those 5 warning signs could be for any thing. cause if i flip those around and use those as a sign for a woman cheating…. thats not very helpfull at all. because our instinct depending on the person can be totally off because of the fact of what that person been through and how badly that person has been hurt so they fill their heads with negativity all day every day. If they have to work late again all the time why dont you try calling their job to speak to him… ask them an important question or something just to make it look like your not just calling for the heck of it. easy problem solved although alot of affairs do happen on the job. and if that person is comin home and going for the shower doesnt mean that their cheating either… im pretty sure you dont like sweaty balls. and im sure the men dont like sweaty you know what. so how are any of these 5 signs helpful in any way? a sign would be an obvious sign… a found number… a different brand of condom found or a used one found or maybe a hickey on they neck. 5 signs = no good.

You never see an article on women cheating. Some women get with guys who are in releationships. First they are the other girl, then when they become the main girl they get mad when he gets another girl. Woman want the smooth player but dont want to get played!!! HMMMM.

If he has a p***s, which I’m sure he does b/c all males do (lol, hopefully) then he:

WAS cheating
IS cheating
or…WILL cheat

sad but true.

this article is bull. just someone trying to cater to female readers. please stop. we already get a hard ime. we don’t need articles like this making women insecure.

this s**t sum bs.. they need 2 make an article about black women raisin their children to grow up 2 be video vixens…

I believe if you think your man is cheating on you, then ask him questions in a calm way with no attitude andha see how he acts. Has he been acting funny lately. Is he suddenly away from you allot for no reason. Is he going to the bathroom with the cell phone when it go off. Does his cell phone go off allot all of a sudden and he do not answer and gives you an excuse of why he’s not answering. Does he leave right after sex and gives an excuse why he can’t stay. Is he always at your place but never at his? Just some things to think about ladies. Be blessed!

Very stupid! #1 A good cheater won’t carry a cell phone, or he will have a cell phone his girl doesn’t now about. $45 a mt, Metro PCS. #2 Take up a hobby, that will make you have to be gone 2 nights a week, like bowling or a softball league.
#3 Get a gym membership, there’s hotter ladies there, than your girl. And you can go shower there anytime. 24 hour fitness, perfect. # 4 Have sex in the morning with your girl, so her head will be right during the day…..lol
#5 Clyde Davis Baby…..x-cheater not no more…..lol

Boys cheat and ALWAYS get caught..real men have affairs and DON’T. Write an article on THAT instead. I’m dying to see how accurate your info would be.

HUH!!!!!!

wow!! seriously! @ mild_man1965..real men dont get caught?! NOOOO a real man is true to his woman and if he feels as tho he needs to venture off he will keep that shyt real. But most men are soooo insecure that they cant let the woman know that b/c they feel as tho they do not want anyone else to have her or he knows that he will lose her with the truth.

Yeah, TittyBouy10!!! That’s what I’M talkin’ about!!! Also, @ Famous Clyde Davis – Thanx 4 the wonderful advice!! I wanna see an article that’s NOT as Gender-Biased! One that refers to a Cheating Spouse, rather than Man! I don’t like to see that same old negative stereo-type being perpetuated over and over again making US Men look like it’s ONLY & ALWAYS US!!! This s**t has GOT to stop!! Women cheat too! When they aren’t doing THAT, then they’re running us Men away with their MANY issues!! Also, y’all (Yes, I’m ‘Southern).. Check out this video that discusses Black Men & Women and the reasons for the dysfunctions that plague our relationships! -> http://www.generation-x.net/viewVideo.php?video_id=685&title=RIP_Black_America__Black_Authority

This commentary is Jiggabooism at it’s finest level. I look forward to the day when n****rish behavior is no longer the perpetuated, tolerated or condoned. Being asinine is not attractive, nor is it productive to the community you live in. And not to mention the children you are influencing with your skewed perception of reality. Why not use your f*cking energy to uplift your people, instead of adding to the already rampant denigration of our race. White folks do enough of it without your help. Brotha’s (and sista’s), we have to do a hell of a lot better, cause at this rate we are facing extinction…at our own hands. Grow up or shut up…cause as my granny used to say…children are meant to be seen, not heard.

And another thing.. The LAST thing anybody needs to be doing is telling women that their ‘Gut Instincts’ are worth a damn!! They’re PARANOID as it is!!! PLEASE.. CUT THAT OUT!! Next you’re gonna be telling them to BURN DOWN their man’s Car (e.g. Waiting to Exhale) because of a ‘Funny Feeling’ she has that he’s doing something wrong!! ENOUGH! ;-)

lol@ famousclydedavis… u got it down to fine science dont you?! lol…..

but in all seriousness…Nuttinbutthatruth is accurate… Now im just gonna add something to that…very simple…just as man being a real man keeping thing real and clear not being insecure…the same applies for the ladies….

the thing about it is…to have OPEN COMMUNICATION in a relationship….arguments are sometimes healthy, just because its getting rid of raw buried up emotion…which if not released could turn to bitterness…which leads to cheating, violence, blah blah blah blah….we all get the drift…and some ppl just cheat just to cheat….what the hell

with those 5 signs, the headline shoulda been how to tell if your man or WOMAN is cheatin………ya diggg!!!

I always live by the same way I found you Ill find another.

Has anyone noticed that every article that Hello Beautiful and crew spit out is about signs that your MAN is cheating? Is it that they just don’t believe that woman do the same thing or that they choose to focus their insecurities elsewhere? Beyond that, this is another prime example of how black women continue to defame and bring down black men and then claim later on that there are “no good black men”. Spare me. You’ve apparently made us all out to be these evil jackasses capable of only infidelity and it pisses me off to no end. It’s offensive and just downright wrong. And, don’t get me started on how vague and useless these warning signs are. I have little respect of the opinions of the people at Hello Beautiful as it is. But, now I have even less respect for them since they spout this garbage as fact. Ugh…

NIGGAS AND B***HES CHEAT THE SAME…..I DON’T BUT I EQUAL MALE AND FEMALE FRIENDS, I’VE SEEN MY FEMALE FRIENDS WITH ME, NONSEXUAL THAT IS CUZ I ABSTAIN, AND SHE LYING SHE IN ANOTHER CITY WHEN SHE AINT…DUDES, YEAH WE ARE MORE OBVIOUS WITH OUR S**T, BUT A B***H CAN CHEAT AND BE IN THE DUDE RIGHT NEXT TO THE NIGGA AND YO’ DUMB BLK ASS WON’T KNOW A DAM THANG!! WE DUDES NEED TO WISE UP, AND LOSE THE EGO THAT WE GOT S**T ON LOCK, BUT LAST TIME I CHECKED, WOMEN ARE THE BIGGEST CCARRIER OF HIV!!! WHY, AND IT JUST AIN’T THE DOWNLOW MUTHAFUKA SCENARIO EIDDERRR…SO AS ALWAYS, U MAD, FIGHT MY DIK TO DA BAK OF YO’ MUFUAH TRHOAT, IM OUTTA DIS SOM’BISSS!!!

men need this…as far as women, we already know. we just need to stop fooling ourselves and just accept the truth!

They always be talking bad about us on here(lol).

Let me tell you what the worst is.Imagine if your girl thinks your cheating(but your really working late and doing things to make her life easier)so she cheats on you to get even.Yes this happened to me.lol

This type of article promotes that kind of stuff.Just like how some women be on the phone talking with their girlfriends about how bad men are.Then your girl gets mad at you.But wait a minute you are one of the best men there is.Dosent matter shes already reprogrammed.By the time she figures out what happenned years than past.Oh well,too bad.

Honestly yall need to change yall way of thinking.It isnt working(right)

7-23-2009 12:12 am
DaintyJen

“men need this…as far as women, we already know. we just need to stop fooling ourselves and just accept the truth!”

Stop fooling yourself into thinking you are better than us(accept the truth).If you cant understand something so simple than maybe we arent equal.Me,I dont get a kick out of putting people down.

This is a very serious problem.Look at how many broken homes we have.

…if it got to be like that, its not worth it.
remedy- this button is even easier to push

NEXT…

this sht is crazy and retarded ……no commment just grow up

lol @ king…..why it gotta be all that…and im MAD for one that yall DUDES are even reading this damn post..lol…why yall reading it? to see what we now know what to look for so now yall gotta switch up again???… lol..just messy smh..i bet more dudes read this article than girls…damn shame…lol

This s**t is dumb! Don’t worry about IF he’s cheating. You need to worried about WHY he’s cheating. Because all men AREN’T dogs. We don’t always cheat because WE ain’t s**t. Sometimes a man cheats because HIS WOMAN AIN’T s**t! May sound harsh, but it’s true. So as King said. Grow Up…worry about the RIGHT things.

men can have everything they need at home, and still go out and cheat. Not all men are dogs,but have dog tendencies. I think it’s a ego thing with with men. He trying toprove something to himself.

LOL The real list is:
How to know your man is cheating
1. The woman don’t do ALL the things he wants to do sexually.
2. It’s been 48 hours since you had sex and the woman is still making excuses.
3. She never initiates sex.
4. Man tries to initiate sex and gets rejected several days in a row.
5. She “not in the mood”.

You want to keep a man? Keep that nigga fed and drained of semen. That’s it.

6. She let herself go/doesn’t take care of her body.

Well I feel like this..In my past relationship I provided all that he needed…Cooked and cleaned for him, was like a homie/lover/friend, did not trip when he wanted to hang out with his boys, fulfilled his sexual fantasies and more, whatever he wanted I provided..No kids, not a gold digger,smart, humorous and reliable and in college Kept up my looks, body and hygiene but he still cheated with someone who was less desired by other men and who provided him with what he truly wanted, materialistic things: money, clothes and other things. I do not regret anything that I did for him except waste my time w/ a loser but I refuse to buy love or trick my money off. To this very day he is still with the non-black woman that he chose to cheat on me with, they recently had a child together approx. 2 months ago and he has been calling me recently trying to get back in good with a good thing that he missed out on.. I assume that he thought the grass was greener on the other side and wants to come home to mama but I ain’t with it so he can kick rocks and keep making babies w/ his mamacita..Straight Like That!!!

when people cheat its like those greedy lil kids who eat right before they leave home then 15 minutes later eat at someoneelse house like they havent been fed..its just called greed ..and cheating is not always sexual ..if somone is unhappy in a relationshhip rather its sexual intelectual emotinally ..whatever ..then they need to work on it and if it cant be fixed the go seperate ways instead of cheating..alot of guys i no who have cheated on there girl said it had nothing to do with her they just gave into temptation..and said the next day they regretted that s**t cause they hada good woman and good p***y at home they were just being selfish and greedy

AFTER LIVING ON THIS EARTH FOR 42 YEARS ….. ALL I CAN SAY IS DONT GET CAUGHT UP IN A RELATIONSHIP IF YOUR NOT READY TO DEAL WITH JUST ONE PERSON , AND THAN IF YOU DO GET CAUGHT UP MAKE SURE YOUR MATE IS’NT JEALOUS OF YOUR FRIENDS AND LET THEM HAVE TIME FOR THEY’RE FRIENDS AS WELL AS YOU MAKING TIME FOR YOURS BECAUSE IN THE END IF YOU WANT A HEALTHY REATIONSHIP THAN YOU HAVE TO HAVE TRUST IN YOURSELF AND YOUR PARTNER. OH AND RULE # 1 ALWAYS LOVE YOURSELF MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE NUFF SAID PEACE!!!!!!!!

yes burgstyle has some good points; I only cheated on one woman (in my youth) and she was guilty of 1&3 and I really don’t get good reception on the cello @ home.

MOST MEN R JUST WAT WE CALL DOGS AND ME AS A WOMAN I’M SICK OF DOGS,THE CHEATIN, AND THE LIES.LIKE SO MANY OF THE WOMAN U DO WAT U GOT TO DO AND THEY STILL CHEAT AND PLAY DAMN GAMES AND ITS TIME OUT FOR THAT