I do believe that if a man has cheated once, 9 times out of 10 they’ll do it again; HOWEVER I know of a few men(and women) that have completely turned their lives around because they have found the ONE(I’m one of them)

WELL I GOT 1 SO FAR

NOW LETS COUNT THE INFLUX OF THE “NO’S” AND “I BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP LIKE THAT AND TRIED”

1 so far…come on New Urban Women…what are you waitng 4?

WAIT
WAIT
WAIT…U MEAN 2 TELL ME THIS IS A version OF A MAN THAT WROTE THIS FIRST BLOG??
the fuk is you Neo…you found the ONE huh?

I was going for the first part of the topic and then you lost me-at the end. I DON’T believe that a man nor woman will ever stop cheating-however they could change if it came down to them talking it out and they realize what they really want from the person they are with. In my OPINION-I wouldn’t trust the fact that he cheated and I wouldn’t take him back either. But to each there own

Can’t wait for that article titled: Can A Woman Change Her Deceptive Ways?….
Too many Anti-Dark guy s**t here!!!, never a story on negative Dark-gal!!! ( oh there all angels) ……

Yes, I believe that if a woman can go without cheating so can a man.

cut tha bulls**t always blamin men… women do it to, women actually are worse, they say it’s jus cuz they don’t get caught, but actually it’s cuz men really don’t trip on that… it ain’t that big ah deal, unless ur married, cuz that’s jus sinful… but if u ain’t married it ain’t so bad, jus don’t think bout it so much an u’ll be coo… it’s much worse things to worry bout, like taxes, money, fun an food… but to answer tha question, nah, it’s been done since tha beginning of time, that’s why there’s ah commandment for it, so nah it ain’t gon stop… jus like ho-ing, or sinning, which was done first by who? blatantly

If women would stop trying to ration the ass, men wouldn’t feel a need to creep. Most of the time cheating comes from feeling “rejected”…

Nuture us, ya’ll know we like some big ass kids when it come to ya’ll, gimmie some ass and quit actin funny style.

Flip over, now put one leg up, dis called crane technique (smack, smack!) yeah I know you like that, eyez rollin and shyt, You like this &^%@ don’t chu’ ***yes, I d…….*** SHUT UP! roll yo hips.

That’s all I’m sayin, quit bein stingy and we’ll play fair!

who cares? its called move on, replace or go solo (duh). lol!

Bottom line…if you don’t want to be in a committed relationship…why fake like you do? Don’t be deceitful and a f***in liar just because you want to spread your shyt around? Male or female, what goes around comes around, what you give is what you get, and if you present urself as easy and a f***in ho, that’s how people with treat you (male or female). If you want to be with a whole lot of women, fine, just don’t call urself “settling down” or want to get married or some shyt like that and then turn around and still want ass on the side and stuff. For that you deserve windows busted out of cars and chopped off d***s and everything that comes along with it!

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I think that is is very possible to stop cheating. When you find someone that you care about and want to be serious with it’s very easy. Love and God makes anything possible.

It was somebody that said women cheat more, actually men cheat more when it comes to marriages.

Sorry ladies if you cant handle the heat, get out of the kitchen. Us men are natural born azzholes, we lack the emotional connection to a lot of things as you women do. When you all get “done wrong” its a slap to your spirit. When we get “done wrong” its a slap to our ego. Our ego can easily be replenished

Of course we can change our ways but the problem is is that theres too many women without backbones. We do what we are allowed to do. Yes there are other women out there willing to PARTAKE in the wrecking of a home, but OUR women are the ones that let us back in the house. Ladies stop tolerating b.s and stop forcing boys to be men. Just move on because quite frankly if another female on this site tell me another story; that I didn’t ask for, about some weak azz dude. I’m going to scream lol

Stan_Vinyl-4real…kmlato and with talk like that Stan your NOT going to get “rejected”…lol Thanks Stan that felt all so gooooood…now im going to sleep. :)

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wow i kno that theses views (ppls comments) dont reflect all black ppls opinions but damn! since these negative comments is all i see… doom for tha black race in tha near future lol….. no wonder y its so bi racial now…..

a man cannot and will not change his cheating ways

Men cheat beause they can! There are alot of Silly Women that think they are the only ones with a ‘you know what’. These women make themselves available. If these Silly Women would stop competing with each other and realize that if a man cheats on one woman they will do it to another. The females these days are desperate. Men know this and play it for all it’s worth. If the supply of sex (with women) wasn’t as available, men would get married and stay faithful or we would have more men sleeping with men than we do now! Women need to unite, get some self respect and stop running after men like Bounty Hunters!

see I have and will always continue TO BLAME black WOMEN FOR THE WAY OUR black MEN(BOYS,MALES,BABY FATHERS,BROS,NIGRO’S AND WHATEVER ELSE NICKNAME YOU HAVE FOR THEM) BEHAVE in today’s world!some of us black women who lack self-worth and have self-esteem issues which is a reason they basically settle for anything. Once women put their foot down and demand “respect” than uh yeah, some of our “good” “worthy” black men will actually take us seriously and “man up” but until than,dont expect much.BUT THERE ARE A FEW GOOD BLACK MEN THAT EXIST WHO DONT CHEAT…BELIEVE ME!you’ll just need to work on yo-selves…and love yo-selves before trying to let a man in the picture…

Now as for you’ll cheat’n black fellas…see thats why some of you’ll broke,and dont have anything to your name and wont EVER…SIMPLY B/C YOU’LL TOO BUSY SPENDING TOO MUCH $$(that you dont have) AND TOO MUCH TIME ON THINGS THAT YOULL WILL NOT BENEFIT FROM IN THE LONG RUN…YOU’LL SOME DUMB ARS CHEAT’N MOFO’S!!!some of you’ll dont have a bank account,no job,NO EDUCATION and either living off yo women or yo mama,which is comical because you types ACTUALLY HAVE WOMEN WHO WILL DEAL WITH YOUR LAZY,CHEAT’N punk ars.and when it gets toooo heated and unbearable,you’ll chicken out like the punk some of YOU are!YOU’LL EITHER END UP IN THE PENITENTIARY, “GAY” or both.WHAT an easy way out…that is a honest definition of “n****r behavior”.SOME OF YOU BLACK FELLAZ NEED TO GROW THE HELL UP!!!ITS 2009

SEE ITS NOT ABOUT CHEAT’N,ITS THE SH*T THAT COMES ALONG WITH IT…SOME OF YOU’LL LAZY ARS HEELLLL TOO!some of you lazy,cheat’n brothas would become something in life if you didnt allow the little thing that some of you’ll have TO determine both long & short term goals for you…which is why you’ll take one step forward just to eventually be knocked back 3 steps…back to the same fk’d up situation.many of you’ll are a disgrace in disguise to the genuinely>> hard-working real black men….and if you feel that my words are striking a nerve, perhaps i’m talk’n to yo resistant to work productively and efficiently-good for nothing ars! a whole lot of you’ll are not qualified to to be a parent, but you have a whole lot of baby mamas…THERE IS MORE TO THE WORLD THAN WHO YOU GONNA SLEEP WITH TONIGHT…why not get some education and a real job instead of passing this useless,infectious,contagious virus from one man to yo “sons” A.K.A “the new generation”…enough said

signed
Tell it Like I C it-

It’s only cheating when you get caught.

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Uh…hell naw he can’t…and he won’t if you take him back…fool me once shame on you fool me twice and now i gotta cut ya~

My man cheated on his ex girlfriend with me and we ended up togeher and we moved out of state together faaaaaarrrrr away from her and they have a daughter together he sends his daughter $ but this raggedy w***e mother of hers had 2 kids by some other dude sinced we moved and she still calls my man everyday 10 times a day like he still wants her he got his # changed once and his momma turned around and gave the lonely s**t his # again.He hasn’t cheated on me I know this I check his phone records, bank account and put a tape recorder in the vehicle without him knowing and so far so good! Not saying he never would he is a man of course but If he has he is good because he calls me inspector gadget and I haven’t caught him yet! If he is soooooo what! He pays my bills, buys my clothes make up fragrances personal products and takes care of all my kids too so I doubt another b***h would get any of what I am getting! He told me he prayed about finding the right one and when we met he lived across the street from me with his then girlfriend and I didn’t know him I had just moved there and a few months later he approached me when I was walking to the corner store and later on he told me he used to see me checking my mailbox etc. So I dunno but I am in LLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!

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I don’t care if he can or can’t because a man is going to come @ me and treat me correctly.

Don’t tolerate nothing= won’t be nothing..

YAWN

I don’t think a man could stop. As long as there some skanky azz hoe out there that is vain with low self-esteem that thinks her body has it going on and throwing their desperate azzes in some man’s face, weak men will never stop cheating.

We’ll change our cheating ways if it’s “worth it”. Most of the time it’s not, so we don’t.

NO!!!!

Let make this perfectly clear: ALL MEN AREN’T DOGS, NOT ALL MEN CHEAT. The only reason women think that is because they go for the hansome bad boy ( that’s the problem they are spoild by puzzy)

whats the point of being in love you going to get hurt or your heart broken just have sex i cant believe people still want to cheat when you can just have sex with no strings attach an stop believing in love in that mess.

A cheating man does not come in a particular ‘box’. Some men are handsome cheaters, but sometimes you can look at a cheating man and think to yourself “Do you mean to tell me that YOU have the nerve to be unfaithful”.

I honestly believe that a man can change his cheating ways but, he wont do it when his girl wants him to he’ll do it when he’s ready. It takes that certain woman that can break him down and make him view life in a different way. I believe that if he’s deeply in love than he can change if he really wanted to.

A woman goes into a relationship WANTING the man to change. But a man goes into a relationship, NEVER WANTING the woman to change.

Yes, a man can change his cheating ways. He just has to WANNA change them.

You know, I have always believed when you don’t want to be with some one any more, or don’t want to be married to the same person anymore, a divorce or just break up will work, why cheat?
I simply do not understand it. If I am tired of you I think we should sit down and talk, before anyone cheats. I could never trust that person again, after the cheating has been done. I ‘m not sure if a cheater can change, because that doubt will always be there.

Yes, I do believe that a man can change his cheating ways if he is dilligent and prayerful enough. We are drawn out and entice by our own desires, so there would have to be a massive mental exodus of any internal or external stimuli that would cause him to be drawn to that lifestyle. Desires turn into inclinations if they are uncontrolled. He would definitely have to have a solid relationship with God and be determined to transform himself.

King Solomon had how many wives AND concubines (women you are NOT married to), yet God called him ‘a man after His own heart. But that’s right. King Sol was black, and black men love lots of women.

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