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The Sucker
These men are sweet and generous, but there’s a fine line between being giving and being taken advantage of. We’re not talking about the guys who donate a portion of their salary to their favorite charity. We’re talking about men who golddiggers flock to because they can sense his inability to say “no.” Maybe it’s the sister who “needs” a designer jacket, or the buddy who buys that big-screen TV before he can actually afford it. You name it, he’ll open his wallet. This kind of man might bode well for you if you’re looking for someone to buy you bobbles, but his bank account will dry up in no time.

The Procrastinator
While these guys may be sensitive and carefree, they simply can’t hold onto their money. Balancing their checkbooks is never top of mind, but they’ll get to it… eventually. Procrastinators use their debit cards far too often – like it’s some kind of magical money card – only to have their mystical beliefs shattered when they discover they owe $75 in overdraft fees.  Don’t be surprised if these men come running to you to help them get out of deep water. These guys live paycheck to paycheck in a never-ending cycle. If you find yourself falling for the Procrastinator, save yourself some hassles – and dollars – by keeping your finances separate.

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The Money Tracker
These men love money so much that they actually track every penny they spend in an Excel worksheet. In your time of need, they can be very understanding and may even lend you money to help out. But borrower beware! Even if you’re this guy’s significant other, he’ll consider the amount borrowed a loan. While these men won’t hold it over your while you’re dating, the minute you dump them, they’ll make you pay them back before the break-up is final – with interest to boot. And if you’re not borrowing cash, you better believe the Money Tracker is keeping tabs on every time you “go dutch.” He’s always a little too quick to remind you that he paid for lunch or that you owe him a coffee too.

The One-Upper
These men are all about using their money to win your heart. They’ll spend big to make a big impression, but don’t be fooled. The One Upper isn’t opening his wallet out of the goodness of his heart; it’s all a game. He may buy you gifts for no reason or plan over-the-top date nights. And the longer you date, the more “impressive” he gets. But it’s the competition that drives him, not his adoration for you. After buying him a watch, he quickly runs out and buys you the most expensive Rolex he can find. You’ll only experience anxiety because nothing you do will ever be good enough.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Stan_Vinyl/ Stan_Vinyl

    I could have $1,000 in my pocket… as soon as a woman ask for something, I get anxiety. I feel light headed and dizzy.

    I don’t know why but unless we are an official couple I HATE spending money on chics… call it cheap, but call it the TRUTH!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Nightowl358/ Nightowl358

    I’ve been somewhat the sucker before. Learned my lesson on that one.

    Don’t tell me you can’t pay your cellphone bill when you just got a fresh pedicure, some new thongs, and more cable channels than I do.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2daTopnonStop/ 2daTopnonStop

    I ain’t saying I’ma gold digger…but I AIN’T dealing with a broke/cheap/stingy/ fake label wearing/ hand out/ Rims on layaway-with no gas int the tank/ men (boys)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/trisha_369/ trisha_369

    I feel you and agree with all ya’ll below me. I say 50/50 on a date,relationship,marriage…to me thats the key to open the door of everything.(in my opinion)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Ladyd121/ Ladyd121

    Oh bulls**t! My man was stingy with money when we first got together but now he buys me anything I want, I haven’t had a job in 3 years. We have been together for a while now and when I birthed our son he wanted me to be a stay at home mom and he wanted to take care of us (I have 3 kids of my own too) and he he is doing just that he is planning a big Christmas this year!I love my man but he hasn’t proposed yet! When/ Maybe Christmas?????????????? I hope so!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2daTopnonStop/ 2daTopnonStop

    ladyd121 I hope so too cuzz if he is the only one making money and he decides to trip out sounds like you don’t have a pot 2 piss in or a window to throw it out of~

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2good2bsingle/ 2good2bsingle

    I know THAT’S right, 2DaTopNonStop!! Tell her like it T-I-Z!! ;-)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2good2bsingle/ 2good2bsingle

    Oh, and.. HelloBeautiful.. “Borrow” and “Loan” are ONE and THE SAME, okay? No difference. When one asks to ‘Borrow’, they’re asking the other to ‘Loan’ it to them. Just a little ‘Side note’. ;-)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2good2bsingle/ 2good2bsingle

    Love, Attention & Affection are the ONLY things I’m gonna give a Woman! If I’m paying ANY bills, it’s gonna be MY bills! I don’t mind a Woman moving in with me, but she’s gonna be working too! Somewhere! If we have kids 2gether, then she can stay home with them, but.. Other than that.. If she’s got her OWN place.. Damn, that “Taking Care of Her” Bull$#!T!!! Some Black ‘Women’ can be so Damned Manipulative!! If experience teaches lessons, then, after all I’ve been put through.. I must be a GENIUS!! ;-)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/momono3/ momono3

    Funny how men can climb in bed with you and start barking orders like a drill sergeant. But the minute you ask for a McDonald’s cheeseburger, you’re a gold digger. Ladies, pay no attention to the name calling. It is just a trick, to keep them knee-deep in p u$$y and your mouth shut. Just like they can say “I want it this way and that way” they can also open up their mouth and say “Here, baby. Go buy yourself something nice. I like my woman gorgeous AND happy”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Stan_Vinyl/ Stan_Vinyl

    The issue for me is LOYALTY… too many women want a man to break bread, then they out just like a thief in the night.

    Over at another dudes pad trying to get him to break bread too. Show some damn respect for yourselves ladies PLEASE!

    Bed hoppin with cha hand out makes you look like you spread for bread.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Red_Clay_Chronicles/ Red_Clay_Chronicles

    OK, so I’m reading through the list & all, seeing what’s what…and I’m a money tracker all day. I mean, I just thought of it as being an adult, who’s financially responsible & independent…didn’t know there was another name for it. For the record, as has been stated before….if you lend someone money, unless otherwise indicated, it’s the expectation that you’ll get it back. Folk don’t seem to understand that, so I don’t give loans anymore…it eliminates all that BS. I find it funny that there’s a list describing men with certain habits in regards to their money…yet the woman referenced as the borrower or recipient in all scenarios is above reproach? How can y’all in one breath make it sound damn near criminal for a man to ask to borrow…yet, a few lines down, there’s no issue when a woman borrows…only when the man wants the debt repaid? Comedy. And shorty below me that is shackin’ for 3 years strong….and since you don’t live in a state that recognizes common-law marriage, your man can kick you out whenever he gets ready to…with no recourse. That would mean 4 kids, no viable work history, no residence, no history with any utility company, and poor credit more than likely….what do you bring to the table besides p***y? Pray that son doesn’t come to his senses & realize that there are better options.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/orinreborn2/ orinreborn2

    I am the procrastinator lol .. i have several revenue streams and i never deposit the checks i get on time … but i am the one people tend to borrow from :-/

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/marcuslove79/ marcuslove79

    honestly since marriage is 50/50 then dating should be 2. If u are asking for money during dating u r a bum man or woman. if u are in a official relationship then ok, but dont get comfortable or u r a bum. If u marry a bum well then thats your fault, should have done due dilligence. If women think giving boot equals askin for money then giving dik equals askin for money. If u r independent comes out of your mouth u r not old fashioned and should be kicking out 50/ 50 as this is how u maintain independence from a man, or vice versa from a woman. Anything else and u are investing without knowing whether u will recoup. In other words gambling. thats free game. copy it to your email.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/doing_me74/ doing_me74

    why go through all that when all I can do is get me a freak thats all I want is sex not take you out on dates the hell with that.

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