makes you feel good looking good or looking less attractive. I don’t know about you but when it gets cold I have to cover everything up so I won’t get sick, but I personnally make sure that I am flawless most days. LOL. In Houston it’s always hot and steamy.Good luck and happy hunting to all the ones looking for that special one. Me, i am happily dating. Later yall.

LADY GOON

I think being single in the winter is a lil more to deal with ive only been single for bout 10 months and it bothers me the most during the holidays. so what i do is get some of my good ol bodies thats single to come around and play house to get by. lmao hey im learning how to get through . And im one of those single oldier weman that keep it tight in the summer and get it right during the winter just so when summer comes i can stunt. I look like ish but my hair is growning really good all over lol

Kevin you make very good points. However, I can only speak for myself. I would like a man in the Summer and most definitely in the Winter. The Summer is the time when two people can travel and enjoy getting to know each other and having fun doing it. The winter is for that bonding period for real. Basically seeing if you all can co-habitate together without killing each other. I in the same boat you’re in………single for years but it’s not due to the seasons……….but primarily because folks don’t have those ole fashion values, respect, or love any more. This is definitely a good blog! Thank you and God Bless!

While it is always appealing to cuddle up in the tundra and exhaust filled city, I opt for blue skies and the mid-40′s from October to March.

Maybe your problem isn’t the season maybe it’s the location.

Well… Me being the most backwards chick i know, I usually do all the breaking up right before the winter. Usually because christmas, my birthday, and valentines day would be coming up and I don’t want it to be like I waited until after to drop them. But I have heard that in the winter more people want to settle, me personally, not because of the weather, choose other wise. Also I feel like in the summer is when I long for a companion because school is out its time to chill and have fun, in the winter i’m in school so i don’t really have time for a guy juggling work and everything else along with it. lastly I strongly disbeleive that you have been single for almost 4 years, you are soooo adorable!!!