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We recently told you about how to spot a gold-digger, today we’re going to flip it and talk about how to tell if the man who’s pushing up on you is for real or a scrub. We want to thank the men of livesteez.com for this story.

Nowadays we date with the same caution because there are scrubs out there who prey on everyday business women, who have everything in place except for their love life. Then comes the impostor partner, who is really the guy that ends up “crashing at your place for a few days,” trying to seduce his way into a live-in position. Employment, or lack there of, is the focal point of most of the signs that your man is a scrub. Fellas, if you’re presently without work you may want to skip this read and surf the classifieds. But the rest of you scrubs don’t worry, we’ll try not to rip you too hard.

1. He is in “transition.”
Sistas hate to hear that dreaded word, which translates to unemployed. If a man says he’s in “transition” then he has no job and more than likely can’t name a profession, skill or trade that he’s practiced for more than 3 years, consecutively. If he is an able body and free of felony convictions, he should be working, end of story.

2. He has no means of transportation.
Ladies, if the man has no car, this is more than likely his excuse for not having a job! This will also excuse his need to borrow your whip while you’re out working. If your man is driving your car around town from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., then he’s probably putting it down in intimate afterhours. Suggestion: Detach, somebody out there can do it better, and he may just have a job and a car.

Do you have a sugar daddy? Or are you a hooker?

3. He has trouble explaining/verifying his living situation.
If you’ve been seeing a guy for more than 90 days and you have yet to be invited his place, you have a bonafide live-in ex situation. Run. Or, if your dude is squatting at various family members pads and can hardly remember where he last left his toothbrush and toiletries, not only is he a scrub, he’s a scrub with no direction. Run fast.

4. He has several children with several women.
If your dude has more than two kids with more than two women, this is a problem. No child is a mistake, but these kind of slip-ups should only happen once, MAYBE twice. Otherwise, he’s reckless with his seed and you’d be foolish to try and venture down a path of longevity with him. Furthermore, a man with children should NOT have the time to be at your house all day and night, and you should encourage him to be with his babies by any means necessary.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shaulyn9/ shaulyn9

    What? There are only 4 reasons? LOL.

    But I guess those are the only ones you really need huh.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/flashyt112/ flashyt112

    yall aint neva lied bout that.The sad thing is some females still go 4 it!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DCSweetLadi_08/ DCSweetLadi_08

    U guys need to do something about this list cause it is inaccurate!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DCSweetLadi_08/ DCSweetLadi_08

    U guys need to do something about this list cause it is inaccurate!!!! The list of celebrity scrubs isn’t right! fix that! and this list that u gave us to read, its gotta be more than just 4! Any average female who has alot of common sense and has a keen eye for detail, should notice a scrub right away! LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MzChampayne/ MzChampayne

    I can see everyone else BUT Jermain Dupri!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sheri90210/ Sheri90210

    I CAN NAME THE BIGGEST SCRUB IN DALLAS BY WAY OF MILWAUKEE, WISCONSIN….GEORGE JUNIOR REED!!! AKA JUNE!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jeth2001/ Jeth2001

    Jermaine Dupri is far ffrom a scrub who makes these list?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1CARLITO/ 1CARLITO

    How many kids does Ray J have?????????

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/letsmarinate/ letsmarinate

    ok, Jermaine Dupri may look like a scrub but he is far far far from being on…Ole girl who wrote this piece needs to re-group! Also, where the hell is Al-B Sure, Christopher Williams, Daz Dillinger, etc on this list? Those are some BIG Scrubs! I demand a re-write!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mumbles2010/ mumbles2010

    lmfao@sheri calling out scrubs on the internet by way of wisconsin…lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/EFEEZEE/ EFEEZEE

    Scrubs even though most of us wont admit it …….. all of theses cats got more money than us…….. so what are we lol? Dumb azz article lol!!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ya_ladi/ ya_ladi

    JD should not be on this list

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CLAY-D/ CLAY-D

    why they hating on jd,he’s the man

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JayG_21/ JayG_21

    Take JD off the list because he is far from a scrub

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SolDeace/ SolDeace

    Now, let’s talk about scrubettes.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/pretty-cp/ pretty-cp

    LOL, this article is hilarious! To God Be the Glory.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SpydaSense/ SpydaSense

    umm yea JD doesn’t belong on the list someone should be shot.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shyscorpio1/ shyscorpio1

    ok lets assume the economy is doing fine and they are not hiring foriengners for less money and he aint black to top it off. has anybody ever heard off 100% employment? thats a joke whos punchline has never been answered yet! scrubs are lazy but JOBS are missing so now what ladies. i hear the only jobs left are in prison… any takers for cellies?!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CAPRICORNWORLD/ CAPRICORNWORLD

    JD is no Scrub in my book!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexybrown_women/ sexybrown_women

    I had a scrub try and move in wth me once, and the nukka didn’t even ask me just everyday there was a new bag! Him and his shizz got kicked to the curb. Quick fast and in a hurry

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sub-Negro/ Sub-Negro

    Ray J and JD now i’m not a fan of neither one of those cat’s but they are hardly scrubs.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Abeiswritten/ Abeiswritten

    Bobby brown should be listed twice!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/prettyeyez69/ prettyeyez69

    Loving this article, bum azz men come out they mouth about females constantly, and them same ones talking can barley take care of themselves! Women need to understand that we do not need by any means a man to fulfill us!!!!!! Independent and loving EVERY minute of it!!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DMY19151/ DMY19151

    YOU HAVE TO SAY THE SAME ABOUT THE WOMEN TOO…LOL..WHOEVER WROTE THAT IS PROBALY A SCRUB OR GAY….IT IS WHAT IT IS OUT HERE…NO ONE IS BETTER THAN THE OTHER NO MATTER WHAT…I DRIVE A 10 LEXUS AND LIVE IN A 300,000.00 HOUSE AND WOULD’NT SAY THAT ABOUT NO WOMAN, EVEN IF ALL SHE HAS IS A PRETTY FACE,BIG BUTT AND GOOD HEAD GAME……LOL….YOU JUST EDUCATE FOLKS TO GET A LIFE…BECAUSE ALOT OF PEOPLE THT HAVE EVERYTHING ARE’NT HAPPY WITH THEIRSELVES….KEEP IT REAL, YOU FAKE, CORNY ASS NIGGA

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LaShortyz/ LaShortyz

    Ok just because a man has a job doesn’t meet he is not a scrub. In MY book, I don’t care if a man works at Mcdonald’s or at Wal-Mart’s corporate office whether he has an old honda or a shiny new mercedes as long as his bills are paid, takes care of his children it’s a good man. In the same respect this man can have a good job but still use you for what you got because you have it together better LADIES. So I guess my point is, look at the individual and how he treats you.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Bklynbadbwoy/ Bklynbadbwoy

    2. He has no means of transportation.

    great way to telling if a man is a scrub. i guess about 80% of men in new york city are scrubs then.. hmmm

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msbuttercup_24/ msbuttercup_24

    why is jd on the list?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kennyd4/ kennyd4

    mr. reynolds and mr.plummer were found to be gay not srubs,that has more to do with the type of men these backwards ass sistas choose as mates.like most black women they seem to choose men who they thought were something other than what they were.any f**kin fool couldve looked at plummer an reynolds and seen that these nut balls were gettin over on their dumb fat black asses,and im glad they did.ms. waiting to exhale with her male hating tired ass needed a gay nigga to bring her sorry ass down to earth.seeing though most black females go on pretty boy im living with my momma bulls**t b4 ever thinking that if a nigga is out and about most if not all day or nite and u havent found out where this muthafuka works or lays his head then u the dumb f**k clown ass b***h,not him.them two gay niggas that pulled a slick ass game on them stupid a*****es(ONES A HEAVY WRITER AND ONES A TOP NOTCH LAWYER FROM NY)and these two fools couldnt tell bulls**t when they see it,then what the f**k does that say about their fat dumb asses,plzniggas lawyers spit bulls**t allday.most if not all black females should be glad they got some dick at the house cause its apparent most will die alone and fat.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/stupidfatandugly/ stupidfatandugly

    to answer msbuttercup_24
    question. they just felt there wasn’t enough fiveheads in the gallery

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nate03/ nate03

    Another double standard, what is the name for ladies that are the same way???

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shadsbaby07/ shadsbaby07

    OK SO MICHAEL MISICK??? HE RULES HIS OWN COUNTRY!!!WTF…AND JERMAINE DUPREE???? HE’S STILL MAKIN MILLIONS PRODUCING HIT AFTER HIT!!! HE MIGHT BE UNATTRACTIVE BUT DEFINITELY NOT A SCRUB!!! U PEOPLE NEED TO DO MORE RESEARCH THEN THIS!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DA_GEORGETOWN_MAYOR/ DA_GEORGETOWN_MAYOR

    WELL DAMN, IMA SCRUB! WHATEVA! I WASNT TRYIN TO HALLA AT YOU ANYWAYS BABI!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/GirlCreamOnMyBallz5x/ GirlCreamOnMyBallz5x

    jermain dupree’s freakin’ rich why he up there in the scrubb category!!! now whoever put him up there dont know bout his hits!!! dude was rich before Janet!!! Bobby Brown wasn’t a scrubb but doing drugs turned into one he still can’t be in that category of scrubb because the heroine thinkin for him! he’s sick! there’s men doing just the opposite of what them scrubb indicators say and women still dont respect that! there are women that simply want more than a regular standard of living and a lot of women want the glamorous lifestyle soo being a regular hard working man taking care of business just isn’t enough for most women out here!!! but the irony of it is! those women that want this and that tend to end up with the worse men!!! LOL I laugh at that

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DA_GEORGETOWN_MAYOR/ DA_GEORGETOWN_MAYOR

    HOLD UP! YALL GONE RAISE UP OFF K-FED, I VOUCH FOR THAT NIGGA!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/doubledragon01/ doubledragon01

    In reality, everybody is dependent on something, Especially your income to keep a roof over your head. My view about the catch phrase “Independent” is just another way of saying, “I’m better than you.” If the “Independent” loses their income tomorrow that we’re all depending on, I guess that entitles me to label you a scrub…These articles are a total bag of ass!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Macthaknife615/ Macthaknife615

    Yo Nate, The name for female scrubs are gold diggers or pigeons.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DA_GEORGETOWN_MAYOR/ DA_GEORGETOWN_MAYOR

    WHOA! THAT CHICK AL RAYNOLDS IS WIT LOOKS LIKE HOT SHYT AT A WINTER PARADE!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DA_GEORGETOWN_MAYOR/ DA_GEORGETOWN_MAYOR

    ITS OK, INA LIL BIT ERRBODY GONNA BE UNEMPLOYED, SO NON-SCRUBS, DONT GET COMFY!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Blue_AKA_LisaJsawoo/ Blue_AKA_LisaJsawoo

    Scrubs? from what I understand these guys are not broke, they may not have as much bank as their female counterparts, but they still have money, I thought scrubs were broke.

    K-Fed is a damn pimp. I can’t even hate on him, he turned poor Britney out, that poor girl went nuts after him. And Bobby? don’t get me started on how he turned Whitney out, and didn’t Ray J hit too?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/deucee/ deucee

    MAN I BET THEY WONT MAKE A PASSAGE ABT GOLD DIGGING W***ES THAS OUT THERE WTF, BP YOU DISGUST ME..THIS IS WHY I BE ON FB OR MYSPACE MORE! JERMAINE DUPRI IS A SCRUB? ARE U F**KIN SERIOUS? IF U KNOW ABT MUSIC YOU WUDNT EVEN PUT HIM IN THERE….IM DISAPPOINTED WHOEVER OWNS BP IS F**KIN RETARDED

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/deucee/ deucee

    HELLO BEAUTIFUL BLACK PLANET F**K YALL AND THE B***HES THAT WORK WITCHALL LMAO B***HHHHHHH….LMAO IM PISSED I HOPE THIS RECESSION HYT CHALL ASSES PPL DONT EVEN BE ON THIS S**T NOMORE LMAO SCRUBS!!!!!!!!! LMAO

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/NoOtherChick/ NoOtherChick

    1. just because a man has no job doesnt make him a scrub, with the economy we know its hard for people to hold a job down right now. But if he aint never worked or held down a real job that should be a sign..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/upstart_22/ upstart_22

    The car thing is bull. I live in the city and having a car is only an added expense that isn’t necessary. They have cabs and public transportation to get you around. Oh, and hacks. Yeah, hacks.

    And with the recession, being unemployed does not always mean you’re a scrub: just unlucky.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/deucee/ deucee

    DEBORAH BENNETT GOT PAID FOR THIS ARTICLE? MOST LIKELY I BET U SUCKED UR BOSSES DICK TO GET IN THIS POSITION LMAO LOLOL….IM ON YO BACKB***H PUBLISHING THIS S**T..IF UR A AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMAN UR PATHETIC GETCHUR MOUF OFF BUSHES DICK AND START SUCKIN OBAMAS LMAO. AND IF UR CAUCASIAN THEN HEY> UA RACIST B***H LMAO

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/NoOtherChick/ NoOtherChick

    1. just because a man has no job doesnt make him a scrub, with the economy we know its hard for people to hold a job down right now. But if he aint never worked or held down a real job that should be a sign..
    2.If he doest have a car doesnt mean that he is a scrub, if he lives in a big city where they tend to be more of a nucence than a convience, but if not you need some wheels period..
    3.I totally agree with, there is nothing sexy about a grown man living at home, that is unless he is taking care of a sick relative.If he is homeless and staying from place to place- thats just not a good look period
    4. WTF who wants to be baby momma or girlfriend number anything

    the list… is just wrong!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MonsterSlanga/ MonsterSlanga

    the car thing is bogus i dont have a car and i been with my lady for almost 10 months now and she doesn’t hold that fault against me at all not all sistas are that shallow cuz mines sure isnt

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/capnlongstroker/ capnlongstroker

    Deborah so i guess you’re the opposite of that “scrub” because you have those material things lol? news flash, thats all in your head,,,,,

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SimplyShayla/ SimplyShayla

    Okay, i don’t get why these men were chosen as celebrity scrubs when they don’t have anything to do with the info written about scrubs. It is to my understanding that scrubs are hopelessly irresponsible and opportunistic men. Why would anyone want to be in a relationship with someone who can’t (or won’t) take care of themselves (male or female). Life is stressful enough without choosing to take on someone elses bulls**t. Hard times don’t make a scrub, lack of self respect, self discipline and pride does.
    Fellas are always talking about how ladies shouldn’t be offended when they speak about b***hes & hoes unless the shoe fits. Yah’ll need to relax and take the same advice.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BlkSista-n-Colo/ BlkSista-n-Colo

    Oh these lame azz comments! If he does not have a job, he is a scrub! No car, he is a scrub! (unless he lives in the city). Too many kids, with different baby mommas, he is a scrub! I agree with this article all the way! Wake the hell up. Don’t no body want no sorry azz man!! You are the company you keep! Woman should have higher standards then to just settle for any old thing!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/unanamis86/ unanamis86

    No car!!! thats wack this article was written by a gold diggin car booty lol u cant just by the cheap old used car no more because of the effects of the auto industry 2 its hard to get a car nowadays because of how these banks are messing people credit up thats not rite is it my fault I dont have a car hell no I work hard at my job as a receptionist does that make me a scrub 2 if im not making a certain amount of money? come into the urban community and ask questions because your article is one sidied meaning the upper class.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    Look at how brainwashed black women are. That’s why they are the least likely to be married statistically. A brother may be a scrub to you money hungry monkeys, but to real woman of any race he may be a sophisticated, loving companion. I loose more respect for black women daily just seeing how they think and behave. Think I’ll find me a snow bunny with some moral fortitude and the ability to express herself in english. lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BlkSista-n-Colo/ BlkSista-n-Colo

    Bingo! A white bytch will take care of a low life scrub! They don’t care what they have in their beds as long as its a black dyck!! Whatever!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    And they have multi-millionaire Jermaine Dupri as a SCRUB? WTF? You hoes and hoodrats just go find a white dude who is a banker or something to call you a n****r during sex. Women need to grow the hell up. BTW maturity cannot be defined by monetary assets otherwise the entire black race is immature on average. So much for the “black community” and empowering the youth. The b!tches just teach their daughters to f*ck whoever has the most money. You disgust me.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chictatious1/ chictatious1

    PEOPLE shouldnt be looking for companionship if you do not have it together. STOP looking for love or someone to feel that VOID of loneliness and START being focused on what MATTERS. PEOPLE come and go, just how the WEATHER forecast FLOW. PRIORITIZE and everything else comes LAST!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/corporate_thug_chi/ corporate_thug_chi

    If men held women to the same high standards they hold us to—- men like me would be SINGLE. well- i am single…..so there u have it…..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chictatious1/ chictatious1

    “therealest2004″ its clear you know nothing about being black and yet you are trying to degrade the black community as a whole like you are Christ and know or seen all. all black people are not the same, therefore the next time you want to generalize a community, read books, meet a variety of black people or stay off my site! im educated and my family nor do many black families teach their children such ignorance…maybe in the ghetto, but in the ghetto there are all types of people even “your” kind so show some respect!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    As a matter of fact there are equal rights so men shouldn’t buy anything for a woman who has a functioning mind and body, ie the ability to provide for herself. Chivalry is dead like hip hop, feminist killed it. Live like a man, live by the same rules you apply to men you hypocrits!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MzJuicey85/ MzJuicey85

    since when did JD become a scrub…..last time i checked JD was making his own money……when BP or whoever comes up with this stuff they need to bring in the facts and the real ppl that need to be on the list……..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexyReDDnyc/ sexyReDDnyc

    i do wonder why JD is on there… What is the reasoning behind that?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/No_Time_4_it/ No_Time_4_it

    lmao….this is why most of us black women end up lonely. because if a Black man aint makin as much as a Black woman they wanna put that black man down…for real stop that shyt as long as a man ambitious. intelligent and can love u all that other shyt aint post to matter. there more to life than just money…..Money aint suppose to make u come…..thats why why most black women end up angry & lonely & and hatin the world…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    chicksatan it’s obvious you were offend because my statement applied to you and your brainwashed wanna be republican family. How about you make me stop coming to your site? Last time I checked some asian dude owns this domain. And you exposed your ignorance by implying that I live in the ghetto. Try again monkey. People like you make the nazis so proud of thmselves. Defending everything that makes the non-existant “black community” so horrible. And if your family is so rich why don’t they fix that deformity which makes your front teeth longer than all the other ones in that death trap you call your mouth? lol@YOU

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/neka0708/ neka0708

    OK NOW SOME OF THE MEN ON HERE WERE RICH BEFORE THE WOMAN SO I DONT KNOW WHY THEY PUT THEM AS SCRUBS SUCH AS JERMAINE DUPRI. ON the real, if folks just had their stuff right mena and woman this would not be a issue. A sistah should be able to take care of her self with or without a man and a man should be able to do the same.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chictatious1/ chictatious1

    i was not raised to rely on no one and never have. i take care of myself solely, nor am i a gold digger. ive earned everything i own, b/c i worked for it rightfully and my expectations apply to myself as well as my man. my man loves me b/c he knows i am a woman and a educated black women that brings in results rather than excuses.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IWalkAlone247/ IWalkAlone247

    @the_realest2004

    I fully agree with the part saying these dumb ass broads TRAIN their daughters to go out and bend over for whoever has the most money. That’s not empowering the youth….that’s making dumb f**ks out of them….not to mention future Rihanna’s.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    Scarce ass ponytail. lol

    WOW

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/goldmember7776/ goldmember7776

    WOW HOW IS A MAN (MICHAEL MISICK)THAT BASICALLY OWNS HIS OWN ISLAND A SCRUB? AND HOW IS A MAN THAT MADE MILLIONS OWNING HIS OWN RECORD LABEL (JERMAINE DUPRI) A SCRUB? I CAN TELL A BITTER WOMAN WHO HAS NEVER HAD MUCH OF A MAN WROTE THIS ARTICLE.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Hitwoman/ Hitwoman

    Direct quote from
    the_realest2004
    5-6-2009 9:15 pm

    “Look at how brainwashed black women are. That’s why they are the least likely to be married statistically. A brother may be a scrub to you money hungry monkeys, but to real woman of any race he may be a sophisticated, loving companion. I loose more respect for black women daily just seeing how they think and behave. Think I’ll find me a snow bunny with some moral fortitude and the ability to express herself in english. lol”

    Firstly, let me address your statement that black women are brainwashed. The only brainwashing that we have undergone is the kind whereby we have allowed low-life men (like you) into our lives to rob us of our time, money, and resources. A grown man with direction and purpose in his life is suppose to have certain things for himself. It’s a part of being an responsible ADULT. Any woman who accepts some fly-by night nigga with no money, no job, no car, a handful of kids he can’t or won’t support, is selling herself short or should be kicked in the head. However, because we are so used to having the bar raised so low, black women accept men like this–taking on charity cases, as it were–or, as I call it, we like to “Build-A-Man”.

    However, it’s nig*as like you who think that we are a bunch of “money hungry monkeys [sic]“because we want what women from other cultures get–men who are financially solvent and who are good providers.

    Secondly, TheRealest__2004, your preference over a “white snow bunny” shows your own insecurities as a man. Any person who makes a point to NOT date within his race is obviously doing so because he can’t measure up. Guess what though? While you may find a white “snow bunny” that will tolerate your laggard ways, there are even more who will not.

    Also, it’s a hypocrasy and quite laughable that you implied that black women don’t know how to speak english; in your text, I noted several grammatical and spelling errors:

    1. “I loose respect…” It’s spelled l-o-s-e.
    2. “Monkeys”. In the plural, it’s spelled m-o-n-k-i-e-s (if you are going to call us primates, get it right, you dumb as*)
    3. “Think I’ll find me a snowbunny”. Fragment sentence with the wrong reflective pronoun. The sentence should read, “I think I’ll find myself a snowbunny.”

    Just a bit of advice: before you preach about finding someone who can speak english, learn the language yourself. You dumb, no car, no job, broke azz MF.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chictatious1/ chictatious1

    therealest2004, i never implied that you lived in the ghetto, but its clear that you are admitting to it. the ignorance you exude is clear why you are there and im not. im not Jesus and cannot make paths for others, but i can lead my own. i wasnt offended by your statements b/c your comments flatter your stupidity. i just didnt like how contrary you are…lol. kudos to the moran that creates a bp account just b/c she or he doesnt have a life or clearly ashamed or unhappy. it amazes me how many people like you are so hateful and jealous. good luck to your future, take care!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kaandiie/ kaandiie

    its funny how you niggas on here are hating on this article..stop being too f**king defensive if this s**t aint got to do with you unless you your self is a scrub n dats why u attacking…if this article was on women gold-digging y’all would have heaven n earth say how horrible females are but when y’all got put in the spotlight knowing that s**t is 100 truth all hell broke out..i know hows to spot a scrub i don’t settle for low life niggas nor do i take interest on anyone’s money..everyone should keep what they worked hard for..no need to waste in on a girlfriend nor a boyfriend..I’M 20YR OLD UNIVERSITY GRADUATE going for ma masters…i see niggas come chasing me but neither of em can fool me.
    MALE GOLD-DIG FAR MORE THAN FEMALES DO!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CocoaCute/ CocoaCute

    where;s the rest of the signs?? 4 is good, but there’s gotta be more on the list. on a side note…wtf @ the last pic with jermaine dupri. 5 head alert…good gawd!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    More ignorance from s**twoman I see. To come to the conclusion that I am somehow broke because I am openly opinionated is a leap in logic I can’t understand, must some angry black woman thing. For your information I have never dated outside my own race but it get more appealing everyday seeing how little effort your mothers put into instilling morals and values into your flawed world view. Black people get all worked up and go into attack mode every time the truth gets told. This is why the same tricks are being used on us that began during the reconstruction period after slavery. Making assumptions as to my level of education and income outs you as being very upset by my comments as you have no clue about the life I lead nor my finances. Good luck getting married!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Hitwoman/ Hitwoman

    TheRealest(stupid nigga),

    What you have written speaks volumes about your own ignorance. It’s men like you that should never be allowed out of their cages. And yes–I take offense to black women being called a monkey. What does that make your mother?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    As for the grammar lesson, spare me. My vocabulary and grammar are leaps and bounds beyond anything you can comprehend. Grade me on syntax sure, but my content is exemplary. Last time I checked this site isn’t exactly a haven for literary masterminds. Da fac dat I aint typin lyke dis shud be gud enuff fa yu but i ges it aint so whudchu wan me ta do? lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/zromike1/ zromike1

    its funny how people judge people on wat they dont have..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    Being that my mother is not a gold-digging welfare queen like yours and she taught me that money is not the most important thing in life, I guess that would make my mother an honorable black woman to say the least. From your world view I would assume yours is an active crack w***e perhaps?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IWalkAlone247/ IWalkAlone247

    @Hitwoman

    Okay, what YOU said speaks volumes about YOUR ignorance….

    You people kill me how you try to soapbox s**t and end up sounding just as stupid as the person you’re trying to ride down on…

    You sit there and call someone a “stupid nigga”, and you have the BALLS to call someone ignorant? You just put YOURSELF in the “monkey” category with that little dumb ass oxymoronic comment you left…and the saddest part is, you more than likely don’t even realize it…

    And that’s right I said monkey. ANYBODY who uses that word is a f**king monkey….so don’t point fingers when it’s YOU doing dumb s**t….

    Monkey…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    Bottom line is this:

    The whole concept that men should be judged by the content of their wallet and not their character is a ploy to degrade the spiritual unity that should exist between men and women. If that standard (money means everything) were rigidly applied it would mean that no woman of any race should seek a companion of any race other than white, semetic (jewish, though it’s not really a race), or arabic as these are the wealthiest people in the world. Once you look at it from this point of view you will realize the fallacy of your world view.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Hitwoman/ Hitwoman

    I agree with some of what the author wrote in this article, but I think the idea is to be aware of red flags. Having said that, I think you have to judge the situation as it happens. For instance, with these tough economic times, a lot of people are getting laid off. If I met a man who was not working, I’d not only ask him what happened, but I would ask him about his overall job history, which can say a lot more about his work ethic and ability to hold down a job and whether he’s career driven. Therefore, I would not exclude a man right away; but if he kept evading the question, was vague or revealed to me that he had spotty work history, I’d run the other way. It’s about what a man can do for himself and if he can provide for his potential partner (whomever that may be).

    HOwever, I don’t know why this article has photos of some of these men in it: Jermaine Dupri, Al Reynolds, Bobbie Brown, and quite a few others should not be listed as scrubs. They were successful in their own right before they even met these women. Now K-Fed…that’s a scrub!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chictatious1/ chictatious1

    my beautiful educated black women dont waste your time on scrub responses. we are doing our thing and they envy us for being the best! i enjoy dating out my race and prefer to. although currently i do have a black man and he is truely one of a kind. i havent had problems with keeping, getting nor maintaining a man. ive been offered a lot, but i am not about to flatter myself b/c i have nothing to prove and its b/c im happy. black women stay STRONG, EDUCATED AND BEAUTIFUL. leave your SCRUBS where they are FOUND. sometimes you MAY have to DATE out your race to find a GOOD INDEPENDANT MAN. im just fortunate that i FOUND one within my RACE. i was finished with BLACK MAN. not b/c i am ANGRY, b/c im not. ALL KINDS OF MEN LIKE ME AND WANT ME. ive never been ATTRACTED to a black man personally until i MET my guy. MAINLY b/c of personality DIFFERENCES and b/c I HAVENT MET AN INTELLECTUAL blk man until i met MY MAN. IM SURPRISED AND BLESSED. he KNOWS HOW I FEEL AND UNDERSTANDS. thats WHY he is mine lol…sorry im venting, but i started DAY DREAMING…EXCUSE ME TAKE CARE LOL!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kaandiie/ kaandiie

    the_realest2004
    hey dude it is not that serious…if you really is not the low life niggas you are portraying your self ass then there is no need of attacking anyone who has something to write on whatever you mentioned..

    it always amazes me to find how much hate have and show to people of our same race.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sunshyne_defined/ Sunshyne_defined

    You people kill me. [black]Men co-sign when they call women gold-diggers/h@’s, and the like, yet get mad and defensive when they’re card is pulled. [black]Women are quick to generalize when the article downs men, but would get loud and abrasive when they’re treated the same way. Black society is damn near doomed. I say, go to another race, I mean, we’re making ourselves obsolete as it is, might as well finish out the process and do away with “black” people. Disappointing. SMDH

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Hitwoman/ Hitwoman

    I walk alone,

    I was being ironic and sarcastic. You should know what that means, seeing as how you seem to be educating me, right? And I’m so glad that I upset you with the word “nigga”. Now, you know the impact that the word “monkey” has when it’s used in the context “Real” did. Stay out of the argument, sweetie.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Hitwoman/ Hitwoman

    Real,

    As far as grammar is concerned, if you are going to criticize someone or a group of people for having poor language skills, make sure your own skills (written and verbal) are on point.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IWalkAlone247/ IWalkAlone247

    But to respond to the dizzy broad who made thise stupid ass thread….

    #1. What f**king CORNBALL uses the term “scrub” anyway?

    #2. If ANY of you chicks on here respond to this s**t, you’re telling on YOURSELVES….because if you read this s**t and THINK before you type, you’d see that this is nothing more and nothing less than a thread CALLING YOU pathetic gold-diggers.

    Think I’m trying to bulls**t you? Watch this….

    Question #1 – In a nutshell, it’s telling you to stay away from dudes who don’t have jobs/money. If that’s not the tell all be all of gold-diggerism then s**t, I need to pick up a f**king book.

    Question #2 – He has no car. Ummm….don’t gold diggers care MOSTLY and ONLY about money and material crap that mean absolutely NOTHING in relationships…?

    Question #3 – He’s not letting you into what is really going on in his living situation…hmmm…that normally means MIND YOUR F**KING BUSINESS UNTIL HE’S READY TO TELL YOU!!! One of a gold digger’s main issues is that they want every f**king thing when THEY WANT IT.

    Question #4 – THIS IS THE BEST ONE!!!!!!!

    Leave dudes alone who have more than 1 child with more than 1 chick….

    HA!!

    That kills me because CHICKS ARE THE MAIN ONES who have mad kids by different dudes and then DEMAND that a guy not only “likes children”, but also ACCEPT THEIR KIDS (who have absolutely NOTHING to do wth that guy) IF THEY ARE TO ACCEPT HER…this isn’t a gold digger issue…this is one of the MAIN REASONS why guys have no respect for you broads who follow this bulls**t….

    The scary part is, you’re arguing and agreeing with some dumb f**k pathetic ass gold digging pelican who can’t even DRAW a boyfriend, and acting like this is good advice…ugh!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    S**tacious’ comment is the product of the logic I outlined in my last comment. She is the direct result of the brainwashing I spoke of. Yet fr some reason she classifies herself as educated. True education does not mean getting a piece of paper(degree), although that does help you get a bunch of other pieces of paper(money). Memorizing text and repeating it on test day does not make you any wiser nor intellectually superior. I met plenty of people in college who graduated but are as dumb as bricks. S**t-tacious is the prototype!

    By the way white ladies, that was a joke about me getting a snow bunny and all. No need to get excited and hit me up anymore!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IWalkAlone247/ IWalkAlone247

    @hitwoman

    Please…I’m black just like the majority of the people on this thread….the word nigga (which i had to lower my education level just to type) should anger ANYBODY. Only a f**king MORON uses it….so don’t try an save face and talk about sarcasm or anything else…..come on now….try that with someone who studied under a Jay Z CD as their english/grammar professor…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tastypimpette4va/ tastypimpette4va

    Lol @ ya’ll being so upset Apparently the shoe fits someone.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    Bottom line is this:

    The whole concept that men should be judged by the content of their wallet and not their character is a ploy to degrade the spiritual unity that should exist between men and women. If that standard (money means everything) were rigidly applied it would mean that no woman of any race should seek a companion of any race other than white, semetic (jewish, though it’s not really a race), or arabic as these are the wealthiest people in the world. Once you look at it from this point of view you will realize the fallacy of your world view.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IWalkAlone247/ IWalkAlone247

    Okay….I’m just gonna wrap up and destroy this entire bulls**t topic’s logic by saying this…..

    MONEY, JOBS, MATERIAL S**T, OR LIVING SITUATIONS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH WHAT MAKES A MAN, OR HOW HE TREATS YOU!!!!!!!

    How many damn news reports are we gonna see with big time blue/white collar dudes killing their families? Or celebrities beating the s**t out of their girlfriends? You dumb ass chicks STILL, EVEN NOW, refuse to shut your beaks and open your eyes to the FACT that a damn CEO on Wall Street will draw you in with his money and everything, and your dumb asses will sit there and brag to your friends about how he’s “the one”…then about 8 months later, he’s putting your f**king face through a damn wall or knocking you up and then going out to find ANOTHER chick to date….

    Whereas, a guy who in ANY CITY OTHER THAN NEW YORK is living with his parents, has no car, no money, and hasn’t worked in like AGES, will treat you like a freakin QUEEN….but ohhhhhh no….you wanna go after money and everything else under the sun to make YOU look good to your friends and everybody looking at you walking down the street….

    How f**king stupid are you allowing people like this and Steve Harvey make you?

    So basically, all the bulls**t that comes your way from guys, you DESERVE because you bring it on to yourselves…chicks always beg for something, then they get it, and then complain when they end up in ICU….

    F**king morons….

    I have ZERO sympathy for chicks….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/lady_chap/ lady_chap

    I walk alone,
    Your comments are so right…and Im a female! I also found the 4th comment funny about guys having multiple kids with multiple women…lol. I have male and female friends with multiple children with multiple people. This article is just stupid.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    The attitudes of these women are the reason so many young black men destroy their lives trying to “get money” by any means. They are so blind to what their mind state tells their sons and daughters about life and the purpose of it. If you think this way and your son is doing “football numbers”, rest assured it is your fault. You were supposed to equip him with the tools to become a man first and a productive member of society second. In the black community, with this get money mentality, things like charity are frowned upon because they don’t generate any money. In general a lifestyle that only glorifies monetary assets degrades a society immeasurably. Some of you will never understand because the programming runs to deep within you. I wish you the best at figuring out the true meaning of life but I know I can’t help any of you. I may be young but I know more than some of you will at 80, if you don’t get shot by one of your drug dealer, stick up kid sons first. They may not be your sons directly but their mind state was born from one similar to your own making you no less degenerate than the actual criminal nor his parent(s).

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IWalkAlone247/ IWalkAlone247

    @the_realest2004

    You had me right up to the whole thing about saying they might as well get with other races….yes it makes sense, but to be honest, in MY opinion, white people are probably right up there with black people when it comes to training their daughters to look for money first and worry about how they treat you somewhere after how big their shlong is and how many damn Gucci bags you can swindle out of them….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DMY19151/ DMY19151

    YO…THE LAST 2 COMMENTS FROM MEN ARE TRUE….AND WHOEVER WROTE THE TOPIC IS A DYKE AND WANT TO TURN WOMEN AGAINST MEN…LOL…THT S**T DIED AFTER TLC FELL OFF AND LEFT EYE WENT TO HEAVEN….REAL TLK…MEN ACCEPT WOMEN WHO HAVE NOTHING AND TURN THEM INTO STARS….SCRUB THESE NUTS…TO WHOEVER WROTE IT…..AND TO THE 3 RD FEMALE’S COMMENT….EAT A BOZACK…. A REAL WOMAN IS DOWN WITH HER MAN NO MATTER WHAT….A STRONG BLACK WOMAN DOES THT…A STRONG WOMAN PERIOD…BUT THE STRONG BLACK WOMEN ARE THE BEST WHOEVER DONE IT…THE SINGLE MOMS ARE THE TRUTH…..HAPPY MOM’S DAY…EVERYDAY

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IWalkAlone247/ IWalkAlone247

    @lady_chap

    Remind me to throw down rose thingies when you walk…NOT because you agreed with me, but because someone FINALLY not only saw how stupid this thread is….but also because someone FINALLY saw how ridiculously HYPOCRITICAL #4 is….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    BTW black women, I apologize if I offended any of you. I use some words just for shock value. I forces people to become emotionally attached to the topic and I get their true feelings that way. It just spices up the convo and forces people to react emotionally, which allows you to get past their facade and see their true mind. Thanks

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DMY19151/ DMY19151

    THE ASSTNT WINGTIP EDITOR DEBORAH DID’NT SAY THT TLC MADE A HIT WITH THE SCRUB THING…BUT THEY WERE BROKE AFTER THE ALBUM WENT DIAMOND ALMOST OR DID…KARMA IS A MUTHA….STUPID….THE SHOE DOES’NT FIT ME, BUT WE NEED TO LOVE EACH OTHER MORE….DEBORAH MUST BE A DYKE…..LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    @IWalkAlone247

    I didn’t say they should date other races, but that thinking that way would eventually lead them to do so. With the economy the way it is, the unemployment rate amung black males is double the national average. If you are a woman with kids and bills what would that lead you to do? This is what I meant by tht comment

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SoSweetInDeeD/ SoSweetInDeeD

    I’m kind of confused. Why is Jermaine Dupri considered a scrub? Not cute I can see but he got his own thing going on, right?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IWalkAlone247/ IWalkAlone247

    @DMY19151

    Yuo know, I can’t believe I didn’t say that first about guys accept chicks for who they are, what they have (or lack thereof), and no matter WHAT they look like. Just as long as you have a personality that makes us look at yuo and say to ourselve “thats the person I can see myself marrying and having my children”.

    Yes, you see guys out there acting a f**king FOOL for these broads with whatever bodies they SAY they have…but those chicks are good for nothing more than a piece of butt, since damn near ALL of them have stank ass attitudes that make EVERY chick with those bodies we like get avoided because we’re sick of the bulls**t. Guys don’t give a s**t about your money, jobs, or whatever. Hell, I use to see this one guy, had to be about 19 or 20ish coming off the ferry every day arm and arm with his girl who had a physical handicap! I will eternally have nothing but respect for that dude. I mean what does that tell you right there….AND he was a young dude….

    But it’s the dudes who just wanna bone who aren’t trying to settle down that go after the body first and never ONCE try to get into the personality…whereas the other side see the body, but we don’t feed into that bulls**t….but one thing is for sure….ALL GUYS have a rock solid plan on what to do with ALL chicks once you open your damn mouths…

    If you look good and some bulls**t comes out your face, you’re worth nothing more than a piece of butt….

    Whereas no matter HOW you look, if we like what we hear as far as your personality coming out of your face, you will NEVER see a guy jump the ‘lets bone” gun first….they wanna talk a little more…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/teelov28/ teelov28

    i know first hand there is only so much you can help a person down ass chick or not.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    I always get deep into that mind before I get deep into that V. I also used to always keep a few female friends since middle school to talk to. Females love talking and it lets you see how the female mind operates, which you can use to your advantage later with females who are more than friends. But yeah though, as you all can see by the rhetoric in this blog and the gold digger one this money stuff is just another means to divide us. Divide and conquer. Are you still a slave?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IWalkAlone247/ IWalkAlone247

    @the_realest2004

    Ohhhhhhhh….okay…gotcha….my mistake…

    @DMY19151

    I think about all of those shoes fit ME…and I don’t give a s**t what ANY pathetic ass, low self-esteem, insecure broad has to say about it…..

    YES, I’m broke as all s**t…what the hell makes ANY of you think you’re worth my, or ANY guy’s, money to begin with? What have you done to earn it?

    NO, I haven’t had a job in a long time…everybody is going through some hard s**t right now. I dont use the economy as an excuse…being in New york is a big enough hurdle…

    NO i don’t have a car, nor do i WANT one…do I REALLY need to get into detail with THIS ONE?

    NO, I’m not explaining my living situation to just ANYTHING in a skirt…what business is it of YOURS?

    YES, i have 2 babies by two EXTREEEEMELY STUPID broads…big….f**king…deal…you don’t EVER have to worry about me looking for a new mommy for them, nor would i ever bring anybody into MY bulls**t issues…

    All that combined, you won’t EVER find a guy that will treat a chick better than i would…and my ex could vouch for that on her LIFE…

    But you won’t catch MY black ass back in another relationship again. I’m STAYING single…chicks aren’t worth my serious time anymore. That’s about 50% of the reason why my name found ME…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BlkBellaDonna84/ BlkBellaDonna84

    oooookay I was agreeing with EVERYONE in that list until the last picture of Jermaine Dupri! He had Money before gettin wit Janet. Come on now!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IWalkAlone247/ IWalkAlone247

    Talking about dividing….

    This gold-digger s**t is maybe 98% of the reason why chicks are crabs in a bucket NOW….

    Crabs are always jockeying for position in that damn bucket in a fish market. It’s always maybe one or two good, strong crabs who make it to the top of the bowl to get out, but there are always the group of sorry ass crabs that think “I bet that clown thinks they’re better than me” and pulls their asses back down into the bucket. So by the time a guy comes into the store to get a good crab and looks in that bucket…all we see is a bunch of the same damn crawling around…so wehave to reach in and TRY to get lucky and pick the crab tht we HOPE won’t give us the freaking runs….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/IWalkAlone247/ IWalkAlone247

    Anyway, I’m done with this….

    You can all rejoice now that old man WalkAlone is shutting up….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/KHINES32/ KHINES32

    wow! all i have to say is people who want to do something with their lives deserve to set standards, and if we can’t do nothin for each other, we don’t need to be together. Keep it movin! In defense of women, guys are known to be the dominance in the family, in different cultures also, and it should continue to be that way. The only reason why women have become so independant is because alot of us are single-parenting it out here. which is where the problem starts! Fathers, Men is more of what we need. Not boys lookin for someones shoulder to cry on….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CuteReecy/ CuteReecy

    I DO NOT agree with Jermaine Dupree being a scrub. Hell no. And the other two were closet gays, and Star’s closet gay ex is a lawyer so they need to get it str8 fo real. Jermaine is still with MS Jackson wat tha hell. I love reading this but I will stop if the story facts are not str8!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/the_realest2004/ the_realest2004

    Aw man speaking of eating crabs and then having the runs…..I aint gonna get too detailed because it’s nasty yo. One time…..nevermind. But yeah, if there were only a way to get young black people to understand some things about this world. I say young because the older ones are too stuck in their ways by now. Everything we see and hear has an effect on our minds and the people who control this world know this and APPLY it. Why do you think all rap now days is talking about killing and selling crack and how important money is. It is all subliminal in nature and the results can be seen in a hood near YOU! Imagine a world where EVERY woman decided they were not going to have sex with any man unless he was compassionate, articulate, wise, charitable, honest, and educated beyond what is needed to get that job you went to college for. This is what all these companies are fighting against. We black people are too often the easiest to brainwash due to our inferiority complex(even if you deny it you have felt it at least once), so we buy into what ever the programming is just to try and prove we are as good as white people. The only way to strive for perfection is to compete only with yourself. This goes hand and hand with another belief I have about the need to look inside yourself for many things. We all have been programmed to have this “me against the world” mentality which leads us to do so many ridiculous things in life. To live as if no one matters except you and your family (which is how most of us think) just ensures that nothing will ever change and the ones in power remain in power AND make obscene profits off of us!

    Anyone wanting to talk in depth with me about any issue (except nuclear physics and jet propulsion) hit me with a not because this might be my last message.

    One

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Motown_Lovely1/ Motown_Lovely1

    I understand to concept behind this article. We live in a time when people are far more selfish and greedy. Gold-diggers are nothing new. But speaking as a woman who has worked hard to educate myself and has worked even harder for what I have I must say I refuse to date a man who has nothing. I don’t give a damn if he treats me like a queen. The royal treatment doesn’t put food on the table, pay utilities, or the rent. Once you reach a certain age you should have stability in every aspect of your life.Just as I have ambitions for a better life for myself I expect any man I’m with to have those same ambitions. I expect a man to bring to the table as much as I do. if this is to difficult for a man to wrap his head around, then he is a damn scrub.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chictatious1/ chictatious1

    i appreciate you motown;-)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Peninsulachick/ Peninsulachick

    First off, let me just say HUH? To Mr. Iwalkalone247…I’m not entirely sure how your crabs in a bucket metaphor even relates to the article, but hey, tonight is sink or swim at the watering hole in my town, and may well be in yours, and that’s where you were enjoying yet another round of overpriced alcohol when you jumped into the discussion, but I digress; interesting story, but falls a little flat; those tips were pretty good about how to spot a “scrub”, but do the women who read the articles at hello beautiful need this information? I imagine that the reason we (women) read these posts is because we are above average in intellect, and postings of this nature sort of decry that. I mean, we are INTELLIGENT enough to recognize these signs within 10 minutes of initially meeting a man. Thanks for the information, I guess, but I know all this stuff already, as do the women I keep company with, who all happen to be not your average, in appearance or intellect, by the way…Smart, beautiful sisters unite! (lol) nite nite….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/slimdc98/ slimdc98

    How did Micheal Misick a scrub he is the head of his country Lisa Raye the gold digger. Who came up with this list two people K-Fed and dude who looks is on the DL.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JerZzZz/ JerZzZz

    I live in the city and don’t need a car and I’ll be damned if any woman calls me a scrub. Passing up on a potential good guy because he doesn’t drive is exactly what’s wrong with women. Stupid ass logic.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/0VancouverHurts/ 0VancouverHurts

    umm bobby brown ray j and jermaine duprie (head of so so def) are not scrubs! they gettin paid!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JerZzZz/ JerZzZz

    There ain’t one man out there that would pass up a good woman because she doesn’t drive. The difference between men and women.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/YOURNAWTEEGIRL/ YOURNAWTEEGIRL

    I HAVE TO AGREE WITH NUMBER 4 THOUGH IF YOU HAVE 5 DIFFERENT BABY MAMAS YOU HAVE PROBLEMS

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Classy_Handsome/ Classy_Handsome

    Well this is a nice story but these are the type of men black women like LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ShesSuchALovelyLady/ ShesSuchALovelyLady

    LMAO at Ray J! But Bobby??? LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sigil_/ Sigil_

    Dupri? A scrub? I doubt that!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bamabottom08/ bamabottom08

    damn dj. fo real. bobby i can see. n ray j. well damn

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsJagged/ MsJagged

    This has been an interesting discussion and an eye-opener for me. With Real stirring up emotions and iwalk giving us his life story, I have to applaud bith men for standing up and representing the black man. I have been enlightened and further educated on the mind and thoughts of man. Personally, a broke man can’t do anything for me, but I would rather have their genuine love and their fat pockets, cause I can handle mine. I got this.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/different_mentality/ different_mentality

    unfortunatly the 4 things yall named most black men have atleast 1 if not all those going on for them….itsnot that black women like those things its that these days thats all there is to choose from..so many black men are hollering about independant black women but most of them dont have a pot to piss in..they want an independant chick cause they can barely take of themselves or they want the woman to take care of them…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsJagged/ MsJagged

    I would rather have their genuine love than their fat pockets. Sorry for the error.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sweet_hospitality/ sweet_hospitality

    I must be a scrub expert!!! I once dated a man who was 1-4!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yes he was all of thee above, and best believe after all his LIES came out, it was over in 90 days!!!! Nowadays you better do some investigating on a brotha, nothing crazy, just talk to fam, friends, whoever knows him. One of em is bound to slip up and spill some valuable nuggets of knowledge!! In my case, this CLOWN took me to a family reunion because we in his book “were getting serious” and his WHOLE family ratted him out!!! (He thought I was gonna be his suga mama!! NOT!!!) and number 5.) If he’s got charges pending, gotten off b/c of a technicality or he’s be out of jail a couple years… he just might be… A SCRUB!!! lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Last_Revelation/ Last_Revelation

    lmmfao@this… but if you date a dude in ny, 8 times outta 10 (nyc that is) they don’t have a car cause they say what’s the point if they can take the train anywhere to get them around…

    fortunate for me… i have a car either way, lmao

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/thirsty4truth101/ thirsty4truth101

    they left one out! #5- he’s still playing spades with a played out deck of cards.

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    http://www.myspace.com/tripstopnovelties.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ANIVAL2SORTO/ ANIVAL2SORTO

    I have no car and no job at the moment but i am not this ”scrub” person i had girls offer me things but turned them down and if they wanted something i would do anything in my power to get it for them i do not use i think it is wrong and childish :\

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Moto_Corse/ Moto_Corse

    I don’t want your money, just wanna f**k and turn you out. I got money…..that’s the easy part.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/pausitive/ pausitive

    …….playing spades with a played out deck. How bout this..scrubs m and f, follow trends so hard to be cool. Eventually they’ll do something to go with the group that will piss the partner off. Examples are excessive clubbing, spending.etc to name a few. Ppl need to make their own minds up now and make some power moves independently. That’s what recession’s all about. Job or not, u cant knock the hustle if there is one place. Alot of corporate scrubs out there.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/wayne1965/ wayne1965

    I only saw two or may be three in your celebrity scrubs that I would call scrubs I would hardly call jermaine dupri or michael misick and Al Reynolds as scrubs in fact I would call in cases that the scrub in the relationship is the female.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Godz_1st_Gangsta_Son/ Godz_1st_Gangsta_Son

    YOU CAN DEF TELL A WOMEN WROTE THIS LMAO 3 WORDS
    HIP HOP VIXENS

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/deshawzn/ deshawzn

    I think deborah bennett dates scrubs and shes way to critical on all men now. How can we rate success by material possessions?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/glorifiedlady/ glorifiedlady

    Well there is a scrub in both men and women I have to say for the fact that men want us women to respect them and love them but why can’t we get the same from yall? love is supposed to be a two way street. not one way and often time I have witnessed some crazy stuff…. so all i am saying is love is a gamble and you have to play it safe in this life..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsOteliah_71/ MsOteliah_71

    So true…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/voloptuousmami/ voloptuousmami

    I don’t think Jermaine Dupri fits this category either.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/burgstyle82/ burgstyle82

    Number one should have been, “Look in the mirror”.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/german_cutie_13/ german_cutie_13

    this is some bullish a man with no car is a scrub? wow, what has the world come to.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/german_cutie_13/ german_cutie_13

    i have no car guess im a golddigga then

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/trytruluv/ trytruluv

    Jermaine Dupree,I don’t think so! He might not be constantly in the light,but he’s not hardly broke.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/trytruluv/ trytruluv

    Some women end up with scrubs because that’s what they want,Terry McMillan for example,I don’t believe she was as blind as she wants everyone to think. In my eyes it would be hard for him to hide his feminine ways. I think she thought she could control him with her money and fame,she did not have to marry him.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SUTRA913/ SUTRA913

    i believe if a man has no job history not if he has a job at the moment would be a scrub,we know how the economy is going at this time. if he lives with his moms at 25 that would raise a flag unless he is in school then that’s a different story. the car situation doesn’t count if you live in the city. now the multiple baby mothers would raise a flag if you don’t notice him taking care of his children,plus mothers have multiple baby father also; how would you view that situation? reading these comments definitely separates the girls from the women. men read carefully and notice the difference that’s all i have to say.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/misspriss9008/ misspriss9008

    yea i agree with sutra913. it all depends on the situation. but i also think it has to do with age.
    if you are over 30 living with ur parents or an ex gf, have no job AND no skills, etc…thats a problem
    but if youre in your 20s and still in school, i think its ok to still be at home without a paying job…i rather be with someone who is interning trying to get somewhere in his field than be with someone working at mickey ds just to maintain some lifestyle.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SlimWriter/ SlimWriter

    What if you got everything and dont need a car…?? Lol..scrub status while gettin a law degree?? Word?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/stillbelievnmiracles/ stillbelievnmiracles

    This has probably already been said, but not having a car is relevant to location…i.e. if in NYC…having a car is not practical, if in the middle of the outback, a jeep or a mule would be more appropriate.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SUTRA913/ SUTRA913

    thank you misspriss. it seems like you have a good head on your shoulders. slimwriter if your pursuing law that’s real good we need more brothers on the other side of the law and not abuse it, blessings on your endeavors.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/--KATIE--ANN/ –KATIE–ANN

    Im just wondering why Jermaine Dupri is a scrub? lol this is crazy…..I agree with the rest of them ….Damn Jermaine Dupri is a scrub ….Just like how you guys put Tupac in that over-rated rapper crap…Where is the women scrubs them? Only men on there….Sexist!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/macediggidy/ macediggidy

    I believe that scrubs should extend to the women as well or for that fact both sexes. We talk about a lot of Kats with no jobs, no money, living with their parents etc. But lets take a look at the women and the men and examine them as scrubs (to those who apply) There are scrubs with cars money among a few other things like having 30 kids by different women, being in your late 20s and dating teenager, or have the money, the car and their own place, but sleeping with men and then women and bringing home diseases to me those are scrubs and for the women how about no Job but they want a man with a job and securities, or the golddigger who either a) uses men have babies and collect child support and play the system while the baby need diapers, formulas, clothes and health care, she maintains her hair drives a decent car and get her nails done, or b) the golddigger with no job no kids lives at home with mom and wears the bling from other men and praises the quote I dont f**** with no Broke N*****. Scrubs comes in many shapes, form nationality and sexes. I know Kats that have millions but dont drive do lots of charity work etc. and I know good Kats who stay at home with their parents because they have to take care of them instead of putting them in a nursing home or a hospice. To me and I could be wrong I believe a scrub is a person who is unable to assess their own life that defines content and character that is dynamic in others lives in a positive way. Scrubs are the people who brings the image down of what a real man or woman is suppose to be

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Supastar76/ Supastar76

    How Does Jermaine Dupri, Ray J, and Michael Misick fit into the celebrity scrub category???

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/hipswang/ hipswang

    #1 is judgemental – I don’t agree w/that statement especially in the current economy. So, bottom line, if he doesn’t have material stuff he is a scrub – so ALL the amish are scrubs, huh? lol! AND, if u fall on hard times, ur a scrub? Wait! Hold on, I’m writing this down… I only agree somewhat w/#4 but really if he’s taking care of all the kids then that wouldn’t be a scrub either, that’d b a big-azz family.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BIGBABY_22_2005/ BIGBABY_22_2005

    OH hold on Ray J is not a scrub everyone else maybe but not Ray J

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/FreekyJ08/ FreekyJ08

    yow thats f**king crazy yow too see Al reynolds on that s**t…that’s a professor of mines at my university lol….my homeboyz gone die of laughter is they see this s**t

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dre1971/ dre1971

    michael misick,and jermaine dupri are not scrub. Misick was running the caribbean and Dupri one of the biggest music producer and executive in the business. Maybe Lisa Raye is a GOLD DIGGER

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kronique_smok/ kronique_smok

    Why would Ray-J not be one? Everything he ever had is because of his sister Brandy’s success. A sex tape does not make you a celebrity.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TEEDIAMOND85/ TEEDIAMOND85

    I AGREE WITH BIGBABY RAY J IS NOT A SCRUB HEZ ON THE MOVE,LOL, HE’S ” GETTIN ” HIS OWN GIVE HIM A CHANCE=) HE JUST LIKE TO FUQ,LMAO

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Bizzydacapo84/ Bizzydacapo84

    the headline for the picture should be “How can you tell if you man is a Fag”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JerzeeLicious/ JerzeeLicious

    Jermaine is a Troll but he is not a Scrub at all .. An Ray J!!! Hell No .. Who even put him up here?? Take him off that list..The rest of them might be and Bobby Brown is a Super Scrub!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/loubaby4eva/ loubaby4eva

    i agreed all the way till i saw ray j on there he is far from a scrub who is he living off of beside himself?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Mrslicktalk10/ Mrslicktalk10

    Its hard on a scrub it seems I had less problems when I slung drugs;Quote from the late great 2pac..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jus-2_chill/ jus-2_chill

    in all actuality, all these reasons they posted relating to men being scrubs are false and a bogus opinion. this one time i was gainfully employed, independent, self sufficient and the whole 10 yards. i made a wrong turn in my professional life because i ventured into my own business, and it landed me back at square one. i was trying too hard to be successful and it killed me. fellas, listen to me. stop letting these women trick you into believing you have to live up to their bulls**t standards. most of the time they will not allow themselves to be satisfied no matter what you do for them or what your status is. whatever your status is, you need to capitalize on building your self up for yourself. you are not a slave to these women. they have absolutely no clue as to what it is really like to be a man, and they never have and they never will. they dont even know how to be and enjoy being real women because they are too busy trying to deceive, enslave, destroy, and judge men. thats where all this independent, diva s**t comes from. they use the age old tactic of kicking somebody else in the head to make themselves feel superior. the truth is fellas, YOUR the giver. women should actually be trying to prove their worthiness to receive from YOU. but the problem with most of us men is that too many of us are distracted from our duties to our own self growth, because we see women with our eyes instead of our minds. if you cannot dissapline your self against seeing women with your eyes, all your going to see is tits and ass ( the fleeting source of their munipulative power). but once you train your mind to see women, youll start to ask yourself things like,” what can she do for me and how can she fit into the plans i have for my life?” then you might find yourself thinking, ” well she fine and all that but this woman really aint hittin on s**t.” all im saying to you fellas is learn what your energy can attract to you and use it. you have the same if not more power and options as any womans ass out here. peace.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jus-2_chill/ jus-2_chill

    oh yeah. something to think about. fellas, remember all those articles about deelishis and amber rose, and all those, “are black women being exploited type of articles?’ well these women are SCRUBS! they have to use the mans eyes to grow financially. strippers and exotic dancers (same s**t) video girls etc. ALL SRUBS. Models don’t fall into that category in definition because they are suppose to be selling clothes. but be careful because there is a thin line between selling clothes that stay on and clothes that are designed to come off.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/hiazfuc1/ hiazfuc1

    MOTHERF**KERS JUS WANT SOMETHING 2 TALK ABOUT.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SuzyQ38/ SuzyQ38

    JerzeeLicious – I’m so glad I’m not the only one who thinks JD is a troll!! LOL!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AleashiaWilliams/ AleashiaWilliams

    Now first thing is first a woman as well as a man can be a srub . Now if you don’t wont anything out of life but to live off others, and wait for someone to take care of you. You are a srub. If you do not wont to be independent and self motived and you wait for some one to give you purpose you need some help. Each person should wont to be with someone who wonts something out of life and will and ready to do the foot work to get what they wont. A Srub is a CHILD not a man or woman. A person who is not adult.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JS8420/ JS8420

    Star head big as hell

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/UndaCovaLuver/ UndaCovaLuver

    One question, being a scrub is a fact or an opinion? To me i think it’s opinion. Don’t get me i do agree them 4 steps but know the situation when before u start judging a man.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Gr8tgARY3271/ Gr8tgARY3271

    This article reflectes the antiman mentality that society is breeding into our current generation of women within the society. There are some Lazy Men, NO DOUBT, however, living in the Real World life circ**stances affect both Men and Women and Especially Black Men And Women harder than anything else. Our Women should not settle for any man without purpose, but every man which is working for a purpose will not be Rich or have a SuperStatus when you comes your way all the time, we are living in the Real World where Black People have to deal with a Institutional System which will always keep so back while others will succeed no mattwer what a Positive, and Morally Grounded Man or Woman does.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Vertigo2001/ Vertigo2001

    Okay, now some of thes things are true, about a scrub BUT we also have to realize this applies both ways. Women are as bad as men.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/aledra14/ aledra14

    HOLD UP JERMAINE DUPRI IS NOT A SCRUB HELL THE MAN HAS MILLIONS AND A REAL JOB HE AINT NO SCRUB BUT THOSE RULES ARE ON POINT THOUGH BUT LADIES DONT JUDGE A BOOK BY THE COVER INVESTIGATE THE PROTENTIAL MAN TO BE AND KNOW WHO YOU MESSING WITH

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dajbaby0306/ dajbaby0306

    jermaine dupri and ray j both get money…. how they scrubz lol…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dajbaby0306/ dajbaby0306

    jermaine dupri make more than janet right now…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/brownsuga923/ brownsuga923

    Everyone and I mean everyone at one point in their life did not have total direction on how their future would be..I feel that everyone has had a “scrub moment” at least once in their life..we haven’t always had a car or a job…Sometimes you have to go through these situations in order to get where you’re going….(that’s for those who had to find their way)…as for the lazy do nothings that could have control over their destiny but, choose to be lazy and live off other people..that’s a horse of a different color!…Both men and women should put forth the effort to make a better life for their family and themselves..No one should rely on their looks or their up and down stroke to persuade anyone to take care them..Be a man!..Be a woman and step up to the plate…Make things happen on your own!! …..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/danieldeamor/ danieldeamor

    yeah women are also bad as men cos there are many shrubs and the fact must be admit

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/UnDaCovaHustla/ UnDaCovaHustla

    Ray-J and JD dont deserve to be on there.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/danieldeamor/ danieldeamor

    how can he be a shrub after he gets all what he wants

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DHall61/ DHall61

    co-sign with u on that!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/radamaja/ radamaja

    yo ray j got a tv show and jd is a hip hop producer wit a company that makes hit ? how they scrubs dats nonsense Ray jay album dnt go plat but he got airplay with his music the rest are resonable but those two seem like ya out right hatin

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Flyshortie/ Flyshortie

    Ray J a HOE not a scrub people……..Evey week he tying to get it it with some new chick……….for the love of Ray J my butt……

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JEROCAFELLA/ JEROCAFELLA

    i second that danieldeamor watch out for them fellas they worst than gold diggers

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DITTTY2004/ DITTTY2004

    YO THIS IS A BULLS**T LIST PERIOD WHO WRITES THIS TRASH, AND WHY WOULD RAY J OR JD BE SCRUBS,

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nanapeppa/ nanapeppa

    /:)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mrtonguelasher/ mrtonguelasher

    WELL LET ME GET THIS RIGHT. ARE U SAYING IN RULE NUMBER 1 THAT IF A GUY HAS A FELONY HE CANT BE WORKING? BECAUSE IT KINDA SOUNDS LIKE THAT WELL IM HERE TO TELL U THATS NOT TRUE BECAUSE I HAVE 2 FELONIES ON MY RECORD AND I HAVE 2 JOBS 1 AS A MEDICAL BILLER THE OTHER AS A WEB DESIGNER AND I MAKE PRETTY DAMN GOOD MONEY AND BY NO MEANS HAVE I EVER BEEN A SCRUB I DONT NEED WOMEN FOR ANYTHING OTHER THAN SOME COUCHIE ANYTHING ELSE I CAN GET ON MY OWN. NOW MAYBE IM WRONG OR MISUNDERSTOOD WHAT U WAS TRYIN TO SAY BUT IF U ARE SAYING WHAT I THINK U SAID THEN U DEAD WRONG. OH AND LET ME CORRECT U ON ONE MORE THING LADIES IF YOUR MAN IS A SCRUB THEN U NEED TO OPEN YOUR EYES AND RECOGNIZE THAT HE IS NOT A MAN AT ALL HE IS A LIL BOY STILL NEEDING TO BE TAKEN CARE OF BECAUSE THE REAL MEN LIKE MY SELF AND ALL THE OTHER REAL MEAN I KNOW DONT NEED WOMEN TO TAKE CARE OF THEM REAL MEN HANDLE S**T.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/fla_dyme89/ fla_dyme89

    i dont think that ray j n jermaine dupri are celeb scrubs

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MISSLYNN1206/ MISSLYNN1206

    This posts make so sense whatsoever. First of all, I know that men are supposed to be the provider and hold it down as far as money is concerned; but with the economy being as bad as it is now, you are lucky to be working at lucky’s if that! I think that if you are in a relationship, as long as he is trying his best, why not help him out?? I dont undertstand who writes this trash! THEY MUST BE SINGLE! LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Duce22/ Duce22

    I dont agree with these rules. first of all the economy is in the toliet so there are many men out there that dont have a job right now. also even though i dont like Ray J i dont believe he is a scrub, jermaine Dupri is not making the money he used to but he still making money off of his royalties also and im sure he has other ventures out there. This list really doesnt help females out. the best way to see if a man is a scrub is his motivation level. how willing he is to go out and try and make things happen for himself. find out if he has short term goals and what his long term goals are.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Key216/ Key216

    Okaaaaay. Its makes no sense. Generally if a man has no job then he really has no business with a car, cause hell he can put gas in it. Also he will more than likely have a difficult living situation, because there is rent to be paid and you can do that without a job. So im goin’ to need you to come up with two other reason why he may be a scrub. Hell My cousin is jobless because of that he doesn’t have a car and he’s back at home with mama now cause he can’t pay rent. It’s too hard to get a job now anyway whether or not you have a felony.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/THE_DON_KAPONE/ THE_DON_KAPONE

    DOESN’T JERMAINE DUPRI LOOK LIKE A LITTLE VERSION OF WYCLEF? LMAO THINK ABOUT IT

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SwtChocLady3/ SwtChocLady3

    I like the post. There is some truth to it. Now, using the econmy is a sad excuse, I have two jobs. Try again. Also, if ANYONE does NOT habe a job, man, or woman, they should NOT be looking for a relationship. Get your priorities straight. If the show fits, wear it, with pride. Scrub, or independent: man or woman.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jay_gully1/ jay_gully1

    jermain dupri isn’t a scrub. he got all his own money, he’s been behind some of the greatest musical talent. he’s got janet. He may have more money then his wife as well. and she’s a jackson! hell, he’s collabo’d with jay-z on several occasions. probly one of the hardest workin brothas in the game. get it right

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/suavebone/ suavebone

    THIS WAS A WASTE OF A WEB PAGE!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/suavebone/ suavebone

    SINCE WHEN IS A RELATIONSHIP BASED ON YOUR ANNUAL SALARY…GTFOH!!!

    I GUESS ADAM WAS A SCRUB CAUSE EVE GAVE HIM THE FRUIT, NO…….SHE WAS HE GAVE HER HIS RIB!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mentalstimulation75/ mentalstimulation75

    no suave…adam gave the rib….she didnt ask for it….therefore she not the scrub….u cant hold one responsible for someone elses free will:)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Coleblacc/ Coleblacc

    I think its sad that men subject themselves to a submissive state due to lacc of ambition….point blank period if he cant pay his own rent or yours and(or) help with any financial stability(Puttin’ 15 dollas in the tank dont count!) dont even entertain the thought of a relationship.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/buickjazz/ buickjazz

    Scrubs need love too. It’s not their fault if the celebrity honey is attracted to him. The red carpet ladies shouldn’t need an article like this to tell them that the man is golddiggin’. If they can’t see it then they deserve to get played.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com//

    wut a buncha bulls**t! do jus cuz a man wants ta watch hiz money an not spend it on a b***h evra f**kin second he a scrub? jus a man aint employed at da moment but still wants a woman he a scrub? did ya look at da f**kin economy an how ppl get laid off like evra damn day?! or dat a man dont want a job, but a career(yeah derez a diffrence…chris rock said so), but hasnt decided yet cuz he dont wanna make a bad choice an b f**ked up(i.e. get fired or laid off an not hav nuttin ta fall back on) say 10 or 20 years down da road? ya kno da sayin ‘takes wun ta kno wun’? well ta spot a ‘scrub’ ya gotta b a golddigga so derefo ya both f**ked up n ya own way. n datz 1 case where ‘opposites attract’ dont apply! datz y not all men spot a goldigga…cuz dey aint no scrub so dey cant tell a money hungry b***h from a woman seekin “financial stability” a term which dont even make no sense n todays world cuz most women prolly work deyselvez so dey already got dat. wut dey shud b concerned bout iz ‘emotional stability’ an ‘sexual stability’ an ‘marriage stability’. deez iz thangs dey can only get from bein wit a man cuz all da independence n da world cant give reel luv. wutz a man need mo ambition fo? it takes enuff ambition ta try ya hand at gettin wit a chic an then holdin da relationship tagedda wit help from da gurl. da woman works likely. now if da man an da woman both workin dere aint gonna b much time fo da 2 ta spend time wit each otha.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JudahEthiopia/ JudahEthiopia

    ANONOMOUS is right!!!! I sounds like some REDNECK NAZI wrote this FOOLISHNESS to keep confusion amongst black families.Some Divide and Conquer??? MONEY DOES NOT MAKE A RELATIONSHIP!!! aND SOON AS THIS MONETARY SYSTEM FALLS…which is near…Sista are going to NEED these so-called SCRUBS…. Black people get paid by WHITES who control the money so BLACK MEN cannot become a breadwinner…aND WE ALL KNOW THIS!!!!BLACK PEOPLE WAKE UP!!!!!!…..This looks like some propoganda web spun by some HATERS…And we as BLACK FOLK fall for this FOOLISHNESS BECAUSE SOME white man said its truth(MEDIA)??? which is why the whole world despises and HATES black people.HOLLA!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Nneka7/ Nneka7

    Why are RayJ and J.D. on the list?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MR-MAGIC-MAN/ MR-MAGIC-MAN

    This definitely is a bunch of BS..people will always believe this crap anyway.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DARKHEARTPHENIX/ DARKHEARTPHENIX

    To be honest most women love a scrubbed out dude.Most of you enable a guy to be a scrub.If a dude with a job,got his pants up around his waist(instead of draggin around his knees)respectful, clean cut came to you you would reject him because you would think him to be soft, so I say scrubs ain’t going any where because most of you like that scrub type of man.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ZekeRock11/ ZekeRock11

    Some of this stuff is hilarious its good these guys are getting exposed but you womne today are developing some horrible double standards. whats with e the adam’s rib freewill sacriledge. that stuff is awful and of poor character. she came off like a f**kpiece.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ZekeRock11/ ZekeRock11

    Some of this stuff is hilarious its good these guys are getting exposed but you women today are developing some horrible double standards. whats with e the adam’s rib freewill sacriledge. that stuff is awful and of poor character. she came off like a f**kpiece.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ZekeRock11/ ZekeRock11

    I agree with homey in some parts for some women they like the power and predictability over the scrub dude hes nonthreatening.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/GhettoIndia02/ GhettoIndia02

    celeb scrubs.. Ray J? Jermaine Dupri?…. Bobby Brown?..uhm I think they re making their own money. I don’t really get why they are on the list.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/davettalashley/ davettalashley

    This post is very unattractive. I mean the photos, specifically. lol. But the message is on point.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/simplyred517/ simplyred517

    Half of these guys are seriously making their own money like michael musick(he’s the president or some what of a dignitary of a caribbean nation);jermaine i think he still has def jam south /so so def or whatever on lockdown; bobby brown brothaman is still trying to get his if he aint smokin it and ray j he still got his own even though his records arent double platinum like his sister brandy but hold up when has she dropped a hit lately. So who is Ray J mooching off of? Certainly not that ali baba Kim K.??? She works at an upscale Kohl’s

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LADYINDIGO/ LADYINDIGO

    J.D> a scrub? probably not he may look like something you would use to scrub something with Take that take that

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/general4mills/ general4mills

    4 F@#$% sake have some decsency and respect humans whether rich or poor..damn

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Grad_Studnt/ Grad_Studnt

    IsThis really a article or just some bulls**t to fill some space.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Hav2Write/ Hav2Write

    I laughed at this article bcz i saw my ex’s name all over it! You try to love someone simply bcz of who they are, but good goddamn!! He has to bring something to the table! Don’t settle. That’s my motto. Again.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/bigblkcookerman/ bigblkcookerman

    You guys say that a scrub is a man without a job,car,home,money,etc… But all these guys have those things. So is this just a case of people hate’n on these brothas. As a young black man who is a chef at 2 restaurants and owns his home,cars,and makes my own $$$. I guess that would make me a scrub too..plus I’m single and not gay and not into white women.

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