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This one is for the brothas. Some of you are in tune with your woman and some of you are so lost in your own world that you are unable to recognize anyone’s needs outside of your own. This is a short list of things that women wish men knew and would incorporate into their relationship regularly. There are many more so feel free ladies to add on in the comments. Brothas, take notes:

1. We Like When You Remember Small Details About Our Dating History.

We like when you remember little things like what we had on when you first met us. We like that you can recall how sweet we smelled that night among the smell of cigarettes and must that covered the night-club.

2. We Like When You Listen To Us When We Talk.

We like when you listen to us when we are talking. Really listen. Not that pseudo listening. The kind where you are trying to listen to us while playing a video game or watching basketball. Sometimes we want all of your attention. Sometimes, we want you to look at us when we are speaking and digest all of what we are saying. One word at a time.

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3. We Like When You Tell Us How Pretty We Are

We want to feel beautiful even when our outside appearance does not realistically match the definition. It is still wonderful when the man we love and that loves us, can say with honesty and adoration in his eyes, that despite how crappy we feel, we are still beautiful to him. Loves it!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jack_Stephen1/ Jack_Stephen1

    you gotta be deserving and apppreciative to get this. too many females are hardened and this would be foreign to’em. manyr refuse to let the brick wall be torn down.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/FlyJones/ FlyJones

    #2 is stupid why talk to your man while he’s playing his game (unless it’s important) or watching a game if you want him to listen? You don’t want him talking to you while you’re watching your show or whatever….The rest is cool though lol and appreciated ;)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/neva1betta/ neva1betta

    UUUUUHHH!!….ME I WANT THEM 2 KNOW 1.WHAT THEY’VE DOWN WRONG WITHOUT ME HAVING TO TELL THEM 2.KNOW HOW TO PUT TIME IN “OUTSIDE” OF TRYIN TO SLEEP WITH U 3.WANT THEM TO KNOW THERES A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEING A GENTLEMAN AND FLIRTIN…HELL I COULD KEEP GOIN….BUT AY YA GOTTA LUV THOSE THAT “TRY” HAHA

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/FreeMyNyggaz/ FreeMyNyggaz

    anybody besides me notice that he’s holding what appears to be a credit card and she looks so happy and affectionate??? looks like SOMEbody just made a purchase :|

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    Like the last one, but the REAl beauty is on the INSIDE z(personality,intelligence, humnor)…….. but if she not ACTING like that, I won’t say a thing, because some ladies cannot take criticism, but would LOVe to criticize us and that’s O.K for them……

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    OK, #1 is BS…I am not about to fall head over heels if a man can recall the color stockings I had on the first day he approached me, the first text message or what color shirt I had on at the 2nd family bar b que…Thats stupid….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Real_bumbleclot/ Real_bumbleclot

    Lol CaliFemme you rite about that. Me and my girl been together 6yrs and I can’t remeber what I had on when we met, so I know I don’t remeber what she had on.

    I don’t even wanna get started on #2. If I’m watching the game or on the ps3, that means “do not disturb.”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Real_bumbleclot,
    I hear you on #2 as well! I am a sports FANATIC! So umm when my team is playin, when im all in the Monday Night Football, do yourself a favor, dont get ya feelings hurt..WAIT until my game goes off…The football season is too short to be bothered with relationship rigamarole while the game is on OR if I’m trying to get up on my Street Fighter combos…

    OH YES! I SAID IT!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Calm_Cool_Collect/ Calm_Cool_Collect

    ALL MEN KNOW THESE 3 THINGS….if your man or hump buddy doesnt do it, its because of one reason…..he’s just not that in to you!!!!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Matthewharding3/ Matthewharding3

    I will be the frist to admitt that I do sometimes take my baby for granted/or dont listen… really listen. I gusse thats the self-center part of me. But im working on it. For if you truly love someone you treat them like you want to be treated. Like that song “What if a woman” by Joe said, What if she was just like you… That would really mess alot of us men up BIG TIME.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/RichardMann11/ RichardMann11

    Calm_Cool_Collect hit the nail on the head. we men know all those 3 things very very well. best believe we listen to EVERYTHING you women say. we might act like we dont but we do. just like yall do we do to. even if we r playing videos games or watching the game we still hear u. we not sayig anything cause we want u to shut the fuk up and let us do what we’re doing, real talk, but we hear u. date details? we know those to. damn right i’m gonna remember how that skirt was grippin that ass or hot tight that shirt was gripping the twins or how sweet u smelled. I’m gonna remember that laugh you had while we were at dinner. I’m fo sho gonna remember the look on her face when her legs were in air. I’m gonna tell u how beautiful you are, thats a given. I want a oman to know how beautiful I think she is, thats a positive for me cause she gonna smile or kiss me or tell me how good I look

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bootgirl/ bootgirl

    When you can just pick up something nice (wether it be a rose off someone’s tree, or just a card letting me know your thinking of me, or a text being kinky, or a little note place somewhere in the home that you know i’ll always go to, a msg on the steamed mirror in the bathroom, a rose place on my windshield before I go to work or wherever, maybe take out a dress you want to see me wear that day and be home waiting for my arrival, maybe a nice & juicy email, a personalize card) Okay so I got carried a way with some examples that don’t cost much of anything BUT effort. So fellas here’s some FREE ideas so put away those EXCUSES about not having any money. You fellas can ALWAYS find money to go spend at a sports bar/or strippers that’s not yours, but fail to forget when you come home and want to get your rocks off the person that will be providing the services.

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