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Everybody tells us that honesty and sincerity are the keys to a happy couple,  but I personally don’t think so. If there is place where honesty may not be the best policy it is in a relationship. Don’t get me wrong, I am not suggesting you lie to your partner. What I am saying is that sometimes you should learn to keep your mouth shut for the sake of romantic bliss. If not, think about all those instances when you said something -in good faith- to your partner in an effort to be sincere and all you achieved was a week sleeping on the sofa! Yes, there are several things that you should never tell her.

1)) If she asks you if a woman is pretty, you know already that you better not say YES, she is gorgeous. A better response would be “Yes, she is pretty but she has a very cold look, not very seductive or attractive”

2) If she asks you what was your sex life like with your ex… please do not go into details. Do not even say it was good, do not say what you did or didn’t do. Better say, “Nothing outstanding or worth remembering” and change the subject quickly.

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3) Never talk about your ex girlfriends or your ex wife. Whether you have some amusing story to tell, a nice memory or bitter recollections, do not talk about them with the new woman in your life. We all like to think that we are unique and even if we don’t ask you to be a virgin, we would like to think that we are the first, the best, the ONLY woman in your life.

4) Never talk about other girl’s qualities to your girl. Even if you do not mean it, she will hear that you are comparing her to someone else and worst, she is losing.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Rudy836/ Rudy836

    I had a ex who use to talk about her exs.She always talked about how good she treated them and how bad they were.She told me I was the love of her life yet she treated men in her past better than me.Didnt make any sense to me.Well actually it does.

    Eventually she turnned out to be one of those people who like to get her boyfriend jealous.She even threaten to kill herself twice if I left.I loved her but I didnt want to be in that situation.

    Anyone with common sense knows dont talk about your exs.This is an example of where it can lead to.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/wouncie4life/ wouncie4life

    This is Bull Sh*it..lol

    This article was written by a woman. All the sh*it that a guy can not say to a woman, but women talk about men and their past relationships all the time. Just like women do not want to hear that from men, Men do not want to hear about another man either.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/trisha_369/ trisha_369

    Im tripping off the 4 things you should never say to a woman…even thou,I agree to what its saying & I feel that it go both ways…a man dont want to hear about a womans ex either & it did speak alittle on that as well. Either way in a relationship-from all side,it got to be honest in it-along with alot more of things like…
    RESPECT
    TRUST
    COMMUNICATION
    OPEN MINDED
    REAL LOVE
    AND IF YOU AS A HOLD(PERSON) WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP. Now thats just my opinion of things.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MeeYow/ MeeYow

    Hey Geniuses…The title of the article is “4 Things You Should Never Say To A Woman”. It’s not supposed to be from a man’s point of view. That’s the problem. Most men don’t take the time to receive valuable info like this (that could potentially keep you from sleeping on the couch), before dismissing it as “Bull Shyt”. Here’s an idea! Write an article from a MAN’S point of view instead of dissing this one. There are 2 sides to every story, and communication is key.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Cincinchick4/ Cincinchick4

    Why would anybody be asking that anyways I dont wanna hear that s**t…unless we both gonna benefit from it till then shut the hell up with that s**t…!!!~**

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tmart78/ tmart78

    Didn’t the title say 4 things you should never say? Seems like they are telling you “how” to say them instead of never saying them. If a woman can’t take the truth and displays this type of extreme jealousy then she’s not worth keeping. Past relationships should make our next one better, somewhat.

    @Rudy836 – if she is now your ex, does that make you an accomplice to a potential suicide?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IWalkAlone247/ IWalkAlone247

    This list is bullsh*t…just like every other list they come up with that’s similar to this one…

    #1. If youj don’t want the truth….DON’T F*CKING ASK!!!!!!….Duhhhhhhh!!!!!!

    #2 – #4. THESE ARE THINGS CHICKS SAY TO GUYS ALL THE FREAKING TIME!!!!!! So how the hell does it feel to be confronted with your OWN bullsh*t??

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/italianmami37/ italianmami37

    You must have asked the most insecure women to answer this s**t cuz i completely disagree! i don’t agree with not sayin this or that… if you are insecure, then that’s your issue. but as far as complimenting other women or noticing them, i am worse than my man, i love to girl watch, point out hot or bad chics just to talk about them, why not? i am not insecure about any other female, i will give a girl her props in a minute. and any woman would be stupid to honestly think that you are the only woman in the world that your man finds attractive, please. it wouldn’t bother me to hear about my man’s exes, s**t, there are always other points of view that i am open to in terms of how they did things sexually or other wise. but what i’m sayin is, i am secure so to talk about certain things from each other’s past shouldn’t matter or bother anyone. but i know i am rare that way. i also enjoy goin to strip clubs with who i am dating, it turns me on, plus i think its fun, hot chics, my man, alcohol? why not? sign me up! just fun…too many women need to stop being so uptight and be less conservative, stop bein scuurrrred to go to the titty bar, to me it’s fun….and this list is bulls**t cuz the way i look at it, if you can’t keep it real with your partner about that s**t, why bother? and women, don’t ask questions you don’t want honest answers to…women need to loosen up, stop the insecurities and have fun… i can honestly look at another beautiful, sexy woman and say to my man, “dammmm, she bad …” and we have fun with it, talkin s**t about it…it’s not that serious…ppl r gonna do what they gonna do regardless…i’ve had problems with men i date gettin used to the fact that i am so open about stuff, they are not used to it so it’s hard for them to get used to, but the real thorough dudes can handle it and love it!i love to hear about sex they’ve had in the past,it excites me and you can always learn something new…so anyways, this post does not apply to secure, real women,only insecure little girls with no self confidence….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sylkiifeather/ sylkiifeather

    dayum italianmami….why did you just get into my head to write that lol. we need to most definitely hang lol. i couldnt have said any of that better. strip clubs……checkin out other girls….lawd im officially in luv with you girl lol. nah i agree though. its not that serious. if they are an ex, then they are in the past for a reason. so even if a guy says something positive about an ex, so what. must have been more negative than positive things about that person for them to be an ex. i ask questions because im curious about his past, not because im insecure and want to compare myself to the last chick. like my girl said below, loosen up…life cant be 100% serious all the time…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/italianmami37/ italianmami37

    of course, we some real ass chics, f**k what ya heard… too many lames…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/rodjilius/ rodjilius

    if somebody actually takes advice from this then they are scared and insecure. you shouldnt have to hide anything at least i dont. you don’t have to be rude with the things you say but being scared and keeping secrets only makes it worse. i shouldnt have to go into details so i wont

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/italianmami37/ italianmami37

    exactly rod!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/UnderStandinMan/ UnderStandinMan

    wow! how the hell this is advice if we already know this. If these cats dont know this then they dont need to be with anyone.

    Hell u learn this in Jr. High

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SundaeNight/ SundaeNight

    Are these writers insecure? Hell, I ask whatever I want to know! I can handle whatever I need to know! If these questions come up as part of a conversation that we are having fine, but I don’t give a rat’s a** about my man’s ex that’s not around! The ex should be in the pass! Now if they are still hanging around-that’s a whole different story! That means it’s time for ME to go, because I love ME to much to be sharing time with ex’s! I don’t dwell on no man pass with an EX- I dwell on MY future with a man, which includes A PEACE OF MIND and Lots of Fun! (1) If a woman is pretty than damn! She’s pretty! (2) Whatever “sex life”, was with his EX ain’t nothing like I’m puttin on him SO WHAT! (3) I am crazy if I chose a man that’s going to tell me amusing stories with him and EX all the time! Nope, we should have our own amusing stories to create! (4) Again, if I chose a man in my life that’s praising other women over me all the time then I am crazy! He should already know how to respect a woman! The moral of this is: know yourself and know your man. Have respect for yourself and hell make sure he’s respecting you! Most of all let ex’s stay in the PASS and FOCUS on your future!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DeeVee8/ DeeVee8

    Are you serious? who wrote this article? Here i am reading it, thinking it was going to be informative. You are basically telling men to lie to their women. And then you would be the first one to complain that men lie to their women! Come on! I was thinking that you were going to say something that made sense. If his ex is prettier or the sex was better, then it just is…why do you as the current girlfriend even care? If you are letting this affect you, then something is wrong with you as a female, and his validation won’t help in the least. And honestly, whoever wrote this is the type of “Chick” who would snoop through her man’s text messages, email, and try to get his phone code and listen to the messages. Look at you, stirring up trouble. I hate you already!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Complex_Crazy_Beauty/ Complex_Crazy_Beauty

    I hate Hello Beautiful!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sylkiifeather/ sylkiifeather

    yea i think i might just be done with hellobeautiful…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/genuine15/ genuine15

    am here to look for true love, i mean am after true love girl that is honest,caring and nice and that understand more about true love and i promise to love her with all my heart that if she will not let me down.. am joseph odili from nigeria my email is .. josephodili_peace@yahoo.com

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