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The hype for the 2008 presidential elections was unprecedented, understandable and undoubtedly the most powerful thing that we’ve seen in awhile. Once the votes were tallied and our 44th President of the United States was declared, Barack Obama did more to help out the dating game than most would give credit for – and I’ll tell you why!

Q-Tip manages to throw these pretty dope parties at NYC club Santos Party House, and with all the excitement building up to a fevered pitch, people took to the streets to get ready for the New York celebration. Yours truly was trapped at the plantation for a while, but I got my freedom papers in the form of being the guy known for partying. While the rest of my comrades finished our legendary (if not to be seen) video documenting the November 4th election, I headed over to check out what all the fuss was about up the block from the 9-to-5.

The line outside was packed and the electricity could be felt in the air. It was probably how people felt when Joe Louis was declared the heavyweight champion of the world… of the world, Craig! Ladies were coming out looking their Saturday night best on a Tuesday, and the smiles weren’t just relegated for the stars and industry insiders – the everyday man was getting love too!

Word broke out that Obama won, and the game was just beautiful. Black love – hell… universal love! – was on front page and with that, the game decidedly shifted back to the light-skin brothas’ lane. With everyone hi-fivin’, huggin’ and sharing their tears of happiness for the former Chicago senator, this cutie with some slightly chinky eyes was burning a hole through ya boy.

Clockin’ in at 5’3″, 135 lbs, this girl had that whole Cassie/Lauren London vibe and was rockin’ an ill Obama tee. She walks up to me and gives me a huge hug. Almost on cue, Diddy walks in and the pace picks up about five notches. Something about Sean Combs makes people feel giddy, and the girl who shall remain nameless planted a juicy kiss on my cheeks and says, “Obama-riffic!” Cheesy, I know… But hell, she’s cute; what can you say?

I managed to exchange contact info with the girl and went about taking pictures for the 9-to-5, but on that night and for nights to come – your swag increased once Obama stepped into the H.N.I.C. role. And as a call-to-action for everyone, young and old, white and black, cool and nerd alike to step up to the plate to handle our responsibilities as countrymen and women, the president-elect has not only proven to be a boom in politics and pop culture, but in how people can genuinely affect change in one another’s lives.

The next four years will be great.

Ladies… Does knowing a black man has become president made your own black man’s excuses obsolete? Will there be a resurgence all across the board in that good ole’ black love music? Speak on it!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chatdiva/ chatdiva

    Having a black president doesn’t change my standards for what I will and will not accept in a relationship; I have always expected nothing but the best for myself..which is what I am willing to give. This election has shown that with determination, you can make your dreams come true. Not only that…but black love is real…and that family is important.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ClarkKentBKNY/ ClarkKentBKNY

    That is true. But if you would’ve saw the rap men and women were giving each other, it’s clear that Obama has given a new page for people to spit game from.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BahiyahBonet/ BahiyahBonet

    The excuses I ‘ve heard some Black men use, such as, “The white man ain’t gone let no black man succeed; or, the system is designed for a black to man to fail” were never valid excuses because of the Black men who are successful, and because of the Black men who opened the pipeline of the system by applying steady pressure sweating through the process to resume their quest for a good education to put themselves in positions to get a job or start their own businesses.

    Several years ago, I heard a woman explain that some women raise their sons to be sons, instead of raising them to be men. I must say in many cases this is true when you hear the stories of the rage some black men display leading to fatal encounters against their own people.

    Granted, a mother cannot teach her son like a father can, but a mother can take time to teach a son how to develop people skills so he can play a part in his own success without flipping out every time someone says something he does not approve.

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