The man is the head, and the woman is the heart, the body and the soul.

Amen @ Jazz and when a man and a woman truly love each other and form a perfect union it aint no need to give advice, because they work together, both recognizing that no part is greater or lesser then the other but one

every woman i’ve known over the yrs have said tell the truth and lets see what happens,so i just ask for it and 80%of the time i’ve received it.it depends on the woman and all that other shyt that shyt for brain niggahs are into but honesty works.(YOU SHOULD SEE THE LOOKS ON THEIR FACES WHEN I ASK FOR THE COOCHIE ON THE FIRST OR SECOND DATE)you either will or you wont!!!

AND PLZ SISTAS YOU CAN FOLLOW BEHIND THE LIKES OF STEVE HARVEY AND THOSE WHO CLAIM THEY HAVE THEIR FINGER ON THE PULSE OF BLACK RELATIONSHIPS BU LOOK AROUND YOU AND SEE HOW FAR ITS GOTTEN US,HE AINT THE FIRST NIGGAH TO MAKE CLAIMS OF SOME SECRET SHYT HE KNOWS NOTHING ABOUT AND WONT BE THE LAST.BESIDE EVEN HE WENT THROUGH A MESSY DIVORCE AT ONE POINT.

I agree with KennyD4, Da_J_Rok & JazzPast! Also.. Phuck Steve Harvey!! He can kiss my @$$!! He’s Anti-Atheist, so I’m Anti-His-@$$!! ;-)

There are no ionstructions to being a good woman. There are no instructions to having a good relationship. Because of stuff like this telling women to masculine the role are starting to change. Men are emotinal wrecks and women are the aggessors. Its getting crazy!

I want a man who can be a man and let be a cofident woman. Point blank…

LMAO at this one HB-I don’t believe you was thinking at all,when you wrote this one. Now with words from Ed Lover…C’OMN ON SON GET THE FU*K OUT OF HERE WITH THIS ONE.

The best thing a woman, or a man, can do to make a relationship last is to NOT BE CLINGY. And don’t act like that person is your everything. Don’t call constantly until they answer, and when they do answer, don’t have a million questions. Don’t require constant confirmation that they want you and only you. And when they say they were doing something, just leave it at that because if a person wants you, they want you. If they don’t, it will come out later and you know to just move on.

OKAY SAY YOU DO THE THINGS THIS ARTICLE IS TALKING ABOUT FROM EXPERINCE THAT MADE MY MAN HAVE A PROBLEM HE APPRECIATED ME COMING TO HIM ABOUT MY CONCERNS YET IT MADE HIM SEE ALL HIS FLAWS. SO I THINK RULE 1 AND 3 CONTRADICT ONE ANOTHER. YET YOU CAN SAY, ONLY SPEAK ON IT ONCE. SEXUALLY I HAD TO BACK OFF CAUSE HE COULDN’T KEEP IT UP LONG ENOUGH FOR ME. HE’S THAT ONE TIME BROTHA AFTER THAT ONE BABE I’M DONE. YET I’M THAT STAY ALL DAY I CAN KEEP GOING I DON’T CARE IF YOU ARE SLEEPING YOU WILL BE UP,LOL. RIGHT NOW WE ARE NOT TOGETHER BUT WE ARE WORKING ON OUR FRIENDSHIP AGAIN. TO STREGTHN OUR RELATIONSHIP. WE ARE BOTH OPEN AND HONEST. I LOVE MY MAN AND GOING TO KEEP LOVING HIM. 5 YEARS AND WE DOING IT AGAIN

PERSON BELOW ME. WHAT IS CLINGY EXACTLY. OBVIOUSLY I AM ASKING SO I AM NOT IT. YET WHEN I FIRST MET MY BABE HE SAID THAT HE DIDN’T LIKE CLINGY WOMEN GAVE THE DRAWN OUT LIST OF THINGS. WHICH WAS SOME OF THE THINGS I DO. YET DIDN’T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT. SO IS IT MORE OF THE PERSON THAN WHATS BEING DONE OR WHAT?

I agree with the 1st point because I am that woman who festers and lets things build

But I think following everything would be ignorant

A REAL man would understand that I’m a woman and I don’t think like him…

If you have to change everything thats you to be in a relationship, then what is the point..? I’d rather be true to me

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Real men don’t give a damn about all this acting, we want you to be yourselves, not a copy of us! You’re supposed to bring balance, how can balance occur if you’re thinking like me? You should fit together with me, to compliment me, as I do you, but thinking like me does not equate to you understanding me. If you try to think like me, you’re most likely to do this to try to develop skills to shut me up, when issues occur. However, if you’re trying to understand me, you try to come up with a solution to the problems, or just hear me out (which is all it takes most times, just like with you women!), so we can move past them. Thinking like me? Sounds to me like you’re over-thinking and plotting how to manipulate situations as they occur with me.
The problem here is many women date idiots, they themselves being idiots if all they do is back to back idiot dating. Then you equate your idiots to the rest of the men out there, in short-sightedness. Your dating history is your experience in dating, which means that’s ALL YOU KNOW ABOUT DATING! So if you only date idiots, you can’t recognize a good man, don’t feel like you can hang with one, and therefore pick idiots because you know your real position! Idiots help you make yourself look better than you really are! Problem is you don’t want to admit you’re own hand in YOUR OWN dating picks. You can’t put rules on how to handle serious relationships in place, if all you have ever trained to be with are idiots. So if you come talking that I’m independent propaganda, combined with your screwed up history, you’re a recipe for disaster all by yourself!

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get with someone who fits you in the first place and you wouldnt have to do all of this d*mn acting during the relationship.

This no different to me being polymorous because I read a book on how to have open relationships with multi people.Even tho polygamy is stereotype in a monogamous society such as this this the same advice I read about having more then one person in group relationships.Because I’m considering being polymorous instead of monogamous because society makes it the norm but a relationship defined by the people in it not society.

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AWW, NAWW, ANOTHER ARTICLE PROMOTING HOMOSEXUALITY! WOMEN, THINK LIKE WOMEN, AND MEN, THINK LIKE MEN, AND STOP TRYING TO “FLIM-FLAM” ERRBODY’S MIND FRAMES!

I’M REALLY STARTING TO HATE HB WITH THE TEACHING HOW TO LIE TO YOUR PARTNER, AND HOW TO LIE TO YOURSELF, IT MAKES PEOPLE, MEN AND WOMAN OUTRIGHT HATE THEMSELVES, THEY NEED BETTER WRITERS.

AND WHEN ERRBODY RUNNIN ROUND HERE WIT SPLIT PERSONALITIES IMA REMEMBER THIS ARTICLE!

momono3, great points…Women shouldnt be trying to think like men…just understand each other…And who in the hell is Steve Harvey with all this ‘think like a man’ shyt to be listening to anyway? He is on his THIRD marriage…I mean really, you dont ask a three time relapsed crack addict how to stay clean now do we….

I agree with #1. Being open and honest develop great respect 4 each other. Part of a fail relationship is the lack of communication. That’s why couples cheat b/c they r afraid to tell their partner that they r incomplete. (But the truth will hurt sometimes) “The earlier the better”.Oh! FYI it’s not just in reference to men,b/c there r women that r in competition with men.

There’s another way, don’t listen to a damn article or take it at face value. It may take common sense to do most of those things but you don’t need an article to tell you that. You sure as hell don’t have to think like a man either.

Ozdogg-I don’t see anything out there but IDIOTS! The men out there (most of them) don’t have to Man-Up because there are so many ignorant desperate females that will put up with anything. The majority of eligible Black men are in prison or Gay. This article is just so the writer can make money. It’s not too much to choose from out there. And most men come with a SCREWED UP HISTORY! And if the woman is SCREWED UP, IT’S PROBABLY 90% OF THE TIME BECAUSE OF A MAN!Get real.

If black women would look up statistics on the black community and study black men instead of what their mothers told them when they were young they’d stop spitting out recycled comments about black men being in jail or gay and have better perspective, if you just wanna insult black men let it be known cuz i do check statistics and study black women and our community so i got alot to say, aside from that alot the problem truly lyes with the women and their choices (of course some men are just a*****es tho) coming into high school alot of us were virgins and tryna have a girlfriend but 90% of the girls in highschool liked 10% of the guys, the guys that were popular and playing all the girl, just tryna get in yur pants when the rest of the guys see this alot of them imitate. this is y u see so many “idiots” Bcuz this is the mentality of most women (not saying you in particular)when women r tired of being dogged out they expect to find a good guy to treat them with respect and take some guys left overs (not gonna happen ).

Great post, Odoggz

I agree, women are slowly morphing into “Female Chauvanist Pigs” (great book, btw) in their quest to “be like a man”.

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jus go with the flow and keep it real! I think everything in life happends the way its supposed to regardless of what you do in the middle..the end result is going to be the same..for the most part anyway. People can’t keep it real these days so we need pointers and tips from stupid cosmo…being upfront and honest, takes a lot of balls…so if wanna be “like a man” just keep it real, esp those people that claim they dnt like drama…

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