13) I’m seeing someone else

14) you remind me of a silverback gorilla

Number one should have been: He left you for someone else. Cus thats what they DO!!

MsMollyCuddlez you are right on the money….I know guys that have that ignorant mindset…. makes me wonder why guys even try at relationships knowing they will most likely “get bored” and leave for another temporary fix….. if they just wanna screw thats all that need to b established from tha get!!!

There is such a thing as men not cheat’n.not all men cheat!for me its easy to detect the ones who are serious from the types that are not.There are those who conceal their motives of being with you for reasons other than love and actually specialize in doing JUST THAT.however,I feel that if a lady is serious about wanting to GET SERIOUS than her ars needs to filter them play boys that she normally date and keep an eye for the ones who ARE MARRIAGE MATERIAL.There are some brothas that you just dont BRING HOME TO MAMA and introduce because their attire and appearance is obviously not impressive nor appealing.Its not all about looks but in actuality… a responsible person would DO JUST THAT dress responsible—-lets keep it real!

Men are so good in deceiving women and not being honest with their intentions-whether it is being serious or real or just some fling.Yes I know I know fellas, women do it too but YOULL MEN DO IT MORE.Brothas need to KEEP IT REAL AND COME CLEAN.inform us IF YOU ARE MORE ON A IN THE CLOSET BROTHA…HOW JUU DO’N turns into WHO EXACTLY ARE YOUUU DO’N>?let us know if you just want sex. Keep us informed on whether or not your ars is REALLY INTO US and not just lead us on.

And women need to do their investigation before get’n pregnant over and over and over again by every d*ck.Why? IN SEARCH OF “the one.” THERE IS A TIME IN YOUR LIFE, WHEN YOU SAY ENOUGH IS ENOUGH AND I DONT NEED AN 8TH CHILD.Damn!Now if your strategy is all about what you have inbtwn your legs—to tie any man down THAN YOU ARS will be the loser at the end of the day NOT THE MAN.and the children are normally the ones in the middle being effected which is JUST ridiculous,just because YOUR ARS DIDN’T MAKE NECESSARY DECISIONS … from the getgo.Women need to make better decisions in men and maybe there wont be as much sh*t that exist today.Keep alert for REAL MEN and leave them play boys for the hood rat sistas.
If THE LOVE IS NOT RECIPROCATING THAN GET YOUR BELONGINGS AND BOUNCE!I”M DONE!

15) He/she is abusive and controlling

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Well said!!…….AND I DEDICATE THAT TO ALL THE ASSHOLES WHO TRIED TO PUSH UP ON ME AND ACT LIKE SOMETHING THEY’RE REALLY NOT!!

He rather have a stupid girl who believes everything he tells her!

The real statement should have been the 12 reasons why she dumped his a*s-
1) He LIED,HE FAKE & HE CHEATS
2)He WANT TO HAVE SEX ALL THE TIME BECAUSE HE THINK IM CHEATING & WANT TO SMELL MY PANTS-EVERYTIME I LEAVE & COME BACK HOME & WHEN IM NOT,WITH HIM
3)DON”T WORK(NO JOB & NOT TRYING TO GET ONE)
4)THATS NOT REALLY HIS CAR(HIS BOYZ<GIRLFRIEND,WIFE<OR MOMMA)
5)HE LIVE AT HOME <WITH HIS MOMMA
6)HE GOT A WIFE & 3BABY MOMS
7)DONT TAKE CARE OF HIS KIDS
8)HE IS IN THE CLOSET GAY
9)CONTROLING & JEALOUS
10)VIOLENT
11)HE WOULD NOT TAKE AN AIDS TEST
12)NO RESPECT
and the list go on & on.
4 things to teach my daughters about men-
1)NEVER TAKE WHAT A MAN- TELL YOU TO BE TRUE-WHEN YOU FIRST MEET THEM
2)NEVER DATE A MAN NOR START ANY RELATIONSHIP,WITHOUT KNOWING HIS PASS RELATIONSHIP-WITH OTHER WOMEN-HE COULD BE A VIOLENT MAN
3)NEVER HAVE SEX<WITHOUT KNOWING RATHER OR NOT IF- HE GOT AIDS(ANY STD) OR IN THE CLOSET-GAY
4)WATCH HOW HE TREAT HIMSELF & OTHER PEOPLE<LIKE HIS MOTHER<SISTERS<AUNTS ETC.

AND ONE MORE THING THE BIG QUESTION WHY HIS A*S GOT DUMPED,HE DONE TO MANY DRUGS & HE SALE THEM & IN A GANG. THOSE ARE ALSO QUESTION YOUR DAUGHTERS NEED TO KNOW,ABOUT A MAN.

Ladies, ladies, please! It’s sad that when someone actually takes the time to provide some constructive insight as to why some men, or a possibly vast number of men break up with women, the message gets hit with anger and resistance. Further, some take it to a whole other level, citing violence, down-low homosexuality, and men’s apparent gift of pulling the wool over women’s eyes. I’m not saying that instances of relationships involving these types of men don’t exist, but first, it has nothing to do with this article, and second, it’s not true to say that men are more dubious than women. As a man, for every instance of male wrong-doing that I’ve witnessed or become aware of, I have witnessed just as many, if not more instances of female wrong doing, especially with respect to child paternity. I urge any woman reading this article to carefully think about the points raised, openly and honestly evaluating what is being said, and determining if she is participating in any one or more of these issues. Whether some of you want to accept it or not, a lot of the things that were said are legitimate claims, even more so when many women leave good men for the same reasons.

Constructive my ars.Nig what GOOD MAN?
What…the homosexual?The nig in and behind the closet?The fool that cant get a darn job and he blames it on his felony record AS IF SOMEONE ELSE IS RESPONSIBLE 4 put’n his ARS in jail?
Why some brothas walk around thinking the world owes them sh*t?
WHY do some Brothas want to look good and be a failure as opposed to be successful and than look good.hunny,YOull doing it backwards.Dont have a dime in savings but your rims SPINNING and teeth BLING’N.Nig Please!
Why do some brothas expect props for taking care of YOUR own child?Nig that IS YOUR CHILD!
Why do some brothas expect props for not ever being arrested?.Nig I have never been arrested bcause thats what your supposed to do.avoid being arrested.
Why do some brothas who have so many children start denying some just because THERE ARS CANT AFFORD THEM.Nig Please!
There should be a “WHY” forum dedicated to the brothers becaus this makes me sick.
Now youll chasing white women NO arses like a bunch of slaves.are they going to assist you get’n your foot in the door?Hella No!they will enslave you and than dump your ars QUICK.Brotha this is 2009.by a clue!A whole lot of you’ll are a disgrace!!!!!!!!!!I tell it like a I see it and who ever doesnt like it, simply bypass and keep it move’n. :-)

I would have thought this blog had some depth to it. All of the above is pure common sense. Come on HB editors, give us something tangible, a bit of detail, some numbers, a little bit of research can go a LONG way!