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(From sheknows.com)

Women are accustomed to receiving compliments, from the street whistler (gag!) to the random at the bar to the sincere guy we are dating. However, aside from the mouths of their mamas, men are rarely on the receiving end of a sweet sentiment from a beautiful woman. So a girl who can fire off a meaningful compliment will separate herself from the pack.

Here are some warm fuzzies guaranteed to heat him up, and who knows you may even get a compliment in return:

“Boy, you can work it!”

Compliment your man on his talents, be it in the kitchen, in the bedroom (this is definitely at the top of his list!), in the gym or in the garage. A guy wants to hear how good he is at the skills he works hard to perfect.

“You make me feel so (safe, beautiful, happy, horny or anything that is a direct reflection of his efforts).”

This is one of the most sincere compliments you can give your man and one of the most deeply appreciated because it is heartfelt. A guy who likes you is trying hard to make you feel good so let him know it is working.

“OMG! You are so freaking hot! I love your (insert specific physical attribute here such as eyes, smile, abs, shoulders).”

It is one thing to tell a guy that he is good looking, but telling him specifically what makes him so dreamy, will give his ego an extra little lift. And when you serve up this accolade, gently touch the body part you are applauding to add extra sizzle to your compliment.

“I love spending time with you.”

This compliment shows a guy that you like him not because of who he is on the outside — his looks, his status or his money, but that you like him, because of who he is on the inside.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/doing_me74/ doing_me74

    I think this is smart as far as manipulating a dude indirectly

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1NiceFella/ 1NiceFella

    you were absolutely right when u said that men are very rarely on the receiving end when it comes to compliments and what have u! I mean we men are always giving women their props, but it seems like women have gotten so spoiled by that, that they feel like we don’t deserve the same attention in return! God created a man “and” a woman!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexyshade/ sexyshade

    Lol @ (Doing_me74′s) comment.

    Yes it is true 1Nicefella men do rarely hear this. I see nothing wrong with complimenting and showing gestures of affection when you mean it.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jack_Stephen1/ Jack_Stephen1

    “why couldn’t i have met you when i was younger!”

    doing_me74 has a good point. when a compliment is outta character for a broad, expect a favor to be asked or her needing something to be done.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    I would LOVE to,hear that from a HOTTIE, only if we’re in love, not just ask for favors or money; well as far as NOOKIE, that’s another story…….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/305bob/ 305bob

    Not really. The best compliments I could receive are: Honey, I love you so much: 1) I’m moving all of my inheritance into a joint IRA with you; 2) I’m paying off your mortgage in cash and giving you the deed free and clear; 3) I trust you so much I want to spend less time with you, and I’m going to let you have as many mistresses as you want because I know you’ll always come home to me. Those are compliments that will really “separate a girl from the pack”. All the other stuff is just idle chatter that any hootchie can say.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Nunya327/ Nunya327

    LOL @ 305bob

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DollFaceSS/ DollFaceSS

    305Bob, sounds like you’re in the market for an IDIOT.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Crystal_Blaze/ Crystal_Blaze

    Lol @ 305bob

    Indeed though, the only times us men receive compliments is when the woman wants to manipulate us into feeling good so she can take advantage. That’s just what women do.

    With this new legal system, women only tell you what you want to hear so they can get married and then get divorced and take half.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    You know… now that i think of it, women DON’T compliment men! Then again, so many women are so unlady-like that we’ve become so desensitized to their lack of appreciation, or respect for men, in general. Just once, I’d like a woman to just tell me something nice like “ooh baby, your money-maker is just way too big to fail” something encouraging like that. :)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jdahotboy/ jdahotboy

    well the last one compliment this article mentions i can do without but women dont really compliment men anyway!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DMY19151/ DMY19151

    MAN….WHO BE WRITING THESE ARTICLES…A PERSON FROM MARS OR SOMEWHERE…DAMN!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SupaSweet77/ SupaSweet77

    My baby loves it when I tell him he’s beatin it up, and that it’s so big!! But more important than any of that is when I can get the whole thing in my mouth…. so these words really mean nothin without any actions to back them up!
    LOL hahahhhhahhha just expressing my freaky side a little bit there….

    Ya girl SupaSweet77
    aka
    Jaithesweetheart

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kris_87/ Kris_87

    the comments from the men really sadden me. i love to give a man ALL the compliments listed, whether he’s my bf or not. i only give compliments when i’m sincere…

    so, are y’all saying that a man won’t take it seriously? he’ll think i’m trying to manipulate him?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/princess378/ princess378

    Hummmm I SEXXINESS of a blk man how SWEET!!! 305bob that compliment for you. But sorry not going to put my inheritance into a joint IRA with you LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BonitaAngel/ BonitaAngel

    Um I compliment men all the time and while some of them yes they do love it…ALOT of them seem to not know how to receive the positive feedback. Like they say oh stop or they don’t believe me or it seems like they change the subject. So it makes me not wanna tell them I like this or that or compliment them at all….???

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Rei777/ Rei777

    Wow. This is one of the rare HB articles that I actually agree with. Kinda makes me wonder where they stole it from…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kris_87/ Kris_87

    @BonitaAngel, yeah they like to play humble, or they think i have other motives in saying it…but i know they secretly like it :)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LegendBlkOne/ LegendBlkOne

    Kinda agree with what is said below that women rarely compliment their men. It’s not a bad a list to say the least.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Stan_Vinyl/ Stan_Vinyl

    That would definitely be the list, but I don’t crave anything I haven’t earned, if it’s to be said… let it be the truth!

    Or I simply don’t want to hear it.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Azrael3/ Azrael3

    I always give guys these types of compliments…I do it all the time and talk with a light airy voice to them. They eat it up! LOL…It definitely works. It is the one thing that all of my exes have told me…that they love the way I talk to them because it boosts their egos.

    A few more things to tell them:

    1. I love the way you handle me.
    2. You are a great father.
    3. You are so intelligent.
    4. I can see you in this role (lawyer, supervisor, whatever) because you are so good at (insert skill here).
    5. You are sexy.
    6. Thank you for fixing this.

    All day long, baby!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Azrael3/ Azrael3

    305bob: you’ll never get a woman being a manw***e. LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Azrael3/ Azrael3

    …okay, for all you guys who say that this is a manipulative ploy, it is. But it works as long as what the woman is saying is the truth!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dcoady313/ dcoady313

    I agree. From my experience, most women don’t compliment men very much. But at the same time I would prefer that IF in the event the female compliments me that it would be sincere, and not a way of controlling me. If it is a manipulative ploy, then I prefer to not hear it at all.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Teardropz_16/ Teardropz_16

    I’m not in a relationship right now, but I am showing interest in a guy i’ve met and I am getting to know. I always compliment him on everything that deserves a compliment and he does me the same way. It’s just how I do things, so although this article may have been helpful to many, it just gave me another check on the list of what I do right. lol, but i’m glad this could help those who didn’t realize that men deserve compliments as well!

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